Eye Contact Rules - How Eye Contact Conveys Interest Trust & Attraction - Eye Contact & Culture

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[@franzferdinand2389]

Few Tipps: Your Eye Contact appears more natural if you switch between the Eyes of the other Person. So just look into the left, then the right, then the left ect. he/she will barely realize it and you can hold eyecontact 100% of the time and you dont look like starring at him/her. You can add a more sensual touch by adding the mouth to the cycle. 100% of the time eye contact is what you want if you listen to someone. If you talk youre fine with 75%. The other 25% you can look around, just make sure you dont focus something else, especially not something which is behind the person you talk to. If you look someone into the eyes and he/she breaks eye contact by looking to the ground its a sign of submission. If a Girl does this its an invitation to aproach on her. All this basic rules of body language are universal. Breaking Eye Contact by looking to the ground is always submission. Holding Eye Contact is always a sign of dominance and confidence, the difference between asian and North American/European Culture is just that Asians abuse this subcounsious body language to activly show respect, while in Europe a lack of Eye Contact is considered "too submissive", unsteady or anxious.

[@Dannndyy]

Franz Ferdinand if you look at a girl and she looks down that means “ please don’t come talk to me”. She’ll hold eye contact if she wants you to approach

[@MissHannah2036]

@@Dannndyy no it means she's uncomfortable with the stare, not necessarily uninterested. If I see a young attractive guy walking towards me in the street, I automatically look down, it seems to be innate. If a woman is uninterested, approached in a club, it is pretty obvious, she will move more towards her friends, possibly turn away from you all those body language cues.

[@zizi133]

@@Dannndyy that's not true I'm sorry. If I look down as a girl, it means I'm shy and you make me nervous

[@lani7148]

@@zizi133 I completely agree. My gave my crush a gift, but was too nervous to watch his actual reaction, but he was excited about it and said how cool it was and when I turned to face him he had a genuine smile and held his arm out for me to give him a hug. I looked him in his eyes and smiled, but I was still shy and nervous and instinctually looked down as I stepped toward him. Eventhough I was happy he was smiling at me and wanted to hug me and we always had super intense eye contact before, I was overwhelmed with emotion in a good way.

[@cph2004]

Your eyes are the windows to your soul... So I wear sun glasses.

[@Martin-uj4mi]

THESE COMMENTS!! rofl i luv it- keep it up haha

[@lia-sz4vk]

Martin Bedan I remember when ROFL was a thing 🥺🥺🥺

[@SEVEN-tw4nc]

*Screw contacts use duct tape.*

[@oudlwared3756]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh my goodness

[@fraser7570]

Yea I don’t want people in my soul

[@PCProphecy]

Good Eye Contact Tip: It really depends on your verbal content. Example, if you're naturally a funny person, be sure to look "away" after saying something funny. Don't look at the person for a reaction & don't smile or laugh until they have smiled or laughed. The reason is simple, if you're not funny and you're looking at them for a reaction, then what you're really doing is forcing a smile or laugh.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

PCProphecy thanks for sharing your tips

[@Pepperoni249]

In Malaysia, for the Malay,If you're listening attentively, look at the speaker with warmth in your eyes , looking while nodding means you're focus and very much appreciated. when you're sorry, looking down for a moment is a gesture of regret. rude gestures such as rolling eyes and staring, is pretty much unacceptable just like in other cultures. Btw, with a lot of advises, this is a very helpful video.

[@SayeeshKanala]

Actual tips start at 3:30 Thank me later :P

[@RealMenRealStyle]

+Sayeesh Kanala Thanks Sayeesh!

[@syedali1401]

Thank you.

[@theonlylgreen1389]

Thank You!!! lol

[@freestylez3]

You da real mvp

[@alvaro93364]

no it doesn't. the stuff before is helpful

[@briankeith757]

I look people in the eyes all the time and I usually see their eyes divert away.

[@brandonsullivan9544]

That's the same with me. I make eye contact anyways haha

[@the-street-criminals]

that's happens to me either when I look at the people

[@Valor06]

Honestly, it's probably because they're not as confident as you, bro.

[@blowandchill3848]

@@Valor06 yes that's what I think. Confident people look people in the eye when speaking

[@nikoletacude8721]

I actually searched for this because I always look in eye when talking no matter who I an speaking to and guys most of the times get embarrassed and shy, trying to keep the eye contact but they feel kind of awkward so now I try not to keep eye contact for long than a few seconds I just think of eye contact as respect and also to tell them"hey I am listening"

[@ehmzed]

Ever since I started to look into people's eyes more often I realized that it's normal for most people and some people won't even take off their eyes off of mine when we're talking! Sometimes I find it super uncomfortable but it's kinda cute that they do it without thinking lol

[@hardikroy5983]

Hey Antonio... I'm from India and have been following your videos for quite some time now. I too have to travel overseas on business and this is something I've noticed a lot. I think Indians are raised in a culture where we are taught to respect their elders...a respect we show by bowing to them and listening to them. Even to women, historically, men were not supposed to have long direct eye contacts... It was considered vulgar. We've come a long way since then but even today, direct eye contact is usually considered aggressive and disrespectful in our culture, period. I think when it comes to eye contact, people should consider cultural differences as one of the most important factors and adapt accordingly.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Hardik Roy That's true!

[@nathanjudd6419]

"We've come a long way"... so you're saying your culture is wrong and another is right? It's merely a change in culture.

[@chrisdacosta6986]

Antonio, you're spot on regarding cultures playing a part with eye contact. I was brought up in India and it was rude to make eye contact with elders. I live in the UK now and see the difference. I do find all your presentations helpful especially in the mens clothing area. Thanks so much.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Great advice Tracy - thank you!

[@jason200912]

I hate eye contact for more than 5 consecutive seconds... It disturbs me and makes me think they don't blink or that their neck is stuck.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

jason200912 Haha! I see!

[@CatsAreNiceMeow]

lol

[@paulinemagala9039]

🤣🤣🤣

[@iFRESHxD]

finally i have problems with eye contact and i'm working on it daily but feels as if i'm getting better at it so i'm going to keep trying.

[@ekosinivfoy5853]

Really amazing I used to do that But I later felt it was awkward now that I know that I can add a smile to it I got it back thanks

[@lokoloko2117]

Eye contact is very important in the modern world as now it is a sign of respect

[@jobredin29]

I love your thoughts on this. Very respectful & honest. Thank you.

[@V21bh]

i'm learning so much from these comments wow. so many cultures and so many differences. thanks for this!

[@tegashone4272]

Am Tega from Nigeria in West Africa, l really do love ur lecture on Eye contact. In culture where l hail from, children dont steer into the eyes of the adult talking to them ,this is to show a sign of respect. Good work.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Tega Shone Great to know! :) Thanks

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thanks for your helpful comment!

[@fdota]

Hey Antonio, I appreciate your stand about being sensitive to other cultures as we become a more global community. Also, great suggestions about eye contact; I wasn't taught the importance of eye contact when I was young.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Falcor, Defender of the Alliance Thank you sir!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

@TheMax8900 Great to hear and thank you sir for your comment sir. Curious - what part of India are you from? I found that with such a vast country you all have a wide range of culture differences as well!

[@gabrielebasilico8926]

Thank you for all the videos you upload! I shared this one in particular with a friend of mine because he came from Ivory Coast (where direct eye-contact is a lack of respect) to Germany, and here (i'm italian so I would say in Europe) is a sign of lack of interest, or personality. ;-) Thank you for your job, i appreciate all your videos.

[@maggiemarl69]

I am Magda from Poland. You have helpful tips. Eye contact is so simply that everybody forget about how to do and they stressed because someone looked at them. thank you!

[@zedooncadhz]

Same! I suddenly thought about eye contact one day and looked it up on the internet, i found conflicting ideas that it was a dominance thing, or that it was a positive attention thing. I dunno wtf is going on any more so i just do whatever i feel comfortable with but still make an effort to make a lot of eye contact. Its a weird thing isnt it. But I do like it when someone gives me a lot of EC just as long as they dont make their eyes too large or intense when they do

[@Nannoye]

Thank you for the tips! This video just makes me realize how important of eye contact is. In my country, we don't care much about eye contact so every time I gave my presentation or talking with foreigners, I still feel awkward to have eye contact and sometimes I feel like westerners have so strong eye contact that make my brain blank even though I am studying English major and the country is starting to be international haha. I think I have to keep practicing. Thanks for sharing your experience From Thailand

[@RealMenRealStyle]

You are welcome.

[@Tarllark]

Thank you so much for all your videos. I have watched quite a few of them by now and I must say they have really helped me out a lot of times, especially when I first started to wear a suit, and a lot when it comes to my body language. Thank you so much Mr. Centeno

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Tarllark You are welcome. Thank you for the kind words. I wish you the best on your style journey.

[@HMSirNicolas]

I have been looking for a trustworthy channel concerning style and manners here on KZbin for a while now. After watching this video I gotta say you have convinced me and I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thanks, appreciate it.

[@coolandro]

Islander, Dominican Republic: Eye contact is a sign of respect towards the people you are talking to.

[@Smac007]

Hey thanks for the advice, I'm a 16 year old (Minnesota) considering going into business for a career in Sales and Marketing and just being able to hear tips and ideas of how to make it and improve my skills is always something I enjoy :) great video.

[@ppaschoal]

Hey Antonio, hope you're doing great. I just started to watch all of your videos and I must confess i'm learning a lot and in a very positive way. I'm from Brazil and I'm working really hard improving my eye contact and other aspects of my behaviour and I already feel more comfortable when talking to people, specially women. Thanks for everything keep up the great work. Greetings from Brazil!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Pedro Paschoal Glad to know. Thank you!

[@JosephAlbuquerque]

Antonio, one of the things I trully appreciate about your videos is that you are devoted to helping men become Real Men with style. I'm brasilian, but I grew up in here in the united States of America. Although my parents thought me great values, I also had great male mentors, I learned a great deal from them. After learning and mastering this true art of attention. I have seen amazing results. I'll recommend beginning with your family first. Start with your wife, It will bring you great joy :-)

[@aaronle9140]

I really admire the tips and tricks you presented in this video. I feel like I'm showing to much affection while making eye contact when really, I am trying to have a conversation. Also, i feel like eye contact is something hard to master due to insecurities or the fear that someone will notice some type of flaw about you. If I had the most perfect teeth in the world, that would really boost up my self confidence in social skills.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Aaron Le Thank you!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

@SMmusicband Glad this one's really reaching out to folks -- we enjoyed going a little bit beyond the usual clothing focus, and I think we will again!

[@nacacomu99]

im from colombia but live in the philly and i learned that when we're talking and u look at the person with precision it makes them want to respect you more

[@mekishiko7000]

Thank you very much. It's the first time I hear someone with understanding of diversity about this topic. I have seen very shy people who avoid eye contact at all cost. It does not mean they're hiding anything or lying like is though in the US. Other cultures can perceive it as deferential, or even rude, or intrusive. You are a very nice man, and your channel is awesome. Thank you for all your tips.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Cesar Landeros You are welcome sir! Appreciate your enthusiasm :)

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Glad to hear that!

[@aceyfresh1674]

great videos man, ive been watching them for the last hour.. very informative.. the 7 scarf tips was especially helpful as i just started wearing them!! thanks dude

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You are welcome.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thank you sir!

[@mohamedatismail]

Super informative video. Thank you.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thank you!

[@MohamadShuhmyShuibCounselor]

Thanks for the info

[@RealMenRealStyle]

You are welcome!

[@kirekagima5839]

I'm a business Ad student and this video is a real help tnx

[@ellei7471]

I having difficulties on looking at people's eyes I find it so uncomfortable now.. when I was growing up looking at peoples eyes while their talking is as natural as breathing. but I notice when I grew up I feel more conscious about people when their looking at me directly in the eye. I like this video because it's explaining how important it is to look at people's eyes while having a conversation. not telling you some technique how to fake it. thanks :)

[@henzota2197]

Same this is why I researched a video like this one because I realise how much eye contact is important but at the same time so weird

[@therealbrappuccino]

Thanks for the tips, and for your service.

[@63Baggies]

I enjoyed your video immensely Antonio. There are many incidences of eye contact succeeding and failing everyday of my life; especially at work, what is also very important is how your eye contact is reciprocated. More Power to you.

[@hanenatti9388]

thank you so much man, i like your videos

[@ironbro7812]

Man your presentation is very professional and the content is extremely helpful. Thanks!

[@cavemenlift]

You earned a subscriber .... Keep up the good work...!!

[@TheWarrager]

Hi Antonio. I was readin through the coments earlier. And i saw that you replied to almodt every coment. And I really like that you are comunicating with your viewers. You deserve a sub😊

[@RealMenRealStyle]

QuaD StorM thanks for the feedback - appreciate it :)

[@alehax27]

These videos are excellent. I'm glad I found you on here.

[@alexalicea1002]

Great video Antonio keep up the good work and one of my goals in life is to be very successful in life just like a business man yourself!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thank you.

[@yggra31]

I'm 18 and from Romania - I am so glad I came across your videos They are so helpful and I can really just learn so many things from them because they are so easy to understand and follow. and I've just subscribed :D

[@Danielorhallsson]

very informative Antonio. The best video about eye teqnicues I have seen. It really reminded me ot the importance of eye contact. thank you.

[@essaidelghazi271]

it's really illuminating. thanks in advance and carry on

[@sadiasyedd]

Really appreciate the way you have explained about different cultures. Usually, people fail to understand the importance of culture in one's life. Cheers!

[@juniorred08]

Thanks for posting your videos, you're an inspiration to all, wish more people could see them and take notes ^-^

[@alexmiller7931]

"pay attention to culture"- i like it very much

[@RealMenRealStyle]

@Grarrgle Good point - it's something each of us need to learn to perfect! On another note - with so many viewers in Ireland - I need to make a trip to the Emerald Isle!

[@hannamaye8871]

Hi! I am Hanna from New Zealand and we are a very multi-cultural country. At school we learn a lot about multiculturalism but some teachers see it as rude when a person does not keep eye contact.

[@lvxisi6163]

very cool video !!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

@DecmanReturns Great to hear I won't have to adjust my eye contact habits in Ireland! And I have a similiar story with a girl back in college - that relationship only lasted till morning if I remember correctly. Haha!

[@carolinelala9818]

This is a great video. I wanted to listen because it's nice to know that someone out there is helping men with these things. I live in a busy city where some people are aggressive by trying to stare directly into your eyes when you walk by them etc. They do this in elevators and stand sideways checking out your profile and it's really creepy and some turn around and then stare you down in an elevator. It might be more from some nationalities but it's too aggressive in North America and it's kind of gross. Thanks for addressing this issue.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Happy to be of help sir!

[@pakpakka]

Well, It was very helpful to me because I come from India and live in Europe. Many people have misunderstood me with my intentions because I didn't understand the eye contact rules in the west. And many times I don' even understand what they were thinking about my conversation with me. So, this series is helpful. I learnt the difference between staring and proper eye contact. Thanks.

[@skyjetfive]

Excellent site, great informative videos,,keep up the good work!!!

[@micgaines]

had a conversation with someone, the other day, who said it freaked them out that I only looked into one of her eyes and didn't alternate between each eye. wasn't a lengthy conversation... no more than a couple of minutes. what are your thoughts on looking into one eye versus alternating eyes when making eye contact?

[@ulisesgonzalez3573]

i love your videos, its been really usefull for me all the info in this particular clip, gracias y saludos desde la Ciudad de México.

[@mookemook1]

GREAT STUFF (DETAILED)!!!

[@neydanguema4123]

Thank you! Blessings

[@donaldterrado4051]

you have a very practical idea..... thank you sir.

[@Ompanime]

Thank you--truly!! I agree 100%

[@eduardosoto6900]

Great advices! One more thing to add is that never stare down towards your feet or any body part of the person you are speaking with. You may seem uninterested thus perceived as rude.

[@farisSTINGrai]

I live in London, UK and my field (TV/Film Production) is heavily based around networking. I have to always get on good terms with people I meet, as this could lead to me progressing and landing bigger jobs. From my experiences I would say that a firm handshake, and not hesitating in telling them what you want out of this experience, as well as stating you will do a job reliably are the most key things when given a short time frame to really sell yourself to a producer, or director or CEO.

[@Mrcoolandfun]

You are a good man!

[@MasterBodyLanguage]

great info in this video. Thanks for posting.

[@tylercunningham3275]

I think about eye contact a lot however, I have nerve damage in my face while I have some facial expressions they are very limited. Sometimes I am wonder if my eye contact is taken as a stare rather than a sign of respect and paying attention. I think people take me to seriously when I'm saying something humorous or lighthearted.

[@tryan310]

I love how you do all your videos on 1 take!!! wow there are no cuts or anything

[@nelsondcunha3156]

Thank you and keep the good work.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

You're welcome! :)

[@mostrolopo]

Great video on an important topic. I come from latin america and here in montreal I get a sense that strangers really make an effort to avoid eye contact. As for people I just met here, I get sense that they do not make eye contact as frequently as people back home. I attribute differences in "eye-contact time" to perceptions of status. As a foreigner I think I am perceived as having low status, thus people I just met only look at my eyes for only a few seconds.

[@yashmathers]

Really good video man...helped me alot.

[@rakeshsuthar4991]

Really its very nice... I will develop this habit little bit more.... Thanks

[@robaidh090]

I like your videos my good Sir. :) very clear and informative !!

[@freddyram1969]

Thank you Antonio. I am learning with your support !!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Freddy Ramirez Gallardo glad it helped

[@paulovasconcelos2184]

I liked your videos thank you

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thank you sir - a very nice compliment and I hope to visit Bangladesh someday soon!

[@muzzukuluwandugwa4891]

Thanks for your PS tips. They are really great. On many occasions in our culture (Ganda) when you are not confident with your eyes, it is a sign of fear and mistrust we even have a legend proverb that says "Fearful eyes greet the host or the house lord". In this case, of PS any speaker is always the host. Once you are given the chance to speak, you are given the power to take over.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

You are welcome

[@lizzyboo567]

I like the way he talks!

[@johnpugh8017]

Thanks for the video is was helpful, following you on Facebook. I agree we are interacting with other cultures more and more and it's important to know their cultures.

[@abdellatifzibeir7375]

I'm from Sudan ,, we really don't make an eye contact with some people , as you said it's a sign of respect there , we look at the ground when we shake hands with the people who we respect !

[@cablue18]

I have another point of view...shoot from the hip and see who's standing in the end, then collect their contact info. But I am also an artist, which means that my goal isn't necessarily to be all inclusive, but instead highly effective to a target audience that will remain over time. Great videos. I'm learning a lot. Love the suit.

[@dattrax7]

Thank you for tips! Got a presentation coming up.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

House Music by dattrax You are welcome. Good luck on your presentation :)

[@SouthEthiopia]

Thanks for sharing and wonderfully defining 'eye contact' from various cultural backgrounds! Thumbs Up!!

[@NorthwestDiver]

Good notes.

[@gwho]

wow. just a single moment without eye contact. good catch.

[@mkeko99]

really it's very useful video i really learn from you and i'm stating to apply that and it's work i'm really appreciate your work think you

[@RealMenRealStyle]

@fantasypills Thank you - although I am far from perfect. I have the same problems/challenges/and fail just as much as anyone. I just don't show those weak moments on camera. Life is a tough .....yet beautiful experience for all of us.