EXPOSING Matty Healy (Taylor Swift's OFFENSIVE and TOXIC Boyfriend)

#TaylorSwift is receiving some heat for her new fling with #MattyHealy ... so let's get into it.
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[@Cici-jv8ln]

You must be shadow ban as of just a few days ago I'm subscribed and you vids use to pop up first on my feed but now when I scroll I don't see any of your vids and if I do they are way down the list and are old vids from 1 yr or older.

[@dakotalev-sq4pp]

Now do Selena Gomez and her dating underage pop star whom she abused in 2009.

[@GinushJan]

Unpopular opinion: anyone dating non stop and not taking "alone time" or time gaps between one relationship and another, it's clearly not ok. At least, that person is afraid to be alone and needs to work on him/herself

[@ZaZaRaZarah]

I have to agree with your statement... In general that is true, but her last relationship did almost last 7 years. People keep forgetting/skipping that relationship...🤭😅

[@ZaZaRaZarah]

@@sanez25 Well yes. If she is now actually having a relationship that fast after a 7y relationship, I'm agreeing with you. I have in the past been guilty of hopping from 1 relationship to another. But now after a 10y relationship I'm staying single. I swear. I'm working on myself and enjoying time alone. I'm hoping this is all a publicity stunt and just a collab. If not, he's absolutely a rebound and it will not last.

[@gabrielavila1580]

That's not unpopular

[@kawaiibev]

Yessssss I’ve been saying this for the longest thank you.

[@breannastrickland2393]

That’s 100% true! I was a serial dater and when I learned to be with myself I really felt better

[@victoriab637]

Taylor's feminism only applies when it benefits her, the rest is performative.

[@tiedyema5539]

Hmmmm 🤔

[@truecrimechick]

🎯

[@jessicaredmond6770]

I’m a fan but this!!!!!!

[@phoenixluna4137]

Yes. She is so phony

[@Sadferretgirl]

Waiting for a video about THIS

[@sheridandy]

I think this just shows that Taylor isn’t as good as y’all think she is 🫢

[@princessmorebucks]

It's her. Hi, Taylor's the problem, it's her.

[@Ivan-0000]

And I assume you are? Oh ok. She never claimed to be a good person

[@janb92]

⁠@@Ivan-0000 you must be one of her fans…..

[@theeKPOPlover]

@@Ivan-0000 are you being intentionally dense? Taylor is a self proclaimed feminist who claims to be for queer people, women, marginalized minorities etc. She sings about "fuck the patriarchy" but goes and dates a guy who has said negative things about every other minority and women?????!!!! She presents herself as a good person and activist when she is not.

[@Ivan-0000]

@@janb92 duh!! And I assumed you guys weren't, isn't that how it works?

[@RuthieRobles]

We don’t know the REAL TAYLOR SWIFT. She’s a character and played her part but the Real her unknown. I know a lot of ppl love her but remember we don’t know what she believes and this NEW guy may be what Taylor is behind closed doors.

[@monilaninetynine3811]

Yes‼️

[@thirstaefortae5057]

Exactly. It’s a very carefully crafted public image. Remember before Trump and everyone calling her out to say something, she kept herself out of any political discussion. Which is actually fine to me but it shows she only comes out and does something when it affects her business.

[@thirstaefortae5057]

@@AfianyArkoasnow298 what are you even trying to say? Your comment makes no sense at all. No one is defending anyone. The original commenter and myself are just saying that celebrities only show you want they want you to see

[@__rm307]

Exactly!!

[@emmahagen2364]

makes me very sad bc i love her but its true

[@eurydicefiori865]

you would never date someone like him unless you also think like him 🤢

[@Vyndette]

And people are acting like she is clueless and making excuses for her… like… wake up?!?!?

[@eurydicefiori865]

@@Vyndette because they have the privilege to do so that the rest of us don't 😒

[@eurydicefiori865]

@@TheQuietStorm630 that girl could literally start a cvlt if she really wanted to because of how crazy her fans are 💀

[@Vyndette]

@@eurydicefiori865 real. If your first instinct after seeing your fav celeb do something bad is to defend, yeah… you’re taking the celeb life way too seriously. Celebs aren’t above criticism. Maybe your fav just isn’t who they say they are 😭

[@HaleySioleski]

Okay, I understand what you're saying, but what if the other person actually *doesn't* think the same? Like, what if the person is too 'in love' with (perhaps they didn't know about the person's past before getting with them and later found out) or has been manipulated by the other into staying in the relationship? Not saying it would be an excuse, by the way- just trying to bring up a point.

[@salazar556]

I've learned that Taylor is basically the friend who has horrible taste in men.

[@mona9008]

100%

[@kymitchell777]

forsure. she really wanted to marry Joe and spent over 6 years with him catering to him and waiting for him to pop a question he was never going to ask. she has an issue with men but that isn’t anything new. everyone has their vice and unfortunately this is taylor’s. it is something she seems to be very aware of though.

[@JuliaRosiexo]

The only men she got right were Harry Styles and Taylor Lautner

[@zappers8027]

@@ZionDoesMakeup Nobody said that, they are saying she is writing about her issues, where did you get that lmao

[@Lofilifer1]

@@pennybeckwith3005 he did Jennifer Aniston dirty too. John Mayer is a misogynist. Feel free to disagree, just my opinion.

[@clovergoddess]

Not Taylor Swift having a choke hold on us screaming " F the patriarchy" and than her literally turning around bowing down to it. Its disappointing but not surprising.

[@ISayMusicYouSayYes]

But you guys are the ones falling for what she says.

[@manders.]

Anyone can find themselves in a situation like this. People like him tend to put up a front to reel you in. I don't blame Taylor for falling for it.

[@cindyjune6490]

Well think of it this way, the song Taylor is going to write about him after they break up is probably going to be her best yet 🎉

[@owlstarot]

couse she has a bf shes bowing down to the “patriarchy” tf ??

[@Mia-gk6vl]

​@@owlstarot no, because she has a racist misogynistic one

[@theuglybeing4673]

If we hold Nicki Minaj accountable for who she's with then we should hold Taylor Swift to the same standard. She's a grown woman. No excuses

[@eny11]

Lmao first of all no comparison, he's not an convicted pedophile rapist and no one is canceling Nikki either, she took herself out of the game to raise her baby w that pos. He's the one sloan should make a vid for.

[@simplymonca9608]

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[@theuglybeing4673]

@@eny11 stop comparing. Both are bad people and should both be held accountable. Simple as that

[@tribecalledmaya]

what’s so funny- they are both sagittarius women lol can be delusional beyond reason within love.

[@youcametomychannelforthetruth]

@@tribecalledmaya zodiacs have nothing to do with reality and personalities. Grow up.

[@m.b.9916]

I like how he thought dating Taylor would be emasculating when in reality it’s his behavior that’s emasculating lmao. He sounds like a 14 year old boy in half of his interviews with the comments he makes.

[@wplants9793]

Yes, he is like a man baby

[@pagemastrogiovanni9195]

I was thinking he sounded more like a 10 year old. All the 14 year old boys I know (my son is 15) are way more mature than Matt Healy.

[@macewindu8093]

The emasculating comment was absolutely correct though. Most of Taylor’s boyfriends become just that, background characters in her own life, even after they break up.

[@MrsReign]

Matt is somewhat a nepo baby because his father's an actor (ofc more famous back in the day) and I think he was grown up privileged because of that. I only like a couple of songs from 1975 and used to be a fan but Matt's on stage presence gave me bad vibes. I also think he's got mental issues. Sloan confirmed my doubts.

[@stefrodriguez3017]

That was a stupid comment. For a long time I remember he was saying he had no preference and had a thing for men too. He’s more feminine than masculine anyway.

[@shapell4934]

“It must be exhausting, always rooting for the ani hero”

[@MandyAliens]

Umm ok

[@_alanawalker]

People who find being racist, sexist, problematic, and just an overall INCEL "edgy" are a huuuuge ick🤢

[@JediJuniper92]

Yeah :(((

[@Raelven]

Look up the definition of "performance art".

[@Anwawesome]

You can call Matty Healy all of those things EXCEPT for "incel" lmao him being in a relationship with Taylor Swift and him having been in relationships before automatically disqualifies him from being an "incel".

[@hayleys1260]

Incel is short for involuntarily celebate. This guy is anything but celebate. Might want to get your slurs right at least when you're virtue signalling.

[@saga960]

If you put it that way, then yes ick.

[@xzdollfacexz]

She’s grew up as an upper class white lady from Tennessee from age 10+, I’m not surprised this is the company she keeps. I’m sure her PR team has worked miracles to keep her image the way it’s been.

[@vinylpharm]

I know someone who graduated with her; he said she was arrogant and generally unpleasant. Her CMT father wanted to arrange a “graduation special,” to be filmed at their school, for the network, and almost everyone in their class boycotted the idea. They spend the big bucks on a good PR team

[@Tyrenexg]

@Simplylol Just like Matty also dated a teen when he was in his twenties, they’re right for each other❤

[@persidemesa]

@@ssks5Heard she dated Harry styles too.

[@Susiehighschool]

@@pennybeckwith3005she was talking about Taylor & Kennedy? Id like to watch ? Thanks!

[@s-1424]

@Simplylol wait what???

[@emiliarain7269]

She jumped from a six year relationship to a new boyfriend just like, snap! “I am madly in love again”

[@Henry_the_Frenchie]

That’s where we all know “SHE is the problem.”

[@lemon9171]

​@@Henry_the_Frenchieeven she admitted that😂

[@yutaloml989]

​@@lemon9171 didn't age well unfortunately

[@roomclip1356]

I've been side eyeing Taylor ever since she made that "Happy Women's History Month I guess" tweet where she got mad at the show Ginny & Georgia for their line 'slxt shaming' Taylor, but the second swifties started sending Antonia Gentry (the actress who plays Ginny) racist comments, death threats, etc., Taylor was radio silent. After that I realize how preformative she is, so her dating this greaseball doesn't surprise me at all. What surprises me is the fact that there are some people who actually find that dude attractive

[@thirstaefortae5057]

It‘s funny how she was so bothered 😂 I’ve seen cruder jokes directed at Leonardo Di Caprio and he takes it on the chin

[@pagemastrogiovanni9195]

Wow, I did not know that. Antonia went to same school as I did. It's a fine arts school. This is just messed up especially since Antonia is just an actress, she doesn't write the script for the show "Ginny & Georgia."

[@janetescalona6517]

I agree, just wait if they break up he WILL SPILL THE WHOLE BAG OF BEANS.....and shell go back under cover again

[@lavenderlatte13]

She’s been photographed with people having swatzikas, she’s performative and racist AF

[@natc5592]

Ikr

[@eliserenee4219]

Her being in a relationship with someone like that should speak volumes about the type of person she really is...

[@baileyinnarnia]

I know she doesn’t know me or care about me, but it feels like a genuine shock and betrayal to all of her fans that she sold her performative feminism and activism to. Now we know it really was an act all along.

[@felixmeow660]

She's never come across as genuine to me..I've always gotten the impression she's a high maintenance spoiled brat

[@sp0okyfae]

This!!!! And it's always "poor taylor"

[@shymecha]

Fr

[@Calebweasley]

Swifties better stop being blind to it!😂

[@ccrmag]

“Looks like Taylor’s has had a handful of toxic relationships” …What if Taylor was the toxic one tho?

[@winxclubstellamusa]

She is absolutely very toxic. She has always been a merciless victim-bully, and birds of a feather flick together.

[@adios-bitchachos]

I mean,Sloan didnt say she wasn't contributing any toxicity. Saying a *relationship* is toxic isn't putting the blame on one partner or the other. It's just acknowledging that the dynamic between 2 people was bad for whatever reason.

[@ccrmag]

@@adios-bitchachos thats true!

[@survivorbest4589]

She has had some toxic men in the past which werent her fault, but she also has done bad things in some of her relationships i believe.

[@jnmks]

she already explained that in her songs

[@overdoneskeleton]

I never understood why Taylor had an LGBT following at all tbh

[@roo5940]

I’d say the Lover era was responsible for a lot of that

[@Lettheflamesbeginx3]

Who some of her friends are (Todrick, Ellen, etc.), her beliefs, and her song (and video for) You Need to Calm Down

[@11jhurley]

@@Lettheflamesbeginx3 the two most toxic gays

[@Autumnnn_017]

​@@11jhurley LMFAO

[@redbitch3362]

​@@11jhurleymay I know what todrick did? I don't know them

[@butterfliesarefreetofly6964]

Matt was making racist comments but so were the other guys laughing . They had no qualms laughing about racist remarks. Shame on all 3 of them! And yes, very disappointed!!

[@EveningShowWithJeremiah]

They were obviously just joking. You don’t call someone a far Chinese lady one second and the literal next second call them a very attractive woman. They clearly were just making jokes, it doesn’t have to be your sense of humor to be humor or joke. You aren’t the standard and you don’t set it. I swear internet people live in their own delusional world, where they think they’re the most self righteous perfect people. People make jokes and remarks like this all the time, the average normal person, and no harm is done. Y’all just need to find a hobby,

[@username56565]

Matty didn’t make the joke, and you guys ate literally so slow y’all can’t understand that. Matty has a British accent… the person who said the joke doesn’t. If you, Sloan and everyone else who’s stuck up their asses you would know he doesn’t do half of what y’all say, embarrassing

[@Selllaur19]

All Matty said in that exchange was “ I don’t think they speak Chinese” do any of you even know his voice? My god he has a thick British accent the guys calling her chubby and everything else were AMERICAN accents

[@private9207]

@@EveningShowWithJeremiah The stuff about brutality-based pornography is not cool or acceptable. Any Male is certainly allowed to speak freely, but go ahead and try to talk about brutalizing women in any fashion around a Real One.... jokingly or serious around me and be at very serious risk of a physical altercation. The guys a chump and she deserve better. Plain and simple. You also don't do or emulate the Nazi-salute. That is beyond absurd. Nazi's have no place worldwide. Not calling him one, but the guys truly ignorant and understudied. #kjb #thechamp

[@Selllaur19]

@@sih3946 one more thing if you are worried about the little boys or whatever you said looking up to him or whatever well it was Shia LeBeouf who actually assaulted FKA Twigs.(sexually,physically and mentally)Matty and FKA were together from 2020 to 2022. Did he hurt her? Hell no but you want to constitute some jokes said by American podcasters with Matty on the show as equal to that? Get for real. Matt rife tells more controversial jokes than that.

[@Vyndette]

Taylor preaching so many things and then dating someone like this… disappointed but not surprised

[@scionixx9568]

She’s just as bad as the ppl she bitches about. Hypocrite

[@user-lo9gl6xg4y]

not surprised at all 😂

[@Elowai]

Why isn’t it surprising? I don’t follow TS at all and am curious. Her PR team has made her look so clean!

[@manders.]

Anyone can find themselves in a situation like this. People like him tend to put up a front to reel you in. I don't blame Taylor for falling for it.

[@user-lo9gl6xg4y]

@@Elowai i mean the same thing is happening to billie eilish as well it’s very sad

[@ISayMusicYouSayYes]

If Taylor is dating him, she is agreeing with and thinks like him. Taylor plays that "innocent and sweet" lady pretty well.

[@sherihenderson772]

yup

[@yespls4184]

This is an incredibly dumb comment

[@benshapiro11]

@@empath3133 how do you know? did she tell you that 😂

[@SmartStart24]

People are going to tip-toe around this but it’s so true. I’ve broken up with guys I actually enjoyed because I found out the racist, sexist and problematic shit they’ve said.

[@nicolledesire.a]

@@empath3133 she did say "I want to be defined by the things I love" at the end of Daylight

[@EssenceEtienne]

Y’all so delulu. Taylor is someone that would date him. Her fans are delusional lmfao. This comes from a former swiftie

[@theeKPOPlover]

She has always been like this, it is surfacing now. It is hard to keep up that act for so long, she slipped up.

[@EughhBrothereughh]

Delulu lmaoo ex swiftie too sadly

[@Calebweasley]

Omg yes same..

[@fgcfelice]

I feel like she could have anyone, so choosing someone like this is so disgusting

[@ARenae1]

Yess!!!! Your comment should be top tierd

[@Holmnielsen-]

yeah she could have pulled someone who is at least handsome

[@dovestone_]

I mean doesn’t that say a lot about her?

[@dovestone_]

@iClipsy well I’m closer with my bf than anyone else in the world and certainly wouldn’t be with someone who had morals like healey Also you choose romantic partners you can’t choose family

[@persidemesa]

@@iclipsy9119Did she have to date a racist/misogynist? I don’t think so. Nobody placed a gun to her head.

[@DemonChildNicoRobin2.0]

She’s almost 34! When DOES she become at least PART of the problem??? I think everyone has allowed her to be this victim for so long that she has never been able to mature fully, at least since she was a younger adult; early 20s. She hid her romance with Joe A for SIX years, guys! She’s intentionally having paps catch her with Marty and her girl gang , etc. to hurt Joe. Who knows what REALLY happened between them (Joe & Taylor) but I’m def not getting victim vibes from the way she’s moving and presenting herself. And I do actually like some of Taylor’s music and I think she adorable…….but. I stand by what I said/feel. Lol

[@CantonGirl1981]

I aim to not surround myself with crappy/problematic people. It’s not that hard.

[@haleytruslow7200]

Exactly.

[@daniellefoster7569]

It really is not

[@bhargavipba]

If she really believed in what she preached, she won't be able to stomach being around someone like him. This is something we can all relate to.

[@itskashkashi]

Yeah even if they aren't actually dating, it seems they've been friends for years.

[@Little_Duck_]

I feel like Taylor is attracted to really toxic people and is that kind of person that when she is in love, her beliefs are flying out of the window. I feel sorry for her, I think she needs therapy tbf

[@jenijive3319]

Why is nobody talking about the fact that dating Taylor Swift is going to be a circle of hell on its own, and its probably what he deserves?

[@flamingaish]

go tend to your kids lil

[@seyimajek]

If he ends up being a horrible boyfriend to her then she better keep that ish to herself! Because we all know that she's going to do a little breakup song about how he broke her heart, expecting people to care about that. When she doesn't care that he has hurt so many people in different communities with his bigotry.

[@princessriahyokai]

Very true

[@rosalina2773]

He was (maybe still is?) a hardcore drug addict for years. By his own admission it was so bad that his band almost broke up because they couldn’t deal with it anymore. And his band mates are literally his childhood friends. If he could be so disrespectful to his oldest and closest friends, I would not be surprised if he was the same to his girlfriends.

[@olviyapalwey]

this aged well

[@laladidas]

Y'all think Taylor swift is actually who she is publicly? 🤔 I don't think so

[@blackfyre_]

I never knew Matty was this gross. Always digged his band, but finding out how he is as a person, this is disgusting. Thank you for spreading awareness Sloan ♥️

[@Gnomesmakemesmile]

What did he say that was gross?

[@meowgan5454]

​@@Gnomesmakemesmile ok swiftie

[@sarahmaya3255]

@@meowgan5454 no actually, I never heard about the porn thing, but everything else in this video is being taken out of context

[@stargazeranemiac]

He’s not a bad person. He’s a recovering heroin and cocaine addict. He is now sober in recovery and changing his life. People need to understand that addicts do things they normally wouldn’t when they are using…

[@__rm307]

@@Gnomesmakemesmile seriously? I’ve only watch 13 seconds and he’s already said a bunch of offensive things 😭 calling ice spice a “chubby Chinese lady”? So weird. Reminds me of high schoolers back in the day thinking it was hilarious to get peoples’ ethnicities + names wrong.

[@BL-dt7rw]

I am glad the comment section is still with people with good morality and not blinded by fanaticism.

[@badabing661]

Same

[@persidemesa]

Completely agree.

[@rovanajean9550]

Typical SLOAN comment section lol, they know their deal

[@simbuck-sq6hr]

Got a friend who worked backstage for these guys, she said it was weird bc matt pretends to be drunk on-stage

[@carrington2949]

I think that is the uk male version of a baby voice.

[@jibeson9145]

So did Dean Martin

[@katherinejimenezmatos2009]

Honestly, the company we keep is a reflection of who we are soo...if she chose to associate with this dude that says more about her than him 🤮

[@HaleySioleski]

I mentioned this in another comment saying something very similar to yours, but what if the other person actually doesn't think the same? Like, what if the person is too 'in love' with (perhaps they didn't know about the person's past before getting with them and didn't find out until later) or has been manipulated by the other into staying in the relationship? But yeah, I totally understand what you're saying here. And honstly I do feel like Taylor should dump his ass.

[@theeKPOPlover]

@@HaleySioleski The thing is that they have been friends for some time before this, so how does she not know of what he did and what he is like??? He also dated Halsey, a good friend of hers and he treated her really badly...so what does that say about Taylor...

[@Rahnstahp]

@@HaleySioleskihe’s famous and I’m SURE Taylor swift of all people vets people before dating them.. simple google search would suffice

[@aimforlifenow]

@@HaleySioleski Taylor is not as naive as you're trying to make her out to be. Trust me, she is FULLY aware of the company she keeps lmao.

[@awhimsyreader9015]

​@@HaleySioleskiShe was friends with him for 10 years also Taylor's way to smart to not do background checks on the people she hangs out with and and mind you this is the same woman who wrote "stalked you on the internet" as a lyric and she's shown consistently that she's online enough to know what her fans are saying so theirs literally no excuse for her to not have known he was a bigot

[@karinaleach2090]

She already has a new man?! This woman moves on way too quick 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@zinafarias6160]

Damn she never stays single...it's not a moral thing but how can you connect with so many people? What about take time to heal? I think she is a good person but always ends with the bad guys (like me😂)

[@HaleySioleski]

Yeah, Taylor should just stay single for a while.... She gets into relationships too fast imo

[@monilaninetynine3811]

She might be like J. Lo, who is incapable of being single and just relationship hops because she can't stand to be alone.

[@91clarie]

​@@cakt1991 which is pretty sad for a grown woman in her 30s. She acts like she's still in her teens/early 20s tops. It's embarrassing. She's a brilliant lyricist but she seems to be incredibly immature.

[@flamingaish]

​@@91clarie who are you to decide that? so misogynistic, you're just like matty, being subtle about it won't do anything Claire

[@Maiden_to_mother]

Taylor Swift has never sat right with me. Something has always felt extremely fake and faulty about her. You have to be a certain kind of person to date the men that she does. Who she is in the real world is not the person she pretends to be through her music. And I mean, whatever, music is music and you can sing about whatever you want. BUT, Taylor has always portrayed a very specific message in both her music and to her fans. She portrays confidence and self worth, but she dates the most degrading and disgusting men on the market.

[@Sufferingsassafrass]

Jake Gyllenhal is degrading and disgusting?

[@magical-soap5359]

That's another thing, I remember Lorde sh*tting on Selena Gomez for not being a "real artist" but is still friends with Taylor Swift though. Are they (Lorde and Taylor) alike in the wrong ways, as in like attracts like??

[@stefrodriguez3017]

I’m glad more people are waking up to this. The fame got to her head, she plays the part of “nice girl” well enough to fool naive individuals that have never experienced real life.

[@gdesiree29]

​@@stefrodriguez3017 now I see why selena and Taylor are friends

[@extraordinarypictures2875]

Yeah, especially when she’s now a thirty something year old woman. It’s like you can’t play the innocent card…

[@lovelyA933]

Taylor just can't be by herself it seems, it's almost like she is constantly running away from herself by getting into relationhip after relationship. No wonder those relationships never last, she isn't taking the time to get to know herself and instead victimizes herself in every failed relationship, ironically failing to see where the root problem lies. But I guess victimizing yourself in breakup songs that hint at celebrities and keeps fans guessing is making her bank, so she is not going to stop anytime soon, she hit the jackpot there!

[@Lady.Fern.]

Ding ding ding

[@chloepataille4912]

Period

[@ukmary1968]

She stays in toxic relationships

[@rovanajean9550]

Well at least she's self aware regarding Taylor Lautner and Tom Hiddleston 😂

[@EchelonPandora]

She probably has borderline personality disorder

[@literarypotatogoblin]

Thank you for covering this, Sloan. We have to hold people like this accountable, especially when we cancel performers like Brendon Urie for doing/saying far less. We can't make excuses for this guy just because he's dating Taylor.

[@Holmnielsen-]

what did Brendon Urie do?

[@Jackalope9505]

@@Holmnielsen-came here to ask the same lol

[@DrT0705]

Wait, what? Is that the lead singer of The Killers? What did he do? I can't keep up with who is problematic and cancelled atp 😭

[@riveramnell143]

@@Jackalope9505 Me too. What did Brendan Urie do??

[@DemonChildNicoRobin2.0]

Answers pls

[@imamirrorballxo]

i’m rlly disappointed as a poc swiftie :// i have always held taylor up as an example of an intersectional feminist and defended her w my whole heart. but i cannot deny it anymore, she’s rlly just performative.

[@tcrijwanachoudhury]

Stop worshiping people like they're gods smh

[@jenniferb9506]

She's in so many toxic relationships because SHE'S TOXIC! If you keep finding yourself in the same situation it can't be literally everyone else! It's you! She's with him because she likes that isht! That's who she is. She just puts out a financially lucrative face! Duh.

[@larissacastellan]

omg thank you, I had no idea that he's a bad person 😢

[@elizabetharaujo1323]

Same. I'm starting to dislike most celebs I used to bc of their awful behavior. It makes you realize you can't idolize these people.

[@janb92]

I just assume every celebrity is awful behind the scenes now smh

[@larissacastellan]

@@elizabetharaujo1323 me too, I'm glad I'm being brought to light about them, but I'm also sad

[@larissacastellan]

@@janb92 me too 🥺 it's so disappointing

[@magical-soap5359]

I'm letdown too, what is up with these people?? 😬😬

[@thekimcat4259]

Love you Sloan! I’m sure you’ve gotten millions of messages about it but it was so exciting seeing you on the h3 Podcast last night!!! You deserve all of the positive feedback that you’re getting don’t ever give up you really really really help me and I love the podcast. It is incredible. I love your honesty and your openness and your sweetness and I see a lot of myself in you I just haven’t gotten to the success that you have gotten to but you’re consistency to make amazing content and help expose real truths especially after facing personal hardships is so inspiring you are so important n I’m so glad I supscribed been here since ur start!

[@anyaobrien811]

I got cussed out by him before, at one of his shows, I had to open the exit door to the bathroom and he stop his speech to call me and my friend out. Saying fu** you guys are lame. Honestly I had to go my bladder was going to burst I already waited an hour. After the bathroom we were embarrassed and just went home after that, instead of going back to the concert. He acts so entitled, bratty, and doesn’t give a damn.

[@jessjess23brooks89]

​​@@pennybeckwith3005 He's barely relevant now.

[@91clarie]

​@trvs his mother is a disgusting reality TV starlet too. The whole family has zero class.

[@HereComesKarma]

@@benjaminmarshall1068 nope. Never relevant to people with class bro

[@yuyukit]

​@@jessjess23brooks89 i'm afraid he's now as relevant as he hasn't been since like 2013-16 tumblr era. mainly because of ts but still

[@geez5519]

Hi Sloan hope you’re taking time for yourself, resting and healing ❤ love your videos, don’t stop pursuing what you love!

[@TuckerDman]

Grow up she's 34 frickin years old

[@shivendetta3801]

I love seeing how creative your watchers are! It's such a nice treat to watch you open mail.

[@meowgan5454]

Dont let Taylors friendly looking smile and soft voice fool you.

[@jescareno8332]

@trvs no she isn’t, and she isn’t really dating him. It’s a PR relationship

[@oneel3859]

@@catherinegrace2366 really 😂

[@virgo_things]

​@@jescareno8332This is a terrible PR move

[@rovanajean9550]

​@@jescareno8332 there's a ton of people and she or her PR team chose him 💀 ?

[@jescareno8332]

@trvs it didn’t taint her image, I’m a swiftie and Im a fan of her for her music. I could care less who she dates, she’s a grown woman she can do what she wants. Dating someone doesn’t define taylor swift. She’s still kind hearted woman and the celebrity who donates the most money to LGBT community and charity. Im not going to be crying about her bc she’s dating a “problematic” person

[@frankenfurterr3432]

shes probably no better than him sadly, if shes associating with someone like him

[@jess-yf1wv]

Why does the ice spice/Chinese clip SCREAM middle school conversation. You cannot hear anything other than bits and pieces between loud laughing about nothing

[@sarah_j_t]

He is clearly in the relationship to raise his profile. Despite his mum talking about him everyday on her daytime TV show in the UK, this relationship has pushed him to another level. Why she's in it though is anyone's guess. He's awful

[@__rm307]

He’s a nepo baby?

[@sarah_j_t]

@@__rm307 yes. His mum is a TV presenter/actor and his dad is an actor.

[@doomnoises]

Yeah I’ve never really been interested in who he is and now I’m here 😐 it’s working and I’m not even a swifty

[@dovestone_]

@@__rm307 his mum is like a c list celebrity in the U.K.

[@MissOrchid12]

Yeah his mum's annoying. She seems like a desperate attention seeker herself.

[@s.mcqueen8149]

You are the friends you keep. Taylor Swift isn’t the angel her fans think she is.

[@xBlackBunnyx]

This isnt surprising. What is surprising is the fact that these celebrity girls know who these men are and what their track record is and still decide to have a relationship and act like people shouldnt think they're just like the individuals they choose to date. It is what it is.

[@Anonymous-cs5ui]

"Either he's not as bad as we think or she's not as good as we think"

[@itsoktonotbeokay]

Unfortunately I never knew about all this stuff, thoroughly disappointing. Love how you expose and shed light on these freaking weirdos!!! Thank you as always Sloan 🤝🏻

[@booklover7540]

I love Taylor and her music, but this isn‘t okay. I know that sometimes we can‘t control who we fall in love with or who we like. I know that very well, BUT if my boyfriend stands for all this I will run as fast I can!

[@oh_whateva]

yeah, Taylor's massive downgrade :( after all this preaching about loving yourself, this sexist, racist, and misogynist creature happened. I hope she will dump him soon. 🙏🏻

[@nia-oc4uo]

And we will dump her

[@Calebweasley]

@@nia-oc4uo hell yeah😂

[@jerimacdonald7577]

What exactly does Taylor see in him ???🤔

[@_._B.]

Herself

[@owlstarot]

hes a musician and she seems to like british guys so

[@susieleonard9894]

An exotic std…

[@bryanna4548]

@@_._B. I screamed 😂😂😂. The accuracy.

[@YourMom_._.]

Might be good in bed

[@lindsryan1087]

He actually used to be a very heavy drug user.

[@CatalinaFOIA]

Yes, H was his DOC

[@soysaucehairdye7869]

Heavy drug users usually don't just get clean and live a sober life. Look at what happened to the best singer of our generation, Jonny Craig. He would constantly get back into using H and get his girlfriends addicted to it as well. He would manipulate them by essentially saying, 'do this last hit with me and this will be the last time I ever do this drug.' They then would become addicts and he would continue abusing H without a concern that he turned his girlfriend into a junkie. Matty Healy is less talented and more of a douche than Jonny Craig, so nothing would surprise me with him.

[@treehuggerchach1024]

best thing about him

[@awesomeyeahroxs]

Oh no poor baby! he gets a free pass to be an awful human being!

[@SotaBoy4232]

Who tf is Johnny Craig?? All y'all acting "holier than thou." Get over it. Worry about yourself and not a celebrity who couldn't gaf less about people they don't know 😂

[@ghostafterlivesmatter8732]

Can I just say again Sloan you are the best you tuber out there so kind and you just make me smile I wish I could find friends like you.❤

[@APisMe]

I am not a TS fan but I have nothing against her - But if there is one thing that is so obvious you need to be on a whole other level not to see it - She clearly doesn't love or respect herself, she can't stand her own company and will therefore latch onto anything so she doesn't have to be alone with herself. That is super sad. She needs to work on herself, her confidence, her self love and then retry dating. This guy is what happens to you when you're desperate.

[@allisonwhite2134]

Makes you wonder if she had alternate motives when she announced a collab with Ice Spice on one of her songs…

[@Patricia-hx4dh]

Yeeeeees, this. Makes me think that she is aware that he is toxic, and is fine with it, but wants her PR people to salvage his image.

[@melissa-qk8ot]

I had no idea about all this.. disgusting. Makes me want to sell my ticket to their show, the thought of supporting him makes me really uncomfortable. I love their music so this is heartbreaking, but thank you for letting us know! I wonder where the rest of the band stands in all this

[@salomegorgadze9119]

A lot of things in this video are taken out of context tbf

[@zipdakill]

Thank you for being straight and to the point!

[@dolliesdreamhouse8750]

Plot twist Taylor doing a song with ice spiceee .. so many questionsssss

[@sweetf.a.9910]

Classic “he hates everyone and everything but he likes me” scenario. Wait until he turns on Taylor! She is rebounding big.

[@traceymaltby7819]

I look forward to your videos daily. Love ya Sloan!

[@princesspeach3662]

Waiting for this from you!!!

[@duchessmira1097]

I think Taylor is a very confused woman… she claims to be so “woke” in all her songs and then dates someone who appears to be overtly offensive in the opposite direction .

[@jnmks]

you can be woke and offensive at the same time

[@oheyseven]

YESSSSSSSSS SLOAN IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS!

[@FabalociousDee]

I don't understand why people are acting like Taylor Swift is the Persephone to Healy's Hades, when they're both probably similar in ethics and behaviour behind closed doors. Taylor doesn't need to watch out for anything, she was born into money and kept making it once she was of age. She has a whole team behind her, I guarantee it.

[@MsClaudiaDuran]

Thank you for bringing this up. I don't understand how Swifties are all TheYrE SUcH a CuTe CouPlE. He's annoying at best, toxic at worst.

[@discowolf25]

The only thing I don’t understand is how you don’t listen too TAFS- a lifestyle podcast offshoot. Tbf… it’s not c*mtown but, it’s close💀.

[@madame__bizarre]

Either it's his douchey, weird stage persona and he's different behind closed doors, or Taylor is just like him... I like her and wish her the best, but it seems like she just wants to forget about Joe. Something tells me this new relationship isn't going to last long.

[@leahmichele22]

Crossing my fingers that he's just a rebound. Which after 6 years with someone, you're most likely gonna rebound with the next guy so soon after your relationship. Idk

[@awhimsyreader9015]

It's not just his persona he's admitted to watching torture porn of black women and even if it was a persona it wouldn't make his bigotry any less bad

[@__rm307]

@@awhimsyreader9015 weird there were also black women performing w him on stage? Wonder if they knew his history??

[@justashton255]

@@__rm307 he dated fka twigs...she has bad luck with guys too...like shia L.

[@marys3738]

I'm not surprised. Taylor used to be a 4chan user and she wasn't the "clean" version or herself there.

[@doomnoises]

I want to believe but 😅 wtf was she doing on 4chan

[@RT-yg9cv]

How do you know it was her? We need receipts!

[@marys3738]

@葵 R T if you Google it, you'll see.

[@SimplyCheryl]

All these guys laughing and co-signing on his racism is disgusting 🤮 does TS have brain damage?!

[@lovelyleovirgo2718]

yes

[@bellamichelle6248]

Nope. She’s just being herself. If anyone believes her persona they may…..

[@mom5798]

We love a performative activist queen aka ts😍😍😍

[@socialnoob4853]

I understand comedy is subjective and supposed to blur the lines of what is acceptable to say, but this guy is just so incredibly unfunny. You cannot tell me anyone over the age of 10 finds him amusing.

[@doomnoises]

Yeah I guess I’m supposed to know the lore or something to appreciate it but I have zero motivation

[@cherriesinsnow]

Taylor is no saint herself, and her music is not that good

[@MsJujubee3]

Thank you!!! It’s like kids bop/Disney and she’s in her 30s. So cringe.

[@atlassage7756]

Love for you SLOAN❤❤❤

[@carmenrobles4559]

Thank you Sloan ❤❤

[@rubens667]

I’m just alarmed how fast she moved on from a 6 year relationship!!

[@Calebweasley]

🚩🚩Red flags🚩🚩

[@anitasweet454]

Love you Sloan💙

[@Diabbie]

ugh THANK YOU for making this Sloan ❤

[@kaitlynboisvert8150]

I guess many of us have a weak moment where we date a jerk despite our better judgements, but - MAN. Hope Taylor realizes she can do better. And FAST. 😭

[@ukmary1968]

What ever. Taylor stays in a toxic relationship.... every last time

[@rovanajean9550]

​@@ukmary1968 at least she's self aware 😂

[@hayleys1260]

This is exactly it. Take it from a woman older than the average Taylor fan, especially after a long term relationship that disappointed, and maybe was a little boring. This is her date the wild boy to feel alive again moment, and it will pass.

[@EdwardFanatic2236]

As a black woman I have never liked Taylor Swift… she’s done so many things that had shown her true colors. To me this was not surprising at all.

[@EughhBrothereughh]

What has she done? Did we miss something her PR didnt scrap off?

[@MamaMeg09]

I love you so much!!! Thank you for always sharing with us! So glad your getting time to unwind, and everything will work out! ❤ We are all here for you!

[@Tru2itt]

🎯🫶

[@MissOrchid12]

I'm jealous, L❤ve that necklace Sloan 😍😍😍

[@dollface9639]

Hey Sloan I hope your doing better love😊

[@whims6278]

Omg those gifts at the end were BEAUTIFUL! Loved the design on the book.

[@whosthatgirl411]

The real surprise here is that people still fall for the "nice girl" charade Taylor plays.

[@__rm307]

This! Her and Selena Gomez are the masters of the “good girl” facades

[@rovanajean9550]

​@@__rm307 their PR teams are miracles 😂

[@toniasampley695]

@@__rm307 yep same thing I said. No wonder they’re best friends

[@arielsparling9170]

please give us a part 2

[@seaoceanandsee]

What is he doing with Taylor Swift? She doesn't give af//is a performative feminist. It's gross how her team featured Ice Spice as a way to divert attention from this? As if?

[@patitolindo]

Believe someone when they say its me hi im the problem its me

[@judyfromnextdoor5490]

Loving see the number one centre left podcast getting this much attention

[@montserrat722010]

His shit behaviour yesterday during the Good Vibes Festival. They got BANNED! They should have been arrested and be tested for drugs for his disrespectful behaviour.

[@HanzosHart]

Nothing Good Starts In A Getaway Car 😂

[@sysye]

When your desperate for love and male attention you always get the trashy men

[@SimplyCheryl]

Hoping this is some type of rebound bc wtf!

[@illillyillyo]

I think he was insinuating that Trump was a Nazi, not that he himself was

[@janetescalona6517]

Thanks Sloan....love love love your channel 💕