Why Introverts Never Forgive Easily

Why Introverts Never Forgive Easily. Nowadays, apologizing is so hard if you have your pride and in return, accepting apologies varies per personality and factors to be considered. The emotional impact and your willingness to forgive depend on you.
Forgiveness is not given by force; it is handed with all your heart. Introverts also value the healing process they need to undergo before embracing forgiveness. Quiet people will also consider the possible advantages and disadvantages of forgiving a person who once hurt them.
Additionally, introverts don’t forgive quickly because they know how to respect themselves. When you know how to respect yourself, you can evaluate whether the ones who hurt you deserve forgiveness. And when you offend introverts, you need to understand that they handle their decisions in life critically. You need to give an introvert time and space to think about how to handle the situation that causes misunderstanding. Respecting their healing process might reduce their grudge toward you.
The act that offended you might never totally heal, but forgiving the offender might help loosen its hold and help you break free from bitterness. Human as we are, we need to recognize other people’s way of making decisions that will shape their life. You might feel scared of making a wrong decision, but remember that we learn through the difficulties we encounter. What are the reasons that hinder you from forgiving?
00:00 INTRO
00:21 10 The pain is still there
01:23 09 The offender is not sincere
02:24 08 Introverts are scared of feeling vulnerable after forgiving
03:34 07 Introverts often misinterpret that no one understands them
04:24 06 Afraid of getting hurt again
05:24 05 Introverts do not tolerate offenders
06:22 04 Too much anger towards the offender
07:21 03 They believed that offenders need punishment
08:24 02 A broken trust is hard to fix
09:23 01 Introverts believe healing is a process, not an impulsive decision
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00:00 INTRO 00:21 10 The pain is still there 01:23 09 The offender is not sincere 02:24 08 Introverts are scared of feeling vulnerable after forgiving 03:34 07 Introverts often misinterpret that no one understands them 04:24 06 Afraid of getting hurt again 05:24 05 Introverts do not tolerate offenders 06:22 04 Too much anger towards the offender 07:21 03 They believed that offenders need punishment 08:24 02 A broken trust is hard to fix 09:23 01 Introverts believe healing is a process, not an impulsive decision Do You Have Topics In Mind? Comment Below... Share This Video Right NOW: kzbin.info/www/bejne/haDZpmpphNqaY7s -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for Watching! DROP A LIKE, SHARE, Click the SUBSCRIBE Button and HIT the notification bell so you won't miss anything! Any Topic In Mind? We will be glad to make them for You! SUBSCRIBE to our CHANNEL NOW 👉👉👉 bit.ly/2NfQyrK Help Our Channel Reach Awareness Share it With your Friends and Family. -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Videos You May Also Like: 10 THINGS INTROVERTS WILL NEVER SAY kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6SukqRtZrClY6s 10 THINGS INTROVERTS EXTREMELY HATE kzbin.info/www/bejne/l6jaYpRsraiKfq8 10 REASONS WHY INTROVERTS ARE DANGEROUS kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6LRoYOsoNprqpI 10 CRAZY THINGS INTROVERTS DO kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnjXoqeuf7Bonrs 10 WAYS HOW INTROVERTS INTIMIDATE PEOPLE kzbin.info/www/bejne/mWWwk2R-gtKBb9U 10 SIGNS YOU'RE A MAGNETIC INTROVERT kzbin.info/www/bejne/iKq0mn-al7KYfLs

[@organicmechanic5150]

I am an extremely loyal individual, once that has been betrayed, you will never be forgiven.

[@indridcold8433]

It came to pass that most friendships and romantic interests were ending in being used, betrayed, and painfully, being abandoned. With this experiences, I decided to simply forego amicable and amorous relationships. I quit making friends and looking for a girlfriend a long time ago. This has greatly improved my life to the point that I will never be social again. Being social often ends with pain and betrayal. It has little value and comes with a tremendous amount of negatives. I find no relevant use for being social. Thus, I quit and improved my life.

[@MegaMafaro]

💯🎯

[@rickykilgore4409]

I will forgive but I don't forget and I will not have anything to do with them

[@emmanuelchukwu8331]

Introverts are great minded people

[@chuckinhouston9952]

Correct!

[@indridcold8433]

I am as extreme an introvert as anybody could ever encounter. However, I fear I have a weak mind. This is why I am likely an introvert. I know my weaknesses and shortcomings. Being social is one very big weakness I have. Thus, I deleted that aspect of my life and shifted efforts to aspects of my life where progress was realistically foreseeable and offered a high chance of success. Using this method has made my life extremely easy, peaceful, rewarding, even lucrative. Regardless of what the powers-that-be say, friends and a girlfriend / boyfriend are not necessities in life. They are merely luxuries. For me, they were not even luxuries. They were nothing but cruel opportunists that delighted in hurting me. Thus, I deleted them all.

[@pargm9543]

Thats why introvert don't argue with people bacause they know at the end only they will suffer

[@chuckinhouston9952]

I love arguing. I’m an introvert.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Most introverts don’t like arguing. I am an ambivert and I hate arguing.

[@versatileduplicity9313]

I will get physical tho

[@rosequartz_serenity01]

Totally agree

[@indridcold8433]

I refuse to debate and argue because it has no productive outcome, where I win the argument or not. I can not believe there are what are called, "debate clubs." What purpose does that serve? I will often leave a person's presence without saying a word if there is an argument starting. I have even left mid sentence. The people that want to argue serve no purpose in my life nor are of importance to me. Why give them any sort of attention if they want a conflict. I hate conflict and do all I can to avoid it. It is a waste of time with no productive outcome.

[@opeyemiajayi851]

Apology require sincerity

[@oscargonza2748]

As an introvert i have no problem forgiving the offender and forgetting the offence because i don't hold grudges, holding a grudge is giving the offender too much power over your feelings, it's better to let go and live your life in peace and not let others control your emotions

[@malusdarkblade1139]

Anyone who intentionally does something negative towards you doesn't deserve forgiveness ever. Never forgive never forget

[@indridcold8433]

Yes, never speak of them nor even mention their name again. Those persons are deleted from our lives as if they never existed. There is no reason to give someone a, second chance to ever hurt us again. We require no aspect of the one that hurt us in our lives. Forgiveness is for the weak and insecure.

[@jacobmajorana3307]

'When you are offended at any man's fault, turn to yourself and study your own failings. Then you will forget your anger.' - Epictetus

[@jacobmajorana3307]

@@indridcold8433 In forgiveness lies strength

[@jacobmajorana3307]

@@indridcold8433 The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget. Thomas Szasz

[@indridcold8433]

@@jacobmajorana3307 I do forgive but also forget. They are as if they never existed in my life. I do not even speak of them again. I truly forget those that wronged me. There are too many people on the planet to go back to a proven unstable choice. After a few months, I do not even remember their names. I remember deleting the person, and vaguely what the person looks like, but I remember nothing else. Forgetting is the best thing anybody can do. A forgive without a forget is only inviting a repeat of the exact same situation. Besides, I am nobody of value to anybody. It is not as if the person I forget will be messing someone of importance. I am so good at forgive and forget that I even do it with stupid bosses that are so inept they are wrecking people's lives. I quit the job, and never speak of the boss again, not even in an interview. I just say I worked for myself and it works out great. Everyone knows never to badmouth an old boss. Well, I can not because I forget them. I remember none of the names of anybody that had ever wronged me in my life. I only vaguely remember the way they look and the deletion but not the reason of thd deletion. This method has made for an extremely peaceful life. I have absolutely no conflict, drama, nor bitter feelings in my life.

[@djgrant8761]

I’m an introvert but I couldn’t live without forgiveness because He forgave me. If someone hurts me I forgive them so I can let go of it, then I forget them.

[@soulless_jake540]

For me its impossible to forgive someone who offends me or anyone im friends with

[@chuckinhouston9952]

You can only be offended if you allow yourself to be. Too many people consider being offended to be a skill. I’m an introvert, but am rarely offended because I truly don’t care what someone else thinks.

[@jacobmajorana3307]

'When you are offended at any man's fault, turn to yourself and study your own failings. Then you will forget your anger.' - Epictetus

[@michabarycki2781]

I easily forgive minor offences, but major ones ended friedships forever.

[@HektorBandimar]

I can remember details of insults toward me from years ago, I don't think I ever forget or forgive. The other day I heard of the death of someone who once insulted me, I didn't shed any tears for that person. I usually perceive insults directed at me to be undeserved.

[@alphasuperior100]

True, I remember someone said something derogatory about me and the person is dead now. I'm not even sorry he died.

[@indridcold8433]

I found long a go that one can live without amicable and amorous relationships completely successfully. Regardless of what the powers-that-be say, humans do not need to be social and require no friends nor a mate. Nobody knows me. Nobody has known me for many years. I exist just fine without human companionship. In fact, I prosper without their interference in my life.

[@spookyanalyst9432]

Yep. This is definitely accurate to a T. I really don't forgive so easily as an introvert because I would know if the person is sincere or not. If the person I befriended is only causing more pain than joy, then I say f*** it pretty much. The type of individual I am is 2 strikes then I'm out. Not associating with the person anymore.

[@saranagh7097]

Us introverts can be one dangerous bunch. Plus. Let me say this: ( Lord smite me dead as sure as before I finish this paragraph), I have been on this planet almost 70 yrs; and for as long as I can remember, to This day; Roughly about 90+% of everyone that has "rubbed" me the wrong way, ...They all gone ( dead or 3/4 dead) Today. I am still here, thus far. Must of done Something Right. How's that(?)

[@luckydr2623]

I think, sometimes you have to remember what people have done to you. For you to recognize the patterns and avoid people who aren't good for you. Forgive and learn.

[@dinahnicest6525]

I never hold grudges for the past, I hold them for the future. If you accidentally cut off my leg, I can easily forgive you, but if you intentionally step on my toe, I'll want you out of my life forever. It's the thought that counts. I don't offend easily, but I think it's stupid to forgive anything that you know will happen again. Narcissism and any type of malevolence should never be.

[@carol-us4xn]

Never mind the forgiveness. It's a waste of time. No not me, I'm not going to take responsibility for other people's actions 💯.

[@ursanirak2870]

Very accurate 👍🏻

[@alphasuperior100]

This is so true about me. I'm mostly introverted & don't speak my mind that much which I should be doing. 😢.

[@HealthandFitnessCentral]

Hey there! Loved your video on "Why Introverts Never Forgive Easily." As an introvert myself, I totally relate. It's not that we hold grudges forever, but we tend to analyze and process things deeply before granting forgiveness. Looking forward to more insights! Keep up the great work! 🙌🏼✨

[@princessprincess8855]

A grown up / adult knows the difference between wrong and right. The difference between honesty and lie. The difference between betrayal and loyalty. If any adult does any of these things to someone, they did it willingly. I dont think it has anything to do with being introvercial .

[@saviourawudzi5244]

Avoiding a fake toxic person who sees you as a toy to play with makes you get your inner peace.

[@ChrisWilliams-bb2pc]

I am an introvert, I don't like people, but my parents still taught me to have manners. If you say hi to me, I will smile and say high back. But I have never been the first one to say, hi, if you walk past me, fuck you. But I am 33 years old, and am old enough to realize the world doesn't revolve around me, you can be in a shitty mood, but you never know, they could have lost someone in a car accident or something recently. A lot of times it has nothing to do with you, but over time I get this, but in high school and early college I didn't

[@jacobmajorana3307]

'When you are offended at any man's fault, turn to yourself and study your own failings. Then you will forget your anger.' - Epictetus I am personally an introvert, but I do not feel as though I have the right to judge others as they don’t have the right to judge me. We all have bad moments, but they do not define us. Holding grudges only lays weight on the soul it is useless and foolish. ‘The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.’ -Thomas Szasz let us all be rational and loving, for there is no love without forgiveness and no forgiveness without love. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. -Colossians 3:13. Love is the answer.

[@maringrachart]

Thk you for sharing, I loved all your inputs. I know some of them😊, plus I sometimes have that personal iTunes so I truly appreciate it. New viewer!😁🙏

[@bradleyanderson4315]

It’s a process. The offender needs to sincerely realize that he did wrong. He has to not repeat that offense. Lastly he needs to make a sincere effort to undo the damage.

[@gamma-raygreen6899]

I learned a lot about myself watching this, Thank you. It's very awkward to hear some stranger describe me so very well, better than I can explain it myself.

[@mariammuturi7743]

Very very true. Extreme true

[@4789slydax]

As stated in the video we need to recognize other people's personalities and their way of making decisions. As with all personality types there are those who arrive at conclusions and responses by thinking things through and those who base their conclusions and responses on their feelings.

[@iks9120]

I don't appreciate people who forgive quickly and easily. First reason ; I don't trust them. Second reason; People who "forgive" quickly are the ones who will be the first to crucify you. Quick forgiving=quick hate=quick forgiving=quick hate..... No stability, just cheap and shallow character.

[@haraitachi1112]

Good job 👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@Mzee.076]

it's not that we don't easily forgive, most of the people asking for forgiveness are pretenders and not genuine and sincere, and we can pick that up easily

[@haraitachi1112]

Very nice content 😊😊😊😊😊

[@thomasokeefe3081]

I can relate to all of this. For I am a true introvert.

[@user-ye2ge4zo5lhennypenny]

I am a Introvert...it depends on what it is! Plus words are cheap! I don't forgive lightly either! Trust is earned not given

[@jonathanmalonda4634]

Thanks to the video I learn a lot I'm introvert I try to change my mistake to beeng an introvert.

[@saviourawudzi5244]

It is better to keep your safety than allowing a fake toxic person into your life.

[@saviourawudzi5244]

Allowing a fake toxic person into your life is the worse thing ever.

[@hyberkonawa272]

As a Catholic myself I'm both introverted and extroverted and I forgive major causes, even if too hard for me do it. Why???? Well..... according to the 10 commandments "Who ever doesn't forgive, thou shall not be forgiven". This is why I forgive and accept my humiliation and pain towards christ.

[@slowmotionenergylovebeing6327]

🎯

[@UbaldoSilva4611]

I'd like being introverts. just let me tell you the reason that I like introverts because the reality is so many of the world's most successful people are introverts like: Bill Gates, Steven Spielberg, Michael Jordan, Elon Musk, Dr. Seuss, Emma Watson. anyway, being an introvert doesn't stop you from being bold. 🙏🙏 thanks a bunch so this is my advice for everyone in the world, especially a young people ❤❤

[@Woodman26]

THIS Introvert, does Not forgive, shouldn't have Wronged me in the First place..!?!? :/

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

This is so true! I once got my introverted guy mad and he ignored me for days. I was so sad and worried… I think extroverts are more forgiving than introverts in general. I have a cousin who is an introvert who never forgives. She holds grudges for life which is extremely bad.

[@dockaos924]

I'm not an introvert but I do have a list

[@benruffo1197]

There is a difference between forgiveness and continuing a relationship. Are there any practical reasons for the relationship?

[@jozsiolah1435]

When you feel pain about situations, that means pins are installed in the brain, heart, stomach, to cause the painful feelings. These pins are responsible. Later, when someone opens your door, you may get a shock caused by these pins. Faster heart beat rate, stomach aching, shock, etc. when all these pins are extracted, then you won’t feel the pain. Forgiving is encoded in the DNA. But forgiving murder is very hard, since the killer may cause further trouble. In the beginning, killers were chased away from the horde, to avoid the killing of children and women. Interesting, they were barking like in Doom, they are real voice recording of people.

[@UnchosenRatomaniaTheS8]

My favorite saying is "if you don't learn you will feel". If someone betrays me, then what do you think will happen again? I may be cordial to that person, but that's as far as it goes. Do I feel guilty? HECK NO! Why would I?

[@OkayMaybeImDoneNow...]

I am introverted, but I do not hold grudges and I can forgive you. But if you keep bringing up that incident or justifying the weong you did, especially towards who has told me the story, i dont like interacting with you. However, when it comes to my mom and my twin sister, if you wrong them and they dont feel angry enough, i take that anger and feel it for them. Especially because the main characters who wrong them are my older brother and my dad and step-mother respectively. When I'm with the culprits, the anger is there but i dont not do anything about it because I don't like confrontations plus I feel its not my place to tell them off. I am simply quiet and don't engage in conversation with them. Speaking only when spoken to. Very few people offend me because the only people i really talk to most in a day are my mom, whom I live with, and my Sims when they do something i didnt tell them to😂😂😂

[@analeeangcon2300]

Hindi na ngayon, I can forgive them easyly, specially for the good, may boundaries na nga lng. Atleast Wala na akong sama Ng loob sa kanila, Ang pag patawad ay nkaka gaan nang loob. Nasabi ko lng to kasi I talk to god first about the mental and emotional pain. Pwede pala bigyan mo agad Ng kapatawaran Ang tao may atraso Sayo. Kahit Hindi pa sila nag sasabi Ng sorry

[@saviourawudzi5244]

Keeping your safety doesn't mean you don't know how or won't forgive those who are worth it.

[@worldhello1234]

@1:44 Exactly, that is why forgiveness is not a virtue nor a sign of maturity, just as love is no virtue or sign of maturity. One who propagates the former notion clearly is a psycho or some other kind of evil doer.

[@davidpalmer4184]

I am sorry that most of your points are incorrect. I am an introvert, I am married and have many children, I have very few friends, but the ones I have are trusted and I will defend them and my family to the death because I am an introvert (Please note I am an Australian and don't own a gun). I work by the rule "never forget, never forgive" It has served me well. Once betrayed you never forgive. I also have a very good bullshit detector after I spent many years in the infantry. We are very angry about the world and how fu#cked up it is. Every narcissist has a plan until they get a punch in the face or a broken arm, depending on their attitude.

[@chuckinhouston9952]

Very well stated. I can relate, except that I do own many guns. Don’t mess with Texas!

[@Moabkilr45]

He make very broad over generalizations about introverts.

[@seesharp81321]

Where did you came up with this....

[@dinahnicest6525]

We used to go to C-trails. Then there came a B-trail. Now I hate his N-trails.

[@kevinbenjamin6458]

I don't for give so easily ASAP

[@tanyah137]

Forgiveness is easy; continuing to be others' doormat is unacceptable, unforgivable. Maybe if others would do to others as they would have done to them would be the answer. Even if when they do wrong to others, they to try to correct the wrong, rather than attack those who try to protect themselves from their offenses then forgiveness overflows. Where is there room for forgiveness when the opposite is done: there isn't. Especially when the offenders have a reach, resources,helps so that to one individual what they do is totally unnecessary and is only there to harass. Also, embolden your enemies, when you've done nothing to no one accept strive to live your godly convictions that others perceive you as being judgmental when you are not. Every biblical prophet, spoke what God said and was hated because people loved their ungodly deeds and hated the ways of God..

[@josefschiltz2192]

It's inanity that I find impossible. Inanity and arrogant self-deification and the wilful inability of these people to weigh words to kind effect. Even worse, they are dismissive and jeering and point-scoring as if they have a perfect right and have won the fight to own you. They've achieved nothing of the sort. Walk off. Their mental weakness will get them in the end and you need not spare any mental effort. They're exhausting and not worth the expenditure.

[@bugoynachoichoi8505]

oh shit..better im an extrovert..

[@1Trunk]

Sound like feeler introvert

[@shawnagunn9054]

Not true, I am an INFP and forgiveness is my go to for freedom. N9thing feels as good as letting go!

[@cheleshows]

As I life-long Introvert,Ii can say with 100% certainty that I am not scared to appear/Be ,vulnerable/weak. 1 What other people "think" of me, is none of my business 2. I KNOW who I am 3 The people in my immediate life KNOW who I am.

[@robertgrace6182]

There seems to be an underlying feeling of victim blaming in the text. Why don’t we just see ‘Don’t be a dick’ videos instead of these ‘why sensitive people…’ videos?

[@Jtyoutube2467]

That's really cringe talking about living in the past and not forgive and forget.

[@indridcold8433]

There are 7.666.314.217 humans on the planet. Why forgive anybody when there are so many other humans on the planet? Allowing someone a second chance only invites unnecessary conflict into your life. That is something I refuse in my life. All deletions of humans in my life are definitive and permanent. Besides, I have no value in other human's lives. I am merely a distraction in their lives.

[@Moabkilr45]

Sounds like you need to talk to someone bruh

[@indridcold8433]

@@Moabkilr45 Yes, to talk others is not bad. However, I will not be talking to those I deleted out of my life. Never give a second chance for someone to hurt you. I quit participating in that ridiculous social game long ago. Nobody gets another chance to hurt me again. It is not as if I will be missed by the person I deleted.

[@Moabkilr45]

@@indridcold8433 I never said you should talk to those you cut out lol

[@indridcold8433]

@@Moabkilr45 I speak vaguely and fleetingly to others that did not wrong me. I just refuse to make any kind of bond with them. It is my goal never to be used, betrayed, and painfully abandoned again. If this means I never make friends again, so be it. But, there are bidirectional, verbal, exchanges with humans, at times. They are just kept very fleeting.

[@abdullahimuhammad382]

U think u can take advantage of me and I will forgive u u are sick😢

[@Rightpath09]

It's all lie.