Exercise 9: Your Attitude

Welcome back to my monthly series of exercises from my book, "The Laws of Human Nature." Today, I examine changing your attitude.
Robert Greene is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law, Mastery, The Laws of Human Nature, and most recently, The Daily Laws.
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An attitude of gratitude always improves the mood! 🌞

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Attitude of gratitude!!! ❤️

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Attitude affects decision making. Your lens affects your attitude. Attitude affects circumstances. Great content love your stuff! 👍

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Why are we here in this life? Why do we die? What will happen to us after death??

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Wait don't you believe in god? So we are here in this life because everyone has a purpose in this life.

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I've embraced my darkside, and applied war strategies in my life; my empathy and curiosity are honestly super powers at this point... Thank you Robert.

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Where did you learn to do so

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@@saralvigneshwarradhakrishn4339 by reading Robert's books

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"You are the source of your own problem".... I wish I could tell that to a particular friend .... I'm grateful for having developed the ability to be grateful, voluntarily

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[@ericO141]

That's my favorite chapter of my favorite book. After reading it for the first time, I almost cried. Changing your attitude is life changing and what I personally needed to change the most and still need to improve each day. Like Ryan Holiday says in Ego Is The Enemy: “My friend the philosopher and martial artist Daniele Bolelli once gave me a helpful metaphor. He explained that training was like sweeping the floor. Just because we’ve done it once, doesn’t mean the floor is clean forever. Every day the dust comes back. Every day we must sweep.” He's talking about Ego, but I still think it applies to basically anything, including the attitude.

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This is so true and I can't refute it. The evidence is everywhere. I see people--of wide-ranging intelligence, skill levels, care, diligence, ETC.--achieving some enormous goals just by being action-oriented and bold.

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Florence foster Jenkins springs to mind.

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I appreciate this outlook, but there is a little to it that has more to it than what is said here. If you fail at a business venture, that's not a "so be it" and that's it sortof outcome. There's serious financial consequences to failing, and it's gonna take more than attitude to recover from that particular failure. It's gonna take a LOT of time AND luck.

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Thank you Robert, am a young lawyer struggling with insecurity boss, but now I found a rest!

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What kind of law do u practice?

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Murphys law

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Thank you Robert!

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Thanks, Robert Greene.

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Thank you, Mr. Greene for this video. 🙏🏻

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This attitude is the most dangerous and powerful at the same time. The last one , this is true. I thank you for the knowledge.

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I loved everything you said. An adventurous and positive attitude is the best attitude. It is better to try things, even if they don't turn out as you expected, somehow you always get a gain, be it learning, experience, fun, and in the best of cases you get what you are looking for or maybe more. ^^. ... . Besossss Robert 😘😘

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Amazing facts and video! Thank you legend!

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love this chapter is sooooo insightful and fasicnating!! Re-reading the LOHN now. Feel like its good to re-read when making big life changes. Youre the best Robert!!!

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Love it !

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Extremely interesting and daring!! We have to positive but not naive

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Thank you Sir, I always learned when I watched your educational video🫶

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Ironically I just finished reading this chapter on the Laws of Human Nature. Great recommendation.

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Excellent video 😊

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Estoy aprendiendo mucho con sus libros. Saludos desde Venezuela :)

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I remember Carl Jung's analytical theory . Thank you sir Robert

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So true.

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Thank you for Aria da Capo intro. Amazing wisenes.

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attitude is getting good.

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Priceless content ❤😊

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❤❤❤❤thank you

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Ty

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Excellent life lesson! Love it. Blessings from Hamburg

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Adapting our perspective can transform challenges into opportunities, fostering growth and innovation. 📸

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Ajuda tomar decisões certas e agir rápido e agir certo para não perder tempo

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The wisdom continues to expand our minds ❤❤❤❤ Feeling Grateful, Thank you Robert!!! #Sidowsobrino

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You are essential to the betterment of my life. Your mind is a blessing to this world. Thank you.

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felt this! I genuinely cant imagine what my life would have been without his work. Started reading him at 17! That was 20 years ago.. still reading his work❤

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I got told off so many times, in my younger days, because I had such an attitude!!!🙏

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😆

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If I have a hostile attitude towards others it's probably from trusting others who were only out to use me and get as much from me as possible, usually money. Most people cannot be trusted is what I've learned over the years.

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It's very difficult. I see too many narcissists nowadays

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A product manager said u dont know from where learning comes from but u can and should learn from everything and everyone how I beg to differ❤❤🎉🎉

[@dr_wnk]

Calling out on someone's behaviour is an absolutely perfect strategy to give people a reality check. This starts with simple statements like "I know what you're doing". Statements like "don't talk to me like that" and I won't tolerate this behaviour" are powerful statements because reputation is extremely important to narcissistic individuals. It not only discourages them but also infuriates them. Be careful it can also make them violent like a mad dog. I have implied this strategy mostly as a last resort and I have gotten mixed results. Correct me if I'm wrong

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Chapter 8!

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When are you gonna do guided meditations? I think it will help us “congeal” these strategies in our mind.

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How do I improve or change my attitude, Mr Robert ?

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What's your opinion on Akira Toriyama? He was a legendary master and he somehow united the world through a fan community yet was aloof in nature... How can we describe his creativity and what lessons can we learn from him❤

[@emekecho2024]

Good Health = Good Attitude Healthy people have a better decision-making process than the sick. The reality gets distorted when we are in survival mode. In good health we respond, in sickness we react. My daily 1st healthy step: Breakfast: Drink a cup of warm spring water for a healthier life. Add a slice of key lime. Detox and replenish.

[@HA4-7-8Productions]

I have always been really interested in the Jungian concept of the shadow and how to integrate that more into your life. I feel often in life we are expected to appear well put together because of this we often are not aware of the deeper parts of ourselves and we ignore it or worse actively try to suppress it. How do we integrate the shadow in a way that allows us to live life well and be a full person living and breathing as we are.

[@Ultra-Luminary]

We wouldn't be here if we knew!🙏

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These facts have a certain bigness...

[@lijh]

Gratitude does change the attitude, though there are no actual, physical, tactical, change that happens to the actual circumstances we find ourself in. No action, no change.

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Let me pay attention to myself today and see what type attitude I have.

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Please post the names of all your books and about whom you have written them, make that video so that everyone can get help by reading your book.

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Robert between these three men which one would you be if you could be one of them and this is just a question , so you’re free to pick none of them if that’s your choice , all three are listed below ? The Man Who’s Always Right The Man Who Always Wins The Man Who Has Everything

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Is it better to take a major loss once to get rid of someone you know is a bully and not good for you once and for all, or should we fight and compromise in which case they'll stick around...??

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Then what type of attitude should we have towards whether or not i should get involved it a relationship with this person... Like how to rationally make a good decision

[@justaunknownguy9530]

He talked about this (the best attitude ) in one of his shorts . Where he talks about ultra realism (seeing things as they are not by your own clouds of emotions) it is also in his new book called the daily laws . On the other hand he talks about the power of daily habits

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👍🏾

[@nicolasblanckaert2035]

I have a completely different attitude depending on what I'm looking at. Some of the things I do like "I'll be wet and what" and others "oooh noooooo it's slippery" but I'm most like "find another path to the same place"

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how to tune our attitide which is highly influenced by trauma and fear. I tried so hard but the air isnt fresh again as before😢. save me robert

[@nicholastracy4915]

Big bro saved me from a coquette... If I hadn't read the Art of Seduction multiple times in prison, I wouldn't have picked up on her coquetry. No hate for it, but don't want to be a part of the strange games.

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Wizard.

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I am in same situation in 1 month ago,i am trying to get her back,but she cheated on me. Then i realise doesn't matter,who leave you.only you the source of your happiness and good mindset. Focus on your goal,you will get much better than her. Change your attitude to see the world.

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'I don't like your attitude' 😊

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Can't like yours either.

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I have a question but would want to ask in person because the internet tear down so much😅

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Just ask.

[@gypsy2007]

This video is very confusing and it seems to be singling out one type of person. Anxiety happens in a lot of cases, if not all, from trauma. You can't think away trauma or adjust on will. What about the other types of people that could use changing? the perfectionist, the overly confident/narcissists? Judging someone's way of acting and calling it "attitude" feels like more pressure on some of us to try harder when we have already exhausted ourselved to fit in, and are finally finding ways to lower the stress and the striving. I think it's plenty ok to find our own way of being in the world. Are you anxious? Don't put yourself in situations where you will be triggered. Work on it but also know that you have a way of being (for whatever reasons this happened), and respect it. I can't stand pressure to fit in anymore. Perhaps because I am not older and wiser.

[@dogg208]

is attitude and mindset the same?

[@Ultra-Luminary]

The attitude is the action of the mindset...?...

[@angel-no5sy]

Ok

[@hireallymatters1027]

I am very soft spoken kind person also I have low self esteem what should I do ?

[@_vincent_n_rocxy_1618]

Learn about yourself - and know your worth.,

[@siddarts]

Seppuku

[@i_prizz]

have firm boundaries thats it. you are you. you don't need to change your kind personality just learn the things that triggers you and find where they come from. when u do that u automatically starts to learn more about yourself and your self esteem will automatically grow. Take a paper and write down your limiting beliefs in it and understand their origin i.e., analyse are those beliefs actually yours or other ppls gyaan

[@hireallymatters1027]

@@i_prizz being a soft and kind person makes me realise PPL take you very easy person also I ve seen PPL have this authority kind of personality they are very respected by others also PPL have this a fear which I think its very necessary in this world , otherwise trust me PPL will try to attack you not maybe physically but emotionally, psychologically all you can do with this kind hearted personality is say to others that you can't hurt me or why you saying that this kind of stuff but they will anyway gonna say because they don't have this lil fear which is again necessary this is my own experience do share your thoughts

[@christinacreates2393]

You should go to therapy. It takes time to change and you need to learn how to change. Go to therapy or read a ton of self help books.

[@kennysiu-HK]

You don't / can't change your attitude, you have to change your positioning comparing to your opponent (others).

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❤🇿🇼

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1 st view

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Me? Im just hoping across the rocks asap to get to the other side

[@SO.Broadcast]

these little snippets are kind of like auditory post-it affirmations. SO to summarize: get out of your own head! :)

[@RGBReact]

impulse buying doesnt affect depressed people. attitude of adderall.

[@teenoso4069]

Sounds like reheating stoic teachings on framing

[@Zack-tl9tg]

THE ONE THING ABOUT ME THAT NO ONE WILL HAVE A SAY IN THE MATTER' IS THIS, EXPERIENCE SHAPED MY PERSONA' SOME MIGHT CALL AN ATTITUDE, I CALL IT SELF ESTEEM ' IT'S NOT AGGRESSIVE, IT'S ASSERTIVE!!!! I WILL NEVER ALLOW ANYONE TO MAKE ME A SMILING, STEP--AND--FETCH--IT SUBSERVIENT!!! THAT'S WHAT REALLY BEING ITERATED!!! " DO HE REALIZE THAT HE'S A BLACK GUY,??? YES I DO, ONE WHO KNOW'S EXACTLY WHERE HE STAND'S, ONE WHO'S A BIT ARROGANT, NOT TO A POINT OF BEING OBNOXIOUS, BUT TO A POINT THAT OF AMERICANS WITH HARVARD EDUCATION AND ONE'S THAT HAS EXPERIENCE HAVING MOST OF WHAT THEY DESIRED IN THEIR LIFE TIME!!! SO DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT HAVING THAT DISCUSSION WITH ME!!! I'M NOT OPEN TO THAT!!! PERIOD!!! I DIDN'T GO TO HARVARD, THOUGH EQUIVALENT PRIVATE INSTITUTIONS!!! AND WORKED FROM 14 UNTO RETIREMENT!!! THERE WERE ENTERVALES PERIODICALLY, WERE I WAS OUT OF WORK, BUT NOT LONG! ❤️🤍💙🇺🇸📚🙏🍷🙏🍷👀👀🙏😎

[@pharaohcaesar]

As a person of faith called to do a mission by GOD I am not at all in control of my own life. Have you written anything on Faith? I would have many of your points more meaningful 20 years ago when I was still in control of my life. But I gave that all up to follow an idea that is bigger than my life. I made a choice to follow GOD's decisions and I have no way to back out of that decision now. You speak a lot about what other people think and believe about an individual and how they can deal with that. But with a person like me other people's opinions are meaningless. The only opinion I worry about is GOD's opinion. The only choice I worry about is GOD's choice. These words must sound completely foreign to you.