Episode 89: The Suffering of Revenge with Clark Fredericks

The Suffering Podcast
with Kevin Donaldson & Mike Failace
Episode 89: The Suffering of Revenge with Clark Fredericks
Clark Fredericks has experience suffering on a level that very few can imagine. Growing up in a small town in New Jersey and coming from a middle-class family, Clark saw all the possibilities that life could offer. A chance meeting with a neighbor caused his world to crumble. Clark tells his story on this episode about how he was targeted, groomed, molested, and ultimately Raped by what townspeople saw as a normal average human being. Being forced to bear this burden alone Clark turned to self medication and risky behavior to numb his suffering. In this episode you will hear a story Scarier than any novel or Hollywood movie could dream.
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00:06 Shadows
00:54 Introduction
01:46 Social Media Question
08:49 Stillwater NJ
09:58 Every Parents worst nightmare
14:22 Grooming
26:31 Bumping Logs
30:01 Rape
35:00 Dennis Pegg
35:56 After the Rape
38:10 The family of a Rapist
39:00 Shame and Coping
43:22 Cocaine
43:33 Seeing your Devil
46:44 Head first into drugs and alchohol
48:27 Breaking Point
53:04 After
56:11 Arrested
58:57 Free Clark
60:25 Everyone knew
61:44 Group Therapy
63:48 First taste of freedom
65:58 Telling Clark’s story
69:00 Plugs
69:41 What has Suffering taught you
71:44 How we connected
74:23 What did we learn

[@derekpivko2977]

Clark changed my life. I met him when I was a Corrections Officer at the County Jail where he was at. I found him on Facebook after he was released and became friends right away. I went back to school to study Cybersecurity and along the way I met my wife. I’m getting married next month and I can’t wait to have Clark at my wedding. I likely would have never met my wife without him.

[@thesufferingpodcast]

Clark has changed so many lives

[@Jennifer-ge8bf]

❤❤❤yep 🇨🇦😊👌💕😍❤️

[@Jennifer-ge8bf]

Clark is such a hero. This is my favorite episode ever on all channels.❤

[@thesufferingpodcast]

He is a great man. Clark will be coming back in very soon

[@johnbolton2149]

Soft White Underbelly brought me here. This guy’s story is heartbreakingly tragic and unforgettable, but thankfully had a great ending. This man is an inspiration for all.

[@thesufferingpodcast]

I couldn’t agree more

[@meganmorgan8597]

​@@thesufferingpodcast I randomly came across a short of this. I have ptsd from s. A. By law enforcement and he was family.

[@Cazares-A]

Wow. The fact that he went through so much of his life carrying the trauma is wild. I hope the best to Clark and the other victims. Great guest and great podcast!

[@thesufferingpodcast]

Thank you my friend, this is one of those recordings that we do that stays with you forever.

[@jun5354]

This man is a hero!

[@thesufferingpodcast]

Couldn’t agree more

[@penguin2228]

This man I can’t believe hes a real life hero. Anyone who went thru anything like this should immediately speak up don’t think it’s a shame or something you can save people like you

[@thesufferingpodcast]

Clark is doing that every day

[@yourkarma2250]

If he had of answered truthfully at 13, he wouldn't have gone on to kill him and in turn become a motivational speaker, everything is in synchronicity as like you he is saving lives thought your mess becoming your message ,much Respect Sir

[@Rebaber]

“The molestation and rape wasn’t what destroyed my life…the silence was.” Wow. Powerful. Breaking the silence and helping others helps breaks the cycle of shame. Heartbreaking interview, but so happy for Clark and that he’s found redemption.

[@thesufferingpodcast]

His voice is reaching so many

[@davidcuevas2330]

Thank you for highlighting that point! 👉 👍

[@carlywright5127]

No child should be exposed or be targeted by any predator sex offender. Totally understandable what he did to that predator. Evil one died.

[@thesufferingpodcast]

No tears are shed for Dennis Pegg

[@agnesdimatteo1886]

Strongest podcast you guys have ever done. I nominate this episode for the People’s Choice Podcast awards. Best of luck to Clark on the book and the movie,…. he deserves every break he can get (Great guest).

[@thesufferingpodcast]

I couldn’t agree with you more. Best work that has come out of this podcast

[@SkinWitchNYC]

I agree!!!!!

[@meganmorgan8597]

​@@thesufferingpodcast holy shit I just found u. My uncle was my abuser he was a prison gaurd. I wish his name was out there. His own sister my mother's in denial. I found a girl who was 2 years before me that this possibly happened to and in this state my family used to be in politics and still are. I don't care. It's taken enough from me and I don't want the bs anymore.

[@meganmorgan8597]

​​@@thesufferingpodcast I'm almost done with it. My abuser literally tried to sue me at 17 when I was made to attempt to press charges 3x. The detective used his nickname. The similarities are scary but mine was all within a year. ETA Idk how he did time I'd never be able to. The uniforms for law enforcement are big triggers bc he usually wore his.

[@thesufferingpodcast]

@@meganmorgan8597 I’m so sorry to hear this and it happens way to much. But the fact that your standing up to this shows your true strength. Much respect.

[@laurieallen7536]

Another great podcast guys!

[@thesufferingpodcast]

Thank you Laurie

[@davidcuevas2330]

Amen brother! You got my support! Thank you for having the courage to stay in the fight, survive, walk your path & share your story! 🙏✊️😎

[@davidcuevas2330]

You got my Sub, love what you guys are doing! 👌🙏✊️

[@thesufferingpodcast]

Thank you David, it’s a labor of love

[@berryaru]

51:00 revenge

[@kpowers5992]

I can’t imagine having to go through just 1 of 3 most traumatic experiences clark went through, 1) the sexual assault, 2) the animal abuse right after to inflict fear (you hear about animal abuse but not everyone witnesses it up close like that) and lastly 3) the fight to the death, from an outside view it’s easy to see the satisfaction of a rapist being killed but to be the one to do the stabbing you can tell he means it when he says it was horrific.

[@thesufferingpodcast]

So many scars that Clark has to try and heal

[@kpowers5992]

For sure I 100 percent support him for not only what he did to Pegg because pegg was an evil demon that seemed to control his life that needed to be defeated but for Clark to also get another chance at life to change himself but more importantly help others by showing that if more victims open up that they will have love and support.

[@laureenelwell8932]

I’d like to see the laws changed in every state

[@thesufferingpodcast]

When it comes to this type of crime, whatever the law allows is never enough justice

[@laureenelwell8932]

@@thesufferingpodcast I could not agree more

[@Hipocahontess]

The animal comment triggered me. That man literally abused and murdered dogs too. Who doesn’t love dogs? Evil people

[@thesufferingpodcast]

Certain people don’t deserve the privilege to be in this world

[@lydiadoyle1163]

So was Wayne Gacy In organizations

[@thesufferingpodcast]

Yes he was

[@downtowndasher3666]

Don’t interrupt your guests please!!

[@yourkarma2250]

Don't tell people what to do,its called two way conversations and Segue which makes it interesting 👌

[@The101Point1]

Great podcast but Toyotas suck