Enneagram Type 9: Integrating to a 3

[@sassysally2995]

An enneagram 3 friend of mine once told me "You should never just play the supporting role in your life" and she is right, although it is tough for 9s to realize that in the beginning. But I'm gonna play the leading role from now on! 😼💪

[@Wenzes]

💪💪💪😀

[@familytherapycounselingres3771]

Sascha, i love your friend metaphor and image, i always felt i was playing the supporting role or an invisible( to the audience or world) supporting role. It’s like that type 9 “need” to be invisible and hiding in the shadow. I will use your friend image to “take center stage” and “be seen.”

[@IntentionalityMentor]

" Do not just play the supporting role in your life but be seen, take center stage, play the lead charter in your life." This is a mature and healthy integration. INFJ 9w5 or 9w6 currently struggling with living the life I expect of myself, and not the life I precise others expect of me.

[@WackadoodleMalarkey]

Godzilla is not a supporting character and neither are we!

[@YAHOOISNOTG]

This reaffirmed exactly what I was just thinking a few hours earlier I needed to do. I need to stop worrying about making people around me feel uncomfortable by being all that I can be and exerting my energy and presence to allow myself to grow and reach my potential to bring more to the table and therefore being an example so they can also grow.

[@Wenzes]

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[@KM-oj4jk]

Yea, the opportunity to be an example for loved ones of what's good about integration is a big motivator for me.

[@JanaKay]

I relate with this SO much because I am a nine as well. I tend to 'merge' my life with others and become a shell of myself. I love listening to your perspective because it helps me understand myself better. I recently had to cut ties with some people because I had to put myself forward, just like you said. As much as it hurts to lose those people I am so much happier being true to myself.

[@Wenzes]

Really proud you cut them off Jana! It will get easier and easier :) and now I don't merge with people at all unless they are really bringing value to myself and I always make sure that the main push in my life comes from me and not from somebody else :) All the best, Wenzes

[@yungindagreatone]

Great post! I'd like to give my thought as a 9 to help other 9's get a different perspective. As a 9 I looked to have harmony & peace by making sure everything around me was balanced. I've learned that peace & harmony must be within me 1st, in return giving balance to my world around. 9's try to see that we can't give something that we don't have. Have balance internally, to create balance externally. 9's we grow together...

[@8bit_misfit]

It took a year of depression, another year of hard work into integration and navigating what I really wanted in life at the core of me. Setting goals and setting healthy relational boundaries has been key to this. The conflict it’s put me in has been really disturbing at times, but have lead me to a REAL peace beyond the easy “fake” peace I had been experiencing for so many years living in the shadows. For any 9’s listening out there, don’t give up on the process. See it though to as much completion as you can. And if you have them, invite friends in that will support you and in love, help you move forward towards the truest, most life-giving expression of yourself. Thank you for this video. From my perspective it’s dead on and really helped give me clearer language to my own experience.

[@Wenzes]

Thanks for your feedback Adam and glad it was helpful 😊👍

[@mayachuri1246]

I am bringing to intergrate and sometime have such determination to break out of the 9 and other times true fear that stops me what has helped you after the last year not fall back and continue moving forward

[@familytherapycounselingres3771]

Adam, thanks for sharing bro. I hear you took actions. Im waking up that i need to take actions steps to un-hide and be seen, and its okay to fully show my power and gifts with and to the world. How is it going now for you?

[@8bit_misfit]

Maya Churi Maya, my apologies for overlooking your reply so long ago.. in response to your question, setting goals, defining them, (really spending some contemplative time owning what would make achieving the particular desire of my heart a success), and then tying them to a calendar of some sort so that I can stay motivated to complete them. I also use apps that help break down the tasks within the particular goal I’m after to make sure I’ve thought clearly through the finer details of bringing it to full fruition. I still feel the pull of “does it matter anyway?” and thoughts of abandoning my dreams for a less confrontational approach to life, but I’ve at least tasted enough victories within then past couple years to know that it’s worth the fight and that what we (as 9’s) have to offer is much needed and we’re often our own worst enemy. Our stories matter and the contributions of our creativity, reflection, etc are a unique gift the world needs to see and experience. I hope this is helpful to you wherever you are in your journey currently. Live on!

[@8bit_misfit]

Family Therapy Counseling Resources Fortunately it’s going well! It’s been hard work (still is) but it’s been worthwhile work. There’s still always a tension I carry of feeling like it’s selfish to pursue my own dreams because I feel like it comes at the expense of enriching other people’s dreams.. While there is some truth there, I also can not lose who I am in the process of helping others find out who they are if that makes sense. I’ve also found creative ways of expressing myself (songwriting in particular) that satisfy my joys of sharing something uniquely “me” and at the same time knowing that this particular presentation of myself lyrically will connect with and hopefully help and inspire others. Please know that I don’t get this right most of the time, but sometimes I do..and those “sometimes” are propelling me towards a lifestyle that hopefully represents a “most of the time” journey.

[@helenlim7303]

So helpful. The example of you taking your grandma to Thailand then sharing the experience is lovely. Setting an example really is empowering!

[@Wenzes]

Thanks so much Helen! 😊

[@davidthevegan4901]

I appreciate the wise words. As an INFJ 9 myself I can relate and understand how hard it can be to gain that sense of control (almost as though there's a constant fear of biting the hand the feeds you). Currently inspired to develop that mindset myself. Keep speaking your truth.

[@nannatheilgaard9156]

This was exactly the wake up call I needed. I feel like i have been in a rut for 6 months, and i haven't prioritiesed myself enough. I keep loosing the inner argument of why i should put myself first, and now i have realised why; i took myself forgranted, and didn't feel like i was important. It hurts to realise that, but it is nessecary. So thank you so much for this video! keep on fighting

[@familytherapycounselingres3771]

Wenzes, thanks for sharing from your experiences and so beautifully summarizing type 9 integration without sounding like you reading from a 📚 Keep integrating and sharing with us.

[@danooii]

Thank you! I feel less bad now about ditching old friends as I've been integrating. They told me I shouldn't do this and that, and I really grew when I learned to follow my will instead of theirs.

[@setnote3117]

You are such a beautiful woman. That classic feminine beauty, supporting loving, caring. I can relate to what you went through. I am a type 9 with both wings and most of the times I live in other people's realities. It's hard for me to admit this, but I suppose this is a safe environment. The biggest issue for me is fear of conflict and losing "my world", as far as I could tell. What will they say, what if they don't like what I have to say and I end up all alone, feeling scared and there is a high probability I will have to fight these people and I don't quite want that. As a man, it's shameful to fear conflict, or the world, but I can't help myself and this makes me fell even worse about myself. Doing the best I can to get in touch with my instictive center and recognize my own value, to be free of fear and doubts, but by God they are strong. This internal battle is tiresome and annoying. But thanks for the video.

[@schrodingerscat3486]

Hello. I just found your channel today after doing a personality test and stumbled into your channel. I have an advocate personality infj and after watching many of your videos. I dont think ive ever been able to relate to youtubers until i subscribed to you. Please keep up with your channel as it is really helping me with situations I am in at the moment. 💕💕

[@soulkun6091]

I read about personality types, a month ago, and I realized that am a type 9 "not sure about my wing though”. one thing is for sure, it’s as if I were dead and just brought back to life. my first instinct was to share this knowledge with everyone around me “typical 9 “. the avoidance of conflict and fear of separation is defiantly there. However, once I started to integrate and assert myself, I noticed that I have tremendous amount of energy that was otherwise wasted on dwelling in other people realities. Totally relate to every word you shared and am grateful to have come across this video.

[@imaginanalyst3317]

It seems to me that sometimes, 9s will respond to being overwhelmed by becoming outwardly tough, which seems like integration, but which is actually in a deeper way numbing the reality of life being uncontrollable, as a 6 might respond to stress by becoming systematic, orderly, rigid. How should a 9 remain honest about their fragility while also becoming resilient, self-affirming, and more willfully empowered?

[@hopelesshaddy3332]

Thank you for this video; everytime I fall back and disassociate I come back here to remind me I matter

[@trevorvaz7109]

Hey Wenzes, I miss you. I dont know if you are continuing this channel, but I wanted to say that you have helped me so much in my life and I am forever greatful. Good luck in your endravors!

[@Wenzes]

Your feedback is greatly appreciated, let me know what you think... Do not forget to subscribe...;)

[@Wenzes]

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[@adelinas.7335]

I really needed this message right now. Thank you!

[@Wenzes]

Glad it was helpful 😊👍

[@tommywolmart265]

Can you do a video on ENTP 9s? Also, super accurate. I was the most extreme example of a 3 most of my life, high school, college, and first couple of months after, and then my nineness, at least the negative parts have predominated. This put a ton in perspective, sleeping giant syndrome and not having the challenges (or not truly committing to over coming it) and stuff. So dope.

[@Wenzes]

Thank you 😊 I don‘t have any insights on ENTP 9s specifically unfortunately but I have a couple more videos on type 9, at least one...hope they will help you 👍😊

[@kellilee6124]

Thank you for this video. I am working on this integration now - I’m 9w1. I have watched this twice and I’m sure I’ll be coming back to it.

[@Skil3000]

Thank you honey. This is where I am now. The clarification helps.

[@Wenzes]

Glad it was helpful 😊 thanks for your feedback Chris 👍 much appreciated

[@monStanisawczyk]

You're such a great inspiration for me Wenzes, it's so nice watching you grow and develop and it's great hope for me :) Thanks a million!

[@lisafoster3494]

Thank you so much for sharing this!!!! When I watched it I just cried because it so hit me.... You put into words exactly what my life has felt and been like.... recently I started questioning myself... why dont I deserve a life too??? I believed others deserved their happiness their dreams but I didnt give myself that same space.... I started setting some goals for myself and have been making them a priority.... it has been a struggle to stay focused plus I have had to fight alot against feeling selfish for focusing on my own life but this video helped me alot to see yes its time to fight for me and I am on the right track.....fight fight fight!!!!

[@yelenayashchenko6194]

Lisa Foster I too have to fight against feeling selfish. We deserve to follow our passions

[@jenniferhiscox116]

This is dead on. Thanks for these words, I found it when I needed it most. Funny how that works. Working on integration to 3 again after slipping back to 9 because of deep loss. Climbing out of the darkness to fight for the vision of the life I want as a relational coach. Working on self so the light of joy comes out of me.

[@oona1078]

I'm so glad I found this video because how you talk about this topic is so refreshing and empowering! I'm at that point in life when I'm starting to lose people because of who I am in actuality and it's good to know I don't need to retreat back into my shell just because the process feels awful. Thanks for this video, it's given me a lot to think about!

[@Wenzes]

Woohoo! Happy to read that! Yes, keep pushing, it‘s always the right choice to be yourself 😊

[@zenmama365]

Your message is so impactful tbh. I’m also INFJ Enneagram 9

[@marabouille]

Thank you for this inspiring video! I am in a desintegrated phase now (was not always the case, I m in the 9 sloth trap, with fear to be exhausted if I start something) and it is good to hear your experience, it is exactly what I feel inside. I feel this "strength". Your video clarify the direction.

[@user-jb2dd2hd8i]

Thank you so much for sharing this!! I'm aware that this is an older video but I still wanted to share my feedback. As a (most likely) type 9, who's been in a demotivated rut for the longest time, this was inspiring as hell! :)

[@Wenzes]

😊👍 glad to read that 😊

[@amandabrown7674]

I'm enfj 9w1 :3. I might not be infj like her but she explains it good for 9s.

[@Wenzes]

thank you!!! 😊

[@ABeautifulHorizonTV]

This encouraged me. Thank you. 💖

[@Wenzes]

Happy to hear that. Glad that the video helped and thank you so much for your feedback 😊

[@FromTacoma]

Love this video You strike me as a 9w8. Your inner motivations sound so similar! Fight on Sister!

[@aigerimsarsenova4931]

This is what I needed right now. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@Wenzes]

Thank you 😊 !!!

[@truenemesisprime550]

I need to watch this every day until I fight. Thank you.

[@Wenzes]

👍👍👍

[@truenemesisprime550]

@@Wenzes Did you end up making the 2nd part?

[@noopinionslikeswitzerland6966]

I’m gay and I repress the expression of my identity because of wanting to remain peaceful in a family that is inherently homophobic. I’m a 9w1.

[@mirab1488]

I have no words this was so inspiring!

[@deve715]

Hi Wenzes, I've taken many personality tests. For instance, the M/B always identifies me as IN; but varies as TP, TJ, FP, or FJ. However, most of them come up with the result of Mediator, Diplomat, or Peacemaker. So, when the Enneagram tests are showing up with 9 or 6. It seems more reasonable to me that I am a 9. And I would agree that my wing was 8. However, I was not pleased at all to be called a SLOTH. I was made enough to create a mind map - with the image of a Sloth in the center and using the individual letters to provide affirmations, actions I was taking, values and experiences that I believed presented my anger and disagreement. However, as I've listened other 9s on KZbin and in other information sites, I found that I did agree that I have 'fallen asleep to myself'. My mother is suffering with dementia and is disappearing more and more over the last two years. So, I had decided to figure out who I was, what my life purpose was, and what actions I can make to improve our lives while I still have her and can continue to support my existence once I have to face life alone. I didn't know that this was leaning more towards the 3. But I appreciate you speaking about this aspect, because there have been many references to the need for 9's to do this; but you are the first who has actually disclosed that a 9 could do this and thereby encouraged me that my change of life focus is the right thing for me to be doing. [F.Y.I. Since that mind map, I have seen and heard more images, ads and information about SLOTHS than I have in my whole life. LOL]

[@Wenzes]

Sounds like you are on a great path!!! Continue, you will love it!

[@asmaaalhosan3772]

I enjoy videos of you setting down . I couldn’t concentrate that much in the videos you made standing up . love your content . thank you

[@Wenzes]

thank you :)

[@kyamint]

Is there a way to get physical copies of your book? I'm interested in gifting one to an INFJ friend of mine, as well as getting one for myself. :) I'm also an INFJ 9(w1), and your videos have been so inspiring and motivational for me. I appreciate you and your work so much!

[@blakekwamin7400]

This was extremely helpful!!!!

[@dougg1976]

Wenzes, Are you a 9 wing 8 ? It sounds like it because of the fight and the willingness to go and get what you want . Some 8 qualities I see . Also compatible with the Se inferior of the INFJ . Se wants to go and get what he/she wants by fully engaging life .

[@Wenzes]

Yes, I am 9w8 👍

[@oskarfassler4088]

Great video. Thank you for sharing!

[@Wenzes]

Thanks Oskar 😊 much appreciated

[@lucid2184]

Soul Sister we must be twins! This could have been me talking, except that you are more comfortable in your new skin, while I am still getting used to boldly being myself out in the world. And I am an INFJ too. THANK YOU for your beautiful explanation. I have been mistakenly believing I'm a type 4 since I began exploring enneagram about two years ago, until I recently read that the 4 knows what they want, while the 9 gets lost in other people's energy-- ah that's me! I've been exhausted my whole life from exactly what you're explaining here. It's because we're so kind we want to help them. Now instead of the type 1 as my target, I'm looking at what it means to move toward the 3. Your explanation that we should embody Nike's just-do-it attitude is what works for me too, it turns out-- and that's not for everybody. You might also be a Manifestor like I am. We're the only ones who are supposed to just do it by going out and creating it. Google "Human Design free chart."

[@ninal.3969]

I'm a nine and I took my 80 year old grandma to Israel 😂😂🙋‍♀️

[@Wenzes]

👍😊👍

[@andreea-mariafrincu5328]

this was amazing and very true, thank you for sharing 💗 helped me in a time where i felt lost

[@celinaspeakslife]

This is so helpful for me right now. I am a 9 and it’s been so hard lately for me especially when it comes to relationships for me. I’ve been finding it hard to feel like I’m enough or that I’m good enough but then there’s another part of me that feels like you said “I can do this”. I would like to no more on how you handled the transition process but this helped me so much. I feel like I am changing into a 3 but it’s weird because I also feel like I’m failing at life in certain areas, is that normal? If you reply I would love that but even if you don’t please know you’ve helped me so much already. Thank you!

[@TK_Danes]

Im an enfp 9 integrated 3. And your words reminded me what i just watched. MUST listen kzbin.info/www/bejne/l6TSk4ZqarR5gLs Sleeping at last - 3. Listen. If you cry. Id understand.

[@jasimcg.6527]

I’m a 9w8 I have a lot of anger which I don’t like but I am a body builder and love how I look and am proud of my self ‘ it’s my world , my organism and no one can take that from me . I’m proud of my self and my wife to . I think I’m healthy . With out her I’m nothing though . Thanx .

[@Wenzes]

And try to express your anger in a healthy way too...through listening and feeling music for example 👍

[@jasimcg.6527]

Wenzes thank you I can’t emagine doin anything without music . It takes me places , moves me enthralled me and influences how I feeel or depending on how I feel is what I listen to thanx heaps again I will consciously apply your advice

[@Wenzes]

👍👍👍😊

[@angelas4431]

Thanks, this was very helpful! Your videos on how to talk with each mbti type, which is something l've done in the past as well when l was figuring out mbti(perhaps a 9 thing to do). Trying to understand other people's worlds, but never my own (never realized for a very long time what a problem that is). I finally realized its okay to go my own way and become my own person. I understand the anger and sad part of it. Its nice to finally have all that built up anger out my system, but l asked God to help me remove it. Im an infp. So my way is a bit different to yours in getting to the 3, but its interesting to see the differences. I like how you have strong EQ and mental toughness (this is what some people have been telling me, but its nice to see it in another person inorder to understand it better. Im still working out my issues, but lm slowing getting there. Just taking it one step at a time. Not rushing the process.

[@Wenzes]

Sounds like you are on a great path Angela...I wouldn’t rush it either...let your feeling guide you ❤️..and thanks for the feedback 😊

[@xtalking2501]

Thank you, it is so fucking true, and I really feel what you said.

[@calmdowngurl]

wow so good. this has happened to me. huge losses, but for the better. lots of anger.. finally! wow. so cool. i am still in the messy process but i feel like i am seen finally.

[@Wenzes]

glad it was helpful 😃

[@jasimcg.6527]

Yer musics awesome it enthrals me

[@jean-francoisgagnon680]

Merci, vous m'aidez. le résultat est étonnant.

[@MoyaMorrisEnneagram]

Beautifully expressed, I will share on FB. Thank you so much.

[@oscarl.3563]

I'm a 9w1 guy but I don't relate to you very much. Anyways, integration: Everything is Reality. This is how you integrate. It's not about you, nor integration, but putting Reality first. Or head into a natural setting away from people and you'll feel much better.

[@davidgggggggg]

I found out I'm INFJ about a week ago and I'm learning a lot. It's weird how you know me so well. I'm crushing right now..

[@robnewsome2407]

Very interesting, your coming from I'm guessing a INFJ point of view for an eneagram 9, I'm an INFP so how I experiance my 9w1 is very different. Im much more withdrawn and resist getting to close to people, I don't get out there enough and spend to much time in my own head

[@lucid2184]

I have always been planning really amazing and unique parties too! But my husband doesn't like to go anywhere or have people over so I haven't done it. But I'm starting to seriously plan them now, and beginning to make them happen

[@lindateuling7862]

My own "just-like-it-only-different" experience with this sort of thing might be what goes along with being a teacher. I find there are some times I need to be in 9 and other times I need to be a 3 - back and forth several times a day! 😊It's a challenge. Like you, I am also primarily a 9 but I sure do understand why we need to develop the "3" traits as well. Good video. Very practical and down-to-earth.

[@crystalcleara.k.a.missyoko1430]

You put words to what l was thinking 🤔so thank you 🥰👌 am a 9 and a definitely on that trastion state

[@rudayo]

Will you be making more of these videos combining INFJ through the Enneagram? I am very curious about my current state of self-discovery. I recently became aware of the fact that I am both an INFJ and a 6 on the Enneagram. And, I can"t help but feel thunderstruck time and again by how accurately both describe me and my mind, etc. but only separately. I hope you are still continuing with this series because I would like to hear what you have to say about this combination.

[@Wenzes]

Hi Rudayo...I need to do it. So many people are asking me about it. I will complete the series in May and publish the video on wednesdays :) First will be type 2 and after that I will do the 6

[@rudayo]

Thank you

[@Wenzes]

I just did a poll on instagram to see if people also want to see this. So I am thinking of starting a series right now in May, and probably more frequently than once a week

[@kiritik]

Wenzes, I missed you. It is good to see you again. The things you told about were really similar to my experience. Such in a way that I thought you are describing the last two years of my life. First I was a total wallflower. I was too afraid to express myself. I was trying to help every other person to express themselves. I was suppressing every bit of myself. I was afraid to grow and do things. I thought by growing up I would offend other people. Such a sick logic I did have. But after some traumas in my personal life, I felt like there was nowhere else to go. I was like sunk into myself too deep and there was no place else to go deeper. So I made a decision to go up and grow. At first, just like you said there was too much anger. But after a time things get easier. I began to be more successful and assertive and not feeling sorry for it. I can feel that power which I used to suppress myself when I was with others. I am trying to direct this power in a more positive way for myself. Your videos and idea pool really helped me a lot. Recently, I found courage and strength to study for the exams to be an associated professor in my field. I passed the exams. Now future is looking so much brighter. Thank you. Once before, I took the Enneagram test and it said that I was a type 3. I don't know. I am not sure. Maybe I was an unhealthy 3. But now I feel better and I feel more aligned with the purpose of my life. :)

[@Wenzes]

Hi Irmak, glad to hear from you....yeah, you and me I feel, have gone through a lot of things similarly, also in a similar timeframe :) so glad to hear that things are looking brigth for you :)

[@BigManTate7364]

This is awesome 👌 Really needed to hear this right now especially from another 9 who has been through hell in order to reach that place of integration and inner strength. Thank you ❤ Also I was the 555th like. In numerology, which I'm a big fan of, 555 is supposed to represent big positive changes coming. I feel that right now 😌

[@MrFireman164]

Thank you for this I have wondered about being a 9 and integrating into a 3 and what exactly that meant.

[@devonpeters5655]

Thanks for the video...do you have any suggestions for determining if you’re a 4 or a 9 (specifically a 4w5 vs a 9w1)? I took a quick test a while back and got a 9, but I have a friend who is convinced I’m a 4w5. If he wouldn’t have said this I’d be convinced I’m a 9. I actually kind of internally criticized 4’s by saying “what do they actually contribute to the world”, and then I read something that said you’re often “repelled” by your type. I know for sure I’m an infp, border line enfp, but not sure about enneagram. Anyway, I could say a lot more, but I’m just curious what your thoughts are or if you have any experience with this. Thanks!

[@Wenzes]

Hey Devon, I would always look for what happens when the types are unhealthy...so for 9s it's they don't ever wanna get angry...that's how it was with me, I always wanted to have harmony and would neglect myself for it. With 4s it's they never wanna me "normal"...not being unique is super scary for them...because then they feel they are not bringing value...I personally don't believe in the tests so much...and the thing that you said that 4s are not contributing is an enneagram 1 thought...which could mean 9w1 aswell as 4w5 integrating to a 1...so it's hard to tell, just need to watch more examples and see which one resonates more

[@devonpeters5655]

Wenzes thank you so much for taking the time to give such a detailed reply! That’s definitely helpful and I can see that. I appreciate it.

[@Wenzes]

glad I can help :)

[@maggieskip1138]

You're awesome girl!

[@Wenzes]

Thank you Maggie 😀!!!

[@adelinas.7335]

Too much intro talking without saying I can use. 2:42 is when she begins the actual content of the topic. You’re welcome!

[@brianmedium7265]

Excellent video do you have a printable version of your infj book? If so can you shoot me a link?

[@helena6459]

🔥🌬🎈 on the way💃👁👌 #your videos are inspiring for me ... let me experience pure love ... feel real peace ... help me to focus my actions clearly.... let me see how valuable borders are ... and how fulfilling it is to use life energy to realize your own presence

[@Dani-jo9yr]

Thanks in my hubby name 9w8💪💪🙏🙏💓

[@天靈靈地靈靈-l2d]

3 are all evils in workplace. in fact 3 always chase for 9, they love 9.

[@yasminnur7991]

I like what you said about the superiority complex. its kind of a joke but -- how can we not have one when our integration type is 3, aka the achiever ;D

[@dharmabum8549]

Wow this video hurt.

[@jean-francoisgagnon680]

Merci.

[@RandolphTheWhite1]

I don't trust myself to allow that kind of integration. I've allowed myself to let my passion flow through me completely but it became ugly. I was manipulative and kind of evil. I ended up getting charged with assault with a deadly weapon causing bodily harm. I also made other people evil. I took some guy who worked at a movie theater and turned him into a monster. I've done irreparable damage to my community. Maybe you can integrate your anger and your "friends" don't end up in the hospital. That's good for you. I prefer to keep all of that locked up now. Yeah, I do mind numbing routines and I don't make much noise, and people don't really notice me that much in my circle of friends. The bright side is that I can enjoy the simple things in life. People don't live very long anyways. What are you trying to prove? Everything we do will pass. Billions of years passed before we were born and billions will pass after we die. I don't mind feeling insignificant because I am insignificant.

[@minecraftepiccreations4597]

I think im an infj because i used to be cute and that is how i developed do to others reaction to me. Apparently I’m a 1w2. I just got picked on severely, so I became an inwardly perfectionist. I just gave up on the world. Everyone just wants and fights for the free market. I just want everyone to make a fair wage. Sorry but I was raised with two loving parents in an untrustworthy area. But now I live in a retirement area away from so much crime. The only way I can see to help the world is that all the people in a company votes on everyone else’s salary but at least minimum wage and price of goods and/or services and who gets hired or fired. Then the company is forced to split if it gets too big and competes. This would make each responsible for their own income and choice of what goods/services would lead to the protection of the world environment.

[@justbrowsingtheweb7791]

Minecraft Everyone does make a fair wage

[@claireb1334]

Could we be a 2 integrating into a 9? This is how I feel

[@Wenzes]

In the end it‘s all just s system...you can change anyway you like...the only thing I would look at if it makes you happen than you used to be 😊👍

[@Dani-jo9yr]

2 and 9- similar! You need heaps more research! And it’s very interesting too👍🎶🌸

[@eliano6685]