Emotional Healing | My Experience and Advice

This is incredibly personal, but I truly believe my experience with healing and self-love can heal many other people that may be going through something similar. Sending you so much love. This too shall pass. x
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[@CreazyThing]

"If this is really my person, this wouldn't be happening": this is such a good sentence to remind yourself when you feel like you want to go back to someone who hurt you...

[@nofakk0]

@@SR-ql9he About as much of nonsense as your statement is. If your love is hurting you, it's not love, it's a delusion and/or the fear of being alone. This is situational, but telling someone they should suck up hurt, because "people make mistakes" and "love is not a fairy tale" it not only stupid, it's reckless and possibly dangerous.

[@shruti5731]

@@SR-ql9he lol ofc not everything is a fairytale, but it's almost always true that if someone dumps you out of the blue while you're wedding planning, they're probably not going to be your person for life...

[@angela21947ify]

I totally resonate !!

[@anujipapu86]

You don’t know how much this has helped me, thank you for sharing this video🙏🏽

[@katesquirt]

@@SR-ql9he I think this is difficult to judge without all of the information. Love isn’t always a fairytale and sometimes it does get messy and you push through but given we don’t have (nor are we entitled to) the whole story, I think Niomi is completely justified in saying that her “person” wouldn’t be hurting her like he did. None of us know what happened behind closed doors.

[@Monioka]

this was the most important video you have ever made

[@Sarafara7]

I agree. I think seeing the reality of getting over something traumatic let’s people know they can get over anything too. The more we see how all of us go through similar experiences helps make working through them possible

[@AnaSerroGomes]

Agree! I still come back to it... and ive sent this to friends going through simillar situations and it helped them too

[@360shadowmoon]

I can't believe he waited until you were at the stage of trying on wedding dresses before saying anything. You're right that he is definitely not the one.

[@ayseturkoglu1061]

Can you explain what actually happened? I guess I haven’t been paying attention to what’s going on on the internet these past months so I completely missed what happened. If you know could you please help?

[@madebyluv]

@@ayseturkoglu1061 same

[@hann_0497]

@@ayseturkoglu1061 yeah I’d like to know too I’m nosey

[@360shadowmoon]

@@ayseturkoglu1061 Her and Joe broke up and are no longer engaged. She explains it in the video.

[@ayseturkoglu1061]

@@360shadowmoon I got that part, I meant like what were the circumstances of the break up, what did he do?

[@sophiewalker-walsh]

One thing I found really helped me through trauma was going to the local observatory and looking through lots of telescopes at stars, galaxies and planets. The scale of space. The insignificance of earth. The insignificance of time. It helped me so much to put perspective on my life and my existence. It is such a miracle to even exist. Life is unpredictable and we have no control.

[@sbiiine]

So interesting because when I was going through a break up, I always looked out the window at night and took a few deep breaths. And I thought very similar things as you: how small this world is and how fascinating space is.

[@pennyd3220]

i agree about not being in control, we think we are in control of our paths but there is definitely a 'higher plan' for us all.

[@Ruthhmorris]

What a beautiful concept 💖

[@jaipanesar6027]

🙌🏽

[@debeforesara]

This is the kind of content that resonates with people; raw, real and less curated. Carry on. 💕💕

[@CarlyGAndo]

Yep she’s brave and amazing. Goodluck for your future. You’ll met the right man one day. X

[@isabell_diejetztsessions9271]

Yesss i feel the same ❤️👌

[@hannahb9864]

I agree

[@bellaluna321]

Totally agree. I really felt truth and connection in this video which is so rare these days from influencers.

[@zobiaw4455]

“My heart is at ease knowing that what was meant for me will never miss me, and that what misses me was never meant for me” - Imam ash-Shafi’i I really hope your healing journey continues and your happiness doubles 🙏🏼

[@liligonzalez8521]

Thank you 🙏!

[@saranoah6236]

True I love this saying

[@hijabrizwan9270]

💕

[@effie5238]

That's beautiful! 💚

[@aieshahuss1282]

Amazing !!!

[@ninaschmidt3834]

Seeing her go from talking about her insomnia during the worst of the heartbreak and then burst out laughing bc of a mud puddle was so beautiful to me. She has come so far and has such strength

[@M1ssSarahKate]

she is incredible

[@bhumiworld5080]

Dont be apologetic about being philosophical or spiritual, it is part of the process of healing

[@marinalukic1070]

When she was talking about trying on wedding dresses and then two days later the breakup happened I started sobbing 😭 you’re so brave Nims ❤️❤️

[@kdlee3316]

Why did they break up?

[@gemmaross1665]

That’s when I started too!! 😢💕

[@yestovanilla]

@@kdlee3316 it may be that he wanted to go back to India?..as they meant to be there for 1,2 years before covid happened?

[@pebblesmiller9026]

@@kdlee3316 he was hungry

[@MyChemicalRomace123]

@@yestovanilla he actually lost his job due to COVID I think!

[@kaykaymumof386]

I’m still in shock that he would would break your heart like that. You packed up ur whole life and moved to India for him. This proves that ur an incredible strong person to be a strong as you are. I just hope he had 100% realised there’s never going to be another you. His loss xx

[@gardenroom65]

Exactly, his loss 🎄

[@mayalakhenpaul]

Gosh his loss!!!!! Your amazing and this has helped me a lot

[@RachyNoodleNest]

I was with my ex for 7 years. I was utterly in love with him. For the past 2 years he neglected me and withdrew from me. He left me and I had to sell our house on my own and he didn't want to see our dog either. He came to collect his belongings whilst I was at work, leaving all the rubbish behind for me to clear. He was on dating websites within 3 weeks. Trauma is an understatement. It's been exactly a year since he left and I'm doing better now. For the past year, the pain can only be described as heart cracking. Remember rejection is redirection. I wish you well...you are not alone x

[@hihellojuliana]

Really hope you’re doing well. If it helps, it would have been a longer waste of your time if he hadn’t left. So in perspective, it’s was a victory. Stay strong ❤️

[@ag9284]

I cannot begin to imagine how traumatic it was to go from trying on wedding dresses with your family watching to such a major breakup within a couple of days. You are so strong and the way you have addressed the situation publicly has been done with nothing but class, respect and sensitivity. Super inspirational for so many people. Keep prioritising you 🥰

[@EllieBean95]

I love the Mary Shelley quote "there is nothing so painful to the human mind as a great and sudden change" I feel like its kind of relevant to you rn ❤️

[@liciramadan7795]

Wonderful quote

[@aigneisEve]

You're at this point where you're telling yourself it wasn't meant to be and that's why it ended ... I'm coming from the future and telling you one day you'll figure out exactly Why it wasn't meant to be. Not only will you be completely over it, but you will be SOOO incredibly thankful it ended, and if you were taken back in time you would have ended it yourself, maybe sooner, with a big smile on your face and a lot of peace in your heart 💞 It will pass

[@myllspicks]

my boyfriend died in a motorcycle accident around 2 weeks ago.. praying for healing for all of us in pain..

[@Mimi-gy6vk]

Sending love x

[@user-rb4lv4if9q]

So sorry 💛

[@myllspicks]

@@Mimi-gy6vk thank you mimi..

[@myllspicks]

@@user-rb4lv4if9q much appreciated..

[@alinaflorinasavu2130]

so sorry for your loss, cannot imagine. Please be well

[@hann_0497]

As heartbreaking the situation is, imagine if you’d got married and then this happened, always got to look at the positives x

[@frosting6439]

Thank you for opening up and being vulnerable. Most can relate to this kind of pain. Thank you for showing there is a light at the end of the tunnel and people can heal. This was so genuine and heartfelt

[@natalielee6583]

Niomi, you will never understand how much I needed to hear this from you during this time. I've been experiencing THE heartbreak of my life, but your vulnerability and honesty in this video have just been so unbelievably encouraging and refreshing. To know that you are okay and that I too will be okay puts me at ease. THANK YOU for being brave and sharing your very personal journey. It truly means so much. I also feel so much more connected to you, oddly enough, and I love that you've helped so many others out there as well. You have such a gift for bringing peace to people. Never lose that bright light inside of you ❤️

[@CarolinedeLeeuw]

Natalie Lee I hope you will be doing better very soon! You are not alone in this 🥰

[@natalielee6583]

@@CarolinedeLeeuw thank you so much!! appreciate the support🥺😊

[@liciramadan7795]

I hope you’re feeling better and you will come out the other side of this ❤️ stay strong and one day this will all be a memory

[@oliviaramirez6446]

Six days after this video came out, I left my relationship of almost 7 years. I went from planning my wedding one day (he asked if I wanted to get married in the spring on Halloween, only to rescind it the next day because he said I needed to lose weight) to realizing I deserved so much better. The day this came out, I went out and got a journal on grief. It took 6 days until I was able to break up with my ex (he was away for work) but I resonated so much with what you were saying that I knew it was time. I started reaching out to family and friends. I started making plans. This was the first deep breath before I jumped into the deep end. I came back to this video almost a year on because I wanted to remember where I was when this video came out. If you think you want to leave, that's enough to leave. You all deserve so much love in your life.

[@ruthrice814]

Loosing someone as you have is like a death. The pain the shock the numbness and the attachment of an invisible string of love is unbearable. Time really is the greatest healer indeed the beat is yet to cone

[@anditspaganpoetry]

I went through a breakup at the same time as you. Really nice to see someone on here being open and vulnerable about such a relatable experience.

[@francesandrews5506]

Sending lots hugs x remember you are truly an amazing person 😍

[@chanelmaccoll7542]

me too, same time! how are you doing now? X

[@suscharlie2186]

That was really powerful. Your maturity and soulfulness are so admirable. I’m glad you’re truly and fully living for yourself.

[@martamanunta6770]

@@pinkrainbow1 even if she did it, do you blame her? We are human and she is human as well. Stop speculating about her. You are writing crap about her in every comment

[@Ruthiieekins]

@@pinkrainbow1 I’d of broke more than a mirror

[@thenerdyberty]

“These moments will make you who you are, but they won’t define you.” Truly beautiful, Niomi. Thank you for this video :)

[@user-xn5nx8gt9g]

Thank you so much for this. 🥺 I too was engaged to be married. I'm 30. We hadn't planned the wedding yet but my fiancé went abroad to work where his parents lived and then couldn't come back to the UK due to Covid. We were planning on buying a house together and we were saving up and everything. But then his parents got ill and his father had to have quite a serious operation and because he was the only son his mum said they needed him there as Covid had impacted their finances. His parents also said it wouldn't be wise for him to settle in the UK as they both needed care and wouldn't be able to care for themselves. So he broke up with me and he literally told me via text the day after our anniversary which was mid November and my world crashed. He hasn't been in touch since then and I don't expect him to but it just hurts so much and I just feel absolutely broken. 😔 Haven't been able to eat, sleep or get on with any work even though I'm working from home. There really is nothing worse in the world than going through true heartbreak. And just like you, I felt and do still feel physical pain in my body. I'm trying to be good to myself and just accept it for what it is. I too am trying to change my mindset and it's true if that man was truly for me then this wouldn't have happened. It doesn't make it any better and I hated life and hated 2020 but now I'm trying to focus on the good things I have in my life and practise gratitude. But it is slow going. If anyone else is in a similar position please don't hesitate to reach out. Having people who truly understand really helps. And like Niomi says if it was truly meant to be for me or us and if this was the right path then it would have happened and part of self love is understanding and accepting it wasn't meant for me or us. Reflection is really important and trying to understand why it has happened. I am trying to be positive and looking to the future is really difficult but it's a slow process and taking each day at a time is seriously important. We will be fine girls. We will absolutely grow stronger and develop but it just means taking it a day at a time. Much love to everyone feeling heartbroken right now. ❤❤❤

[@marpaps25]

That physical pain...yes I remember that pain. I thought that my heart could be hurt, but my God, the heart pain I actually felt it was ....hard core pain I never felt in my life. But here I am, with all that cracks in my heart, light manage to get through and someone came to my life and I knew....all I suffered, it was ALL worth it. Ten years after, 2 kids and a right person that I love, yes, totally worth it.

[@danieller9778]

Love this!!😊

[@hfs212000]

you are healing quite gracefully niomi. as someone who went through the same thing all i can say is to keep going. cheers

[@amei8764]

@@pinkrainbow1 well it’s from her point of view and the point of the whole video was how she went through the dark time also we actually do not know the whole background story of why they breaking up so as for me I wouldn’t harshly say she’s blaming him entirely as they must’ve their parts of why it ended.

[@notesfrommybookshelf]

@@pinkrainbow1 and what?

[@iqraayasmin3939]

@@pinkrainbow1 clearly the engagement ended because of something he did so I don't think it really matters how he feels..

[@saram.8671]

@@pinkrainbow1 well, if a guy dumps you the day before the wedding than she has the right to blame him. Why would you remain silent? I think she handled it very well, without telling too much.

[@Bella13710]

@@pinkrainbow1 you must be Joe's mate. Literally spewing hate all over niomi's channel. Do one.

[@xMichelex]

"When God is showing you that somebody is not for you & you continue to pursue them. He will make them hurt you until you have no choice but to leave." Author Unknown. I read this today and thought this might bring you and others some peace. Niomi, he didn't deserve such a beautiful soul as you... your King is yet to come, and when he does, you will see how glad you are that this came to pass. xxxxx

[@tay.marcela4258]

Yes! I have trouble letting people go and I’ve found God often intervenes and forces them to walk away from me in a very permanent way.

[@TheFlowerchild11]

Finding that out.

[@Mimi-rd8on]

God is good

[@danieller9778]

Wow where did you saw that quote? ☺️

[@xMichelex]

@@danieller9778 it was on my friend's facebook.

[@jadelauren2269]

Oh Niomi :( it was so sad to hear you talking about this but so real too, so was appreciated 💕

[@christineong2959]

I completely buckled when you mentioned your stepdad and mum 💔 Thank you Niomi for being so vulnerable ❤️

[@frosting6439]

I know me too 🥺🥺

[@andrem9813]

Me too 😢

[@lisas2802]

Yep xx

[@smjonesy1]

Yes I was crying too - it’s funny, when you cut a tree back it grows back even more complex and stronger than before. Maybe we are the same..

[@armellerewolf7488]

Same here, resonates so much with what I'm living currently

[@juliabeder3657]

You talking about collapsing in your parents’ arms made me cry a little 🥺 Well done for really taking care of your physical and mental health right after the traumatic event happened. You’re showing a very good example! Also, you were gorgeous in this video 🤍

[@cariannpoettcker6951]

“Inhale love, exhale surrender” you too are worthy and you too are loved niomi.

[@amillionangels]

i feel like this has been a video where you've shown us your soul truly, thank you for sharing and being so open. sending love :)

[@1980sbk]

As a Muslim we believe that whatever is meant for you will never miss you and whatever isn’t for you will never find you no matter what. And if god takes anything away from you than he will replace it with something 10 times better than what you’ve lost tht wasn’t good for you in the first place ❤️

[@lupsy54]

🙏🏼

[@fizzybizzy3790]

"If something is meant for you, it will be yours even if it is between two mountains. If something is not meant for you, it will not be yours, even if it is between your two lips."

[@madalenasimoes9428]

1980sbk how beautiful ❤️

[@fizzybizzy3790]

@Sophie Hart This is such an ignorant comment. Firstly, arranged marriages are a cultural practice, and not religious. Secondly, arranged marriages are not forced marriages. They literally refer to a situation where someone suggests that someone might be a good match for you and then you go and find out if they are. People set people up all the time.

[@jessicalemke4571]

@Sophie Hart there are NO arranged marriages only forced marriages and those are happening in every single religion. You’re incredibly ignorant. We call that a nazi over here btw

[@BethanyHewitt]

Literally one of the most honest, raw videos I’ve ever watched. Just absolutely can relate and adore her for sharing!

[@TheHoolibird]

This video is literally like talking to a friend. I love the honesty and rawness of it, my favourite kind of videos are the unplanned ones

[@tas64]

I think it's pretty clear she's not going to say why the relationship ended and we should stop asking her. It's none of our business and its rude.

[@TheStephShorty]

Exactly!! I’ve Seen so many people asking what happened. It doesn’t matter and isn’t our business!!

[@MsKTMvalley]

She also mentioned she thought she would never discuss the breakup but she has because she thinks it could help other people. It’s not black and white...! I do agree that asking too many times is rude tho yes

[@curly23lash77]

What was the video that she announced the breakup pls? I’m new here

[@constancewright1404]

I agree! Just because she’s online with a public channel doesn’t mean anyone who views her is owed more information. Every one of those people should have some dignity and allow her privacy. I’m personally glad so many people like you are staunchly protective of her and voicing this.

[@cuca_]

But I’m soooo interested to know, it’s natural for the brain to want to piece together why on Earth things that seem solid end

[@rachelnoemi8853]

honestly naomi videos like this, they do help so much

[@thetravelhaeck]

I don’t think there is a worse feeling than feeling like the rug was pulled from under you.. I admire your courage and positivity! May we all find the strength to trust again. xo

[@tillycotton4552]

You are incredible Niomi. You have no idea how many people you’ve helped. Sending you lots of love x

[@roukayanujj6970]

Dear Niomi, Everything happens for a reason. Like you said if he were your person, this wouldn’t be happening. It will take time but you’ll get there. Lots of love

[@mkbk9168]

Well said,yes you will get there

[@ilovebelts]

This is so difficult but so beautiful to find others who share the same pain and instead of convincing us that everything is OK, it's so empowering to feel uncertain about future and admit the weaknesses so everybody sees it's OK to struggle. we all are human. We all feel and we all hurt. Thank you for sharing.

[@ljfenners3887]

So beautifully said, “it’s like a physical pain”. I’m glad you are happy Niomi, it’s a journey! ♥️

[@katesquirt]

You are such a light in this world, Niomi! We’re all here supporting you and cheering you on. Can’t wait to see what 2021 has in store for us 💫

[@namitalouis]

You are incredible. I know what you mean when you describe the physical pain you felt as I have felt the same. Sending lots of love and healing your way. x

[@as7798]

Thank you for being so open. Sending so much love and healing Niomi x

[@jemimathomas5035]

You’re incredible. This video is just a testament to how strong you are and is a gift to so many ❤️ I truly wish you all the happiness in the world, Niomi 💫

[@janebiles3985]

This was so comforting thank you. Hearing that you’re going through the same thing hearing that it’ll get easier some day 💞

[@livlivhamilton227]

Your sense of perspective after such a short period of time is really inspiring!

[@SuperMarkizas]

You're a great person and deserve the best, as Sinatra sang "the best is yet to come"!

[@Akta]

It's amazing that you prioritised self-love and self-healing to get through this. It's also so rare for influencers etc to be this open and honest to help others, so thank you for sharing

[@sallyabedal-aal]

i'm actually happy for your recovery, the days will get better, you are such a pure and delicate soul, that was just tough lesson sent your way to toughen up a little from the inside. everything happens to prepare you for what's next.

[@Theapeaa]

Gosh, I can’t tell you how much I needed to hear this. Thank you ❤️

[@ILILaWerita]

I’ve had the exact same thoughts after my traumatic break up...it took me 1 year to actually heal and let go and stop living in denial! So, I think you’re doing pretty good actually :) xxxxx

[@daryanen]

I honestly didn’t know how much I needed to hear this, Niomi. In the beginning of the year I went through such a traumatic experience and it wasn’t until last month that I realize that it was a trauma what I’ve been struggling with all year on top of the pandemic. Hearing you talk about the different ways you’ve taken care of yourself made me realize that I should do that more often. I haven’t been as selfish as I should be and you helped me realize that I should put myself first in order to fully heal from this. Thank you for this and for not making me feel alone. 🤍

[@BrunaLordelloC]

It’s the first time im leaving a comment despite being a subscriber for years. I felt so touched by this video and I am sorry that you have experience a traumatic breakup but also glad you found your path towards healing. You are blossoming again. Take your time. You are special ❤️

[@AnnaSymons]

What an amazingly powerful video Niomi !!! The way you have handled yourself through all of this is incredible, and i know for a fact you will be helping so many people who are experiencing similar !! You are amazing xxx

[@skygreen6878]

I’m so grateful for this video, thank you so much for helping myself and many others through sharing your experiences. We love you Niomi! 💜

[@ZoW5]

My god, I have never related to a video so much in my life. Needed this 2 years ago but still amazing to watch 💖

[@thebaguettegirl]

Sending love from the bottom of my heart. You're strong and beautiful Niomi!

[@adelaklegova2089]

Thank you for being so open. I loved hearing your words, you're such an inspirational woman! Xx

[@rachelnicole2296]

Hi Niomi! I never leave comments on videos, but I've watched you for years. This video is amazing, and I am sure it will help so many people. Thank you for being so open and honest about something really painful. I cannot wait to see all the amazing things that come your way

[@ruhanamarijuana6449]

Niomi, you’re so strong and brave to have gone through all this, especially sharing your personal feelings online is not an easy task but just know you’ve helped a lot of us but just talking about it the way you did, thank you and I hope you get better days❤️

[@sosodroll6443]

I´m in tears watching the end, because you found the words I couldn´t find. Very grateful for you opening up Niaomi!

[@discohippie1447]

Thank you for opening about your experience in a way where you can give advice but still keep the intimate details to yourself. It is going to help so many people go through their emotional healing journey. Sending you so much love.

[@mandyjohal1193]

To have such honesty and vulnerability in a video is incredible and I’m sure you will help so many people with this. I wish you only great things to come.

[@amysmith761]

One of the most relatable, and important videos I have ever seen. Heartbreaking all over again but so strong. Thank you Niomi X

[@peytonballard1284]

I think that you're so brave. Congratulations on taking horrendous event and turning it into a positive, turning point in your life. I'm excited to see what you do next.

[@carolinef3853]

Genuinely one of the most helpful things I’ve ever watched. Thank you💞

[@madaimartinez7409]

This was really helpful Naomi, I’m sorry you had to go through that, I hope you heal in good time❤️

[@fiona1170]

Niomi, I'm getting so emotional because right as you posted this, my relationship of almost three years ended. Literally the same day, and I know you obviously would have absolutely no idea (lol) but I just want to say from the bottom of my heart thank you so much. Thank you so much for being so honest, insightful, and helpful. You made this video at a point in my life when I truly need it and even if you don't see this comment I just want to say for myself and others, thank you so much for sharing things like this with us. It makes us, me especially, feel so much less alone and also gives us guidance when we feel lost. I am so happy that you're in such a happier place now :)

[@tessabrugge4758]

Awe my dear Niomi, you are so brave, you made me shed tears. Well done in doing this very difficult video, it is without a doubt going to help many people in the future.

[@emilyshaw6914]

Thank you for being so so brave in sharing something so personal with the world. You have no idea how much your words are helping others ❤️

[@gracemac3031]

I can’t tell you how much I needed to hear this Niomi. Thank you for being so honest and open about your experience. Wishing you nothing but happiness for your future 🧡✨

[@o0pusteblume0o]

Thank you for this honest and raw video. I cannot imagine what it must have felt like to open up in front of all of us. Therefore, as a viewer who has been around since you started I really cried with you and felt like giving you a big hug. I really admire you and believe something beautiful is coming for you. Stay happy, you are loved Niomi 💕

[@sharrlizz]

This felt just like taking a walk with a friend ❤️

[@marianagonzalezaguil]

I went through a traumatic breakup last year, I can totally relate about everything you said in this video, the excruciating pain is real and for some weaks or even months, life can feel so horrible. But but I can say is that with time and a lot of self love, you can get trough anything, but you have to believe in yourself and believe in the process to heal. Thank you so much Naomi for this video, you are a true inspiration to all of us.

[@sonalchauhan4533]

Thank you so so much for being honest and vulnerable in sharing your story. Strengthens my hope and patience in my healing journey. Proud of you, Niomi! Lots of love❤️

[@sophiecanton]

Having gone through something very similar in exactly the same part of the year but a year before you, I genuinely didn’t want this video to end and I know that my past self would of really appreciated and needed this video so thank you for putting your more vulnerable side out there for people who need it❤️

[@parkjnine]

This was my favorite video from you: raw, authentic, and relatable. Thank you for sharing.

[@meganconley2224]

This had me sobbing. I think we have all been here and it brings us back. This is a beautiful and honest video. May you find strength during this time.

[@2marelle]

Your honesty and raw emotion mean everything. Thank you for so bravely baring your private heartache. It has helped me immeasurably. With gratitude and love!

[@cassandruhhh]

I don’t even know what to say other than my heart feels broken for you and we are all here to support you during this difficult time. You are handling it the best anyone possible could. You are an inspiration ❤️

[@sloanemyrick9611]

So proud of you for being so vulnerable to help others. This is why I keep coming back to your videos week after week. I just like people who keep it real. We need more of this in the world.

[@TheIlinca89]

As someone who went through a tough break-up, I appreciate so much that you decided to share this. I recognized so many feelings that I also experienced from a few years ago when that happened, including physical pain and many sleepless nights when I was fearing having to go to sleep knowing how long the nights were, the nightmares that I might have and having to go to work and tough up through all of that. But I am so happy to see you excited for the future because it does get better and there is so much to be excited about! I learned so much about myself during that time, that I would not exchange the experience for anything else. I became so confident in letting go and trusting the universe, and it feels so good to be yourself and find people that appreciate you for what you are and not trying to be the perfect version of what they think they want. Sending you sooooooo much love! xx

[@kristelkaing1400]

You really are an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your experience! Sending love from Estonia!

[@tanya081000]

You are incredible 😭 This is so brave, raw and real! Wishing you all the happiness in the future! You deserve the world ❤️

[@Ariee077]

Got so emotional watching this !! 🥺 Niomi, I'm so sorry you've been through this, you're so brave for sharing this personal experience with us. You seem to be so much happier now, and and I'm sure your video will help people going thru a tough time as well. Sending you lots of love and take care ❤️

[@theresa8410]

Dankeschön. The sun will shine, with every day, a little longer and brighter. For you. ☀️

[@sofian6011]

I am lost for words. Thank you for this video. Genuinely.

[@zahrine1991]

I have recently gone through a break up and I honestly have to say, watching how you've been focusing on yourself has really helped me think about self healing and looking after myself, and it's helped me get over my breakup. You are absolutely right about being on the wrong path. It's time for a new adventure. Thank you so much x

[@sherryboyd3480]

Such wisdom from such a young person. I too this year went through something similar. Now almost the end of the year, I’ve gained so much more. Healed many family relationships, grieved losses, got healthy, and feel so much better. Through these tough times, we learn so much. So proud of you and you ability to share your pain. It has already helped many!

[@dotsg3420]

You are so genuine and real, I love these videos so much ❤️ they have helped me so much! I feel like we’re friends getting through things together. Sending hugs and lots of love xx

[@kirstenmaclellan3182]

love you & your authenticity. Excited to watch your next journey & chapter!

[@Madss976]

You're such a strong woman.. especially for coming on here and talking about this to help other people when its SO fresh and new. Very proud of you!

[@alinaflorinasavu2130]

this walk was like a hug to yourself and anyone who has been going through something similar, Niomi. Your heart is truly healing, while also feeling everything. First time commenting, but I wanted to write how meaningful this video was

[@marian3192]

Thank you for being so vulnerable and open! Sending you so much love, you are incredible :)

[@nehfw2401]

Thank you for this honest, vulnerable video! I recently have broken up with my partner and took inspiration to your previous video and now this one. It really makes you appreciate your support network so much xxx

[@jezeldjones]

This is the kindest, most peaceful and insightful video I have ever watched. Your humility and self-reflection are sobering.

[@melissaf3018]

I've been through this same pain with a breakup almost 2 year ago now and its so true, that i wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy either. I wish i never had to have experience that pain but i cant believe how strong i am now to get on the other side of it. I still get waves of uncomfortable thoughts even now and i definitely will take your advice to keep journaling! Everything you're saying, the needing podcasts and herbal remedies to sleep is exactly me as well. Especially with lockdown many people are now having to sit with these traumas right at the surface instead of burying it with our non-stop, busy pre-covid lives. Some men are just absolutely selfish and cruel and you are such a beautiful woman I wish you a warm future full of happiness. Thank you so much for speaking about this and making me feel less alone in theses circumstances

[@ErinRundio]

This is probably one of your best videos I have ever watched. I can feel your warmth, sadness, hope. Your wisdom is going to provide hope to all those who watch. So much love to you!