Everything About You Speaks! Powerful Language of Visual Cues | Kristina Pernfors | TEDxVeroBeach

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“Because first impressions last” - The majority of first impressions are based on how we look - not what we say. Our non-verbal cues say more about us than any of our words ever will. And it goes way beyond skin deep. Everything about us speaks, from the clothes we wear to the cars we drive, and the interiors we surround ourselves with. Kristina Pernfors, a native of Sweden, was born with the style and design gene embedded in her DNA. She is the CEO & Owner of Aesthetics & Style which specializes in delivering the total image experience, from how you look, to how you live. Her company services are focused on the areas of interior design, and image consulting. Kristina has been featured on numerous podcasts and multiple times on the nationally syndicated TV show “The List” where she shares image and interior style tips. When she is not busy creating image experiences for her clients, Kristina spends her time instructing Body Pump, running, and cooking. She’s also a board member for the Sally Wilkey Foundation and volunteers with organizations like The March of Dimes and Healthy Start Coalition through participation in Dancing With Vero’s Stars. And most importantly, enjoying life with her husband Mikael, son Figge, daughter Bella, and Frenchie pooch Georgia. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@anjaliomp
@anjaliomp 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful! One of the best ted talk I have seen.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank u so much, that means the world to me😁🥰!!! /Kristina P
@mariegracebrabandt8028
@mariegracebrabandt8028 2 жыл бұрын
Loved it. So motivational and being intentional. 🧡
@Red_1976
@Red_1976 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant talk. Especially for those lacking in self esteem or non discovery of one’s self. One of the best on Ted yet.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank u for ur kind feedback! Means a lot🥰! /Kristina
@janfastert7489
@janfastert7489 2 жыл бұрын
This is great information. I have a few questions. For dress am I better to go with name brand and fr casual is jeans ok. I like to look professional
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
@@janfastert7489 - thank you for reaching out! First, I really don't think it's about what brand you are wearing. Some of the dresses I get most complements on are from H&M. It's all about fitting you correctly and you feeling great wearing it. Of course, quality of the fabric matters. You want to make sure it's a fabric that isn't pilling, loosing color or shape easily, but I'm not a stickler for "name brands". You can be stylish on ANY budget! Secondly, yes, jeans can look professional, and is widely accepted in most industries these days. A darker wash will look more elegant, and avoid rips & holes is you want to look professional. I hope that helps! /Kristina P
@carolgeorge6409
@carolgeorge6409 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree!
@arcitahanjani689
@arcitahanjani689 2 жыл бұрын
one of the most memorable talk. She lead by example. Everything she does is intentional. thank you for the inspiring talk
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! Means a lot🥰 /Kristina P
@HomemakerDaze
@HomemakerDaze 2 жыл бұрын
People have said I looked like a drug addict when I was Buddhist and shaved my hair. Man that was when I was the most spiritual. When I was an actual drug addict I had long hair haha I don't think clothes and appearance matter so people shouldn't judge others by looks. Although it can be hard not too I suppose. I judge people that look rich as snobs but maybe they're not.
@varonadee6980
@varonadee6980 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, Daisy, That goes along with the old adage, "You can't judge a book by its cover," which means to me that, yes, looks can frequently be deceiving. I have a friend who became indignant one day when I said people usually judge others first by appearance, and second by speech, unless they were blind, of course. She swore she never judged people. I knew she was equating the word "judge" with the word "condemn", or "think negatively about". So I asked her who she would be more likely to sit next to on a bus, a peaceful-looking, middle-aged woman, or a pissed-off looking middle-aged woman. When she admitted, she would prefer the former, I said I believe human beings judge appearances as an automatic self-preservation tactic. Assuming we have all senses functioning, we first see a stranger approaching, then hear them speak, then possibly notice how they smell. If our brains are working, we can't help forming some thoughts from all this sensory input. How we react to these observations depends on our personalities, characters, and personal prejudices. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder; one person may be appalled by the same style someone else adores. I'm a 70 year old woman who buys 90% of my clothes from the Salvation Army,----casual slacks, jeans, flannel shirts, knit tops, for gardening, and housework, and hiking. Over tea with my next door neighbors, a couple in their 30s, I asked what they would think if I updated my wardrobe, since I see many women my age wearing leggings and tunic tops. The young woman said she thought it would look like I was trying to show off and look younger than my age. I had expected her to say, "Go for it!", so I was a kind of surprised. I felt a hint of ageism. Her four children are still young enough to be age-blind, though, and they talk to me the same way they talk to each other, and always compliment me on my clothes, or earrings; and the 4-yr old boy takes me by the hand all over the yard, asking the names of all my plants. Then he holds out his arms to hug me when his mom calls him inside. It's enchanting to be around people who have not yet limited their circle of friends to the young and beautiful. Society in general, though, and businesses, churches, and social clubs will definitely judge you first by your appearance, and speech, and maybe much later by your character. Thanks for your thought-provoking comments!
@jackielouyoga77
@jackielouyoga77 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message ❤️
@lisahileman6727
@lisahileman6727 2 жыл бұрын
There is much truth in her statements. It's a fact that we are judged by our appearance and behavior long before we speak. When I feel good and wear something that I find pretty, people respond positively, even paying compliments. You exude a certain energy when you are happy. Likewise,, when my house gets cluttered, I am stressed out and sleep poorly. I feel so much lighter after cleaning or purging things. I'm quite disorganized and I think this reflects my internal struggle and chaos. It's hard to make changes though, you have to make very pointed decisions to change your life like making the bed every morning or keeping the kitchen counter cleared. When your mind is chaos, you feel you have no time to do any of that.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you! We all go through these issues, you are not alone💕 /Kristina P
@joyceashtamker
@joyceashtamker 2 жыл бұрын
Imimmmmmmmmmm
@joyceashtamker
@joyceashtamker 2 жыл бұрын
Mimmmmmimmimimmmimmimmmmimmiim,imimimimmimmjmim
@lyndajane4971
@lyndajane4971 2 жыл бұрын
Fabulous thought provoking comment thank you Lisa
@831vik
@831vik 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this!! Thank you for sharing !! I needed to hear this and I really feel like the clutter issue can also apply to people who view you with emotional baggage of clutter who also get that fight or flight feeling. I've learned to be watchful of what personal emotional wreckage I share with others because not all these folks have my best interest in learning about some of my unfortunate pitfalls
@nancyinthegarden3160
@nancyinthegarden3160 2 жыл бұрын
So true. I find most folks today really choose not to feel others or look to connect. I’m a fun loving creative sentimental talented outgoing nature lover, children advocate, senior caretaker, gardener, appreciator of good books, dancer, music lover,
@stephaniemathis6829
@stephaniemathis6829 2 жыл бұрын
Love the fashion! Not everyone could pull this off.
@sweetcarolyn777
@sweetcarolyn777 Жыл бұрын
Right? And legs for days. Gorgeous.
@talisha5863
@talisha5863 2 жыл бұрын
Great discussion….really allows people to self assess themselves👍🏽
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Talisha, I'm glad you feel that way! /Kristina P
@kalpanamuthireddi
@kalpanamuthireddi 2 жыл бұрын
A highly underrated talk! Amazingly simple and absolutely true!
@sugeiypereira6647
@sugeiypereira6647 2 жыл бұрын
How shallow is this information…. have you thought about people working in health care? Can you imagine? 😅 There is actually amazing freedom with having a job where you are not judged by the way you look and your salary does not depend on it. You make a first impression by simply being yourself, regardless!!! Who cares about what people think when they meet me! What they think is a reflection of themselves!!!
@kharbachifouzia4093
@kharbachifouzia4093 2 жыл бұрын
Finally someone said it what a great talk
@Red_1976
@Red_1976 2 жыл бұрын
Agree. I really liked the billboard analogy.
@carolgeorge6409
@carolgeorge6409 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. I will be reminded every time I see a billboard ‼️
@goldenparachute392
@goldenparachute392 2 жыл бұрын
This was so motivational and well presented. I agree 💯 on everything she said. I was an executive (female) and spent a lot of resources on my appearance - and it literally paid off! I’m also very mindful of my home because I know of the effect it has on me. The speaker is beautiful and so charming.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u! It means a lot🥰 /Kristina P
@meme-bz6iw
@meme-bz6iw Жыл бұрын
"spent a lot of resources on my appearance - and it literally paid off!" ....hopefully you were as good in your job as your outfit though...... it is very depressing to me what you have written....
@elizabethwilfong2260
@elizabethwilfong2260 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, excellent. All true. To live our best lives we have to put effort into being our best.
@iloveyellow7214
@iloveyellow7214 2 жыл бұрын
I finished with a major in advertising and a degree in fine arts. And you guys totally deserve all the eyeballs in your chanell. Thank you for existing and for making me introspect this whole pandemic 😘
@Jane_epstein_author
@Jane_epstein_author 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk, Kristina! I know from personal experience I function better without the clutter!
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u🥰!! Means a lot💕
@ucanliveyourdream
@ucanliveyourdream 2 жыл бұрын
Kristina Pernfors I LOVED your talk and delivery! I loved the supported facts and got a lot of good points to apply in my personal life. Great everything! The intro was an “attention getter” …never lost me after that! You even addressed clutter with new ideas concerning it. Can’t wait until you do another one!
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Your feedback really touched my heart🥰!
@northofyou33
@northofyou33 2 жыл бұрын
There's a lot about this talk that bothers me. First, she seems to suggest that the woman who first walks out is unacceptable in some way. Second, she doesn't challenge the snap judgments that people make. Third, the stuff about your home and car reflecting who you are gives no mention of the fact that many, many people cannot afford a home or car that is a reflection of who they are. Really not that beautiful, imo.
@janettefaul5380
@janettefaul5380 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@nancyinthegarden3160
@nancyinthegarden3160 2 жыл бұрын
I disagree. My home does not reflect who I am. Adventurous, creative, exhausted. I am not going to keep a house for men who don’t keep up their share. I’m not wearing myself out to impress anyone in my neighborhood because they don’t live my life. I’ve been taking care of any and everyone my entire life. I don’t spend that much time because I gave up because others don’t look up from their phones. I saw a young man walking in the street on my side , coming towards me, and never looked up to see where I was heading. He was also very far out in the street. I did beep to him. What’s wrong with people and why can’t they walk in the pavement. Anyway, I’m not trying to fit into society or anyone else’s judgment zone. I’ve dressed well my entire life and still didn’t meet many people that I wanted to impress or be accepted into their club. So, I’ve done both and still am not up for competing with anyone to do my life.
@trinityPhD
@trinityPhD 2 жыл бұрын
PERSONALLY, I'VE WORN OLD SWEATS & T-SHIRT & GUESS WHAT!? I CAUSED EQUAL AMOUNTS OF LAUGHTER, SMILES, CONFIDENCE, ENCOURAGEMENT & FEELINGS OF GENUINE CARE AND LOVE ... AS I DID WHEN I WAS DRESSED DIFFERENTLY.
@christinawright310
@christinawright310 2 жыл бұрын
DECLUTTER my life! I live in a jam packed 23 ft RV that I downsized from a 2 bedroom apt. I do feel constant anxiety! I hope I can make changes with inspiration from this!
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, good for u to downsize, but I totally understand that it can lead to a little anxiety. The way I approach small spaces is that every item needs to have a dedicated space, & if it doesn’t, it’s not important enough to stay. I’m a purger myself, love getting rid of things, feels like loosing weight! Good luck & thank u for sharing💕! /Kristina P
@madhumaniar1801
@madhumaniar1801 2 жыл бұрын
Me too !
@ilam4earth748
@ilam4earth748 2 жыл бұрын
Fabulous video! Taught me so much, I wanna find my style now!
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Love it!! So happy u learned a lot & feel inspired to find ur authentic style❤️!!! /Kristina P
@bessiestephens5346
@bessiestephens5346 2 жыл бұрын
Great job!! You are the right candidate for this job!!
@Bobbystringsfannibbles
@Bobbystringsfannibbles 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I love roxette She’s back
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
LOL, will channel Marie Fredriksson any day!!! /Kristina P🥰
@Jinaan0
@Jinaan0 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely believe if u r nicely dressed n neat it makes people give u a lot of respect and can’t mistreat u!! Don’t understand y ppl r like that😐
@glendaleduque
@glendaleduque 2 жыл бұрын
It’s time for me to call my own shots! Thanks for sharing this awesome video!!👏👏
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
I love it!!! U go for it, girl💪🏻💕!!
@romilaagard7621
@romilaagard7621 2 жыл бұрын
Super super interesting talk, and poit of view🙋‍♀️💍💍💦🙌👣👣👏👏👏
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 Жыл бұрын
Thank you🥰 /Kristina P
@marialorettaescobal245
@marialorettaescobal245 2 жыл бұрын
I like how she deliver her idea for sharing. It is basic, simple and true. Thanks Kristina.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU Maria!!! /🥰Kristina
@YogawithAliBeale
@YogawithAliBeale 2 жыл бұрын
I love her message, her delivery and energy. So glad I'm here nice reminders.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ali!! So glad you found it as well🥰! /Kristina P
@ItIsSynth
@ItIsSynth Жыл бұрын
this was an awsome thing to listen to im glad i was able to hear it thank you so much
@celiashi7051
@celiashi7051 2 жыл бұрын
Her body language and tones speak a lot about who she is. Awesome speech.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u😊! /Kristina P
@chanyamaimo468
@chanyamaimo468 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I could've heard that in my younger age.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with u! Wish my younger self would have known. And I have gotten a lot of the same feedback lately, so I’m considering putting something together for teenagers. Appreciate ur feedback! /Kristina P😊
@carolgeorge6409
@carolgeorge6409 2 жыл бұрын
Yes please do ! And stress how good we feel about ourself in caring about ourself . These good feeling vibes go out into all we do and help others to feel so good and motivated to love themselves ❤️🌹
@madhumaniar1801
@madhumaniar1801 2 жыл бұрын
OMG ! Total perfection !! I couldn't pause the video for a second inbetween !!!!!
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, that’s quite the complement!!! Thank u, u totally made my day🥰! /Kristina P
@debbyburchfield7028
@debbyburchfield7028 2 жыл бұрын
What an informative and useful Tedtalk! Loved it!
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I’m glad u found it useful😊!
@angelaangela50
@angelaangela50 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this speech! Gives a lot of inspiration and new ideas ;)
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, so happy to hear🥰!!! /Kristina P
@jaklair
@jaklair 2 жыл бұрын
ai remember wearing ay tie at school and slick backed hair 4 what reason I-D-K
@tinafayeschwahnpersonalstyle
@tinafayeschwahnpersonalstyle 6 ай бұрын
Amazing! So glad I stumbled upon this talk!
@smitavora2861
@smitavora2861 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful, perceptive, with a clarity of thought and communication that is rare to find!
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Smita for your kind words! /Kristina P
@lamina-183
@lamina-183 2 жыл бұрын
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@lamina-183
@lamina-183 2 жыл бұрын
Zze estam har zrurt Hhzsreps 🥲 🌺 🌱 🌴 🌺 🌱 🌱 🌷🌱 🌱 🍥🍥🍥🍥🍥 🍥💞💕💞🍥 🍥💞💖🍥 🍥🍥🍥
@wanyamakevin6828
@wanyamakevin6828 2 жыл бұрын
First Impression is everything indeed.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more Wanyama:) /Kristina P
@lucialipstick8668
@lucialipstick8668 2 жыл бұрын
Bullseye 🎯
@settuk7756
@settuk7756 2 жыл бұрын
100% workable. Worth to listen. I acknowledge you Mam.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u, means a lot🥰!
@noelbourne2215
@noelbourne2215 2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting speech.
@sanchezhandymen3444
@sanchezhandymen3444 2 жыл бұрын
If you have time you can look good. If your poor this is more difficult. It assumes you have food and shelter and a safe place to start getting yourself together. Most days you barely can handle getting up.
@MarleneMeier
@MarleneMeier Жыл бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤❤❤❤
@Kat.Tha.Bat__777
@Kat.Tha.Bat__777 2 жыл бұрын
Time to get another tattoo!! LOL love this talk so creative 😁🙏🏻❤️
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
LOL, u go girl😁💕💪🏻!!
@lilianaayendeOfficial
@lilianaayendeOfficial 5 ай бұрын
She's absolutely correct. How you present yourself, how you treat your surroundings, clothing, shoes, car, home, will speak way more than your words. People respect or disrespect you accordingly.
@070707SAM
@070707SAM Жыл бұрын
Thanks for introducing me to the concept “enclothed cognition”.
@viverepensare
@viverepensare 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes Google works truly in our favour. Today I had a great talk about appearance since I want my channel to work better but I really have ONLY concentrated upon the importance of the words I deliver so to give as much value as I possibly can. I never care for my looks. I just am me but here today I feel I learned so much. Only 7% is about the message!? I have gotten it all the other way. So we'll see if I will take this lesson to heart 💓 and maybe comb my hair at least 😂 Thanks Christina 🇮🇹
@lorenajules4651
@lorenajules4651 Жыл бұрын
Good video! Thanks
@sospita_
@sospita_ 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God I don’t gaf how people judge me. I have nothing to prove, nothing to fit into and no reputation to uphold. I have what money can’t buy. Your type doesn’t even see us.
@rhiannonjoy114
@rhiannonjoy114 2 жыл бұрын
I IMMEDIATELY LIKED HER MORE WITH THE TATTS LOL
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
LOL, that’s funny😆! Hey, it’s your prerogative to think whatever you want! /Kristina P
@yvonnedasberg5504
@yvonnedasberg5504 2 жыл бұрын
Wow..So glad I chanced upon your brilliant talk !..Thank you for all the good info..many of it so truthful..I love your confidence , your cool dressing and haircut..👍👍
@sandrafernandez-tardani9728
@sandrafernandez-tardani9728 2 жыл бұрын
Inspirational Message!Outstanding speaker!❤
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u for ur kind words🥰!
@rosa9877
@rosa9877 2 жыл бұрын
Wow incredible. Thanks a lot.😻
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you🥰! /Kristina P
@Simon_MD
@Simon_MD 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾Great talk. I personally believe, how you do one thing is how you do everything.
@apresnousledelugeloral4335
@apresnousledelugeloral4335 2 жыл бұрын
Humans are far to complex for that
@Simon_MD
@Simon_MD 2 жыл бұрын
@@apresnousledelugeloral4335 as above so below. Not all achieve this coherence but the ones that do, have found something great.
@apresnousledelugeloral4335
@apresnousledelugeloral4335 2 жыл бұрын
@@Simon_MD Like I said , the human experience is far to intricate and complex
@Simon_MD
@Simon_MD 2 жыл бұрын
@@apresnousledelugeloral4335 What are the reasons for your statement?
@petalappin9801
@petalappin9801 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a single mother of 3, I work a a high pressure full time job. The standard of work is consistently high. With short turn around. My days are busy from 6 am until 11pm every day. I have enough time to shower and get dressed. I don’t have time for makeup or accessorising, in fact that’s a hassle and a hinderance. I’m highly regarded at work and my children are able to do sports, part time jobs etc I work in an office of 40 people and very few of the professionals I work with, bother with adorning themselves. The two most senior positions are held by women. 3 out of 4 of the next level of management are women. None of them seem to think their clothes or adornment impact on their quality of work.
@TheSithLord
@TheSithLord 2 жыл бұрын
She’s good.
@Rashmi-yt1zf
@Rashmi-yt1zf 2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic content! 👏
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u🥰!!
@superchargecoach
@superchargecoach 2 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT KRISTINA!!!!! Soooooo proud of you🥳🥳🥳🥳🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕💕
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Emily🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕!
@werock8474
@werock8474 2 жыл бұрын
Damn Kristina! Well done ✅
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u🥰!!!
@sassia2382
@sassia2382 8 ай бұрын
Great one!
@sarik3673
@sarik3673 Жыл бұрын
Че
@wannaduckfin
@wannaduckfin 2 жыл бұрын
Might not be 'fair'. Neither is gravity but I will still break my neck if I jump off the Sears tower-not fair. True is true and this is true.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
LOL, ur funny, & I love it!💕/ Kristina P
@deboranestal9597
@deboranestal9597 Жыл бұрын
Great! She is an elegant woman and she gave a motivational talk and I really appreciate it. I like the way she explains it. Thank You, Kristina.
@jenniferstrickler3944
@jenniferstrickler3944 2 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said! I loved your talk :)
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u Jennifer🥰! /Kristina P
@naishthiki-healingforgener3238
@naishthiki-healingforgener3238 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful talk❤
@RachelDRichmond
@RachelDRichmond 2 жыл бұрын
Nice. I call my home "safe haven." Oh yeah. Thank you
@suzyb7187
@suzyb7187 2 жыл бұрын
Love her delivery! Great advice I am going to take away!
@zamomolamu481
@zamomolamu481 2 жыл бұрын
Wooow Mind blowing We truly do live and learn and re-learn Perspective is EVERYTHING
@Bilingualism_1
@Bilingualism_1 2 жыл бұрын
What an 8nteresting topic that was very helpful and practical, I absolutely enjoyed it
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u, means a lot🥰!! /Kristina P
@diondevow2930
@diondevow2930 2 жыл бұрын
So so clever!!!
@bloodybrilliant678
@bloodybrilliant678 2 жыл бұрын
....*You can tell by the way she walks- she rules the world.........the rhymes that came to mind just .......so very true.......and you have a miliondollar legs, by the way :)
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
LOL, thank u🥰! /Kristina P
@annachristinegrellert5632
@annachristinegrellert5632 2 жыл бұрын
Capitalism culture says you do not matter. Capitalism sayo stuff matters. Your brain governs you when you mind does not think criticality.
@athena8870
@athena8870 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Ineeded this ❤❤
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU💕!!! /Kristina P
@traceybyrne1690
@traceybyrne1690 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks yes think about the loud and clear message we give people. 'Tone' was interesting... We all like attention but be mindful if we're intending to attract negative or positive 'attention' and curiously what's our personal story that's instigating such a presentation.
@CyndyPorter
@CyndyPorter 2 жыл бұрын
Well done Kristina Pernfors. I especially love the beginning. What a strong visual cue.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u🥰!!!
@trinityPhD
@trinityPhD 2 жыл бұрын
EVERY SINGLE PERSON'S LIGHT & LOVE INSIDE, IS WHAT OUR FOCUS IS SUPPOSED TO BE AS A COLLECTIVE! A PRICE TAG IS WHOLLY VOID IN THAT REGARD.
@awesomelife3710
@awesomelife3710 2 жыл бұрын
Even how we write speaks for itself. For example, ALL CAPS is considered to be the equivalent of screaming.
@sospita_
@sospita_ 2 жыл бұрын
I’m cued into you might have a great dungeon and be a Dominatrix on the side.
@WowUsernameAvailable
@WowUsernameAvailable 2 жыл бұрын
Eeeerrrr, pretty sure ancient Greeks didn't wear TOGAS. 🙊
@mycount64
@mycount64 2 жыл бұрын
I apply this every day on zoom with the video off.
@alinacash786
@alinacash786 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful. Beautiful message.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u, very appreciated🥰!! /Kristina P
@yourepicencore-withcherylb7649
@yourepicencore-withcherylb7649 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk Kristina! You had me captivated from the start! It's so true! We make those judgments within those first few seconds! ... Being on brand is so important, thanks for the reminders!
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u Cheryl!!! I’m so glad u feel that way, means a lot to me🥰💕
@joeyn8046
@joeyn8046 2 жыл бұрын
Great job Kristina - thank you
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Joey! /Kristina P
@wanjirukarago9308
@wanjirukarago9308 2 жыл бұрын
Yes let everything about me speak i got nothing to hide
@sweetcarolyn777
@sweetcarolyn777 Жыл бұрын
Excellent talk!!! Thank you.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! /Kristina P
@swapnilwankhede3440
@swapnilwankhede3440 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for uploading useful information
@DrwandaP
@DrwandaP 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk… loved your intro and the fact that we must know who we are and dress the part..
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u Dr Wanda!!! Great to hear from u, & thanks for ur kind feedback🥰
@rm26367
@rm26367 2 жыл бұрын
Good timing. I actually just started to fix around my home b/c it no longer represent me! Now I don’t feel too bad spending the money! Thank you!
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Love it, divine timing😁!
@N.W.Alienz
@N.W.Alienz Жыл бұрын
Great message! Definitely agree
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! /Kristina P
@stephanieawuah
@stephanieawuah 2 жыл бұрын
‼️🙏🏾
@FunkmeyersShow
@FunkmeyersShow 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk! Thank you!
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!🥰 /Kristina P
@patriciac.1546
@patriciac.1546 2 жыл бұрын
She was confident from beginning to end and she shared her wisdom on it. Girl…I want what you got and you told me how to get it. Thank you.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Wow Patricia, u just made my day, heck week!!! Thank u, & I love that u feel u got something out of it🥰🎉 /Kristina P
@phk8411
@phk8411 2 жыл бұрын
No I am not going to what is the word I'm looking for I'm not going to be domesticated I want to have my long hair ponytail be as strong as I could be as manly as I could be the studies as I could be as friendly as I could be as loving as I can be..
@Hashemechad
@Hashemechad 2 жыл бұрын
Based on her looks I would consider her a good fit for an employee in the casino industry. Would definitely not buy a used car from her, let alone ask her advice for decorating my home. And btw nobody is going to hire a 10 yo girl for any normal job; what was this particular segment all about in that machine like entity's talk, who believes she looks "respectable" & hirable with an additional necklace on?!
@gomathisuppiah2449
@gomathisuppiah2449 2 жыл бұрын
I feel things are already bad as it is in our society with social & cultural conditioning. It's sad that you advocate dressing up to make an impression Can't we make an authentic impression of who we really are without having to conform? What we need to do is cultivate our skills to look beneath the layers for substance that is there; And unlearn being judgemental - which is like a automatic reflex. Shouldn't we be highlighting the possibility that there's more than first impression (ie don't judge a book....) But if dressing up feels good then I'll say go for it 100%. Feeling good should be the focus, self confidence & all the rest WILL automatically line up. PS I'll consider buying fr the car from that salesman if he knew his stuff about cars & understanding my needs to provide me a perfect proposal. Please don't advocate for paying attention to fluff!
@andrewseeker6970
@andrewseeker6970 2 жыл бұрын
Wow!! This was an awesome TedX. You really did an amazing job of speaking and getting your point across. BEST TALK I have listened to in a long time!
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! So glad you enjoy it, it means a lot!!🥰 /Kristina P
@agadelicia
@agadelicia 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@HomemakerDaze
@HomemakerDaze 2 жыл бұрын
That's a faux hawk, not a Mohawk.
@dzmindsetpodcast
@dzmindsetpodcast 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing speech !
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, so glad u liked it🥰! /Kristina P
@ruthsmith122
@ruthsmith122 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving me permission to look good and another reason to declutter.
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Love it🥰!!! /Kristina P
@ommanipadmehung3014
@ommanipadmehung3014 2 жыл бұрын
Enneagram 3 personality type?
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
I think you r right😊! /Kristina P
@maryarend6182
@maryarend6182 2 жыл бұрын
That was amazing Thank you !
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412
@aestheticsstylewithkristin2412 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u🥰!!
@Sbannmarie
@Sbannmarie 2 жыл бұрын
Was that’s little girl this speaker? Kristina?
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