How To 69

Ahhhh the infamous 69 - it has its haters and it has its fans, but this video is for those who want to give it another shot or try it for the first time! We’re giving six amazing tips for having a mind blowing 69 session.
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[@akadirnilavane2861]

Super explanation!

[@BradGoodridge]

Love it, need more!!

[@HilaryHilaryTalom]

Gi❤

[@geno5169]

Do you have any advice on a husband could try again with his wife or get his wife trying to please him again??

[@Kahawai68]

One of our favourite things. Absolutely love it.

[@geno5169]

You’re so lucky

[@samwalker3441]

Yep. Me too.

[@maryhightower4842]

One of our faves

[@myopiniongoodyouropinionbad]

I love it, only thing I don't like is that her mouth is inverted and her tounge isn't hitting the same spots. Still great tho

[@timledbetter3262]

Yes I've done it MANY times

[@bennyduvall8154]

I love it to pieces! Unfortunately, my late wife who passed away from lung cancer, never did like it. I won't love to find a good woman who loves it! I jave benn without for a few years! I keep hoping i will find a good woman!

[@kananababbana4024]

Love it😊

[@jn7420]

Healthy man here. Love being on the bottom, enjoy the wonderful view!! Girls look great in any and all positions !!

[@user-do8pb2ww2q]

69 is amazing!! Just not as easy as you get older

[@chas4x4]

I love it she doesn't

[@james-jg8iu]

Your not doing it right

[@chiranjeevgogoi671]

ME AS A TEEN WHO DOESN'T EVEN KNOW ABOUT 69 CAME HERE CAUSE OF JENNA ORTEGA VIDS😂

[@ashaamoli4513]

😱😱😱😱 what a coincidence same

[@neilbeech4093]

I have never done it, heard of it and that's it

[@HA-fc9bb]

THE BEST......beautiful and fun for both......Wife loves this every time

[@HA-fc9bb]

YES.....YES........YES

[@marilynlandis5058]

69 years old!!!

[@shanbeck74]

69 one of my boyfriend and I's favorites though we don't do it every time so it doesn't get to be routine or boring.

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

I Am Interested

[@georgechalmers8614]

@@ericfreshcorn3590 ayoooooo

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

@@georgechalmers8614 Now I Need A Woman Open And Single

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

@Nicholas TV what are you doing

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

@Nicholas TV Too Much Info There dude

[@armandob5227]

I have in my way younger years.

[@billygraham9267]

Two attractive people here.

[@chas4x4]

yup

[@hamidrezakhodarahmi1719]

I wished you could illustrate this in detail

[@XPac-lj7jk]

Great video! Could you use the raincoats in another video? Maybe how to get your partner wet or something?

[@sadiesmith2590]

WtF to Xpac 4275

[@andrescerda4730]

When me and my B-M did it we talking about we loved it and we did it for 29 minutes you know who I’m talking about Beautiful!💎

[@Rawnervscope]

thats an ideal time imo i dont understand the confusion once your there something takes over

[@the-fantabulous-g]

Shoulda done it for 69 minutes ohhhhhhh Yeah I’ll see myself out

[@robertmcmillan5640]

no need to be watching the stop watch . You write 29 minutes like it's a stop watch in your head . just enjoy and forget what time it is to reach orgasm .

[@janetstory594]

Just saw a video today that said people are contacting throat cancer from oral sex, due to papilloma virus. 😢

[@jameslester5048]

i'll take my chances

[@takeflypics]

69! Love it! I just love to give way more than I receive, but I def wont say no!! LOL

[@sachinrv1]

My most fav

[@capayton8624]

69 is a very good year 😉

[@sambathchan8830]

I love it so enjoyable

[@sreejamokthala45]

Really a good tips

[@vanessaandxander]

Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching!

[@RickMaxwell-kj6cw]

Seems helpful. Thanks

[@johnizitchiforalongtime]

Yes, my wife and I do it rather regularly.

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

Would you share her ? are you from ohio

[@johnizitchiforalongtime]

@@ericfreshcorn3590 NO, get your own wife.

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

@@johnizitchiforalongtime Okay i Had Husbands share there wives with me before Sorry to Bother you

[@johnizitchiforalongtime]

@@ericfreshcorn3590 This my second marriage, plan to keep her for a long time, were in our 70's

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

@@johnizitchiforalongtime Okay Thanks John Sorry i asked

[@francisbradley1027]

Yes

[@temilolaakinrinlola2535]

Let see the practical styles

[@ChrisVail-di5mw]

so that's how to do it. Damn, I only got as far as sixty-eight and a half.

[@ewoutvan-manen3583]

69. My favourite

[@kencrittenden29]

My favorite number Lol

[@NN-sj9fg]

69 - personally side-by-side is more comfortable.

[@treehann]

69 but it’s only good if people wash up first down there and everywhere

[@jefferyking8132]

I totally agree, as a man my nose get right up in my wife’s rear. Oral is always more enjoyable when all involved get washed up.

[@dorothymcallister6354]

One should wash up before any kind of sex... Keep it clean 🫧

[@tomfazio2965]

Or you will taste yesterday enchilada and fried beans

[@ronaldyardley8965]

@@dorothymcallister6354 of course, goes without saying!!..

[@keithbutler9067]

69 Absolutely love it too bad it's not as popular as it should be

[@fitroytoby1187]

🎉 up by By❤

[@rebeccacarreiro7631]

That is good for people who are younger if your both olddd no wayyy your bones will crack lol

[@sharjeelmoon2998]

Lol🤣

[@jameslester5048]

77 yo male/75 yo female.........yes it is a little more difficult but just as fun as it was 50 years ago.

[@markterrance6676]

Once I got married 69 went out the window

[@bennyduvall8154]

That's sad!!

[@user-io8nv4hm5b]

Wife and I 69 everyday because we love giving each other pleasure Very intense. Alan sharkb8

[@ronaldyardley8965]

Married Life!!..

[@onewaytoplay]

I prefer 96. That’s 69 with man on top. I can get in a few sets of push-ups at the same time

[@LisaBenjamin-jt4mq]

Had that with my ex husband. NEVER again. Nearly suffocated and choked, and ended up having excruciating panic attacks when he totally ignored my panicked efforts to buck him off in order to be able to get air as well as to not choke. I'm never subjecting myself to THAT level of vulnerability again, even if my partner is actually in tune and loving. That was straight up traumatic.

[@Teramydog]

69 4 ever

[@GracieB-zc8cq]

Getting into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me

[@PrezCamacho]

I like to 68......then owe one later.

[@kristinheim3006]

♋️

[@bwashburnff]

69!

[@panliu7310]

why 69?

[@kelleysweat8099]

I have...

[@robdittes5228]

69 absolutely 💯

[@gwsomaha9983]

I prefer 77, you get ate (8) more.

[@KariN-or3sc]

69 most awkward thing EVER

[@BBD40]

Awkward? no it’s great, it’s fun

[@koombaloomba]

Club of 69

[@tammyl.swanson7764]

69

[@TheDekysar]

69💥

[@mrswinner44]

69 new to it

[@lauraz2896]

I’m too clumsy 😂

[@ronmcgiffin6686]

its the best

[@jaapongeveer6203]

Side to side is best. It allows the woman to open here legs more for greater access.

[@paulliles7971]

A bit, she not like

[@user-tn4jc8ng4d]

UHHHHHHHHHHHH DADDY

[@brattanybs]

69…meh

[@TheRuler_OfEverything]

Wow🥒🥒🤑👶🏻🤙🥰🥰🥰

[@CapsuleClubssss]

♋ means cancer

[@stephen1464]

Wife loves it as long as she is on top, no problem with me!!

[@prathikshetty1952]

Takashi 69🤣

[@guntherpetutschnig2705]

Sexposition69 its great

[@madelinegreenler7100]

69!

[@grantsmith4548]

69

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69

[@maryhightower4842]

69

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69

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69

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69

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69

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69

[@mteegarden]

69

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69

[@spaskanatov1446]

Браво Natassia 69👏👏👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️

[@billthompson3147]

69

[@jessicabelliston1573]

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