EXPECTATION & VULNERABILITY: Rules of Modern Dating & Understanding Women "It's Complicated"

It's Complicated "Rules of Modern Dating & Understanding Women" (EXPECTATION & VULNERABILITY)
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[@staypositive1010]

I hate when we blame "society" as if we aren't the society.

[@peytonedwards4225]

The majority

[@nealfitch1401]

Thank you bruh

[@richardjavier7236]

My man spoke facts. I'm keeping that

[@fredpotts3126]

Cuz people refuse accountability

[@Modern_Cowboy]

Lol that is true

[@gukas.1338]

If you pay enough attention, you can see the ladies answering the question in their heads, realising how messed up the answer is on their part, promptly followed by them responding in a way that isn't actually an answer(lying).

[@Silious950]

Well it’s half truths. That way they don’t feel the negative emotions associated with a full on lie. Whenever confronted, like we see here, they struggle to think past the initial stage of thinking. Reactionary, emotional, easily manipulated.

[@christophermallett8166]

100% accurate

[@guldukat1354]

@@christophermallett8166 or they say yes/no etc followed by ''but i feel like ...''and then comes the what ever they think justifies the way feel no mater if what they told you before that

[@miyagifatghost2684]

Pure Evilness....it's scary bcuz no matter how logical it is. It's still doesn't matter bcuz she sees it as dumb

[@bahamn15]

some ladies...NOT ALL..but some. Easier to paint a wide brush and generalize just for the sake of all mighty POWERFUL CONFIRMATION BIAS. The last chick oof the video actually gave a good response to a question

[@MilkT0ast]

Dont go for the women who have the same interests as you, Go for the one that has the same values as you.

[@rantrakkanto1029]

but how? interdimensional warpgates havent bin invented yet......

[@theimmortal4718]

Exactly. Shared musical tastes are less important than the same philosophy

[@MilkT0ast]

@@theimmortal4718 yeah, for example, my step dad drums as a hobby, and my mom hates it (cuz of the noise) But they both have Christian values, and love each other a lot.

[@theimmortal4718]

@@MilkT0ast Yep

[@MrGreenAKAguci00]

YES! Interests are cool and all, but values are the cornerstone and if they don't match the relationship is fucked.

[@bskee001]

Guys: “Who should pay for the dates?” Women: “It’s whoever asks the other person to go on the date that should pay.” Also women: “A guy should always be the one to ask the girl out on dates. A girl should never have to ask the guy out.” The game is rigged gentleman, I repeat, the game is rigged! Just walk away...no, RUN!!!

[@N0T2BAD]

It's okay to pay as a man, but it comes with enough exchange from a woman. If not, they can be alone and pretend to be just like a man. Both sexes try to rig the game for their favor as much as possible. All we need to do is follow our wants and needs, just like they do on their part. We meet somewhere in the middle or walk in different directions. Now we are getting far from that "middle meeting point", but we are not the victims, women will be when they past their prime years for too selfish reasons. And by victim, I don't mean that anyone should feel sorry for them, they wanted this world to be their way, and they finally have got a taste of that fantasy that didn't work for majority of them like they hoped.

[@bskee001]

@@N0T2BAD AMEN!! 👏

[@barry2349]

@@kiyathomas lmao how about spitting the checks?

[@barry2349]

@@kiyathomas you want guys to take advantage off?

[@diamondzflush6039]

@@N0T2BAD Both sexes try to rig the game in their favor but one of those sexes is biologically hardwired to simp for the other...thus accepting and even creating the rigged policies for them..We can all guess which gender is which lol

[@jimminykricket4067]

Worst people to ask this. Women expect men to "just get it" and won't respect any man they have to coach into being a catch.

[@AlfieTank]

They are selfish creatures that we often call The most empathetic gender YET they rarely put themselves in Others shoes or even PONDER ON Things that DON'T affect their lives. NOT all wm but a substantial amount Especially in the west.

[@Sp1n1985]

@@AlfieTank they feign empathy.. But they're very Solipsistic

[@baronhelius4596]

@@Sp1n1985 That’s why I always get a good laugh when chicks put “Empathy “ down as one of their most important requirements in a man on their dating profiles. And they ALL do it!

[@Sp1n1985]

@@baronhelius4596 I believe women posses the emotion for things small & and furry. Because it's soooo cute.

[@nomadsland8322]

Aka not run the race and instead wait at the end for the winners.

[@1996killerman]

I'm trying to binge as many of these videos as possible. Channel is great definitely keep doing these

[@mr.a2014]

Same

[@benjikobaine2.072]

Same

[@deshawnatlaz3302]

Same

[@deontrellbutts1211]

fr tho

[@crane2938]

exactly. I love how I can agree and disagree with these people and no one opinion is being forced down my throught like a huge veiny skin flute.

[@JulioLopez-js4kt]

Say "beautiful" instead of "hot" and you're automatically genuine 📝 got it

[@zettyswift5185]

😂

[@Antisatan7771]

Now they wonder…. Yea🤣

[@ryanjones7681]

And get immediately friend zoned.. 😅

[@Viewable11]

"Sexy" refers to the body, "pretty" refers to the face, "beautiful" refers to the whole person which includes the mind, soul and heart.

[@christophermallett8166]

NEVER take dating advice from a woman. Case in point: "be honest when saying you were nervous about approaching us" Also women : ignores every nice guy that ever lived for complete a holes.

[@Allyourneedsmet]

If she does that, her level of understanding is very low. That'd be a turkey flag. Just move on, you won't die if she isn't in your life, it'd pain but you'd learn from it and therefore be OK.

@@Allyourneedsmet If she does that... she does... it's almost every woman out there. Evolutionary pressures have never applied to women, so there hasn't been growth the same way

[@thepowerlies]

It's kinda the same as "Just be nice"

[@Fyrecide]

There's a difference between confidently stating that you were nervous and owning that, and being a doormat. Most "nice guys" fall into the latter, more often than not. Being nice doesn't mean you're valuable.

[@SkytaStyle]

​@@Fyrecide I think this statement will change soon, more and more people are not being nice at all and you can already see people wondering "where are the good people? Why everyone so mean/selfish?" Being nice is going to be rare faster than we think

[@christophermallett8166]

So basically, women expect men to be a gentleman without having to act like a lady. Got it.

[@fussel895]

@@n.vanh.7666 no shit

@@n.vanh.7666 Actually ww2 there were less men, so they had control for a short bit. Then women became stay at home, giving them controls of the wallets... and then feminism had full ownership of society to force it's way.

[@thepowerlies]

It's that idea that men should be traditional like before, but they were traditional to their family before not to a random date

[@thePraddagee]

I’d rather die alone than suffer that dude in the white shirts fate lol

[@chrisn2125]

He’s in for a world of hurt...the train is already headed down the tracks.

[@thePraddagee]

@@chrisn2125 They might stay together forever. It’s been 8 years. But he’s subject to her rules and her happiness. He has to listen to everything she says and the hierarchy trickles down from her. She’s the head and wears the pants. It’s a real beta position of happy wife, happy life and although I wouldn’t wish that on any man, some men only know that one way to live their lives and are content with it. They don’t know any other way to fit in the system.

[@richd5476]

That kid defines beta...

[@ajanilynx]

😂

[@JahsonnM313]

SIMP BOSS

[@marhaus117]

Your intelligence comes across in the questions you ask. Congrats bro you're a genius. Keep doing these videos I really enjoy them and the double standards make me laugh.

[@djdarryl01]

I love the way these girls bulldoze straight into a answer and then look stupid when they realise they’ve just contradicted themselves. This channel is doing gods work!!

[@thepowerlies]

It's even better when they are alone

[@johnd.7601]

The reason women don't tend to ask a guy out is because women are not used to rejection in a relationship. It would crush her ego if a guy rejected her like women reject men.

[@pooptrainconductor815]

the guy in the white shirt is the Sauron of simps.

[@chrisn2125]

Yup!

[@leonelhernandez220]

Fuck! You really think his girl respects this fool? Do what ever she says. GTFO

[@Allyourneedsmet]

🤣 Man said sauron, tf!.

[@omariparker3769]

Sauron of simps!?!?! BAHAHHAHAAH!!!! Standing ovation, sir

[@hittkid6312]

So he has the Ring of Doormat? cause he definitely don't have any power.

[@funnymoney3148]

Daffy duck in the white shirt been holding L's for at least 8 yrs 😂😭

[@ctg5679]

That dudes a mega simp

[@IAM_GodKing]

More Like All His Life Lol

[@deltrondc]

@@ctg5679 he is the simp God

[@1MVEntGlobal]

Looooool serious simpanzee

[@jakic91]

He is Simpus Maximus and he’s come to challenge Derick Jaxn for the king of simps title

[@MicMaine]

Contradiction everywhere. Great job exposing it!

[@infiniteawareness69]

Yes everyBODY is a walking contradiction. It’s called nature lol

[@redcloth6073]

Men only want one thing: Peace 🙌🏻

[@OrdinaryJoe12]

women want war, for fun

[@treacherousjslither6920]

A wise woman once said: "Men are like floor tiles. Lay them well and you can walk all over them."

[@p.j._staten]

Sounds like a feminist

[@treacherousjslither6920]

@@p.j._staten If you think with your dick, you give women power over you. I'm an egalitarian. Not a feminist. But think what you want.

[@b1akn3ss93]

"How do you hit on a guy" Her: Does something she would criticize a man for doing...

[@Thespokenone]

Women don't see vulnerability as a weakness because they are afforded that by society.

[@chrisn2125]

1000%

[@a_passing_cloud]

It’s interesting that so many women “agree” with you when you’re just asking questions.

[@Waterbug1591]

That's because he isn't giving them any answers, he's making them think to agree with their own interpretation of reality to those questions.

[@J040PL7]

Sometimes he triggers their logical brain to function for a fraction of a second, its a very rare event and its great that its caught in camera since it goes away, never to be seen again.

[@thepowerlies]

@@Waterbug1591 But he kinda has to dumb it down to them (even the obvious stuff)

[@grantsoma8324]

The guy in the white t is KING OF THE SIMPS !!!!!!!!!

[@m8fright]

@@kiyathomas good joke

[@Biggt957]

Absolutely

[@RAimotion]

100%

[@Dreamdancer11]

Even his "goldchain" is a karens necklace.........

[@thepowerlies]

@@Dreamdancer11 That looked super weird on him

[@kemshreddy]

18:51 exactly why the divorce rate is 60% & 73% where I live in California. Love is not unconditional, it’s an emotion that can be changed, gained or lost in the exact same day do to a conditional action. Definitely been dooped. The term unconditional love literally makes no sense. Everything has conditions whether people want to admit it or not.

[@thepowerlies]

I feel like that is such a one-sided term

[@DontYouHatePants]

The ONLY unconditional love a man will experience from a woman will be from his mom.

[@rlouis215]

This is an awesome channel it’s real discussion no red pill no feminists just real convo

[@peteryu4353]

I just found this channel and I can't stop watching these videos

[@ramacass108]

It’s all about authenticity, If you can fake that, you are golden.

[@BEASTNYC]

she said when you are in love - you show all the flaws, weaknesses etc.... but also when you are not in love you show it all.... because you don't care about the person you share this info with.... and you just share everything.... meaning again, this whole thing doesn't make any sense... Here what Love means - you do everything to please the other person, and never ask anything back, you do everything because you want to do it and it makes you happy, and you don't expect anything in return... completely unconditional love - with zero conditions - this is what the Love is

[@FractalPrism.]

no thats obedience. unconditional love invites chaos, it shows you wont hold them accountable for being a terrible person. LOVE really means "consistently good behavior", its not a phrase you can say, its a way of being.

[@kubasniak]

And that kind of love can be only given by parents and you're lucky if you get that. There are also different love languages. Love between strangers is ALWAYS conditional. No such thing as unconditional. Those are lies. Fantasy. Stop delusions.

[@theimmortal4718]

If that's love to you, you're going to get used

[@theelaffingman8776]

No accountable women were seen in this film. LOL.

[@supalegendary1313]

Also, no respect for men.

[@thepowerlies]

I think tho woman in sunglasses was pretty chill tho

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

Watching this channel, Ana Preach and Kevin Samuels has Proven that women are lost. Lots of their answers are just empty words that contradicts what they previously said. He always gets them with a gotcha. Amazing.

[@loveaboveall2382]

I thank the good Lord that I found your channel. I've been asking these same questions for years, and I'm glad to see someone with a platform is asking these questions!! Bro KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!!!

[@rageraptor7127]

Life would be so much easier if women weren’t so complicated. And actually just asked men out without being hypocritical about stuff like rejection and double standards on shyness.

[@realghxst349]

Love how this dude says '"Interesting" and just keeps it moving

[@tubab1]

This video just popped up on my feed and the interviewer asked 80% of the types of questions that I have asked women many times in the past....Good job man! Great channel. 👏🏿🙏🏾👊🏾

[@thecurrentmoment]

KZbin knows you well...

[@Allyourneedsmet]

@@thecurrentmoment 😂

[@thepowerlies]

@@thecurrentmoment sus

[@darbyohara]

And how did the women answer when you asked them?

[@soup-nazi6824]

Double standards everywhere so it's no wonder men are losing interest in marriage & long term relationships.

[@CasualGamerJay]

"Authenticity is more important than confidence" Proceeds to describe confidence to a T😂

[@silenthashassin8912]

@0:48 Man's speaking about communication, she proceeds to check her phone and not pay attention to what's in front of her. The greatest screen writer couldn't make this scene anymore perfect.

[@rbfarrell1]

Women want men to chase because chasing is harder. Men need to ask them out and who ever asks is the one that needs to pay. So women take no risk at all. Great for them.

[@thepowerlies]

It's not just the asking out. You are "supposed to" plan it out too and keep her entertained the entire time

[@bangeldj]

"Maybe you are meant to be with them later on down the road." Aka When I've wasted my best years trying to lock down the man that doesn't want to and have a child or two and I need that 'nice guy' to step up and be a 'real man' as she don't give you nearly everything she gave the others.

[@wesleycristman3278]

Aka break glass in case of emergency “Beta Bob” 🔨 🆘 🚨

[@Grimmwalt]

I been binging these videos and I find it really funny that so many of these women say "eye contact is a go" how many people do you randomly and awkwardly lock eyes with through out the day? There's this weird notion of like "if our eyes meet then we were destined" trope crap. It shows that the positivity or negativity of any interaction with a woman depends entirely on her level of attraction to you

[@thepowerlies]

It's really hard to tell between "I'm interested in you" or "free drink" when it comes to eye contact

[@disco4535]

12:31 "they only want one thing." What else does a woman have to offer a successful man?

[@yoooyoyooo]

I would sure take another thing also, but I need go get that somewhere else my self.

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Or any man really lol

[@lowabstractionlevel3910]

The two girls with the golf hats were well spoken and sounded like geniuses compared to many others we have seen in this channel. Props to them.

[@inserter400]

That boy is so wrong , You never give a woman what she wants, you give her what she needs !

[@turdferguson8704]

This is my new favorite channel.

[@presidentialkingdom2201]

Trust me.

[@fennactiv8984]

Mate you have genius level questions 😂👍🏿 Love the content.

[@gregbrancwash]

You ask the most thought provoking RP questions. The sphere is on fire!

[@spearshaker7974]

That cackle when she says happy wife happy life. 🥶

[@martinemil2221]

You earned my subscribe by this video--thanks

[@FractalPrism.]

"look at me and my pimp nrg, i take care of my woman's needs and buy her everything b4 she even knows she needs it!, that's what my mama told me, always listen to the girl! -white shirt bro na fam....thats big SIMP nrg.

[@MYVIEWSMYVOICE]

Bro thats literally simping 101 like etf does that even make sense

[@abimbolaademola-aleem9463]

sounds like a slave to me lol

[@j-us-t_be-in-g]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Feber2001]

"It's scary to be vulnerable but it's worth it." NO

[@tomarkocharity7017]

Buddy in the white t shirt simpin hard!

[@Kellxrated]

These videos really timeless. Love what you doing here with these. Great choice of genre for sure

[@stevenreber1887]

Please keep your content going!! Your questions are so insightful. Maybe people can wake up and realize that society has screwed a lot of things up in relationships. Let’s change that!!

[@MrSheduur]

nice end, but I think its not scary when someone knows all your insecurities and flaws and they STILL want to be with you despite these, because they like you for who you are. That is liberating.

[@andrewd5135]

its very rare to find someone like that tho, people these days tend to write you off pretty quick so you may not even get to that point of reveling your true self.

[@941zeke]

13:20 Is the biggest contradiction i've heard. Binging these videos instead of studying

[@visualstoryteller1014]

She is not respecting lmao

[@Supersonicszor]

I just want to say, you have some really good questions. Keep it up!

[@cfigueroa2011]

This is my first video from you. Your question style is the coolest I've ever seen on youtube.

[@IISourAyyII]

10:00 the interview is hitting the interviewee hard in the chest as she's processing the info they are talking about, this is genius work

[@rvan2814]

I came from your link on Facebook, thanks for the indication. Support! 🤠🤝

[@lm3729]

I love all these interviews. I like how you are making people really reflect. I suppose the unfortunate part is when they are too drunk. Not only are they incoherent, but I’m not so sure the self reflection will be remembered the next day.

[@general111ful]

That DAWG at 18:33... Praise the balls he carries!

[@johndawhale3197]

LOL !!!

[@Allyourneedsmet]

It's complicated

[@thepowerlies]

HE just didn't care that there was a camera

[@MattyGears1583]

💀💀💀💀

[@Brendan656]

If she's not attracted to you she'll treat you like a fan if you call her beautiful anyway. Never just give compliments to them if they're not attracted to you. All that is, is an ego boost

[@dervon9526]

I’d give small compliments that are about her outfit or hair but not you’re beautiful or blah blah blah

[@marigi2013]

Just like holding too tightly, someone who’s afraid to loose control. At times it’s like I don’t know what their expecting of me.

[@HumbleHurricane]

4:16 her head movement was her answer

[@c.k.4883]

If a guy comes up to a woman and says that they're sexy or hot, it's pretty obvious that he wants to have sex with the woman. That is being genuine imo. Cause they're clearly making it known their intentions. Guys will tell women all the time that they're beautiful in an effort to not come off as a creep or a perv to get a woman's guard down but at the end of the day the motive is still the same; to have sex with the woman. You can't necessarily gauge a person's sincerity just based off the approach. That's extremely counterintuitive. Remember "Never judge a book by it's cover" plays well into a situation like that

[@TV-cv1eb]

Women being the prize comes from our history of nomadic hunter gatherer tribes. Back then women were the crafters and builders. They'd make tools and repair clothing and prepare the food while the men would be the collectors of the food. Having a women, and especially multiple women in your family/unit reflected on you and your skills as a hunter as you are capable of feeding thel

[@TheGr8-1]

Nah. Women have always been the reward or award for the man after having accomplished something. ‘To the victor goes the spoils.

[@TV-cv1eb]

@@TheGr8-1 yes, and what I said explains why they originally became a reward

[@VonGoldfinger]

Nope. That’s not true. Women played marginal roles prior to agriculture being invented (by a woman). They were never the prize: the chief huntsman that lead every hunt to feed his whole village: he was the prize. Hollywood started to spin this Princess shit, that’s where things went south.

[@okaySam]

@@VonGoldfinger Facts.

[@thepowerlies]

@@VonGoldfinger It's always Hollywood involved in something

[@curtish5925]

I found a book on how to understand women , but the pages were all blank

[@Firm_letter9Gaming]

Good one bro lol

[@chrisvandeventer513]

I found one that rewrote itself as I was reading it...similar to an Orwellian novel but absolutely thought it was describing a "genuine" utopia...

[@TheGr8-1]

‘My mom always told me’ what did your father say, son?

[@whythis28]

He's drunk unfortunately...

[@whythis28]

@hodl XRP He's in Vegas. I'm pretty sure he's intoxicated.

[@Pssst.ByTheWay]

Those 2 girls with the tennis caps. Unbelievably based If you show a woman vulnerability and she bounces she was for the streets anyway Though I will admit that sticking with anyone through a prolonged tough period is the stuff that dreams are made of and if I’m honest guys will tend to do that more than women and that is a tragedy.

[@marcozaccagni1813]

"just be confident, bro!"

[@davidalen9279]

You ask good question. Bravo.

[@jcIsInURHouse]

If its reasonable to say that men only want one thing can it be reasonable to say that women want everything?

[@thepowerlies]

😁

[@G34RH34D]

"Some men have good virtues" comes from a girl who most dated guys who didn't. Just like the women who say "all men are jerks". Because they've dated nothing but jerks and they have the audacity to generalize all men. They never take accountability on their poor choices in life. It's our fault.

[@J040PL7]

Confidence is the virtue between arrogance and self doubt.

[@randomnessunleashed12]

who thought they would find themselves binge on his videos after finding the channel. I for one definitely did not.

[@kainanguerra5245]

"why women did not grow up hearing to respect man" "because we are so much more intelligent, we dont need to hear that" okay

[@NephariusAMG]

Happy spouse happy house. I LOVE that.

[@witchwarlock]

This is amazing content

[@frankbatista]

We have a serious issue with proper communication. If they think the way they talk, there’s not a lot going on up there.

[@rantrakkanto1029]

absolutley agreed, most people think that speaking like a half retarded getto warrior is somehow cool but it is just pretentious and disgusting.

[@user-pf7jv8sv8w]

18:35, look at this man trynna get a sneak peek.

[@svcd7766]

It would be very interesting if you did a video demonstrating the process of coming up the questions

[@meronepal8036]

15:22 he just called him whipped and he didn't even know 🤣

[@ferociousgeo2497]

“Have you ever experimented with a other woman?” Her: no “Hmmm interesting”

[@JackBlack-eu9tm]

Glad 2 see there's still some reasonable people out there

[@sloebone7399]

Approach us, pay for everything and meet our list of requirements.... why can’t I meet a good guy?

[@adonnisblac4427]

White boy in the white t shirt overdosed on blue pills

[@jrr7031]

"Drunk tongue seaks a sober mind"

[@chrisn2125]

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@Allyourneedsmet]

🤣 🤣 Shi.

[@gothxm]

Lmfao the girl at 0:58 is rolling 🤣

[@deltrondc]

i subscribed this channel today,i like this video

[@newyorksbeerreviews1280]

Cheers to the guy by himself in the background at 2:24. I would have a beer with this lad.

[@sharpfamily4938]

That Eminem-wannabe guy is CONFUSED 😕.. His points: 1. Listen to the women, let them lead you. 2. Give women whatever they want when they ask. 3. Give women what they want before they ask. 4. Don't give women what they need, make them "work" for it. 5. Avoid gold-diggers 🤔

[@CosmicQJ]

😂😂😂😂

[@JoachimPersonalAccount]

Beautiful episode

[@beast_0073]

Your content are good man👍👍

[@vuton7670]

opening doors for women?! That's toxic masculinity!

[@spspates3221]

I’ve been watching all of your videos, women are crazy asf

[@Lucidus_]

Second girl rolling fr fr

[@Mr_Porter]

I've been binging the shit out of these videos. Logical arguments are like junk food to me VERY addictive. However, some of these people (guys and girls) are frustrating to listen to. I applaud the interviewer for his patience.

[@lueysixty-six7300]

You should sound bite that lady saying "it's complicated" and drop it into your intro...BAM!

[@nxthgbutgemz]

The white guy with the t shirt is jarring, he doesn’t even know what he is talking about

[@abstraqtphilosophy7357]

that boy is sinking deep in the Simp Ocean

[@jeffcajou76]

The man literally contradicts himself every sentence.

[@vonmadeit7395]

And his boys backing him up is super cringe

[@useyourwords3286]

They're drunk

[@johnholmes6897]

That poor guy. 8 years of being a simp. Has to be hard. I'm sure he thinks he's happy but once he stops getting her everything he'll see his Worth to her.

[@seipher_8334]

That guy in the white T-shirt won the simp 2022 award

[@yoink128ify]

All I'm hearing is women break rules for guys they want and make rules for guys they're so-so on.