9/10 Men Will Come Back And Regret Leaving If You Do This ONE THING!

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Elliot Scott

Elliot Scott

Күн бұрын

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@TheCoffeeCat
@TheCoffeeCat Жыл бұрын
The right person for you will never put themselves in a position to lose you
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
I disagree. Relationships are hard and we all err.
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 Жыл бұрын
​@@danilaroche1156 They're only hard if you're incompatible with each other. They're only "hard" because LIFE ITSELF is hard, but they (the person who let you go) was too much of a pussy to do life with you! It's called a break up because it was broken. For one reason or another, one party in the relationship decided that it wasn't worth it. YOU (the dumpee) wasn't worth it. If you take them back after they did that to you, how do you think your level of self esteem/ self-respect would be at??! Conciously rejecting you is NEVER a mistake. It was a conscious decison that said you were not GOOD enough to be with in their life! If you take back someone who had the gal to do that to you, good luck with your peace of mind/mental health and self-worth.
@yamomma5053
@yamomma5053 10 ай бұрын
People are not perfect! I hate stupid comments like this. This generation is so out of touch
@yamomma5053
@yamomma5053 10 ай бұрын
@@Goodwillwinoverevil1984u must be a 12 year old. Everything worth having requires work. Who hurt u
@TheCoffeeCat
@TheCoffeeCat 10 ай бұрын
@@yamomma5053 Don't be shy, tell us how you really feel. LOL
@A-list
@A-list Жыл бұрын
Ladies please know you've reached a New Level of Confidence when you realize your ex is not even your type anymore. *HIS LOSS.* 🥂
@makeishainniss2440
@makeishainniss2440 Жыл бұрын
I feel like I don't want anyone to come back at this point.
@Spinnglish
@Spinnglish Жыл бұрын
Nice they come back and you even forgot their name. It happened to me😂
@afrintayeba2981
@afrintayeba2981 Жыл бұрын
@@Spinnglish everytime they comeback??
@Spinnglish
@Spinnglish Жыл бұрын
@@afrintayeba2981 yes.if you maintain your self respect and self love. .. you must truely move on... not care... walk away... the man will at least respect that you were not a mattress . Even the bad has feelings of regret
@afrintayeba2981
@afrintayeba2981 Жыл бұрын
@@Spinnglish how?..can he comeback?? He is already with someone else.
@Spinnglish
@Spinnglish Жыл бұрын
@@afrintayeba2981 it happened to me. He took me so much for granted that i just left and walked away... with mindset of... ( men will do anything not to loose someone they love). And it was very hard step to walk away. He stayed following me 8 years to apologise and i did not answer. Not because i was happy to see him run after ne no. But becayse the love in me for him ended. Had it not... i will definetely be back to him. You need to disconnect your heart from reality. It helps you move... he will not see you if you cry or connect. He will not appreciate your ebergy. He is now putting all his effort on another issue ( a woman). Regardless of wgat excuse. When he see you move on... his ego will de inflate somehow. If he is sincere and good he will be back... but u need to care for yourself because he is not there for you... at toughest moment. Do u really appreciate such a life partner?
@lipgloss1black
@lipgloss1black Жыл бұрын
Ugh, relationships, dating and love is really exhausting lol.
@ektaaasar
@ektaaasar Жыл бұрын
Totally
@whosyourdaddy4579
@whosyourdaddy4579 Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah! A lot of work...almost as much as having an infant to take care of!
@TheGlamourBOXinc
@TheGlamourBOXinc Жыл бұрын
Bcuz of egos and insecurity.
@basicinfo2022
@basicinfo2022 Жыл бұрын
If it doesn't feel fun and good, it's not love. Don't blame love, blame loving the wrong man.
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 Жыл бұрын
Not to mention dangerous.. for your mental/emotional well being...I don't think it's really worth it any longer. Just focus on you, making money, and if you have /or want children, then do that. I'm 39. Ain't got no time for drama in my life, I'm too old for that shit. My 40 year old, papa's boy, white/Irish ex, video game playing asshole, immature, can just go to hell lol.
@RG-hf4et
@RG-hf4et Жыл бұрын
Who wants someone who walked away? This guy walked away from me. I was so hurt. He comes back 3 months later hoping to get back but it turned out a week later he says he doesn't know what he wants. What an asshole. I was leery & I was right. Don't ever take any one back.
@basicinfo2022
@basicinfo2022 Жыл бұрын
That's why you have to be ready with your standards and ultimatum otherwise you're allowing them to treat you like an option or revolving door.
@margouxsiren2830
@margouxsiren2830 5 ай бұрын
Omg im angry read this 😢 im really sorry
@paige8361
@paige8361 Жыл бұрын
They always come back. Problem is magically I don't want them anymore at that point. Even if I was SO in love with them and ready to marry them. Prince Charming turns back into a toad. I have no idea what kind of witchcraft it is or how it happens, but it does every time!
@scarlettrose221
@scarlettrose221 Жыл бұрын
“They always come back” - do you think this applies to me, where I have not heard from mine in one year. I feel like I’m in the minority, my one not coming back makes me feel so worthless and discarded.
@paige8361
@paige8361 Жыл бұрын
@@scarlettrose221 You are not worthless and you are not discarded. You deserve SO much better than him! Someone who will stay. Focus on yourself, move on and magic will happen. The one who truly loves you will appear. Sending you a big hug and I wish you all the best! 💕
@julieanne25
@julieanne25 Жыл бұрын
​​​@@scarlettrose221 if it wasn't him, it's someone better. Why would you want someone back who discarded you? Effff that! You're worth way more than that!
@justacoginthefkery
@justacoginthefkery Жыл бұрын
@@scarlettrose221 in reality, most relationships are not going to work out. Sometimes it takes a long time to heal from a breakup & that's totally okay. That does not make you worthless at all though. He simply wasn't meant for you. My best advice is reflect on any lessons you can learn from that relationship... it could be things about yourself, attachment styles, boundaries, communication, etc. So it may have ended, but there's STILL a lot if value to be found in that. When you can reframe your mindset around it from the hindrance of "it was a failure" to more like a tool & "it was a chance for me to grow", it can get WAY easier in the long run for this & any future relationships. Hugs 💗
@scarlettrose221
@scarlettrose221 Жыл бұрын
@@paige8361 Thank you for the beautiful comment ❤️
@Alessia_2029
@Alessia_2029 Жыл бұрын
My experience: do Nothing😂 and Module: Never ever neveeeer Post sad quotes in Social Media!!!!! Live your life ❤
@deniz1234
@deniz1234 6 ай бұрын
Yup. All of a sudden you live your dream life now 😂
@Swiss_Girl
@Swiss_Girl 11 ай бұрын
just lean back and let go. don‘t text him!!! if he does, don‘t respond to every call or message. if you do, be warm but short. but never reach out first. they all come back😂
@LionelRichie-o1n
@LionelRichie-o1n 2 ай бұрын
Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.
@DarciaFarinas
@DarciaFarinas 2 ай бұрын
It's incredibly hard to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.
@LionelRichie-o1n
@LionelRichie-o1n 2 ай бұрын
That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I reach him?
@DarciaFarinas
@DarciaFarinas 2 ай бұрын
His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help bring your ex back.
@LionelRichie-o1n
@LionelRichie-o1n 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and he seems impressive.
@keiannamilliner8063
@keiannamilliner8063 Жыл бұрын
I'm going to disagree with if it ends horribly, he won't come back. My situation ended HORRIBLE. The worse of the worst, cops were called and all. But low and behold..HE CAME BACK. Only for us to end again. He was just using me. 🥴🤷🏾‍♀️ I feel so much better, knowing my self worth and that I don't have to take care of a grown boy! Ladies, Know Your Worth! 👑
@user-eu2me4bp7j
@user-eu2me4bp7j Жыл бұрын
Avoid the Dusties!
@J-tt1lu
@J-tt1lu Жыл бұрын
Yes I have had someone threaten to call the police on me (unfairly) and then try to come back before
@patikwakwa
@patikwakwa Жыл бұрын
NEVER EVER take back someone that hurt you. They just gon hurt you again but with extra sauce this time
@addyolo9968
@addyolo9968 Жыл бұрын
I think he means if it ended horribly don’t consider this video as in tactics u should use explained for him to come back. Glad you got your self worth though good for you 👏🏽❤👸🏽
@JHW44
@JHW44 Жыл бұрын
Agreed, they will definitely come back
@justacoginthefkery
@justacoginthefkery Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I've had plenty of exes or past guy friends reach out years later to admit regret for not appreciating the chances they had at the time. Young guys especially like to think the grass is gonna be greener elsewhere plus tend to operate more on short-term decision-making... super impulsive & often learning the hard way while being too sure of themselves in the moment. But once the brain matures, they gain more life or social experience, many realizations can come about regarding past choices/ mistakes. Genuinely good women almost always leave some kind of permanent mark on the guys they come across, but it often takes them trying to replace her to realize she isn't replaceable. HOWEVER, there's zero point in caring whether or not he does try to come back. Don't waste energy on ppl who left you standing alone for whatever reason. If a guy reaches out to apologize for his past idiocy, gracefully accept, keep those boundaries in place & carry forth. It's his responsibility to live with the choices he made.
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 Жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍
@Tangerinedream1984
@Tangerinedream1984 3 ай бұрын
They usually come back unchanged to continue playing you. And you let them back in bc you miss them and want to lie to yourself they’ve changed their mind about you. Going thru this now and feel utterly heartbroken 💔
@chisomoffor6877
@chisomoffor6877 Жыл бұрын
I’m not sure I want him back but the ego boost from him begging would be so satisfying and if not I still got my confidence
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
That sounds a bit high school Let the Lord Jesus lift your mood.
@Adelina24244
@Adelina24244 8 ай бұрын
@@danilaroche1156hahahaha I want that too
@Daisy-w4e
@Daisy-w4e 11 ай бұрын
We have to stop with this narrative!!! Move on and heal. Don't want anyone who doesn't choose you the first time!! ❤ God bless❤
@sassygal4727
@sassygal4727 7 ай бұрын
I second that notion. What's with the endless videos about all the things women should do to get men or get men to come back. I'm thinking men would be lucky to find me and probably should be watching videos on how not to lose me lol 😂❤
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 4 ай бұрын
@@sassygal4727 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@fembot521
@fembot521 Жыл бұрын
He didn’t leave but he was pulling away. I texted him and told him I cared about him but I needed to opt out of the slow ghost and wished him all the best. I don’t care either way.
@EchelonPandora
@EchelonPandora Жыл бұрын
This is such a good response
@Myes11
@Myes11 2 ай бұрын
Same! 🥲 Did he come back?
@emmaboyett8667
@emmaboyett8667 Жыл бұрын
But why would we want them back, they left. Screw them
@beccf.s.8012
@beccf.s.8012 Жыл бұрын
Why are you here?
@emmaboyett8667
@emmaboyett8667 Жыл бұрын
@@beccf.s.8012who are you? why are you messaging me? Get a job
@cindychelsea784
@cindychelsea784 Жыл бұрын
@@beccf.s.8012 😂😂😆😆😆
@beccf.s.8012
@beccf.s.8012 Жыл бұрын
@@cindychelsea784 lol they are "done" with their exes but, watching videos about how to get them back. Make it make sense.
@emmaboyett8667
@emmaboyett8667 Жыл бұрын
@@cindychelsea784 and who tf are you?
@yshujh9372
@yshujh9372 Жыл бұрын
I have to disagree. This whole thing about the guy coming back is a fantasy we girls like to believe. It all boils down to self-respect. A guy with high self-respect and with options that are better (better-looking) or equal as you, that he can build the same level of connection/chemistry with will NEVER come back. I've left many guys and never looked back. Some came back, some never did. When a relationship doesn't work out because he is pulling away, it means that he is not that into you and does not see you as being "The one". Accept this and move on with your life.
@beccf.s.8012
@beccf.s.8012 Жыл бұрын
So why are you here then?
@yshujh9372
@yshujh9372 Жыл бұрын
Cause I'm subscribed to him and this video popped on my newsfeed? Lol, what a stupid question
@chiobabe2180
@chiobabe2180 Жыл бұрын
Not true. Dating a millionaire with plenty options. 10 days & he came back & told me he had a gift for me. 6k living room set & 4day vacation plans. They come back. & he was a dismissive narcissist
@beccf.s.8012
@beccf.s.8012 Жыл бұрын
@@yshujh9372 it is not. If you weren't interested in the topic, you wouldn't be watching the videos. Being prideful, egotistical, and in denial would not help you in any way, not only on this, but any areas of your life. Not because it hasn't worked, it doesn't mean that it won't in the future. All my exes came back and the no contact was key. If you apply the concepts and strategies you either move on or you are ready to restart by the time they make it back.
@BrooklynBaby100
@BrooklynBaby100 Жыл бұрын
@@chiobabe2180none of that matters without a 💍… it’s still a traveling booty call or a call girl.
@joannebutzerin6448
@joannebutzerin6448 Жыл бұрын
I love this advice. This guy always affirms my choices. I don't date at all any more unless it is someone truly exceptional and I have verified that over a long time before even considering dating them. Less than one of 1,000 men are decent enough to be worth the time and energy.
@Lucynasarenko85
@Lucynasarenko85 Жыл бұрын
Every guy has come back! Some even after 10 years and from the other side of the world. Begging!!!! They always do
@calvinfatman7918
@calvinfatman7918 5 ай бұрын
Yeah of course they do.😆
@Lucynasarenko85
@Lucynasarenko85 5 ай бұрын
@@calvinfatman7918 they do! And it happened again the other day actually
@calvinfatman7918
@calvinfatman7918 5 ай бұрын
@@Lucynasarenko85 It must be your amazing character. Or maybe you have an incredible lady garden?
@Lucynasarenko85
@Lucynasarenko85 5 ай бұрын
@@calvinfatman7918 probably both
@MelModica
@MelModica 2 ай бұрын
A lot of men do try to come back at some point and it can happens years later. They learn the hard way that good women are not easily replaced. A man I had met 15 years ago tried to come back and admitted he regretted he didn’t make time for me, we were talking long distance, so he had traveled the world from Scotland to the US and couldn’t find anyone like me, it was hard for me but I'm glad I had moved on from him and didn't wait for him and kept my guard up. In general a lot of couples break up and get back together.
@AyaY-wc3pg
@AyaY-wc3pg Жыл бұрын
I am sick and tired of being told how wonderful I am, what a great chance they lost when it was in their hand, etc after months. I am so over them
@cami7961
@cami7961 10 ай бұрын
Im here to say..it ended in an argument and he still tried to come back. .
@calvinfatman7918
@calvinfatman7918 5 ай бұрын
Was it Stevie Wonder?
@suzyj8708
@suzyj8708 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I did. I literally called him out on his bullshit behavior of all talk no action for a while. He doesn’t know that I know about his ex still being in the picture. When he said, you’ll be mine “one day” I laughed it off, i told him I don’t wait for no man. He sent me heart emojis a few weeks after that and I didn’t respond. it felt so powerful!!!!!! I know he regrets it. Thank you 🙏🏼
@stephaniethelovely1
@stephaniethelovely1 2 ай бұрын
Just let him go. If he doesn't want you, he's always going to be looking out for someone better. Guys who really want a girl don't play games.
@jeanettemena1286
@jeanettemena1286 Жыл бұрын
‘I didn’t like the way things ended, are you willing to make it up to me?’ Test the spirit! Don’t just take him back without any works. Otherwise he’ll scratch his itch and be done with you again. You have that good kitty 😉 that he misses then DO NOT end up used and discarded. He has to pay some sort of price to gain access to you again. If you want a relationship with him (after he proves he is worthy) then insist on therapy, church, fasting and meditating on the good Word - help him grow, otherwise he won’t be able to break the pattern of being a doosh bag.
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
I can see your a follower of Christ. That's great. In my case, I wouldn't sleep with my man without marriage. I know he's missing me since our break up. I will take him back if he commits to Christ, wholeheartedly. Then we can marry. P.S. you misspelled douche bag. Keekeekee..
@maryteal2225
@maryteal2225 3 ай бұрын
Unpopular opinion, but I wouldn't mind if he reaches out in the future. We did part ways, but it was peaceful and respectful. If he chooses to reach out, I am willing to listen, and possibly give another try, while definitely maintaining some boundaries.
@igchannel2174
@igchannel2174 Ай бұрын
Same. I fell in love with him even more during the break up (lol), because he handled it really mature and in empathetic way. He wasnt afraid of my and his emotions...
@hiddenname9809
@hiddenname9809 Ай бұрын
If you give him access to your body, money and home again, you don't have boundaries.
@maryteal2225
@maryteal2225 Ай бұрын
@hiddenname9809 fully agree. Fortunately, the person I am referencing did not take advantage of any of those things.
@kfner23
@kfner23 Жыл бұрын
Unless there was abuse or they feel that you're a threat to their life and its better to have you away from them (like myself, he turned into a stalker and he needs to stay gone), they will be back or at the very least miss you even if it ended badly
@lindat1317
@lindat1317 25 күн бұрын
In my experience if a guy ghosts or leaves you, it’s because you are in a different league and he knows it. He’ll choose the easier women he can manipulate. Especially if he’s got low self esteem, he’ll overthink how “hard” it will be to keep you and just bow out. Unfortunately, they’ll miss out on an amazing woman who loved them, challenged them and went with someone they can stay stuck with and never grow and evolve. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Live your best life!!!
@sab_1055
@sab_1055 7 ай бұрын
Men pull away behind the pressure of their own emotions too. It's so dumb. If he's afraid of feelings, I don't want him when he comes back.
@Jennifer-di4nl
@Jennifer-di4nl Жыл бұрын
I didn't even watch this and in gonna say the one thing is "nothing " and yes men are like boomerangs. I just listened...he's so right! Frame is everything.
@SuzD0n
@SuzD0n Жыл бұрын
Something I appreciate about your videos is you don't do the clickbaity thing and spend 3/4 of it in preamble, only to start talking about the crucial parts at the end. Nice work. By the way, how's that Stoic's Guide to Relationships coming along ;)
@babusrishryanna425
@babusrishryanna425 10 ай бұрын
My emotionally unavailable boyfriend ended our 7yrs relationship yesterday.. reasons he says that he can't meet my expectations.
@kadzo6614
@kadzo6614 9 ай бұрын
Wow. Trash took itself out..never mind ❤
@Rozie32
@Rozie32 6 ай бұрын
I don’t want a man who chooses to cheat me and play games put me in a third party situation.. i don’t need him !! Expired I need peace and to be alone..
@Aqua_48
@Aqua_48 9 ай бұрын
Men ALWAYS come back. Maybe not for patch up but to talk again.
@raquela.3483
@raquela.3483 4 ай бұрын
Really? Because he is very pissed at me for telling his girlfriend that he is a cheater lol
@Aqua_48
@Aqua_48 4 ай бұрын
@@raquela.3483 Yes, he will still come back at the most unexpected time 😉
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 4 ай бұрын
What's the point of talking if it's not going to go anywhere. How stupid.
@Aqua_48
@Aqua_48 4 ай бұрын
@@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 they come back out of curiosity. My crush who refused to marry me reached out to me last week again after two years of no contact. So yeah, they always come back!
@Aqua_48
@Aqua_48 4 ай бұрын
And yes I blocked him and he still used another media to reach out to me!
@june-anneriley4972
@june-anneriley4972 Жыл бұрын
Great advice even if you do not want them back!
@truenorth7949
@truenorth7949 11 ай бұрын
you're making this more complicated than it needs to, IF a guy pulls away, ghosts or breaks up with you, go no contact period and focus on YOU period.
@MelModica
@MelModica 2 ай бұрын
Exactly dont contact him at all. If he comes back keep your guard up.
@soniamoraleschemistry
@soniamoraleschemistry 11 ай бұрын
The one thing I don't understand is why some men are the ones to initiate communication and did tell him at the onset I don't meet anyone online because I got hurt one time. He insisted, went through with communicating with him, and after about three months disappeared. Hence why I will no longer date. Some men nowadays just don't want commitment. I am done with that game. Long gone are the days of commitment.
@jsjstarr3
@jsjstarr3 10 ай бұрын
Very true, what others have said- if it ends or there’s a pull back, it’s not really a good way to end it either way…
@1crafter408
@1crafter408 6 ай бұрын
Can you elaborate on this?
@raquela.3483
@raquela.3483 4 ай бұрын
Framing was alright until I found out that he used me to cheat on his girlfriend and then I decided to tell her about it. He is a manipulator, so I guess I better let him go, even though I miss him deeply
@nunyafawkingbiz
@nunyafawkingbiz Жыл бұрын
You know it’s sad that we need “dating coaches” in USA! In Brazil and Latin America people are so open and dating is so natural and you don’t need none of this crap !!!!!!!!!
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 4 ай бұрын
Some men here think they have hundreds of choices that's why. They also think that they can land a 25 year old with the snap of a finger even though they're 40. They are THAT delusional.
@camuyana
@camuyana Жыл бұрын
I don't want my ex-husband back but I want to know what makes a man want to come back if it happens to be somebody I'm interested and he decides he wants to come back after he left. Just for my educational purpose.
@nesrinvural3800
@nesrinvural3800 Жыл бұрын
I know he’ll come back I just don’t know when. The thing is, I’m already so detached I don’t even think I’ll acknowledge him when he does come back
@Swiss_Girl
@Swiss_Girl 11 ай бұрын
100%!! did he? I feel you
@anhumahmed61
@anhumahmed61 2 ай бұрын
Just out of interested did he comeback?
@wb1006
@wb1006 Жыл бұрын
Oh and he's blocked ....boundaries are in place. He emailed me and apologized but he's still blocked and the next time ge emails me I'm not responding...
@maimalek6811
@maimalek6811 27 күн бұрын
Pray for me that he comes back to me. We're together for 6 years. I invested emotionally and financially in this relationship, and still love him. But he told he does not have any feelings for me anymore.
@missstar5248
@missstar5248 Ай бұрын
After dating for one year, he told me he is not ready to commit and he is emotionally unavailable. He was diagnosed with depression long time ago, today he broke up with me .. he told me that he is going through the worst time of his life and he is in a really bad place and he doesn’t want to keep me waiting for him to get better but at the same time he is putting himself out on tinder with great profile, telling people that he is a successful surgeon and he is looking for a long term relationship Am so sad , confused and I didn’t see that coming
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
I wonder why Elliot isn't married?
@AnneH-eg7gx
@AnneH-eg7gx 4 ай бұрын
He said he wants to take a big step back. I don't even want him now
@wb1006
@wb1006 Жыл бұрын
Lol he always comes back not sure why but this time I told him not to come back due to their inconsistencies and inability to prioritize...lol
@Hello.there31
@Hello.there31 10 ай бұрын
Will he comeback after I called the police on him for abusing me, the police press charge on him and gave no contact order.
@jen4yahwehsal176
@jen4yahwehsal176 4 ай бұрын
The last thing I said to him is baby. I cannot allow myself to be treated this way
@lisas6983
@lisas6983 Жыл бұрын
Why would we want them to come back? If they leave they leave? Am I missing something?
@sonyasspot355
@sonyasspot355 Жыл бұрын
I deleted the guy number because I want to follow through
@SabrinaAngel
@SabrinaAngel 3 ай бұрын
Good work Elliot 😊
@jamie615
@jamie615 Жыл бұрын
if he comes back...how do you know if hes just saying he wants a relationship for real or just pretending to get the assets back?
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
If he's sincere he'd get intentional and propose marriage. Yes, you heard right.
@cami7961
@cami7961 10 ай бұрын
Simple, just dont have s3x..hold out and instead suggest couple therapy..dont let him know u are replacing s3x with him with therapy..men hate therapy alone let alone as a couple.if he gets through at least 90 days of therapy and no s3x..then u knw he is there for a relationship
@DinaStrange
@DinaStrange Жыл бұрын
I think most f men just use women.
@TheCc064
@TheCc064 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. They don’t “love us” they want to use us. Why do we see men constantly pursuing younger women when they have a good partner at home? Men don’t see us as people, just accessories for them
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
Most do but there are men who value women..
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
I pray a good, God fearing, integrous man finds you.
@SS-in1ts
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
Thx!! Can you do a video on how to respond or not to respond to flattery? This guy left me for his younger sons baby mama and texting me how he appreciates how awesome I am and ends his sentences in “❤”. It feels even more insulting and I’m holding my tongue because our sons are friends and so we stay in touch for this reason. Should I ignore it and continue texting like business only or should I tell him the hearts are inappropriate and make me uncomfortable?
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't read too much into it.
@EchelonPandora
@EchelonPandora Жыл бұрын
Fuck the heart emojis. This is so manipulative
@passion8princess261
@passion8princess261 Жыл бұрын
Elliott, Another fantastic video. I would love to purchase your guide, is it available in hard copy?? I am old school and I really don't like to down load. I would be more than happy to send you the money. You are a superb coach!!!
@jenniferworth6156
@jenniferworth6156 2 ай бұрын
Early in our conversation he had asked me if it would be all right to stay in contact with me I didn't answer because we were just beginning to talk so I didn't answer that unfortunately after several conversations we came or he came to the conclusion that he wanted to just go move on and I basically told him thank you for everything you've done for me and I really enjoyed our time and that's how I left it so I don't know that he'll be
@jenniferworth6156
@jenniferworth6156 2 ай бұрын
Back
@Pacifica74
@Pacifica74 Жыл бұрын
What makes me laugh is whether you make it easy or you make it hard for him, he's still going to get the same person you are in the end so what is point of all this for crying out loud. Men are like pants hanging on the rack in a store. If you try it on and it doesn't fit, you don't buy it & take it to the tailor. No. You put it back on the rack and walk out.
@taghazoutmoon5031
@taghazoutmoon5031 8 ай бұрын
0:56 my situation matches both
@queenie547
@queenie547 Жыл бұрын
What about if a guy lets you go, when he knew you wanted to wait until marriage to have physical intimacy? LDR
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
You have to let him leave. Hopefully he'll realize your a God send. If he doesn't..well you do t want to be with someone who doesn't share your values. If your a Christian marry another Christian. Period.
@410AnnieAutopsy
@410AnnieAutopsy Жыл бұрын
if you leave please stay wherever you went 😆
@Reshme77
@Reshme77 Жыл бұрын
There is no decent ending.
@MissSarahGM
@MissSarahGM Жыл бұрын
I agree it's unilateral decision.
@rupalimore4692
@rupalimore4692 8 ай бұрын
Hello, Will you be able to suggest timelines when it is right to move in ?
@kimberlywood7783
@kimberlywood7783 Жыл бұрын
@2:14... 1 out of 5 is why I'm here watching this instead of chilling with him 😅😢😅
@forsuchatimeasthis9631
@forsuchatimeasthis9631 2 ай бұрын
What about a guy ( he was all in) that ghosted after three beautiful dates but after the third date we had a misunderstanding? Will a man like that come back around?
@AydaIr-v3r
@AydaIr-v3r Ай бұрын
But In another video u said if you have a lot of fight he is a weak guy and he's gonna come back!
@Nate_is_Great
@Nate_is_Great 8 ай бұрын
how do you apply this to the situation in which you are both friends, but you want something more and the other person tells you they are in an exclusive relationship and can't be romantic with you, after giving a ton of mixed signals? wouldn't it be different since you never got in a relationship, tried and it failed, my lady friend is suffering so much right now and she"s gone NC for 6 days- I'm pretty sure he expects her to run and contact him first.....she really likes him....
@nancygoodspeed8349
@nancygoodspeed8349 Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating Ай бұрын
This means a lot thank you
@onefishblow
@onefishblow 8 ай бұрын
I'm surprised you didn't go into the third option that men have. If her frame is so believable, he may just figure. Oh okay, it's over time to move on. I understand a lot of guys. Do exactly what you said this is true. However, there is a certain subset of men. That will just not really care all that much if they are done also It has nothing to do with framing. It has to do with acceptance. If a man accepts your frame then it doesn't really matter he moves on
@UniversoSpiritualUnido
@UniversoSpiritualUnido 11 ай бұрын
Acting and playing games will never work ever
@POWEE00
@POWEE00 3 ай бұрын
He came back and said he like me and I'm a cool person. That's it? Wow k
@Honey-nv9dp
@Honey-nv9dp Жыл бұрын
Me clicking off at the 28 second mark 😭😭
@evelyngarcia9678
@evelyngarcia9678 4 ай бұрын
Hello How to book a personal coaching?
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 4 ай бұрын
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@kimberlywood7783
@kimberlywood7783 Жыл бұрын
@1:10 ... you've got my attention. Seems like this message is for me ✅️
@WanM786
@WanM786 6 ай бұрын
Hakan C is advising you
@annemac8707
@annemac8707 3 ай бұрын
Looking good with someone else
@Spinnglish
@Spinnglish Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@sdma6005
@sdma6005 Жыл бұрын
THANK you.
@jozejeaux3962
@jozejeaux3962 2 ай бұрын
Men always come back
@natthebratster
@natthebratster Жыл бұрын
No, no, and no. I am way too busy for this sh!t. I have a life not a video rendering of what one should look like.
@lovesme24
@lovesme24 7 ай бұрын
He didn't tell us the one thing to do waste of time
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 7 ай бұрын
I literally did. Lack of comprehension skills
@Lauren-e5m
@Lauren-e5m Жыл бұрын
Well he’s not coming back then lol I talked about him so bad when he left lmao
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating Жыл бұрын
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@lr2ldn
@lr2ldn Ай бұрын
Good Lord it takes you 30 years to get to the damn point!
@Rose82155
@Rose82155 Жыл бұрын
So if a man is a manipulator, he won’t return?
@justacoginthefkery
@justacoginthefkery Жыл бұрын
Oh no, he still might. That's what's called the "Hoover maneuver" lol.
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
He probably will. Don't allow it unless he's found Christ Jesus and he's sincere.
@rayliddicoat7959
@rayliddicoat7959 Жыл бұрын
Awesome Elliot! Love from Julie in California.
@BrooklynBaby100
@BrooklynBaby100 Жыл бұрын
Watch “The wedding singer” and “50 First Dates” Adam Sandler’s characteristic is how men should be treating you. If not, it’s time to kick rocks 🪨
@AydaIr-v3r
@AydaIr-v3r Ай бұрын
But In another video u said if you have a lot of fight he is a weak guy and he's gonna come back!
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