Eye Contact & Attraction 🤯The Science & Psychology Behind What THIS Body Language REALLY Reveals🤯

[@jamesconnor601]

this is so good! i always feel so vulenerable when i maintain eye contact for too long and now im 28 and realizing how important that connection is. it goes so much deeper than vocal communication, thanks for explaining!

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*The fact that so much can be communicated without words really shows how important body language is in social interactions. Knowing how to read these subtle cues can change how people approach dating and relationships.*

[@Powerarmed]

You saved my day, just by being alive and watching you on the tiny screen of my phone! Now I'm a happy human being...

[@israelarellano4981]

500% agree the way you look at the camera I could swear You're only talking at Me directly and many followers would agree. I watch your videos with the volume off , I'm studying body language through You. I'm married so can You please stop flirting with Me? Lmao

[@paradiseplayer5103]

Attraction can be so difficult to clock. It helps if the person is also verbal about their thoughts. May ask for your name, your number or contact, etc. It’s so funny because when I see a girl that I like, one I’ve never spoken to, I’ll do everything I can to ignore her. I won’t look at her, I won’t speak to her, I won’t go near her. The joys of being an introvert 😭🤣

[@abrahammendiola4446]

I know the feeling bro 😂 😢

[@Zeeshan12368]

@@abrahammendiola4446 Mee too!

[@MrRashef]

Ye I feel you bro

[@tomzzx]

but if feels good doesn't it? 😂

[@malkitsingh2141]

Me too

[@murraylindsay6880]

I love watching your videos Anna but I know this chick likes me now. She gave me the steady gaze and I won the eye contact game. She looked down and blushed.

[@MrRashef]

I feel that 6th sense very oftent, but voice inside me tells me that I'm wrong , there's no possibility women find me attractive that often. I can always spot girls that im not interested being attracted to me , but not those that I want 🙃

[@alwaysup4alaugh492]

I love how Anna makes eye contact with us male viewers....unlike most women.🤣

[@ctaigwoolsey3471]

Females don't give me and they never given me much eye contact at all I'm ,58 and I've approach thousand of girls thruout my life but I've never gotten any dates or had any girlfriends

[@candacegolden9904]

This video has explained EVERYTHING, thank you!

[@loudemarco4947]

I’ve Been wondering how to interpret eye contact from the women I see at my gym. It’s hard to interpret lately when everyone is wearing masks 😷 .This video was a great help!! Thank you! Now I know their intentions when they maintain eye contact for a good 4-5 seconds . Time to make a move.

[@RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson]

HI ANNA JOYANIMA HOW ARE U DOING THIS MORNNIG. AND HAVE A GREAT DAY TODAY AS WELL ANNA JOYANIMA ARE U SEEING SOMEONE JUST AKING YOU IF THATS COOL AS WITH YOU ANNA JOYANIMA

[@alwaysup4alaugh492]

Are you from UK or what? I'm from the UK and all Gyms are *CLOSED.* 😔

[@loudemarco4947]

@@alwaysup4alaugh492 wow that really sucks! Id be going crazy if that happened here. Working out is my life. I feel your pain mate. 😥I’m from the states. We Have to socially distance on free weights, every other treadmill is blocked off with a sign and all machines are spaced 6 feet apart. Thankfully they haven’t shut it down completely.

[@mjchecksfield914]

Careful, longer eye contact could mean she is interested OR she might think you are an idiot and is just seeking to verify that. OR she may just have been observing what excercise you are doing OR she is just being friendly OR she just happened to be looking your way by accident. The acid test is if it happens again and she either smiles back or blushes or quickly looks down, now you can be surer it is attraction!

[@ctaigwoolsey3471]

What does it mean if girls don't give me and never have given me much eye contact in fact they have avoided giving it too me even if I'm walking down the towards them

[@bywodensbeard9841]

What about eye contact during a conversation?

[@meer6365]

It refers to caring

[@laurafedora5385]

Even during casual conversation you will look away. It’s hard to maintain eye contact unless two people really dig each other

[@thehowtostudios1980]

Ever since i realized i had a crush on this girl from work i find it overwhelming to try talking to her so many uninvited butterflies i am gonna try to do eye contact even when they are looking back she has very pretty eyes. Might have to start a diary.

[@stevejohnson8749]

So love your insights Anna!! Keep more coming. The dating world needs your help

[@Parasite743]

thank you for pointing out the fact that there's signs of no-interest (i.e. EDIT actually You Don't Exist Yet gaze) because I really wasn't wanting to "deal with" the situation. So I avoided them completely by looking down. Now I know that it is a sign of no-interest. I will not do that next time. it helps to know that there's signs of interest but also signs of non-interest.

[@CamilaVanilla]

Is there a way to differentiate between attraction and confidence?

[@stonecoldranblesfan862]

Confidence is having strong convictions and sticking by them. Not having to shut anyone down to hold respect but in fact making people around you better no matter their own confidence level. Attraction is biological. The rest is choice.

[@ENFPerspectives]

Let them know you are attracted and ask if they would be interested in going out sometime. If they say No Thank You, it is only Confidence. 👍

[@JohnnyBravo-se5gz]

Excellent video, lots of info to digest.

[@jerefernandez4019]

Thank you very much! Always helpfull since I discovered the channel ;)

[@boom5577]

Ok so I’m a medical student. During an anatomy, I was joking with the teacher and she smiled at me (including her eyes which crinkled). Anyway, I asked her age and she took a few steps away from me then turned head around (almost as if she was checking that I was following). Then she turned around and we had a ridiculous amount of eye contact (I had to break it after a bit as I suddenly became aware that others were watching). What happened there? It’s been months and I still find myself thinking of that.

[@fatherleo4603]

She reminds me of Emilia Clarke :D

[@dhammaboy1203]

As someone with Autism - these subtleties are tricky. I'm going to look at these this week.

[@TheInfamous730]

What does it mean when a woman stares at a guy when he's not looking at her and then when he looks her way she looks away quickly?

[@youbetcha6880]

It means she's fucking with you.

[@peterhansen5096]

That she is likely interested but shy. Depends on her confidence and self-esteem. I often experience the opposite with a girl I often see. She keeps her stare even if I gaze back...we stare into each other's eyes for some seconds, and then she looks away, flushing a bit. So I assume she's not as shy as others are and is trying to tell me something with these gazes

[@Deadpool-m2b]

​@@peterhansen5096 what if she does not look away when you catch her staring

[@stephenhumma4772]

My eyes go even lower down to their t ts. That,s were my gaze ends.

[@laurafedora5385]

That’s usually where they turn around and leave because talking to someone who’s starting at your chest is weird

[@Greenwitch_Garden]

So happy my steady gaze with a smile at my crush was my first instinct ❤ and so glad he steady gazed right back.

[@SICKBOY1970]

Your name wouldn’t happen to be Emily would it? I’m kidding

[@Kingflores150]

There's this girl at the gym we always lock eyes, today she lock eyes, she looked away for a sec and lock eyes again with a smirk..

[@mjchecksfield914]

Very nicely presented. Some witty bits and a nice delivery pace. After eye contact the next question is do they have anything interesting to say. Your are scoring well Joyanima! LOL

[@minecraftgirlscreations9849]

I absolutely love her accent!

[@Startoftheending]

i struggle with eye contact because i get nervous

[@laurafedora5385]

Eye contact is difficult for all primates actually, as it relates somewhat to a pecking order and social interaction. That’s why it’s so interesting. 😊

[@kasperrasmussen2925]

This Girl and i locked eyes fives times within an hour we both stared at eachother for over five seconds each time while we both had a Big smile on our faces, is she very interested in me or how should i interpret that?

[@martacccc689]

She is

[@peterhansen5096]

She is, even if she dpoesn''t smile

[@roser8911]

@@peterhansen5096lol true… I don’t smiles at him when we make eye contact but I like him a lot ❤

[@SICKBOY1970]

@@peterhansen5096 That’s what I needed to read

[@AchillesRage501]

its different and much harder to tell at work if i had to guess up until i found out my crush is seeing someone i also work with her she would often use the lingering and the steady gaze possibly barely a look gaze also

[@kiileetsoku2397]

This is so insightful !

[@ifeanyiodiegwu3742]

Some ladies when I have eye contact with them their eyes will start blinking fast as if their eye lashes wants to fall off. What is the meaning? Please I need explanation.

[@peterhansen5096]

Most women and men does that. We all blink after we stare too long at someone or something. Blinking rapidly as you describe it, could indicate nervousness and even panic

[@leslierivera742]

I have a hard time looking people in their eyes bc i have anxiety i hate it 😅

[@CitiesOfAsh]

Look at the top of their nose, itll look like you're looking at their eyes from their pov.

[@queenkaimikasa227]

Is barely look a Gaze, quick glance and passerby gaze SAME?

[@cliveharman7237]

Interesting video,I've had women look at me while at work.

[@fadiga_fundz5946]

She kept looking straight into my eyes for over 5 seconds while talking to me and as I was taking to her... What does it mean please??.. someone help me I love this girl alot.

[@peterhansen5096]

That she's into you

[@14kurtismiller]

This is so complex. Can I just ask a lady, why you checking me out?

[@alwaysup4alaugh492]

Not if it's my sister.

[@kunalvarma5026]

@@alwaysup4alaugh492 😆😆😆😆😆

[@Samalwinnie]

I need an answer to this!....so there is this male guy who was on his teaching practice , am a nursing student, so the first day he came to my class , he went straight to the board and at that time there was commotion in class so he was waiting for people to settle,....... I was already settled ready to start class ,I was just casually looking at him , but then our eyes met .. We stared at each other for 30 magical seconds....I swear I fell in love , I don't know if he did to but I fell harder..I couldn't concentrate during his lessons , I would just stare and when he makes eye contact with me while explaining something he looks awayyy. ...unfortunately his teaching practice is over..he recently followed me in IG .. And I keep on posting things about love to see if he will make a move😫😫😫😫 I love himmmmmmm but I don't think he feels same

[@Justchilll5555]

What about now are you together or just unknown

[@SICKBOY1970]

Geez. I wish the girl I’m after thinks like you. But she’s too shy

[@Samalwinnie]

@@Justchilll5555 😂😂he never made any move 💀😂and he now has a girlfriend 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔and I no longer have a crush on him

[@Samalwinnie]

@@SICKBOY1970 goodluck ❤️hope she does

[@gordonorante509]

Yes the James bond movie for your eyes only 😉😉😉

[@NoyonMalakar-rm3fc]

My crush looks at me from across the room and holds eye contact and comes close to me what does that mean HELP😊

[@henryoh4653]

the one looking away at 3 : 13 she seems to be a redhead but it looked like the video was editted to make it unnoticeable

[@AchillesRage501]

its harder if you have a crush that is half the size of you and looks up

[@SICKBOY1970]

She’s trying to see your lips

[@AchillesRage501]

@SICKBOY1970 The girl I'm referring to had a boyfriend , but she would come up and look in my eyes for several minutes

[@BelowTheApron]

I'm overthinking it,

[@anthonycapili5055]

She often looks at me but without a smile. I don't know if she likes me or not.

[@peterhansen5096]

Because it would be too obvious if she smiles. She's trying to hide she likes you. She might be thinking: what if he doesn't smile back?

[@SICKBOY1970]

@@peterhansen5096 Exactly

[@dexternjoku5196]

So that person thought I was into them when I kept looking at their broccoli in their teeth now it all makes sense LMAO

[@L20241]

😂

[@mohammadabu5061]

alhamdulillah great, from Bangladesh

[@kylekenan2321]

What about the solid 20 second gaze?

[@palps5190]

Feels so good man

[@kenthepen4857]

I managed a 10 second gaze (and a rather nice smile) off a lady I see occasionally. After watching Anna's video, I reckon things are looking up! (pun intended).

[@kylekenan2321]

@@kenthepen4857 nice!

[@robogreek3157]

what the hell would be stair that long for without approaching? thats weird

[@kylekenan2321]

@@robogreek3157 we were sitting across from each other at a table and already knew each other.

[@jaymedalbeth6962]

I like your lipstick beautiful Anna!💄

[@sloebone7399]

Creepy

[@jaymedalbeth6962]

@@sloebone7399 Keep negative comments to yourself thank you

[@stantheman4964]

Yeah smh in the world

[@zataman]

I was sitting across the table from a girl who just gave me stare. Eyes were fixed on me and pupils we're not dialated

[@L20241]

What happens if they are your doctor and always maintain eye contact while talking to you 😂

[@Lifeline_drone]

She just locks her eyes on me and doesn’t look away but doesn’t smile idk

[@peterhansen5096]

Because she might be thinking: what if you don't smile back! Some girls won't show the obvious so a long stare with a neutral face might be her careful way to tell you something

[@abhishekraj8818]

Second comment Anna!!! Waah I'm so early today

[@talltree4252]

Being attractive is of a precautious approach of high unpredictable emotional sensitive Intangible reaction of utmost behaviour...

[@JoeMercersWay]

Must have filmed this a while ago or you must be the coldest woman on Earth (and that's some feat) to wrap up like that on the warmest day of the year so far

[@alwaysup4alaugh492]

It was filmed in Antarctica.

[@SICKBOY1970]

😂😂😂

[@who_is_dis]

There's a bunch of other tells that are more obvious. I look at peoples mouths sometimes as I'm listening just to make out their words clearer.

[@queenkaimikasa227]

What are normal multiple quick glances quote and same exact time it's averted

[@SICKBOY1970]

I would say you’re both interested

[@JingVlogan]

Why my husband staring at me side by side of my face during our conversation?

[@elouaililili]

Some of these can go either way, watchout :D

[@0077avi]

I'm The 9th Comment Just Right Over Here Anna😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃!!!!!

[@ctaigwoolsey3471]

I'm 58 years old and I have no problem approaching women at least I don't think I do and I've spp to coached many. Many females since I was14 years old and I've never had any women say yes to me when I have asked them for a phone number or a date so obviously I have never had any girlfriends .what I seem to get a lot of and always have gotten is the few gales that I have been able to even converse with me the don't give me much eye contact they don't smile at me I don't know of any females ever that I can remember at least striking up any conversations with me and very few females will ever ask me any questions about me and the few that have it's like they just don't want to hurt my feeling's or not to be rude it's only obvious to me for at least one reason or another that females just don't even find me attractive and interesting I do approach females everyday because that's all I really can do I suppose

[@SICKBOY1970]

You may not find her my friend. She will find you

[@rsuresh8602]

Thanks

[@kdlehel]

i never understanded this things. we are in 21 century and how in not posible to talk werbaly or comunicate or by writings on some sort. This sign and this body and eye contact communication i never understanded. Probably is the reason to i work in high technological and industrial environment.

[@SICKBOY1970]

Yeah. You need to just give up on dating and stick with the I T bizz

[@kdlehel]

@@SICKBOY1970 aa no. I like womans and i will let on faith.

[@djoubayrouathie672]

Hi Ana I’m happy with you always I wache ur video is very important ‘but I want to nkwo relationship distance how to I nkwo she love me we are not living together thank u good luck 👍

[@Werday-bv7eh]

now i know why i think she is beuatyful even she is not too beuatyful, she is so feminime in my eyes, when we were far apart we stared at each other until it was as if we were stripping each other, but when we are close she steals glances, when I look at her she look down her eyes, when I try to talk to her she acts awkwardly, I think she is very sweat when she tries dare to speak ❤ ah she also speak fast and loud, I was surprised that she answered all my chats when I told her about pizza 😂😂

[@SICKBOY1970]

Sounds a lot like my situation

[@Tray-5]

This is too much to remember. In my opinion, if she doesnt give eye contact, she is not interested. I am not taking the chance period.

[@Deadpool-m2b]

Yes right eye contact is everything

[@humphreykarua5241]

Thanks a lot madam under ot

[@shoaibahmed9183]

HOW TO DATE ANNAAAAAAAAAA

[@cristianprieto9248]

Umm excuse me . Can u tell em where u learned that frm.. ?

[@nathantoth1527]

Ha. At the 7:40+ mark , I thought you said if you want to bitch some more...binge! Ha!

[@chriswalls5831]

Let's get it

[@Ajan-X]

As a hetero male, i get somewhat uncomfortable when i get those lingering gays.

[@L20241]

😂

[@SICKBOY1970]

😂😂😂

[@goodlife4843]

Anna your so beautiful can you give Ways to talk good 👍 with woman and attract them

[@DrJacob-z6l]

What you’re saying is true though 😂😂

[@paulquick8806]

Don't eyeball woman at the gym dude's... Let them eye ball you or approach...im 49...let nature take its course.. Forrest Gump said it best....

[@paaramjoy2878]

Reduce background sound noises 😅😅😅nits annoying

[@iknowthisone6844]

what monsters live under your sweater?

[@222333aaaaaa]

Theyre making eye contact w me 😎👀

[@SICKBOY1970]

😂😂😂

[@SICKBOY1970]

@@222333aaaaaa LMAO 😂😂😂

[@amberhibdon5981]

I realize I have sexual tension with my coworker

[@jdmans]

Answer: No one, no where, no how, never happened, ever. case closed, no need for the video

[@mikes7446]

Hip hip cheeriO

[@rusherthapa9413]

I love you ❤ You look so pretty 😍 😍

[@chaosdromanah8620]

🖒🖒🖒

[@gloriousforever3451]

Bianey🤤

[@SICKBOY1970]

🤤

[@danielsee1]

Racist!

[@SICKBOY1970]

LMAO