ENFJ and INTP Relationship Insights

Ok, so the thumbnail claim is a bit strong, but yes, psychological Type awareness has been a TREMENDOUS help in better understanding my own and my partner's attitudes and behaviors.
Keep in mind that I'm describing my own relationship; even if you have the same preferences, your experiences will likely be different!
If you'd like to jump around, here are the chapter markers:
01:50 - Communication Insights
03:30 - Conflict Insights
05:56 - Emotional Connection & Trust
08:26 - Mutual Support & Respect
09:09 - Summary
In the video, you'll see excerpts from the ENFJ - INTP Love Profiles Report I've curated. Check out www.dorisfullg... to get your own combo.
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[@JessicaAnhDao]

This is my husband and I. We faces the exact struggles u mentioned early on. We did have to work these out but now we can complement our personalities very well. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@sinisterkitty8411]

This was helpful--especially from the ENFJ's perspective. As an INTP, ENFJs are my favorite type, but I wondered about the long term compatibility. You are very patient--and he is very lucky. Sometimes we need to be pushed out of our comfort zone when it comes to emotions, romance, and being engaged in the relationship (Present it as a learning opportunity!). Otherwise we will become complacent and your needs will not be entirely fulfilled. OTOH, I LOVED the delightfully analytic tone of this video. You should have him make one from his perspective...

[@dorisfullgrabe]

Thank you so much for your kind words ❤ I know at least one other ENFJ-INTP long-term marriage, and have come to believe that, if you can make it through the ego-defenses of your 30s together, Type development will make midlife onwards a little smoother. At least when you’re aware of it and know what to look out for. 😅

[@ElsaBerset]

Loved this video, as an ENFJ I can relate to everything you said. Could you discuss the ENFJ-INTJ pairing please? There are some commonalities for sure but I would be curious to know the strengths and challenges for my relationship :) thank you

[@dorisfullgrabe]

Thank you, glad it resonated! Great suggestion, I’ll put something together and will share next week. ❤ Really appreciate you reaching out. 😊

[@aaheemas]

hi I'm intp (f) and my husband is enfj despite being female I find myself being very stereotypically intp (I'm 31 now, so it's been a while) thanks for the informative video of what you said, I've been noticing a trend in our relationship as well that my husband says a thing/idea, and I'd say wait how, why, what about this, what about that, and then we finally get to the same conclusion, except it took him just his Ni to get there and I'm here with my Ti-Ne how, why, and what ifs 😂 somehow he finds me inpatient when I do that? 🤔 Idk, maybe I should break down cognitive functions to him he isn't into mbti, but I had him take a test, he got enfj, and ever since that I've been trying to observe the functions in him, like I definitely see Ni and Se; the Fe is quite given it seems lately he's been tapping into his Ti because of his studies, and I very much appreciate that 😂

[@dorisfullgrabe]

Thank you so much for commenting! Yay you for having the knowledge and using the Type framework to better understand yourself and your partner. 🤩 Your 30s and 40s are going to be so interesting, growing into your selves together... All the best for you both!

[@team-Masum]

wow

[@dorisfullgrabe]

Thanks!