EPISODE 59 | CHANGING A MAN, TIPSY FALLS & TELLING IT ALL

[@alejandrarodriguez9891]

Having to face the fact that our parents our getting old and they’re not going to live forever is the hardest thing I’ve had to accept. Medical scares at their age, bring up so many emotions. Can relate so much to chy on this

[@Daydreamerr13]

Yes!!😢

[@dmv1408]

Yep, same

[@prettydancer971]

This has had my anxiety at an all time high for the past year more than ever😭 I don’t even want my mom to get a scratch. Glad I’m not alone

[@athenaharris8206]

I’m over here bouta start crying with Chy and here comes Winter with the comedic relief 🥹🫶🏽

[@mslaydee1202]

Winter came in clutch for all of us with her wild ass comment “you were being a b??” Hahaha staahppp

[@Vanemonae]

I love how real and authentic this podcast is. You guys do a great job of showing how hard life can be and how you navigate it.

[@fulltimeleo]

winter looking like a stud in this weeks episode 😭

[@scarlettramirez49]

But she looks so good 😂😂😂 fucking winter right

[@tinysneakerz8236]

😭😭😭😭

[@jas-n-motion]

Winter - You are free! Your freedom means more than anything in life. Don't overthink things and let your life flow. Being single is great! Love yourself more than a man can love you because you will deal with less BS.

[@lilija287]

Exactly! 🫶🏼

[@leslierivera742]

I love this!! ❤

[@cierrat6943]

!!!!!

[@tootsiee_roll]

Love this❤

[@brijackson5344]

We were in a retrograde for almost the entire month .. everyone I know has been hella emotional, including myself 😩

[@noellehelens2958]

Literally the whole month I did not believe it. Lol. That I enjoyed this … had to keep my attitude in line tho for sure

[@Melissar6778]

Omg I’ve been feeling the same say like so freakin sad

[@ktlovelivelfe]

Really? I feel like this is the least emotional time I have ever been in , in my life. And I'm on my period 😂 I was just thinking wow this has been a pretty good period cuz I'm not crying😂😂😂😂

[@jazzmanjohnson6441]

I came here to say this lol the retrograde is beating our asses 😅

[@jorgevalle77]

Why do you guys believe in everything but God? Retrograde is bs. Astrology is bs. You are sad because you are empty. The only thing that can fill that is The Holy Spirit. Jesus isn't a religion he's a person. Peace and blessings my sisters. One day you all shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free! "Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." John 14:6

[@kierragrace8333]

i guess we all just been sad asf these past few days 😭😂🤧

[@dayanaflores4780]

Literally

[@peytonbrand2019]

Something with the moon… js… yall seen that moon last 2 nights? 👀👀

[@gmonica517]

Same I was crying and seeing Chy cry made me cry more 😢

[@TaylaMarie777]

Chy, don't be too hard on yourself. He knows you love him, and he knows who you are. Honestly you never know, that could be a wake up call he needs to do better for himself, for his children and grandchildren! ❤❤❤God bless you and your family. ❤

[@renellelewis8858]

Facts

[@julizaolive5275]

Not winter looking like chy’s stud 😭🤣🤣💕 love yall

[@jenniferdominguez189]

I don’t want to push religion on you Winter but I’ve felt like that before and genuinely having a relationship with God changes everything, you’ll never feel alone again. You’ll feel the warmth and peace in your heart I promise you. Have trust in God❤️

[@anny7694]

thank you for your transparency. I know i'm not the only one in the world that is struggling but to see you ladies being vulnerable just made me feel less alone. thank you. The world is in a really critical state right now, sending love to everyone.

[@elenam3798]

Well said🙏 I’m going thru it too.. sending you 🫂

[@user-nb3tf6po2t]

"I went on his pictures to see if ppl were saying RIP" 😭🤣💀

[@magdagirl241]

I JUST SCREAMED

[@TyTysModernLife]

Other podcasts really need to take note, y’all transparency is one of the main reasons you have such a loyal following ❤ I can relate to both of y’all in so many different ways

[@devinovaa]

Chy: "I'm definitely not the type to wanna slit my wrists" Winter: "I am' Iconic

[@Chantix05]

“Please don’t hug me & rock with it.” 🤣💀😂 CAUSE FACTS. Lmaooooo.

[@RayaXO5]

I cried with you Chy 🥺💕 don’t beat yourself up, thank you guys for opening up with us because we all can connect to these situations

[@Rosabihhhhh]

No literally I always cry when I feel like I’m being mean to my parents that’s never my intention 🥲🥲🥲🥲 I cried with her too 😫

[@Mliinaa]

Winter, you arent alone in your journey looking for your tribe. I too am in my early 30’s, no kids, havent found the one, with litterally only 5 immediate family members. I also have a small circle of friends. You will experience having your own family. Keep putting your self in places where you will find a like minded man. Also, dont be afraid to change if u need to to get there. You dont have to stick to one persona. We are forever evolving. Remember that ❤

[@LariahValentinez-ey7cu]

“Gang affiliated today” LMFAOOO

[@3seven4]

Little Latino man is funny asfkk 😂😭😭

[@elenam3798]

As a Latina I know she meant Mexican 😭 them Cali cholos

[@tiahnajenee4455]

Cause I see what she saying too 😂😂😂😂😂

[@acaciaalize9424]

@@elenam3798 LMAO fr

[@usernamexoxo742]

The way they go from sad n crying then cracking a lil joke is so me lollll

[@devinawhidby9874]

Absolutely lovedddd the mental health talk❤️❤️it's so refreshing to here that people are still going through loneliness no matter how much money or fans you have

[@Chrysyyyy]

When Chy was talking about her dad saying he be smoking, drinking & cracking jokes. All I heard was CRACK & I almost had a heart attack. 😂😂😂😂😂 I was like that’s too lit. But, that’s how I feel with my dad & cigarettes. I be wanting to fuss. But, it’s like I don’t want to offend him. But, he’s had heart surgery & everything & just can’t stop. So, I get so mad sometimes. So, I totally understand how you feel. I hope he does get better.

[@Queen_Ce]

😂😂😂

[@eccho1]

I'm completely w you on that

[@xoxomeelah]

usually a silent watcher but i resonated with this episode so much , im going through one of the toughest times of my life right now and to know that me Chy and Winter are all goin through it rn makes me feel not so lonely even a little bit lol 💗

[@yinyangyikes]

Chy, I had a very similar situation with my own dad a while back & let me just say this: your dad (and parents in general) understand better than anybody having to reprimand someone out of love. They’ve had to do it to you & their own kids your whole life. They know it’s coming from a place of love just like it did from them when you were growing up & they were wishing you understood that everything they do/say is coming from a loving place. It’s just getting older, tables turn & we have to start parenting them 😂 I’m glad you clarified to him how you felt after the fact, I’m sure he more than understands ❤

[@Calderonaaa4]

Ugh thank you for this episode guys. Seriously bad bitches get sad too and I’ve been feeling the same way 😢

[@mariaschannel228]

Chy never fails to mention Beyoncé 😂

[@Melissar6778]

Yes an hour !!! I always check how long the pod is before I watch it. Lmao Love you guys ❤️❤️

[@baileehustak5375]

I guess we be sad all together 😭😭 I was crying all day the day before and yesterday. I feel like a lonely soul. I needed to hear this. I love y’all ❤

[@Hart-c5n]

I’ve watched every podcast sometimes reruns but let me say this one was on point like I found myself relating so many times 💯

[@likegoddess]

i feel you so hard winter on not having friends, family, a community etc. i’m in the same exact boat genuinely not feeling like i have something or people to enjoy

[@jimmybarreraa2804]

Girl we all been going through it! Chy thank you for being vulnerable I think this is the first time we see you cry and I think its well needed because although we like that your funny and bubbly this podcast focuses on relatability a lot and we all relate about going through it rn and being emotional. God got us though and we gon get through it!!

[@kluxe2222]

Awe this was great! Winterr be sure to have kids with the right person. Having a kid with the wrong person could change your life in the worst way. ❤

[@kierragrace8333]

i soooo understand what chy was saying about her dad🥺 you just love him and it came out in anger and that’s okay.. your heart was coming from a good place 🫶🏽

[@Mamaaaaa_2]

I just want to hug winter and let her know how special and BRAVE she is!!!!!!

[@MakeliaDwyer]

The way I felt this episode!!!! 😢 if only ya knew i literally watch y’all and enjoyed y’all podcast from day one due to feeling the way you do winter! I love how real y’all are I know a lot of ppl connect with what you put into words on a deep level.

[@elenam3798]

I’m here for the hour episode… Im going thru a rough time right now. Low key hit rock bottom. I’m thankful for my support system but I am so mad at myself and going thru the motions. Things were going well..☹️ So thankful for this podcast! I subscribed to the Patreon and it’s worth it. “This too shall pass” 🙏🏼

[@andreamorales9595]

Winter I feel you so much. I’ve always felt like an orphan in the world, I’ve never fit in anywhere and to find someone/something that feels like home is all I ever want

[@kaylagray9886]

Truly this is the only podcast I watch and will continue as long as y’all keep posting! I relate to everything you guys said, happy you guys still keep is real all these episodes later🥹😭❤️❤️

[@lovevelinxo]

This has to be one of my most favorite episodes! Yall were ALL over the place 😂but in a good way! I didn’t want it to end 🥹

[@christiejaye8743]

You guys are literally two peas in a pod. I love yall and we’re best friends in my head 😁

[@xoxo_kiyla]

Also Winter, that man did you a favor! He wasn’t the one and sometimes we overlook red flags because we’re flexible and want things to work but based on your story he wasn’t a good fit anyway lol. Getting ghosted the first time is traumatic though lmao I was like damn I need to stop doing this to people 😭

[@juiicyboo21]

Chy had me crying with her 🥹❤️

[@kaylanirose1011]

not me bawling with chy as she’s like “i’m just sad” it’s that mf aquarius moon.

[@Kimmi_xo]

Chile yesss that Aquarius moon hit DIFFERENT 😩 we be going thru so much internally fr fr !

[@jorgevalle77]

Not it's not. It's because you are empty. You dont have to remain empty tho. You can be filled with The Holy Spirit.

[@Subyek_]

when chy started crying , it triggered tf outta me because my mom passed away 3 years ago and i was so fustrated about how she lived her life and tbh it still hurts 😢

[@driar.2134]

As a 30 year old with a parent in their 70 Chy I totally understand! We just know that they won’t be here forever and we just get our feelings ❤❤❤

[@stephanieosorio9604]

The way I cried watching this whole podcast than smiled. I felt you and Chy so deeply, especially Chy. It’s good to know other are going through these motions.

[@justicedenise9224]

The realist episode, not me crying with you guys 💕 I love the transparency

[@Salvievelynn]

Do not feel pressure because you see others getting things you want. Your time will come ladies ❤

[@MrChucksims]

Chy you got my ass boohoo crying right now but I’m the same way with my mom I’m so over protective. But it’s funny how life works as we get older we literally become the parents to our parents😅💖 love yall✨✨✨

[@vanessagarcia9500]

I was like who’s that man next to chy??!! Love you winter 😂😂❤❤

[@AdoreiMandy]

Winter just get your man back (ex) I feel like she’s truly missing him and feels bad about the breakup even though it was mutual

[@kennythadon7087]

Chy hearing you talk about your dad resonates with me fr I love my dad so much and I hate when I worry about him I could not lose him

[@videobyceliss]

when chy said it’s been an aquarius full moon i said “ohhhhh that’s why i been going tf through itttt” 😭😭 it’s insane how i’ve been feeling the past few weeks.. love yall always💗

[@kiarahall6670]

Aww I love this episode. You guys really opened up and showed us your vulnerable sides. I could definitely relate with feeling empty and unhappy inside. I think it’s important for us as people to realize what our true life’s purposes are. Like what motivates you to wake up in the morning and/or what do you want to contribute to the world? How do you want to be remembered? Once you have an answer to these questions, I believe that it will help fill that void inside of you. Just know that we are all here for a reason. Don’t just waste your life away. What helped me the most was knowing that I wanted to help people and getting to know God and his purpose for me.

[@SabrinaDaniels-f7p]

I love this episode so much!!❤️ i’ve been going through so much myself and Felt so alone, you guys just gave me so much comfort 🙏🏾🥹 love you both such beautiful souls 🥰

[@solahni]

oooo yall i needed this for sure, how are we all going through the same shit? But as Chy said this too shall pass! God is preparing us for something so amazing

[@keoshamonique]

Aww Chy 🥹 I really felt this.. My dad is 70 too & I feel soo fortunate that he takes care of his health. I just came from visiting him too & felt so emotional leaving cause I feel like I need to be there more for him.. We have to show our parents tough love sometimes too, but he knows it’s from a place of love ❤

[@acmxx]

29:16 that story kept getting more and more hilarious lmao 😂

[@Prettyymayy]

First of all Chy don’t ever make me cry like that again at work 😂❤ But Winter I think I love you so much and have been following since bad girls club because you are so relatable to me , I am also mixed with black and white and my mom raised me as an only child , I too grew up a bit of a rebel, my mom smokes cigarettes, I don’t have a big family like we don’t get together never was close with grandma or aunts and uncles , and I never knew my dad or his side of the family . Just know you are not alone boo , and following you makes me realize I found my ppl 🫶🏽💕

[@cuteconceited]

Crying with chy & crying laughing while winter makes jokes abt about dying 😂😂

[@ggvlogs7777]

I love you girl I’m alone but y’all have made me feel like I have sisters. Y’all have taught me so much I’m so proud of you both. Chy I cried with you I needed this because it will be okay even if it’s not that such a girl thing to say but BIG FAITH. Winter I’m so thankful for your strength shows through your character. Don’t stay being you ladies. Just Thank You FR

[@pheeuh]

6:25 Chy definitely said nepotism 😂😂😂😂 LMAO I thought I was hearing things!

[@beautymusic9593]

Winter, I know that pressure your feeling and I too had those same thoughts until I met an amazing man when I least expected it, got married and had my first daughter at 35. You have time. Enjoy your single life bc even though I love my family you can’t help but miss those get up and go free moments. It will happen for you because you have too much to offer for it not to. Be patient and enjoy the present. ❤❤❤

[@TheAshleyyygee]

love this episode🥺 so raw and real (not saying the other episodes arent) just seeing another side of you ladies and how you guys handle the hardships and things someone more “famous” goes through. 🫶🏽 you guys!

[@Xoxoxo156]

This is why I fuck with y’all. Thank you for sharing bc God is definitely putting us all through a test. Stay strong ladies this will pass. God bless

[@elenam3798]

Amen😭🙏 this episode and last weeks was really needed

[@Hi.ttaysj]

“Ohhhh i was on a benderrr hehehehe” WINTER🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@justenluciano93]

Loved this episode so much thank y’all for being so open and vulnerable ❤

[@xoireneTTV]

YES ANOTHER HOUR EPISODE 🍾

[@TonyellevilleTemple]

I'm so much like both of you in different ways❤ and so uniquely myself. This is what this podcast makes me realize.

[@Loveandmercyforlife15880]

I love yall so much!! Every episode is relatable. Crying right along with you. Hopefully we are shedding and re-emerging new

[@mjmmsm21]

I’m crying w you Chy, literally I said something mean to my mom, few weeks later she was diagnosed w stage 4 cancer, within 30 days she passed so trust me, I understand your guilt to the fullest 💔

[@vixenvenus]

I'm so sorry for your loss, sending you so much love 🥺💕

[@jneslo7669]

I'm so sorry chy :( I lost my dad in June to alcoholic cirrhosis of the liver, it happened so quick and I hold so much guilt. Just spend whatever time you can with them while you can❤

[@tyranhall_]

Definitely shed a tear with Chy, I’ve been there and that pain you feel after is so deep. So I definitely understand and thank you so much for sharing with us 🤍

[@brebreberryfully]

Chy! You’re peeling infront of us like an onion! 😢🤍 I hate to see you cry, but thank you for coming to us so raw. I’ve been in that EXACT situation w my dad except he slammed his head into the oven glass. I felt guilty for chastising him, but it seems the older they get the more WE become parents to them. Winter we also love your comedic relief on hard times. Great job to you both for coming and grinding on your tough days. You showed up for us and yourself. Sending yall my blessings. 🙏🏾🤍

[@ale.selenac510]

Chy you made me cry!! Thank you for being vulnerable!!❤❤

[@jarissiso]

Wishing I could jump through the screen and give Chy a hug!

[@nai_isthelimit]

Really like how Chy talks thru her feelings. Dope podder. Both of them! ❤

[@morganashley1500]

Top tier episode all the way around ❤

[@Thrd3y3]

Chy is such a sweetheart 😢❤ i love yalls transparency with depression, its been a rough month fr 😂

[@Chikou14219]

Thank ya'll so much for being so vulnerable!! It's so helpful to see

[@camilliapink4362]

I feel you were speaking from a place of fear.. often anger masks a feeling of something else. Underneath it all you were worried and love him and don’t want anything bad to happen to him. Is there a time and a place for things.. sure. But you’re human and that’s your daddy. From someone who lost their dad young.. I would’ve acted the same way. The fact you’re getting emotional proves it’s from a genuine place of concern and you just want him to alter his lifestyle to stick around as long as he can. Aaaaand to add.. I’d be frustrated too if a previous injury reoccurred that could’ve been prevented! So let it all out and when you feel ready give him a call so you can truly reach him and you’ll both feel better in the end. Sending much love to you. 🤍

[@ITSNES1996]

Chy! 1 Peter 5:7 says, "Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you". Proverbs 3:5-6 explains: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” It’s okay to cry and release those emotions! Just remember God got you! 🙏🏽🤍

[@elenam3798]

I needed to see this🙏🏼🫀

[@SymphonyTaylor]

Amen 😞🤍

[@julissanicole8586]

please never stop posting I literally look forward to Wednesday 😩❤️

[@StephanieLlamas-h3w]

You guys were literally talking to ME when y’all said we can’t change a man . Oof you guys said everything I been thinking . love y’all thanks for reassuring me and I don’t feel as crazy anymore

[@mandynatividad2740]

Girl yall need to do a live show in Phoenix I literally love yall guys Never met yall but yall give me big sis energy 💗🫶🏼🥲

[@imeldadiaz4389]

A lot of us feel like this towards our parents ! Love you guys !!

[@4everL0ve]

Ive been in the BEST mood these past weeks. Literally been feeling upbeat, composed and positive. Then I ran out of ashwagandha two days ago and been sooo sad, so emotional, so depressed. It made me think are we truly happy as a society or is our happiness dependent on our vices (coffee, weed, alcohol, validation, a person, etc) 🤔 Because the people I see always smiling and happy and upbeat are addicted to something. Not to say the addiction has to be bad. It could be an addiction to working out but there’s something a happy person is usually dependent on that results in their happiness

[@CyerraBieber4eva]

Chy you and I always going through stuff at the same time it’s insane. I hear you 100% about your Dad but just know our parents know it’s all out of love!❤ I just lost my uncle last week due to a fall and hit to the head, 65 years old, so trust your story got me! Adore you guys!

[@user-zg7xv1xy5z]

An hour?!? HELL YEAHHH 🥳💗

[@loriemily8355]

Chy, the fact that you feel guilty speaks volumes .. hugs ❤️

[@KYoung-hb9od]

the crying and laughing out of sadness was something I needed to someone else do thank you ladies lmao

[@unapologeticallynikki]

These are the episodes I love. Real talk about relatable ish. I just read a book called “a weekend to change your life” and I’m about to go on a 3 day retreat next month. Also been wishy washy lately too. I think a lot of us are in a weird transitional place in life lately.

[@MM-wn7dv]

literally watching this while im going thru my own breakdown & it did help i love watching you guys🩵

[@promisejackianja8458]

& God will reward Chy for her faith ♥️

[@AllthingsPBoschstylez03]

Winter got me SCREEEEAMING 😂

[@m3gh4n34]

Chy, go back to church baby!!!! You know the Lord is waiting for you ❤ Depression is nothing against the Holy Spirit ❤️‍🩹

[@MakeupByFauzy]

Chy I see you!!! My dads 71 and he doesn’t drink or smoke but he doesn’t exercise or eat super healthy and I always have to tell him to do better and that I want him to live long 😭😭 nobody talks about life with older parents

[@ac-ku4el]

Love how vulnerable y’all both are on the show well in general.!! We all feel u chu we all been there!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@ac-ku4el]

Chy*

[@earthandeb]

This was such a good episode! I cant wait till yall come to the east coast on tour!

[@oliviajenson7067]

Winter I agree with the pressure. 33 no kids, no relationship. Most of my friends have families and busy. I’m just going back to school so I can have a financially secure future 😅

[@jazmynhughes1518]

Chy is such an Aquarius crying real life tears and still gon make you laugh out yo panties 🙃