The commenter is wrong, it’s not just the boomers. Sadly there’s always a stigma against someone who has been sexually abused
@juanhaines7295Күн бұрын
People need to have some at accountability and stop calling stuff they did a mistake. Especially something as grieves as this.
@FluffykunnКүн бұрын
Calling it a "mistake" makes it easier to digest and downsize the severity. Especially if the repercussions come years later. Personally I hold grudges cause life has shown me these same folks will repeat the same issue. If you show someone once you are capable of something horrible, it's fair to assume it will happen again if they're not held accountable
@catsncrows22 сағат бұрын
I feel lucky? that the people in my life who have hurt me were so morally bankrupt and deluded they thought what they did was okay. I can't imagine the pain of being handed a manipulative reason like "mistake".
@HighostrichКүн бұрын
The parents plan to control her made her more independent
@princessmarlena1359Күн бұрын
Though OP made a terrible mistake in not to report the SA as soon as possible, but at least she did break up with that guy. I’m glad that she eventually told Angie’s brother what Nico did. She didn’t “ruin anyone’s life” by exposing Nico. Those old high school acquaintances need to mind their own business. 15:37 Commenter 3 said it best.
@juliearmfield2634Күн бұрын
Angies mom said she always known him as a Charming in considerate man. Well yeah that's what people said about Ted Bundy too
@juliearmfield2634Күн бұрын
Story 1. Nta im so glad that OP got out of that backwoods misogynistic town. (Omg I absolutely hate using those words.) They may be okay with sexual abuse and sexual harassment that not everyone is or should be
@sinbadwilliams7186Күн бұрын
Day 59 of telling secretvoices to have a good day
@Emil_LLscpfanКүн бұрын
Day 274 of commenting to help secretvoices
@SecretVoices25Күн бұрын
Day 274 of commenting thankyou for your support ❤️❤️❤️
@yuliiastelmashenko8650Күн бұрын
Typical russian activities over there. Angie and Nico is an obvs perfect couple of AHs ✨ A shame OP has to go through all that
@cameron765Күн бұрын
Story 1: this is the consequences of not telling people you've been SA when it happened because honestly I'm not going to believe some chick who said my friend SA her 10 years ago cuz I'm going to think she lying only how I can take it serious if a kid came out and said that when they got older And also she's saying she got no memories of it so like why would I believe someone like that
@artemisia457Күн бұрын
Angie knew it happened and never denied it. No one in that family denied it and it seems, neither did Nico. An innocent person would try to defend himself instead of hiding behind his future wife and in-laws.
@HauntedGalMarsКүн бұрын
She wasn't "some chick"... she was a close family friend who was like a sister to them who told her friend immediately. Her friend didn't see it as SA because they were dating and had sex before. Not to mention... she didn't seek the brother out to tattle... the brother pulled it out of her. Also, no one denied it. They are pulling the young and dumb card
@misterpisserКүн бұрын
It’s not easy to say “hey, I was raped.” I didn’t tell my friend or a therapist until months after it happened. I was too ashamed and scared about my safety. Have some empathy, dude wtf
@cameron765Күн бұрын
@@HauntedGalMars I like how you are trying to take one insignificant part of my comment in trying make a whole argument against it like oh my god I said some chick It really doesn't change anything I said