Face Sitting

Face sitting: It's not just a joke - a lot of partners LOVE a good face sit. We're talking about what it is and how to do it.
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[@skinnygumbo9555]

Ugh. Being on the bottom does NOT mean you are submissive. As noted, it gives you the opportunity to use your hands and really explore her body.

[@bobbnick]

I’ve done face sitting with almost every woman I’ve been with and never suffocated. I love it!😊

[@michaelrodriguez3329]

I can't wait for my turn

[@tommurphree5630]

Wait until you come across the one that decides to push out a fart to be funny , but what she thought was a fart was diarrhea that developed .

[@iknowwhoiam6092]

So you just going around letting any and everyone ride your face

[@jimiMachendrix]

@@tommurphree5630 that is truly discusting! and I doubt that is true teeny bopper troll!

[@jonathankeith2547]

There is nothing more beautiful that the taste of the woman you love!

[@misterwallace3479]

Amen to that.

[@bradfordrobertson552]

A lot of talk about this the subject but visual is the best teacher

[@scottc543]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for posting this video. I shared it with my GF a couple of days ago and that night she sat on my face for the first time ever. It was incredible for both of us. There was more face sitting the next night too. I am a happy and grateful man.

[@belindamoore3518]

I'm a plus-size woman and the first time I did this, I was very uncomfortable because I didn't want to crush my partner. But he literally grabbed me and forced me down on his face. He loved it (as well as I lol)! Needless to say, I've been doing it the same way no matter whose face it was and they have always survived. So don't be afraid to just sit on his face, no matter what size you are! I promise, they can handle it!

[@vanessaandxander]

Thanks for sharing Belinda! We love hearing from community members and having them share their experiences 🥰

[@geno5169]

My wife is pretty heavy and curvy.but that’s what kinda what I thought was sexy about her. Her her curves . We’ve been together over 33 years. Married over son hear 32 years. I tell her all the time she has beautiful sexy curves. I even dry her sexy curvy butt. When she gets of the shower. I tell her all the time I wish she crow on top of me.but she feels too heavy.

[@geno5169]

You’re guy is one lucky man! I’m always trying to get my curvy wife on top of me. That’s what I think so sexy about her. Her curves. She thinks she too heavy

[@1personal361]

being plus size is just a plus point when it comes to facesitting.

[@michaelrodriguez3329]

When women's thighs and butts are plump as watermelon 🍉🍉 It's even better

[@Gossdo]

Love face sitting. I've done it with my partner for years and will continue to do so....we both enjoy it! ❤

[@jonathancaro3427]

It’s the most under-rated sex position because women are too self conscious about it. Ladies if a guy is asking you to sit on his face he’s very attracted to you and no ‘bad angle’ is going to change that.

[@GMCTIM]

WHATS a BAD ANGLE ? There NO such thing !

[@kxjx]

You misspelled "good angle"

[@nicholasjordan3217]

New to the channel but so far so good. I’m 42 and I’ve been doing this act since my mid to late teens and it’s always been a crowd pleaser. Even if the women I’ve been with have never taken part in the act before they seem to be somewhat curious and after participating very pleased they did. Thanks guys for shedding light on what some would consider taboo and or kind of an uncomfortable topic.

[@marcelluslisotta4162]

You guys are so GREAT at exploring the topics that are in the back of our "men" minds, but hesitant to broach. Such a great description of the pleasure that you 2 have obviously enjoyed very much. I love a woman "on top" - no matter the position.

[@vanessaandxander]

Yay! Love to hear that Marcellus! Thanks for watching!!

[@Danygirl1969]

Great video! My guy and I absolutely love this position and have been doing it for years.. in fact I was the one who initiated it one night when I felt like trying something different. But I didn't just plop myself down on his face. I straddled his tummy facing away from him, then just slowly slid backwards up his chest (his chest hairs felt amazing, btw) and kept looking back to see if he was enjoying it as much as I was. And his eyes were glued to my butt the whole time so I knew he was! I love having full control over where the points of contact are and he loves it too.

[@marcbahn5487]

Most men have a similar love of a woman's hair tickling their nose and face as they inhale an addictive aroma. So please ladies, stop shaving your kitties! I'm asking now. Don't force me to make it a law. A little trim? Maybe. But if it looks like a man's stubbly chin with a surgical incision you're gonna be in trouble.

[@ronaldyardley8965]

Your Guy is One Lucky Fella!!👍

[@GMCTIM]

.if daddy's like me he's saying come on Beautiful, I got something for ya ! 😂😂👍

[@kurthanke5788]

Something fun to do, is when she has you straddled, and your mouth, and part of your nose is covered (you can breathe, but it's labored), you start to struggle some, attempting to get loose, and/or, roll her off, but you can't, and she applies a little more pressure, covering your mouth and nose. You realize that you're helpless, which in my opinion, is ecstacy. You bring your hands up, and try pushing her crotch area back. As you struggle, she sweetly tells you to give in to her, and breathe her scent. You struggle some more, but it's no use, which of course, is the fun part. She sweetly tells you to surrender to her, and to let her devour you, which you finally give in to. She then pulls her crotch apart, and covers your mouth and nose, but not totally, so you're able to breathe, but not without being labored.

[@DonGilbertoGuruledeNuevoMejico]

🔥 🔥 🔥

[@gingerburke5023]

That's the best description I have ever heard are you married lol

[@shafishadiq7797]

Awesome job

[@CrazyCanuckFitness]

Great info!!!

[@Rocking1st]

You guys are just so good at sharing content in a respectable and helpful way!

[@vanessaandxander]

Thank you Holly! Thanks for watching 💖

[@abdurahmanmayet6091]

​@@vanessaandxander 😊🎉

[@BrandonOxendine]

Hell yes, spread the good news!

[@vanessaandxander]

🥰 Thanks for watching!

[@josephyeo6966]

Which position depends on whether you are a windy person or not. It is safer and more polite to have the wind going downhill than up.

[@edthorne4806]

Awesome love it.

[@jeffsmith4525]

Asking a woman to sit on my face always gets a smile from them

[@sspaceforce]

there is also leaning back on the chest, while tilting out the front of the hips. really just depends on the partners, what is more comfortable. I supose for anyones first time just be patient, responsive to each other, and listen to what the partner says to figure out what the really want.

[@hugh-iu7vo]

I love it keep posting thank you

[@subhashisghose]

I was under the impression that you guys will be performing the Face sitting Challenge. But, you guys gave some solid Information and Perspective.

[@vanessaandxander]

Haha thank you for watching!

[@wilfgendron1732]

As soon as I saw the title of your video today. The first word that crossed my mind was “AWESOME”!!!… I’m very free spirited when it comes to being with the one that you want to be with, and doing things to each other with our bodies that would spice things up. I can honestly tell you that I have asked the lady that I was with at the time to do exactly what you’re speaking of in this vide. “Loved it so much”!!!… I most definitely wouldn’t for one moment ever hesitate to ask to have the same thing done again when I am with a lady. I actually look forward to the next time that may take place. My only hope is that she would be up for the challenge!!…😝❤😋 W

[@williamburns3044]

I have a young lady that wants to do this and I do like going down on her.Can not wait and am looking forward to it happening soon

[@DonGilbertoGuruledeNuevoMejico]

Hope it's dope!!

[@NickMart1985]

Vulva owners... I just can't even.

[@clay5418]

Exactly....

[@Avigailish]

😂😂😂😂absurd

[@m2pozad]

Volvo owners makes about as much sense.

[@big_red01027]

Hard pass.

[@DonGilbertoGuruledeNuevoMejico]

Fucking stupidity

[@mikeburgan7675]

Very Good!

[@sukaenacornelius9285]

It took 13 years!? I’ve been sitting on my husbands face since day one, its one of my personal favorites. We have done it every way, and I’ve asked him to do the same from time to time😂

[@vanessaandxander]

Thanks for watching!

[@leroygreen5263]

I love it

[@ronaldyardley8965]

Wow.. You Got It Right..!👍

[@leroygreen5263]

@@vanessaandxander thank you for the content

[@shafishadiq7797]

Waw

[@ronlong3558]

I love giving mustache rids!

[@williambishop3293]

My favorite subject

[@Killahkron1992]

Facts

[@outofrenacentism7249]

Hey guys! I really appreciate the information, didn't expect the video to be about actual info but I learned a few things. However, I did notice that mostly you talked assuming that the woman/vulva owner would be the one sitting on the man face. On my case, its the opposite actually, I would like to sit on a girl's face and I am a man. I would like to know if there is something else I should consider or if it is exactly the same as the video?

[@edwinharris8291]

I'm by o ok

[@johnhricko8212]

Physics. Such is gravity. And some may not be agile enough. = variation on cunni. Geometry, gravity, personal data (age, size) all matter. Go slow if new. Hopefully u may find it intriguing.., and include it.... have fun! The 'forbidden fruit' aspect is strong... precursor to grinding...;-), but if you really like it, find a comfortable position and take your time.

[@sunnyjim369]

Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!!

[@Ironfisherman]

Face sitting rocks

[@jdogswifty4372]

It is funny how hard it is to communicate our desires...been in a relationship for 8 years and just told her what I desired from our intimate life...and it was still very hard to share like 2/3rds of my list.

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

I Will Play With Your Wife I Am A Bull

[@dermidforde5259]

I love face sitting, especially when done by a bbw

[@andys149]

Beyond facesitting there's something ineffably majestic about viewing the female anatomy from below. When she starts descending to your mouth it's like heaven. After all, before you were born... ok, I just made it very weird

[@victorking4570]

Wow! I feel weird, I am 66 and my girlfriend and I did this at age 17. We did on the job training I guess.

[@MrGuitar1458]

A favorite position for sure, facing forward or reverse!

[@markbeckens]

Who wants a mustache ride!

[@moceri55]

Told my wife “If I die, I die”😊

[@mteegarden]

This is something that I want to explore with my wife but she isn’t comfortable enough to do it. I’m hoping that given time she will get to that comfort level.

[@vanessaandxander]

Thanks for sharing! You might consider watching this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rJTbinWwg9psos0&lc=Ugy6qkD4UZ7Wwt5vFl54AaABAg

[@vanessachaland6805]

Kudos. Enjoy. :)

[@BradGoodridge]

my happy place ! lol

[@wisecracker1814]

Hey! I have a Volvo. Do I count?!

[@ernielaw]

You may not have known Volvo is Latin for 'I role'.

[@johnadams9136]

Please talk about face-sitting but in the context of smothering, fully clothed.

[@craigmonteforte1478]

From my perspective it is one of the most Exciting things to do for me as a man , even more so with the right Partner and you are open and inLove i will note that all Women do taste different i’ve found them both Delicous and not so much oddly, for myself the better tasting ones were the messier ones or Wetter ? , she is a Avid exerciser and drinks more water per day than the average person plus adheres to a very healthy diet

[@robertbeacham6286]

Thank you so very much for this wonderful video !! I love 💕 it !! 💋💋💋💋💋💋

[@vanessaandxander]

You're welcome Robert! Thanks for watching!

[@jackbarrie6007]

Don't forget dust of your face before offering any lady a seat be respectful she will thank you by washing you face with what ever is handy

[@julietate4302]

I did this for the first time at the age of 54 with my boyfriend. Scary at first, but he encouraged me to relax and enjoy. I ended up drowning him (not really) with a huge squirt. I was so embarrassed, but he loved it!

[@vanessaandxander]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

Are You Two Still Dating?

[@Mr89siR]

🤣hoping she's single huh?

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

@@Mr89siR Yes I Am

[@geno5169]

I have to say Julie you’re man was one lucky guy! I only wish my wife would let me please her and get crow on top of me. She used to let her beautiful body on top of me so I. Could enjoy her. She doesn’t like that anymore. I’m missing that

[@sonofjay817]

I feel I just walked into the wardrobe and discovered Narnia. I've been a KZbin junkie for over ten years and had no idea this whole wing existed.

[@georgeclerk9267]

Thank you guys, I will have a better weekend knowing that I am not a perv...

[@LDM662]

We can breathe through ears and eyes, sit down and enjoy the ride

[@rjblue42]

A favourite of mine

[@jeffs.8970]

I love it if a woman sits on my face … among other things

[@andrewward7042]

Judging by the various comments that I have read about your videos. Vulva owners is really rubbing people the wrong way.

[@davidjones8942]

Then they should wax on the Vulvas instead of wax off!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bobjacobson858]

Agreed; we don't need this "woke" garbage here.

[@jimdelaney6468]

Enjoy this channel but the woke “Vulva Owners” is offensive

[@jeremymyers5503]

How many out there thought she was saying “Volvo” when she really was saying “Volva”?

[@davidfoster9890]

Vulva

[@babayegajaeger7082]

It's for the YT police.

[@Ericazonkas]

i love when he can barely breathe but still works his tongue like its his job 🥴🤤

[@michaelrodriguez3329]

💯

[@TaylorHerchy]

I love doing that

[@michaelrodriguez3329]

@@TaylorHerchy Everybody yelled timber

[@Superbikeman33]

I love you! Lol

[@JakobNiemand-kz1fe]

❤

[@Livewire1722]

It’s an amazing position to get into with your partner

[@wes613]

Is their a way to do the face sitting with the man sitting on the woman. All you talked about was the women sitting on the man, can the man sit on the women's face or is there a problem with that?

[@rebeccacarreiro7631]

Lol if you will sit on woman face they will be shocking

[@babayegajaeger7082]

Why would a man want that?.

[@georgejones5960]

In the years I have dated have only had one woman in tune to what she likes and wants sexually. She was very versed in face sitting and knew when I needed air and with her different motions and actions was very erotic in her actions! She was very clean which was a huge turn on and I was into her from one end to the other if that makes sense!

[@candacedawn357]

My fantasy is to do this with my husband!

[@vanessaandxander]

Love!!!

[@heybiker]

She could ask him how much he likes her butt, and ask him to massage her legs and up to her waist. Then tell him to give her butt cheeks a hickey. If he will do this, he may be willing to lick her and she could roll over after the hickey act to suggest he put hickeys on her inner thighs.

[@DR-cn4dk]

Don't wait. Tell him what you want! Life's short

[@anthonyfigueroa7869]

If it's wet its great. But worries about getting it in my eyes!!!😯 but loved it her going back and forward. And if u get some in ur nose. It's stays with u awhile. Every guy should get it on holidays.

[@davidjones8942]

Yes!!! Love smelling her all day!!!!😍

[@Skatakephalos7434]

How about a video on felching /sarc

[@Gamerguy4830]

The real question is what is not so great about it

[@randymaylowski2485]

Plus she could rip a big one on your face..lol

[@davidjones8942]

At our age, it gets hard on the knees (but since I'm on the bottom, not my problem 🤣🤣)

[@mauriceking3136]

What about full weight facesitting.

[@elmic91]

The best kind my dude

[@user-yw9by4rh8v]

oh honey plus size women face sitting is the best

[@MisterMarin]

Star Trek version of face sitting is called phase shifting. 😛

[@southernokie3430]

Oh hell yes but the best part man on bottom woman on face another woman on the the part lol

[@liamodalaigh3201]

it’s just 69 girl on top. gawd

[@markmacdonald4824]

Like your video, love to be sat on!

[@luvmyrecords]

Its safe to say that those that have never heard of it aren't Monty Python fans.😊

[@CARambolagen]

Few women are actually into it

[@babayegajaeger7082]

Very surprising,best way for many,many,orgasms.💓

[@jameswhite6740]

Really ??Never heard of this?? What sort of sheltered lives have they lived?

[@greghendershot8598]

When she getshome. Game on....lol

[@CSI760]

My wife has always been extremely close-minded. She's only sat on my face 2-3 times in 34 years. Sad!

[@billmitchell3329]

Yes, my thoughts are they’re lazy at times. It takes work and they know if they hold off us men will capitulate and do whatever they want. Also, when they age it’s hard on the knees. Face sitting is a young woman’s game!

[@TheAffrojutty]

Love that you guys are talking about this stuff but please ditch the ‘wokery’ BS!! ‘Vulva owners’… please!! There called women.

[@davidjones8942]

Nope, sorry, that's just not correct anymore.....

[@TheAffrojutty]

@@davidjones8942 I’m pretty sure it is 🤔

[@davidjones8942]

@@TheAffrojutty not according to the "there are more than 1000 genders" people.....

[@arsenvokrug4198]

@@davidjones8942 Utter bolx!

[@mwh3227]

You've never experienced real terror until you've had a large woman pinned you down in this position!

[@woodrowmagnus2535]

It's not really sitting, it's riding, like Annie Oakley riding her saddle horn. Giddy up!

[@user-sy1cp3ry9s]

Vulva owner?

[@trumpetpunk42]

"BiRtHiNg PeRsOnS"

[@markvoelker6620]

= woman = adult human female

[@skybluemoon.]

Cowgirl backwards

[@michaelrodriguez3329]

🐄🐂

[@johnprendergast1338]

Wow ! Back in the wild 60s we did all kinds of far out things, but we didn't have the need to talk about it ...It was personal ..

[@kateseivwright9919]

I really do not like oral sex for real, slimy, generally hurts, I have the smells and substances my body produces … I can not help it, but I do not like to share it with anyone else … and has nothing to do with my partner’s weight or age, only with me and broken boundaries recently and in the past …

[@douglasbelasco9773]

I think if its with someone you love they would ease your fears.

[@kateseivwright9919]

@@douglasbelasco9773 thank you for your reply, I politely disagree though … I do not fear judgment or shaming by my partner … I generally find it not nice within myself, even if no one else is present … I do not think telling me they do no mind it ( they have said that before ) or even that they like is going to change my sense of smell or preferred textures … I would actually had to doubt/ deny myself ( I have done that all my life, it is exceptionally draining and superficial existence)

[@douglasbelasco9773]

@@kateseivwright9919 as long as your happy i guess that's what counts ?

[@heybiker]

I think your self-conscious about your body and any scent that may be emitting from your body. While nobody can convince you otherwise if some guy will do oral as a “gift”; be comfortable with your “freshing up” before sex. The pheromones you give off are what drives men to the extreme of ‘anything goes’. I did this for a woman. When I was close enough to smell her natural scent, I could not resist her. She loved the treatment because it gave her control of the rendezvous. Sometimes that was all we did.

[@bendover3820]

Mustache Rides, 25 cents!. Nothings Free....

[@careybird6414]

I love it, both 69 and riding, happy endings 😁

[@alexandrariabova7874]

Great recommendations! Can you please discuss "Tea bagging"- similar but reciprocal...

[@vanessaandxander]

Thank you for watching! We will add it to our list!

[@nelsoncalderon3952]

Alexandra hi baby how you doing my friend i Hope you doing ok interesting you opinión sweetie

[@Rock-ig3pq]

Tea Bagging for sure. Also called the "Tetley manuever_

[@mikestoneking4992]

i already know

[@nessieneeds8046]

At first i didnt even know it was an oral sex technique 😂 i still am confused how the giving oral part is able to move their tongue when the other one is sitting on their mouth though

[@phillipfonville421]

This position is a lot easier on those of us who have had surgery to fuse some of the vertebrae in the neck. I myself had to have C6 and C7 fused. With her sitting on my face I can give her pleasure just about all day if she and I want to.

[@chriskehoe007]

would love to do this and explore it i am open to doing it its a pleasurable experience for both the woman and the man not to mention that it is also a lot of fun as well

[@Bo45900]

Vulva owners??!! Lol!!! I like her already!! 😂😂

[@billmoran3812]

Yeah, I had one in the late ‘60s

[@SgtRock-LeatherNuts]

BEARD RIDE !!!

[@ericdillon7467]

When I was married to who I'm supposed to be most of my marriage was spent this way because my queen says I'm ugly and she needs to hide my forked tongue from the worl, more excuses, ;) Lucifer

[@robertrunkle9147]

I think I'd enjoy it to the Max, but you do need a willing partner. Kind of important. LoL 😢

[@fryncyaryorvjink2140]

Came across a video of this today, I guess I had forgotten how hot it was, but I went down the rabbit hole and watched.. a lot more videos and damnit now I need a gf even more lol

[@hardtimes1267]

Can a man get pregnant from too much face sitting?

[@angieangiel2666]

Lol a man can't get pregnant.

[@hardtimes1267]

@@angieangiel2666 The freaks on the news seem to think a man get pregnant.

[@Slechy_Lesh]

2:20

[@larryhall2805]

Step One) Take your glasses off.

[@davidjones8942]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thomaswhitfield9104]

Actually you got it backwards it’s so much better when her ass is facing you when face sitting! Then you got two place for your mouth to explore! And most guys won’t admit this but most popular is extreme! Meaning she makes him hold his breath long as possible! To be safe instead of a safe word use a series of taps that lets her know you need air! Example 3 taps too the thigh! But be far it’s most fun when your pushing the limits!

[@thesetruths1404]

I want the hover. No full contact. I don't want to suffocate! 😅

[@TaylorHerchy]

Suffocate and drown lol I'm down

[@babayegajaeger7082]

Women HATE this............🤣

[@ShellyBomb]

Love that expression re: "Vulva owner" 😘

[@paulthomson9014]

Vulva owner ? Why not just say the female

[@ShellyBomb]

@@paulthomson9014 😻 ?!? 😂