EVERYTHING HAS CHANGED : Traveling Full-time w/9 kids

[@robinbrown7953]

Really no one should make comments about the situation with the nanny.....We are not privy to what went on in their conversations, working relationship, the times when the cameras were off or what the problem really was. For all we know, She may have just said they like their privacy as a polite way to explain that the nanny was gone without going into detail that may have caused hurt feelings....about something else that may have happened, and why assume that the problem was all theirs? We don't have the right to judge what we can't see or hear....it' pretty unfair.

[@emilyl1094]

Robin Brown I fully agreed.

[@jeannebarnes3984]

Robin Brown You said a mouthful, thank you. Everyone seems to be a critic these days.

[@lisawithyoutube.comlivingc3817]

Robin Brown Well said!

[@patriciaorsborn7165]

Robin Brown Amen!

[@mcwatsington1646]

When I was at BYU, I took an international HR class - it was all about placing American families on foreign work assignments. My professor told us that the family will absolutely hate the first 6 months wherever they’re placed - after the initial “honeymoon” period wears off, it’s just so different, lonely, and unfamiliar. But, if the family could make it past six months - they would absolutely come to love it. I use that idea with any major change in my life - try it for six months and then decide if it’s working. You can do this! In the meantime, I’ll continue being jealous of your life in Europe! Love from Chicago.❤️

[@KnorppandSouth11]

+Mcwatsington - great advice - thanks!

[@tashc6213]

So sad that there are so many judgmental comments regarding a situation we know nothing about. It's also very strange that people watch these vlogs when they are so against this wonderful family's lifestyle???. Love the Knorpps, they are living life to the fullest and raising kind, smart and worldly little humans. Enough with the judging and criticism. Don't agree, don't watch!

[@thenanlife1141]

Exactly .. agree entirely xxxxx

[@consciouscommunity3897]

You got this...I'm sure the kids are bored. Finish out your rental and head to a suburb of a larger city where English is a common second language. You will look back on this time and laugh at your memories and adventures. We are all inspired by your journey. I hope you keep traveling! It's such a gift, xx

[@marinedenize7274]

Even in larger cities in France, many people don't speak English or very poorly. It's sad but it's true.

[@charloud107]

The majority of Americans in pretty much all areas of the country do not speak French at all. It's sad but it is true.

[@whyteowl3706]

marine denize - I have traveled through Europe fir an extended period of time, a couple of years ago. I never expected the locals to speak English, it was a bonus if I could make myself understood! After all, I am in their home town.

[@marinedenize7274]

Same here. I never expected people to speak French when I traveled. You have to make the effort or at least try. I just responded to the part "head to a suburb of a larger city where English is a common second language" because it doesn't exist in France.

[@lushgetaways4028]

even if that were true, why would it be sad? France's language is French not English.

[@mashadaa4415]

Missed your vlogs ! Hope you're having a great time 🌼🤗 i bet you all will be fine without a nanny you two are great parents to great kids!

[@KnorppandSouth11]

+Mashada _ - thank you! 🤗

[@mashadaa4415]

Knorpp and South im super excited to see you around London hope to bump into you guys when you arrive ! Seriously my favourite youtube channel. Really enjoyed seeing Jude talk a lot more. Have a good day 💖

[@tiffanychappel1063]

Because Jude, it's a one-horse town. Megan, I love how you are talking about planning to reach a destination in life, but not always reaching it, just as you have all turned back from the destination on your hike. Life is like that. I look forward to hearing your updated direction.

[@debke1]

Are you guys feeling ok? You look lost and sound a bit sad. Wish you al the best and God's guidance 🙏🏻

[@terrid5449]

I agree. They seem overwhelmed.

[@debmarie55]

They did state at the beginning that there were a lot of changes. I'm sure it was sad when Sarah left, and they are still without their van, so they are limited on what they can do. I think their spirits will be lifted once they have their own wheels back.

[@lizvargas485]

I think the novelty wore off. Maybe some regrets...? I don't see how you make a move like that and not expect it to feel displacement, and with all those kids... overwhelming I'm sure.

[@HouseOod]

Really? that seemed a very serene video. I just imagine they must have really good private time because the three newest siblings don't seem to have any attachment issues and are really bonded. And this video we got a rare glimpse of Pearl. I love her shirt.

[@heatherjohnson5612]

I think they are really just enjoying their family right now. I feel like I do see a change though and I hope everyone and everything is ok. I really hope you don't stop vlogging. You're an awesome family and such positive role models. Just remember your viewers love you all❤️

[@leonieb2287]

As someone who has experienced culture shock too (in the other direction, Europe to the US) ... it will go away :) From watching this video, to me it feel like it's not only culture shock, but also the transition from RV life to staying somewhere longer. The way you mentioned that you are less mobile now without your van yet. You were used to always be on the go, and while you did stay in NYC for longer, that is such a busy city that you can always explore. With this rural house tho, it's perfectly okay to have full days spent at home. I think it would help getting into the mindset of being a local, and don't worry about having relaxed days at home just reading books,... you don't have to feel like you are missing out on your adventure if you don't do some exploring every day :)

[@nextpagepj9058]

You have a couple really great points here Leonie B. Great comment!!

[@amandalynrose8660]

As a travel nanny myself I totally understand how having a nanny is not for everyone. A lot of people think that it's so fun and easy being a travel nanny and it's fun but not easy at all. Your not on vacation your working and it's hard to separate the two. And for a family who is used to not having someone extra to worry about it's hard! Also culture shock is so hard! Your not used to the way other countries do things and it can be isolating. It will get better! Have fun and enjoy!

[@simplymandy]

I never understand why people want to be early for videos because the quality isn't good when you are haha. I'm like "oh crap, I'm too early to watch, I'll watch it later" haha

[@liz2880]

Simply Mandy true, it's better to appreciate the vlog in all it's glory rather than being first

[@simplymandy]

Dee Meyer No not buffering really just not as great as it usually is. Resolution isn't that great yet. I'd rather wait a bit to see the beauty of the video. Just had my dinner so I'm going to watch and enjoy it now 😊

[@TexasbyStorm]

Simply Mandy lol I must have never been early to watch a video, I've never noticed a difference in video quality. Now that you've said something I'll be looking. I watch on my phone though, so it's possible the quality of the video is more defined on a larger screen than it is on a tiny phone?

[@user-wj5nb9ic7i]

The first thing that seemed odd to me was that Sarah had to share a room with Esther. If she was a proper employee she should have been given her own room and space to switch off, even if it meant you and Mike had to sleep in the living room or share with the younger kids, but I got the impression that she was coming along as "part of the family" so was okay with that. Now she's been let go it seems that she was neither a part of the family or a proper employee. 3 weeks was no time to give it a chance, especially as you all needed time to acclimatise and get over the jetlag. I think you've been really unfair to her.

[@flowingover]

Laura F you dont know if she did something wrong. i think they are just covering a different problem but dont want it out on KZbin. And I totally understand them.

[@demy9165]

It was kind of sad watching this, you both seemed so sombre and lost. I hope you find your sparkle again soon and continue to enjoy your adventures. Good luck to you and to Sarah, better for all concerned to reach that decision so early in your trip. You are lucky to find strength in each other and your faith. Best wishes 😊

[@chrissygravitt9196]

Are still planning to continue on traveling through Europe? Also take no heed to the comments about Sarah you made a decision that was best for you, your family and her.

[@rebannparo08]

I think sitting down to make a plan (whether you follow it through or change it up) is important for everyone. I do that regularly (on my own) and it definitely helps me have more adventures and reach my goals. I would love to travel like your family, but I have animals and am working on purchasing a small farm. So far, I've been going on one big trip every year! Italy and Hungary/Slovakia/Austria are in the works for next summer!

[@valroberts1527]

Enjoyed watching you walk through the village. The kids were all so cute.

[@Channie46]

Rebecca Hungary, Slovakia, Austria, or Hungary, _Slovenia_ and Austria?

[@rebannparo08]

Chandler Slovakia is where I would like to go, but plans aren't complete. Italy is the main destination, but then I plan on heading up to the countries where both sides of my family started out.

[@peaceandhonesty3516]

My husband and I moved our young family of 5 (we have 2 sets of twins all 5 children born in under 5 years) from England to New Zealand 10 years ago and although emigrating to another country that is English speaking seems very different to what you are doing, surprisingly it has many similarities. New Zealand is the most beautiful place on earth but that did not stop that overwhelming feeling of CONFUSION that enters your brain somewhat like severe brain fog as your brain recognises is confronted with all the differences and unfamiliarity of your surroundings. The resulting feeling of vulnerability is unfathomable. Add to that that you are suddenly as parents very much alone in charge of your children in that you cannot access family if you get that urge. I appreciate you couldn't easily do that when you were in the US travelling either but you know deep down you could pop back if there were to be an emergency. In this period of adjustment to have a stranger to adjust to would have been just too much . At this time you will draw closer in as a family to overcome that vulnerablity. Larger families tend to be a little bit more of a self contained unit that can be impenetrable. But at this time this would even more so. It isn't a slight on Sara. It would just take a very specific person to slide in and fit into a family like yours at any time but more so in these circumstances. Anyway I would just like you to know the feelings you are having may just be the most challenging you will experience in your entire life but they will settle, especially if you don't get panicked by them and give yourself plenty of time to relax and just be. It will pass! And it's so worth it in the end!

[@KnorppandSouth11]

Thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@tashc6213]

Bex D beautifully said 💖👍🏻

[@cindyherget5196]

Bex D Great words of expressing your experience with crossing over into the cultural overload that goes on. Ive never experienced anything like what the family is going through. I can imagine that it's rough to figure out living every day life beyond the i ritual newness and not be in tourist mode. May more blessing and the load be lightened for the Knorpp Family From Wilsonville Oregon

[@fancysfolly554]

Wonderful words of encouragement for this dear family...who are taking us along on their adventure..😘God bless you

[@Lovemonte22]

You may have already answered this question; and if you have I apologize. However Eves learning development is important (as you, her parents know)... Sarah was also hired to help with Eve speech in pediment. what are alternative options are you seeking to continue with her development.

[@wwaxwork]

As someone that has lived long term in 3 different countries at this point in my life, you have to embrace the culture shock. Remind yourself that's why you are there, it is terribly exhausting, but it does pass. Also be ware of the fact that pretty much everyone I've talked to that has moved countries has said the 2-3 month mark is the worst. The novelty wears off & you are now starting to see the problems of where you are now living & you just want to go home where everything is safe & familiar. Take a deep breath, and another one. Don't make any major decisions while you feel overwhelmed. The feeling passes & suddenly you will find yourself through the hard times in the calm pool that follows & everything gets easier.

[@ambergomez324]

Don't feel bad if you take some lazy days and stay inside to relax. Travel shouldn't be rushed to the point where you don't enjoy it anymore. Stay strong fam! 💕💕

[@dlmudge1]

Whilst the idea of having a nanny/au pair come into your house is a blessing, if it doesn't work out then it's best for both side for the arrangement to part ways. We has the same thing, we loved our time with our au pair however it just didn't feel right, and she moved onto another family that she would be able to help out. The best thing you did was communicate with her, don't let others comments discourage you. You know whats best for you and your beautiful family. :)

[@KnorppandSouth11]

+Danni M - thanks. It was a really tough decision but it was the right one to make.

[@CaraN1]

Knorpp and South ...and personally that's all that needs to be said! Hang in there and continue to listen to your hearts. You and you alone know what's best for your family. Hugs to everyone!

[@CaraRoss2021]

As a professional nanny for 19 years, I 100% understand where you are coming from with the not fitting. When you are not prepared for the change in you life (as a parent), to suddenly have someone in your space 24/7, it's intense. It's much different than posting a KZbin video about your life, to some person, who is not in your family, being there at all times. As a nanny, we should always be prepared in the change of position, especially within the first 8 weeks of a new position. I applaud you for recognizing this need now! And for not letting the discomfort continue. If you get a chance, visit Devon and Cornwall, as a British expat, I spent many summer vacations in Cornwall, it's a magical place.

[@gkseeton]

The blue on the sheep is chalk. The ram wears the dispenser on his chest. The marks tell the shepherd which are bred.

[@teresapizzoferrato3073]

Ann Seeton - How cool!

[@heathercreates8406]

I nanny. I always say working w/ a family is like a blind date. Sometimes it works some times it doesn't!!

[@tonuyahubbart5398]

Your family is entertaining and precious when you do nothing at all. Life is like mountains and valleys and sometimes quiet country paths. Like you we enjoy them all..... savor the "uneventful" times too, just like you're doing. Much love.

[@Yellowtravelers]

Mom cuts her son off right in the middle of him telling her about his cool hike down the trail. That makes me sad for him. They are living their lives for the camera and others instead of for themselves.

[@NathalyV99]

I feel like you guys should've looked more into the nanny thing before so this didn't happen to Sarah. That must've been terrible to just leave after being with the kids and building that connection. They seemed to just gotten her without a plan or any idea how having a nanny is. Of course you lose some privacy, I mean you're living with her. Even when she first came to them they said they were unsure about what she should do. Just badly planned and anticipated.

[@patriciaorsborn7165]

Little Jude's reaction to the horse and sheep was so adorable! It just made me say "Awww!", I wish KZbin had an Awww button!

[@madisonboyes9661]

Thank you for sharing all of the ups and downs of your adventure. I would imagine it would be difficult to put out such personal information and have others judge you based on it. I think it is sometimes easy for people to forget that this is your family's real life and not some reality program. I think that this video shows just how strong and resilient the life choices you and your family have made this far. Keep doing what you are doing, because it obviously is working. You have 9 of the most well rounded, intelligent kids that I have ever seen. Keep your heads up Knorpp and South because you are already accomplishing great things! Ps. I absolutely love Eve's expressiveness and her dancing. It brings a smile to my face just to catch a glimpse of her smiling and being silly.

[@rueivy]

Megan your hair is looking super cute! Love the curls.

[@cherylhaughton7682]

You guys are the BEST!! You are one of the kindest and most sincere families and are always polite and loving to everyone. Please...please don't let ALL of these folks with their unkind and judgmental remarks and attitudes discourage you. No one knows what they would do or say in any instances unless you have lived it or are living it. You chose to do what is best for your family in all the things you do and places you go. No one has a right to judge your decisions or actions. I wonder how they would feel if someone decided to judge them publicly. Shame on them. God will give you the strength to carry on and continue to bring us some of the most AWESOME videos with a purpose to share your life with us. I would be terribly sad if I couldn't continue to share your journey with you all. Sending much love to you ALL! And may JOY continue to be abundant!!

[@sheilahag]

Megan, I really, really, REALLY like your hair in this video!!! It looks wonderful!

[@krisperez619]

Thank you for sharing with us. Not many of us would have the courage to make ourselves so vulnerable to such a fickle audience.

[@motherdaughtersister]

Mike at 13:15 totally sums up parenting. :) Had me chuckling- and appreciative that our kids are grown. Haha Though, grown kids are just another set of issues. You never stop worrying about your children, no matter their age! God bless you all- thank you for sharing your journey with us.

[@nextpagepj9058]

I so wish I could love your comment instead of just giving it a thumbs up!!!

[@lindseycurry8321]

I love that Jude only had one sock on. In the U.K. our "attraction" signs are brown with a white border and trails have a green sign, can usually bike them too

[@TheSquishySnail]

Aww. I'm sorry it didn't work out with Sarah, but I understand where you're coming from about privacy. I'm sure you'll work something out. I may have missed it in your earlier videos, but what made you decide that your first stop in France would be here? Wow. You are fluent in toddler speak. :D I couldn't figure out what Jude was saying. Haha, a parents-only skill. It's so great to see how much he has grown in confidence over the year+ that you've shared these videos. Also, I'm chuckling over the blackberries craze. I'm waiting for the day you're all like "ugh, blackberries!" But it's really cool that blackberries are growing everywhere! I can see that you're both looking a little bit out-of-sorts in this video. I appreciate that you share your moments when you feel the need to recalibrate and reassess your motivations, instead of pretending everything's perfect. Life isn't perfect, but what's important is how we deal with the challenges. :) So much love to you and your family!

[@gabydillpvsc]

If you really wanted someone to help your daughter progress and grow you wouldn't selfishly care about your privacy so much. Maybe things go on behind the scenes that they don't want people to know.

[@ashleygaver1591]

Prayers. There's a heaviness you can feel in this video. Change is so hard. Y'all are brave! Keep pushing forward. There's definitely an adjustment period to work the kinks out.

[@tigertoo219]

I think it's easy for us all to sit at home and judge people's decisions. While I do think it's unfortunate that things didn't work with Sarah- I don't think it's right to judge them for letting her go. I'm not gonna pay someone to make my living situation uncomfortable. I don't care how nice/sweet they are! I do hope the best for Sarah. I hope that this doesn't discourage her from becoming a nanny if that's her desire. I hope that the Knorpps find the peace they need in their next decision

[@drxl34]

Also - it's not just culture shock! Ya'll have been on the road everyday for over a year, and living in a city for the last month! You're too used to the hustle bustle - stop and smell the roses :)

[@cherylmedeiros6287]

Jude is absolutely adorable! He is truly growing and has grown tremendously from the begining!

[@jocjrnyc]

My suggestion would be to leave France early and move on to Ireland. You will feel much more welcomed and the kids will enjoy it more. Plus no language barrier.

[@19marigold]

Hi Knorpp and South, I admire how you show your humanity by being so transparent with your feelings, both the "ups" and the "downs". I feel that those of us that share in your journey owe you our understanding and patience - and the space to be a little tired once in a while! It takes courage to make such a big step. You have many warm thoughts coming your way.

[@teeowen3484]

I know no one can be a merry lil cherub everyday and I appreciate how much of your lives you share. But you two gave off a very exhausted vibe this blog, so I'm wishing you some beautiful, lazy days to catch-up some rest and renew your special sparkle. Love your family's adventures! Much love.

[@AmyWhite2009]

First, my son and I love your videos and family! I can't imagine how hard that must have been, but the positive thing is that now you know. You all always try to do what is best for your family and that's what is important. You all are great! Don't let the muggles get you down! Praying for you all!

[@cathyleegrantham-schreifel7269]

"Reevaluating our why" Exactly what I needed to hear because I have been feeling so-so about almost everything lately. Thank you for the words of inspiration and for helping me put my finger on why I wasn't focused anymore. Blessings!

[@lovebahs]

Suggestion maybe find a project where the family can give back by volunteering time or skills in every country you spend a decent amount of time in. The kids would learn a lot and you get to help people in need.

[@NeeniJ9]

Hi guys. Loving your channel :) Your positive attitude and honesty are inspiring. Just want to remind you of the rules of safe rural road walking. Walk in single file on the (left) side of the road FACING traffic (so you can easily see vehicles approaching). This was drummed into our heads as rural kids! Be safe and have a blessed journey.

[@KnorppandSouth11]

+NeeniJ9 - good tip! 💪🤔✅

[@janesiskind838]

Really neat stuff, especially all the blackberry stashes! You guys seem a bit tired but I just know this going to be incredible for your delightful family. Life is short take naps....

[@susieq9266]

I know you guys don't like to plan things out, but I really think that something as big as touring the world with 9 children is a huge decision to make which requires plans. There is nothing wrong with what you are doing. I just think that if you had spent the time to plan out your adventure, you all would be a little less disappointed right now. I think you guys will be o.k. once you get over this rocky first month. It was a learning experience for you. Take things slow and do a bit of planning. I want your trip to be a fantastic successful life changing adventure for all of you. I have been watching you since your RV days and have decided to take this exciting journey with you. You can do this!

[@wbartley4608]

Helpful hint for culture shock. If you still plan on traveling with the intent on staying somewhere for a few months. Why not try to see if friends can join you for a week or two for their holidays/vacations where ever you might be?? A little bit of familiarity. Trust me, I do know what culture shock is!!

[@GILane]

Megan I've never realized how damn gorgeous your eyes are. And when you talk to Jude when he's on your back and you're vlogging your beautiful spirit shines through your beautiful eyes 💕

[@sallycroft2191]

Think of all the stressor and changes in over the last eighteen months that you and Mike have gone through, it is not surprising now.that you have come to a full stop literally in France, you feel you need to regroup. It will be better when you get your van and can explore as a family. Children are so much more adaptable and as long as they feel secure wherever they are with their parents. .Remember to be where your feet are! Praying for you and Mike during this transition

[@lillygumball]

Love your hair!!

[@reikidreams9265]

Heather D yes first thing I noticed 🙂💕

[@mindyvanhorn3199]

As the old adage goes, you don't know til you try! You guys are amazing and are wonderful supportive parents! Your children are blessed!!!

[@cherylkelly946]

I'm sure what ever the reasons for parting ways with Sarah you guys would have sorted it out as best you can . I have. No doubt that Sarah was well taken care of and would prefer that you not tell everyone her business. A this decision must have been quite hard ,you all look exhausted. Please take stock but also take some advice from your viewers and don't be to hasty in calling it quits. I'm sure after some rest and when you have the van back things will start to look up. Maybe starting in an English speaking country may prove a bit easier. I really really tried to lean French but man it was not easy... still haven't been able to master it. My prayers and best wishes to you all . I did like this video it reminded me of some of your earlier videos,very honest and a lot more at ease. Take care and enjoy your adventure. The good and the not so good.

[@OurIncDashFam]

I went over to France and spent about 7 months with a French/American family. It was one of the most fantastic times of my life! Culture shock, however, is definitely very real and you'll just need to allow yourself some time to adjust in each place. Italy was worse for me actually, and I felt most at home in Germany. I don't know where in France you are, but if you are near Toulouse or would like to connect with my French family please reach out and let me know! I was their first nanny/au pair and we still speak frequently, but they had experience with a couple au pairs after me that didn't work out so well. It's completely understandable that sometimes it just doesn't work out and no doubt you treated Sarah well, even when sending her on her way. Hang in there and just take your time figuring out what's next! Wishing you the best from our RV traveling family to yours.

[@glendaruff125]

I kind of felt like Megan was hurt about something. Might be just me but I hope all works out. Hang in there and I believe all will be well.

[@AbiStroud]

I feel bad for Sarah. She got let go in another country and it has to hurt knowing they're saying it's because they like their privacy when they show their lives on the internet. Love the vlogs but disappointed for Sarah.

[@churchathome9552]

Hi friends, you look like you are bored. Three weeks in a lovely but sleepy village in a place where you know no one is not as exciting as your previous life. Things are slower in much of Europe, and the town you are in is quaint, yet almost silent. You folks need friends. All the kids and adults. Take that risk. Have you found a church yet? I will lift you up in prayer that you make a few friends while you are in the village, and also that your vehicle arrives ASAP. There are just so many family hikes you can take in a one-mile radius. On the other hand, Jude is growing so nicely. He is strong, vocal, running well, laughing, and so many things he didn't do for so long. This is certainly something to thank God for. Is he completely potty trained? I remember when you were working on that. The other thing: What fantastic teenagers you have. Elijah and Esther seem like such good kids. In your reevaluating time, remember to reevaluate the great opportunities you have given the teens in your family. Also, Daniel is building muscle. I can see it in his neck. He is going to be a fantastic chef someday soon, and an opportunity for him to spend an afternoon with a French chef??? What an awesome experience this would be for Daniel. I think I recall you Megan or Mike saying that your goal was to give your kids opportunities to bond together as a family, and also to bond with you. From the oldest to the youngest, you have succeeded. Growth and development for all the kids has been your goal, and the challenge of a slightly larger city may be the ticket you need to move forward, as you said in this video Mike. No doubt you are on the right path, even if it is full of thorny twigs, there are plenty of blackberries along the way! God bless you all. Priscilla Sissem

[@shilarangarajan]

It's beautiful how Jude has grown up. Cutey . Thank you guys for being such a good example to the world

[@djterry1218]

Jude has had an amazing transformation! This is a testament to your nurturing skills!

[@jessicacolon5265]

Jude is SO adorable. LOVE how he was asking about the different animals.

[@flossb9042]

Chin up guys you are doing a great job. Life is a learning experience and sometimes when have to change our focus and direction but that is all part of the experience. As always can't wait for the next video.

[@elaineborromeo8896]

Excellent advice about recalibrating and goal setting. My husband and I do that every wedding anniversary while out for dinner. We also go over the strides we have made over the last year as well as the challenges. It didn't start out as an intentional thing but we're coming up on 12 years on September 4th and it's one of my favorite things about our anniversary celebration.

[@skadlacsik]

Jude sure has blossomed❤️

[@reikidreams9265]

I'm not surprised your nanny didn't work out. I'm in my 40's outgoing, confident and every family I worked for loves me. Sometimes it's just personality and that you need someone experienced. I'm not applying for the job as I have my own channel and hoping it will take off this fall as I ramp up. Watching your vlogs has inspired me to start my own channel. I love you guys and pray for you. Don't look back, keep going I see lots of great advice on here. Maybe just take a month and just rest in one place and then continue on. Do what makes you happy but be sure and vlog so we can live vicariously through you. Blessings and hugs💕

[@CathleendeOntiveros]

I moved from the USA to Mazatlan Mexico when my children were young. I had vacationed there many times first, already had a rental house that we had stayed in several times before moving, had learned basic spanish, and connected with a church. Even with all of the previous trips, and preparing for the move, we still had some issues,and felt homesick for the states at times. My kids are grown now, and they often tell me how happy they were to have lived in another country when they were little. (I still have a house there, and still live at least 50% of the time in Mexico) I know that going to Europe is quite different from my experience, as we were much closer to the U.S. if we wanted to go back, and there was a very large community of Americans living near us. I am sure that once you have a plan, and get your van back so you can go do more things, life will become a bit more comfortable. This is an incredible experience for the family, and if you decide to go home early, that is fine too. You have to do what i best for your family in the end. Blessings to you all on this journey

[@lynnf9219]

I just love watching Jude😊 He has made so much progress and he is just such a happy little guy. What a blessing you are in his life! God is good!

[@carolmatlock8873]

I thought for sure Sarah would have worked out. How nice it would have been for the older ones too to have another / different person around. Especially the two girls - Sarah seemed she may have been able to be a friend.

[@meganrichardson6471]

Are you planning a side trip to Paris at all? I totally get wanting to stay in the country for most of the time, but it would be a shame to miss the awesomeness of Paris. I would go for a week at least. So many incredible museums and of course historical buildings like Notre Dame and the Eiffel Tower. I'm sure you are feeling stuck without your van, but they have amazing trains in France!

[@Austinmoore2005]

While I am sad to see the situation with having a nanny didn't work out, I completely understand. While the situations are majorly different, I was basically raised by Au Pair's. My parents worked a lot and so I had a few live in nannies until I was at an age where I could fend for myself. While the nannies were all amazing people, I always felt like I missed out on having experiences with my parents and growing closer with them because it became easy for them to just go do things and leave me with the au pair. I feel you all made the right decision for your family and I'm sure Sarah understands and is appreciative for the experiences she had with you all. As always, I thoroughly enjoyed this video. Glad to see you're all enjoying the French countryside.

[@williamflowers7301]

Great Video, Great scenery, Kids are getting Big !

[@susieque1118]

I was worried about all of you. Glad to see you back on your vlog. Sometimes change is necessary. All will be ok.

[@amandapercival]

I'm gonna say something positive since there's quite a few negative comments...I like the music! (It's a little Downton Abbey-ish.) Also, I love how enthusiastic your kiddos are about the life you choose to live. Just sitting here in the states with kids about to go back to school and dreading already the negatives of it and I think my kids are too. It's nice to see your kids living so free!

[@sue22261]

From what I see....you guys are great parents! The kids are getting food, exercise and lots of love! Not to mention the experience of travel. I have been to Ireland twice and there will be much less culture shock for you to deal with and yet the scenery is amazing. I suggest County Clare for the most beautiful things to see and do.

[@kersie2000]

Esther and Elijah look as if they would like to be somewhere else. Esther looks sad. She probably thought she would be able to bond with Sarah.

[@rockerbaby2003]

I have to give Megan & Mike credit!! They are trying so many new things at once. I understand that there was likely a lot of factors going into letting Sarah go which they'll keep some of which private. The bright side of being the producer of the videos is they can show what they wish. They've shown and shared so much information, they don't need to share every single detail, there's got to be some privacy! And btw, those blackberries are making me hungry!!

[@amazingrace1958]

rockerbaby2003 .....well said!

[@ngwatson901]

Megan, I am loving your hair in the last several videos! I just had to tell you how good it looks so curly and short. Love it!

[@debolsen3294]

Jude always makes me smile! As does Eve! As they are changing and learning it is so cool to see how they have all grown and changed as you travel to new places!

[@thearchitect1601]

Love your channel, love you guys, tell pearl that she is a beautiful star. Love from buffalo ny, God bless 😁♱

[@richardswift8517]

Just my opinion but perhaps you may have been better starting your travels in Ireland or the UK where you could have adapted to the European culture without having a language barrier to contend with as well, never the less I really enjoy watching your vlogs and always look forward to the next one.

[@pammiedoodle8693]

One of my favorite sayings when you are trying to keep a large group of children together and moving in the same direction is, "it's like trying to herd cats!"😂

[@Edbeatty91]

I did get that with Sarah, she seemed to get along but maybe a little awkward having someone around all the time? Maybe next time you can do more short term? Maybe get help somewhere for the first few weeks or a month when things are going to be busy? Best of luck Sarah! She got a free trip to France so no loss! 😄❤🎉

[@melaniesmith2681]

Viewers seem to forget they are not in your shoes, only watching where your shoes walk. If the nanny didn't work out, good for y'all for making the tough decision to move on from it. You clearly loved and appreciated her but things don't always work out. Viewers are viewers. It isn't our business to condemn or criticize anyone else. You guys are an inspiration through your good days and bad days. You're HUMANS on the adventure of a lifetime. If you are having a hard time adjusting, it'll get easier. It just takes time! Who cares if you weren't fluent in every language of the countries you want to visit. Go visit them anyway! You guys rock and whatever decisions you make from here on out will be the right ones. Ignore those who are negative and embrace your out of the box, AMAZING adventure and keep moving on. ❤️

[@aurie6895]

I like to consider myself pretty well-travelled. As a kid I moved from big city to tiny village to boarding school, I've taught English in rural Ghana, travelled Europe, now I live in the Netherlands and have done for over a year, though I'd like to move somewhere with a totally different culture in the future. My experience with culture shock, whether it be minor or severe, is that it only lasts a certain amount of time, usually 2-4 weeks. I understand it can feel very lonely, esp if you don't speak the language. The trick is to involve yourself as best you can in the culture, to learn about it, to meet people, to not be fixed in your ways, because the culture will not change for you, you must adapt and embrace it. As the language barrier goes, most people will be overjoyed that you've made the effort to speak to them in their native language, even if you're bad at it. Also, consider moving to a more touristy area and possibly mixing with expats. There's plenty of Facebook groups for expatriates in every city and, in my experience, expats tend to be around your age and a lot have children, it'd be good for you to mix with people who've felt the same way you do right now and to get some tips. You've said before that you have strict routines, though these may work for your family, they may not work for the culture, for example I woke at 4/5am every morning in Ghana, because that's what everyone did. Change is not always easy to make, but it is worth it, I know you keep these routines for the children but I think they'll surprise you in how they adapt. Hope this helps even a little bit ❤️

[@dearestjessica]

A few of my kids have needs that required different therapies. We homeschool as well. Last fall after having a different therapist in my home to help 3 days a week, I just quit because we had been doing it for 4 years and we needed just our own family back. We are adoptive parents too, so I felt like I should have been better bringing others in. It's not the same. Don't be afraid to change things up or ask for help again. It's your family, you get to decide what to do.

[@phantomrox87]

As someone who's traveled in Europe, I found that I was able to adjust easier in places where most people spoke English. It was only after I had experienced European countries where people spoke English that I branched off to other places. It may also be better if you searched for towns that had more public transport. While the tiny French village looks adorable, opting for somewhat more of a suburb in the next country you go to may be better - easier access to whatever city you are near and other areas to explore, and if there's an issue with your car then you can still get out with the kids. Best wishes in whatever you and Mike decide is right for your family

[@rebeccasmith8087]

I know exactly what you mean! We had four children and when we introduced an exchange student from Brazil, it was wonderful, but we sure enjoyed it being just our family., when he returned to Brazil. I love it that Judd, I think, the four year old is missing a sock...so dear!

[@AR-cy9sd]

It all comes down to you and what is best for the family. I'm still rooting with you, wherever your choice in life might be.

[@cindyasters]

Glad to see you back. I had a feeling Sarah's personality would be hard to gel with your family dynamics. Nothing wrong with that. I know you all tried. You both look tired, rest up, recalibrate, and know your followers send you love, positivity and support.

[@PatAustin1946]

I love your channel and I am enjoying coming along on your journey. Don't get discouraged. Wait till you get to Ireland and Scotland. The people there are so friendly and speak English (with a brogue) but it won't take long before you fit right in. I'd go back to Ireland in a heartbeat, Keep the faith and carry on; you are such a wonderful family and I admire you all so much.

[@XxDiamondXTearsxX]

This seems like the first video Jude is speaking full sentences! At least that I know of

[@sofiawehking9752]

I wish I could live with a happy and loving family but I am still grateful I watched you guys when my parents were fighting and when the got divorced love you guys

[@BhappyD]

Pickle SlimeZ So sorry to hear that you don't have a happy and loving family. I know all too well what that is like (I have had a very abusive father my entire childhood and adult life). Just know that someday you will get the chance to create the loving family that you've always longed for! People like us have the example of what NOT to do, which is very valuable knowledge to have, and is a great tool that we can use to better our lives. Keep your head up, and hold onto the faith that God WILL provide you with the life and family you've always wanted someday! In the meantime, focus on transforming all of the hurt and pain you've experienced into strength and perseverance! God bless you! 💗🙏

[@lourdesgallegos7508]

I really admire both of you, you are being true to yourselves and what you think is best for your family. I love your advice regarding goals and I plan to follow it! You got this, you are giving your children an amazing gift. Years ago, my husband and I took our two daughters and lived off the grid in a couple of rv's on a mountaintop and it was hard sometimes but, we don't ever regret it. Our girls are grown and married and they still talk about our adventure and how it helped them grow into the adventurous, confident women that they are today.

[@monkeymallow]

I think that it's such a great lesson for your children to learn; that there is a culture shock when you go somewhere new, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. Then they get the bonus lesson of how to cope and overcome

[@HouseOod]

Has anyone ever watched the videos from the balcony seats? How about thinking of it as pre-ordained. That the storyline was written a long long time ago. I don't think the channel will go on hiatus but I find it hard to believe how invested some of these comments sound. If they wanted their privacy and stopped uploading, I would totally understand.

[@WolfImSchafPelz]

As a former Au Pair I had the feeling that it wouldn't work out with Sarah just because of your "free" lifestyle. Nevertheless I think it was a good experience for you and for Sarah as well. I hope she finds another family in France :) The culture shock will go away, planing is a good idea, it's what I did during my year abroad as well. Try and stay busy and meet some local people. That'll help with everything being so different than the US. I'd also recommend you guys though to come to more "open-minded" countries to get a start in the beginning. Ireland will be a whole other experience than France. Not trying to offend any French people here, but it's even hard for a European in France to get in contact with other people.

[@asaldanapr]

Sorry it didn't work out with Sarah. I tried once and it didn't work either. We lived in a three b/r apt plus a maids room but I could not handle the lack of privacy either. BTW you are living in paradise!

[@priscillarichards8969]

A lot of negative comments going here. You guys seem fine...you're still settling in and getting used to going from hustle and bustle of NYC to quaint countryside of France. It's going to be hard and I'm sure you knew that, which is why we see things like you taking French language lessons. I don't sense any regret in your goals and it seems like you understand that it's going to be difficult, but worth it. Sarah will be fine. Sometimes it's just not a good fit. It wouldn't be good for anyone if you had her stay with things not feeling right. It's your choice, ultimately, it was a job. I'm sure she will find a great job and maybe things worked out for the best. I bet years from now she will be thankful for the opportunity and some really good experiences came from it, even though she didn't remain your Nanny. Please don't let all of these negative comments discourage you.

Jude is getting SO BIG!!!

[@emberjones387]

I hope you can get a cute family photo with everyone on those neat steps leading up to your front door. That would look so cool!

[@dnevins3548]

I don't get what the issues are. Sure you can't speak the language but there are apps to cross that barrier. Once you get the van you can get away and start exploring again. If you can't find an English speaking LDS church, can't you homechurch? Many people do that when needed. I wonder why having Sarah in the house hindered your privacy. Are you trying to hide something? I just don't get all the excitement about going overseas dying out so incredibly quickly.

[@MyMySharona]

We are only watching a brief snippet of their lives and they are real and dont always show just all the perfect and happy times, life is about ups and downs, doesnt mean something is "wrong" its just the way life is. Just because they have a down moment doesnt mean it represents them every day all day. Think about how much time is in an edited video and thats all we are seeing of their day and lives, we dont have the big picture, all we can do is make assumptions based on how we view life and struggle. Easy for us all to make judgements sitting watching.

[@dnevins3548]

Okay, but they have been in France for almost a month and have only posted a few videos. Something odd is up because that is not like them.

[@margretrand8769]

Well it's definitely a major life change for them and they haven't traveled globally basically at all previously (I think they mentioned in one of their videos they only had been to China for the adoption) so it's definitely something new to them. Moreover, they are living in a rural area so it is a bit harder, as the locals might not be that welcoming or used to tourists at all than living in a major city like Paris. And there are definitely some major differences between the US and France, which they might have not known about or are just things they are not used to in their everyday life. Culture shock or feeling homesick is a very normal feeling while moving abroad or traveling globally for an extended period of time, so there's honestly nothing to be surprised about, but it gets better over time and they will get more used to their new life. Having adventures every day and being able to travel as much as they do is fun, but it's also exhausting and has its disadvantages - I think it's a wonderful thing that they share their feelings with us and portray both the ups and downs of their travels. And to talk about Sarah - I think it was a combination of culture shock/ getting used to the global travel and a stranger living in their house. It's not that much about them having something to hide than just adding another adult, who you previously don't know, to your family. A family has their own traditions and habits (they have their own thoughts on how they want their kids to be raised, they are religious, they have their own daily routine etc) and if there's someone in the family who is not used to them, it might cause problems.