How Ignoring A Guy Properly Changes The Dynamics Of Your Situationship.

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[@beccawhite1887]

Self-respect and self-worth is walking away from a man giving you a situationship and not a relationship.

[@niqueachilds7223]

It's weird because he told me I was his girlfriend he didn't asks but told me when we was in our situationship and I wanted to walk away. It just hurts because I wanted the relationship but thing's didn't get better and got into it again and now he's not answering any of my messages.

[@mtndewenjoyer]

@@niqueachilds7223 you deserve better. and once you walk away and work on yourself, the right person will walk into your life. trust the process.

[@chrissyd.3523]

I totally agree 💯

[@midllifecrisis50pluss20]

Mmm well I’ve been in a situationship for 10 years off and on with the same man, it’s finally done my head in and I’m out! Please people, don’t waste your time on crumbs! The couples I know that are truly happy, say their relationships are so easy and they’re completely themselves and feel very secure. I’ve wasted 10 years on feeling insecure in a situationship, does more harm than good! Thank goodness it’s finally over once and for all!

[@Reevay762]

Ok I'm taking your advise. Hehe

[@raisaarce5880]

10 years?? Lol

[@sassysweetx8096]

Well, you learned a valuable lesson. I hope you find someone better.

[@camirowe6139]

Better 10 than 11. I'm glad you're out.

[@gwenlee9562]

It's better late than never. Good for you. You go girl. You deserve more. And it will come easy when it does.

[@crystalbagby3263]

They always come back. If they aren’t meeting my needs, I get pissed and walk and don’t care. I’m not A choice, I’m THE choice for the person I’m meant for. Lack of effort makes me lose interest and I like peace of being alone.

[@sophiastella212]

💯

[@shutit4024]

Facts

[@hawtain4399]

Exactly how I feel about it too

[@cactu5jack]

And thats why yo old ahh still aint married. Good luck, ma'am 🤣

[@bitspieces5668]

I ignored him so much that he got into a relationship with someone else......lol thank you, next! Talked about other women repeatedly, multiple red flags - dodged a massive bullet

[@Mrs.T305]

Wow. Sorry to hear that. It hurts I've been there.

[@bitspieces5668]

@@Mrs.T305I'm not - nice guy but he's a mess! LOL

[@lilsamantha1]

Then he didnt like you enough.

[@empressqi1722]

@@noname-nu6oo is it really always to make us jealous? This guy I'm talking to mentions other women and tells long stories about them.. I'm so confused I have no idea what is going on. I've never ever mentioned any other guy ( if I had other guys on my mind I wouldn't be talking to him) because it's disrespectful

[@elharrop]

@@empressqi1722 He's probably just dumb, I had to point out to someone that it's innapropriate to talk about other women and they were really shocked.

[@CaliforniaFoodie]

I ghosted and ignored a guy after he pull off a stunt in front me, trying to make me jealous by flirting with a girl hardcore in front me. I feel like gold. Sorry but not all ghosting is a bad and coward move. Sometimes it's about self respect

[@SharlenesJourney]

💯💯💯

[@faithfrancesca2103]

WHAT???!!?? men are crazy

[@taylorskyblue9413]

You got that right, sis! Proud of you! Same happened to me, I walked off, and he literally chased after me. Goodbye and good riddance. You're absolutely right, it's about self-respect.

[@CaliforniaFoodie]

@@taylorskyblue9413 so happy you guys supported my move.

[@Tyreece190]

@@faithfrancesca2103 who you calling crazy? Lol

[@christinaemerson1989]

When you block someone, it’s not for them. It’s for you. You don’t need to read the messages and get curious and go snooping. If he thinks you are emotional and cared.... well then that is just further proof of what he lost. I liked the guy too much to ignore him. It is just less emotionally exhausting to block.

[@CrayolaCoffeeBean]

I haven’t necessarily been ignoring a guy but I haven’t been reaching out… it’s only been a couple days and he hasn’t reached out BUT I must be wearing that confidence on my face cuz an attractive guy at the grocery store stopped me and asked for my number and another guy asked me on a date for tomorrow ☺️ I still want to hear from the first guy but excited to meet new people!

[@inspirationalshanae5129]

Leave first guy alone. I noticed you commented 2 yrs ago, how is dating going?

[@theangel5416]

He HAS to like you for this to work. He might actually be clueless and doesn't know how to treat you. As soon as you know what he dose in his free time, you know what he values above haveing a real relationship with you. Guys can learn what to do, the good ones don't waste time on growing themselves or treating you right.Some guys just want you in their life because the attention you give them is an ego stroke.

[@Bambim8]

_“the good ones don't waste time on growing themselves or treating you right”_ tf??? 😂

[@gwenlee9562]

You are right on Elliot. Ladies don't forget everyone likes free stuff.

[@briannalue7438]

Wow, thank you!

[@Bambim8]

_Ladies_ like free stuff the most.

[@adriennedouke8510]

I've decided that once every two weeks for an hour two is not enough for me. I want much more in terms of a relationship. I'm letting this one go. At this point, I am beginning to wonder if guys my age are even interested.(I'm 62-The scene is pretty dried up as far as I can tell) My take is that they think if they can't perform they can't have a romantic relationship. They are very wrong. There are plenty of other fun things to do together, sex is just a small part of it.

[@birdfriday]

If it were 18 hours with deep heart to hearts and multiple Os plus falling asleep holding hands, tea in the morning and he leaves you at the apartment to get ready for work once a week/3-4 times a month would it be enough?

[@Sistadelphia]

Ignore him weather you think he gives a shit or not. Block AND delete.☝🏾💡

[@chyvaughnyoung1823]

I’ve bought the guide didn’t even read the whole thing . Did exactly what you told me to . Focused on attraction , created scarcity , when he started moving the pace too fast I slowed it down , pulled away when his interest was peaking and I got him wrapped around my fingers . He calls and text me all of the time and is plans every date. Sends me flowers it’s amazing! Thanks Elliot . Best $25 ever spent!

[@kaylabrown7045]

What guide did you buy? I want one too

[@akiravader7888]

And you will leave him

[@sherryjameson2942]

I did it early on....he was a predator....he was a creeper....I trusted my gut instincts...thank God

[@estherb.6433]

“Even if the guy says he wants to have babies with you”-ah haha!

[@blueblaze9862]

Men don't kno anything about babies so we know THAT'S a lie

[@empress6598]

I'd definitely call him out. Once. If doesn't take me seriously and treats me like an option hes blocked and gone no going back for me. Thats a Taurus ♉ for you .

[@noreenryan7487]

Scott is the best. He says thing as they are In plain language and no bull.. Thanks Scott keep doing what your doing you are super at it.

[@kimfrederick7710]

I enjoy the dating videos so I can have a man's perspective. You give great advice

[@ArtsyMegz_On_Etsy]

I really am done! I think that flirting and talking to each other for over 4 months is creating a situationship. I feel like ignoring him his my best option. I mean, if he is walking past me at work and he says "hi", I will say hi back, but that's it; not gonna treat him like he's more special than anyone else.

[@someone_weird9]

update?

[@tonytonyk]

Try talking with him about your needs.. before ignoring him. Gee🙄

[@mnemne6535]

Some guy at my job in the beginning acted like he was interested but he never was . He recently said to everyone she is not in my league.(I was there when he said it)

[@guesswho5790]

I give exactly one or two chances after I let them know if something they do really hurts me. And apparently I will wait exactly 10 days for a guy to come around and if not I will just delete and move on. I do not care how much you have going on in your life. You couldn't manage to write one text to let me know? That is disrespectful and inconsiderate and not good enough for me. Bye. I appreciate what the guy in the video is trying to do, but really the best advice to give a woman in a situationship is: 1) if you are in it hoping he will "eventually come around", leave and find a man that will know to value her in a real relationship. He has been honest about what he wants from you, and he won't give you what you want or need. Know what you want, and stick to it until you find it. 2) if you aren't ready for a commitment either, a situationship is the perfect middle ground to explore what you want and do not want out of a relationship, what your flaws are, and what you like sexually. But if it starts hurting because you feel like you want something more, or if you start falling for real, it is time to leave. Neither of you are in the right place to commit to someone truly. The best thing you can do for both your sakes is to move on. Just leaving my life lessons on a random KZbin comment lol hope it resonates with someone.

[@scarlettthevarlet9856]

This is really helpful thank you

[@burberryclaretred6676]

Exactly I ignored a guy and didn’t make efforts to see him since he was expecting me to see him

[@sarahjane2232]

Would love to see more on relationships, anything really you give great advice

[@nailpolishinhale]

All of your videos speak to me 100%!! Thank you thank you!!

[@valeriecarrington3513]

Was in a relationship for 2 year one day he came over and said I loved him more then he loved .

[@customfittedinc]

Don't take me for granted I'll take me away ☮️💯

[@allisonsherman7538]

Explained my entire situationship timeline

[@melodiejohnson342]

Dude, I like how you straight forward lay this down!!! 🤣😂🤣🤣💯✌️👊

[@SherStu-uc9ly]

I've given him 4 chances and I finally walked away. He's just disrespectful plain and simple. What did I ever do without you Elliot.

[@avgwhitegurl6646]

I blocked this guy and he called me! Are you okay? Let me know 🤣

[@ladyowl9187]

😂😂😂

[@suburbankaren5137]

🤣🤣🤣

[@wandadrees6384]

You coming towards the window was powerful 🙃

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

Those glasses look great!

[@enelrahcreivaj]

Real talk always! Go, Elliot!

[@lucyluz1651]

I’ve been missing your videos ! Ugh. Waiting for the next LIVE tho 😍

[@ElliotScottDating]

Tomorrow!

[@lindazeisky3845]

Very realistic. 👍🏻💚Thanks

[@dustin0406]

you are amazing! thank you for the advice soo soo much!

[@christelmartin1230]

Love you Elliott! Stay Raw. You give the BEST advice and strategies,

[@Michellemybell739]

Elliott funny as hell!!! 🤣🤣🤣love your videos!!

[@sherryjameson2942]

Every time I saw him for dinner, he wanted to go parking in a park, seriously he was 60 years old. Told me I was very sexy, couldn't tell I was so sexy. Player. Wanted to come to my house on the 3rd date. Loser

[@HaloHuntress]

Okay, let's see. Been with a guy for 6 months. Going no contact. I'll really give it a go and see what happens. Ooo this is so telling of the addiction I have to his breadcrumbs. Been over 24 hours since I've heard anything from him and I seriously have a strong urge to text him something, anything to get a response. Breathe.

[@eclecticsteak]

What happened

[@luisaramirez0]

Hahaha I enjoy you calling us out. It’s necessary sometimes.

[@TreeFeather4ever]

Youre on 🔥 this week with videos. Keep it up!

[@ElliotScottDating]

You already know!

[@janec.kowalczyk5824]

@@ElliotScottDating Yeah we do, bro! Elliot, you're the man! 😎🤙

[@Kymmieee]

I always click like before I even watche the video 😁

[@yeeeeeyy]

Love you Elliott 😃

[@dallastexas6341]

Elliot you are the besttt

[@caseylee7145]

Elliot you are soooooo real! I love the way you talk!👍👍👍🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️

[@SRTsoulsessions]

Twin Flames is a whole other ball game

[@empressfreyja3582]

However with twin flames you do have to release it, for it to come back. You also have to trigger their wounds in order for them to heal. Keep chasing and you will forever be the chaser. Stand still. Give them room to grow and heal. xxxx

[@SRTsoulsessions]

@@empressfreyja3582 yes yes yes 💯 YES! Thank you. In the thick of it now. Healing is a beautiful but painful process. ☮️

[@YyyySoCute]

I just release my twin flame after on and off again for 7 years.

[@Esme26433]

I feel you @Eureka Johnson. Same here, but 4 years in my case. Let him go last April. Been in no contact since. I am happier, at peace and drama free. No regrets

[@marshellepayne4020]

Thanks for sharing . Great context

[@ElliotScottDating]

Thanks for listening

[@crissieroserose]

excellent advice

[@oyekunleoyeyinka7470]

You are good in your training

[@autumnclark631]

I have a crush on Elliott, I love the straight up, truthfully raw advice. He Right....

[@n.knucklespeaceunderpressu536]

“fuck you mean???” 😂😂😂 I love it!!!

[@kara4454]

When she goes silent it’s a wrap !

[@jessicajones4645]

I dated a guy for a little over three months ..we got along and we both started to have feelings for one another. We would stay at each other places and see each other 3 to 4 days a week. We would go do things. But he still wants to date other people. So, while I'm sad and I have feelings for him i told him if he cant be exclusive I cant keep doing this. After three months you schould know. So, than he texted said he would text after he is done dating other woman. I have stopped talking to him and texting for now and explained to him if I'm available than great if not than I hope he finds someone.

[@SP-ck9ix]

yuck, “i’ll text you once i’m done fucking and dating the other women”

[@katherinehendrix5325]

Ty, you saved me from a toxic relationship!! ✌✌

[@Tyreece190]

I ain't save nobody....wtf?

[@jenmcdonough]

Love your channel

[@julitakopczynska8178]

Pp

[@krazykirl1129]

This is cool. Thank you

[@Xiandoe]

What if they always comment on you IG stories .. and last text he sent was a week ago lol I like him but now I feel like he’s more as a friend so I’m not as bothered by it.. perspective changes everything

[@scarletroseechos5690]

You should do it forever! 😂 😂

[@tishtish777]

Shit if I even have to go to these extremes I'm gone cut it off it's pointless I'm not into mind games and mind fuckery yeah I'll pass on that toxic shit.✌🙅‍♀️💅💪

[@kariivins-senft9302]

Mind fuckery…I like that

[@babydii3487]

✅✅✅

[@eva-nr2bs]

3:58 Oh my god I literally backed of the screen :-)))))))))

[@radar4536]

Elliot, why is this nor usefull for guys we are contacting with? In like your advise, very good but i think this can be used always? I know the effect is less but we can use it anyway. Elliot, is it better to ignore or to tell why you want to stop contacting him? What is better effect with men? Please answer. Lots of love from the Netherlands.

[@tish80]

I blocked and ignored after he told me he needed space. Only cos i know he just texts and texts and its stressful and upseting. No playing games just trying to mirror taking time to think. Tho so many other videos will say the reason for a break is for them to do their cheating in peace...esp when they pull away about the issue. Whats the point even waiting on them. Sitting in ur emotions is very hard

[@camirowe6139]

Was this video made for me? Even the 'I love you and want your babies' part...do some guys just use that line? Anyway, I did exactly this 2 weeks ago, because my standards were repeatedly being violated for years by this individual. Decided to put a stop to it. I'm not doing it to get his response, I'm doing it because I'm just done.

[@heyvasuhere4909]

Well said 😅

[@janaemonaeawakening8826]

True spit my guy

[@beetree3766]

Thanks for being real Elliot!

[@Arizona_lilly]

Very popular congratulations 👏 😀 👍 100+ k

[@lifestylewithoma]

Hello Elliot ! What if you haven’t met because you live in different cities but you both already fell in love and were very intimate and things changed when you made a mistake in a fight you both had and then he ignores you and starts losing interest.

[@nicolejennings8389]

It's not that I ignore so much as I just have a busy schedule and other things to do or I straight up start dating someone else and close it down. I don't mind going out only twice or once a month because I have other plans going on. I'd rather meet with my doctor, banker and nail salon tech than be on a date, in general. At least the hair dresser is doing something for me. Guys are a waste of time.

[@shaep.8366]

hahahaha i love your reaction thanks for the advice

[@goa93]

you are not doing it to get a response out of the guy, but that is the best way to get a response out of the guy? and if you are not doing it to get a response out of the guy, why does it matter, wether he still has feelings for you or not?

[@idgaf4684]

Yes.

[@leenachebuhar4009]

Kindly explain how a person talks with you. I don't see anyplace where a woman can schedule time to chat

[@AshleyLebedev]

Something that actually is something is not a situationship.

[@opjade]

A guy (french) once told me i need to work harder to prove to him i m looking for a husband/permanent r'ship, n not merely a bf. "u need to convince me" .................. *faint P.s. did i mention he was pursuing hard in the first place bck then, but things took a 180-degree turn. I often thought "sh*t, am i talking to the same guy?!"

[@Esme26433]

😂 @ you need to convince me. Next!!!

[@JO-tw5yd]

It’s always the french guys 😭

[@leerock3640]

If it's not being done for a response, why should there be an ideal time? I'm a lil confused.

[@truthseeker7852]

You have to get to a place where your standards are more important than the guy. You will get a response when you walk ... even his prolonged silence is a response. Walking isn’t a game. You have to be prepared to possibly never hear from the person again.

[@leia4271]

@@truthseeker7852 this^^

[@Yikkoofficial]

I agree. I think it’s dumb

[@customfittedinc]

Hahaha I'm the opposite 🔥🔥🔥❤️I ignore cause I am that no compromise

[@Arizona_lilly]

21 months hes been cheat and never left me alone

[@donnaharris5957]

I don’t care if it’s 1 date, 2,4,6,8 … if it don’t line up with my standards I’m out. I’m worth more then some part time, situationship, or FWB crap. I don’t play games my ass will dip out. Idc if I ever hear from some ass again who thinks it’s cool or I’m not worth a relationship peace! Just saying

[@AngJamz]

Done!

[@daughterofyah9217]

What about iff you’ve been talking for a while but not dating . He’s hot and cold , mixed signals .

[@jamiereneemilligan]

I would go contact. I just did

[@talondaecckles8524]

Remember he told us that's when there really not interested or he wouldn't leave room 4 some1 else to come along an get u

[@daughterofyah9217]

It’s hard because it’s a work situation, I guess I get delusional at times

[@Eadrene]

say bye to him

[@talondaecckles8524]

@@daughterofyah9217 we all do but in the end we are not delusional at all we are highly intuned an ignoring our intuition

[@rosecoon1791]

Wait a minute. Did somebody leave her shoe in your back window? 😂

[@andreeaciobanuc404]

I ignored him continuously because he had treated me like crap. The result was he became furious, red with anger. Then he started sweet flirting and staring again. But I kept ignoring. The result was he came with a lady to nake me jealoua and he stared at me all the time to see my reaction, to make sure I will be hurt. But I struggled to be tough and indifferent and ecen turned my back on him, smiling.

[@leenachebuhar4009]

Hey - I see exactly no place on here where a woman can book an appt to talk with you

[@afrintayeba2981]

Does guy always come back??

[@lilethm.alvarez7330]

I think I’m doing this putting my foot down thing wrong

[@mademoiselleannarose9623]

Why would a man start ignoring after saying he wanted to be with you, then you finally agreed to sleep with him and as soon as that was done he is flirting with other girls and ignoring me?

[@Bella-Mae0422]

It means he told you whatever he had to get what he wanted. You finally gave it to him so now he checked that off his list and moved on. He played you darling. Now he wants something he hasn't had yet. He probably never really liked you, he just wanted to get in your pants.

[@mamitime89]

Agree with Violet, he just wanted one thing, and that was the 🐱. He got it and now wants something new.

[@ponyexpressponyrides]

You need Shera7

[@itsgabbieagain]

Hold off on the sex for as long as you can, usually their true intentions will show.

[@lilsamantha1]

U slept with him??? Thats it girl. Its done

[@BA-hb9hh]

If a dude you are not talking to (bc he lacks communication skills so i called his ass out and he said bye) sends you a HBD message, would you say thank you or just double tap like it? Which is better for him to become obsessed w you.

[@mamitime89]

Justo heart it BC if you say thank you he's going to start a conversation.

[@mamitime89]

Also he's going to be like "wtf".

[@MG-ub8oe]

Not responding after he sent you a birthday message will drive him crazy.

[@lester2588]

Don’t respond at all 🙅🏽‍♀️

[@TravelingDiva-vp1gt]

Ignore it.

[@theresamurphy6554]

I ingore bad asf but they won't leave me alone! Why?

[@catherinelewzey5890]

I’m ignoring him because of his yo you mentally!!! Now he’s sending selfie’s?? Wtf

[@blueblaze9862]

3:59 scared me lol

[@rhondapitts4257]

💯🤣😂🤣

[@3arhodes]

He started dating someone else. Which is why i started ignoring him. But i think i hurt his feelings by doing this. He always look at me with sad eyes when i do this.

[@jamiereneemilligan]

Guy I’ve been talking to has never once told me I was pretty but will hit up every damn woman on Facebook(he lives on there Red Flag) and tell them. I set him straight on his BS and I’m going no contact. What would you have done?

[@lester2588]

The exact same thing. Ignore him completely 🙅🏽‍♀️

[@jamiereneemilligan]

@@lester2588 never screw with him again. He wants sex not love. I’m pissed but I’m out lol. Thank you

[@firstnamelastname2884]

You say, Please tell me I'm pretty or else I will leave you ... What if he said, please tell me I'm handsome, or please call me a winner. Or I will leave. Does anyone know what insecurity is? please validate me or I will cry. Weak!

[@jamiereneemilligan]

@@firstnamelastname2884 when he’s telling everyone else? Called disrespect

[@truthseeker7852]

He could be insecure and afraid that if he compliments your looks, that he’ll be building you up too much. Regardless, it’s rude. I’m glad you called him out and went silent. He’ll figure it out.

[@siobhan2395]

3:33 blud didnt need to call me out like this yo

[@a.d.b535]

"Itch your favorite dating coach"

[@jennywatts6291]

What happened if a man only wants money from me what do I do about this?

[@Nono38-jj1tk]

Like Shera7 says, if you give a man money, you've already lost.

[@basicinfo2022]

He's a dusty. Not attractive or masculine at all.

[@mylife2022]

I walked away from bullshit, he didn't know what he wanted, couldn't give me any time or make any effort. I dumped him twice and he still came looking for me, with the same attitude, not knowing what he wants, so I blocked him this time and I'm free of the head fuck and a broken man child.

[@MariahFan09]

it's $497 to talk to you for one hour?? or 30 full days is all you offer??

[@mariam.6694]

What if it s after 2 times we met but hooked up? Very intense meeting, sexual...I think it still should have some effect, no?

[@danaknight647]

No.

[@mariam.6694]

@@danaknight647 why no?

[@danaknight647]

@@mariam.6694 because he doesn't have anything invested in you. Pretty much every video on this channel and every other dating site is a variation on that theme.

[@mariam.6694]

@@danaknight647 but the intense moments? It is not easy to find someone with whom you have chemistry... I also didn t invest in him more than my feelings. Isn t it the same? Anyway, I will just ignore men from now on.. it s too complicated ... 🙄

[@danaknight647]

@@mariam.6694 it's actually pretty easy to find men you have sexual chemistry with. The problem is when you mistake sexual chemistry for connection. I feel your frustration and disappointment with this guy. It's so hard to not bring our own desires for a relationship into how we interpret what someone else is thinking. Don't give up on men, you will find the right guy!

[@niqueachilds7223]

FUCK I should of watched this video before I text the dude last night. I feel so stupid but I'm tried of playing games and these kinds of games. I want someone truly open to communicate and will talk thing's out. But I already did want you said not to do but I can't help it I'm a talker I like to talk thing's out.

[@SharlenesJourney]

I know this was 8 months ago lol but did anything happen ?

[@sarahw7196]

Please don’t refer to a woman as a “bitch” it’s not a healthy standard to teach ladies. 👎🏻

[@basicinfo2022]

👏 yes zero tolerance for being cursed at. I'm a lady and expect to me treated like one.