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0:00 Entitled Manager tries to get me fired after I applied for a job he got, but I had had enough, so I got revenge and got him fired instead. (u/watkinobe)
7:10 My friend keeps asking me for money, and I don’t know how to politely tell her that I cant give her any, anymore. (u/PinkPomegranate93)
10:14 Am I the jerk for telling my wife to stop being a pushover, or else I would take away her spending privileges on our join bank account? (u/No-Dirt-6358)
14:21 Am I the Jerk for telling my friend that her baby’s name is ridiculous? (u/NV_ncaged)
16:23 My girlfriend says that I am cherry picking her flaws, and now, after dealing with some back and forth between the two of us, I am seriously considering breaking up with her. (u/kvst4)
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[@christopherdaniel5224]

What is the game that was in the background

[@garcardosotan6172]

They guy did not speak in a toxic manner to his wife. He had to lay down those rules cause she was emotional with their child who they would need the money she was spending on her sister, to raise... He was quite blunt, but did you NOT LISTEN. The sister would invite them to places and then make THEM pay. I don't know how you would say it, but he had few options, i feel.

[@googleandyoutubeadmin]

Story 3: his money is not her money, he earns it, if she wants to spend money then she should spend her own. You can't force someone to share their money with someone else.

[@dylanclay2741]

He's exposed in several videos how much of a simp he really is. We know who wears the pants in his relationship

[@gotenblack2542]

so true dude like the op tied to be nice to the wife about it yet she started a fight am on ops side all the way

[@nunocarvalho6671]

The issue is, the op is right, he tried to go the right way, but the best way for the wife to learn is to take a stand and say enough is enough, i am done paying for a leech, and if you cant understand that i will make sure you understand it the hard way

[@viviennemorgan7217]

you can be mean to the friend by saying no stop that get aggressive with her.

[@holdencampbell9208]

ya he is acting like she is not practicly stealing his money

[@mannyparrilla1807]

"Your money is her money" You lost me sooo hard on that one I actually laughed

[@gtdc4685]

He is a idiot for saying that

[@mannyparrilla1807]

@@DeadAccount_CC1 Ikr! Like I get what he's trying to get at but in this case, it just feels like he's trying soo hard to "appease" women. The Op in the story is trying to be financially responsible for HIS family. But the narrator just went full-on "simp" (I hate that I had to use that term btw)

[@souleater916]

Nah dw in one of my comments i just fully called him fucking stupid cuz lets be honest hes a youtuber with what millions of subs and views he doesnt need to make the choice he could pay for both

[@gtdc4685]

@@mannyparrilla1807 She was being irresponsible with his money

[@mannyparrilla1807]

@gtdc4685 I wouldn't even say 'his' money it's just 'They're' money cause I understand she was on maternity leave and as such relies on Op, but to put EXTRA burden on Op for essentially a leech? And that's what I felt the Narrator just completely ignored or didn't care about

[@sethwatkins5909]

Narrator is such an L and honestly a joke if he thinks that the husband has no right to say that she can't waste his money on her worthless sister😂

[@sethwatkins5909]

And furthermore if he believes that his money is her money then her money is also his money such a stupid logic

[@snackmachines8045]

As a regular here, I can confirm the narrator is sometimes very stupid in deciding who is the jerk...

[@shadow8050]

@@snackmachines8045yes the op in 3rd story is not a jerk the wife and the sister is the jerk

[@princessmarlena1359]

@@snackmachines8045 I agree, he’s losing it

[@Ash21259]

@@snackmachines8045more like mostly

[@AkselJade]

Absolutely wrong about the money thing with the wife. He's absolutely in the right to withhold money as he suggests if the wife is not willing to come to an agreement. The money earned for that relationship is for that relationship. Helping family once in a while is ok, but thinking it's ok to give family the easy street and full access to your finances is only going to end in divorce regardless. Being harsh on the husband for wanting to protect their future is being blind to the situation. There was a better way for him to do it, sure, but he's correct and she and her sister are both more in the wrong for the sister taking advantage of the wife's love for her sister.

[@lisamacon-ramirez8171]

I totally agree, his wife can give away her money, not his, the narrator is wrong

[@craiggerlach5548]

@@lisamacon-ramirez8171 word... wanted to post same thing, like mad at husband for being fiscally responsible and not allowing the wife to drain their accounts. fine to give her own cash, but community cash, nada...

[@H3xx99]

For story 3, While I agree OP was heavy handed in his approach, He shouldn't be the soul provider for his wife's sister who doesn't live with them. If his wife want's to support her, then she can get a job and give her sister her money, instead of the money meant to support their family and child.

[@lisamacon-ramirez8171]

I'm sorry but his money is not her family money, and op is right let them spend her money her ungrateful sister

[@ST4RG1RL-]

Story 3: No, His money isn’t her money. In many households around the world, the husband and wife work separate jobs and make their own money. My parents, for example, have separate incomes, disposable incomes, and even take turns paying rent. So for the OP’s wife’s sister to just come in and take money from the OP is completely ridiculous. The OP is a great husband for getting his point across, but he should have done it less aggressively and angrily, but he has a completely valid point. The wife can go work a job, or find her own way of earning income, which gives her disposable income that she can spend on her sister if she wants. Also, this sister needs to get her @ss up and work. Like, i get it, you have a Neurological condition, but it’s not impossible to find a job and do the work, like the OP said. Talk about it to a manager, see if you can work something out. Her reliance on her sister is embarrassing at this point 🤦‍♀️.

[@user-el2it8gp2b]

Blud his money is not her money 💀

[@Joey15811]

Hashing should be taken away. I'm.with that OP that kid is going to get bullied and that is child abuse. If that sister loves that name so much...she can deadpoll her own name.

[@darkwarriormaster9644]

Story 4: The OP is not in the wrong. “Hashtag” is a horrible name. Tell the parents to just give the kid a normal name. Also, remind the kid a few times throughout their childhood that they can legally change their name when they turn eighteen. And tell the kid that they can get legally emancipated with the help of a lawyer.

[@gotenblack2542]

if am not mistaken someone named their kid facebook i prob am crazy but i thought i heard that ounce

[@darkwarriormaster9644]

@@gotenblack2542 And Michael Jackson named his son Blanket.

[@gotenblack2542]

really i thought that was just a joke in the south park episode

[@darkwarriormaster9644]

@@gotenblack2542 And on Mary Shelley's Frankenhole.

[@georgiafay5170]

​@@darkwarriormaster9644Blanket is a nickname, his actual name is Prince Michael Jackson II.

[@awesomebros711]

Story 3: What? “Your money is her money” not really, if it’s his mine then that’s his money that he earned, he chooses how to spend it. I could’ve sworn that there was another story like this that this guy was narrating and disagreed with. What changed? Edit: To clarify, I see the narrator’s point, though it should be more Everyone instead of OP only at fault

[@gotenblack2542]

youll learn fast this narrator favors girls even if their in the wrong in the story's

[@lisamacon-ramirez8171]

​@@gotenblack2542yeah is totally wrong on what he said about op, his money is not her family money

[@gotenblack2542]

story 3 yet aguin we have the simp narrator the op was trying to be nice trying to tell the wife she cant always do what the sister wants but the wife had to start a fight you cant blame the guy for getting angry like that if you cant be responsible with your money that you dont Devere it

[@assassin216]

100% agree I guess, spending money on the sister is more important than spending money on a child...smh

[@llcoojoe20]

Yea simping really bad. The wife isn't working or contributing to the joint bank account. Husband is just making sure they're financially stable. Imo don't get a joint bank account with your spouse.

[@gotenblack2542]

am glad people see the story for what is it am glad everyone sees my side on it

[@dylanclay2741]

​@@gotenblack2542majority of us ain't simps or betas. If the narrator wants to let his wife take all his money and trample over him that's his choice but to bash all men who don't allow that is absurd

[@marygold2053]

Story3.The wife needs a reality check ✔️. The sister is being treated as if she were a child. It's time to cut the apron strings and let her sister fend for herself. Teach her how to budget and let her be independent. She can't be a child forever.

[@corruptsolstice340]

I’m sorry, I got bullied because my name was slightly different. Hashtag? That’s gonna be relentlessly bullied.

[@dutchvanderbilt9969]

"I can't change!" Yes you can you just refuse to.

[@RaptorClawStudio]

Story 2: he is definitely NTA. my wife even said you saying he’s ta, makes you an idiot. It’s like we heard different stories

[@WillWilsonII]

I went out with someone a couple times and it didn't go anywhere. She started dating someone who let her freeloading ass live with him and, I swear she said this to me "He's not my boyfriend. He doesn't give me any money. Like, he doesn't take me to the casino and give me money to gamble with...." (side note: she became homeless because she gambled her rent money away and expected her friend's boyfriend, who was rich, to pay her back. He had done so before)

[@FasionReid]

No sir this is her sister not his. And HIS MONEY IS HIS, AND HE DOESN'T HAVE RO SPENS HIS Money ON HER.. U LOST ME AND HES NOT THE Jerk

[@Tubb2581]

Story 3: "His money is her money" yes when both people are bringing in money. It's not "Toxic" so you and yours will go without because your wife is giving money way?

[@BROUBoomer]

Story number 2... *Never lend out money you expect to get back. Once it leaves your hand, it's gone forever.* 👵☮️🖖

[@burbxry7143]

Story 3 “your money is her money” so is her money his money. Your losing me here with that one she used all her money up and then started using there joint account to start funding her sister even though her sister has money herself so it’s not like the sister won’t be able to go without a meal your on the woman’s side because she’s a woman but if the rolls where reversed and the man was funding a family member and using there joint accounts you would be on the woman’s side hard. please stop simping

[@delamarhamilton7225]

exactly my bro, exactly. this guy is simping hard. he's basically telling the guy to let her waste the money he worked for, that same money that is there for his child, on an adult who got a job? crazy

[@kirikiri-san5324]

Story 3: Man I usually agree with you,but, ”your money is her money”, seriously? this is one of the most stupid things I have ever heard, you could argue his money is family money, and thats even up to some point,but, her sister is not part of his core family(in fact, for what it looks like she has an income ), so, what he did is understandable , since he is just cutting off access to his income, and what about his daughter? toxic or not, that man has his priorities well defined ,not like his wife.

[@docomega7862]

Joint account means it's also her account that she contributed too when she was working before maternity leave, it's not his money nor her money, it's their money, that's the whole point of a joint account

[@kirikiri-san5324]

​​@@docomega7862 I know what a joint account is . However , from what the OP says, all the money she contributed was already spent, so call it joint account if you want but only the money he earned is left, well , I will leave to your imagination why many people are pissed off .Refer to 12:07 if you like.

[@delamarhamilton7225]

@@kirikiri-san5324 exactly she was spending his money now

[@KC-nx8ol]

I love how for story 2 the narrator advise is to kick the leech to the curb, cause there's no excuse. then story 3 comes along and he swaps to "while i agree, this is a delicate situation you can't just kick the leech to the curb" SMH also for story 4 that is a pretty bad name, but i've heard worse One person I met legal name was Bonequisha and another was Yea Yea.

[@QuickManEXE]

Story 1: It's always bad managers that seem to ruin an entire workplace, and this Bob jerk is a super jerk here. First off, its absolutely none of his business who applied for the position he got beforehand. Second, his arrogance is just crazy. Pretty much strutting around like he owns the place. Im surprised other managers and higher-ups didnt call him out before all this happened. Third, this Bob guy absolutely deserved to get fired, both for this incident with the OP's walk-out and all the other crap he was pulling. Good thing the GM had the OP's back here, because the fact that the OP walked out could've gone the other way and the OP couldve been fired and Bob wouldve been left alone. In the end, Screw Bob. Story 2: OP isn't a jerk, but pretty dumb with their money. The momet you give someone a dime, they are ALWAYS going to ask and expect more and more and more..... which is what clearly happened here. I get that some people need help and all, but this "friend" here is just a mooch. Just watch, as soon as the OP quits handing out money, the friendship will either end or be very strained. Story 3: OP is not a jerk, but he really need to be more firm with the wife here. If she was only using her own money to help the sister here, then i dont think it would be as much of an issue here, but now that she is using joint and the OP's money does cross a line i feel. The wife is really being a major enabler here. While i understand the sister has a condition, she's also doing very little to help and help herself and is clearly just expecting the wife to basically 'mother' her and do everything. The sister has definitely crossed into "laziness" territory here and i think the OP has every right to be frustrated here. Story 4: People are so stupid sometimes when it comes to naming children. It isnt unique, it isnt cute, it isnt funny, its just dumb, and i know a lot of provinces, states and even some countries don't allow names like that on a birth certificate. Why would you ever think "Hashtag" would be a good name? You've literally put a giant target on that kids back for all kinds of issues later in life. OP isnt a jerk at all, and the friend is a complete idiot. Story 5: This is 100% a terrible relationship and the gf here is a bad gf and a bad person. If you're thinking of breaking out, i say do it and soon, otherwise things are going to get worse here.

[@crisbrown1613]

SPITEFULNESS: Has A Really Strong Way Of Coming Back Full Circle. This Is Also Pretty Much Known As Karma.

[@frostthenord3942]

"Your money is her money" no tf its not. Your money is your money and her money is her money, since its a joint account they both have to agree where that money goes. Thats how relationships really work.

[@brianrogers7360]

Your friend who wants your money??? A friend in need is a pain in the butt

[@WutWudJunDu]

Story 4: These people need to listen to some Johnny Cash

[@malcire]

If you are refused a promotion because of your skill in your current position, you should start looking elsewhere. That means that your employer doesn't think you will leave and that they get to much value from you in your position to promote you (kind of crazy that they would be open about it). So get an equivalent raise, the promotion, or a new job.

[@princessmarlena1359]

Had a “Bob” boss who went to Tahiti, and had gotten bit by a mosquito. He contracted dengue fever and it ruined his vacation, even kept him out of the office.

[@alyssagentry9412]

Story 3: i can see op's side but he DID go about it the wrong way he could have been more gentle about it and not try to financially control his wife

[@Azreail13]

wouldn't have to have laid down that line if the wife was making and using her own money to finance her sister, instead of taking his money from their account meant to support them and their daughter only.

[@alyssagentry9412]

@Azreail13 I know, that is why I could see op's side of the situation. I know the wife was also at fault for spending his money, but that doesn't mean that op should financially control his wife. If I don't see both sides of the post, I don't usually comment on the video

[@delamarhamilton7225]

@@alyssagentry9412 the op did say she spent all her money, and now wants to go in the joint family account to pull from that for the sister, we understand she has disabilities, but she should be understanding too, as a man we set boundaries for our families to survive, she Is pregnant and is going to take from the account that there to get and sustain things for the child. he is trying to stop her from going too far.

[@alyssagentry9412]

@@delamarhamilton7225 I understand that people HAVE to make boundaries. And yes I do understand that the wife is at fault for wanting/trying to take the money from the joint account all I was trying to say is that they could have told his wife why they didn't want her to steal the money from the joint account to finance her sister or the wife could limit her sister and herself to how much she gives to her sister. There is many better ways op could have gone instead of financially control his wife

[@delamarhamilton7225]

@@alyssagentry9412 he said she finished hers and was using his, so what kinda financial control is there, he just won't let her complete broke them, because that's where it was heading. To me it just him putting his foot down. And also he talked to her calmly before about it before going to that decision

[@kaylaaamarinky-do]

13:27 disagree…I had issues I won’t get into growing up but also having that young mentality made me take advantage of the help vs appreciating it. And it seems that is exactly what happened with the sister. So at this point she needs a harsh realization or it will forever continue. OP is doing the right thing which his wife is incapable of due to her love for her family. I understand that complaining which is why OP is DOING THE RIGHT THING And really no…a marriage is an agreement to work together…not his money is hers but they both compromise on the best way to stabilize the money earned. He is doing that…she is not.

[@user-jr9ji2pe4b]

Rock the sword of the sister has is called alien hand before it stems from an old logical and balanced in the brain I think

[@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd]

Story 3: Why is a husband telling his wife he cannot use joint funds an issue? He is the one contributing to the funds. The funds is also earned solely by OP. So for all intensive purposes that is *his* money. So he can 100% determine where that money goes if it is becoming an issue. There is a difference between financial abuse and setting up financial boundaries. “Your money is her money” uhhhh fuck that. Who is working? Who is the one spending the hours traveling to work and conducting work. OP is. If the wife wants money she can work. Simp shit like this is why men need to just keep their money separate. Separate bank accounts. This way no one can pull that “your money is her money” bullshit.

[@subramanianayalur5672]

I agree man

[@johnnymcneal5914]

Just be blunt and just tell her that you can't afford to give her any more money end of story

[@youngtravellerrblx3356]

story 3 nrarrator, what the F bro, she is LEECHING the money from you, he has EVERY right for authority if he is the sole provider.

[@jazymnt]

The story about the baby name...Her friend is taking a page right out of victorian era.

[@Fiercetits]

Story 3: bad take by the narrator, his money is NOT her money tf you talking about?? how would you feel if your significant other was constantly spending your money on their adult sibling for no reason?

[@arandomthingintheabyss2062]

some of the comments have bin calling the narrator a simp but does anyone else got an example of the narrator being a simp/favoring girls

[@holdencampbell9208]

oh yes one story the op (female) wanted a better birthday gift then a dinner and movie but her bf is in the narrators eyes the jerk

[@arandomthingintheabyss2062]

@@holdencampbell9208 it mite not be the usual kind of gift but it still a nice gift

[@joosyjulie]

Story 2- change your passwords. Story 3- I have an autistic son, who will never hold down a job. He depends on us for nearly everything and will until we die. But, even as an adult, he has what we think of as pocket money and saves it up to buy things he wants or is really proud when he can take us to the cinema or for some other treat. We don't think of him as a leech, but then again his attitude isn't that of a leech. Story 4- just leave her.

[@brucewestoby]

Sleeping till 3 or 4 in the afternoon? No job ? No phone or sleep discipline? The longer the relationship..the worse these conditions will get . ..be down the road....improve your self,you goals . Think of the stress you are having ...not worth it , will age you in dog years!

[@donaldgrimes3433]

If I earn the sole money in the house then you damn right I have a say in where my hard earned money goes point blank

[@juliopeinado2660]

OP deserves that trip to Aruba. Not that scummy ass boss.

[@craiggerlach5548]

I think the Narrator should give the disabled sister all his money from this channel...

[@kla631]

Last story, GF may have a sleep disorder or if in their teens or 20s, they tend to sleep a lot. But the relationship is a fail and they should part ways.

[@gregkelmis2435]

Screw respect she didn’t intend to pay you back. I have a lot of money to people many times when you finally get down to that point, no matter how polite you are a hero you’re way past due, but I really need the money to put groceries on my table. They will find an excuse to throw a fit Yell at you, call you names and that, sir excuse not to pay you back. Vengeance is the only thing that you can inquire if you so choose.

[@benpasterski5106]

Last story: Wait she gets mad when she isn’t told about the weather but yet is on her phone 24/7

[@mariahernandezdiaz243]

I feel bad for the sister the Most bc what would happen if the wife died all of a sudden she wouldn't be able to provide for herself

[@johnhenderson6722]

The guy in story two is not at fault because his wife is spending his money

[@johnhenderson6722]

Story 3

[@deadlock89]

Story 4) i'm sorry ... hashtag? You might want to sign your kid up for toddler self defence classes and start a therapy fund because that kid will be bullied by even the most nerdiest and socially awkward people in any school, in the school social hiarachy he would even be on the bottom rung, he will be the non slip rubber feet on the ladder. I can see that childs potential futures and it don't look good depending which survival instinct they take: Fight - they will be fighting their entire life and will end up in jail and with anger issues. Flight - they will run away from society and become emotional or physical shut in and have no contact with the outside world, and if they are lucky to have a some what normal childhood no respectable business will hire someone named "hashtag" employers will assume the person changed their own name to that ridiculous one, they won't think any parent would do something so stupid.

[@v.crowley]

😂😂😂😂 Narrator: AITJ for thinking a financially irresponsible woman is allowed to own her husbands money

[@Maya-lover2]

Part 3 the guy dumb not see wife basically use him FR

[@alpha-sama]

For the third story, while OP may have been harsh and perhaps a little inapropriate, he is in the right. The sister needs to learn to support herself, the wife can't keep enabling her. I guess you could debate about who deserves what in a situation where there's a joint bank account and the wife is dealing with a pregnancy (a situation where both man and woman carry responsibility) but OP does have a point in that it's unfair for his wife to spend the money he worked for on things he doesn't agree with.

[@Icalasari]

Hashtag Story - Those people who are arguing against OP will be remembered by poor Hashtag

[@FirestoneX]

No, the man will decide what happens with the money.

[@4givablyun4givable]

His money is her money yes but she is not being responsible with it. If this is the first time having this convo then yeah he's being a jerk but if they possibly had thos convo before and she just ignored him then I understand where he's coming from. The sister needs some tough love to be able to thrive as an adult and if his wife isn't going to dish out the tough love to her sister then yeah he has to dish it out to his wife. I personally think his intentions are sound.

[@sarahwoodyard6533]

Helping the poor these days is not what it used to bed. Impoverished used to be grateful for a loaf of bread but now get pissy if you don't pay the wifi. Ive had Impoverished family. When i had to quit paying for their groceries because i got married and became pregnant, i was a horrible person (ie it was my own mother). Because i had to save so my child had diapers. It drove me to become firm in not giving anyone on the streets any money, i'll drop a burger and bottled water instead. I refuse to help anyone who refuses to help themselves. Don't care if it makes me a jerk

[@Maya-lover2]

Part 3 your money is my money (Okey give ever money Your got for yout wife than?)

[@viviennemorgan7217]

bob needs to leave op alone or else something will happen to him, but something did happen to him, he got fired by op himself.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

justice gets what justice deserves.

[@b.e.h7324]

the amount of karma

[@malcire]

Never settle for being to valuable to promote

[@OynxWolf11]

"Your money is her Money" ........... Eh, mate. Last I checked, the one who EARNS the money belongs to THEM. Now if the roles of the story switched "Wife works, Husband doesn't work and waste money" , the Wife would be in the right. Yeah, no. That's not how it works. The Money belongs to the Household like paying for Bills, Food, even for the Child. Everything else is secondary. Marriage equals Teamwork.

[@FennixTheMelanisticFox]

13:59 I think husband in the right here from what I am hearing the sister never pays back so he basically losing his money that his working for you can’t just take money and not be expected to pay back all so it’s not her money even if your both are married it doesn’t make his money hers he letting her use it he has the right to cut her off it sounds like he paying for everything anyway so maybe money is a low as well there so many things he could not be telling us mate and ti me the wife in the wrong for letting it get this far

[@clericofchaos1]

I agree with the guy in the third story. As the sole breadwinner you have the right to say "This is what we're spending *MY* money on." The narrator is living in a fantasy world. His money is not her money, his money is not their money, his money is his money, and he has every right to do what he wants with it.

[@docomega7862]

It's a joint account, seriously did none of you actually bother to listen? He also said that the wife was working before, so she likely is only on maternity leave. While the narrator's take was kinda trash on this one, you all rush to conclusions like he is sole breadwinner or it's his account because you don't listen to the full story

[@clericofchaos1]

@@docomega7862 A joint account just means she can take money out of it too. It doesn't actually mean that it's her money. Also, i was paying attention and i know that she was on maternity leave, which means when she starts earning again she can go back to supporting her sister. That's even what the op actually said. Until then, she's spending his money.

[@docomega7862]

@@clericofchaos1 just because she stops contributing at some point doesn't mean it automatically means it's his money. She still put the money she earned (I don't remember the op talking about her having her own account, so I'll assume she puts most of her money in the joint account, mybe savings into some other), so the husband can't just prevent her from accessing to an account she contributed to. Unless it is implied that she spends so much on her sister that it outweights everything she ever contributed to in the joint account. I personally think that she is being financially irresponsible so I won't argue about this part. However, with the info given to us (unless I missed something), I do believe it is a jerk move to threaten to cut her from an account to which she contributed. With more details like her spending more than she contributes or her stating she'll drop her carreer forever to become a stay at home mom, indeed making the husband the sole breadwinner permanently, I would've completely taken the husband's side as in this particular case it would indeed only be his money. But, as those details are missing, I have to assume there is still some of her money in the joint account so the husband is still being a bit of a jerk. However, the biggest jerk here is still the sister for exploiting the wife, then the wife for being irresponsible, and then the husband. With more details, I would remove the husband, and maybe put the wife as biggest jerk if she didn't plan on working again as it would be more his money than theirs at this point

[@clericofchaos1]

@@docomega7862 he said she's spent all the money she's put into the account. That tells me that he's keeping track of how much each of them is putting in even is she's not.

[@Hans...458]

If it is a boy/man then is he a jerk but when it is a girl/women then it isn't

[@malcire]

Eh. As far as the sister, goes; i would have said we are getting a divorce if we are paying for her sister. It is both of thier money, and he was wrong in the way he voiced it. But I would have left long ago. As far as # I would pointed out that the symbol is older, and I would have called the kid pound. Sharp is technically angled the other way from my experience (with music and programming with C Sharp).

[@davidanddadsadventures5239]

i kind of disagree i mean in the second one he wanted to spend money on his daughter but can't as they are spending money on the wife's adult sister

[@kaylaaamarinky-do]

16:21 omg can they just fill out their name like “#” on test papers and whatnot?! That would be hilarious! But yes…horrid name. Worse than the Covid ones

[@user-gv8jy8zt2v]

also with the one about the wife paying for her sister I'm would say the poster isn't in the wrong its their joint account don't get me wrong he isn't right but they should agree to pay for something not 1 spend on something out of the blue.

[@mehdinuruzade1743]

if she/he is your good friend just say it that find a new job

[@Maya-lover2]

Part 3 deserve new wife

[@rosacaballerosa]

There is a Chilean kid called Hashtag Follow and I am so sad for them.

[@hugznotdrugz1234]

Last story…I don’t agree that she is lazy…I do think there could be other issues. I have always been extremely difficult to wake up. I have to set a dozen alarms to make sure I’m awake when I need to be. I have insomnia and can go days without sleep or months with only naps here and there. I also now really struggle sleeping if I know I have to be awake early. So maybe the gf has insomnia or other issues when sleeping. But I do agree they should not stay together. OP sounds really annoying and judgmental.

[@pikachumaster0518]

damn pretty much every comment is about them disagreeing with you on story 3 and they're right

[@kylebuschandbostonfantilldead]

It’s my birthday

[@raerose2278]

🎂🎊🎉Happy Birthday! 🎂🎊🎉

[@kelimochetonk493]

Happy birthday fam

[@kylebuschandbostonfantilldead]

Thank you

[@Maya-lover2]

Part 3 its guy need break up his wife she just use he basically for her sister

[@1DeezNutz]

Fr

[@EquaTechnologies]

why

[@user-gv8jy8zt2v]

ONLY 12??????????????????????????????????

[@paulaaliman346]

The last story: not to play devil’s advocate here, but women on average need more sleep than men. Plus OP said she was on a weightloss journey, of course she is moody… anyone who goes on any diet gets moody. Idk i feel like OP needs to check himself too and try to see stuff from her perspective as well.

[@asterlma0394]

Heyo!

[@docomega7862]

Story 3: I saw many comments criticizing the narrator for his stance on the question and saying the wife was stealing the husband's money. While I don't agree in all cases with the "your money is her money" statement, in this case, and it is something no one mentioned, this is a joint account. It's not his account but their account, and with the wife having a job before the pregnancy (she probably is on maternity leave) it is very likely that she too was contributing to the joint account. So threatening to cut her access to their money that she too contributed to feels absolutely wrong. That said, I will say that the wife isn't completely financially responsible as she can't put her foot down to say her sister no. But, threatening to cut access to money she worked towards is absolutely not the right way to go about it. So, everyone is kinda the jerk, but the sister is the biggest one, not the husband

[@ElRoc]

I don't usually comment, but YIKES that's a bad take on story 3 Is the OP just supposed to let the sister drain them of their money just because she can use the OP's wife as a direct access to the bank account then? It may sound tough, but if the wife can't stop herself from ruining their financial situation, cutting her off from the money the OP makes is the only way to stop their situation to go downhill

[@HollowSV]

Story 4 Idiocracy

[@mason4318]

Who names their kid hashtag

[@theoprentice4044]

what is the game in the background?

[@subramanianayalur5672]

Subnautica

[@Xotic1.0]

Narrator is trippin the whole video

[@bhorn5809]

Hi!

[@ratnadwiagustina7581]

I just wanna say why do you do food making wen making short

[@ivanazagar5692]

First and nice video

[@WesleyZ3]

So you agree with the OP in story 3 but don’t like the way he said it? The line about “your money is her money” is laughable. That’s not how a relationship should work

[@GabeLeak]

The narrator is very obtuse in his observation of story 3. If you are making the money in the household, you absolutely have the final say in what that money gets put towards within reason. The fact that you believe that OP should essentially be a doormat and an ATM is wild. This doesn't surprise me, considering the narrator has made some outlandish comments in obviously one-sided stories going against the victim of the scenario

[@gigglesgaming131]

Story 2. There's no way the narrator simps this hard. I have a feeling these narrators purposely say argumentative perspectives in order to stir up the comments and get more video interactions. Story 3. Hashtag is a dumb name. Stop with the stupidity. Story 4. These people just aren't compatible. Either it be their personalities or not understanding of each other's personal afflictions. Whether it be medical or being lazy.

[@MidEvilFrog]

Story 3: Narrator is a simp I swear op is not the jerk at all his money not hers narrator is such a L

[@Outbreak-px7zf]

I think you are quite wrong about the husband theres no easy way about this but he married his wife not her sister. He didnt sign up to coparent her sister. If he makes the money and is monetarily supporting the three of them he is prioritizing their child and financial future. which also is quite contradictory to what you say in other vids of similar circumstances. If the wife is not happy about it she can separate and think for herself then instead of forcing a selfish decision on both of them. Not like the courts arent going to force the husband to pay out the ass during the divorce if it comes to that.

[@Azulakayes]

So glad the normal narrator is back!

[@connormorley5256]

hi

[@not-a-alight-motion-editor]

Hi

[@HankScorpio64]

Seriously.. Hashtag is s stupid sodding name. You are literally setting up that kid to get bullied badly. As someone who has a last name that can sounds phonetically similar to a slur for a gay male I know this. The dude is not a jerk for telling the truth. Really hate these people who thing giving their kid a "unique name" will be one a of a kind. Trust me in saying they are not the only idiot whose come up the idea.

[@mesbahuddinmiltom514]

Is it just me or is the owner of the channel just a free online therapist?