Thanks for your willingness to talk about your marriage Liz. I know some Christians feel guilty and ashamed when there are problems in their marriage and don’t seek help. There is no shame in admitting you are struggling and it is courageous to address issues. God never said life / marriage would be easy but gives us tools (including His word) to do something about it. Communication is key and a preparedness to share openly and to listen to each other properly is so important. Bless you.