How Introverts (Brutally!) Deal With Fake People

How Introverts (Brutally!) Deal With Fake People. Most introverts are picky when choosing their friends since they don’t like getting around with negative people who can drain their energy. But due to the diversity of personal qualities, we cannot avoid meeting someone whose motives aren’t pure.
If introverts keep their distance, they limit their interaction with you if you get the chance to speak with them. They will listen to whatever you say, but they do not respond. They prefer to listen and fake it together until you are cool with leaving them. And after leaving them alone, they feel relief that you respect their space. They will not share their sentiments with you since they can notice that they are not safe towards you. Even if they don’t respond to you, you can already feel that they are trying their best to keep their guard up because you are a threat to them without you realizing it.
Most of us don’t understand the language of introverts, and we can recognize the language of introverts if we try to communicate with them. It is hard to see that not everyone feels safe with us, but that’s fine. We must be okay that everyone has their preference in choosing their circle of friends. The most important thing is to determine whether we are toxic as humans and to comprehend why some individuals fear us. Do you handle phony people in the same way as introverts do?
00:00 INTRO
00:25 10 They will not overreact to fake behaviors
01:25 09 Introverts leave them as it is
02:24 08 They do not keep up with long conversations
03:28 07 They analyze how fake people behave
04:28 06 Their body language will show that they are uninterested
05:20 05 Introverts don’t give their trust
06:21 04 Never stoop down to their level
07:15 03 They give warnings or advice to fake people
08:13 02 They keep their distance
09:10 01 Introverts limit their interaction
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[@essentialliving7862]

00:00 INTRO 00:25 10 They will not overreact to fake behaviors 01:25 09 Introverts leave them as it is 02:24 08 They do not keep up with long conversations 03:28 07 They analyze how fake people behave 04:28 06 Their body language will show that they are uninterested 05:20 05 Introverts don’t give their trust 06:21 04 Never stoop down to their level 07:15 03 They give warnings or advice to fake people 08:13 02 They keep their distance 09:10 01 Introverts limit their interaction Do You Have Topics In Mind? Comment Below... Share This Video Right NOW: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n2qQm4ePnqZ0fqM -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for Watching! DROP A LIKE, SHARE, Click the SUBSCRIBE Button and HIT the notification bell so you won't miss anything! Any Topic In Mind? We will be glad to make them for You! SUBSCRIBE to our CHANNEL NOW 👉👉👉 bit.ly/2NfQyrK Help Our Channel Reach Awareness Share it With your Friends and Family. -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Videos You May Also Like: 10 THINGS INTROVERTS WILL NEVER SAY kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6SukqRtZrClY6s 10 THINGS INTROVERTS EXTREMELY HATE kzbin.info/www/bejne/l6jaYpRsraiKfq8 10 REASONS WHY INTROVERTS ARE DANGEROUS kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6LRoYOsoNprqpI

[@migspeculates]

10 is not me tho lol. Provoke me and I get no chill 😂

[@anime6406]

As a introvert myself this is why I have a peaceful life.

[@amandalidey329]

Right. I try & distance myself from negativity. I don't like to be around it, it destroys my inner peace & if I notice "fake people" which I'm pretty good at picking up on certain fake people. I don't let their words really bother me. I can be sensitive however I then like to keep my distance & definitely don't like long conversations (At work I do socialize but after 5-7 minutes of talking I'm ready to let the conversations go & go back to doing what I was doing. I like to work independently. I can get more done, I like the silence not too much noise when trying to concentrate, prefer silent treatments. (Not so much in a relationship lol) I mean in general. I definitely will let it go before I "lower myself to that particular person's level" I don't prefer to argue. I'm actually a pretty positive person so in a toxic, negative environment for me it can be exhausting. As a matter of fact this morning for example. I had to "calmly" ask & say "please just leave me alone. I wanna be left alone for a little bit. I literally said, I need some space, please leave me alone" the noise, the screaming, the finger pointing can bother me to where I'll leave. I'll go for a drive or leave the room.

[@cooldudicus7668]

I enjoy being introverted because it can be very peaceful. Being able to quietly thrive on ideas and enjoying the power of silence is so cool. It is funny that all this talk of introvert/extrovert stuff is popular now. I am just how I have always been, nothing more. I no better than anyone else.

[@user-ye2ge4zo5lhennypenny]

Perfectly said

[@raydunn2582]

While simply walking away is my preferred reaction to phonies, if they insist on getting in my face I generally just tell them straight out that I consider them assholes and depart. Some people just gotta be told.

[@helenaparker5687]

I am an Intervert I only talk to people that make me feel comfortable around me I can spot a phoney person across the room and stand clear from them

[@bronks1200]

I feel like they try to talk to me even more. I would think my obvious introverted awkwardness would make them ignore me but they just try harder. I don’t want to be rude so I try to talk back as I have work or live around people.

[@organicmechanic5150]

I have been constantly amazed at how people cannot pick up on obvious signs that I am clearly not listening to the nonscence leaving the lips that are flapping. Folded arms, no eye contact, no response except a grunt or silence should be enough. Walking away is the final sign, yet you can still hear the dialogue as you depart

[@randomhumanoidblob4506]

I know it's awful, but outside a tiny circle I seem to spend most of my time screaming "SHUT UP!" in my head. If others are really doing my head in I say nothing until I come out with something my ex called "shooting down in flames." He got to the point where he knew I was winding up and yep, BAM and my work here is done. I honestly don't mean to be or even want to be that person. But it's like my head is going to explode if people don't stop wittering on. And I have a neuro condition that makes speech actively impossible sometimes so now nearly all my interactions are written and it's bliss, whereas for less introverted sufferers that just adds another issue to an already horrible disease. My brother is the same and we've gone from maybe calling each other every 18 months or so to texting every few days - I don't know what it is, but it's waaaaay less stressful. And I both like and love my bro/SiL more than anyone, we just don't want to talk unless there's something to say. And sorry, am thinking aloud and wittering at you now. It's just funny how, since the pandemic, the world has had to adjust to us rather than the other way round. We were evolutionarily primed to win that one! I spent so !such time and energy when I was younger trying to be "normal" tho - it's exhausting. I guess that's something we've all done, trying to live up to something that is just alien to us as if we're somehow wrong inside 🤔

[@organicmechanic5150]

@@randomhumanoidblob4506 by all means I appreciate your perspective. Being introverted is extremely difficult because people assume that we are distant and aloof. In the right scenario or around the right people, we can interact on a personal level. I actually prefer written text over spoken. If someone I knew just gave me a nod to acknowledge my existence, I would be happy. I don't need to know what is going on in someones life because I don't care, having them talk about it makes it worse. The quiet, seething frustration is very real and could possibly be a sign that your personality is INTJ. I am a Turbulent Architect INTJ, which is the rarest in the world and I make no apologies.

[@rainriver1281]

No 👁️ contact thing, doesn’t mean people are being shady. Eye contact sometimes are too intense.

[@organicmechanic5150]

@@rainriver1281 it depends on the situation. My point about eye contact is that if I am not maintaining eye with someone and am looking at the ground, chances are that I am not listening and don't want to. I cannot be around people who talk for the sake of hearing their own voices.

[@ginkomro1125]

Spot on !!!!

[@kaitlyngrace7663]

Soooo truth !!!

[@OkayMaybeImDoneNow...]

Its not an "inner demon" that helps me criticize people. These things are so obvious, I wonder why people dont just see these glaring behaviors. I think its because we are not in any rush to be liked so the things that most people dont see on early interactions with another person, we notice it in the beginning because it matters who someone really is

[@BigBlueTurtle-cu9sv]

How. How on earth is this so accurate? Like, literally everything you've just said is accurate. I am a genuine introvert. Edit: Also the thing about that little thing in the back of our heads that criticize everything someone does wrong? Also true. I'm working on it.

[@user-ye2ge4zo5lhennypenny]

1 March 2024 Hello from Australia 🇦🇺 really enjoy your videos! I am a Introvert...I have close family members who are like this! I now no longer have anything to do with! I love my peace ✌ and quiet love it! Thankyou.

[@user-ye2ge4zo5lhennypenny]

One reason why I like looking at peoples 'Body Language'

[@cooldudicus7668]

I deal with a toxic person at work. He thinks that I hate him, but I do not. I just think that they are a lost cause and a waste of time to associate with. I know that the person is sensitive and yet toxic. It is sad. To me though, I view it as case study to analyze to become a better person. By that I mean I ask myself if I am like them and how I can become better at dealing with people like that. I still talk to him, but only about work related stuff. Nothing more.

[@normanschmidt8389]

Thank you always. I REALLY like this one! It truly has the feel of honesty. I almost shortchanged you on the last one, so this time I listened extra closely. I'm impressed. No shame in your game. Thank you again. God bless everyone.

[@saranagh7097]

Amen, hit da nail right on da head.

[@user-ye2ge4zo5lhennypenny]

I love stimulating conversation not just how is the weather I can see that for myself! 🙄🙄😒

[@_Paul_N]

Exactly. We have weather apps on our phone. Why dumb yourself down to talk about nothing or value?

[@plentyshadesofgreat]

Essential Living, your voice would be great for audio books! Just a thought, if you ever decide to make these videos into an audio series. Longtime watcher and fellow introvert, so most of these are relatable. Great work! 💯🙌🙌🏼🙌🏾

[@wogbornagain]

💯💯💯👍🏽

[@amirakmalrodney]

I love it 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@SpiritsAndDemons]

I love how you keep saying toxic people. Everyone around me is toxic other then my children. Even people in the beginning "seem great and happy", over time the fake smiles disappear. The smiles become tantrums and anger. Yes, I am describing my life. I have 6 children under 13yo. I just "shut up". I am too tired to play stupid games or even care anymore. My life just feels completely pointless and useless. I don't even want to wake up in the mornings or at all. I honestly would sleep until I die. Why should I care about others needs if they can't care about my own. I don't even drive. So it's not like I can just go. I am TRAPPED.

[@elliewegman1846]

Sending you love. When all feels lost start playing. You have the best playmates and I bet they will be kind, make you laugh, and for a time you can experience joy. You are an awesome person... How strong you must be. I salute you.. and.. What an achievement! Six children! Six souls chose you. They had good reason. Love yourself, you are so worth it. Love, respect, hugs from an old Nana in NZ.

[@shamimchebet283]

Exactly like me

[@SpiritsAndDemons]

@@shamimchebet283 It's a nightmare to be in this situation. 😔

[@chrislim7976]

I'm not sure if she was fake in so much as shallow but after months of superficial conversations she got the INFJ wrath for wasting my time.

[@chryssesandchaos]

Well there are times when I want to have a long chat about things that bothers me, but then, there's no one to talk to, since they think the topic does not/will not affect them, however, I do think it does/will affect them, but since they are not very observant like I am, they don't see it until it hits them on the face, by then, it's kind of too late, but I love it when it happens and they realize I was right all along, except most don't acknowledge that I was right. lol!

[@amirakmalrodney]

Good job 👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@glassykrmstuioz4271]

Well I'm introvert too. And I'm quite person too. But people saying to me that I need to learn to talk with other people freely. But I know they are bad people and talking is useless for me. So I always thinking about my words for talk.

[@indridcold8433]

Since I can not detect the true intention of humans, I simply choose to delete the social and pointless aspect of my life. Being social offers few benefits but enormous negatives. There is little value in it. I have no friends, nor romantic interest, in my life. However, I have few of the negatives social people have. There is where I find value, not social connections.

[@tomasom4497]

Nothing wrong with being an introvert these days as long as you are mentally stable. I can be a bit of one too. Our society is getting increasingly sick, superficial and self-seeking. Having said that I have also met some very disturbed and delusional introverts that seemed ok at first.

[@3941602]

Well said mate...The self seeking, selfish and narcsisstic behaviour is a contagion and it is icky and off putting .A struggle to be around it drains me...Faux authenticity and thats why hipsers are not good people.. Tranquility peace and real human connection We are in search of zen.

[@isabelitaranada7951]

This is so me

[@solgaard2]

I am an introvert but I don't call people toxic. Seems kinda weird. They are just assholes.

[@jeanholtz579]

Trust God Only unless as it says you have known them a long time!!!!

[@DontTakeItLiteral]

Plot twist ….. We don’t . Lol

[@Spectre-1337]

"words can cut deep than a knife" feels like i've been cutting everyone in school

[@leebennett1821]

They kill them?

[@WATP2000]

That's the dream

[@brettcordes3602]

Introversion and authenticity (I assume this is what is meant by “fake people” ) are completely different, independent personality characteristics. The premise of this video makes no sense. It’s like asking “how do tall people communicate with those who’s favorite color is green?”