Episode 2 | STALKERS, FALLOUTS, AND FRIENDSHIPS. OH MY! | BEHIND THE LIKES PODCAST

"Behind the Likes" Podcast Episode 2 - "STALKERS, FALLOUTS, AND FRIENDSHIPS. OH MY!"
In Episode 2 of "Behind the Likes" podcast, hosts Winter and Chy draw from their own personal experiences. Listeners are invited to reflect on the various factors that contribute to the rise and fall of friendships, including evolving priorities, miscommunication, and the natural growth that comes with life's transitions. Both ladies explore the impact of social media on friendships, shedding light on how it can shape our perceptions and sometimes lead to misunderstandings and lack of boundaries.
Tune in to their candid conversations providing relatable guidance on how to navigate falling outs, heal relationships, and nurture meaningful connections.
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[@ChyFontenette]

When we talk it’s a mixture of nerves bc we are new at this and being excited! We are learning and growing. Thank y’all for watching and growing together with us 🤍

[@natashahomestead]

I love you two have different perspectives. I just want Winter to let you finish your sentence. 😂 Great show! ❤

[@winterrrsoldier]

@@natashahomesteadumm she does they’re best friends they finish each other sentences and they both do that that’s called conversing. CHYYY y’all doing amazing I love these pods.

[@kamysmith354]

Your so pretty and chill and I love wintrr

[@gs3630]

I love this podcast

[@youfainylove]

I feel like y’all are doing real good already 🔥 keep it up ladies

[@monae238]

Wiintrr: “Please ease up on cursing” Also Wiintrr: “Stay the FUCK away from my house!” 😂

[@jazziealexsia]

😂😂😂

[@dejasyru6750]

winterrrr let Chy finish her sentence 😅😅

[@rebelrigbee]

Chy does the exact same thing too tho! They both do. But they also know they do and I feel like they don’t mind 😅 bc they both are alike that way❤

[@yassifiedtedcruz]

word of the day “broke mannerisms”

[@Veevalenzuela]

Yesss

[@curiouslymavismade]

Isn't this a PHRASE, not a word?

[@RoxanneR0xanne]

@@curiouslymavismade in church they say word of the day and read a whole scripture

[@yassifiedtedcruz]

@@curiouslymavismade same thing ho

[@sayge6894]

@@RoxanneR0xanne😂❤

[@angieg2595]

I like that chy has a different perspective than winter when it comes to romantic relationships so you get different angles.

[@Blankspaceb]

Aquarius queen. I love her

[@sierratrautman5263]

Winny you gotta let chy talk more 😂😂😂😂

[@breadams1940]

Winter don’t take this the wrong way but be aware of not over powering the conversation. Try to let the Chy finish her sentence and let her feelings out. Everyone wants to be heard so let her speak her mind (especially about y’alls breakup). I’m rooting for y’all and want you to succeed with this podcast. It’s all love so please take it as feedback.

[@Asvpmoniquee]

Shes not over powering the conversation if you don’t know her personality by now she’s just being straight to the point. Like it’s not a bad thing she just expresses herself really well and doesn’t sugar coat shit. Just saying girl 🤷‍♀️

[@DessyG99]

@@Asvpmoniqueenope, sorry! You can be straight to the point & non-sugar coating, without interrupting your friends while they’re speaking their feelings girl. She indeed overpowers the conversation. I understand it’s apart of her personality to be bold & upfront but it can also be unhealthy when it comes to relationships & friendships 🤷🏻‍♀️!

[@ashleymichelle94]

I agree ☝🏾 too 😅

[@Nicolelynn1217]

Agree. She can get her point across but you can’t keep overpowering the conversation because at that point it is no longer a conversation. I love Winter I don’t think she’s intentionally doing it but she could become aware. Constructive criticism.

[@__kylie]

“Should I bring my gun and try to scare him” LMAOOO I love her

[@madalyneaponte2875]

Damn winter, let her speak, always interrupting! 😂

[@ciaracruz6906]

I’m so happy your shedding light on your situation because men are seriously delusional. My sister Michelle Cruz was murdered by her ex who was stalking her weeks prior and ended up murdering her in front on her apartment on her way to work in February. 25, 2023. She was only 28 years old. And I know she didn’t think he would be capable of hurting her because how much he loved her. Men who are delusional and obsessed with women isn’t healthy at all. Please continue to protect yourself at all cost and for women who feel as though you don’t need a restraining order please get one! My sister was in the process of getting one and if you read her story she was failed my the police department in her area. Please ladies don’t take these men as a joke because they don’t know how to take rejection most times and they feel like if they can’t have you then no one can and that’s not fair to take a life that isn’t theirs to take.

[@antofashionbeauty]

@ciaracruz6906 so sorry for your loss🫶🏾

[@aleisha66]

sorry for your loss! I lost a fam member to murder and it hits different fr

[@brittneyx3]

wow, she was so beautiful. i'm so sorry. 💔

[@deannailer4297]

I’m so sorry for your loss 😢❤

[@brittanidavis4877]

Not the cat about to greet the stalker 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣

[@nathaliapena4211]

Winter stop cutting chy off! Lol but I love this podcast for real I can’t wait for next week 🫶🏽

[@kimberlyt3953]

I’m obsessed with this series! Yeah, if you don’t take care of your animals needs . It’s no for me. Especially if you have money

[@evelynramirez1619]

My stalker just got caught after being on the run for nearly 3 yrs. I pray for your protection, some men don’t care about restraining orders 😵‍💫

[@psychomaia]

It was so hard to listen to winter cut off chy constantly, I really hope she reads these comments as something to take on and not take offence to. One more episode like this and I’m going to have to tune out 😭

[@kirstenashleyj]

Thank you winter for shedding light on the domestic violence that goes on!!! I was so bothered when I heard about Patricia’s case.

[@lisajayne4425]

Winter, please note that anyone who believes they are 'God' and have an obsession with you is nothing to play with, please take this VERY serious. Stay Safe and don't let your guard down at all with this unwell individual.

[@nails.x.leilani]

Something like this happened many years ago in my hometown. A 22 year old woman was murdered while she was at work by her ex who she had a restraining order against. She was a housekeeper and the man’s friend rented a hotel room under a fake name. The ex hid in the closet until she showed up to clean the room and then he brutally murdered her. It’s so sad how little coverage it got. I was 8 at the time but I still remember her story all the time .

[@Kaluuaah]

Friendships are soooo important ladies! Especially if they’re not toxic ones, everyone goes through their own things but don’t cut off your friends. They’re there first

[@chikeepi17]

Felt like the whole video was winter cutting off Chy. I definitely wanted to hear more of what she had to say without getting interrupted every single time.

[@seanbrown7112]

Winter doesn’t like opposing opinions any time her friend disagrees or rebuttals her winter gets annoyed and says “anyway let’s move on” this behavior will cause friction in friendships especially if your friend is also type A or has a strong personality. Winter gets defensive when her friend disagrees or challenges her position on a topic

[@miamadrid8177]

I was thinking the same thing! She also kept cutting her off mid sentence . I could honestly kind of see why her ex bestfriend said she felt like winter made her feel “small”. She over powers every conversation and it kind of seemed like she’d look at Chy funny when she had an opposing opinion and would cut her off like her opinion didn’t matter. She’s definitely a dominant personality type.

[@Unfamiliar420]

They been friends for hella years they’re good… don’t read too much into other ppls friendships esp if you don’t even know them.

[@erikagarcia1353]

Exactly I had a fallout with my ex best friend for this same reason

[@nickifann7427]

It's not that deep. You thinking abt it way too much. lmaoo.

[@teesceeo]

I love my fellow earth signs Tauruses but this is their toxic trait.

[@BB1990x]

Giiirl the pipeline from spiritual to psychotic is a quick trip

[@Crazy4Cristina]

No frrrr

[@Crazy4Cristina]

It’s delusional

[@user-cf5wg1ig3i]

That wasn’t women intuition it was God giving u that thought ❤️love ya !!

[@jxcl-8401]

winterrrrr we want you to talk more about spirituality, dig a little deeper and give some advice to those just getting started on their spiritual journey♥️♥️♥️

[@marinag2370]

Chy I don’t think you’re “fair weather” I just think if it’s not that serious then you don’t pay any mind to it. People’s actions/behaviors don’t affect you easily & that’s a great quality to have.

[@gabbybabie94]

Chy said it happens to the best of us, i done had a man grab his toothbrush and his PS2 & try to move in 💀🤣🤣😭

[@jennifermayoral7625]

I would have loved to hear what chy had to say, she sounds so genuine & intelligent , please let chy talk & try not to cut her off as much winter ❤ much love to both baddies

[@queida4real]

Lol winter please let her talk

[@user-ll1mt3yq5u]

I’m so glad Winter started a podcast it seems like she has so much to say and I’m here for it 💕

[@Toematetoe95]

I love y’all’s friendship. You complement each other

[@Salvievelynn]

Yes!!! Thank you for shedding light on this. I’m currently dealing with a DV case court order and the trauma behind it is unbelievable. It’s about to be 1 year since the incident happened. Its so scary 😟 please be safe all. ❤

[@thodges326]

this is a real ass friendship when you can have different point of views and agree to disagreements love to see it 🥰💕

[@natty_xo6200]

I’m a Taurus too and when I blow up everyone says I’m crazy 🙄 girl I’ve been holding it in all this time !!

[@amarielosesit7846]

My husband taught me to keep self defense rounds in your *pew* for every day protection.. use practice rounds for target shooting. That way you'll always have your regular self defense rounds in your magazine. I pray you never have to use it. But that man was dangerous and don't think a piece of paper will stop him, it just further protects you legally. Stay on alert ⚠️ I'm enjoying the pods each week. Nice job ladies.

[@MichelleRamirez-wp9qp]

I really love that you are very honest about this whole stalker situation winter! And bestie fall outs I’m soo happy that you guys talked about this! A lot of best friends have a hard time talking about this! I love that we can normalize this to a certain extent! I love how y’all talk about it’s not normal to fight friends and it’s not normal to lay hands on people!! Love this podcast I’m ready for the next one❤

[@breadams1940]

I had to pause to comment this. I strongly urge you guys to debrief after each podcast so that you can discuss how you’re feeling. I really want y’all to last and I think it would be great to let each other voice your feelings and be heard like really heard (in private).

[@ashduran]

"my sister punched me in the nose because I threw a piece of cheese at her" lmfaoooo I once slapped my sister in the face with a tortilla 😂 sisters have goofy ass fights

[@ItsNicckster]

46:05 *i’m crying. not the nose punch for some cheese being thrown* ☠️☠️😭

[@lovetoday..]

I’m loving the podcast! I hope you do more about what women deal with on the daily and not so much influencer stuff only because probably about 2% of your audience will be able to relate but everything else you talk about has been so relatable!!! Can’t wait for the next episode.

[@angeloropeza2818]

You have lowkey given me something to look forward to! Thank you, ladies!

[@eltha8]

the blue notebook thing got me screaming😭😭😭😭😭😭, and the winter tryna take a picture & he says not to .. bro i cannot

[@devaughn2010]

I’ve genuinely enjoyed these First two episodes ❤ Can’t wait for Next episode 🎉

[@paolasandoval1599]

Y’all are really killing it, I love your friendship and how inspiring you both truly are 🩷🔥

[@daynishav5340]

I love the conversation you and Chy had about friendships and feeling the difference between a friendship is worth holding onto and one that’s not. I kind of had the same issue but now I have more clarity on the situation. Love y’all vibe❤

[@Sarah-ic2ce]

Great job another great episode. Thank you for the advice about stalkers because it could get crazy. Thank you for sharing. Love you both together. Learning a lot about yall. Blessings and thanks for sharing.

[@crystalcontreras5113]

I love this and you both. But winter don’t talk over Chy or talk louder to talk over Let the girl talk. Lov

[@ShelseyG]

literally been waiting on this all day lmao, loveee this podcast💗

[@2023florida]

Love this! You girls are a natural 💕💕 can’t wait for more

[@tiffanyalvarez7455]

Love this podcast winter! Definitely happy y’all made this cause the stuff y’all be saying be really interesting

[@mariahswt]

That stalker has schizophrenia and totally delusional. Better always keep your eyes open. Problem with restraining orders is usually the people u need them for don’t care about them.

[@tsunamimami1]

So happy y’all started this podcast! Love the banter and side stories yall keep me laughing hard af while I’m getting work done! Plz keep them coming and keep them long! I need more long form content on yt!

[@mylagomez6958]

Winter you and chy so beautiful ❤️ really enjoy this !!! Can’t wait for the next one 🫶🏽

[@kyliemarie5133]

Love listening to y’all talk, you two are absolutely hilarious. 😭💕 Small tip: focus on listening to chy and let her finish her thoughts.

[@beautylesson5534]

Me and my friend be watching this and having conversations 😂

[@krystal9375]

Not Chy at 55:05 saying your friends are detrimental to your livelihood and life. Lmao I think you meant instrumental girl. Love the pod ladies. Looking forward to more!❤

[@rhyst124]

There's still tension - but we love Chy for her, and the drama it brings. Now, where's Queen Milly. (or have they fallen out? I can't keep up)

[@ggvlogs7777]

I felt that DONT PULL UP TO MY HOUSE part 😂

[@456336]

Yasss pls talk more about friendships!!! Friendships 30 and up is so different than your 20s

[@dianabedaname]

Aww, look at Winter and her growth ✨

[@rachelvences7239]

I loved the first episode & I appreciate how long you guys making the videos !!❤️❤️❤️

[@b.maldonado_]

LOVED the first episode so I’m hyped for this one ❤️

[@alyssasanchez878]

Glad you’re speaking on this because it’s very scary and I had a very similar situation to yours unfortunately :( I hope you’re okay! Love the pods🩷

[@ntf900]

Loving seeing you on my feed!❤ keep it up winter ! Loving the content

[@carolynmarin1907]

I’m chy! This is too good. Always a fan of winter’s content. Routing for you ladies

[@ShiraJade]

You can really tell y’all are growing as women together within the friendship and learning how to be better friends to each other ❤

[@monae238]

All jokes aside, y’all really are two well spoken women. Can’t wait for next week 🩷

[@Mitcheymitchhh]

I know it’s only episode 2 but the topics that you guys keeps touching on our very much on point!

[@zoemadison6315]

You two are GLOWING in this!!

[@thisbeauuutifulmind]

Thank you for these discussions, and I'm so sorry you went through that. omg

[@angelicacabrera5685]

Chy ❤ you have the most grounded responses I love that

[@LaniBabyXo]

30:28 wanted to hear chys perspective but winter kept cutting Chy off…🥲

[@K.Moneice]

This was such a good episode 💕 that jealous friend is so real, I’m experiencing all of this right now man, it’s so shitty but revealing.

[@mindless4mbprinceton]

I loveeee how y’all have different opinions and aren’t just “yes” women.

[@sophil383]

Y’all don’t even understand how exciteddddd I got to see you drop a new episode

[@keilasdiary]

I don’t usually comment but wow!! These are too good. I’m so proud of your growth Winter. I enjoy listening to you both.

[@graciecastillo5516]

Loving the podcast ❤ Looking forward to episode 3 🎉

[@nichellelopez2698]

Reading the comments & a lot of people agree Winter doesn’t let Chy talk.. which is crazy because Danni said Winter doesn’t like sharing the spot light.. & it’s apparent in this.. Danni tried to tell us years ago…

[@Okiesmamaforever]

Been waiting for this!!!!! My new favorite.

[@tisht4738]

“Did you fuck a homeless man” toook me tf out 😂😂😂😂

[@il53]

I was listening on spotify when the notification to youtube came and i ran over here. I love seeing their facial expressions

[@jennifergarcia5667]

I love this podcast ❤ Just one note please let shy talk I love your personality both of y’all’s, just wanna hear her without you cutting her off. 😊

[@kimpossible8822]

Please don’t stop this podcast I done found my new favorite podcast

[@ibtisamhussein3938]

So proud of where you took your platform absolutely love your chemistry and banter w chy ! Keep this podcast up and keep shining winter ❤ I’m going to send some prayer to you for protection from that psychopath May the Universe keep you safe !

[@johnnaanessa]

i love this! super entertaining and great topics. i watched all 56 mins and did not get bored once 💖

[@DCKG]

The natural personalities keep the vibes going 😍😍🤩🤩

[@caralinebennett4652]

I literally love this podcast sooooo much please take the negative comments with a grain of salt because you can tell how authentic you guys are being anything different will just change that. Me and my friends are the same way with talking over each other and getting loud. Its because we are so into the conversation and both trying to get our points heard its nothing intentional or malicious!! I seriously never leave comments on videos im not that type of person but please keep the realness of it all

[@evelynherrera5227]

Chi is so me when it comes to putting off conversations 😂😂

[@savannarogers7238]

I love this episode frrr

[@CedesJ-]

Definitely a fan of this podcast.. I especially love the friendship segment of this podcast.. It takes mature, adult people who understand boundaries to actually have a long lasting and meaningful friendship.. #BehindTheLikes is my new favorite podcast..❤❤

[@gugucastro3796]

Omfg u gave me the chills tell ur stalker story cuz I had a stalker and shit is no joke it gets real creepy and scary but I don’t live alone anymore thank god..the fact that u live alone makes me scared for u..I hope he gets what he deserves ! Thank god ur okay and keep shedding light to these kinds of situations ?

[@JessicaSoto-nu8wq]

Just got here have been binging n I’m loving it here honestly it’s given spirit animal 😍

[@3volmani]

Love this podcast their bond is everything 😻

[@csjune2542]

This is not funny, but when Winter did that smile....I was dead!

[@Prettygiirrlll]

I absolutely love this podcast!! Keep them coming girls

[@Andy-wz7jm]

This episode was amazing!!!!! Winter you’re so funny your personality is everything. I love how mature you are now I been watching u since I was a kid. U Been the same younthful funny person but way more smart and mature and controlled now. Amazing. Wish u the best with ur podcast. I’m sure you will both become great speakers as u get more practice.

[@kimpossible8822]

Y’all the perfect 2 for this podcast show !!!!

[@Alexandrafaith]

Absolutely love this podcast! ❤❤❤

[@erbear3076]

Omg I never watch these and I’ve already binged two episodes cuz I love Winter so much. This podcast is seriously addictive 😊❤❤❤

[@keairavenning5449]

Really needed this episode ❤️ going through things with friends close to me

[@brooke9344]

This gives me hope that I can find a best friend at 24 y/o 🤧