Some of the most toxic people come disgusted as family.
@pkingglazersout66654 жыл бұрын
Even being at this state, the man came back to take care of his mother, shout out to his mother for producing such a obedient and a respectable son
@floofygod4 жыл бұрын
"Obedient" You think hes there obeying? No, he loves his mother, this is a choice.
@debraallen634 жыл бұрын
@@floofygod excuse me, but how do you not know that obedience is part of Love!!??!! Maybe you should find out what love really is, truthfully......because you can't have True Love without the TRUTH.
@floofygod4 жыл бұрын
@@debraallen63 I guess not, dont expect anybody I love to obey me. I would never force my loved ones into doing things they dont want for my own selfish gain. That's not love, its control.
@debraallen634 жыл бұрын
@@floofygod It's not control.......if you love your child you teach them to OBEY you so they don't come to harm!!! If the child doesn't obey they could be hit by a car and die!!! Yes, obedience is a great part of Love!!! Mom's should know THIS as they are raising future husband's and wives!!!!! Edit- do you know what obedience is??
@maplecozy4 жыл бұрын
@@debraallen63 Fathers should know also.
@fractal42844 жыл бұрын
That's sad that people on the street have more compassion than his own family
@farmeresscherrylanford35394 жыл бұрын
That is why nurturing family togetherness is important. Many people have become to each his own.
@jahancanty34424 жыл бұрын
That's the world we live in... Glad ur not like this... You clearly have compassion
@almacoles55014 жыл бұрын
One-sided story. The Cousin could have a totally different story and explanation that we'll never know.
@winning33294 жыл бұрын
It's the devils plan to divide the family so they can be weaken.
@maplecozy4 жыл бұрын
@@winning3329 Truth
@jodyclark75274 жыл бұрын
This happened to me too. My son's name was on the deed of the house because of medical bills. I paid property taxes, insurance and maintenance. I even came up with almost $5000 to save the place from a sheriffs sale for past taxes initially upon getting the property. I should have walked away and let the county take it for taxes. Then I wouldn't have known the despair of being betrayed by my son. He served me with eviction papers a couple of years ago after I had lived there for over 10 years. The home had been in the family for almost 100 years! I don't talk to him anymore. He got married and wanted the house to sell for a down payment on a McMansion. . We had a verbal agreement too. I trusted him to honor my request to wait until I was dead to claim the house and he was supposed to divide it between the other 2 kids. Shameful!
@tongomanjang28283 жыл бұрын
Jody Clark , what goes around comes around. Evilness never win. 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏
@SuperMsPharmacy4 жыл бұрын
People are evil when it comes to other people's money. Greed is disgusting.
@gabrielleelliott86274 жыл бұрын
Right
@nikkimcdonald45624 жыл бұрын
I know these people were trying to scam the rightful owner of the property.
@jnunyabizio51694 жыл бұрын
I went through the greed when after my mother passed and we were selling the family home. I now have no connection to my oldest brother or sister. Absolute Total scumbags wanting the money not caring that our mother had died. So yes family can and does suck
@thequintessential55034 жыл бұрын
Preach
@michm64574 жыл бұрын
Just because you are blood doesn't mean you are fsmily..
@2dxtreme13 жыл бұрын
NO SHIT MICHELE ....... SAY THAT AGAIN !
@jackrabbit03 жыл бұрын
Sad
@akhiker64124 жыл бұрын
Something missing in many of these stories. They moved into his aunt's home to help care for his mother and aunt. Mention of paying a few repairs over several years but no mention of paying rent or monthly bills. If his mother was truly a caretaker for his aunt for 20+ years and he and his wife for several more, she would have left them something-like the house. Why didn't the cousin give them 4 extra months? I'd bet they refused to pay even a minimal rent. When my sister, her husband and their 2 dogs just moved back to NY after failing in business, I offered them the rental apt in the house I just bought at 1/2 rent-for a month or 2 (all utilities included) while they looked for a place. She knew I needed the rent money to make the mortgage as I was going to graduate school and had limited hours to work. Immediately she "needed" the premium cable tv and internet package at $125 a month because only trailer trash lives like that (meaning without maximum tv channels). She argued it would be good for me since I could use it too. I reminded her I worked and studied nearly 24/7 so no opportunity for me to watch $125 worth of tv. Eventually I agreed to pay for 2 months of it but she had to pay installation. Only stipulation was she was to do nothing to the apt without asking me. I figured I could get by on $275 for all utilities for a month or two until I got the $800 going rate. 3 weeks later I came home to find she had plastered 1980s wallpaper all over the 1500sq ft apt to "help me". She got nasty and said "You should be paying me for this. I am helping you!" Told her if she ever did anything to my home again without asking as she agreed, I'd throw her out on the spot. It went into over a year of excuses of why she wouldn't look for an apt while she told everyone she was taking care of me and how I needed so much help. She refused ot look at the utility bills to see how I made $20 off rent if I was lucky. Meanwhile she spent money like it was water. Never bought me a single birthday or Christmas present or even a card. I was so financially devastated by funding her I told her and her husband in advance that I was sorry but I couldn't afford Christmas presents. Her husband was nice. She said nothing. As usual she got me nothing for Christmas and I felt relieved as I'd only been able to scrape up little token gifts. For my bf I was able to spend a whopping $10 on a gift. After Christmas dinner my sister followed me up to my half of the house, stormed into my room and told me "You should have given ME that present!" Responded "How do you imagine that? YOU got me NOTHING!" She gave me more garbage of how I owed her and she was helping me. Told her she had 30 days to find a place. She cried to the family and anyone who would listen that I was evicting her after she suffered supporting me in the dump no one else would live in. (Nice neighborhood, off street parking, 1500sqft apt, new bathroom, storage in half the garage, washer/dryer, full wall brick fireplace, etc. I did all outside maintenance.) When she finally moved she left 80% of her junk behind for me to clean up. She laughed and said "take it out of my deposit". (There was no deposit of course.) To this day she insists she took care of me and she helped me tgo anyone who will listen. Not one single thank you ever. She did things like leave the oven on all weekend with the door ajar when they went away. Bought a 3rd puppy without asking me and more. She even argued "you have money!" which I didn't (single person at 24yrs old who bought their first home, self supporting and going to uni has no money.) I see her in so many of these interviews where people talk about how their terrible family wouldn't continue supporting them
@nikkimcdonald45624 жыл бұрын
So Very True 👍
@patriciahibbert61394 жыл бұрын
Old saying in Canada " 2 stories for every 1.
@jo-annahicks33244 жыл бұрын
I'm very sorry you experienced this. It sounds like your Sister is a Narcissist, and has made everyone who'll listen, her "Flying Monkeys". Having said that, and knowing a lot about Narcissistic behaviour..I don't believe that that is the case with these people...I think they may have been victims of Narcissistic Abuse, just like it sounds like you have been. They seem like genuine folks to me...it's not easy to guage the whole truth, when we can't see the bigger picture. I really don't think adult family members can live together, once they've experienced having a life of their own..everone needs their own 'nest'.
@fephoenix92084 жыл бұрын
When I see some of these situations I always think there's two sides to a story.
@VicShae4273 жыл бұрын
Yep, family will sometimes drag you worse than a stranger. Sometimes, it is best to help people outside of your home.
@jurnee-y3 жыл бұрын
When apartment build got sold, lost my job I became homeless and lived out of my car from 2019 may to March 2020 and it was miserable. Took whatever job I could find to stay with some kind of money. From scrubbing toilets for $9/hr and pushing wheelchairs at the airport for $7/hr. Only person that reached out to me during that time was my older brother. Didn’t hear from my mom until 2 months after I finally got back on my feet into an apartment, better job, moved to a new state. That time I spent homeless even tho it was miserable, it gave me a new appreciation for the little things in life and really let me know who was in my corner still
@dorawilliams46284 жыл бұрын
some times your family, is your worst enemy.
@SwaggSkillz19924 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯 Stay Blessed @Dora Williams
@tehgees4 жыл бұрын
Facts cause they know the most about you, and know how to hurt you the most
@dimvalsgames97214 жыл бұрын
Most of the time agreed.
@AnOhioPatriot4 жыл бұрын
Matthew 10:36 - a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.....☹️
@cbass4154 жыл бұрын
Sad, but true
@wordsbymaribeja14704 жыл бұрын
In this case it wasn't their household, they were 'guests' who came because they needed help in the first place and didn't plan while they were getting house and board. At least he can live off her wages.
@tinalarmond5473 жыл бұрын
Yes
@candykizz3z684 жыл бұрын
Sending positive thoughts and hope for a blessing for them.
@fernandoreis17514 жыл бұрын
No. Send money or help.
@hitokiribattousai64064 жыл бұрын
@@fernandoreis1751 exactly
@pauladonaldson66324 жыл бұрын
Omg ur cousin did this to you shame on him. Dont give up god will never leave or forsake you.love from all the way in jamaica💪💪💛💜💙
@AshleyMintz4 жыл бұрын
I like when he asks them what they would wish for if they had 3 wishes. I feel like it puts a seed in their mind, like they can still achieve things and get out of their situation.
@AEvans369634 жыл бұрын
Don't EVER do a verbal agreement with anybody, esp family. The ones you'd think would do the most for you are usually the ones who will do you the worst when things get really thin. I hope these people will be ok.
@3littlebirds7294 жыл бұрын
So sad that his cousin did this to these people, it is criminal really in my opinion.
@TeiTablor4 жыл бұрын
If one of my family members wants a verbal agreement I'm not doing it. They love money more than the air they breathe.
@inpursuitofthetruth19754 жыл бұрын
With a cousin like that who needs enemies? Smh...
@krissmgvlogs4 жыл бұрын
Sad story but the kind of story where you need to hear both sides.
@thersten4 жыл бұрын
Yup. Sounds like everybody decided to live for free at the aunt's house and claim it was to help her out. I don't think they needed everyone; mom, son, and his wife to take care of her. Then she died and they weren't even paying rent. They should've at least saved up by then or had an option to go back to their apartment, but apparently they didn't. At least his wife has a job. His bum ass needs to work too if he ever wants to start another bobblehead collection much less have a place to live. SMH
@mariaa.58294 жыл бұрын
Yes, I am curious about that "other side."
@thersten4 жыл бұрын
@@mariaa.5829 a lot of these sob stories have another side. Its always my mom or dad kicked me out. Our my wife left me. The core problem is usually psychological. Either trauma, bipolar, PTSD, drug addiction, etc. They seem real nice and repentant now but it's never as simple as, they kicked me out. That being said, I wish them well and hope they can all get on their feet again.
@mariaa.58294 жыл бұрын
I actually met a formerly homeless man once on these Invis People video comments who I tried help find work. Part of what he told me is they went to a far-away state to "help take care" of relatives until the relatives evicted him (oh, and now he's facing bankruptcy). He caught an attitude with me- perhaps because I would not do free legal work for him or because I did not find him a job in 4 months time, perhaps) so he stopped talking to me & "blocked me" on social media. Not sure what triggered him but he did seem to become obsessed with the fact I am a lawyer & how he could take advantage of my line of work.
@thersten4 жыл бұрын
@@mariaa.5829 that's too bad. At least you tried. I was working with an organization helping homeless young adults and 2 out of 3 couldn't follow the requirements and stay in the program. I knew their background so I understand how difficult they had it. I probably wouldn't do much better if I had suffered that kind of trauma and volatile family life that they grew up with.
@kenrose25234 жыл бұрын
I would like to hear the cousin's side of the story? Seriously because that's just messed up.
@fredaulun35484 жыл бұрын
An amazing and great couple who wanted to take care of the older parents. May God bless them.
@lollipopkid86703 жыл бұрын
They've been together 22 yrs & have nothing to call their own Unbelievable 🥺
@ameliatribeofissachar73114 жыл бұрын
Sending prayers for the both of them. I pray they find housing soon
@dorojessy69324 жыл бұрын
Keep spreading this channel so he gets to 1M soon!!!!
@keithbates5984 жыл бұрын
God be with you both. My husband had retired from Cytopathology. We have been homeless too. We have a son 27yrs with Downs and Autism. Two canines that are rescues. It has been Hell for us living on the streets in Albuquerque. Our Van was stolen with our possessions in it. We have stayed at Motel 6 for a year. Trying to find a place to settle down. God be with you both. Joan and Keith Bates
@jo-annahicks33244 жыл бұрын
My heart goe out to you. May you be ortunate, homed and happy..very, very soon May you have beauty for ashes xo
@blessedhope80864 жыл бұрын
Hopefully things will get better. Pray and believe.
@noneshere4 жыл бұрын
House is nice, but not worth paying anothers mortgage. Head south, winters on the way.
@janeallen95484 жыл бұрын
Go south ,still have to pay rent or mortgage. Can not live for free.
@elktricchoad31314 жыл бұрын
I hope stuff gets better for them pray to God You doing good for people Keep it up
@angelallanos76354 жыл бұрын
God Bless You Both💫🙏💫❤️
@carolynnunes39224 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@dieselandlevimygoofyhuskie94204 жыл бұрын
You can chose your friends not your family best of luck to this couple 🙏🙏
@darrenmunro86824 жыл бұрын
I hope everything works out for them and they have there own home soon.
@shannonrivera47104 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I have been in this situation with family. I tried to let my sister and her partner live with me. When I come home from work before heading to the second gig they listening to music and having cocktails. Several days I would come home to strangers in my home . If someone allows you to live with them RESPECT their home . If you don’t work and contribute , don’t expect the next person to take care of you . My family situation was caused by addiction and that’s a lot to bring into your home .
@adrianaalcala96934 жыл бұрын
@@shannonrivera4710 that happened to me I let my brother live in my apartment and I would come home to him sitting on the couch with a woman I didn’t know . The woman was drinking from my expensive wine glass and looking around. Eventually I kicked him out. He also would bring his friends over and my utilities would run up. One day I walked in to one of his friends with his dick swinging in the bathroom with the door wide open. I threw out that scumbag so fast.
@mnj46214 жыл бұрын
I wish them the best!
@thersten4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like everybody decided to live for free at the aunt's house and claim it was to help her out. I don't think they needed everyone; mom, son, and his wife to take care of her. Then she died and they weren't even paying rent. They should've at least saved up by then or had an option to go back to their apartment, but apparently they didn't. At least his wife has a job. His bum ass needs to work too if he ever wants to start another bobblehead collection much less have a place to live. SMH
@jessicacannady19314 жыл бұрын
Right I need to hear the so called evil cousin of theirs side of the story.A lot of holes in the story. They probably did try to cook up a scheme to stay at aunties house and take over the house. But the cousin name was already on the deed. That what wrong with people you should've saved all that money you wasn't paying in rent. So just in case the worst happen you have a backup plan. But they got comfortable and felt safe. Every one should have a backup plan. They too old not to have one.
@allthingsnu46733 жыл бұрын
Agreed. If they were there to help, they would have been prepared to move when the aunt died but they weren't and, instead, are acting like victims. I do think that the first cousin should have looked out for his aunt who took care of his mother and maybe he did by letting her stay in the house until she died too. But after she was gone, the first cousin didn't owe the man in this video anything. He was probably ready to wrap up his mother's affairs and sell the house which makes sense. It sounds like he gave this couple a little time before evicting them but they were expecting to stay longer.
@swicheroo13 жыл бұрын
I'm sure there's two sides to every story. And I hope them the best as they get on their feet. My take-away: Don't rely on verbal agreements. Document everything: your past payments, your actions toward the completion of a deal. Finally, ask yourself how you compromise your own position when you act out of generosity. My guess is he had a nice, cheap apartment in San Francisco. And he won't be able to get back into the housing market at the same price point.
@verohernandez13454 жыл бұрын
Absolutely a Heartbreaking story and they have such a positive attitude.
@almacoles55014 жыл бұрын
Don't rely on others to house you, even your own relatives, no matter how much help, repairs, or upgrades you've contributed to a household. Pay for your own housing, or better yet, save up and buy your own house. The Cousin is named as an owner of the House, and a verbal agreement is worthless if he denies every word you say - you should have had a written contract signed between all parties. Good lessons learned.
@jo-annahicks33244 жыл бұрын
Yes, in a perfect World...that's good advice....most people have 20/20 vision in hindsight! But may I suggest, that by using the word SHOULD in that way...it comes across as being very scolding and acting superior. Sometimes life just hits snags. And sometimes caring people are too trusting and gullible, through ignorance..and those types of people can become prey for Narcissists.
@almacoles55014 жыл бұрын
@@jo-annahicks3324 _"But may I suggest, that by using the word SHOULD in that way...it comes across as being very scolding and acting superior."_ Let's see what other options there are besides "SHOULD"... you COULD have had a written contract signed between all parties? you MIGHT want to have had a written contract signed between all parties? you OUGHT to have had a written contract signed between all parties? I don't think it makes much difference whether "SHOULD" is used or it's equivalent synonym. They all sound scolding or projected from someone superior depending on the understanding, humbleness, or mood of one's unique perspective. Perhaps some people who are stubborn or complacent need scolding or someone superior to get them to do what they need to do in order to protect themselves emotionally and legally.
@celestialcircledance4 жыл бұрын
The hard lesson is to always hire a lawyer and have a written agreement before you make a big sacrifice even if its close family that you think you can trust . I'm glad there in a better place than many with a job and there own trailer and I wish them continued success !
@ngc4486diane4 жыл бұрын
these ppl are beautiful i hope n pray good fortune will find them
@lisasapp60134 жыл бұрын
I got evicted by my sister while I have medical issues and MS! Now I'm in a very small travel trailer living in parking lots. Therefore, it's hard for me to have a regular Doctor to deal with my issues. Family can be a blessing or a downer. Wish you all luck. Pray for all of us struggling. I'm alone on this journey. My son stole my money and left. Haven't seen him in a couple years....God bless.
@pisathongsonlone39354 жыл бұрын
Hang in there lisa god and god bless you
@blessedhope80864 жыл бұрын
Snare to trust man. Trust in the Lord and give your life to him to guide, lead and help you. Read Psalms 23 and Psalms 91. Hopefully you'll find comfort. Psalms 3: 5&6
@momurda64 жыл бұрын
In this day and age there is no such thing as verbal agreements. Family, best friends, colleagues, doesnt matter. Get any asset or financial agreements on paper, signed. I've heard of many people be financially hit hard due to trust in others, even siblings. Hard lesson learnt I hope. Wish these two best of luck.
@patriciahibbert61394 жыл бұрын
Verbal agreements not worth the paper to wipe your butt with it.
@robertmarkold34084 жыл бұрын
Family means nothing nowadays
@bluebabeey93434 жыл бұрын
Family is always the most grimiest....
@gabrielleelliott86274 жыл бұрын
True
@dominikamimari4274 жыл бұрын
And they say family is everything surtanly not
@ladyofthecentury4 жыл бұрын
I've heard this story before. A family member moves to take care of a relative. Usually it's a family member who is not like the most financially secure but they're the ones who are willing to help. Then the family member dies and the legab heir puts them out. This might be quite common. I'm thinking that if you have to take care of a family member and they can't come stay in your home Or you can't afford to have them come stay with you then you should not do it. let the other family members who are local do it because you will be assed out if they pass away. Their immediate family will never let you stay in the deceased relative house. They will never share anything with you and they will never compensate you for what you did. For some reason that's just how it is.
@nathaliewade7524 жыл бұрын
im so sorry the cousin did that to you!! its despicable so wrong praying you get a house asap
@KaReN0194 жыл бұрын
Great couple - hope there house isn’t to far in the future so they can get settled again. I like their positive attitude in the mist of uncertainty. Keep going hardcore guys, it’ll work out in the long term. 💜❤️
@LouLouJ2020J4 жыл бұрын
Sad 😞 glad to see people find help . The world is hard .
@angelamills1114 жыл бұрын
She’s so funny she kept letting everybody know she washes lol!!!
@cbass4154 жыл бұрын
Funny cause to me it's a basic human necessity and right, I take it for granted. For the homeless it's not easy to get water to clean up.
@CutandShoot5x54 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mark for these videos!!!!
@JohnSmith-jj9jl4 жыл бұрын
I want to hear the cousin's side of the story.
@ErickaWilliamsCC4 жыл бұрын
Exactly so much more to the store. If you adding value no one putting you out.
@kellynorvell57144 жыл бұрын
@Jessica Anderson ..... EXACTLY....I think the 3 sides are....1. Your side, 2.Their side and......3. The truth (facts from both sides)
@jo-annahicks33244 жыл бұрын
@@ErickaWilliamsCC ...unless you are dealing with Narcissists, Sociopaths, or Psychopaths....they have NO remorse...perhaps the Narcs do a little...but the others are only in it for themselves...once you stand up to them, or are no longer giving the Narcissistic supply...then they discard you, without a backward glance. They lovebomb you, then demean you, then discard you. Perhaps you could look up some videos about Narcissistic abuse...especially about Narcissistic Abuse Victim Syndrome. Having said that...it would be good to know the bigger picture.
@Dauseana4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@janeallen95484 жыл бұрын
Yea
@jasongates-4 жыл бұрын
"We all make bad choices. Homelessness shouldn't be a punishment for bad choices." True, Mark. This couple is a very respectful, professional mannered couple. Seems like his cousin just didn't want him there. It's one thing to want your space, but why push your own cousin into homelessness to get it? His cousin is mean. I bet the guy in the video will remember that, if he and his cousin are still around in 20 years, and the cousin winds up needing the care that his mother, and the cousin's mother needed. I agree with him on the memorabilia part, and the living long part. And, the mega lotto part would be nice, too.
@Chaves_Novo_Quiz4 жыл бұрын
I love the way he call people by their name, seems to bring all their storie at once, with tons of empathy.
@jviarruel4 жыл бұрын
They are so CUTE..... Blessings for them..... God is merciful....
@thrlllckr62444 жыл бұрын
Very nice couple sending prayers to lift them out of their crisis 🙂❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@judedimatteo16154 жыл бұрын
What a darn shame that's what we call family ?? Wow strangers treat you better peace be with this lovely couple
@enigmathegrayman29534 жыл бұрын
Working full time and living in a tent, America is finished. The American dream is a nightmare. You can’t tell immigrants this, they’re still ignorantly hopeful they will have an American dream.
@kennethrogers36874 жыл бұрын
Massive need for workers in healthcare! Washington state here but I imagine everywhere. But you can't have a criminal record or do drugs. I always find work as a cna/ caregiver. Everywhere I go. Big demand. Probably more so today than ever. Hope this helps someone. Peace!
@Whohah-s2p3 жыл бұрын
His mistake verbal agreement dont mean guarantee pen to paper
@lancenguyen91754 жыл бұрын
Family, relatives living under the safe roof is NEVER a good IDEA. It's a DISASTER waiting to happen.
@makebawalker69064 жыл бұрын
God bless them.
@angelaj89584 жыл бұрын
Have to have it all in writing, even with family. I too learned this the hard way.
@CodyCole804 жыл бұрын
This is why you ALWAYS GET THINGS IN WRITING!!!! Family sometimes ain’t 💩! And another thing I caught was the that that this gentleman’s mother took care of the wicked cousin’s mother-her sister. Why didn’t he take care of his own mother? That says a lot about him. 🤨
@nikkimcdonald45624 жыл бұрын
Gosh ..sounds like you know the complete story. 👍 Good to know you are not just jumping to conclusions based on hearing one side of the story.
@sallyclay19744 жыл бұрын
Verbal agreements don't work!
@pisathongsonlone39354 жыл бұрын
Sometimes i think family is overrated. God says to never put your trust in man for you will be disappointed and to put it through him
@amnafarooq39794 жыл бұрын
God be with you both,I truly wish that you both get a proper home.Please keep your spirits high .Have fairh.thete are people to pray for u without knowing you.Bless you.lots of prayers.
@Double_stikk3 жыл бұрын
This is the world we live in today. It's sad. It's heartless. It's ungraveful. Meanwhile there is ppl complaining about a small house there is ppl who are homeless. My heart is broken to know how cruel ppl can be. 💔 💔
@Tammy1211114 жыл бұрын
SOMETIMES IT'S THE FAMILY THAT WILL SCREW YOU FIRST!!
@godschildb4thewomb1983 жыл бұрын
This is more of the reason why you shouldn't help so called family you'll only end up hurting yourself The worst part is when you help them when they are down and out with needing a helping hand but when it's your turn to need a helping hand you get treated like a smashed up bug on the ground that no one even sees getting stepped on Invisible people is exactly what it's called that's why your name invisible people is so accurate I started experiencing homelessness at 14 it's hurtful an emotionally draining I love to call the homeless my family because I'm them and they are me we are one *God even see's us as one and not invisible people* God will help them just like he helped me
@darrelldixon90444 жыл бұрын
I'm Disabled, a Veteran, and have been homeless for two years. I'm not a drug addict, just lost my housing two years ago when the Apartment Complex I was living at was sold to a buyer in Toronto, who promptly notified the tenants living with Section 8 or VASH assistance was given the option to move out or pay full market value rent. I found while looking for a place to move to, that most low income housing was eliminated in this same fashion by greedy investors. I bought an old van on payments and was forced to start living in it. I did so for a year and was offered a tiny fiberglass trailer on payments. I found that the person I bought it from had mislead me on a clear title, and have had difficulty getting it registered and legal to tow. I have been stranded at a Recreation Area, above Kingman Arizona for seven months now trying to get repairs done to my van. It is no longer safe to drive, and definitely not suitable to tow my trailer. It has been a living hell, upto 128 degrees at times this summer, now dealing with freezing cold at night and heavy winds. Every time I try to get some repairs made, something comes up. I bought a used generator which failed in a couple weeks, had to buy another one, then my emotional support dog Archie was badly bitten and required veterinary care, my air conditioning compressor failed in my Van, I cut my knuckle to the bone and ligaments on some glass discarding some trash which resulted in an Emergency Room Visit. I have been trying to get help, and have not much success. I was accepted for Rapid Rehousing through the Catholic Charities, but have searched all over Mohave County but found I cannot afford an apartment on my disability income. I am now in a panic as I was notified by the Catholic Charities Caseworker handling my information, had their computer stolen and now my personal information has been compromised. I am on a waiting list for Section 8, basically started over. I did not choose to be in this homeless situation, and have been doing my best to deal with everything I have experienced the past 2 years. I had to literally give everything I owned away when I lost my apartment EVERYTHING!, I did try and keep my many tools, but those to were lost by a "friend" who was going but keep them until I get settled, but would never respond to my calls or texts. I am absolutely sick of my life. I don't live anymore, I merely exist, and it's not much of an existence. I have not showered in nearly 8 months, and haven't bathed in over two years since losing my apartment. I have reached out to every VA organization or service center for help, but am ineligible. I served 6 years in The Air National Guard, and was honorably discharged, but still don't meet the requirements as I was on active duty for well over a year with Avionics Technical School, and was activated during Desert Storm, but could not deploy with my unit, as I was a 3 level technician straight out of school. I have no family for support, no friends, only a few people I have met while being homeless. I have had a fellow vet brings some water bottles and food items several months back, but I don't see how I can ever get out of my situation as my limited income doesn't suffice..
@wr3nch2714 жыл бұрын
God bless them✝️✝️🙏
@Mrzayskates4 жыл бұрын
I feel them I’m not homeless or nun just 180 every 2 weeks killing me I can’t pay nun with that or take care of what I need
@injusticeanywherethreatens48104 жыл бұрын
180?...you are homeless, just not yet. Wait till you have to start paying for shit...
@Mrzayskates4 жыл бұрын
@@injusticeanywherethreatens4810 I’m not homeless especially if this was 2 months ago it’s called grinding u don’t ever sit steal
@Mrzayskates4 жыл бұрын
@@injusticeanywherethreatens4810 an I live on my own with my own apartment
@inthisworld4144 жыл бұрын
Doesn't sound like a family house, sounds like it was his aunt/cousin house
@janijonkkari48904 жыл бұрын
Yeah and these 2 think is wrong for the owner to exercise his right to his property.
@corynnshantih30194 жыл бұрын
I think she said that she works doing home care for the elderly. If that is what she said, this Elder is risking her life during the Pandemic while homeless and supporting her husband. My heart is breaking for her & I am so angry for them. Everything falls on Black women's backs.
@wersloko26814 жыл бұрын
Sad to say there’s no such thing as friends or family those that do have famiIia be thankful
@jaylale24284 жыл бұрын
If you have anything sentimental like Pictures toys awards etc.....Take pictures of them and store it on a external storage like a micro sd card or usb....having a digital snapshot of something close to you on a sd card or usb before a situation like this even happens,can bring you a great peace of mind,knowing that no one can take it from you and, in some form those things never left you even if it physically has. All those memories right in your pocket. 😊
@mariaa.58294 жыл бұрын
"ya know, ya know" I feel bad for homeless people like this.
@yungreese8294 жыл бұрын
That homeless person named Gerald is very popular right now. Lives in a house and has a good job and a freind of a person who is very wealthy and popular
4 жыл бұрын
I am dealing with a similar situation (My aunt is in the process of evicting me from my grandmothers house)! I did learn that she was suppose to maintain the property (which she has not done)! So I am turning her in to the City (the city also requires the owner to have a rental license which she does not have)!
@Nbdycares24 жыл бұрын
You just freeloading?
@Nbdycares24 жыл бұрын
@ not at all. I worked my way through college, got a job, and bought my own house.
@kalitzina4 жыл бұрын
They came to the city to care for his mother, who's since passed. So what's stopping them from moving back to their own house and back to their former jobs? Why didn't they move his mother to their location to begin with?
@sambarnes3887 Жыл бұрын
What wonderful people ❤️ I hope they have found a beautiful home or they find a beautiful home very very soon ❤️ They deserve only the best ❤️
@deborahbarry94214 жыл бұрын
I know what they are going through...sad it is. Work hard your life, raise your children and love your family to end up homeless in our "Golden Years"...sad it is
@heleneanderson79883 жыл бұрын
I am SPEECHLESS
@DarkMoonDroid4 жыл бұрын
Family has been completely destroyed in America.
@mariajiml98954 жыл бұрын
many blessings to this Couple hoping that they find a home to luve with dignity as a Human being
@lanacampbell-moore45494 жыл бұрын
Prayers 🙏
@maryloufremlin41524 жыл бұрын
Blessings to this couple 🙏♥️♥️
@mikesawyer47073 жыл бұрын
Their are two sides to this story. Sad, but true. Pay your rent, period.
@sallybenardello65334 жыл бұрын
Homelessness is not a punishment for bad choices, it is a natural consequence of bad choices. Make good choices. And when an area becomes too expensive for a middle class income. MOVE FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!
@veronicarivera26754 жыл бұрын
I hope and pray this couple get help ... Family sometimes can be worse then strangers.
@isaach54894 жыл бұрын
Whats the cousins side of the story, for all we know "bad choices" could have been doing drugs in cousins house. Not accusing, but there's always 2 sides.
@christinecannibal8444 жыл бұрын
Even so. He took care of his cousins dying mother... And he throws him out.. and I don't think if somebodys on drugs, especially if they're your family, that's a just reason to throw em out. You should try and help them first. But ya know. Difference in opinions and all :)
@sup_monica35974 жыл бұрын
@@christinecannibal844 his cousin.probably gave a million chances but kept getting screwed over.
@christinecannibal8444 жыл бұрын
@@sup_monica3597 both my parents struggled with addiction and given millions of chances, my dad eventually got clean, my mom didn't. Ive also dealt with addiction, my family didn't give up on me, so many times I failed and I made it through. You never know when somebody's ready or not. But you shouldn't fully give up on them. Unless they're stealing from you and hurting you in some way. Even then though, don't give up, just keep distance but still be there emotionally or for emergencies. It depends on the person, if they want help and if they're ready to get help. I think it's very individual.
@christinecannibal8444 жыл бұрын
@@sup_monica3597 like in some instances I think it's completely okay to kick them out and put your foot down. But it just depends. You need the full story ya know?
@mayhem.4l5444 жыл бұрын
Of course it's drugs. He looks and talks like a crackhead.
@emzywillrich72434 жыл бұрын
The agreement should have been in writing and then you could have sued your cousin for breach of contract. However, with the delays in hearings due to the pandemic, you still might be homeless.
@canadianwolverine24474 жыл бұрын
May the Lord above bless you and your family 🙏💟
@Libragirl229833 жыл бұрын
Family can be some of the worst people. Godbless you 2. Good things will come to you 💖💖
@TonganRasta4 жыл бұрын
And this is why us teens and young adults use the saying “Keep your circle small” and “blood makes you related, loyaly makes you family”.
@Mojave4ever3 жыл бұрын
Wow, what a horrible story! Who could these people trust after THAT??
@thehomelesshelper98524 жыл бұрын
Good luck!
@ceasarmoreno61713 жыл бұрын
There's no family when it comes to money, remember that and you'll do alot better
@Nan-594 жыл бұрын
Best channel!
@fxs4784 жыл бұрын
What good people wish them well
@sicilianchick55074 жыл бұрын
God bless this couple
@empathy75394 жыл бұрын
People who are at ease mock those in trouble. They give a push to people who are stumbling. Job 12:5
@8ofwands3004 жыл бұрын
Why didn't this man sell his collections? 5000 albums would easily yield him $5000 to $10000! I'm sorry for this couple but it's a bit frustrating that they didn't plan better. According to them, the cousin was trying to evict them for months. They had time to gather resources and plan.
@kenyettaready4 жыл бұрын
They could have been planning and the plans didn't come through.
@Theonlyrealdanne4 жыл бұрын
That's unfortunate that happen to him but man Karma will come for his cousin!😶
@nikkimcdonald45624 жыл бұрын
Why ?
@Theonlyrealdanne4 жыл бұрын
@@nikkimcdonald4562 your suppose to hold family down through the bad!