Esther Perel: The Power of Relational Intelligence

[@sarah-anneperry6932]

This woman has taught me more about human relationships than my Bachelor's degree in Psychology ever did.

[@nomzalicious8075]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Don't bother repaying that College loan then...🤯

[@giannamancini7297]

Same

[@staceykeller98072]

SHe's amazing!

[@kaalmansur]

Your bachelor's in psy is also not meant for you to learn. It's meant for you to become a functioning cog.

[@IdontspeakBro.]

Last Christmas I gave u my Fart someone has been burned and hates the world.🤣

[@gtrplaya1]

"A criticism is (often) a veiled wish. Why not say the veiled wish?"

[@DonnaLewis-q3i]

It’s been six months since the breakup, and I’m still struggling. He ended things out of the blue. I’ve tried moving on, but I just can’t. I still think about him every single day, and it feels like there’s no way forward

[@WrenEverett-x3d]

I completely understand. My partner left me too and it shattered me. I thought we had everything figured out, but he said he needed time apart. I was devastated and didn’t know where to turn

[@DonnaLewis-q3i]

How did you cope with it? Was there anything that helped you?

[@WrenEverett-x3d]

Honestly, I couldn’t handle it alone. I found someone who truly changed everything for me.. Father Akabu. He’s a spiritualist who specializes in restoring broken relationships. He helped me reconnect with my partner when I thought it was impossible

[@DonnaLewis-q3i]

I just looked him up, and I can see so many people he has helped. Thank you for sharing this I finally feel like there’s some hope for me

[@ThierryC2373]

I loved the moment she caught everybody by asking "who is sending a check to the family"! That was such a cultural revelation moment.

[@smurfiennes]

Indeed. It opened up my eyes, why we have such a different view of life. Eventhough my family and relatives are way better of than me, but at the back of my mind, I still feel responsible to ‘take care of them’, just in case.

[@marvelousmrsnunya]

I adore this woman's brain!

[@indigoblue4791]

Esther is so vital and her energy is so contagious!!!

[@caribbeanqueen1389]

She said something really powerful. She said trust doesn't come from security, Trust is built in the reconnection after a riff

[@Polyjamorous-mothmaam]

I feel this :)

[@richardeliasjames5190]

Relationships are harmony-disharmony-repair, connection-disconnection-reconnection. It's in the reconnection that the trust gets built. You have to have a rupture in order to actually build the trust.

[@kirstinstrand6292]

And to find the Truth of the relationship, whatever it IS.

[@silenelandim8385]

This woman is amazing, I can just stay here and listen for hours. And let me tell you I will need to hear this more than once’s.

[@nedsantos1415]

Thank you for this. Esther has been a blessing to those who take relationships seriously and seek answers to their challenges in their relationships.

[@lihlenyathi732]

She's right, I'm from South Africa 🇿🇦 and we work to feed not only our immediate families but also our extended families as well.

[@grahambooth3225]

In other places it takes a village is a saying in South Africa its common practice for a huge part of South Africa. I sometimes don't know how people manage it but they do and it's amazing the selfless sacrifices people make for others.

[@Sam-tz8ou]

Yes, but in western countries often children never meet their real fathers. Which is on the other side of extreme.

[@sachin1407]

Same with us ..people from India..

[@storiesofblue]

If i ever go back to studying psychology, I want her for every class.

[@CoutureButcher]

no need you got youtube lol

[@sophiakh9590]

This is why so many people are unhappy- the unrealistic expectations that people place on jobs and relationships to fulfill them and provide them with meaning. What we once got from a village/ faith, we're supposed to get from the aforementioned

[@milliejohnson-realtorandla1475]

I found you by random search and I am so thankful.

[@cerenyasar3914]

On top of her expertise I just LOVE her body language and accent! 😍😍

[@user-to6mz8xb8g]

always, always, always a pleasure to hear you speak, esther

[@elmarehuman237]

Gioo.ooò p

[@CoutureButcher]

Esther Perel is to relationships what Steve Jobs is to technology

[@sudipsaha2964]

she speaks with passion and so real content .

[@rhondawilson5234]

Very intelligent woman. I love listening to anything I can find online from her and listening not only to what she says but the accent is very beautiful. Listening to her seminars & watching her videos have been life changing on many levels. Thank you for all your hard work and for such accurate information. Your an amazing speaker and have helped me tremendously.

[@sachin1407]

So right you are... 👍 She is amazing 👌👌👌

[@lianaschill6132]

Esther Perel can articulate complex relationship dynamics well by recognizing patterns of behaviour and communication.

[@bluesee2018]

This Lady is so amazing, I love her presentation, the way she talk, body language and confidence, plus she is able to convey the message.

[@4635683763]

She said "South Africa" and my attention was sealed in.

[@fikminipes7433]

Absolutely fabulous. For those interested in this topic I recommend Esther´s book The state of affairs - that will help you understand a lot.

[@TheSukanya1984]

I just LOVE this woman!!! She has gifted the world a whole new perspective on Relationship knowledge!

[@leratomphaka3832]

What a powerful voice. Thank you Esther. I needed this

[@ashwhitehomebro]

Please keep her here with us for as long as possible . I happened upon her other video from a TED talk she gave. It gave a lot of clarity, and was absolutely engaging. There's a ton of reflection when I watch any of her videos. Beautiful work, and look forward to more of these lectures from her.

[@jiksoo-modernpsychic1861]

I was hinted a lot with your book for my life as a father and a husband. Fire needs air, desire needs space! and I just knew that your book, the state of affairs was translated and published in Dec. last year in Korea! I am gonna buy it though I read the book with Audible~

[@lianaschill6132]

Thank you Esther for a relationship-vocabulary and relationship-truths that have been illusive to me until now. Fascinating and inspiring

[@smurfiennes]

Thank you Esther. I wish I’d have found you last week. What a difference of a couple of days could’ve made..

[@TonettaClay]

Thank you for creating this video and providing this information. I just found your videos yesterday and am learning much as I'm in the Relationship Coaching world as well as being a social worker for the past 20 years.

[@monikajhunjhunwala1948]

I love her ... fan girl!

[@meenachandra]

Nothing is more perfectly fitting of today's zeitgeist than this!! What a lucky find :) I posit that the step beyond the "self-protection" economy is a meaning and belonging economy. Thanks!! Meena C (contact available on request)

[@Si-cw3fo]

Masha Allah... great clinical reasoning

[@michaelvandenheuvel317]

Seeing knowing and believing. Always.

[@mariambreed6259]

Bravo! Belle présentation et logique. Merci.

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

She looks beautiful here.

[@victoriap2519]

These days it is not anymore a job interview, it is a personality interview while understanding nothing about their own personalities, and having no self- awareness, trying to go with the gut, when raised in environment which has nothing to do with development of the senses of the gut

[@elmarehuman237]

Jkĺiiiķ Jjkjjķ

[@sweetthings11]

Wow this is so mind blowing what you've said here.. You must have been through some stuff to talk so deep.

[@GoogleAccount00]

💯💯💯

[@kirstinstrand6292]

Self awareness is rarely taught in childhood. Self discovery is required prior to the ability to function well in society, work and love. Generally speaking we find a door to self awareness through teachers like Ester Parel. She is the voice of profound experience and wisdom.

[@victoriap2519]

@@kirstinstrand6292 i am sure it is not abt teaching self-awareness, but rather stop interfering in it and its development with the process called education and raising kids, kids are not a cattle to raise. Kids to my opinion are very self-aware, until the society starts telling them they are not and how things should be, playing morality

[@toreyhill2024]

I always learn from her! Great information!

[@rociocoboperez329]

Waiting for a book about work relationships. Hope it will be her next book!

[@CoutureButcher]

she got a "How's Work" podcast I think

[@vivienrhodes4248]

Revaluation of a relationship is ongoing

[@DianeO-369]

Wonderful chat .. so informative .. 👏 ❤

[@HalidaSarahShahed]

I love this woman 💟

[@laurorap9232]

She is amazing 😍

[@deborahamanda3157]

I ALWAYS learn when listening to you Esther! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. 🙌🏻

[@mariadelosrios9844]

@Last Christmas I gave u my Fart for someone who seems very hostile towards this woman, why do you spend your time listening to her. Move on.

[@mariadelosrios9844]

@Last Christmas I gave u my Fart Well, I believe that is my desicion to make. Why would you be the expert on what's good for me or not?

[@audreykyoto]

Brilliant.

[@deboratavares5625]

I love her!

[@andrearenee7845]

Thank you so much for this.

[@gigglesnz9]

Why Values are such a core component on what you build your foundation of intra and inter relationships with

[@mariamkinen8036]

Relational n emotional intelligence n innate skills are all one . That's how things work.

[@Souldesouse]

Anyone noticed how chic her style is? In every appearance

[@DesireeHoorzuk]

Brilliant! Thank you.

[@preciousngulube2685]

Love love Ester thank you so much for insights

[@saradelgrosso975]

Great woman!

[@ibrahimhamada5751]

And also attractive woman ❤️🌹😍

[@icracomprehensiveschool2153]

Therefore we need to speak more about complimentary sexes rather than opposite sexes . we were programmed to compete during industrialisation, now things have to rethink because we are technologically connected and need each other more while we are still stuck with industrialised competitive vocabulary Mogamat Faadiel Arnold ICRA Principal

[@ThatoRoyalCEO]

Complementary Sexes. 💯

[@lili2tango]

ho, Simon Sinek was there too! So cute! I am not surprised

[@Shark-Malark]

. . .ugh, and now I have the unreasonable expectations that my family, relationships, and job will make me feel like Queen Esther does. . .

[@rainbomg]

Yessss go off, queen

[@flowerspititlakay6433]

OMG!!! What a brain...

[@arianamoore23]

I would like to hear a conversation with Esther and Jordan Peterson😍 could you imagine!!!

[@kaalmansur]

Not very fruitful I think. He is deterministic. She is progress oriented. Not so much to gain there I think.

[@bearclaw5115]

@@kaalmansur That's a good observation!

[@Moonlight_Sonata19]

I knowww!

[@reahndaku2230]

💥💥💥

[@dhaliadestrange]

Why would we ever inflict that on her? 😆 No, we must protect this woman.

[@JLW667]

13:00 Interdependence 18:22

[@SleeplessinOC]

Lover her necklace

[@haddynough8402]

All men should be required to take a course on this, and emotional intelligence as well because most men are emotionally constipated it seems.

[@vcash1112]

👎🐛

[@kirstinstrand6292]

More so than females, it seems. Yet, deep, open, honest communication is a challenge for everyone. Edit: yet, it's like any skill, it can be learned with practice. 🙂🤗

[@triorubino-michakoeppen9105]

men do not waste so much time in speaking

[@kindalindaable]

Amazing.

[@starrynight67]

God, I wish she comes to Dallas

[@DeepConnectionswithAndee]

Yes I’m here too and would pay to see and hear her.

[@viniciomattos]

Warning , if you want to protect your relationship, don’t watch this woman , you will fall in love with her , I warned you !!!

[@angrysackmagic4633]

I love this lady! Thank you : )

[@ashimasood7109]

If anyone can answer my question . How do we balance the contrasting economies ?

[@joanecinco57]

I hope to meet someday Esther!

[@kathleensueoka3599]

I met her by accident in an airline lounge. Wow. I was so excited to speak with her during our layovers.

[@psmylife6832]

Noooooo... I want to hear the Q&A session. Where can I find that?

[@missswann4234]

Am wondering how long it will take me to be like this lady on the field of relship expert 😎

[@kirstinstrand6292]

A lifetime; this is reality.

[@seniorarubia]

Soulmate on an app 😂😅😂 these is a trip

[@BetterDayEachDay]

Yeah the soul doesn’t need an app 😅

[@CarloGonzalezTV]

“We’re looking for soulmates on an app; thats quite a trip” sometimes its just in the delivery of what’s said. Dont get me wrong, I’m still going to use them 👀

[@danbahaushe]

7nuj21⁰0 David ⁰00

[@danbahaushe]

Iqqqi1

[@kirstinstrand6292]

I don't believe anyone will find a Soulmate until her/his own Soul is discovered.

[@CarloGonzalezTV]

@@kirstinstrand6292 I *love* that

[@ushashibandyopadhyay9105]

SHOT FR SURE.... 😊👍👌

[@mariamargaritis7743]

12:43 👍

[@vivienrhodes4248]

Re evaluating

[@hchafiih]

0:23 is that Simon Sinek 😌

[@vibhagurtu9632]

Wow!

[@jorutherford1632]

Im in South Africa... it is very much the opposite what she described.

[@grahambooth3225]

At my work place there is a lady taking care of her brothers children and another lady who passed away and her kids are taken care of by the family. Less privileged parents and grandparents are taken care of by family. We are diverse you might experience it different than others and this is what she experienced, it's not a theory. Maybe I'm misinterpreting it completely?

[@kirstinstrand6292]

@@grahambooth3225 Yes, life is complex, as are all relationships and intrafamily responsibilities. Some choose to participate, others disappear. Life's ongoing complexities are mind boggling!

[@Sam-tz8ou]

Haha yeah, I thought the same. Usually westerners think they are the only people with freedom.

[@terec1111]

❤ ❤❤❤❤❤

[@kaalmansur]

And where is the conversation?

[@hamzehamer4921]

The Bible, the Qur'an and Science dr maurice bucaille AHMAD DEEDAT LECTURES Muslim Community Center (MCC) - East Bay is a vibrant faith-based organization that exudes a sense of community. Every day we attempt to love and worship God (great and glorified is He) and follow the teachings of the Holy Qur’an and the guidance of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him).

[@Alejandrotrans]

Please translate spanish!!! Subtítulos en español

[@sophiakh9590]

I often wonder

[@miriamdelcarmenisraelbrizu9829]

Miss guity, dónde and

[@thetruther954]

Im not on the radar of men with massive followers. I’d like to get to know you, Esther, as much as that is possible. I hear everything you say, about the direct path to satisfying Esther be more about the obstacles that get in the way. That resonates with me, more than Bill Maher’s “that sounds crazy”, more that Esther’s mysterious ravishing she searches for being a man who will lovingly brush her hair. And, your husband Esther, I guess that’s why I wonder how it can be worth it. I mean let’s talk, let’s introduce obstacles, let’s masturbate in separate states, let’s send our emotions higher and higher as we get to that sweet knowledge we’ve never had and it seems impossible to share. Remarried to the same man 3-4 times? And that doesn’t do some real damage? I get what you’re saying, your husband wanting security, you still wanting to sow your wild Oates. Im not saying that’s my marriage, or my friends marriage, but it’s definitely your’s. And that’s how I understand the triangulation involved. Esther Perel’s marriage. Yeah, let’s get to it.

[@rosesmith000]

power, trust, value... mmmm

[@mariamargaritis7743]

18:54 👨‍💻

[@sharonthe]

Nice analysis, but it sterilizes the natural love interest. Love has no real value. I cannot be in a relationship that is not based on emotion but only on understanding the changing reality.

[@hlonni_chelsea6711]

So, Esther has been to South Africa????? Maybe my ears are lying to me. Esther has been here??????

[@wilfredsmith9505]

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[@SabineSchories]

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[@reallity4122]

It is absolutely nonsense to claim that what a village did for one he/she now he/she except from one person-- wife/ husband!!!! What changed is more women obtained freedom of choices due to financial independence and with that we have now two bosses in the household and company of marriage goes down the toilet! Woman lost their identity and act like a man.

[@renatanorcia1275]

She makes many blanket statements .1st one"We have never expected more from our partners than we do today..."etc.. But where is research to back up her statements? She's talking about her experiences with her patients and insights from specific towns and countries.It doesn't make it 100% so with everybody in the world?

[@kirstinstrand6292]

Some "blanket statements" are worldwide generalizations. Her WISDOM is arrived at from experience. Learn to think, dear one, instead of processing rote criticism seen in KZbin comments.

[@anitoroyan272]

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