EPISODE 79 | CHURCH TEA, GOLDEN GLOBES & WILD STORY TIMES

[@Tamara-bz1jz]

Winter get your man back you’ve been talking about him since y’all broke up old episodes we seen how happy he made you!

[@isabellaflowers4366]

she need to fr, cause she was glowing and so happy ☹️🩷

[@Justheretowatch919]

This💯 Go get your man back winter!!😭

[@stateofloveandtrust444]

I been wanting to say this too!

[@mhbrittany]

lol no fr!! She always talks about him I hope she can get him back 😭

[@kbp1656]

Maybe he not backtracking lol

[@Jade-x7c1n]

I had my children at 35 and 37. Do I wish that I had my kids younger sometimes but also I did a lot of wonderful things like traveling, earned several academic degrees and I was able to really become well acquainted with life and how to manage money and appreciate the little things and the great things. You take care of yourself - you’re healthy. You will be able to see your grandkids.

[@nataliemichelleee]

❤️🥺 this makes me feel confident about waiting

[@MercedesJones-o3h]

I'm 33 years old and pregnant with my first baby.. When I look back on my life, I'm grateful that I didn't have kids in my 20s because I'm Soo much more prepared mentally, emotionally and financially now.. I will say that after I have this baby, I want to get pregnant again as soon as possible.. lol I want to be done having kids by the age of 35.. I'm cool with just 2 at this point... 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@IAmErricaK]

You gave me so much hope 🙏🏾 thank you!

[@vchanlatte]

We love when you guys go off topic. We literally don’t give a shit about current events.

[@Reail.m]

I hope yall are safe due to the wildfires in Los Angeles right now prayers to yall 🥺🩷🙏🏽

[@Leejenniferx]

I was literally just thinking that 🥺 I wasn’t even sure if they were gonna drop today’s episode. Prayers to our fave baddies 💓🫂

[@taylornicole740]

I was just thinking about them. I hope they’re okay

[@daniellehedger3644]

i was having the same thoughts ❤❤❤

[@LeonTheSpesh1]

Can you ATL live show in May, me and my man are coming from the UK to visit family, would be dope to catch your live show too.....although May might be too far in the distance? But we are flying into Atlanta for 10 days or so.....❤

[@MsCarlaaa]

Winter’s vulnerability and Chys openness (and both ya savagery) is what will keep this Pod thrivingggggg! I legit love Thai Podcast so much! Winter we want you to have your love back! It’s coming! ❤

[@ib2591]

I love that you guys are comfortable talking about BV and other issues that many women have experienced! You guys are relatable, funny, intelligent, and I love yall's friendship! Keep being you and never change!

[@Leejenniferx]

LMFAOOOO it’s Chy blaming Winter for “making her tell her yeast story” when it’s literally all Chy 😂😂😂😂😂

[@dcass_]

Never stop being so transparent! You’re both so relatable. I love knowing I’m not the only bi*tch out here with these problems lol. Love yall!

[@briaq114]

Yessssss

[@dejanaixo]

Chy off that coffee has this episode chaotic asf !! i’m crying. & i love seeing Winter self reflect that’s def what being single is all about.

[@mikayla14]

“I thought he stood up and had a testimony” 😂😂😂😂

[@Its_kkryss]

My mom had me at 40 (I’m 25) yes I’m her last born but i love and appreciate having an older mom. You will be a great mom when the time comes don’t stress ❤

[@lesliecanela998]

Can I be honest this will probably be an unpopular opinion but let’s normalize having a weathered older mother ….. cause these young mothers be traumatized and traumatizing the fuck out of us/her young

[@carolinerivera1988]

Same! My mom is 73 and I’m 35. She has grandkids and everything! Don’t rush being a mom ❤

[@Its_kkryss]

@@lesliecanela998 I feel like older moms have a wisdom to them that comes from years of actually living and handling business. So many ppl don’t have the privilege to have kids older but the ones who do are blessed cause they’re able to share that wealth of knowledge with their kids as they age.

[@SMgail_]

@@lesliecanela998let’s normalize getting our shit together earlier if we want families …. No need to wait to become a proper adult. Let’s give children ample time to grow with their parents

[@caralinebennett4652]

" apartment party is not the same as a backyard boogie " LMAO

[@nataliemcgrath9464]

My mama had me at 39! We have the closest relationship wouldn’t change a thing ❤ and she’s the best nana to my little girl x

[@realspillgoddess9859]

Saying LA is burnt out with all these fires is diabolical 😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭

[@brianamcclain4813]

😂😂😂💀

[@ceciliabonds]

“Damn messy ass congregation..I need to go next week” lmao Winter is hell!!❤❤

[@Lilyy15234]

I’m loving the consistency! I always sesh and listen 🍃🫶🏽😍!

[@CarleyDakken]

My mom had me when she was 40!💕 I feel so blessed she had me at that age with all the knowledge she acquired before me we are best friends & she helps me navigate life so well❣️

[@Sunflour.seedshell]

4:55 I also thought he stood up from the audience and had a testimony 😂 going back and hearing Winters shocked reaction upon initially hearing it up has me crying 😂😂😂

[@lalaa8653]

I just love you guys. I hope you know how much this pod is loved 💕

[@AniyahSmith2.0]

Wintrr, here’s some advice: I truly feel like you’ll be a cool mom. You and Chy like yall seem like it’ll give cool mom vibes. But Wintrr, don’t let everyone rushing into pregnancy pressure you because I think that’s what’s lowkey going on it’s been happening with a lot of people. But instead trust in God like Chy was saying have strong faith girl you got this! God will bless you with a baby, you just have to trust Him. He’ll also bless you with a husband, because from watching the podcast, it seems like the guys you’ve been dating didn’t work out for a reason every time. Maybe those guys weren’t meant for you or weren’t the right ones for you to begin with. Don’t let your heart lead you, or idolize what others have going on, but instead, let God move in His time. Because once He does, what you want will be 10 times better when He blesses you!💕💕

[@kennedy6554]

Tips for chy!! Change diet (no refined carbs, no sugar, no starch), do a candida cleanse (you probably have a candida yeast overgrowth), try and take the fluconazole for a week straight (one pill everyday), and buy ALL cotton underwear. Also I’ve heard that putting non flavored, live cultured Greek yogurt on a tampon and putting it in there helps as well!!!

[@jadeewest6425]

I'm crying laughing it's not funny but the way you explained about the dog. I can't breath 😭😂

[@EvieC-ob6mm]

Winter you may miss your ex but remember what made you be done in the first place I remember watching the pod and you mentioned he did things that your husband would never do. Devine timing is real the right one will come when it’s time. Don’t settle for less you will find someone who checks all your boxes and more. Xoxo

[@neecephillips4052]

My emotions this pod: 😂😦😭😂

[@feliciabuggdout7910]

this literally my favorite podcast right now. I wanted something to watch before bed and I see a new upload 😍 I love y'all, keep it up

[@jayparker96]

the way that this became one of my favorite podcasts.. 😅 but i gotta save this episode for work tomorrow 😂

[@westybesty]

Love y'all! thank you for posting.. needed a moment just to escape from reality.. Live in LA as well - hope you all are staying safe!!!

[@fatimasalazar7011]

Winter I urge you to listen to Esther Perel! She’s a psychologist that focuses on relationships. I also have BPD and she has helped me TREMENDOUSLY. Listen to her on your walks ❤️

[@denisedenogean4116]

I’m excited for yall to come to az but that’s my babyshower day😭

[@emsahen19]

“She was saving lives daily, she could afford to take a couple” has me in tears 😅

[@ShadedByJade]

Down in the “ bayou “ 😂😂😂

[@tooprada606]

I would really love it if y’all created a cute intro/outro. Th episode was hilarious. Simply chaotic! “I feel bad for bald heaux….😏 ooops my bad I forgot 🫤” 😂😂😂😂

[@phoenixkaleel9504]

Yall got me crying with these animal stories 😭😭😭

[@kemliedecessa5125]

Winter your hair looks so good i thought those were bundles before Chy said anything omg😍

[@ShaunaaDenaa]

I pray you guys stay safe there’s a lot going on in cali right now, and I thank you guys so much for donating and volunteering to help the community you guys are beautiful souls ❤️!

[@aaliyahcicero8331]

LMAOOO im actually crying this episode, love y’all’s energy today 😂❤

[@R1ghteous111]

I swear no body makes me laugh as much as yall!! I feel like I’m in the room with you cracking jokes 😂

[@Manoose12]

Me at 30 with my 6 month old LOL. I used to think that way too, but 50 isn’t old. I’d rather be 50 with a 20 year old then struggling in my 20’s with a newborn. This was written for you! I’m glad I went through my 20’s the way I did. I don’t feel like I’m missing out on anything when I’m home with my baby now. You’ve lived a great life, now when you have your baby you’re not going to have FOMO.

[@brianamcclain4813]

This is so true! Wish I would have waited. The struggle is stressful

[@MariaRodriguezClaud]

As soon as winter started talking about her new years list. “No sis “ don’t regret not having a baby or making a family. Life isn’t how it seems. I’m a happy married woman but Everyone’s timing is different. Your an insp girl.

[@mariperez6526]

I feel like the love of a child would be so good for you winter. The love of child is like no other and I feel like yoi would be a great mom. And ayyyyyyy arizona here

[@ItsME-cw7ji]

I look forward to yall posting! I’m assembling my night stands while watching/listening. Much love from KC MO baby!

[@ItsME-cw7ji]

Have followed every episode

[@ddoubleu707]

Okay I’m watching on my tv but I had to open the app just to say how funny and authentic this ep was😂from talking about chy’s yeast story to winter’s reflecting😭this was a very off topic, on topic, caffeine fueled, friendship grounded episode and it’s episodes like THIS that makes me want 2hr episodes💀keep up the great work yallll🎀💕

[@fivestaramethyst]

this whole episode felt like it was god speaking to me! omg 😳 thank you ladies for being a wealth of knowledge and wisdom. you ladies seriously don’t even know how many women you are touching; encouraging to be independent and having a good mindset! love you guys sm 🫶

[@aliyahgonzalez4083]

Chy yes start a book club! A friend of mine started one a few months ago and it’s been so fun! We find a new spot to go to and meet every month we’ve not only found the cutest cafes but have started to all really bond (because we all didn’t know each other at first) We also have Goodreads which I love because a lot of us read multiple books in a month so it’s cool to see what everyone is reading and their ratings. I love the read/watched segment btw you guys put me on to a lot of things to watch lol

[@Chinadollyxo]

Winter, yes you could get a sperm donor and you could afford it. BUT trust me your child deserves a chance to have a father in their life. If these singles mom(me included) had the choice they would want a healthy co-parent to help raise that baby. It takes a village girl. Being a mom is 24/7 job. Once that baby is here. There is no going back. Find you a GOOD man (responsible, loving and nurturing) and have a baby out of love. Even if you don’t make it to the end. You won’t regret it. Your child will have 2 loving parents. Think about it girl. Don’t be fooled by all these broken homes.

[@HG91137]

Chy, go to Whole Foods and get a women’s Care Probiotic from Renew Life or Garden of Life. Make sure your microflora is good.

[@kyliecurtis8577]

Yes this n get checked for prediabetes can cause chronic yeasties

[@rlllatsyrc]

Winter, you are not cursed-God knows your heart and everything you’re going to do even before you do it yet His love for you remains constant. He doesn’t work in a way that punishes us, but sometimes it guides us through challenges to help us grow. It might be the perfect time for some spiritual cleansing and self-discovery. As you focus on your growth, trust that the right things will fall into place, and love will find you. Marriage is a beautiful thing, and don’t give up on that kind of love. Remember, one of the most impactful things you can do for yourself and a child is to create a stable, loving environment with both parents playing a role. ❤

[@tiffanymuniz351]

I’m 24 and my moms 54 and I just want to say winter she is not an old mom that girl is outside more than me😅😂

[@magdagirl241]

4:59 I thought he stood up & had a testimony 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ciciboo95]

Winter: i thought he stood up and had a testimony Me: i thought so tooo! 😂😂

[@jasmineharris3461]

Winter I have a 7 month old don’t do this shit alone it’s tough 😭😭😭😭

[@ildee14]

Can’t wait for the Arizona date 💓Idc if I have to go alone, I’m going!

[@iiamsiin1298]

“She was saving lives daily , she could afford to take a COUPLEEEE” is crazyyy😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 winters humor is priceless

[@abryanaa]

“Messy ass congregation…. I need to go next week!” 😂😂😂😂 winter is funny

[@myrah432]

Winter I’m loving the no lashes ! Very cutesy

[@elizabethn4259]

not winter saying “LA IS BURNT OUT” too soon 🙈

[@elizabethm8485]

when Chy took off her hat 😂😂😂😂

[@jenniferdominguez189]

Honestly I say do it, I say move. LA must not be for you and that’s OKAY. The fact that you are kidless and not married is great for you to move. A lot of people wish they had the opportunity to leave and you do!! The beauty of life is having a choice & you’re right time is going by fast so do what YOU want. Don’t be scared.

[@noik_11]

“It’s because you don’t cry.” Lol Chy is me

[@lyslys7166]

Winter literally didn’t even bring it up CHYYY😂😂😂i love yall love when it’s Wednesday

[@4everL0ve]

I feel so guilty for saying this because I’m so blessed I’m married with twin girls. Have a great career but I feel empty. I feel like something’s missing. I’m bored with my life and I’m craving something different. I hate to complain because I’m sure many would jump to switch places/w me. I understand you completely Winter. I just don’t know what it is

[@angiecabriales8273]

you may just have been going through each step and you arent sure what “step” is next for you, you should start doing somethings you enjoy to “feel like yourself” find your purpose/passion

[@jcallwood25]

Thank you Lord! I've been waiting! I know you guys wouldn't let us down. The most consistent pod! We appreciate you guys. Hope you and your friends and family are safe if they've been affected by the wildfires🙏🏾

[@isabellaflowers4366]

PRAYING FOR YALL FR. i’m glad yall safe right now, we love you and hope everything’s okay ☹️🩷

[@Keepbe]

What’s the reason for wanting a baby winter?

[@Jawuzzz]

Tbh idk how you guys don’t get more views you guys are funny & real no fake shiiii

[@paolamarquez2654]

I been going through a hard time right now listening to this makes me laugh and clears my head thank you

[@amayaruperto]

Winter always has the cutest matching sets on, where is this one from????😭

[@tamajshia]

Lmaoooo not “ to give a man some fish “ took me OUTTT 😂😂😂😂😂😂 BUT NO FR 😂😂😂😂

[@anjiebadtv]

Hoping y’all are safe from the fires 🙏🏼♥️✨

[@lealovestechbooo]

lmfaooo “ i wanna make some cookies”

[@marielove4324]

Chy the boric acid will help but it won’t make it disappear forever . Not sure why the doctor said once a month , I would do mine multiple times a week depending on the severity. Definitely get a second opinion!!

[@kaylaaa7774]

For winter, maybe LA has run its course. Look at it as you’ve completed a cycle in your life, and it’s time to move on/let go. Maybe getting out your comfort zone will help you gain new experiences, more insight to things, or even a new man from somewhere else heyyy 😗. Try living somewhere else for a lil, see what it gives

[@TheNailEntertainment]

Not me crying a few days ago to myself just being so upset about making poor choices in men I choose… why can’t I just fix myself… I’m single Mom of 2 kids 2 baby dads and both not being present it’s so embarrassing. I say don’t rush it and continue looking for what you want in a partner. As long as you stay healthy and fit, you’re not (too old) to have a kid later on in life.

[@KVXSaien]

& I can't eat while watching this cause Chy be crackin' me up😭😭

[@KVXSaien]

Winter's part ate down like 🤏🏾⏰️⏰️⏰️

[@JustSavwill]

Oh Devon is triflin for that. That man was literally crying on the whole wide web about Megan and he wanted her back. Men be the biggest clowns after you leave them. He’s bitter.

[@elyzahsingleton9073]

Winter I pray you find a wonderful companion to build a family with.

[@carissaherrera]

Can I just say before I start this episode, I’m really enjoying the pod lately, I’ve been in a funk. The energy is different and is helping out of the funk 🫶 Thank you!

[@liyaxo1]

This was such a good episode ! Hope you all are staying safe💙

[@Svietlannaa]

If Winter’s man don’t come get her from these streets I hate this for her!!

[@nataliameza4906]

Winter your hair is distracting me it’s so good 😍

[@lovelifeforu]

Just because a man is a christian man does not mean he was a good man! 😂

[@sarinaelaine17]

Just the realest😅😂 funny af but also serious shit!!

[@JazmineLue]

The stories about the animals needed a trigger warning 😭😭😭 like OMG

[@eccho1]

Man!!! Frfr😢

[@1ofmeluv]

When Winny said “I love a man that keeps it cute and on mute and Chy said please stfu” took me clean out!! Because HELL YEAH!! 😂

[@anissamaldonado5698]

Bro I love y’all. I been looking forward to this episode all day!! I hope y’all are also safe since there’s a wildfire over there 🙁❤️❤️

[@noriely2256]

Hope you’re safe from the fires love you guys !❤

[@jessicaparish9939]

PP hair loss is normal and not talked about enough! My baby is 14 months and the hair that fell out is about 2-3 inches now. I’ve heard taking the prenatals helps, eat fruits/veggies, and drink plenty of water. Most importantly be patient and gracious with yourself because your body created a human being ❤️

[@Sawamei]

So let me get this straight: I'm a fan of you, and this is no hate, but you'd rather have a kid on your own than consider dating different types of men? It’s obvious that you’re dating the wrong types of men who aren’t really meant for you. Honestly, the mentality of "he needs to make more than six figures" might be why you haven’t found a decent guy yet. At the end of the day, it’s not really about the money. I mean, you dated a guy who was rich, and he still gave you a bootleg gift. So maybe you should reconsider the types of men you’re dating. Just sayin'. Again no hate....

[@FaithBarlowe]

I agree, but it's also hard to date men who make less money than you too. They get jealous and I think that's what she's trying to avoid.

[@paradisedominguez9092]

Chy do a book club live! So everyone can discuss their thoughts 📚💭 im here for the book club, none of my peeps are really into reading books lol

[@biancafit]

Been waiting all day for this pod! 🎉❤

[@adriennep1415]

This ep is gold and I’m only 15 mins in 😭😂

[@bumbaclott5732]

“Idk why you made me bring that up” after she quite literally tried to push it down😭😭😭🤣🤣

[@tclrxo]

Feels weird to be this early

[@KVXSaien]

Same tbh. I had JUST got food too, I was ready😭😭

[@thatgirlfan1]

Here for Winter getting back with her ex lol these men after seem like war

[@loraineswwworld]

Mental welfare is hilarious

[@taylorj8316]

i was just hoping for a new episode & then this popped up 😭 clutch omg

[@aby9641]

Omg the book club! Something like Reddit where we can post comments! I just read Look Closer and it was SO GOOD

[@glowheresthetics3136]

Cant listen to this while working out winter saying watching the dogs life leave it eyes SENT ME 😭😭😭😭

[@samanthacuen1064]

Yes Goodreads Chy for the bookclub ✨