EPISODE 1: THIS IS ME. (Overcomfort Podcast with Jenicka Lopez)

In the latest episode of the Overcomfort Podcast with Jenicka Lopez, I open up about a very important aspect of my life and recent findings that have given me some clarity as to who I am.
This is one of the most vulnerable conversations that we will have - I’ve been nervous to open up, but believe this is finally the right time!
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[@yessirmz09]

GIRL! WE KNEW YOUR MOM WAS NOT PERFECT, THATS WHY WE LOVE HER! She was relatable, she was real, she was Not perfect and talked about her mistakes and didn't pretend to be perfect or have a perfect life. We loved her and her kids when she was alive and did ALL that crazy shit, and we still Love her and her kids.

[@72Guera]

Agree!! Love Jenni but I dont understand why people think Jenni couldnt make mistakes. I still think Jenni had the wrong idea about Chiquis & Esteban being together. Not just to save her image but Jenni did seem like the type of person who just had a problem admitting she was wrong. Does that make her a bad person NO, that just was the way she was unperfect like all of us.

[@danielaesquivel8148]

Literally 👏🏼💯

[@MegaKittyKat27]

@@72Guera Exactly, people forget that she was human. The negative thing that Jenni had was that she didn’t take accountability for all the wrongs she did. I think she was wrong what she did to chiquis, and wrong for not telling jenicka the truth of her parental linage. I think if jenni was still alive she would’ve admitted her faults, tell the truth, and would have healed along way.

[@princessofnada87j25]

Yet her behavior was erratic pathetic such a corriente and no not being perfect shouldn’t justified Puerquita Riveras dumb behavior only nacas do

[@ruthlopez-diaz185]

yo l lol liliputiense pop i’m cnn com tj yo uoooo i’ll opoo lo oooooooouua va . bbb lo oil cm u hi

[@bibirazo5382]

It does not damage Jenni’s name! She’ll always be the diva and you’ll always be her princess. ❤ God bless you

[@SR-ry8te]

She's selfish and a clout chaser

[@lizgonzalez4898]

@@SR-ry8te facts

[@laguerita289]

@@SR-ry8te how is she a clout chaser if she’s dead and she won the love of the public? why don’t you just stop talking with your hypocrite ah nobody needs you here.

[@laguerita289]

@@lizgonzalez4898 i know you ain’t talking meca looking ah.

[@7Htown1Mami3]

GO JENICKA FOR ASKING MEDIA AND PUBLIC NOT TO ASK ABOUT THIS!! 👏🏼👏🏼

[@emmaportillo9841]

You ARE a princess 👑. And this didn’t hurt your moms image babe. It just makes her life story even more relatable ♥️

[@T.Dee28]

Very true ❤️

[@griselvazquez9378]

Bingo ty for sharing this.

[@angieruizluna8073]

Yes 🙌

[@janiebarba1741]

No one is perfect we all learn this as we grow up, you totally have a right to express your true feelings, you are only human now that this is out in the open do you girl, your such a smart, strong, beautiful woman. Many blessings

[@La_unica_estrella]

💯💜

[@manuelmejia4481]

I just found out I have a daughter that found me 25 years later going to meet her next week......I can relate...

[@jessicaolvera907]

You didn't know you had a daughter??

[@babelupe1982]

God bless you and both of you have a lot to Catch up and I hope everything goes well golfo both of you

[@manuelmejia4481]

I never knew I had a daughter ...I have a wife and 2 daughters already 23 years with my wife .......Now 25 years later I found out about a new daughter

[@manuelmejia4481]

@@jessicaolvera907 never until last week

[@babelupe1982]

Never late still have time ☺️

[@mischelperez8348]

The fact that you look just like your mom is insane. This is your journey and your life, your mom was human like everyone else people will always have something smart to say so don’t let that get to you. ❤

[@mariaarredondo1237]

Honestly thank you, I'm 25 years old, and I just found out that I was adopted. And it's been hard.

[@ValeriaMontalvo-ey7tw]

Hola disculpa porque a sido dificil saber q fuiste adoptada? Te tocaron padres malos😢o no te trataban bien

[@yolandagutierrez5134]

Question 🙋‍♀️ I am in a similar situation my daughter is adopted. Trying to find the best way to tell her. She is 8 years old and I don’t want to hurt her but I know I need to tell her.

[@mariaarredondo1237]

@@ValeriaMontalvo-ey7tw no es eso, pero la manera en que salio la verdad fue sin querer. Solo por bromiar de una situacion, fue como ha pero lo tuyo fue peor. Y pues asi es como me entere. No hubo delicadesa, y claramente no fue algo que concideraron

[@mariaarredondo1237]

@Yolanda Gutierrez honestly I think she is so young and sometimes we don't understand much at that age. But I do suggest not waiting for her to find out by herself. You know, you know your daughter and I think if you believe she can understand once she is abit older sit down with her and open up.

[@yolandagutierrez5134]

@@mariaarredondo1237 thank you I have really struggled with this because I don’t want her to find out from anyone other than myself but it’s so scary to think about and it’s so hard. I don’t want to lose her love or hurt her. Hearing from your perspective as the adopted child helps. Thank you so much

[@gracielahernandez4741]

Why am I crying? I would beg my mom to tell me who my dad is and she’s never told me so I always felt lonely and I’m different then my siblings & i think you doing a DNA kind of gave me a boost to go out and do one and find closure. I honestly think that’s all the healing I need to move on with my life ✨

[@sandradiaz9962]

I love that you inherited your momma’s strength 🤍

[@AlyG]

PADRE no es aquel que engendra sino el que educa, cría, y orienta. ❤ You’re momma was definitely a strong person and as a mother myself I’m sure she had her reasons not to tell you at such a young age. You’re such an amazing person Jenicka, you definitely have such an amazing future ahead of you! ❤

[@jania7215]

Amen! It’s the one that raised you.

[@karenyareligarcia8387]

❤️

[@jocelinsilva4061]

Maybe she was petty and kept it from the baby daddy and didnt tell him she was pregnant 😅...

[@victoriahernandez8641]

Imagine one day just wake up and feel soo free and all of a sudden everything makes sense with yourself and with your life what a beautiful feeling we love you ❤

[@itsamarissalife]

Jenika thank you for being so vulnerable with us. I can’t even imagine how much this took out of you to share this with us being that you’ve always been in the spot light. I think if where in the same position I would’ve let you know by a certain age but also would’ve made sure to communicate this information to someone else just in case. Sometimes or most of the times things don’t go as planned but bless your heart for having that forgiveness and understanding your mother. Sending you so much love 🤍

[@marieguerrero2976]

It will definitely not hurt her image, this will make her more real. She was always so transparent and did not scare or hide from her mistakes which most of us who are not even famous do

[@evacuevas5506]

She did hide her mistake, sorry it does damage her image.

[@laguerita289]

@@evacuevas5506 just because she made a mistake does NOT damage her image, everybody makes mistakes nobody is perfect.

[@evacuevas5506]

@melanie there's mistakes, and then there's mistakes. In her fans eyes it doesn't change anything, but in the general populations eyes itt does damage an image, no matter who the person is, famous or not.

[@starp1640]

I did not walk here I ran here!!! ❤much love sweet Lady!!! Prayers You are such a brave young lady!!!

[@deysifavela582]

I thought I saw you pass me by as I ran myself 😂🤣

[@evacuevas5506]

Let's not make excuses for mom's not telling kids and father's the truth, it affects people's lives. We cant and shouldn't normalize it, It's very selfish, glad your doing ok.

[@rubycollazo7608]

Sometimes as a mother when they are you you have to protect them! And if keeping something like this quiet and away from her child she had a reason! You’re nobody to sit here and say she did bad! Because you know nothing about her mother’s intentions.

[@yessi4510]

I can't imagine all the emotions that came with finding out + grieving both parents. Speak your truth! We're here for youu ❤

[@darlayayis]

As I’m cooking for my boys I listen to this and I shatter in tears, I’m in the exact situation me as your mom and my 3 yr old as you. I’ve always asked myself if it was the right thing to do to let it be known that the man that was raising my 3 yr old wasn’t the bio dad. Ever since I found out about the dna results I didn’t let it be known until 4 months later I felt like I was drowning in a cup of water knowing about it and not saying anything to anyone until I had enough and I let both families know about the situation after that I felt so relief.

[@idalixramirez8072]

You’re making me cry mama!!!! You guys are all sooooo strong!!! Sending you an air hug 🫂 ❤❤❤

[@kristalharo3447]

I found out about my dad at 35 years old. My mother is also Mexican and my father ended up being Puerto Rican . Same situation I felt different inside for some reason. My mom also kept him a secret. I guess our mothers were trying to protect us there own way. Thank you for sharing Jenika. I was soo angry but now hearing that you went through the same thing makes me feel like more normal as a human. If that makes any sense ❤❤

[@kristalceee]

Only commenting to say I’ve never seen anyone spell “Kristal” the same! So cool to see!

[@dulceaniprints]

Jenicka I really hope you read my message because I just want to tell you that what you did doesn’t need approval from anyone as long as it came from you. You own this story and no one can judge it. I believe that your mom hubiera hecho lo mismo si estuviera in your shoes. I think you know your mom more than anyone else and you know that she loved you , and for whatever reason this happened just know that your mom loved so much and those prayers were answered because you look just like her 😊❤ thank you for opening your heart and we love your mom with her mistakes and good things she did no one can even question because only her knows the real escenario and why. Thank you and I love that you have a podcast ❤

[@MariaGarcia-qh7fv]

Jenicka, you have always been an inspiration. You amaze me every time. Parents make mistakes, I think that everything that has happened to you is what makes you the person we know and love. Jenni had her reasons for it being a secret, that doesn't take away the amazing mother she was. She knew you needed someone like juan to be your dad. I'm glad you're starting to find out more about yourself and it's all about what you do with the cards you've been dealt. You and your siblings are truly one of a kind and I love you five 💛

[@stuckonjo]

This was such a vulnerable topic for the first episode and I want to express how proud I am of you for sharing this. You’re such an amazing young woman! You’re so strong! I hope someone gave you a huge huge hug after filming this. That’s all I kept thinking “awe I just want to hug her.” Again, thank you for being so vulnerable!! 🫶🏼

[@dga3720]

So glad you followed your gut feelings. Your mama would of told you in time. Remember your mama was not ashamed of anything that's why we relate to her none of our lives are perfect and she showed us to not be ashamed and keep going. Chin up, your so strong.💕

[@evacuevas5506]

She was ashamed, knew it was wrong.

[@Havealilfaith]

You should never feel bad for wanting to tell your truth. You’re such an incredible, amazing women. Only your mom knows why she handled the situation like she did. No judgment here. All love ❤

[@Maria-er6yz]

Your mom of course would’ve told you expecting for the right time, her passing so very unexpected shattered that opportunity for both. You have shared your story so graciously with such heart, just like your mama, making her so proud. Blessings to you always from our divine Heavenly Father.

[@monicaceja1714]

My mom waited to tell me until I was 18, I don’t hold grudges on her or anything I love her so much and respect her as well as my father because he was the one that raised me the one that gave me his last name the one that was there when I need him and he is still in my life even tho he knew this whole time, I am so grateful to have him as a dad❤️ I have not even tried to look for my bio dad at this point I think it’s too late I am now 22

[@bolita7]

Same situation, my mother told me at the age of 17. I paid no mind to her, because for me the only father for me was the father that raised me from birth. My mother had her reasons for not telling me until I was 17. I am 55 now and barely found out who my biological father was.

[@50shadesofShay.]

Same thing happened to my brother. I just found out my dad adopted him but he doesnt know hes adopted and he's 40. My grandmother told me on her death bed when I was 25. My mom still wont tell my brother or me. God bless you. So happy for you and the journey youre on.

[@yajahiragambino8928]

Maybe your momma was waiting for you to get a little older to tell you since you were only 15 years old when she passed. Atleast Juan was there for you no matter what. Im glad you have comfort now sometimes we have to let it all out to move forward. Lots of love Jenicka. 💜

[@mendozaaseret]

Thank you for telling your story, as someone who recently experienced a similar situation, I now know my feelings then were completely valid. After 21 years of having my dad and the only person I ever knew, I found out that he wasn’t my biological father. The feelings of being different and questions of why I didn’t look like my siblings were finally answered. It was and still is a rollercoaster of emotions and though I had answers to questions I’ve asked my whole life, I now had more questions of “who I am”, and “where do I come from”. Unfortunately like you I didn’t have my mom to tell me the full story. I later discovered that my biological father didn’t want me and denied my existence before I was even born. Honestly that hurt to hear and was the only time I wished I never knew. I grew angry and sad that he didn’t even try and moved on like nothing happened. With time that anger and saddens turned into being appreciative because had that not happened I wouldn’t have the man I call “dad” today. Coming up on 2 years of finding out I still know nothing about him. One part of me still wonders what he or his family might look like and if I resemble them. Another part of me doesn’t give it a second thought, I don’t care to know. I have my dad, a man that took me in and showed me unconditional love as well as his family that treated me no different. On the hard days I try to remember that, I’m loved by people who chose to be in my life. Though it hasn’t been easy it’s like you said God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers. 💜

[@solmorales18]

God loves you and you have always had the best family next to you.

[@evelynguzman5805]

Girl I feel you so much. This year I found out I’m half siblings with my sisters. I still don’t know anything about my biological dad but I think I’ll be taking that dna test. Thank you for sharing your story 💗 it feels contorting to know I’m not alone

[@cristinamorales6517]

How did you find out you’re half siblings ?

[@jennirivera133]

Compatriota!!!! An enormous hug from one Boricua to another Boricua 🇵🇷💞💞💞💞....

[@theodorasalazar2871]

Mija, the way you went about this situation is very admirable. You’ve been through so much in your 25 years. You didn’t even have to explain anything to anyone but you did. I wish you the best, may God bless you and your family!!

[@michelleperez2510]

You should talk about how your moms Netflix show made you and ur family feel honestly 💛

[@jassminxo]

yes!

[@mayelaramirez8504]

Which one?

[@laguerita289]

@@mayelaramirez8504 Mariposa de barrio

[@bgutierreza3]

This made me emotional, nobody is perfect We are all Human .. you were blessed with your dad who raised you but your deserve to Live your truth aswell mama good luck on your journey

[@celesteletona3216]

The fact that some mothers are selfish. They don’t see how lying like this harm a child. They are no reasons to justify this. My mother did the same thing to my brother and he suffered mentally. I saw him suffered and it was just so sad.

[@remirichter7988]

exactamente, se paso de Lanza esa vieja

[@OnlyYourLove02]

Omg this had me balling my eyes out! I can sense your pain, but I’m glad you’re healing and moving past it! I’m just glad you were able to find this out while you were living so you could get that closure. And I completely agree with you! Waiting too long or withholding information from your child ends up being more damaging to the child than being straightforward and honest with them to begin with.

[@ZHab336]

YOU DIDN’T HURT ANYONE IMAGE!! YOU HAVE NO FAULT. IT WAS HER ACTIONS.

[@KillariDevi]

What a blessing to have your biological father around. I hope you two can form a beautiful relationship. I love Jenni. I think she was going to tell you as you got older but unfortunately she couldn't. You have siblings who adore & LOVE you!! That is also a blessing!! I hope you continue to fully heal. All the best, chica!! ❤

[@missbmak]

You deserve to know your truth and never be ashamed of it. This is your story and it’s on you how you finish it. Soo happy for you and your truth.

[@dyllanmendoza9918]

Your mother will be so proud of you keeping your mother's legacy alive

[@Isabel_760]

I think jenni wanted to wait to tell her when it was time most likely when she’s older, I’m glad she opened up to us about this topic I respect her and her mother of course she will always be a legend.

[@cascabeles1]

This is exactly why I do not like family secrets. Wishing you the best.

[@grisantiavendano1644]

Jenicka - thank you for authentically sharing your truth, your feels around it and ALLL the things . I’m sure you’ve been through a huge grieving process around this and glad you’ve been able to process and see deeply the love you have for your mamis image and the father you knew ! And going through the motions of seeing who conceived you with your mami.

[@sweetie940]

You’re amazing Jenicka! I hope the media and the rest of Rivera family respects your wishes about the situation. You are brave and strong!

[@T.Dee28]

Heeeyyy Boricua 😂 You have grown into such a beautiful light. Thank you for being vulnerable and opening up because you sure as hell didn’t have to. I get it though it’s so you can heal and move on yourself. Now you can embrace your Puerto Rican side haha Can’t wait for the episodes to come!

[@miriamruiz155]

YES JENICKA!! SPEAK YOUR TRUTH!! I just want to give you a big hug. You are so strong and admirable for your maturity. ❤❤❤❤

[@irvaz3057]

Jenni Rivera couldn’t get more relatable but I was wrong . She’s so relatable . Even more !!!!!

[@angelicagonzalez4482]

What an incredible 1st episode Jenicka. Let me tell you this as a Jenni Rivera Fan and an I love Jenni Fan our perspective does not change about her we loved her and will continue to love her regardless as we do her children too. Keep doing you boo, shine bright like a diamond and keep growing and glowing.

[@camilazapatariveros7223]

Que valiente eres al contar tu verdadera historia.. Que maravilla que no sientas rencor hacia tu madre, sus razones debió tener, seguramente muchos temores y nunca encontró el momento, pero eso no la hace ser una mala madre, solo no le alcanzó el tiempo.. ella los amaba profundamente. Ámala aún más y envíale mucho amor para que pueda volar en paz 🦋.. Un abrazo desde Chile, Jenicka.

[@monicamontes4049]

On the episode chiquis coincidentally made a joke about jenicka’s dad being a Puerto Rican guy ! That’s crazy. But we the end of the day , I’m glad you found the other part of you ❤️

[@yessica14tellez]

It might’ve not been coincidence, she probably said it based on the ethnicity results if it showed Puerto Rican

[@iv5553]

Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your life with us, I have so much love for you all, and I will always have so much love for Jenni. I can't wait to see all your episodes!

[@SADE_408]

Jenicka looks the most like her momma. Wow! Thanks for sharing your story. God bless you 🕊

[@Stitchesmom]

Oh jenicka I just wanted to give you a big hug. 💖 You are so strong, beautiful inside and out. My dad was out of the picture before I was born and my mom got deported when I was 10. All I can say is when I was smaller I didn’t understand what deportation was and kids would always tell me I had no parents because no one loved me. With that being said when we are little we really don’t know what’s going on and knowing how much your mom loved all of you I’m 100% sure she had a reason. I’m hopeful that you find peace in all of it. I know I’m no one to you but just know everyone is so proud of you mamas 💖 it takes a lot of guts to talk about things a lot of our families tried to hide. Keep it up! 🥰

[@elizabethchalini]

I’m so proud of your growth! I’ve always thought you were special in your own unique way! Your beauty shows from your personality how genuine you are and the energy you give! ❤️❤️❤️

[@fiorelamedrano2639]

I’m on the search to find my biological father at 50. It’s ok to find our truth and be able to heal. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💪🏼

[@elianafortiz-gardner9007]

I was honest with my child from the very beginning. She's being raised by a loving man as her dad, and her biological wants nothing to do with her, and so far, we been very open about it this topic with her. I didn't want her to not know the truth about herself for being different from her other siblings it was very hard, but she understands now and she's good with the loving dad she has now raising, loving her like his own! Cuddos to those man that does step up to be DADS! Good luck on this new chapter! ❤️

[@celesteletona3216]

You are an amazing mom and I wish all mothers will see this. Some mothers are so selfish that lie to their children about their identity. Children need to know the truth. One day they will become adults and they are ones who get hurt not the mother. I just don’t believe there is any justification to lie about this. I applaud you for been an amazing mother and putting your child happiness first.

[@mariasotomayor]

Mi niña, eres Bendecida de saber ahora que tienes dos papas. Juan siempre sera tu padre, pero ahora tienes la oportunidad de conocer a tu otro papa y tener una relacion con el. Tu mami se gano el cariño y el respeto de todos por ser ella misma. Por ser original y no falsa como otras personalidades. Ella fue transparente y no se le condena por querer protejerte, al contarion, se le respeta mas porque confirma una vez mas que su prioridad era y seguiran siendo sus hijos, auqneu fisicamente ella no este. Dios te Bendiga a tus hermanos, sobrinos y a ti. And PLEASE, do not ever judge your mom for loving you so much.

[@Praisethelord_EDITZ]

As a mom it hurts, it’s scary! Because the last thing we want to do is hurt our babies, let them down or for them to hate us you know.. but deep down, personally myself I could not keep it a secret forever. I don’t ever want them to resent me for it. We cannot control the outcome but we can let the truth set us free. I told my son last year who was 8 years old. There’s not ever going to be a “right time” to do it but I chose this time being that my son was capable of understanding and express in return how he feels. I have yet to tell his little sister as well that the man who’s raised her since she was 1 is not her biological father but he is their DAD. My kids love this man regardless and I know they will forever love him as he is the only dad they know. It’s not who “made” you but who was always there and raised you ❤ Your mom never wanted to hurt you & the Lord knows she loved you endlessly. I admire your strength and compassion Jenicka. I know your mom and dad are looking down at you, beyond proud!

[@esmeraldavasquez4521]

My little sister has a similar story, we decided to tell her at 9 years old who is very mature. Your so strong and beautiful independent woman ❤

[@yadiravargas981]

Everything happens for a reason!!! Your momma was mom and dad a lot of the time .. must be proud to have a mom so strong like her .. and her prayers were heard, you are your mommas twin 😊❤

[@sandovalcrisol03]

Props to you girl! Your mom is an inspiration to many of us and the fact that you’re speaking on something so personal to the whole world makes you a bigger inspiration ❤️

[@Ivydayz007]

I told my son when he was 7/8. And I think it was the best choice. Thankfully, my ex husband and his family never treated him any differently. And to this day, my suegra (ex suegra technically, but she’s stuck with me forever ❤) always says “That’s my grandson. And he will always be.” I was very blessed in that department. As for me, my mom always told me. I knew since I can remember. I met him as an adult. I don’t have a relationship with him. My choice. That’s a whole story. Lol Anyway…. You’ll always be his princess. I hope this helps you find yourself. Sending you lots of positive vibes and happy thoughts! ♥️

[@users26326]

I'm definitely going to have to name one of my eight daughters because i simply love your name God bless you Jenicka you have a great English accent i love it. Good luck princess you're just too cute.

[@luisortiz_official]

Eres tan dulce Jenicka, tienes una vibras tan relajantes, esperando tu próximo podcast.🤍

[@gabriellachavez8885]

You are so brave and so mature. No one should be judging your mom or you for saying this. The important thing is that you are finally at peace.

[@stephanieespinoza1422]

My mom did not want to tell me i found out who my dad was when i was 8 by other people. I am an open book with my kids some say too much but I do not care. I like to be Raw. maybe its because i was in a situation similiar to yours and dont want them to "not know". Your mom is my biggest inspiration. This had to be a tough thing for her to go thru.

[@nohemihernandez7996]

Very strong of you to talk about this! Sending you a huge hug ❤️

[@Stelly476]

Jenika I’m so glad you got this off of your chest!! This doesn’t change the love your mom had for you as a mom I’m sure she was trying to protect you in her own way and as life goes on things start to get more and more complicated and as you said she probably knew at some point she needed to talk to you about it but why add more complications at that time. Stay Awesome & Stay Blessed

[@melaniemass6921]

No one is perfect mama !!! I'm glad you spoke about your secret because that is how you will heal. Healing yourself is the first priority! ✨️

[@kanaaax4]

How crazy that you lost you’d dad and then your mom and out of nowhere you gain another father whaaat!!! Crazy how life works. How brave to share

[@shyetloka17]

I’ve always know from the whispers. It always bothered me but I was forced to be around these certain people who questioned who my father was… I hated it. I never cared for the man but I was always uncomfortable around these people who knew something but not the whole story… my story. When I had my son I need my mom to tell me! I needed to hear it from her. After I forced her to tell me it did feel like a weight lifted of my shoulders and I had closure on the topic. It wasn’t a secret anymore. I understood it was painful for her but I needed to know.

[@alejandrajoanna]

We all know your mom was perfectly imperfect and that is why so many people love her. Thanks for sharing with us ❤

[@ltfood186]

Everybody makes mistakes and this just reminds us that you guys are normal people too. Appreciate your openness. On the bright side, your mom did everything that she could to protect you

[@jamielechuga]

No one is perfect! Your Mom was and still is a “chingona”!!!! This doesn’t change the way I think about Jenni Rivera. Jenni Rivera forever!!! 🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊

[@normajeane7993]

Jenni was not perfect. And that’s why we will always love her. Cause she was real! We miss her. Thank you for this ❤

[@susanaduarte7243]

Por eso amo a la familia Rivera, nunca dejan de sorprendernos, son una escapatoria a nuestras normales vidas.

[@vanessadelgado8709]

When I was 17 a month before I turned 18, my mom sat me down and told me my “dad” wasn’t my dad and told me about my “sperm donor” he basically didn’t wanna be in my life. So my step dad raised me since I was 2 years old. I knew him as dad my whole life. Im sure your mom wanted to wait to tell you when you were older and more mature to sit you down and tell you. Im so sorry you had to find out this way 😭

[@zurivelazquez1329]

I have a 10yr old whom as well was raised by my current partner as her father Based on your experience was 17 a good age for you Would you maybe need a counselor?

[@katherinearlena21]

Some of these comments are 🤦🏻‍♀️ .. jenicka you don’t owe an explanation to anyone. Thank you for sharing what you’re comfortable with. Admitting this is hard enough. If you don’t wanna reveal your biological dad, then that’s your decision. People are just nosy. Your mom wasn’t perfect like you said.. she was human. And I’m sure she wanted to tell you, but didn’t know how. I pray for you guys.. because you’ve been through a lot. And still. ❤

[@janieboo0711]

Juanela is going to have a lot to say about it like he always does!🤦🏻‍♀️ We love you Jenicka😍 ❤️

[@jackievega1101]

You are so strong for sharing this! So inspiring to see your vulnerable side of who you really are everything happens for a reason glad you are healed like you said THIS IS WHO YOU ARE and no one can change it much love! 🫶🏼

[@DMarti-ki4xn]

i feel like your mom did what she thought was best - whether she was right or wrong she had the best intentions . i also think she would have told you when she knew you would understand unfortunately things happen and she didn’t get the time to do so . and anyone that asks why you chose to talk about it needs to know it’s because people judge or assume who you are or what you’re like without knowing what you have been through first hand . best of luck to you beautiful ❤

[@alegv3852]

No judgment. No one is perfect by any means. She was protecting you sword and shield. You are all loved regardless of past circumstances.

[@maesmofe1966]

Hay mija, muchas gracias por compartir algo tan personal con todos nosotros, soy fan de tu mami y no a cambiado nada,la quiero igual como ser humano, y a ti te admiro y te respeto más ahora que nos compartes algo tan personal tuyo. Te felicito jenicka cómo tener todo ese valor de decirnos esta información. Gracias por dejarnos conocer quién es jenicka. Saludos a tus hermanos y me da gusto saber que Chon va a estar contigo en el próximo podcast. Admiramos a tu la diva y también a tus hermanos. Me gustaria que en un futuro podcast tuyo escuchar si tendrán una mejor relación con tus tíos y tus abuelos los Rivera. Yo le pido a dios que traten todos de volver a tener una bonita relación con la familia de tu mami por favor. Algo que quiero decirte es que para toda historia hay 2 lados y quisiera saber el lado de los hijos de jenni si es possible. Cuídate mija. Te deceo todo lo mejor para ti siempre. ❤️

[@Aprilmreyes21]

Hi Jenicka, you’re so brave for sharing your story the last 10 minutes of your podcast really hit home you ask such a very important question. I am a mother in the same situation my son is 15 and I just now in his life informed him the man he’s always known to be his father is not his biological father, and he is now processing the same. I felt like it was important to wait until he was at an age that he would understand, but didn’t want to wait for him to be too old and have resentment and or anger towards me. I tell him I would rather had told you as a teenager rather than a 30 year man later on in life, every buddy deserves to know the truth of who they are, and where they come from, and it’s not our decision as parents to take that from our children. I’m sorry your mom didn’t tell you sooner I’m sure she had valid reasons for her decisions, but know that as a mother, she must have been protecting you. it’s clear in all the videos and shows that she was one dedicated mother, who loved her children very much. I hope this message brings you peace just remember you speaking on such an important topic is very brave you should be very proud of yourself!❤

[@daisylu1973]

Thank you for sharing this, just please you & your husband both let you son know how much you love him & that you'll always be there for him. The teen years are a hard struggle on themselves, especially for boys, now adding this revelation can be extra hard. Sometimes teens love you so much, they put a strong face, not to worry you, but they're really struggling underneath. Blessings to you, your son & all your family!!!!

[@jja7608]

I have a cousin that is 35 years old and he still doesn’t know that the father he knows as his dad is not his real dad. His mom has kept this from him and it’s a family secret. I’m old enough to know as I’ve met his real dad and I want to tell him so bad specially because he does question why he and his kids don’t look like his dad. This a very though situation. You are very brave for addressing this, this happens to a lot of people is just mostly kept under wraps.

[@IsabelNunez0426]

Nah babe the answer I was expecting is “because I effing felt like talking about it” people I swear feel like they have to know why you do the thing you do!! I love you all jennis kids I love y’all so so much chiquis acts just like your mom and you look just like her ♥️♥️

[@monica28917]

Thank you for your vulnerability. You are one strong soldier.🤍

[@ayshasantana7983]

I’m glad you expressed yourself about your feelings mama . Your daddy must be proud of you and how far you’ve come along … we respect you a lot because it takes a lot of courage to record this post cast … and hey welcome to the Puerto Rican world ❤️❤️❤️

[@alem5675]

I had a similar situation and I told my daughter at 13. She felt the same way. Not knowing who she was. That was god telling me it was time to tell her the truth. Blessings

[@jasminesmommy7435]

So they made it seem like jenni went into labor early from stress but really this is the truth. You shouldn’t worry about your moms rep. Your the child she was the parent.

[@brendaquinones3874]

Didn't chiquis say she didn't get a quinceañera because it was her fault her mom had an early labor??? Chiquis was a punching bag for sure.

[@jasminesmommy7435]

@@brendaquinones3874 it was something like that , or it was around the time jenni found out about trino abusing the girls.

[@gisellegonzalez9236]

You are strong and I’m proud of you for speaking about this and letting it out. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@veronicaneri4338]

Thank you for sharing something so personal. I want to think that she was going to tell you one day but she never had the chance. But kids should hear it from their parent first. I’ve always been honest with my kids and it’s better for them to hear it from me than anyone else. You’re so beautiful inside and out your parents did an amazing job raising you. Blood isn’t always what makes you family. ♥️

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[@sofiapacheco3393]

The truth will set you free.....You are amazing ...❤

[@jennirivera133]

Best of 2 blood heritage!!!!!💞💞 Puerto Rico y Mexico!!!💞💞🇵🇷🇲🇽💞💞🙏🏻

[@theeangelic111]

Jenicka, you inspire me so much. I see so many similarities between me and you especially now that you are sharing more. I'm on a healing journey and I love the meaning of your brand! Merry Christmas 🎁🎄babe's I hope 2023 is our year!!! Sending positive vibes. ✨✨✨✨

[@HighItsCakeyy]

My heart 😭 ugh we love you Jenickaaaaa🫶🏻 you’re one strong women💯👏🏻🙏🏼

[@gabbycaravantes24]

I was in same situation, I was told when I was 13. Worse thing and at the wrong time/ age to have told me. At 40 yrs old now I’m ok but it, took me while to find myself. My father who raised me was the best, never made me feel the less than my sister. He passed away in 2020 not knowing that I knew he was not my father. I’m glad he never knew. It depends on the situation/ circumstances if you should tell your child the truth. My childhood was good till my mom couldn’t hold it in anymore. But by doing that she ruin my childhood and adolescence. I felt out of place. My dad made me feel safe and loved till the his last breath. He knew I wasn’t his biological daughter and he didn’t care he treat us the same.

[@dsalinas1805]

You are extremely brave to talk about such a touchy subject ! My admiration to you and your beautiful angel who is guiding you through out your whole journey on this planet! You are just amazing! Looking forward to your next podcast! Hugs from Houston Texas !

[@vm3141]

Nothing changes ❤ we love Jenni as a singer we are no one to judge her private life. I totally feel what you went through but pls. Feel proud for who you are ❤

[@TheJuliana809]

I’m sorry but the part where Jenni “prayed” that she didn’t resemble her biological father was so trifling of Jenni. That wasn’t her protecting her daughter, that was her trying to cover her scandalous behavior. You can forgive your mothers action, but only God can judge her heart. You don’t lie to your child in this way.

[@ayguey5294]

I agree! I can’t imagen what thoughts ran through Jenicka’s mind. She was left with confusion and probably more questions than answers.

[@roseortega807]

Absolutely!! She LIED to her child in the cruelest of ways. She witnessed her own child cry inconsolably at the death of a man who wasn’t her real father, and kept her from the joy, love and relationship of her real father. She stole her entire identity. Even tho she says she’s ok, she’s really not. She’ll probably never fully recover from this.

[@daisyojeda132]

Yea but Jenicka was only 12 years old when Juan Lopez died, she was still a child and when jenni Rivera unfortunately passed away she didn’t have the chance to tell her since she was only 15 years old, she was going to eventually tell her but it sadly didn’t happen, no one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes as Jenny had to make a living for her children, she was always thinking about the next step, and Jenicka is opening about this because she feels like this will help her heal, her dad will always be Juan Lopez because he was the one who raised her and then there’s her father, they are two different meanings

[@ezeyoutubered3266]

Yes I agree but, she had a Dad that loved her. WHY WOULD YOU HURT HIM. Everybody knew Jenny had secrets. She was a grown women could do what she felt(sleep) like its her life. She lived as we do, or please. Now THINK did that MAN married have a family why would you destroy them.

[@ezeyoutubered3266]

@@roseortega807 she had to cry for him he raised her as his daughter. Its not sperm donor, its the man that nurtured her, MADE THOSE MILKSHAKES FOR HIS PRINCESS 😇👸🩰🎠🦄🍭👑🙏