Ep 8A: Mediating a Parenting Agreement, with your Ex, for your Kids...after a Divorce / Separation

Getting to a Settlement and making a Parenting Plan Agreement is a big move. Whether you both do it yourself, use a mediator, or use another 3rd party for help, this Episode will give you key tips and terms to help you finalize your Parenting Agreement in a fair and thorough manner.
If you're a Father fighting for custody of your kids in Family Court, you've come to the right place! I'm creating this docu-series to help fathers get equal parenting time or primary custody in family court.
I won primary custody, only because of enormous effort. I should have had primary custody on Day 1, but instead it took over 3 years. We shouldn't have to go through that just to be treated as equal parents. My goal is to level the playing field since I found family court is obviously biased against dads. Therefore, I will teach you the strategies I used to win custody. You need to understand the system and how to fight for custody as soon as you can. You can’t wait until the trial is over.
My channel: Father X: How Fathers Can Win Custody
/ @fatherx2022
Subscribe to get updates as I post more tutorial videos. There’s a lot to cover to get you ready for court.
Topics I cover for you:
Episodes 1: Introduction to the Problem of Family Court
Episodes 2: Basics of Physical & Legal Custody, Orders of Protection (Restraining Orders)
Episodes 3: Choosing an Attorney vs. Going Pro Se; Interview Questions; Weaknesses of Family Lawyers; Saving money on lawyers; Secret added costs of family court
Episodes 4: How To “Play Nice” in court. Behavior Strategy
Episodes 5: The Best Interests of the Child
Episodes 6: My First Day in Family Court…and the overall Trial Timeline for 3+ years
Episodes 7: How to Tell If Your Family / Divorce Court Judge is Incompetent or Gender-Biased Against Dads
Episodes 8: Mediation & Custody / Parenting Agreements outside of court
Episodes 9: False Allegations of DV
Episodes 10: Researching Appellate Case Law - this is achievable! Shield yourself from the incompetence and gender bias of family court judges
Episodes 11: Preparing Your Child Custody Case - Testimony, Evidence, & Trial Strategy covering the Best Interests of The Child
Future Episodes:
Episodes 12: Your Mental Preparation - dealing with hopelessness, depression, & anger that family court creates for Dads
Episodes 13: Your Defensive Fortress - protect yourself from false allegations and things that can tank your custody case
Episodes 14: Children’s Services, Police and the Domestic Violence Hotline…handling these other players in the family court arena
Episodes 15: Forensic Evaluation…how to handle
Episodes 16: Your Witnesses and Hers - Choosing and Preparing for them
Episodes 17: Cross Examination: Yours and Hers
Fathers should have equal parenting rights, whether unmarried or going through a divorce. You may be seeking temporary custody, primary custody, joint physical custody, 50/50 parenting, or legal custody. You may or may not want a divorce lawyer or family law attorney. And you may seek out resources from father’s rights advocates.
Ultimately, you need to learn how to win a custody battle as a dad, largely by focusing on the best interests of the child. You are getting a divorce from your ex, not your children. And if you have a Restraining Order or Order of Protection against you, it’s an uphill climb. The silver bullet in family court can be deadly. If restraining orders are based on false allegations, there are ways to turn that around to your advantage. I did. But you must be assertive. And you have to learn how to navigate the forensic evaluation, CPS/ACS children's services investigations, and family law.
I am sorry you are in divorce/family court. But if you think it’s in the best interests of your child for you to have equal or primary custody, I am laying out what I learned into this docu-series, to give you a fighting chance.
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[@chay516]

I’m a mom and I watch your videos. So thank you

[@FatherX2022]

🙏

[@FatherX2022]

I hope you can settle with your ex out of court to create to a parenting plan that works for both of you and your kids. This Episode is designed to lay out many of the key issues you have to resolve in a mediated settlement. Knowing the issues to solve is half the battle, and hopefully can help you get to a settlement.

[@joeblow139]

Juneteenth, not 4th of July , huh

[@mrjayd02]

Thank you

[@FatherX2022]

You're welcome. I hope this is a good alternate path for you, as opposed to family court....

[@mrjayd02]

@@FatherX2022 I'm hoping that it would be a video detailing the plan for a sole custody time share with visitation

[@FatherX2022]

Yes, exactly...with the sections on Basic Parenting Time, and Summers/Holidays, both parents can alter that to create any parenting schedule they want. 50/50, shared, or primary custody. And there are many other important terms to think about besides just parenting time, in the 2nd half of this video. Good luck to you.