EXTREME CLOTHING DECLUTTER \\ Before + After

I never thought cleaning out my clothes could be so freeing, but it's been such a huge blessing for me, thanks to one afternoon of extreme clothing decluttering inspired by Tidying Up with Marie Kondo and her KonMari Method. I spent only one afternoon organizing, cleaning and decluttering my clothes and closet. I purged my closet of years worth of clutter and was able to minimize my wardrobe to just those that I wear and love.
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[@susie7336]

When you said “I’m CHOOSING not to feel shame about it”, it struck me sideways. Thank you! Hearing you almost instantly relieved the weight of the world off my shoulders.

[@GraceandGrit]

Love the vulnerability in sharing that shopping filled voids for you. I don’t think a lot of people realize that’s a common thing. It looks freaking fantastic and I felt relieved for you!!

[@smaxrob]

100% agree. I know it's similar for me. For me it's stress.

[@denisedavis9908]

I shopped on line when my husband was on hospice and after he died....it was away to escape what I was facing... I now understand the shopping issue which I had never done prior

[@JustaMossKindaLife]

My favorite question to ask before I buy is “can I name three occasions to wear this?” It has kept me from buying. I go through my closet every season and try on to see how I feel about the items.

[@aveskaa4736]

What if your answer is normal day wear? That is just one occasion but still quite necessary

[@Sarackless]

Aveska A i think you should see it like is it a versatile piece you know you can wear multiple ways. Not literally three occasions I think

[@amiliadierickx6670]

My three qeustion are do you have it worn in the last six months, would you buy it again if you see it now in the store and if you wear it makes do you feel good about yourself in this piece or not?

[@Breerox108]

@@aveskaa4736 Normal day wear includes a lot of occasions in my opinion. Errand running, lounging around the house, going to a movie, etc.

[@kathy3178]

Almost 5 years ago, I remember looking around my home and seeing piles of clutter everywhere. I decided that it was ridiculous that 3 people were running out of room in a 1000sqft house. I decided it was time to reclaim my home. I found so much more in the process. I am truly excited for you on this journey. I know that it a hard one. It is so worth it in the end. I will be praying for and cheering you on!

[@kbdefay]

Your introductory comments about how we do things to cover up pain hit me like a ton of bricks. It's a simple but profound revelation.

[@Lowdermoomoo]

I’m trying to find ways of decluttering after 3 months of therapy because I realized I was shopping compulsively and I wanted to change that and It means so much for you to start the video the way that you did because I haven’t seen a lot of people really talk about this. My shopping for clothing specifically comes from neglect, abuse, and trauma growing up, but I’m a simple person and I’ve become overwhelmed by the abundance of clutter to the point where it feels like I’m being suffocated because I feel guilty and confronted by my pain every time I look around and see things I bought compulsively because I was hurting. I’m just now getting help and I realized I got caught up in instant gratification, and doing the thing that wasn’t illegal or hurting other people, trying to fill a void that couldn’t be filled with things. I’ve been struggling so much to declutter and it’s so refreshing to see someone approach this from the way you are. It makes me feel less alone, thank you for being honest!

[@kotiloss]

Once you get started it's hard to stop. I end up purging and reorganizing when I feel stressed in a certain area of the house, and it always makes me feel better when it functions more efficiently. Now I just need to make the donation run! 🤦‍♀️😘

[@HeisRISEN774]

You had a great list of things to ask yourself when decluttering clothes 😂 If I heard one more person say “does this spark joy?” 😵

[@StyckyWycket]

This is my first time watching you, but I know the pain and shame of a shopping addiction. Throwing out all of the things I'd bought, thinking each was THE ONE that would make me feel better was so hard. But with each item, it felt like another stone lifted off my chest. I still autopilot to online stores when I'm feeling some kind of way, but it gets better. I'm proud of you for being vulnerable and admitting shopping may have been your drug, and I'm so proud of you for taking the steps to overcome it. All my love. 💜

[@JadeLeighFarmer]

I just spent 30 mins cleaning out my email! I let it get out of control and it was nearly at 2,000 unread emails!! I’ll probably stay a week behind you on this decluttering journey but I’m here! Good job!

[@honeybunney8424]

I THOUGHT I did an extreme closet declutter a few months ago, I now see clearly from yours it was more reserved than it could have been...I’m going back in!!! X

[@laurajohnson9932]

One thing I've done for slow, low-key sorting is to turn all my hangers backwards and revisit the situation in 6+ months. As clothes get washed and put back the hanger is flipped the normal way so months later I can see that I didn't wear the ones that are still backwards and I can ask myself "Do I really want to keep this if I haven't worn it yet? Really really?" and it feels much more low stakes to me. How many hours did the decluttering in this video take? That was a lot of work! Your closet looks gorgeous now!

[@beachgirl445]

i love the hanger method! i use it too

[@angela.braniff]

It took about 5-6 hours :)

[@ericcawith2cs11]

I do this same method.

[@amandacash8730]

OH MY GOSH!!! This just changed my life. I've been struggling to figure out how to know when things get worn or not (I normally sort by item so my boyfriend said just keep putting newly washed things on the left and then you'll see what doesn't get worn but that just makes for chaos) and this is it! Thank you so much for sharing!

[@ritalynb7070]

Best of luck on your decluttering journey! I started a whole life declutter in 2017. I got rid of most of my clothing (don't even have a dresser). I also got rid of all my jewelry and almost all my makeup in 2018. In 2019 I got rid of my hair and all my accessories/tools/products. I can now fit all my clothing, shoes, accessories, skincare, hygiene & makeup into 2 suitcases. It feels awesome!!

[@INikija]

Decluttering feels soooo liberating, doesn’t it? A good rule that I try to use is to save only things that are: USEFUL or BEAUTIFUL or MEANINGFUL. It applies to everything. Loved the video🙂

[@laurenhennessy8221]

I love a good declutter, that was an amazing amount of progress!! I love the idea of giving the skirts a second chance. I think its important not to make too many tough decision the first time decluttering, maybe a decision you will regret. You will find going through your wardrobe a second time when you're ready, these decisions come much easier! To anyone struggling to get started, just do it and dont make it to hard on yourself! You will build up your 'muscles' to declutter the more you do it, and it will be easier to make decisions to part with things. Don't put yourself through stress and decision fatigue, just get started and make some progress little by little!

[@peggyil]

I’ve been decluttering for a year, and now I’m going back over the spaces and purging even more. This is such a great and needed series! Thank you for the motivation!

[@ashleighnicolewilson]

Well done sis!!! Doesn’t it feel AMAZING?!?

[@paulaburrell3858]

This is so awesome. My life is so much different after I purged and organized my entire house. I can look around and be happy and feel like I have room to breathe. Good for you!!!

[@suzie2759]

I am totally joining you on this "Declutter My Life" series! I started last year and stopped due to a family member's chronic illness. But I am ready to tackle the rest of my house. It's fun when doing it with someone! Thanks for the inspo Angela!!

[@carolmason3290]

What I really notice that when one space is “done” it is so much easier to do a little putter that takes only a minute to keep it up. There is so much space and it feels nice to have some clarity in what we see on a daily basis. Its such a relief. It’s worth the effort and mentally heading in the right direction for personal wellness. Proud of you Angela.

[@loooveismusic8]

I really appreciated your raw honesty about using clothes and things to fill voids in life. So refreshing to have people be so honest and real. And you did a great job as well. I'm in the process of decluttering and it's a much slower process than most people's videos but I'm still happy and proud of myself that I'm getting it done. ☺️🙏🌸💗

[@happyhippieellie]

Came for the clothing declutter, realized I needed the deeper message. I've definitely been guilty lately of buying things with the idea that this one item will be the one to make my life better/myself complete etc. Thanks for sharing♥

[@sarahlloyd769]

If you hang all of your clothes on their hangers backwards, and then wear them and replace them back onto the rack normally, at the end of the year you’ll see which items you wear and the ones you don’t!

[@cindylaarhoven6404]

Love this!! Congrats...... so freeing to get rid of STUFF. The twins playing in the closet were so darn cute!!

[@stephanie-lq8vv]

Totally can relate to emotionally shopping, I’m in the process of declutter . The freedom in letting go! Thanks for sharing.and great job on closet.

[@anatechera9852]

I need to do this asap!!! Thank you Angela for inspiring us!!! Keep rocking this decluttering!!

[@snam626]

I'm so loving this series! Thank you for sharing and can't wait for the rest of the series. I recently went through my clothes and i know I have more to donate/throw out in my closet. and Yes! you do have to be so honest with yourself. :)

[@beckrick2523]

I really love how you thought about why we do what we do (and we all do it!). It made this so much more than just a closet clean-out. Great job!

[@melissacoats6442]

Thanks for this series. I'm following along, and looking forward to more inspiration.

[@debrajudd9850]

Loved this video! I am in the process of doing the exact same thing. It's going well, but I get so much inspiration(and eases my guilt) knowing that others are struggling with similar issues. Thanks so much for sharing ❤️

[@Kathryninchrist]

I need to go through my clothes...love that you shared your personal process through this. Best. clothes declutter. ever. Good job 👏

[@lovemothering5315]

Wow! Thank you for sharing and being open! Great job! Well done. Been working on decluttering closet too!

[@joelc9421]

Really enjoying these and starting my own declutter. Thanks for the push.

[@EmmaAppleBerry]

This is awesome love big purges like this & i LOVE this series!

[@TS-tv2ik]

Thank you for your vulnerability and authenticity. Love you!! In the journey with you!! 💜🙌🙏

[@kelseyb4590]

Two years ago I got rid of 75% of our belongings. Don’t give up it’s worth it! You will LOVE it. We also set boundaries around relatives giving us stuff. It’s been so freeing and my stress level decreased dramatically

[@aaryeljohnson-francis5558]

Loving this decluttering series! I had my first baby in November and decided now would be a great time do this along with you as we are in a new season of life.

[@brennanewbert1449]

You are so courageous for showing this to the world! I am so proud that you are doing this for yourself.

[@jessicalatorraca8507]

Pain & hurt & sadness, and needing to fill voids . Honesty makes the efforts so worthwhile! 🌿💕

[@donnat4650]

I decluttered and organized my closet this year and the feeling is out of this world! Your closet is huge and you make decluttering and organizing look simple and fun😃

[@interpolspecialist]

OMG, the intro to your video is so me right now! I am determined to declutter and am actually in the processing of doing so at this very moment. I love watching these kind of videos to help push me through. Thank you for sharing your process!

[@kellysites6164]

Can’t even wait for more of this kind of video. Go, girl!

[@junemaguire9988]

Made me anxious just looking at all this stuff, well done for fixing things up great video

[@kkatmom]

Great video! I went through all of my clothes s couple of months ago, I lost a considerable amount of weight last year , so I had to ! It was daunting but boy did it feel great after! I then had to buy the items that I used frequently, but no longer fit. My closet is only half full and my dresser is so easy to find what I’m looking for. I’m onto my shoes, although not as enthusiastically as my clothes. I’m so glad that you are doing this series! I watch both channels of yours. I’m completely in love with your family! Donna

[@shawnavienneau6148]

Love love love this kind of videos. Cant wait for more

[@aprilpacholski3012]

I'm scared if I declutter and purge my clothes I won't have any left. Lol. I can't say I'm in love with any of them.

[@yvettegg1806]

This was exactly what I needed. I have shopped to fill my voids. You give me motivation. Thank you for sharing

[@kalendaniels702]

You are just so amazing for sharing how you feel and how clothing was a way of trying to manage how you were feeling. I don’t think a lot of people realize how we deal with our struggles differently. I love your fighting spirit and how despite the hurt that lead to this point you keep going and healing and you’re honest about it! I enjoy your videos so much and I really hope that others are kind to you and that you don’t feel judged by others.

[@natashatitus3085]

I've watched a lot of these videos but you touched on collecting things because you filled a void and other issues that goes with the purchasing of the clothes. This was really profound for me. I'm happy for you that you're making progress. Stay blessed

[@sarabuch807]

Wow! Well done Lady! Love a good closet clean out and organized video ❤️

[@jaminxc143]

So incredibly happy for you!!!

[@hallieoop1]

Thankyou for sharing ! Filling the void ! So many of us are in the same boat. You feel so alone in the moment and with all the baggage.

[@cucusa319]

I totally agree with u on that explanation u gave! Any kind of pain or depression makes u shop or buy in excess ! Love your dicuttering

[@MartRam16]

Just subbed! 🥰Yess! Can’t wait to see more of you uncluttering! Love this! Your closet looks great! 💜

[@sheadepczynski8081]

Wow! I'm really proud of you for this! We just got a new dresser so I'm gearing up to do this too

[@amieevatt1039]

I adore you. Thanks for being so real with us.

[@readbyjem6339]

I loved this video. I watched it after I saw your Kitchen videos. I appreciate you are willing to share your life in this way.

[@freeomelettefarm]

Loving the decluttering series so far! And I just want to say, wow, girl! You did amazing!

[@kristinmichelleyt]

I need to do this so bad. I have a habit of holding on to clothes because it reminds me of a specific event or moment 🤦🏼‍♀️. All of it just gets shoved to the back of the closet and forgotten about.

[@martaveri9705]

I just love this kind of videos! So relaxing and motivating 💓

[@Steph568]

Love this series Angela!!💕

[@priscillashaw5715]

Enjoyed your video on your other KZbin channel. I am so sorry for your losses this week. Praying for peace and joy for your family. Watching your videos over the years has been so encouraging. Keep on keep'n on! ❤

[@nicoles3373]

oh I need to do this... you are not alone, I definitely have an issue with clothing as well. Thank-you for the inspiration!

[@christinabasham507]

I’m so glad you are doing this series. I’ve been wanting to become a minimalist. I’ve been decluttering a little at time

[@stephaniedougherty7845]

I just came across your channel the other day and enjoy “getting to know you”. Thank you for being so honest! It is refreshing and I can feel God speaking comfort to me through it.

[@catwmn14]

I was already decluttering before Christmas but I love following along! Idk why but these videos are just my absolute favorite

[@dgmlmax]

I’m watching because I’m struggling with the process of going through my clothes. My intention is to be honest and get rid of quite a bit. So far that isn’t happening. It’s hard for me to get rid of things in general. I’ve watched several video and while I realize they are sped up, it still seem like you and others easily decide on each piece. My hubby is away on a business trip, I set a goal to get through all of my clothing in the 2 weeks he’s gone. Today was day 1, I barely got rid of anything.

[@prayersponytails6227]

Great job! I just did this with all my clothes and I know the feeling. Something I did was turn my hangers all the opposite way so not only does that show me in a few months what I haven’t worn, but it actually encourages me to wear the tops that still have the hanger turned. 💜

[@XxEllina]

No offence but I'm astonished about the idea of having something with the tag still on in the closet. I always get so excited to wash and wear my newest addition :D

[@angela.braniff]

I get that. Me too honestly, but it’s the problem with buying something just because it’s on sale etc. If I don’t love it- I’ll always find an excuse to not wear it.

[@chantellesimmons1064]

What a great transformation!! ❤️

[@Mummakat]

Great motivation! I’ve been wanting to film a wardrobe declutter and this just makes me want to do it now!! 💜💜💜

[@Creppycookies]

Wow the aftermath was amazing, love decluttering series so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@michelleheinz5003]

Way to go!!! What a huge accomplishment. I used the kon Marie method a few years ago to declutter my entire house. It feels so so good and makes life so much less stressful afterward.

[@jenniferreads6536]

Ive also been decluttering my life the last two months. I lived out of two suitcases the three months before that. When i came back I was so overwhelmed by all my stuff. I had so much clutter that i was holding on to and i just started to affect my mental health. I love seeing you declutter because I know how freeing it was for me and how much brainspace I got back!

[@emmalenekipfer708]

This is absolutely amazing and inspiring! Great job Angela! Now I'm want to organize and declutter my entire room lol.

[@carlaowens7959]

I am with you....I come from a large family and my Grandma was the neatest most organized person. I have room for improvement...thanks for the inspiration. ❤

[@angelp9956]

You are awesome. Thanks for sharing. I thought I was the only one who had far too many clothes neatly hidden away. Neat n tidy can still be too much. I’m ready to do this...again. 👍🏼

[@flormariaborgstadt5938]

Beautiful babies❤️ great job and thanks for showing how difficult it can be, I just started so I’m hopeful I can accomplish the declutter

[@tiaraclark8390]

I formerly shopped to fill my void as well. Thanks for your honesty. I donated my new clothes that I never worn to homeless shelters. New subbie here. I love it.

[@felichiah5845]

I love watching people declutter, I've already have done this for over a decade now. It's just entertaining and very interesting how much more people have and accumulate.

[@motherhoodmultiplied]

I just went through my closet and it’s amazing.

[@brendacalser693]

This is so satisfying ☺️

[@michellemeehan6363]

Love this series! We are moving in June so we are decluttering stuff as we move into storage while our house is being built. It’s amazing just how little we actually need. I love you and your family! Keep it up!

[@CasandraLight]

I've been doing the same and appreciate the frankness of using shopping to avoid stresses in life....i definitely slip back into bad habits myself

[@teslyn2003]

I loved this video and I am now a fan. I just started decluttering my bedroom and closet and I now I feel like decluttering my entire home. It feels so good. I have such a organized closet. I did the clothing in my drawers the same exact way. My biggest issue was clothes as well. Also my papers or insane as well. Ive been shredding for days. And this is so perfect since I am not working as much with the whole covid issue. Ok headed over to your other videos now.

[@kickitlikekirra]

Yes, girl! Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. I absolutely related to what you shared. And I love how your southern-ness came hollerin' when you spoke to your kids, jaja.

[@Gizmo2261]

Thanks for the video, appreciate the honesty of your video

[@christinavogstad9210]

this is great encouraging helpful and joy in giving things away.

[@deanacincotta2236]

Thank you for this video. It's difficult to watch people who barely have any clothes do closet declutter videos because i can't relate to them... but i definitely relate to your "bed of clothes"... so thank you for that... and... thank you for mentioning the "filling a void" issue. I think it was really helpful to know that I'm not alone. ❤

[@commercebigmouth]

You are boss mode! Looks amazing!

[@beac8238]

Great video! You touched on some very thoughtful points.

[@nuchzara97]

Wow you are so good. I bet you felt super relief rightafter. I like that feeling...it is good for my soul.

[@christinetanner8317]

Retirement for me meant downsizing from 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, yard care to a 1 bedroom apartment. I found getting rid of stuff was really heart wrenching . I had to remind myself, the memories are in the heart, always with me. It feels good having my environment clean & tidy. I am so glad you talked about the emotional ties (good & bad) to stuff. Thank you for showing me I am not alone.

[@ChaoticAeris]

Clothes for me is a CONSTANT clean out. My size has gone up and down due to pregnancy twice and I've kept everything over the years. Every time I put up laundry I look at my hanging clothes and quickly scan for unneeded shirts. Then every fall and spring I go through all my clothes.

[@hockeygirl324]

This was beyond satisfying to watch, and only furthered my belief that I adore your style and want to live in your closet 😂 Having less stuff is so freeing, and I love that once you do one area the momentum makes you want to keep going. After my last major clear out I put a few rules in place for shopping (naming 3 occasions, do I have anything else like it, naming what I would pay for it before flipping the tag, something comes into my closet and something must go out, etc) and it’s really slowed my spending and management of stuff. Can’t wait to see the jewelry next!

[@eleanorzmuda5501]

I'm doing a seasonal declutter today. I'm ready to purge. Thanks for the inspiration!

[@allicat5241]

So realistic and satisfying!

[@lindatravis6840]

Very motivational 💞 might start my closet tomorrow 💗

[@gonulgoksungur7103]

Love this series!

[@erikagaus4046]

I love this and I’ve done it multiple Times and still add things to all my counters and everything still looks cluttered. I’m super stuck right now but hopefully I get over it and find things to let go of. Thanks for the motivation ❤️