Eye Contact & Attraction 🤯The Science & Psychology Behind What THIS Body Language REALLY Reveals🤯

Want to learn more about the ways eye contact and attraction are linked? In today's video we're going to be discussing the different types of eye contact and the way this body language can be read to reveal how attracted someone is to you, or you to them. We'll discuss the science and psychology of attraction eye contact and more.
Probably the most baffling question you could ask yourself is "how do you know if someone is actually attracted to you?". Because sometimes we just feel it, we have that primal urge that someone is attracted to us. And it's kind of like a sixth sense. And we get this sixth sense by analysing someone's body language subconsciously, more specifically the eyes.
You can be super attracted to someone and feel like maybe you are hiding it pretty well on the exterior. But, your body language does still give it away. So you may try to act normal and you think maybe people around you aren't going to notice. However, you're not going to be able to stop those eyes glances now are you.
So if you want to know the different type of eye contact and what it actually means in the attraction world then you're in luck!
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0:00 Intro
1:01 What to look out for
1:47 The attraction Gaze
2:43 The Zero Interest Gaze
3:59 You Don't Exist Yet Gaze
4:30 The Barely A Look Gaze
5:28 The Intense Short Gaze
6:18 The Lingering Gaze
6:52 The Steady Gaze
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[@jamesconnor601]

this is so good! i always feel so vulenerable when i maintain eye contact for too long and now im 28 and realizing how important that connection is. it goes so much deeper than vocal communication, thanks for explaining!

[@paradiseplayer5103]

Attraction can be so difficult to clock. It helps if the person is also verbal about their thoughts. May ask for your name, your number or contact, etc. It’s so funny because when I see a girl that I like, one I’ve never spoken to, I’ll do everything I can to ignore her. I won’t look at her, I won’t speak to her, I won’t go near her. The joys of being an introvert 😭🤣

[@abrahammendiola4446]

I know the feeling bro 😂 😢

[@Zeeshan12368]

@@abrahammendiola4446 Mee too!

[@MrRashef]

Ye I feel you bro

[@tomzzx]

but if feels good doesn't it? 😂

[@malkitsingh2141]

Me too

[@Powerarmed]

You saved my day, just by being alive and watching you on the tiny screen of my phone! Now I'm a happy human being...

[@israelarellano4981]

500% agree the way you look at the camera I could swear You're only talking at Me directly and many followers would agree. I watch your videos with the volume off , I'm studying body language through You. I'm married so can You please stop flirting with Me? Lmao

[@stevejohnson8749]

So love your insights Anna!! Keep more coming. The dating world needs your help

[@candacegolden9904]

This video has explained EVERYTHING, thank you!

[@jerefernandez4019]

Thank you very much! Always helpfull since I discovered the channel ;)

[@alwaysup4alaugh492]

I love how Anna makes eye contact with us male viewers....unlike most women.🤣

[@ctaigwoolsey3471]

Females don't give me and they never given me much eye contact at all I'm ,58 and I've approach thousand of girls thruout my life but I've never gotten any dates or had any girlfriends

[@murraylindsay6880]

I love watching your videos Anna but I know this chick likes me now. She gave me the steady gaze and I won the eye contact game. She looked down and blushed.

[@kiileetsoku2397]

This is so insightful !

[@MrRashef]

I feel that 6th sense very oftent, but voice inside me tells me that I'm wrong , there's no possibility women find me attractive that often. I can always spot girls that im not interested being attracted to me , but not those that I want 🙃

[@thehowtostudios1980]

Ever since i realized i had a crush on this girl from work i find it overwhelming to try talking to her so many uninvited butterflies i am gonna try to do eye contact even when they are looking back she has very pretty eyes. Might have to start a diary.

[@JohnnyBravo-se5gz]

Excellent video, lots of info to digest.

[@mjchecksfield914]

Very nicely presented. Some witty bits and a nice delivery pace. After eye contact the next question is do they have anything interesting to say. Your are scoring well Joyanima! LOL

[@loudemarco4947]

I’ve Been wondering how to interpret eye contact from the women I see at my gym. It’s hard to interpret lately when everyone is wearing masks 😷 .This video was a great help!! Thank you! Now I know their intentions when they maintain eye contact for a good 4-5 seconds . Time to make a move.

[@RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson]

HI ANNA JOYANIMA HOW ARE U DOING THIS MORNNIG. AND HAVE A GREAT DAY TODAY AS WELL ANNA JOYANIMA ARE U SEEING SOMEONE JUST AKING YOU IF THATS COOL AS WITH YOU ANNA JOYANIMA

[@alwaysup4alaugh492]

Are you from UK or what? I'm from the UK and all Gyms are *CLOSED.* 😔

[@loudemarco4947]

@@alwaysup4alaugh492 wow that really sucks! Id be going crazy if that happened here. Working out is my life. I feel your pain mate. 😥I’m from the states. We Have to socially distance on free weights, every other treadmill is blocked off with a sign and all machines are spaced 6 feet apart. Thankfully they haven’t shut it down completely.

[@mjchecksfield914]

Careful, longer eye contact could mean she is interested OR she might think you are an idiot and is just seeking to verify that. OR she may just have been observing what excercise you are doing OR she is just being friendly OR she just happened to be looking your way by accident. The acid test is if it happens again and she either smiles back or blushes or quickly looks down, now you can be surer it is attraction!

[@ctaigwoolsey3471]

What does it mean if girls don't give me and never have given me much eye contact in fact they have avoided giving it too me even if I'm walking down the towards them

[@minecraftgirlscreations9849]

I absolutely love her accent!

[@Greenwitch_Garden]

So happy my steady gaze with a smile at my crush was my first instinct ❤ and so glad he steady gazed right back.

[@bywodensbeard9841]

What about eye contact during a conversation?

[@meer6365]

It refers to caring

[@laurafedora5385]

Even during casual conversation you will look away. It’s hard to maintain eye contact unless two people really dig each other

[@dexternjoku5196]

So that person thought I was into them when I kept looking at their broccoli in their teeth now it all makes sense LMAO

[@cliveharman7237]

Interesting video,I've had women look at me while at work.

[@fatherleo4603]

She reminds me of Emilia Clarke :D

[@AchillesRage501]

its different and much harder to tell at work if i had to guess up until i found out my crush is seeing someone i also work with her she would often use the lingering and the steady gaze possibly barely a look gaze also

[@humphreykarua5241]

Thanks a lot madam under ot

[@stephenhumma4772]

My eyes go even lower down to their t ts. That,s were my gaze ends.

[@laurafedora5385]

That’s usually where they turn around and leave because talking to someone who’s starting at your chest is weird

[@rsuresh8602]

Thanks

[@chriswalls5831]

Let's get it

[@Kingflores150]

There's this girl at the gym we always lock eyes, today she lock eyes, she looked away for a sec and lock eyes again with a smirk..

[@gordonorante509]

Yes the James bond movie for your eyes only 😉😉😉

[@mohammadabu5061]

alhamdulillah great, from Bangladesh

[@winniesamal6460]

I need an answer to this!....so there is this male guy who was on his teaching practice , am a nursing student, so the first day he came to my class , he went straight to the board and at that time there was commotion in class so he was waiting for people to settle,....... I was already settled ready to start class ,I was just casually looking at him , but then our eyes met .. We stared at each other for 30 magical seconds....I swear I fell in love , I don't know if he did to but I fell harder..I couldn't concentrate during his lessons , I would just stare and when he makes eye contact with me while explaining something he looks awayyy. ...unfortunately his teaching practice is over..he recently followed me in IG .. And I keep on posting things about love to see if he will make a move😫😫😫😫 I love himmmmmmm but I don't think he feels same

[@queenkaimikasa227]

What are normal multiple quick glances quote and same exact time it's averted

[@abhishekraj8818]

Second comment Anna!!! Waah I'm so early today

[@BelowTheApron]

I'm overthinking it,

[@elouaililili]

Some of these can go either way, watchout :D

[@henryoh4653]

the one looking away at 3 : 13 she seems to be a redhead but it looked like the video was editted to make it unnoticeable

[@0077avi]

I'm The 9th Comment Just Right Over Here Anna😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃!!!!!

[@djoubayrouathie672]

Hi Ana I’m happy with you always I wache ur video is very important ‘but I want to nkwo relationship distance how to I nkwo she love me we are not living together thank u good luck 👍

[@jaymedalbeth6962]

I like your lipstick beautiful Anna!💄

[@sloebone7399]

Creepy

[@jaymedalbeth6962]

@@sloebone7399 Keep negative comments to yourself thank you

[@stantheman4964]

Yeah smh in the world

[@kasperrasmussen2925]

This Girl and i locked eyes fives times within an hour we both stared at eachother for over five seconds each time while we both had a Big smile on our faces, is she very interested in me or how should i interpret that?

[@martacccc689]

She is

[@peterhansen5096]

She is, even if she dpoesn''t smile

[@CamilaVanilla]

Is there a way to differentiate between attraction and confidence?

[@stonecoldranblesfan862]

Confidence is having strong convictions and sticking by them. Not having to shut anyone down to hold respect but in fact making people around you better no matter their own confidence level. Attraction is biological. The rest is choice.

[@ENFPerspectives]

Let them know you are attracted and ask if they would be interested in going out sometime. If they say No Thank You, it is only Confidence. 👍

[@AchillesRage501]

its harder if you have a crush that is half the size of you and looks up

[@leslierivera742]

I have a hard time looking people in their eyes bc i have anxiety i hate it 😅

[@CitiesOfAsh]

Look at the top of their nose, itll look like you're looking at their eyes from their pov.

[@14kurtismiller]

This is so complex. Can I just ask a lady, why you checking me out?

[@alwaysup4alaugh492]

Not if it's my sister.

[@kunalvarma5026]

@@alwaysup4alaugh492 😆😆😆😆😆

[@kdlehel]

i never understanded this things. we are in 21 century and how in not posible to talk werbaly or comunicate or by writings on some sort. This sign and this body and eye contact communication i never understanded. Probably is the reason to i work in high technological and industrial environment.

[@ifeanyiodiegwu3742]

Some ladies when I have eye contact with them their eyes will start blinking fast as if their eye lashes wants to fall off. What is the meaning? Please I need explanation.

[@peterhansen5096]

Most women and men does that. We all blink after we stare too long at someone or something. Blinking rapidly as you describe it, could indicate nervousness and even panic

[@zataman]

I was sitting across the table from a girl who just gave me stare. Eyes were fixed on me and pupils we're not dialated

[@TheInfamous730]

What does it mean when a woman stares at a guy when he's not looking at her and then when he looks her way she looks away quickly?

[@youbetcha6880]

It means she's fucking with you.

[@peterhansen5096]

That she is likely interested but shy. Depends on her confidence and self-esteem. I often experience the opposite with a girl I often see. She keeps her stare even if I gaze back...we stare into each other's eyes for some seconds, and then she looks away, flushing a bit. So I assume she's not as shy as others are and is trying to tell me something with these gazes

[@Spidey361]

​@@peterhansen5096 what if she does not look away when you catch her staring

[@queenkaimikasa227]

Is barely look a Gaze, quick glance and passerby gaze SAME?

[@fadiga_fundz5946]

She kept looking straight into my eyes for over 5 seconds while talking to me and as I was taking to her... What does it mean please??.. someone help me I love this girl alot.

[@peterhansen5096]

That she's into you

[@talltree4252]

Being attractive is of a precautious approach of high unpredictable emotional sensitive Intangible reaction of utmost behaviour...

[@MissKittyyMeow]

i struggle with eye contact because i get nervous

[@laurafedora5385]

Eye contact is difficult for all primates actually, as it relates somewhat to a pecking order and social interaction. That’s why it’s so interesting. 😊

[@Werday-bv7eh]

now i know why i think she is beuatyful even she is not too beuatyful, she is so feminime in my eyes, when we were far apart we stared at each other until it was as if we were stripping each other, but when we are close she steals glances, when I look at her she look down her eyes, when I try to talk to her she acts awkwardly, I think she is very sweat when she tries dare to speak ❤ ah she also speak fast and loud, I was surprised that she answered all my chats when I told her about pizza 😂😂

[@anthonycapili5055]

She often looks at me but without a smile. I don't know if she likes me or not.

[@peterhansen5096]

Because it would be too obvious if she smiles. She's trying to hide she likes you. She might be thinking: what if he doesn't smile back?

[@NoyonMalakar-rm3fc]

My crush looks at me from across the room and holds eye contact and comes close to me what does that mean HELP😊

[@ctaigwoolsey3471]

I'm 58 years old and I have no problem approaching women at least I don't think I do and I've spp to coached many. Many females since I was14 years old and I've never had any women say yes to me when I have asked them for a phone number or a date so obviously I have never had any girlfriends .what I seem to get a lot of and always have gotten is the few gales that I have been able to even converse with me the don't give me much eye contact they don't smile at me I don't know of any females ever that I can remember at least striking up any conversations with me and very few females will ever ask me any questions about me and the few that have it's like they just don't want to hurt my feeling's or not to be rude it's only obvious to me for at least one reason or another that females just don't even find me attractive and interesting I do approach females everyday because that's all I really can do I suppose

[@chaosdromanah8620]

🖒🖒🖒

[@kylekenan2321]

What about the solid 20 second gaze?

[@palps5190]

Feels so good man

[@kenthepen4857]

I managed a 10 second gaze (and a rather nice smile) off a lady I see occasionally. After watching Anna's video, I reckon things are looking up! (pun intended).

[@kylekenan2321]

@@kenthepen4857 nice!

[@robogreek3157]

what the hell would be stair that long for without approaching? thats weird

[@kylekenan2321]

@@robogreek3157 we were sitting across from each other at a table and already knew each other.

[@JoeMercersWay]

Must have filmed this a while ago or you must be the coldest woman on Earth (and that's some feat) to wrap up like that on the warmest day of the year so far

[@alwaysup4alaugh492]

It was filmed in Antarctica.

[@goodlife4843]

Anna your so beautiful can you give Ways to talk good 👍 with woman and attract them

[@who_is_dis]

There's a bunch of other tells that are more obvious. I look at peoples mouths sometimes as I'm listening just to make out their words clearer.

[@Ajan-X]

As a hetero male, i get somewhat uncomfortable when i get those lingering gays.

[@JingVlogan]

Why my husband staring at me side by side of my face during our conversation?

[@shoaibahmed9183]

HOW TO DATE ANNAAAAAAAAAA

[@cristianprieto9248]

Umm excuse me . Can u tell em where u learned that frm.. ?

[@nathantoth1527]

Ha. At the 7:40+ mark , I thought you said if you want to bitch some more...binge! Ha!

[@Lifeline_drone]

She just locks her eyes on me and doesn’t look away but doesn’t smile idk

[@peterhansen5096]

Because she might be thinking: what if you don't smile back! Some girls won't show the obvious so a long stare with a neutral face might be her careful way to tell you something

[@mikes7446]

Hip hip cheeriO

[@rusherthapa9413]

I love you ❤ You look so pretty 😍 😍

[@Tray-5]

This is too much to remember. In my opinion, if she doesnt give eye contact, she is not interested. I am not taking the chance period.

[@Spidey361]

Yes right eye contact is everything

[@paulquick8806]

Don't eyeball woman at the gym dude's... Let them eye ball you or approach...im 49...let nature take its course.. Forrest Gump said it best....

[@amberhibdon5981]

I realize I have sexual tension with my coworker

[@peloi111]

Here because of this thing between my second cousin and myself.🤡

[@iknowthisone6844]

what monsters live under your sweater?

[@222333aaaaaa]

Theyre making eye contact w me 😎👀

[@gloriousforever3451]

Bianey🤤

[@jdmans]

Answer: No one, no where, no how, never happened, ever. case closed, no need for the video