Ep:11 Stop Dating Based on Potential!!

[@NativeSunshine-ec5vb]

20’s were dumb. 30’s we’re learning. 40’s, we got that ish. In that order. Potential ain’t nothing. Be fact based. You need to see it and touch it. Only!!!

[@Jazzycoach24]

AMEN

[@TheRealShanyeWest]

i appreciate the more positive content now … don’t worry anout the numbers because it’s someone like me that’s always willing to listen

[@genwill7677]

Listening to this advice will save you so much time and energy on the wrong person. Thanks for this Armon bc we’ve been fooled to be so compassionate that it leads us to our demise.

[@marcusgray2799]

Very true. Men be tricking women into the potential relationships. Try dating the nerdy guys who actually like/love you and want to give you the world. Yea they act a little different but acting all fun everyday gets old after 25 years old

[@gettrim73]

And his advice may possibly save your mental health or even your life 🤔

[@caylacummings434]

I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS! Thank you Armon!👏🏼

[@raquel7675]

This is so true! Dating for potential can lead to disappointment.

[@LadyBNatural]

Facts

[@Zoraya4833]

Not can,, *WILL

[@Jazzycoach24]

Every time! Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@supastar97]

Or disaster 😮

[@ButterflyBree]

This is true for friendships and jobs too. If it's not an optimal situation on the front end, It's unlikely the situation will improve.

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

*Just remember, others can feel that way about **_you,_** too; including friends, family, partners, lovers, and **_employers._*

[@Onsination]

"coulda shoulda wouldas,.. and never turned into gotdam thing..." gag! 4:56

[@NativeSunshine-ec5vb]

This is 100%. Me being older, I will say absolutely, you told no lie!!! I needed to hear this in my early 20’s & 30’s, I when I was bumping into walls. ✌🏽✌🏽💙

[@supastar97]

Green Flags ONLY! 💚💚💚 I love ❤️ it!

[@samiyahfassette8950]

My therapist told me years ago, “that potential is some shit a nigha ain’t doing.”

[@SLAYYY92]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. I am howling!

[@RodericMartez]

You’re spoiling us! You cannot let up after this!🤭🔥

[@Bestchoice2008]

Then you find yourself losing yourself to focus on their dreams, building them up, finding opportunities for them while they gradually shift your focus from your own goals! Now they want to attach themselves to your business and your success! I’m over it! Come with your own and you better not need me to be poppin like I don’t need you!!! If we end up working together I better benefit like you benefit! It ain’t worth it!

[@donellebibo7706]

Another one, thank youuuu 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@jazzyjujubee4493]

Thank you Armon!! I'm loving this content! I remember you saying you want to speak to ppl and teach ppl by the stadiums! You on ya waaaaayyyyy TF!🛎🛎🛎🛎💣💣💣 I been rocking from the beginning and you are truly a blessing and motivating me to continue to walk in MY purpose! Sending love and light ALWAYS 💜💜💜

[@nienie4]

Right” I’m just going to give him the befit of the doubt” looking ahh 😂 No Mas

[@MsLaShunda]

Teach Armon!

[@Jazzycoach24]

Yup that used to be when I didn’t really know my worth. I dated for potential and most times they never changed smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@CJSails]

Ooooh, Great Topic, Armon! I'm going to have to disagree, though. People should date based on potential-however, many date based on likes. A person will have potential regardless, but are you the muse they need to bring it out? If people dated based on potential, half the relationships we've entered would not have been. Most people see potential as good things, but it's also the "Red Flags."Dating based on like masks the potential in a relationship. We might have to be more transparent about whether we are dating based on likes. Just cause you like Tyrone or Kelly's bedroom game does not mean you should be with them. You are in like with them.

[@nj8778]

This! Thank you for covering this topic. Mfs will gaslight you once you come to terms with their reality to keep selling that dream.

[@fosterfoster9913]

Let’s normalize making sure we measure up to them before judging potential

[@AlejandroAlex]

Exactly. People say potential as an explanation to others but deep down they know they can’t make a person into something they’re not.

[@alexdoestumbling]

heavy on the dating on potential will have you with wasted time and in debt‼️

[@dianecouncil9165]

Armon you ain't never lied, you are soooooo on point on this one, you have dropped some real gems today my friend. Stay up, stay blessed and stay wise..😊😊

[@Vanessa-sp8ri]

Speaking facts Armon! 💯

[@sherrodtaylor5967]

I’m loving these conversations!! Keep the content coming.

[@Lizlemon101]

Yes and thank you ! 🎯

[@taylornj8582]

👍🏾💓👍🏾 “Brighter than a MFER!” 😂😂

[@ChomiMelissa]

I love u so much Armon keep these messages coming!!!!!!!

[@Inspired7253]

Is great to see u doing a lot of different content cause u are inspired. We can fell It. Happy for you! Keep going

[@NC1PRODIGIES]

Completely ON POINT‼️‼️‼️

[@CocoFranklin]

I am LOVING your new videos and appreciate seeing more of your personality. Go you boo!

[@irresistible-force]

Omg you are spot on! I have been saying this and recently dated a man and I expressed this same sentiment. I had to step away.

[@workitladypodcast]

Facts upon facts!

[@QUEENVLOGZZBYKALIOFFICIAL]

Love this

[@christinamoore9618]

U is preaching today

[@shamikaquashie3511]

Not one lie told !

[@mase_with_da_mess]

This is so true, Dang, Wow this hits 💕

[@queenytaughtme]

Preach preacher !

[@poeticpoems1234]

A scending R eflections to M otivate O ptimal N arrations✨💜✨💜✨💜

[@luxpearlbbp3380]

Well knock my hat off why don’t cha😂get out of my business armon 😂

[@vickyvicky5938]

Your preaching now

[@capree7889]

I was just talking bout this 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@supastar97]

I had the most finest man and he every red flag 🚩 possible. I had to let that man go. He was causing me to be ill because he had so many problems.

[@victoriar5965]

Armon about to become my therapist 😂

[@clinessamymy6552]

Yes 💯 💯 for sure I need to do that

[@choosewisely6705]

Thank GODDDDD I woke up at 27

[@haitionp]

Yasssssss 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@EmcXperience]

Great video

[@lawrencecrawford4148]

Thank you!!!

[@nicoleblu5764]

I like these videos but could you also do some story time and rap content 😊

[@Michelle-cn9zp]

Nothing but facts😂

[@liv.r.2339]

Yes!!!!! 1000!

[@mlyosh03]

Facts 💯💯

[@leelee4570]

I love you armon 😂

[@richardballard5839]

Facts 💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@Carlos-pi4xx]

You mean perception not potiential women/men perceive alot they dont go for the cold facts if a man/woman has a car they must have money

[@brooklynprincess]

You’re saying nothing but the truth!!!

[@toshonline5]

I don't need to hear the truth rn lol

[@victoriar5965]

💯💯💯💯

[@Zoraya4833]

💯

[@starseede.b.7986]

Interesting you changed your whole COMMENTARY! 🤔 ….I will be checking out!

[@Zoraya4833]

Poortential

[@CallmeBigbrr]

This is exactly what I needed to hear today!! I was listening too all your recent uploads earlier this morning and I said to myself today is the day I cut him off !! Then u uploaded this!!! It was a sign, thank you Armon 🩷✨

[@baecationn6876]

I’m not looking for potential I need my man already potenched 🫰

[@naomiii2099]

I found my new virtual best friend 🫶🏽

[@Mili.Aris.Bayamon]

What if I’m the one not at my potential, but getting there, and I’m the one being pursued by one who may be at their potential? 🫣 help ❤