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#eatingwiththeenemy #religion #feminism

[@Ll_jfdk]

I’m a South American BORN Muslim, Islam is a religion NOT a race

[@ruwaydasamaai6544]

Islam is a complete way of life, irrespective of race or ethnicity

[@Ll_jfdk]

@@ruwaydasamaai6544 of course, my point exactly, a lot of people think you have to be from Asia or the Middle East to be born Muslim. My parents, grandparents & great grandparents were all born Muslims.

[@PhnxI3]

Okay Arab wannabe latino

[@DearBill]

@@ruwaydasamaai6544 tell me why Quran is written and teaches in Arabic ?

[@DearBill]

@@Ll_jfdk actually arabian atheist , animist or christian are perceived Muslim while they are not.

[@setaranader1574]

she keeps saying "I'm very feminist" yet she slept with a guy who had a gf with no guilt or regret !?!??

[@rihanachekili1906]

it’s not her fault he’s a bad guy. If the guy accepted to sleep w her, it’s his fault, she’s not the one directly hurting the girl

[@selenaxiris]

@@rihanachekili1906are you stupid?

[@ViexxasVault]

@@rihanachekili1906but she knew he was dating

[@nandiphamogadime1086]

​@@rihanachekili1906 doesn't feminism come with being a girl's girl? If that's the case why would you sleep with another girl's boyfriend?

[@---sm9uz]

Well, being a feminist does not mean you cannot make individual bad choices, it just means you stand for the liberation of women from oppressive systems

[@everynewdayisablessing8509]

I REALLY ENJOYED THE FIRST 2 LADIES. They couldn't be more different externally, but inside they are similar. They had the best, kindest conversation and they learned sth from it, I'm not sure about the others.

[@KAlisa-bx9ln]

Mee also ❤

[@supersuper1472]

I agreeee❤❤2❤

[@nancyjones5971]

I wish I could speak with you Lorraine, you are so sweet and made us Muslim sisters feel seen and heard! God bless you ❤

[@antisocialbarbie1587]

The Muslim women part are the more replayed ones I mean I swear I skipped others conversation except the Muslim woman's one and I loved it

[@cuz_i_can]

Exactly

[@cheetavontiebolt9971]

ISLAM is.a religion not an ethnicity

[@DearBill]

Actually is a religion for Saudi people.

[@DearBill]

I think being Muslim in Syria , Iran , Bangladesh or Nigeria is inappropriate. A cultural appropriation.

[@Nazanin111]

⁠​⁠@@DearBillthen christianity is a religion for palestinian , its inappropriate to be white european christian or asian or african christian .

[@mlindalina1]

@@DearBill there are so many Europeans and African people becoming Muslims and following the religion of islam. It's for everyone, there is no cultural appropriation

[@raihana111]

@@DearBilli don’t think you know the difference between religion or culture educate yourself

[@CittyKat1515]

This is a really really cool idea. I wish this got more media attention

[@Pangaea83]

Gosh, Irish people are so well-spoken and polite from all strata of society. I love the turns of words. Good people, bravo

[@anandadaquino3604]

To the man who deffends marijuana. Nothing against it. But as a recovery alcoholic who lost her dad three weeks, ago I would say that doing this sober is AMAZING! And my dad was young. I love him, always have loved, always will, and he is missed everyday. It was the first time I experienced grief, and I'm very happy to do it sober.

[@Tunehymn]

Omfg you kinda remind me of rue from Euphoria she lost her dad and but idk if she's gonna recover anyhoo please stay strong ❤❤❤

[@humpss6011]

"you can look but I'm not an object" 👏👏👏

[@tahminarahman9145]

Would love to meet Lorraine one day ان شاء الله

[@yesyou8092]

Lorraine is amazing Woman

[@alexsyed1530]

Earing with the enemy ❌ Eating *the* enemy ✅

[@Naimah_Vlogs]

Its crazy because often people will judge each other and think they would have nothing in common, like the lady mentioned who was paired with Lorraine, but infact we often have quite alot in common, for example myself I'm a white, welsh muslim who covers completely, many people would see me and think I'm an alien lol and not see that theres an actual person behind the niqaab who has many interests, loves shopping, reading, watching dramas etc,someone who runs their own business, a mother, someone who has good and bad days, laughs and cries etc etc, all too often we can all fall into judging another person by their outer appearance sometimes we just need to open up and put the fear and assumptions aside :)

[@KD400_]

Except ur a Muslim woman that follows Islam which by default means ur intolerant of many things but tolerant of certain things sure we all have something in common however not many people especially women will agree with u covering up like that I don't and I respect Islam of course I studied it. But u portraying urself as a Muslim woman that does so many things that's fine but people like me will know what u stand for and what u dont. U have already presented urself as this woman with high standards anyway judging by this comment so I hope u understood my comment

[@sophiegolden]

Interesting show. The tables were too long, as they were supposed to fight 😂😂. But those accents made me put English subtitles 😂. I hope to see an other episode. I m done with crime and violence.

[@nicoleraheem1195]

😅

[@livelovedaydream]

haha glad im not the only one. When I visited Ireland years ago I had to keep having people repeat themselves. One Irish guy asked me "You do speak English right?" I was embarassed

[@sophiegolden]

@@livelovedaydream 🤣🤣

[@cheetavontiebolt9971]

Just because someone has different beliefs customs or values does not make them bad

[@MartinaConnelly]

Came upon this my accident, really enjoyed it. Love to see all the different opinions. Life is colourful. ❤❤

[@nicoleraheem1195]

Same. I liked it😊

[@Sunshine-rq1ow]

Wish I could speak with you Lorraine! 💜

[@hellokitty10117]

love ireland from palestine

[@Naimah_Vlogs]

I loved how straight up she was but kind at the same time MashaAllah

[@shoppertattoo]

This is a great idea! We need this in the United States, but I don’t think they would ever let this be broadcast

[@nicoleraheem1195]

I agree. Especially, Black Americans with Asian Americans. Geesh. I would love to see that.

[@MuslimahScribblerNJ]

I'd prefer this as a KZbin channel (like jubilee) where each episode is centred on one duo so we can hear more of their conversations. Lorraine's segment was too short for me, I found their meeting fascinating to watch as they were clear opposites

[@OtherGuy]

Did she say she is 30yrs old ? ,... I can't believe she paid someone to make her look like a 48yr old Looney Toons charater . Condolences to her original face RIP 🙏🪦💀

[@gwenxox]

literally what do you get out of saying things like this? just so unnecessary bruh

[@antbanks415]

It's true though

[@fayerosty]

This is what she's talking about. She had an intimate conversation with such a diverse person who comes from a very different life and a very different world, but they both were able to connect by destroying the ego to judge each other and seek understanding instead. They both found out from the very bottom of their hearts lay little girls that need to be accepted and loved. Loraine made religion a way of life, to have the weight of her life be held by her God instead. If Ava chose to do so much work on her face which is personally against the innate quality in us to love and hold sacred our natural beauty, I don't think that is something to judge but something to analyse, and moreover empathize. She is holding trauma, but if out of that trauma, she pleads for love and acceptance, then why don't we love her to enable her healing? You don't want her to change her appearance any longer, do you?

[@nicoleraheem1195]

She's pretty, but I do think the lips are too much

[@KB-nz6mj]

not all religions ban lgbtq, hinduism and buddhism accepts and respects it, but i think she is talking about abrahamic religions

[@afghanieshq5797]

Came here to say the same thing!

[@aylasalci1883]

Wow! The Irish accent is just as difficult to understand just like the Welsh and Scottish accents.

[@Rimi._Ri]

Getting a glimpse on peoples beliefs is quite great, in terms of understanding the deep core of where peoples thoughts come from. Although I could never find myself accepting some of the shared conversation, I like knowing why its developed.

[@alic1977]

Just discovered the show I absolutely love it ❤it’s great to see and hear things from all sides. ❤

[@mslmfakhura6997]

As a muslim AND moroccan woman who is "representing" the "muslim vilain "depicted by the media, with the caricaturalization of what a muslim is (based on race and origins), I strongly feel like this nice hijabi lady isn't however enduring the same stereotypes (because of her whiteness, and the factor of "choice") as us, "arabs" being the number one target on islamophobia (with the confusion between race and religion). Because of her being out of this racial spectrum, I don't think that we'll be able to uncover truthfully the bias that lies in the other one's mentality, hope that helps (BTW I am french... France being the most islamophobic country in the world, sadly...).

[@PhnxI3]

Oh come on as if Moroccans are real Muslims 🙄 y’all are the worst representatives for Islam possible. Just look at Moroccan living in other countries like the Netherlands and France. All women are 3scorts 🤮

[@ayatchafaqui]

I just love how respectful everyone was to each other ❤

[@mzsonsie]

I like the show concept alot! It's definitely something that contributes to a better world! Kudos to the team that makes it happen 👏

[@ayshaaslam3817]

loving Lorraine, she's amazing

[@madheremadthere4616]

Good idea for a show but the conversations lacked depth in my opinion.

[@Sassi-pk2cs]

Deen vs Dunya 😂

[@noorel3bd04]

The big river in Egypt killed me

[@teresabarrett3266]

Excellent. Interesting. Everyone thank you.

[@realtalk675]

I love the first two ladies

[@cecen_101]

Lorraine is such a sweet lady! I want to give her a hug.

[@ashnaashpak5252]

Absolutely loved watching Lorraine❤

[@bunn228]

Not all religions ban LGBTQ+, she lost me a little bit on that specific point.

[@NA.dontcare_9]

Which one doesn't?

[@sarandipitiqwe4387]

I think all religions do

[@user-fd5qx9hr6q]

@@NA.dontcare_9 buddhism?

[@juanitat2957]

Yeah, which one?…. 🤔

[@anandadaquino3604]

@@user-fd5qx9hr6q Buddhism is not a religion, it's a philosophy. All abrahamic religions ban LGBTQ+ people. Islam, Judaism and Christianity.

[@Charlotte-bn4gp]

I'm enjoyin all the different wangs of accents, but when you think about it, America has the same "area" accents. Texans don't sound like New Jersey people, NC doesn't sound like Californians.

[@mianoel24]

More shows like this :)

[@ellenrebeccadavies2246]

Super super interesting concept I love this

[@YasminYoruba]

I’d love to go on this!

[@user-ip1vd6mk5h]

Excellent ❤

[@skartsilaki]

i think many many people know wrong about what feminism is and what feminism is not.

[@sarruecheforeign6905]

Please make more of these 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@MichaelBreenIsaborn]

Jaysus, you really picked people i definitely wouldn't dine with. I dont do politics, religion, or political correctness. It just blows up and not in a good or positive way. When i go out to eat and relax i dont need any angst.

[@marcorosea7419]

😂🤝

[@sadiqdelil5189]

You must be so boring😂

[@MichaelBreenIsaborn]

@sadiqdelil5189 nope. Just worn down from years of sheer boredom. I'll talk about movies, books, music, sports, food, travel, and technology, but none of the previous ones I mentioned. Now, if these come up, I'll listen, but I won't contribute as I really don't follow them enough to provide a valid argument.

[@sadiqdelil5189]

@@MichaelBreenIsaborn Religion and politics shapes all the topics you mentioned above. But it needs a lot of digging and getting into rabbit holes. Some people cannot handle it without cultish behaviour.

[@victoria9535]

​@sadiqdelil5189 it's not boring, I don't talk about religion and politics either there are other things to talk about

[@Samikshasum]

0:28 where can i see this debate?

[@sabrinasamsuddin]

Hm

[@cheetavontiebolt9971]

Love Ada dress

[@FM-jo1jh]

Why did the second woman get a man when the title is about why women judge each other?? We can't even have our own you tube channel show without injecting a biological man 🙄

[@maigokonekochan]

fr

[@l.7584]

Well, she probably needs a man who teaches her out of her delusions.

[@saz389]

We need to talk about alcohol being a gateway drug and legal, easy for kids to get at a very early age as it resides in most households, ( a sneaky couple gulps of your mums WKD when she’s not looking, because it makes her happy when she has it !! So why not give it a go ) but everyone says it’s cannabis, which you have to go find as a young person.

[@malllll433]

😊❤

[@katherinegreen-we1ec]

The first deal break is if the meal is vegetarian or not!!

[@mencadotranforming4411]

I don't think that the guy who spoke against marijuana got the distinction between temporarily using marijuana, either as a leisure time activity or in order to help cope with the trauma caused by any situation, and habitually abusing it in order to completely avoid facing the trauma caused by any situation. Not everyone who smokes marijuana has suffered any significant enough trauma to cause them to have an addictive personality and ever tries - let alone becomes addicted - to any sort of illict drug. The actual number of those for whom smoking marijuana led to their experimenting with other drugs and then becoming addicted to drugs, as compared with the number of those for whom smoking marijuana did not lead to that occurrence, is incalculable, and so it can only be guessed as to what are those numbers. Similarly, not everyone who drinks alcohol becomes an alcoholic, or becomes any sort of drug-addict. Likewise, not everyone who uses prescribed pain medications does become addicted to those, nor does everyone who uses those not become addicted to those, or to some sort of non-prescription or illict drug. Besides, there are all sorts of unhealthy addictions that anyone might have, so - even if marijuana were addictive - smoking marijuana might actually be a relatively much healthier choice (especially if it does have any health benefits) that various people might make, instead of making any of the more unhealthy choices.

[@user-lv9ff8ro1q]

I'm 51 was born a beautiful built woman.And still am I love myself.

[@samihakhondoker2456]

i wish i looked a abit more feminine

[@kimsherlock8969]

I like the concept I have doubts 😕 about the reality of their dialogue 😮 The theme appears 🤔 to be over edited or just made for viewing , Like , "come dine with me " If its sound observation 🤷 nice 👍

[@ALCV11]

I didn’t see how the pairs were supposed to be opposites. I couldn’t even tell what the second pair’s platforms were. She was a marketing manager, and the other one was a bloke. Silly show. Perhaps the next episodes were more compelling.

[@mohdfazley-t5l]

I am very sorry, I skip everyone except the conversation of the muslim and the girl. it really interesting since they totall look opposite exterior to each other.

[@mylittlepony0707]

30? wow looks so much older

[@mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856]

She looks like she’s in her late 20s early 30s to me

[@sahratank7504]

Only the character of a person is important no Hijab or fake plastik lashes,boobs etc,,

[@DearBill]

Hijab is unacceptable. Except that , people are free to choose their apparence: no makeup , tanning , skin bleaching, grey hair roots , casual or glamorous clothes.

[@sahratank7504]

@@DearBill No thats not unacceptable! As you write everybody is free to choose their appareance!!

[@A_5678]

​@@DearBillTell me your joking how is hijab unacceptable is it unacceptable when nuns cover their hair as well.

[@khadyadjisall5708]

@@DearBill that is the dumbest comment I have ever read.

[@DearBill]

@@A_5678 in Romania and Bulgaria nuns are not converting their hair. New generation of nuns also don’t covering their hair.

[@namelessmusician674]

bro the 2nd and 3rd group no way theyre speaking english i can't understand 😂😂

[@jenniferthompson8888]

Is no one going to tell her this is the opposite of feminism?

[@user-og5zg2ud5d]

THERE IS TOOOO MUCH KOMMENTARY...LET US WATCH THE INTERACTION FOR GODS SAKE

[@antbanks415]

Is this an Irish show?

[@egl3369]

Juliette is so misguided. It's okay for you, being able to afford healthcare. But there are people who aren't as privileged as you. I bet she wouldn't feel this way if she had grown up in poverty

[@mardjo595]

I know, let her live in America to see if she still supports that idea.

[@kathiv5143]

@@mardjo595I don’t live in america but in the EU and I still don’t agree with Juliette. But it’s probably the wealth aspect as u said it. :)

[@cowmommooo7344]

the big lips girl was judging the muslim woman a lot ngl, she was constantly assuming things about her

[@janetholmes]

it's not easy though, you could tell she was super nervous. lots of times we only know what we know and our limited knowledge base comes out when we're under duress! She made a good effort to connect with her too.

[@matthewd4059]

Surprised this show has ran with threats to free speech in many places in the world

[@XCVII.97]

🤍

[@savvystrandsxsnatchthatcat8122]

Whew Ty for leaving black ppl out of this 😂

[@786GG]

GOD CREATES US WE NEED TO BE GOD CONCIOUS NOT SELF CONCIOUS WE ARE NOT ALLOWED TO ALTER OUR LOOKS PERMENTLY ITS A HUGE PUNISHMENT PLUS THAT WOMAN ON THE RIGHT LOOKS LIKE A SCARY CLOWN AND IT WILL SCARE THE CHILDREN

[@janetholmes]

I agree we should be more God-conscious, but He looks at the heart first. It's challenging because we all have very different journies to finding God and understanding ourselves. For all we know, the Lord may yet use her just the way she is to minister to people who might otherwise not be reached. She had gentleness about her too.

[@guldenaydin9918]

:)))

[@Samya.R]

14:25 …she realizes no one forces these women to be up on the stage to be judged, correct?

[@Hi.-.art1233]

30 comments lol

[@DearBill]

White privilege is real in South Africa 🇿🇦

[@Daydreamerr13]

Its real every place lol

[@DearBill]

@@Daydreamerr13 In France and Brazil , White Privilege is not really recognized. The worst countries about this is Australia and South Africa.

[@RaynaArman]

i feel so bad for the 1st two.

[@Araweelo]

Why Lorraine ?

[@ProductiveChi]

I cannot relate to anything the communist says

[@MrOrangeonion]

Well theres too much evidence showing why that little piece of cloth is so threatening.

[@neneyeezy9938]

Why did the little piece of cloth strangled your mum?

[@MrOrangeonion]

@@neneyeezy9938 Yes the Islam people used it to kill.

[@WeirdSalad101]

Show your “evidence”

[@MrOrangeonion]

@@WeirdSalad101 open your eyes.

[@WeirdSalad101]

@@MrOrangeonion why don’t you open your mind instead. Stop allowing yourself to be manipulated by agencies with agendas, into a certain way of thinking because it benefits them.

[@LineaIbsen]

I was til this day , in this world to make muslim Women feel as if there is a special point whit there life! 😂

[@A_5678]

What is this supposed to mean ?

[@Boo-sc9gz]

Speak English

[@143glmgmailcom]

One of the things I have said for years... School is like life... it's the future of our lives... It's the best way for us to learn that we have to get along with each other and at the least...co exist... Our teachers are our future bosses and our classmates are our future workmates... The fact of life...i might not like you but in the world the way it is...i have to get along with you... We need to start early teaching this concept so maybe the world has a better future for All of us...❤❤❤

[@vickyabramowitz2885]

Anyone who is homeschooled misses out on this invaluable experience.

[@143glmgmailcom]

@@vickyabramowitz2885 I mean in public schools...I didn't mention home school... This idea only works for public schools

[@WeirdSalad101]

@@vickyabramowitz2885school is traumatic for some children. Home educated children have lots of socialisation but tailored to their needs and without the trauma. Bullying can have lifelong consequences and have lifelong repercussions on mental health btw.

[@143glmgmailcom]

@@WeirdSalad101 I hated school and was bullied ALL the time... BUT I turned out ok... and I know that doesn't happen for everyone...but part of the point I was trying to make is maybe if we started at a younger age teaching the kids to work on not being so cruel and coexisting...it might make it easier as they get older to get through the tuff times

[@143glmgmailcom]

@@vickyabramowitz2885 I think that if the children that are home schooled had more social events and plans on being around more kids... they can also learn this... and if they understand the part of authority figures earlier... that can have somewhat the same effect if we are telling them the reason for what is happening 🤩