What women want and why you cant save them

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[@phillipbear7630]

You are a really great Gal..high end..if it's really a substantial..will come thru.. Family business.. Family Religion..or else wear..Money is a tool..plain an simple it needs to give to work for you!!.you see it..an you direct it..

[@cecil7210]

Sadia be breaking that ish down talk yo ish sis.

[@phillipbear7630]

@cecil7210 the point..Is..High end isn't the issue..the Issue is..the Art of being Grounded!!..Thats HIGH-ENDED!!.

[@cecil7210]

@@phillipbear7630 not sure I'm capable of applying this but I see your point.

[@phillipbear7630]

@cecil7210 start in pslams..an read thru proverbs..apply..what you read..pray!!.ask for direction!!..then Amazing Facts Bible school is free..Standard KJV..Lines up with the Dead Sea Scrolls..The Organial Acient Script..

[@KidRipable]

This woman is absolute special and really do understand what’s going instead of letting her emotions control everything!

[@thescallytrader]

This woman is absolutely special and really does understand what’s going on psychologically, instead of letting her emotions control her - SORRY.

[@NeoKurow]

Nah she is more of the same + word salad. She also tries so hard to look like a top model because she knows everything is about looks

[@rncgsu]

Horrible advice. She is a grifter.

[@thescallytrader]

@@rncgsu - Nar....she's got you sussed.

[@Rua007]

No

[@markfennell1167]

Regarding the hero aspect. We need to talk about this The hero is the man with great empathy and compassion. He is also far stronger in his soul than most people. We need more such men. Wanting to save another person is good. But only if they want to be helped. You should extend to help. Be strong. Guide. If they appreciate and also evolve then keep going. If not then go back to your life But we are never heroes from insecurity. Indeed only the strongest and most self aware can do it

[@JamieModelvsDirector]

I agree. Her opinion on the hero complex is probably a small percentage but certainly not one size fits all, You nailed it mark ❤

[@dante19890]

U watch too much shounen anime dude

[@dante19890]

@Britain587 u shouldn't be affraid to offend anyone

[@General-p8u]

@@dante19890 what about all the indoctrination from LGBT

[@General-p8u]

@@dante19890 what about LGBTQ indoctrinating young minds

[@adrianboyddodd8007]

Totally Agree with Sadia on all her points but the one that stood out to me the most was what she said about encouraging men to be vulnerable by not throwing his story back in his face in a negative way. I would also add to that for her never to say "I told you" in response to him admitting to any failure. A man is making himself vulnerable when he admits to being wrong. So whenever I hear women complaining about men who don't apologize, my question is how does she respond when a man does apologize to her. Chances are she responds in a way that makes him regret apologizing.

[@SY-yr4lw]

Do everything with good intentions and never apologize. The more you apologize, the more you lose value. They look at your apologies as failures and not strength. They keep count of your failures.

[@natalii8366]

you lose your value when you do not apologize at all;)

[@SY-yr4lw]

@@natalii8366 no need to if you didn't do anything wrong.

[@LivinginCentralNewJersey-ep4bq]

I just got out of a toxic relationship..... Sadia is spot on and yes going back to her childhood I found who and why she behaved that way.... abandonment issues

[@sammyb1651]

The "childhood" thing is ,mainly BS. Not saying it isn't a factor (a chaotic childhood is not a good thing!), but it's vastly overstated. And by Sadia Khan more than most. The simple fact of the matter is that chaos is the result of not having discipline. All it really means is she's not very conscientious/won't do difficult things and will just do what feels good. It's very common. Women just default to feelings.

[@colinwalter9381]

@@sammyb1651overstated??!!????? Yeah SOME people can grow up in madness and be very stable, regimented in their routine, etc. that is also a survival mechanism same as the women who are talked about in this video. Your comment feels like victim blaming to me

[@mpilokgotso]

The hero complex is definitely me, I do it with everyone. It lead me to having one sided relationships n lots of takers

[@shawndon7374]

A guy wanting to save a girl can also mean he comes from a good background and saw what she couldve been if he found her earlier...

[@NickGKiefer]

As someone who chose to marry and is still married to a girl that I "saved", I can tell you that over the nearly 10 years of our marriage that our relationship has never been an equal relationship. I have always done more to care for her and she has barely lifted a finger for me. If it weren't for the fact that we have kids together I would probably be out.

[@phillipbear7630]

Truism..for the first responder..

[@shawndon7374]

@@NickGKiefer You're a real man bro. I would love to shake your hand because you sacrificed for your children. Nothing is more manly than that. I hope everything in life works out in your favor. God bless big dawg 🙏

[@lakijahat]

@@NickGKieferGod bless you brother. You’re a man ❤ I wish I could shake your hand as well. God will look after you and He sees everything. You’re a true man 👊🏾

[@diakanext3855]

​@@NickGKieferhave you seen you? You saved a wilderbeast from what? I'm sure you 2 deserve each other😂😂

[@miroslavparvanov]

I love so much the "Star Wars" answer! That's exactly right! This woman is a genius!

[@marijkee719]

as a woman, i totally agree. i liked star wars, but theyre ruining it.

[@codeforce5556]

😂😂

[@brandonfinical9671]

This women is going to save our planet! so grateful to have this content!!

[@De-tw7by]

Never make women the top priority in life. Make your health, career, passion, hobbies, friends, relatives etc the top priority. Learn to live with or without women. Focus on yourself, work hard, make lot of money, have lot of fun. Stop Simping and Completely stop trying to please women. Life is too short to waste time and energy for women's emotional drama.

[@jacobjacob6334]

Very crct. Women will chase you..

[@satheeshjoshi5725]

You really understood them

[@ilikepancakes2368]

What if you want to build a family?

[@Kevin-jx5ux]

The behavior issues women have in relationships don’t always come from childhood trauma and parents. Most of the time it’s the standards of society programming them to make certain choices.

[@FoodFreedomUSA]

Yes, and that’s a direct result of absent or poor parenting. No healthy well adjusted child who was raised well with morals and standards will act toxic and cringy. They will be modest, respectful and married by 22, raising children.

[@sammyb1651]

The "childhood" thing is ,mainly BS. Not saying it isn't a factor (a chaotic childhood is not a good thing!), but it's vastly overstated. And by Sadia Khan more than most. The simple fact of the matter is that chaos is the result of not having discipline. All it really means is she's not very conscientious/won't do difficult things and will just do what feels good. It's very common. Women just default to feelings.

[@Kevin-jx5ux]

@@FoodFreedomUSA Unless the child is raised in a child was raised in a respectable community and environment, with both parents and decent friends, they will be exposed to adapting to the nonsense of today's society. Most American women are exposed to it. The parenting can be good but once they hit middle and high school, society raises them from there.

[@Kevin-jx5ux]

@@sammyb1651 Very well stated

[@VishalSharma-sh3kb]

One of your most useful sessions that I have watched until now. Host was also wonderful coz it takes skill to ask questions that can relate to most people out there. Wonderful session and looking forward to more. Cheers.

[@preciouslarochelle8487]

Average men and women need appreciation too. They go to work everyday to contribute to the household.

[@Beinghopeful]

I love the wisdom of this woman, I adore how she explains everything and the way she talks.

[@atomicgeisha]

I love what Sadia is doing because we need better men. Better men is better for women, children and the whole world.

[@ITR1329]

The solipsism in this comment shows we’ll be in this perpetual loop until the end

[@lwandosingcu9595]

We better women too.

[@aaronm.2718]

@@ITR1329Great word. And accurate👍🏻✌🏻

[@sammyb1651]

@@ITR1329 Beautifully stated. Thankfully men are becoming more alert to this type of rhetoric now and know to recognise it as toxic.

[@niallcurran7894]

That set off the alarm in my head too. I had to read it again incase she said better men leads to better women...

[@zurielsss]

Shout out for reminding women to NEVER throw back a vulnerable story back at a man as a weapon.

[@jomufilms]

8:20 - 10:40 is good explanation why you should be your own person with your own opinion because agreeing with people doesn’t benefit you people want to hear your real opinion.

[@teamalpha8134]

Great to see Theory on this channel- great episode.

[@georgepalavi5060]

Wow, Sadia is so amazing! I’m almost always amazed by her answers in the many videos I see her on. What a gift she has and is.

[@usernextuser5385]

I've listened to a few of her vids and how she describes women makes me think why would any man want someone who is such a mess. Men want peace and quiet and that is the one thing you will not get with a woman.

[@gantchogantchev9385]

I like the example of human predictability like the ingredients of a cake, well said Sadia Khan!

[@oneyricenice4671]

The two best KZbinrs come together ❤️, I never guessed this day would come 🎆. Please 🙏 make more, together stronger 💪

[@theramiam155]

Wait, isn’t this the Star Wars guy??? Great content with Sadia!!

[@ladyofspa]

There's few threats it's more caring thoughtful, honor, cherishing, generous provide emotional support, and security.

[@olenaglushchenko8900]

If a man abuses me mentally, neglects and avoids me, prioritizes his life and his family as well as friends. He is not a breadmaker, but a breadtaker, no help at all, leaves me in most diffucult situations for me, wants to isolate me from the whole world. This not a good man.

[@jesuscaberea3202]

What about a woman that manipulates, and takes from her man on a constant basis ? I'm willing to bet that's the vast majority of the cases

[@jesuscaberea3202]

And that's not a good woman, and there's a ton of females like that

[@olenaglushchenko8900]

@@jesuscaberea3202 So go find a woman like me, good luck.

[@jesuscaberea3202]

@@olenaglushchenko8900 How about finding a real masculine man like me luv ❤️

[@olenaglushchenko8900]

@@jesuscaberea3202 LoL

[@ArturK1M]

Thank you. Your conversation is very educating and is strengthening thesis of my relationship. I come from from chaotic family and have had chaotic relationships. I believe I fixed it but I know if I fall and don't get up quick enough I might revert back to it. My partner, when I met her on the other hand is I believe still in that chaotic norm that she doesn't want to let go of. Only just now we started seeking help from professional relationship therapist/counselor. Fingers crossed for us please 🤞 One think that I take from this is that I believe I know what my Mother's weaknesses are.

[@rajmathew6220]

She should be the leader of all women

[@nigelharvey640]

16:15 I recently got a different view about this. I think I agree that trust is about the capacity for this emotional resonance and empathy. However, I think it is a manipulative thing to constantly throw negative down to “check” if your partner is in tune with you. I feel like this is not love that is earned but love that is stolen. Obviously if a partner needs you, you want to fulfill the need out of love. But i think there should be a more constructive way to measure trustworthiness. Like if your partner feels sad bc she feels no one cares about her, and you can ask her “is that true?” and she can honestly say “no”, if she thought about it, I feel like this is trying to get validation without simply asking. I would like for it to be normal for people to not “test” for love, but make and open “request” for it. I think the subtle differences between those two and the fulfillment of the need is the difference between real trust and on-and-off trust

[@theprofessor2315]

What drew my attention to her more and more is her unbiased views ❤❤❤❤ If she’s married her husband should count himself as one of the few luckiest people on earth 🌍 ❤.

[@byronryan4216]

🤳

[@LinoAguilar-cw3mh]

I think God has his hand over Sadia❤an blesses her work 🙌 I love her she the most beautiful inside an out 🌹 x10000000

[@kealani6535]

Male physiology has been greatly compromised by estrogen mimicking molecules in foods and the environment. There are some social reasons for feminization of men, but probably most of it is biochemical.

[@gumdeo]

Yes, it's a problem everywhere. Even isolated tribes in the Amazon have been affected by this type of pollution.

[@nathanvisconti5632]

He needs to be superior in every single way, and then settle for a partnership…

[@Tzvetkov]

So we can build something even bigger. Be a provider, there’s no way around that.

[@hallowakers3d2y]

@@Tzvetkovbe a supporter. Oh wait thats too much to ask women.

[@diakanext3855]

Gotta luv Sadia. These commentors need to come out some $with her. She not onlyfans but she is trying to help you men who couldnt buy attention. She is helping the male 🌎 of goofies

[@fredcorbin3571]

I Miss Shared Emotion so much - My Late Wife and I were so in touch with other it was Amazing - Spiritual Connection is an Absolute Requirement for this in my experience - 30 years later - still searching.

[@vkaras6591]

The connection was a once in a lifetime event. I speak from experience...

[@bitofwizdomb7266]

Here’s what I tell any woman I’m in a relationship with : as long as you do not deceive me or betray me and as long as you are always honest truthful respectful fair and treat me with decency, you will have my love and support . Otherwise , just out of principle , get the hell out of my life . I am a secure and confident man with integrity and if you cross those boundaries , then get lost . I am also very kind and friendly but don’t cross my boundaries. Stop being wimps, guys

[@AliAlili1033]

I would like to point out one important detail. Sadia mentions in this interview that high value men are those who run several companies. Please don't forget that the Real High Value Men are only those who die on the battlefield defending their homeland, creating conditions for others to run several companies. And please don't call doctors, teachers etc average men. Thank you for your attention.

[@antonvandenheever3150]

Sadia is an angel. A morality game changer... By

[@monica_nielsen_]

❤❤❤😁 Sadia work is so helpful and we get to learn so much how to achieve Healthy Relationships ❤️😁 Thank you Thank you Thank you Awesome!!! ❤

[@sadiapsychology]

❤❤❤❤

[@Sermentian1867]

1:57-2:28 was that audio cutout intentional or just a technical issue? Great video btw

[@enescohuntejr]

I didn’t hear anything

[@Xianne027]

His mic was off, I think. Too bad that we missed it.

[@TomFox1]

No clue, maybe he spoke about his personal life and wanted it cut from the audio

[@General-p8u]

You got to keep your distance so you dont turn feminine your a beast don't lose that

[@derekbentley334]

Universe taught me. As cares the difference in knowledge. All human beings of equal knowledge total possibilities. Cares deciding what happens

[@smart904]

Sadia isn’t perfect either. Just be strong guys.

[@complotetique37]

Be humble and don't forget we all speak for ourselves. It's not what women want but what YOU want. Some women will want the same ofc but generalize like that creates illusion.

[@sadiapsychology]

Weak people want to believe they are super special and nothing applies to them

[@complotetique37]

@@sadiapsychology so please tell me how you can be sure all women want that ?

[@martahernandez9887]

​​@@complotetique37as a woman I can agree to this. I have been trying to find some woman in internet with my same perspective in life and this it's the most near that I could find. And the woman that doesn't like this they are in the path to find this. I used to be lost in what I liked and what I don't and that was chaotic. Woman like to be in the feminine energy that doesn't mean to be full time home stand mom because most of us have aspirations but I the end of the day we are gonna want to have kids and a masculine mental stable husband

[@byronryan4216]

🤷‍♀️

[@sadiapsychology]

@@complotetique37it’s called biology

[@justinengland9814]

Threats "a statement of an intention to inflict pain, injury, damage, or other hostile action on someone in retribution for something done or not done." Consideration "careful thought, typically over a period of time." Manipulation "he action of manipulating someone in a clever or unscrupulous way." chaotic "in a state of complete confusion and disorder." Much to discuss here and many assumptions to be made as above.

[@FabiolaBustamanteA]

Thank you for sharing all your wisdom Sadia

[@derekbentley334]

The human body heals itself as planet has regeneration

[@EverthingHer]

Wow, my mother and I don’t have a strong relationship or one at all right now for that matter due to her behavior, unaccountability and neglect. My sisters that are always agreeable are a lot closer and always make a point that we only get one mom so to just accept her behavior. The thing is she doesn’t do things she does to me to them. If she does it’s rare. With me it’s all the time. I love her from a distance.

[@AbdulHamid-gp3ps]

Hardbreaking

[@Specialcot77]

I Love Her because It's Truth

[@byronryan4216]

🤦‍♀️

[@MLeon572]

You are very smart you explain things that are difficult as man to figure out, I jus don't wanna hear you say women are emotionally intelligent, you are emotionally intelligent and that is a rear quality in men and women

[@GlockJ]

The Star Wars guy

[@jonloi3794]

Sadia's experience is really deep

[@mib910]

the last part with ten z is very interesting and seems true

[@Jammineyeonline]

This woman is lovely. 😊

[@theprofessor2315]

I love listening to this lady 😍❤️ I wish I could find a wife like her that understands us men also understands reality. ❤❤❤ I listen to her religiously 😍❤️

[@Xianne027]

There's plenty of us out there, but y'all don't take the time to recognize us because you're stuffing us in your category system, like "Is she a party girl? Is she a housewife type? An esoteric type? A business woman? A fitness type? The passionate type? The bookworm?" Maybe if you'd just get to know each of us from our heart and soul first you would see the myriad of facets that make up each of us in different combinations of those elements. And then you would discover that there are many women like Sadia out there...

[@oliverman6168]

Bitterness you're only wealth the sands of time kicked in your,face!​@@Xianne027

[@byronryan4216]

🤷‍♀️

[@ubuntuber1619]

She is very very expensive. She has wisdom of a Mughal Queen.

[@FortilusBright-hf7xy]

Hello my beautiful coach Sadia big sorry for him 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉be patient with me

[@TomFox1]

Two crazy people 😂😂😂 OPPS!

[@byronryan4216]

🤪

[@zfalcon1]

As someone with a victim mentality but wants to become a hero, I say we need more men in Barbie and Cinderella!

[@Specialcot77]

She's 💯 Correctly I'm Overprotective told it's Not my Fault. I'm a Scorpions gotta Check In 😂

[@ronalde.wilson7406]

All Women are Not as you say nor do they require what you say- Just Western Women- There Are 3.5 Billion other Women vs The.5 Billion in the West!✅💯. Better Women, Times, Lives & Laws Overseas!✅💯

[@gumdeo]

Hurry up, the sickness is spreading everywhere...

[@cecil7210]

Sensationalized with a man's reactions you mean. Of course I'll do the heroics. If you ain't helping you the bad guys. I think we agree. Sometimes I be under the impression women try getting stronger emotional reactions out a fella like I'm some free undisciplined wild man. Institution, maturity and a bit of class can reconduct human nature. Of course nowadays gals get away with nearly everything. Heroics just like saying security. Mfs get weirder and weirder. You only get as far as she willing to discover and if she thinking what you thinking. Once she in yo head that's when you on the right track. At least that's what I realized. If we not thinking alike it's not that great/quality of a time. Ppl who they been at their core before meeting so that's likely where they comfortable even if not where they want to go. Some prefer stuff the way they were over where they at. My loyalty and trust are my most favorable strengths I pride to this day.

[@naida6958]

I love this sister . Thank you sadia ❤

[@Laphroaig16]

You're up bringing plays a very big part.

[@oeckstei]

Interesting seeing Star Wars theory on here lol. What a crossover.

[@KingSalaman]

Cant ask the fish how to catch it, you ask the fishermen

[@tb4608]

Thank you Sadia ❤

[@jasonzipperian6811]

She's beautiful without question

[@gilberttan1868]

At the beginning there is sound interruption starting in 2:00 untill 2:30. Curious about what is he asking.

[@calinpopescudumitru]

Sadia, you can even smile

[@nualanicghearailt8011]

Wow, Sadia is wonderful 😊

[@markclark9239]

Hello that is so awesome always 👏 doing so excellent 👏 you both doing great she is so beautiful so charming ✨️ 🌹 looking so gorgeous bless you 💖 ❤️ 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@bjornjohansson1716]

There is an episode of mythbusters were a blind man is driving a car in a street (closed) by the instructions from a person in the back seat. This whole debate on what women want is like that, when he is told turn left, well how far left? And when? When to stop turning? When is the next thing? How fast? Braking? I think it's like that, both have challenges here, the woman is the instructor and the blind man drives. Both are in the car and suffers the same fate if they crash. Don't do that I can't see Well you should know anyway

[@lisalinnae9844]

New age genius... thank u❤

[@Pasonrev]

All lies. Women just want money these days. and the more you have the more they will "Love you"! fight me on that.

[@gumdeo]

Unrestricted hypergamy will destroy any society, given sufficient time.

[@jjcohrs3046]

Sadia, am new here. Your shorts popped up and u got my attention. Respect to ur values, we have the same outlook and values. Have a question, is there Christian women in Pakistan and is there a way or dating site to communicate with like minded single women?

[@oliverman6168]

Emotional fitness,no different to post physical activity the length of returning back to normal breathing determining your level of fitness.

[@JavieAngie]

you should be the next wonderwoman @ Sadia

[@GroovyDean]

I used to be that, the hero complex thing, trying to "save" my ex frm herself. I failed. So, nvr again. 😢

[@dumazilehlatshwayo4593]

when I listen to this, i notice that psychology will never be the answer, why? it sound good but how many relationship were saved after acquiring this info. the world need WORD therapy

[@shawnboggs7797]

I really enjoy Sadia’s counsel, but in the end she seems deterministic; that people can’t or don’t change. What about repentance? Forgiveness? Reconciliation?

[@mib910]

Does all this applies to all people, successful or not successful?

[@ronalde.wilson7406]

Btw We are Not Trying to Save or Do Anything Else For Them!✅💯. More than 50% of Men in the USA Don’t have an American Woman, Don’t want one & are Not Trying to get one!✅💯- PEW Research. And High Value Men can & do live in Multiple cities & countries!

[@cmsacademy1673]

Is success in men purely measured in economic terms??

[@eugenehammond6225]

Just sounds frustrated, just plz God, and give no one all ur strength 🙏 ❤ love will follow

[@byronryan4216]

😵

[@General-p8u]

Digital ads & real-world effects on children. Targeting advertising to children may seem relatively harmless. However, a large amount of research shows how easily children are influenced by advertising. This is because their critical thinking skills and impulse control aren't fully developed.22 Jun 2020

[@martahernandez9887]

I totally agree that sense of protection + loyalty (that now a days seems extinct) 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Also small question: why the person that im with right now doesn't like to receive a small gift? Pd: I just gift him at his birthday (polo + boxers (joke between us)), another time socks (because I saw that he had a few ones with holes and for me it's really uncomfortable, so I got him a few pair so I make sure he it's comfortable), and a flannel t-shirt (than one day we went together to party he said to me that he didn't own one but that he really liked, so because i pass a good quality time with him i thought it was a good "thank u present") everything in total for 30 € that its my in my budget + when he did have to travel i make him food box so he doesn't pass hunger during the flight😅 why he doesn't want me to get him this small details? If a man can respond I would appreciate due that I don't have male friends an I need a masculine perspective on this 😅😅

[@GregDeman]

The fact that you are asking strangers instead of him tells me you're not in a real relationship.

[@dccoop4678]

Perhaps gifts are not his love language, although as a guy, I think your attentiveness to his rarely expressed needs is great. He seems kind of selfish, narcissistic by not voicing appreciation.

[@derekbentley334]

Work to save the creation. His backing

[@quiatimet]

Sadia is straight from Heaven ❤

[@TomFox1]

Keep making videos!! 🙏👍

[@carlyc9891]

Spot on!

[@jokerhouse6313]

Mrs.sadia great conversation I need more of this on Sundays

[@v9b23j]

While being agreeable and people pleasing as a child may have been a maladaptive coping strategy that earned conditional love from our parents/care givers, they can invite non-reciprocated narcissistic entitled behavior in some of our adult relationships.

[@dante19890]

Only victims attract narcissist

[@merol8321]

Dude sounds like AI Elon Musk

[@MSA-uj7cp]

Gold! thank you

[@patrickd3349]

At 65 I have been fortunate enough to have dated some amazing and beautiful women (Kind of bragging :)). I was a different man for each of them until I turned 35. Then I stayed true to my masculine self, and the quality of the women I was involved with improved greatly. Recently, I asked a woman I was dating "What would you bring to the table if we take this further?" I was blocked immediately...ha! Tell her what you want and need, and you will be stunned. It's so easy. Women are generally awesome creatures. Like that needs explaining. "A man meets with no more respect than he exacts."

[@hallowakers3d2y]

Sound like a simp

[@SpeakerGregoryDwyer]

Love your wisdom.

[@celeste3100]

You know she says be appreciative and loyal to men which I have been in my relationships BUT they still stray to the chaotic woman because the relationship is predictable and I guess they get bored because I was easy to get along with. So why even try to date. I’m gonna get cheated on regardless.

[@bobbybeast1000]

ALOT of your videos say men should be this and this and this and dont do this and this and this .... Well Sadia, THE SAME THE APPLIES TO BOTH GENDERS !!! If you want a man to be self controlled with his body and finances, women have to be the exact same thing !!!

[@vukmicunovic565]

Beautiful and posses x faktor

[@chrislim7976]

Choose your trainwreck.

[@PBEl-mj4en]

Why would a person take relationships advice from a woman who can’t even get her man to marry her? She’s an advocate more for securing a lifestyle over true commitment. Any woman who would put herself into a “committed” relationship is either insecure and unworthy or is desperate. Any way you slice it, there is no true commitment. Either can walk away whenever they feel like it Marriage is commitment. A “committed” partner is not committed. If he is in love and trusts her, he would lock her down, take her off the market, as quickly as possible. The woman would not even have to ask him if he’s going to marry her. How is she an expert?