I am working on this right now in therapy I had trouble understanding it until I watched these videos thank you !!!
@schematherapyinstituteaust3 жыл бұрын
glad it was helpful for you!
@justjack403010 ай бұрын
This describes my relationship right now. It's so frustrating. I'm the attached she's the avoidant. I feel helpless sometimes
@spoony01428 Жыл бұрын
damn the thing about I need space really resonated with me, I do this a lot. bullseye and ballpark is a good way of outlining it
@schematherapyinstituteaust Жыл бұрын
Glad it's helpful!
@narcabusevictimgermany96873 жыл бұрын
Very interesting thank you!
@jenniho-huan53712 жыл бұрын
very helpful. in my faith, we hv a holding cross...this helps me see how it is helpful. just wonder if Rita can stabilise her video? maybe get a gyro stand. :D Thanks so much!
@schematherapyinstituteaust2 жыл бұрын
So glad it is helpful for you!
@blissbombseventeen8114 Жыл бұрын
I have this schema, no maternal bond, or affection, emotions ignored etc. but I’m more avoidant in intimate relationships. Like I’m mirroring what I didn’t see or experience as a child. Is this a normal one too?
@schematherapyinstituteaust Жыл бұрын
yes there are different ways of coping with the schema - have a look at the avoidant coping modes.
@blissbombseventeen8114 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏! I will have a look and bring it to my psychologist xx
@55linka3 жыл бұрын
isnt this a huge difference between what a partner can give you and emotional deprivation from childhood? I dont care my perter is lovely if my parents failed....
@schematherapyinstituteaust3 жыл бұрын
Hurt that happens in relationships can be also healed in relationship but it's long road 55linka and therapy is often needed in that situation.