Ending My Toxic Relationship Changed My Life

[@555fh]

Sometimes god puts us in uncomfortable positions so we can be aligned to where he wants us to be.

[@jamaicangirl1-r4f]

im here!!! first!! because its the same for me. My toxic relationship changed my life!! it was what drew me closer to God!! never regret it!

[@danidee9225]

I WAS settling!!! Thank God I ended it!!!

[@KevinGDividend]

I ended my toxic relationship 4 weeks ago, but it's really hard for me because I truly love her, yet she doesn't care. she claims she does but she doesn't prove it. I pray and pray but it still hurts. thank God I was suggested this video

[@kayelove7823]

While watching this.... I actually just ended my toxic relationship.... I feel like a weight is lifted... I want what God wants for my life ... and I'm ready to get back on track with my relationship with him. God bless you for this ❤

[@eliwrenn7349]

Amen

[@SoulStyleBeauty]

You have me screaming "YES" & "AMEN" LOL! I went through a similar situation. Even when we didn't know god, he knew us. He is so faithful. Thank you for sharing.

[@KLee-hm6fn]

+Soneta For speaking amazing truth Soneta please view toclisaiah50.blogspot.com/?m=1 for more truth please & share

[@asadsoul7940]

never let a man be you"re god. next time i"ll put my highest good, gods divine plan as my highest priority. feel l am close to meeting a good man, need to clean myself spirituality first. completely clean out my EX's ENERGY from my body and soul.

[@liscialapelle]

so i recently just got out of a 5 year toxic relationship and had a moment today where my emotions got the best of me and i was beginning to have doubts. But God allowed me to stumble upon this video today and it brought tears to my eyes because it was like you were speaking to my soul. I will "trust the process" thank you for sharing your story God bless !

[@mj42910]

Thank you for sharing this Ashley! I'm currently growing through this...after year, he said "we don't have anything in common." He ignored every phone call thereafter which means no true closure was truly had but actions speak louder than words. It's most certainly been uncomfortable but I'm enjoying this rebirth in a peculiar kind of way!!

[@jsnow07grad]

My sister, it takes courage to be transparent. May God bless you for walking in truth even if doesn't feel good. I too can relate to this on so many levels. There will be some hard times, continue to trust that things will work out for your good, it surely will and it will be the best to ever come. Remember that being whole is important, embrace the season of singleness..enjoy it...do somethings you never have..love it..and learn more about you. Keep that prayer up with God for a future spouse and that he to is whole. Remember that you ROCK flaws and all and don't you let the devil stir your thoughts up to think that you are less than..we no that is his job to do so..but God said he will never leave you or forsake you..trust that Promise! Much Love.

[@lovelychick84]

You're more precious than being in a relationship where you are not feeling valued. You are worth more than that. You are meant to be loved and cared for just as the Lord cares so much for you. I pray you have an awesome and blessed year. :-)

[@prettycaramel9237]

Mykesha Been there. I waited for him for 1.5 years girl, recently just gave it AALLLLLL to God. I feel so free and in love with God. All things, ALL things are working together for your good love.

[@faynifiction6325]

This spoke to me so much, this is such a blessing. As much as you were talking a about toxic relationships this really spoke to me about trusting the process and that you can't put God in a box. It is clearer to me now that it's takes so much more than a few hiccups to miss the will of God and simply leaning into him he leads you. Love this ❤️

[@pjsandcocoa]

I just love you. my story is so similar, and I stay with mine because I cant seem to handle the sadness that you have to go through when you start the grieving process. so powerful and has me thinking...

[@shariceboykin9951]

Thank you for sharing your testimony. God will blow our minds with his extraordinary favor. Our comeback is always greater than our setback💙

[@babydoll2166]

I love it! I love how you said there are some moments you have to straight up grow through. Sometimes we as christians think because we're God's children we aren't going to have to grow through anything. The reaping season is just as important as the harvest!

[@Tammy-SophisticatedGlamGurls]

Thank you God for leading me here. I finally mustard up my great old faith to move forward and get out of this toxic relationship I'm currently in. I am now manifesting a Godly Spouse who is committed, loyal, loving and respectful. I am moving back to Atlanta where I am most happy and productive. I have gained my confidence back and ready to move on. I don't know exactly where I will be living just yet, but I will find a nice home when I get there. I have to start all over and I am hyped about it. New beginnings GOD First in All things in my life now. Thank you again you truly inspired me to move

[@Jasmyne444]

I'm so excited for the class! I ended a toxic relationship 2 years ago and Im ready to find God's best :)

[@cherrell_007]

Ashley! You have no idea how on time this message is! Literally just wrecked me! You are a blessing my dear-so excited for the webinar! Thank you!

[@sxmmisxsa3345]

My toxic relationship that lasted 2 years ended about a week ago. As much as I don't want to let go because I love him and I have faith I need to. I cannot overpower the man upstairs. What he wants for me will happen. I could admit myself that I am in a huge depression, but listening to your story I have hope that god will wake me up one day with the strength to not care anymore and move forward.

[@joanmk7222]

Thank you so much for this. I let go of a toxic relationship yesterday that I was resisting to let go of. I feel so free and can't wait to see what God has for me. I'm so ready ❤❤

[@OhhNaturel]

It is funny how similar your experience is to mine. I had the toxic relationship & environment, the final decision to move to Texas came from getting a "random" call from a recruiter, a miserable job to one that is a blessing! Now I just need the Divine husband! Thank you for sharing your story it has blessed me so much!

[@MrsBreonnaBaker]

I was so low today and seeing your videos gave me HOPE!! I am in expectation!!!!

[@VanessaNosolini200886]

Thank you so much for this Ashley! I can so relate to your story, I’m going through a terrible breakup right now, I thought he was the one but God revealed to me that he wasn’t and showed me all the signs and red flags. Listening to your video really gives me hope for a better tomorrow and the certainty that I did the right thing. God bless your ministry, you are blessing lives!💞💞💞

[@detectivehawk4976]

Was in a toxic relationship of and on for almost a year. It's been over a month since the breakup and I'm still very much hurt and broken but it's gotten a lot better . A few days after I broke up with my ex, I got two calls for jobs that are starting my career and am preparing for a move within a year or so. Do not be weary in well doing for in due season you will reap, if you faint not!

[@cammilove358]

I really needed this, as much has I tried to ignore the suggestion, I'm glad I clicked on it.

[@AlanaBTV]

Thank you so much for sharing!!! I am really uncomfortable with my situation right now and I'm praying for God to help get through it.

[@SungJongiesMine]

This had me laughing at how similar my situation is right now it’s unbelievable that God works like this!! God made me SO uncomfortable in my job so I quit with no job lined up, a couple days later got an interview that went AMAZING as an assistant teacher at a preschool. My only experience with kids was through church and a missions trip I went on, and the interviewer literally said “that’s awesome! I started my experience through church and went on a missions trip too!” Literally the day after the interview they called me to offer me the job, and a few hours after that God ended my toxic relationship of three years that had been holding me back and not bringing me joy. All this is happening so fast and it’s only been a few days now, I start my job on Monday, and I am really sad about the breakup but at the same time I’m so excited to see what God has planned for me. All this happened because I’ve been praying diligently for God to direct my path and let his will take over my life because I’m done trying to do it on my own!!

[@shaniecegullison]

Hey 4 years later how’s life?

[@yolandarenee223]

Yes amen I too left a toxic relationship also 8 months ago but they are still trying anything n everything to tell me they have changed smh I have met someone new n it totally changed my life for the better n awesomeness it even brought me closer to GOD again n showed me how to be treated as a Queen he is very inspiring encouraging n loving also told me to remove all negative in my life I believe he is my soulmate we just are taking things a little at a time thank you for sharing your story 🙌🏽💯😘💑

[@TheRansomHouse]

This gives me hope. I have gotten myself in a mess and I come to your channel for comfort at times. After hearing I'm not affectionate or that I don't have enough communication... it's truly over... I've given him 4 children (yes I know shame on me) but I still have hope that we can be a family despite my physical circumstances. Accepting this has been hard and has caused major depression

[@luciac.6650]

Yesssss!! It's happened to me ! I got hired by a company that I applied to in September 2014 and was called by the owner on February 2016 ( after going through a reallyyyy hard time ) that led me ULTIMATELY where I am today ; working for the kingdom with professional athletes and their families. Btw, where did you get your shirt ? I LOVE it !! Please let me know Ashley ! Thank you ! Registering for the free class

[@LivingBoldlyWithUyi]

Yessssssssssssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!! Ashley!!! Thank you so much for your transparency!!!!!!!!!!! When you talked about God putting you in uncomfortable situations so he can align you to where you need to be! I swear that is where I'm at right now in my life!! Your channel is just a blessing to my life! Thank you!

[@vovoschannel4456]

We all go through a hard relationship!! But to God be the glory for seeing us through it!

[@555fh]

we have to love yourself completely before loving others

[@2legit2Kwit]

Beautiful testimony. The doors closed and the windows FLEW open.

[@Bhadt]

Idk why I felt like this was god speaking to me through you I’m almost in tears

[@joycewatt800]

Good thing you didn’t stay girl. Only God can heal a broken heart when given all the pieces. God knows best! I ended a toxic relationship took a travel nurse assignment in California where I was able to detox work on myself and grow closer to God. I came back home and met my husband. I truly believe God will move Heaven and earth to make sure you are aligned to meet who He has for you but...we have to detach ourselves from the bad to be available for the BEST!

[@lifefaithlove8708]

I haven’t been through a toxic relationship, but I have been through tough times where you’re confused on what God is doing. I agree it’s so important to trust the process and have faith that God knows what he’s doing!

[@GuerlyneBel]

God is amazing.. i agree with you trusting the process and having faith will take you so far in life.. wonderful testimony and happy ending may God continue to bless you...

[@Imaslife]

Amen!!!! Beautiful testimony. Thank you. I've been in a similar situation and it's womderful to hear this. ❤❤

[@KLee-hm6fn]

toclisaiah50.blogspot.com/?m=1for a testimony & writings of truth

[@priscillabrown5306]

Im in a toxic relationship an need to end it for real but dnt kno how to afraid im goin to be alone so ime dealing with it. Im tired and emotionally, mentally and physically dreain and alway stress and depress and loosen weight like crazy.

[@vondae00]

Watch angel speaks videos... Her videos are helping me now

[@oskarkarrera]

Priscilla Brown Take it as a blessing a rapid weight loss reduction for free just a little sacrifice is all

[@lionelluva]

I need to end my toxic "relationship" (seeing a guy now). I'm totally settling.

[@sassarific]

Alexandra Griffiths God will work it out. I had been in a toxic relationship for over a yr & God just blessed me where the guy broke up with me. God knew the guy wasn't right & I was too weak. God will fix it for you. Pray.

[@joanmk7222]

Alexandra Griffiths I just prayed and God did it for me the same way he ended it yesterday and I was celebrating. Prayer changes things.

[@itsbritt9155]

Alexandra Griffiths itd better to end it now instead of letting weeks go to months and months go to years. It has happened to me...knew i was settling from the beginning like you but when i blinked eye it turned into a 3 year relationship where i was baffaled at how i stayed for too long.

[@itsbritt9155]

Alexandra Griffiths itd better to end it now instead of letting weeks go to months and months go to years. It has happened to me...knew i was settling from the beginning like you but when i blinked eye it turned into a 3 year relationship where i was baffaled at how i stayed for too long.

[@joanmk7222]

Hun I just decided to choose God. Would God approve? Don't block your blessings he has better for you but you can't have it while holding on to the wrong xx

[@sikab.9407]

Great testimony, beautiful transparency!

[@sarahgracelipe3751]

I’m ending a toxic relationship with the man I love to focus on God and this is the video I needed.

[@jessicamurillo5178]

I love the Lord

[@samanthabent5459]

I just want to let you know how much this video blessed me. Wow. I got out of a really toxic relationship about a year ago, and I am learning to simply trust God and to trust in His process. Perspective is usually gained when we look back and reflect, and your reflection of the series of events in your life is confirmation that I am in the right place in my walk. Thank you, sister and God bless you and your beautiful family :)

[@greenbenjimin337]

I'm touched by this testimony! I can relate to this story.

[@leandra5248]

Ashley, Thank you so much for sharing your story . It warms my heart and gives me hope and encouragement that God has purpose and a plan through the pain or heartbreaks of life.

[@kingvic_]

Man this really spoke to me and ima guy lol thanks for this

[@ladyshorty6989]

MYYYYYY GOD!!! THANKS FOR SHARING. DEFINITELY RELATABLE. GOD BLESS YOU W.O.G.

[@luckylucky3770]

First 2 minutes in and I'm screaming yes and crying!!! Thank you for this! YOU BETTER SPEAK ON IT!!!! 🗣🔊

[@HealthyKyla]

Right on time!! You are speaking the truth Ashely!

[@dawnclarke8482]

Based on your story you wanted to stay in that toxic relationship and it sounds like your boyfriend wanted to get out because he did not call you as you hoped. You sounded as though you were very distraught about the breakup. I love your story because it sends a message that we need to get closer to God. God is in charge and he took you out of that relationship because you could not do it by yourself. God is good and he loves his children. Blessings!!

[@kristina2801]

Thank you so much for sharing this!!! I'm in a place where I'm uncomfortable and feeling there is something greater out there for me, appreciate you and your story.

[@jamilacurry3559]

I'm currently going through this right now. Trying to keep my faith up and believe that I can move on from this.

[@QueenCJ]

Thank you Ashley just in time.

[@blackberry661]

God led me to your channel. I really needed to hear this message. Your story is very similar to my current situation. I've ended a toxic relationship, believing and trusting God deep down in my soul He has someone better for me. I was very miserable at my Fortune 500 Corporate job therefore I quit also. Now, I am in the process of a career move/relocation by faith. I am asking God to open the door to that great opportunity He has for me. No matter where it is located I will be obedient and go. You are an example of what God can do once you surrender everthing unto him. Thanks again and God bless.

[@prettyalina7237]

Please pray for me, it wasn't a relationship but he played with my min(was a narcissistic friend) .I fell in love and he broke my heart countless of times where now it's been almost year since they blocked me out of their life & it still hurts. I was there for them but they weren't there when I needed them most. They cut me off. I see the blessing in deguise but the pain in my heart got to go. I'm traumatized by what they did to me.

[@GodskidUr1]

you encourage me. I'm in a unhappy relationship right now. he hides me and talks down to me and bread up with me all the time. I want to leave but have no where to go .. Praying for God to open doors for me .

[@ashramderenoncourt1265]

Amen! God is so faithful!

[@teresahen]

Yes, I feel down the two of them. They post vacation photos he got married behind my back without me so today I blocked him on every thing he very toxic for me However there is no rest for the wicked.

[@MissRhane]

Came back to this video because I needed it much more this time around ..

[@amiyamarks4271]

I'm in a toxic marriage now he calls me names and talks down to me. I have two kid's by him and he doesn't spend anytime with them or me. He has cheated before and I have left but I ended up coming back. I need to leave and get enough guts to leave and never come back.

[@MissGreenEyes]

Amiya Marks DO IT!!!!! I'm in the same situation - leaving for good on Thursday! I'm scared, but I know this marriage is destroying me. You can do it, I promise! If he's not spending time with you or the kids, you seem like you are handling parenting and the house chores by yourself, so don't allow the excuse of staying for the kids or being alone keep you there. I've stayed far too long for those reasons.

[@Jarhjo]

heyy. did you leave? i hope you did!

[@neishawiley6672]

Girlfriend!!!! I'm so glad I came across this video! This was amazing and inspiring!!!! Thank you!!!

[@kirtanareddy7136]

I feel so good for the first time in the long time!! I ended my relation with a toxic friend!!!

[@MissRhane]

It’s so much power in moving on

[@NtokozoBee]

Ashely Empowers, I am empowered.

[@raeana2034]

I’ve recently ended a awful relationship I’m 17 years old & have been with him almost 2 years I noticed it the first time he put hands on me but there was drugs involved at the time with both of us so I made excuses and said it was the drugs I started to push him away and felt so scared to open up to someone who made me question every aspect of myself , my worth, it got to the point where I hated him and I felt it I’d get flashbacks of him hitting me or saying hurtful things not that I didn’t do that myself to him I started to become the toxic one I was raising my hands first to him I was saying hurtful things right off the bat that’s when I knew I had to leave I had started to become what hurt me because of how much I hated him its like I have to put myself together all over again it’s something I never thought I’d go thru

[@EssieBMusic]

Thank you for sharing this Ashley! This is a great reminder for me to keep God as the focus!!!

[@anna-kayedennis7575]

Thank you for sharing Ashley. I just got out of a relationship last year August. I'm currently going through that depression. my heart is absolutely broken. I know the relationship was not for me but I stayed for almost 2years. There was no foundation. It was not Christ centered. I pray each day that God will mend my broken heart. I thought I would be over it by now but I'm not. Everyday my heart aches. Please pray for me.

[@AshleyEmpowers]

Praying for you! Continue to grow through it! It will get better

[@azizacredbyrd498]

So very true. The Creator put me a place of desperation to work again. I started a business that shortly folded to due scandals with my fiance at the time.... now EX-BOYfriend. He asked me not to work. I did. Lived the mini dream of being a house wife lol but I prayed and listened to The Creator one night while sitting on the porch during a thunderstorm. I heard everything that I didnt want to hear. The next day an email came through for a job. I had ZERO professional experience within that industry. I went for it and boyyyyyy did he try to distract during my testings. I had to study for 5 test and it was always some MESS when it came to study. To this day I didnt understand where The Creator was leading but I wasn't doing anything else. Other than playing happy and taking sleeping meds to numb the pain of what life had become while being with him. I look back and give thanks because that offer prompted me to go in overdrive for my soul and life. I dont regret it. I worked day and night to regain my life and confidence although I missed him... I had to do that for me. And I dont PLAY with people nor am I quite about my boundaries. I found the friend within myself and that little girl that needed love. My standards and priorities are so in order. Its going to be a year soon.... I never would have thought Id be in such a place without shame.... TODAY I am with a company that respects my skills, and dedication, and I HAVE CREDENTIALS to move anywhere and or do anything. Ladies it's so not over. And temptations disappears with a FIRM NO!! Thank You Ashley for this movement and sharing your story with us

[@dorothyhenri26]

SolidBlaq Gold Thank you for sharing...im in tears...my heart is touched so deeply.

[@YoYo0204]

Wow, amen, this video is conformation for me. I just went thru a simular situation at the beginning of this year. Now I'm in the process of preparing for a career move 🙌🏾🙏🏽

[@shirleyduval342]

Amazing Testimony! God bless you Ashley, W😮W!!!!

[@mariapicollo7071]

I loved him for 4 years, dated him for one of those years. it was everything i had hoped for in the beginning, but then he stopped caring. just like that. The worst feature about him was that he did NOT know how to communicate. and that wasn't my fault. I knew it was declining and I hated the way I was being treated. It was emotional and psychological abuse. I didn't have the heart to end it because I still had hope, but he ended it. He kept a journal in his own handwriting about everything he didn't like about me, everything that annoyed him. told me I bother him and to get out of his life. All said without EVER not once telling me how he was feeling before and communicating with me. He let it build up. and that wasn't my fault. It hurts a lot and I'm still learning to let go because I know I deserve better because I never gave him anything less than my 100%. I pray that God helps me move on to live my best life without feeling like any of this was my fault, and to help me forgive him and myself so I can let it pass.

[@Tiffany_Channell]

I love to hear the right thing at the right time. Thank you for your inspiration.

[@ciaraznc112]

Thank you very much! I don't know how I found your page or your video but I think it change my life right now. I'm in this depression time. I'm so in love with my best friend I know him for 6 years and we were in a relationship but he broke up "because I believe too much in Christ" I gave Jesus my life 2 years ago. I feel like nobody could hear or help me I became sick and so I lost my job for him And now I'm in a very hard time the guy who I love the most is not in my life anymore I lose my job because I became sick about him I feel like a loser. He lives in my neigboorhood I pray so often that the Lord will take him off my heart.. Thank you for the video

[@kimosarve1]

so I love all your videos but the beginning of this one really cracks me up

[@contemplativegirl21]

I really needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@QUEEN1989E]

Thanks for sharing I'm a bad marriage I hope I met someone who is a good person.

[@pinupgroup]

You're such a strong woman, continue motivating millennials who look up to you :) -Sammie Supreme Channel

[@Nurseaholic]

Thank you for sharing your testimony! I have ended a college relationship & am trying to keep holding on. I needed to hear this!!!! 😚

[@fionamukamba8815]

thank you ashley!!! You are rilly transforming lives my sister.. God bless you

[@pinknotebook]

so good and great! God is faithful!! :) so excited for what's coming in my life also!! : )

[@AngelMercerRealtor]

Ashley this is awesome and your story lines up with mine. God really loves you and He loves all of us!

[@breecorley9369]

wow! This is a great testimony because my heart still hurts for similar reasons.

[@HelloKittyDuh1987]

WOW I STUMBLED ACROSS THIS AT WORK TODAY AND I REALLY NEEDED TO HEAR THIS :(

[@thereal_tammie_baby673]

i needed to hear this. thanks for sharing

[@steph544]

love you ashley!! you are so vulnerable and honest! i need to hear this. God is using you to speak to me and change my lifw. thank you gorgeous. want to cry hehehe

[@luvzouk4life7]

This hit home. Wonderful testimony.

[@DavieneEscourse]

Amen to every point that you've made!

[@aaac3679]

Wow I needed this!!! Praise God!!!

[@carableu]

I love hearing stories about your life! This was an awesome vid...

[@weirdone8784]

giiirrrlll! the end is really the beginning

[@shantaclements5932]

This blessed my life!!! Thank you for sharing

[@malibuRed]

Thank you for sharing this!!! I got chills and was balling so hard 🤧😿🙌🏼😇

[@MistyNights35]

This was in my recommended but I could only watch up to 2:37 because I already see where this is going. If you see someone is not right for you or they like playing around with you and your feelings then drop them. Why sit around whining about it? I'm not saying be heartless you're going to still have a certain attachment to them but bring it back after a min and do you. If I feel like a guy is playing me and bullshitting me it depends on whether I want to play the game with him for a certain time or not because sometimes it can be fun. But when it gets to the point where they are crossing lines and trying to make you look like a fool...drop the nigga without a second thought and do you because he's damn sure doing him. No nigga is worth cying over unless he was a good man to you and loved you and lost his life. Real talk! I dropped a like anyway...lmao!

[@hollywagner3513]

Thank you! thank you! thank you! What a testimony!

[@theycallmeteetee3074]

Preach ‼️

[@heytay5487]

Soon as you said Houston guy, i knew he wasnt gone be shit

[@FavorsMeChelC]

Heytay lol

[@lateshachanel]

Amazing and so inspiring, Ash thank you for this!

[@jrs8776]

Thank you for sharing your testimony. It's a blessing to us your sisters in Jesus Christ.

[@kwow4485]

Amen... Beautiful testimony

[@colleenmarion1128]

Thank you for sharing the reality of relationships... God. We try to make life fit out of the context of spiritual principles and that always fails.