I wish there was a way for other women to learn to see their own value! Dominika is right about walking away. Those women are just sticking with jerks because it is easier, but also because a lot of women have never learned about what healthy relationships are! By the way, Dominika, I really believe that you are finding a very good thing. I would like to encourage you to continue. That's just me. But thank you!
@DominikaJankowski Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words ☺️
@xjapan3 Жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@Gregory72818Ай бұрын
Great video, but I would like to share some criticism. I find it a bit naive to think that someone can simply be "convinced" to stop being affectionate with someone who neglects them, since recognizing a feeling as harmful does not mean it will automatically cease. To cite an example from classical literature, Masha from Chekhov's "The Seagull" constantly talks about how she wants to stop loving Treplev, but her words bear little fruit. A person is hardly the master of his desires (more often he is their servant), but recognizing them as problematic can certainly be the first step towards a solution. However, there is one thing to remember: often insights gained After are useless Before, since the mental states Before and After are radically different. Such belated considerations are the result of rationalizing what has already happened, which requires some healthy detachment in the first place. Nevertheless, I find your video very relevant, even as a man (unrequited love sucks regardless of gender). I was in a similar situation and found the only way out: to distance myself from any contact with *her*. Otherwise, the obsessive hope would not leave me, triggered by every passing glance, every overheard word, every message sent or received. I understand that this will not work for everyone due to employment, school or community circumstances, and I find this very tragic. Worse, even if the object of your unwanted passion turns out to be kind (as was my case), it will cause you even more pain through illusory hope. Likewise, being physically intimate with someone who denies you emotional intimacy is far more painful than not being intimate at all. Thank you for this video, and most importantly for your sincerity; it was relevant and thought-provoking.
@betheey3248 Жыл бұрын
Your too good looking to have some guy treat you like shit! These guys out here are alright, but they’re not all THAT! So remember every man is replaceable within a heart beat 😁 this applies to all women! ❤