How Your Silence Will Intrigue Him To Act And What To Do Next

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Elliot Scott

Күн бұрын

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@cytavares Ай бұрын

He chose to close the door, he might have the key, but I've already changed the lock.

@1crafter408 Ай бұрын

Wow

@nakiflo Ай бұрын

Amen!

@cassiewilliams2041 Ай бұрын

@@cytavares 👍

@cup_o_TMarie Ай бұрын

“Who gives a rat’s hairy ass!”😝🐀 I love the straight up raw talk! Ladies DO NOT let your ego get in the way! People who really care WILL NOT do or say anything that risks their connection with you or risk losing you! Yes people make mistakes. But serious people don’t keep making the mistakes & know how to properly apologize & clean that ish up! Stop settling because you’re afraid to be alone, get straight on your values & know your worth! No one will ever place a value on you higher than the one you place on yourself!

@renchemarais8419 Ай бұрын

It's DANGEROUS taking someone back. He's into REVENGE or showing off to someone else or something. Do not give people the benefit of the doubt.

@kaybase6967 Ай бұрын

When you say get revenge are you saying he is getting back with you only to get revenge on you? Also, the other reason could be that he is just using you to make someone else jealous? I’ve never seen someone comment that before and I thought I was the only one who would think that. The getting back together (or flirting with you) “to make someone else jealous” part. But I never thought someone would want to get back with you only to get revenge. I’m not saying you’re wrong or it doesn’t happen but I find that take interesting and something to consider (not being sarcastic).

@eclecticd9953 Ай бұрын

I wish I knew that sooner 😢

@Adoptedforever 28 күн бұрын

@@kaybase6967 oh wow this is a scary world. Feminine women have to be cautious. People have been killed and badly injured and had their kids taken away, etc. Because of these things. Personally I was in 2 year custody battle with a raging male who switched from being considerate to threatening me daily because I was not playing his games anymore. (He wanted a friends with benefits situation, to live together, and when I said no to either and we were just friends he wanted me to worship his ego and not have a mind of my own). It's batshxt crazy.

@stephaniethelovely1 Ай бұрын

I watch these and there's not even a guy in the picture, oh dear.

@ElliotScottDating Ай бұрын

@@stephaniethelovely1 that's loyalty

@stephaniethelovely1 Ай бұрын

@ElliotScottDating it's all about those lion analogies 🤣

@ceecee16161 Ай бұрын

Preparing for the nonsense 😊

@FeliciaStands Ай бұрын

😂😂😂practice makes perfect you will be a scholar once you start dating again 😂😂😂🎉❤🎉❤🎉

@FeliciaStands Ай бұрын

@@ceecee16161😂😂😂😂😂😂😂love it 🎉❤🎉❤🎉

@kellystargell8873 29 күн бұрын

He re-appeared 6 Months later ( approx 3 weeks ago) and tried me…I told him about himself. He’s still on block with no communication. I have no desire to reconnect with his playa, narcissistic ways. I agree with this completely

@lauriechan2966 17 күн бұрын

I went no contact for over a decade. Still going. That's how mentally, emotionally, spiritually, morally, ethically, financially strong I am.

@_anon_4532 Ай бұрын

I dated this guy for a year and a half. He started distancing himself, calling less, coming over less, so I didn’t press the issue, I just started doing more things with my friends & family, working a little more, etc. Then he finally talked to me and was like we’re growing apart blah blah, but I could tell he wasn’t trying to fix it. I got the vibe he had someone else so I basically just agreed and was like you’re right. So we stopped talking but he constantly watched my IG stories (he almost never posts anything). That was back at the beginning of October. Tbh I got busy with life and hadn’t checked his social media in a while, bc he never posts anything anyway, but I just checked it out of curiosity like a week ago… and apparently I’m blocked now lol

@debbylee6329 Ай бұрын

I wonder what he doesn't want you to see? Hmm...

@_anon_4532 Ай бұрын

Well idk bc he didn’t block my sister and he still isn’t posting so 🤷🏻‍♀️ I was kinda thinkin maybe he has a new gf and doesn’t want her to know about me? Idk men are fkn weird and most have the maturity of 13 yr olds well into their 40’s so I’ve stopped trying to guess what their intentions are. If they can’t straight up tell me I don’t give a damn lol

@debbylee6329 Ай бұрын

Good thing to just move on. I am an older woman and even the older men still play games. @@_anon_4532

@BabyFaceRose Ай бұрын

@@_anon_4532heavy on fuckin weird!!! He’s immature lol

@cup_o_TMarie Ай бұрын

@@_anon_4532Good for you 👏

@Jadee2022 Ай бұрын

You are so right..who wants someone after 6 months 😂😂😂

@apoenaabreu257 Ай бұрын

This topic is repeating so much in my feed despite me trying to curate my algorithm, that I'm starting to once again believe in synchronicities and feeling hopeful my ex is in anguish for my absence 😂 Stop giving me hope Elliot!

@jessicahitchens6926 Ай бұрын

The lion skit is so funny it reminds me of Family Guy or Southpark from years ago.

@BabyFaceRose Ай бұрын

BAHAHAHAHAHA MARRY CHRISTMAS🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😂😂😂 you’re hilarious Elliot

@Thisismebutme2.0 Ай бұрын

I watch ur videos daily like a ritual repeating them to get these godly insights ingrained in me. Thank you god elliot scott.

@ginabellido8689 Ай бұрын

Thank you I need to hear this … got tired of the manipulation

@daydaynj Ай бұрын

Needed to hear this. After 7 mths he is popping on up and throwing insults lol. Ahhhh thank you!

@Lipanj92 Ай бұрын

Insults? What for? How did you even get yourself into that situation?

@daydaynj Ай бұрын

@Lipanj92 i just didn't block his phone number. Hence, has access to destroy me!

@bomdestructor 13 күн бұрын

I think that lion reference was the best one yet.

@crystal-rose1307 Ай бұрын

Hey King Elliot I was literally with my partner for a year. Suddenly we had an argument about the future, he became really distant, and all of a sudden he said his heart wasn’t in it anymore ending the relationship. I accepted it and deleted him off everything. I was such a good partner to him, I can’t believe it 💀

@crystal-rose1307 Ай бұрын

Also if anyone could please reply telling me their thoughts that would be great!!

@cassiewilliams2041 Ай бұрын

@@crystal-rose1307I've gone through this experience with a man and I've watched a lot of videos and learned he's emotionally unavailable and an avoidant. I never knew what avoidant was I have learned a lot in the last four and a half months.. focus on yourself and go forward and don't even think about him... I've come to realize if somebody doesn't want to be with you why would you waste your tears in energy on someone who doesn't know your worth... If somebody doesn't care you didn't really lose anything because you didn't have him anyway he wasn't yours.. you deserve someone who's going to put in as much as you in the relationship.

@KatherineMalupo Ай бұрын

Sounds like he has avoidant attachment style. There are many videos about this attachment style

@cytavares Ай бұрын

It's not about you, it's about him, you communicated you're feelings and still he didn't acknowledge them or better, he saw you were not aligned. You can be mother Theresa to someone, if they don't see you like that, they don't. Remove yourself and thank for the rejection, because rejection is redirection, channel your anger and sadness towards improving yourself, and remember you could've wasted even more time with him, think like that, it will get better.

@1crafter408 Ай бұрын

He also sounds like an avoidant to me. If u go silent he might come back around.

@tessa7778 Ай бұрын

Love your channel!

@ezziejp7306 Ай бұрын

Love your videos Elliot the psychological side makes a lot of sense keep doing what your doing your video Have given me so much prospective Thank you ❤

@Twighlight333 Ай бұрын

Im sooooooo glad i found this video! This is exactly what i needed right now

@BellaEstrella7 Ай бұрын

Yup thank you. Keep these videos coming

@Vilmarie_Sanchez_90 Ай бұрын

It’s been 9 months and he hasn’t looked back.

@jessicahitchens6926 Ай бұрын

This was hilarious 🤣

@renchemarais8419 Ай бұрын

❤ Elliot's AMAZING ❤

@TheNr1784 25 күн бұрын

Ok Elliott you crack me up. Every time I’m going through another one of these bozos I come back to your videos and thank you! 🙏🏼 the animal kingdom mention really makes sense. Emotional damage or immaturity is the equivalent of a male that lost to his rivals. Better try next time little guys. If you are ever in Austin I would love to hang out with you! 🏆

@wuanitaconverse7059 Ай бұрын

Do block, delete everything. Sorry, I noticed typo. Do block and delete everything, text, etc.

@chloedawnmom 22 күн бұрын

Diggin’ the real talk

@beverlypatterson2550 3 күн бұрын

Great advice. Women are socially programmed to forgive. Ladies, speak less and move forward. A good life is an active life…keep moving on. Your mister right is coming and you want to be ready.😊❤

@tormentors 5 күн бұрын

I just remembered a guy that came back after 8 YEARS!!! God I mean,I was so over him 😂

@QueenOfTheGreen27 Ай бұрын

This was great to hear 👍👍

@1crafter408 Ай бұрын

This was a good video.

@mlntasa4113 Ай бұрын

The lioness statement 🤣🤣🤣

@basicinfo2022 Ай бұрын

5:55 🔑 make him pay and gift too 7:30 dont be weak ladies. He said it himself. 8:29 9:41 👑

@1crafter408 Ай бұрын

Yeah we need to relieve our curiosity

@TheNeoKalashnikovs Ай бұрын

Elliot I've been watching your videos for over 5 years 😉and I just needed a refresh and damn this video was good, your best one yet 💖 I'm laughing so hard lmfao. I'm gonna go get me a pack of cigarettes, pour myself a whisky and turn my phone off, these assholes can wait 🤣🤣🤣 Much love V

@MissKbabyy 29 күн бұрын

Love how real you are. Subscribe

@deborahjoyce4724 Ай бұрын

@ElliotScottDating Thank you, man. This video saved me from making a phone call!

@flowertot786 Ай бұрын

Elliot what if the guy is an avoidant and says i hurt him should i reach out once more and when?2 weeks no contact

@sandradaniel2031 Ай бұрын

If you’ve hurt him then I think you should reach out. If you don’t get a response just go silent till he’s ready to reach out. Good luck 🤞

@flowertot786 Ай бұрын

@ yeah he wasnt interested started acting mixed signals and totally different, so now shall i wait?

@cytavares Ай бұрын

Noooo, don't! What you're looking for? If you have hurt him, give him space to heal and learn better so that you don't do that again, but for me he's playing, if he says you've hurt him and still likes you could talk and work it out, but instead he is choosing to make your suffer, why would you want to be with someone who makes you feel so bad?

@1crafter408 Ай бұрын

Well, how did u hurt him exactly..?

@kaybase6967 Ай бұрын

How did you hurt him though? Sounds like he’s making excuses and wants to make you feel guilty, if in fact you did nothing to hurt him.

@renchemarais8419 Ай бұрын

CapeTown SOUTH AFRICA 💯👉🌍

@Esastujn Ай бұрын

What age group of men does this apply to? Because it sounds like 19 - 32

@darlinah8090 Ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks !🙏🏻

@pb7473 Ай бұрын

I love you Elliott 😂😂😂😂 Your examples and facial expressions when your trying not to laugh because your trying to get basic mother nature stuff through some brains that have turned thick trying to figure out this stupid culture of playing games by the other person and then ending up with nothing but a mess because they still keep dropping their standards for someone that doesn't deserve it.

@Starrynights0304 Ай бұрын

Wrong they dont check in they move on immmediately

@ElliotScottDating Ай бұрын

@Starrynights0304 thats bc you not them

@Starrynights0304 Ай бұрын

@ElliotScottDating that's very incorrect . They are the ones who were not good people

@Starrynights0304 Ай бұрын

@@ElliotScottDating normal people don't move on immediately

@Starrynights0304 Ай бұрын

@@ElliotScottDating you know nothing about relationships or men

@carlyc9891 Ай бұрын

Elliot your funny 😄

@Sienna-q4x Ай бұрын

What if you block him?

@verarobinson6759 Ай бұрын

Ha ha u are so funny ❤

@rileysmiley9585 Ай бұрын

lol…who gives a rats hairy ass. I love this stuff.

@ceyciemateo9411 10 күн бұрын

Some guys need time. I know ppl who got married after 3 months later

@bbbrandon4499 7 күн бұрын

Wow- that’s sounds like a miracle.

@ceyciemateo9411 7 күн бұрын

@ not really. It happens more often than you think… at least half of marriages experienced a break up or a period of separation before marriage. Usually the woman having to prove that she is not one to be played with. This happens when you as a woman walks away, when the man is taking you for granted. And in that space the man will miss you. Men fall in love with your absence. If they like you, love will grow.