FAKE IT 'TIL YOU MAKE IT

A second visit to this subject.
A ploy, a strategy that, with patience and supported by positive self-talk and a reward for good measure, can help with making changes.
#changestartwithyou #makingchanges #fakingit

[@user-ze6bn1rk3f]

Do you realise how strong you are? Do you realise how much you are helpimg others by just beimg yourself? You are such a precious soul, you have no idea of your beauty and light. You are a light house. ✨ Just be, you are loved 💚

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you so much for you comment. I really appreciate it as I do my best! D

[@Richmond_Hill]

@@Cheshirelass You are beautiful and shine light in so many lives. From the comments online, it is easy to see your positive impact and that you are held in the highest esteem. No wonder you have so many followers. God bless you in every way. Prayers from Canada 🙏🇨🇦

[@sirpat22]

Dee you are an inspiration and you ARE that young lass still ....she shines forth from your eyes...age and looks are not the measure...the spirit is....the anxiety is a fear/worry imaginary future based thing...stay in the gift of now...thats why its called the present...tunzaluv to thee

[@Cheshirelass]

@@sirpat22 Thank you for your kind words. D

[@learnbyheart7]

Agreed! Amazing strength and encouragement for us all. Thank you.

[@mikedenham5882]

At 72 years I’m finding out that I’m on my own,no wife,never will be again,kids grown,don’t care about me just their lives and families. I’m having to be ok with being alone and learning to be my best friend.

[@farah4185]

Ur Never alone god is always w u

[@jolynngood2746]

I am 72, never married, no children. It is the life I chose. I knew my declining years would be alone. I just did not realize how alone I would be. Sometimes the loneliness gets a little overwhelming but I soldier on. I refuse to give up.

[@Cheshirelass]

Being on your own has its pluses too, but you do have to be kind to yourself. May I ask - do you have a pet? I love having my cat around - and he's a good listener! I would love you to join us on our video walks out at lovely places - with me chatting away. It would be so good to have your company. Take care. D

[@Cheshirelass]

@@cathycollins9011 Cathy, that is so sad - are there no clubs or happenings for older folk that you could join? Please do keep joining us on here - especially on our walks in lovely places. It would be good to have you come along too. Please do.. D

[@laetitialogan2017]

​@@cathycollins9011its a bittrr pill....my siblings totally abandoned our Mother also....very harsh to witness....try if possible to get out to meet new faces...❤❤ from Ireland

[@Life_Love_and_a_Lens]

A lot of us finding this video in May of 2024 ❤ im grateful to be brought here

[@claudiacarvalho2773]

Me❤

[@vivienlee610]

Me too.

[@julietk-no8pv]

Here in June 2024

[@lm9753]

Me, too! Greetings from California!

[@user-bl4kj6gv9v]

תודה לך החוכמה החיוניות ואהבת האדם. את השראה

[@beautifful9514]

A lot of us is finding this video in June of 2024. I'm also grateful to be brought here too.❤☺️

[@Cheshirelass]

So glad that you found us! D

[@sabelg.9398]

you make me feel better. it''s like I have my grandma again.

[@BoobooKikiASMR]

Yes I got that feeling as well even though personalities so different. A real presence.

[@suz3372]

I feel the same way

[@cooksiedooksie20]

Me, too. I lost my grandma last March. And since May, I’m going through a breakup from a long-term relationship 😔 Thank you for this!

[@rosy5273]

same🥹🤧

[@nancylafountain1644]

You are a flower in the garden of humanity. Beautiful and fresh. Thank you for sharing. I think you’re doing a great service for me and others.

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you D

[@PamelaSmullen-du7mx]

Being able to share your feelings with us just shows how strong and wonderful human being you are.

[@Cheshirelass]

Thnk you so much. D

[@user-ne6nk4vd7w]

You are such a tonic, thanks Dee x

[@Cheshirelass]

@@user-ne6nk4vd7w Thank you - D

[@krystal1111]

@Cheshirelass you are amazing, such a strong, lovely lady. I just wanted to say have you had your b12 levels checked lately as you could be anaemic, a lot of us older ladies suffer from this. Check out symptoms of a b12 deficiency as they definitely cause anxiety, low mood, feeling ‘can’t be bothered’. In the meantime keep on doing what you are doing 😊

[@Cheshirelass]

@@krystal1111 will be checked in August. Thanks for caring. D

[@jeanlilley4149]

I’m 76 and I have a little dog. I keep saying I’ll walk her everyday. But only manage about 3 times a week. You’ve encouraged me to go everyday. God bless you xxx your a lovely lady xx

[@Cheshirelass]

Whatever is best for you - and your furry friend of course. D

[@SIERRATREES]

I'm alone with no kids, but find it can work pretty well with some key elements; ,spirituality, a few acquaintances and friends, learning, and keeping an open mind to try new things. I went to a lecture last weekend that rocked my world in an exciting way. My best wishes to you and your little dog. Best wishes and much happiness to you...

[@DisappointingPrawn]

3 times a week is more than many dogs get in a lifetime! Walking your dog 3 times a week is an accomplishment. You’re doing a wonderful job

[@LorraineYork]

You are so honest…Ha ha I have been faking it all my life, every job, being a wife motherhood and now faking how happy I am to be alone…I don’t have butterflies in my stomach, I have elephants… you are a bright spot in my life, thank you…

[@Cheshirelass]

Thanks to you - and your elephants! D

[@pondarosalife7790]

“I don’t have butterflies” elephants, oh how I understand.

[@kittyjenkins6750]

Oh my goodness you sweetheart. I hope you are feeling better now (May 2024) What a treat to listen to a wise and gentle soul. I hope you realise, Dee, what a beacon you are, especially to those of us without Mothers and Grandmothers you fill a little void with your lovely messages. Bless you.

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you so much - I am back to fine thanks. I do have dips, but know I get through them and keep reminding myself too which helps. D

[@Storm545]

❤

[@joanlogan7416]

God Bless a precious gift to us💕💕

[@rodrigues1892]

❤

[@julieanna8495]

Yes. I claim her as my Mother also.❤️🥰🙌😁. Even though she is not much older than myself, she has that innate Motherly way about her. The Mother some of us never had-one that would smile when they saw you, give hugs or say a word of encouragement. I broke that cycle in my own family. My grown Sons always knew each of them was my favorite 💕❤️😂, and I loved them unconditionally. They rewarded me with academic scholarships to state universities, and then degrees from them. Now two of them are married. One left to go.💪🏼. But each knows they are precious. ❤️

[@Godisfirst21]

You have inspired me to make a move now...at 51. I've been frozen long enough. You are beautiful, inside and out. Make yourself go outside every day for 30 minutes. Take vitamin B12, Vitamin A and D3. Best quality you can get.

[@Cheshirelass]

Well done - I hope you are proud of yourself. D

[@SIERRATREES]

What a lovely inspiration youve written here. Thnk you !

[@beatricev2012]

I suffer from depression I'm 59, and there is no family . Or friends. It's so hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

[@Rorybabii777]

I'm 36 i suffer from Generalized anxiety disorder and major depression. It's so hard to get through without family or friends "support system" very lonely sometimes:(

[@RaffsBooks]

Stay strong and try to look for the things that you can be thankful and happy about in life...no matter how small they are. Take care and believe in yourself, everything will get better🫶

[@Cheshirelass]

Do join us on our video walks out in nature. This was my main reason for starting my channel - to help people on their own. It sort of grew from there. I go to lots of different places (check out the playlists) and chat as if people are there with me. That way I don't feel alone either. It would be great if you could come along with us. Take care. D

[@silviacristina6680]

Please, all of you , you are not alone,❤ 😊!!!!

[@meganbrogden1171]

You put what we all go through into words. Making yourself do things,when you don’t feel like it,is very hard. Sometimes,I have to block what my brain is saying and just start walking.You are inspiring us all. ❤keep up the great work!

[@Cheshirelass]

thank you. D

[@31Alden]

You are a beacon of light and inspiration!

[@candyneal7077]

Dealing with grief over the loss of my son. Faking it til I make it every day. Thank you for the encouragement. ❤

[@ramoncotton]

I felt that 🙏

[@Cheshirelass]

Take care - do check out an erlier piece on grief - kzbin.info/www/bejne/rnWTiJaih8utd9U D

[@julieellis6793]

May God comfort you

[@mapleext]

So very sorry for your loss. It must be overwhelming. Thanks for sharing - sending a hug.

[@candyneal7077]

@@mapleext thank you 💜

[@christinerichardson673]

She feel my void for having old wise aunts and grannies I don’t have anymore such good advice

[@tracymacdonald24]

I have struggled with depression since I was 8yrs old. Darkness seemed to slip in on one family holiday trip to Massachusetts. I can remember when it started so clearly. I am 60 now and I still have to fake it till I make it. And getting out the door can be a right challenge in itself. I pray for rainy days so I do not have to feel guilty for staying in. But there is the trick I am now using, I have decided to not allow myself to feel guilty about the days I cannot move from my own space. When I allow myself to give in I seem to come out of it faster. I also have two wee dogs and a passion for drawing I have rekindled to help creative juices flow. That seems to help some, and I do not have to go outside to create. And you know what else, your youthful beauty still shines through, I see it in your eyes and that will never fade.

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you so much - and a huge well done you for listening to, tuning in to your body - and you know if it tells you that you need a day of just 'being' - the world keeps on turning - ready for when you are ok to get out there. Being creative is great - if you have a couple of different things on the go, it gives a choice when your concentration levels are missing in action! Give yourself a pat on the back when you achieve even a short spell of creativity.Do check out my 2 recent pieces on toolkits D

[@Richmond_Hill]

Some days, “doing nothing”, is doing plenty. We need to do “whatever it is” for ourselves. We don’t need to be on a schedule. Do whatever it is that makes you happy. God bless you in abundance and please know that you are not alone.

[@lizziejohny8730]

U r a beautiful soul my dear ❤❤❤❤. A motivation for all. Love u

[@as_the_turntables]

I will "make it until i fake it". Thank you for this video!

[@Cheshirelass]

There's alwaays one isn't there!!? D

[@fayemissy1]

Thanks. Im 63 and i make sure i push myself to go out every day.

[@gllougreig9236]

My adult kids are busy too. For me I make up stuff to do everyday. Picked wild grapes,resale shopping, picked up a house plant, dye my comforter different color and so on. Then there are days I just bake brownies and eat the whole thing and not much else that day

[@Cheshirelass]

We develop our coping mechanisms - but don't eat too many brownies! Take care. D

[@donnarinelli]

Yes, I believe on days when we dont want to get out of bed. From the first time our feet hit the floor, faking starts, but then you find it was the best thing for us.

[@gracebeckwith1256]

That is a motto I followed as a young girl who left home at 15. I had to do all the things that grown ups do. It was my survival technique. A Stronghold. I’m glad to have found your page. This video was made three months ago. I hope your anxiety is gone. Thank you for sharing on the tube. You are a light in the darkness. I definitely see you as young, beautiful and spirited. 💕🦋

[@Cheshirelass]

It has gone! Hopefully for a good while. Thank you for your kind words. D

[@nadiaarbouz94]

Do not resist anxiety or try to get rid of it. Resisting it makes it worse. Meditate and face it by feeling exactly how it feels in the body and where. Invite it and look at it/ feel it with precision and you’ll see that it would disappear. It’s asking to be fully seen and felt and magic happens afterwards. It’s hard, but with practice it gets easier to meet it and transcend it. I wish you the best, you’re a beautiful soul.

[@Cheshirelass]

Absolutely. D

[@carolynw45]

Having a beautiful dog is the best because have to walk it everyday. You can adopt a rescue or just foster one. Its real and you're not faking anything xx

[@Cheshirelass]

Agree - certainly gives you a reson to get out. D

[@Maarit-ty1cy]

Humanity in its core, thank you. It uplifts everybody deep down in struggles and wonders of how it seems to be - a fake world lacking genuinity.

[@jacqui9176]

Just keep pushing through Dee until you feel better. When I'm feeling down I listen to music, sing along and have a little dance, it always lifts my spirts. I hope you have a lovely time with your friend. Sending you love and best wishes from Perth Australia. x

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you so much - that is good advice about the singing and dancing -forgot to mention that! Sadly, the outing didn't happen - this piece was recorded a few days ago and with the storms we have been having, the wind was too strong for recording. I could delete all sound and do voice over but I prefer not to do this. Love and best wishes back to you. Take care. Dee x

[@RomyAnton]

I'm not certain how the algorithm landed it to suggest your channel, yet anyway I watch. You have a lovely, gentle voice and use words that tickle my soul. I like that you're doing inch by Inch successes and also spread kindness with the people you're meeting even if.. I hope you're feeling better than you were when you recorded Dee!!

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you so much - I am. Thanks for caring - it means a lot. D

[@elliessuperfoods]

I absolutely adore you. It makes me so emotional to watch you, cause I think you are the most warm, compassionate and kindhearted woman. I struggle with anxiety myself and the last helpful thing I heard during the meditation was to ask yourself: "In this moment, right now, are you okay?" It sounds so simple and not valuable, but really when I put that into practise, turns out that 99% of time, I am okay. I have a roof under my head, I ate, I am not alone in this world, I have water and the air, so I am okay. I wish you very much health, joy and peace 🤍

[@Cheshirelass]

I wish the same back to you. D

[@jonno777]

I know those mornings. Thank you 🙏

[@bangbangkoo]

I’m 28 years old and I live in Mexico City! Just found your channel an hour ago and you have no idea how therapeutic your videos are. 🥰 So calming, so honest, so inspiring. I really wish we lived closer so I could go visit you. Sometimes I need a hug or just some comfort words and for some reason I find that in your channel. I hope you’re doing okay. 😊 thank you for sharing your thoughts in here

[@Cheshirelass]

Welcome and thank you for your kind words. Hugs are just wonderful aren't they? D

[@styleisinthedetailsblog3430]

Dear Mrs Dee you are a wonderful person! I am a 34 years old new mom and have severe Ocd, health anxiety and depression to some point. I feel so stressful and scared most of the time. I am afraid that something bad is going to happen to me or to my loved ones. I do scary thoughts and cry and feel hopeless and alone. The fact that you share your feelings makes me feel less alone. Thank you so much!❤❤❤

[@Cheshirelass]

Congratulations on being a mom. I am a hypnobirthing practitioner - love being around bumps and babies. I do hope that you have support. It will be lovely to have you joining us. Take care. D

[@juliechurch1799]

Hello Dee I spotted your vid when I had prayed and feeling lonely and rejected . Thankyou for reminding me we can fake it till we make it and win this race at life . God bless

[@Cheshirelass]

Take care. D

[@whiskeyfoxtrotnovember8888]

Thank you for your words, Lady! I'm very glad hearing that... 🙂

[@suegalletly8262]

Never let the devil steal your joy, peace, and happiness. Children of God can do all things in his strength. We are reminded by Jesus, " Let not your hearts be troubled" and " Peace I leave with you, not as the world giveth" in John 14:1 and 27. And do not be anxious in Luke 12:22-31 ~ You are very much loved ❤😊 ~~~

[@c007zy]

Amen sister 🙏

[@callycat6660]

Amen 🙏

[@anahifrancke3350]

i just really really love you

[@debjohnson6332]

Dee, I am so happy to see you out and about! Starting my day with your insightful, soothing words of wisdom has greatly impacted my life. Thankful for you! Happy Mother's Day!

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you - and back to you too. D

[@justpippyj]

I've never heard, "fake it till you make it" put quite like that. You are an inspiration to those of us, all of us, that get in this funk periodically. As my Nanny used to say, " One day at a time baby, One day at a time." Thank you so much Dee. 💓

[@Cheshirelass]

Absolutely D

[@CraftyKittyVintage]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us all. I, as so many of us do, struggle with anxiety. We are better together…supporting and lifting each other up through sharing our experiences. ❤

[@Cheshirelass]

Do check out the piece of guided relaxation I published this morning. Take care D

[@yavrum22]

❤❤❤❤❤❤thank you for sharing your authentic beautiful soul. 🙋‍♀️💐💐

[@cathypreddie98]

It’s so sad that after raising and caring for a family life ends in loneliness a lot of times. Not right. It can get hard. Try and stay active and close to nature. You are wonderful ❤

[@tg4941]

Hello. I am 65 and I like imagine a lot of people my age are just mentally tired of the world as it is now. I still work and i have anxiety but i fake it too and it is exhausting. I admire you that you push yourself forward and i want to tell you that youre not alone as we are all here with you on this channel. ❤

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you - I think there are lots of emotionally tired people in this world. D

[@nickturnbull4105]

Thankyou so much for making this inspiring , sincere and lovely video ,yes we have to push and pretend with every last bit of energy that we hardly have to push on and not give up ,you are a beautiful soul and I admire your courage and honesty ❤❤😂😂😂

[@Cheshirelass]

@@nickturnbull4105 Thank you so much. D

[@michaeldivine]

well done, you are much stronger than fear. know that the creator loves you unconditionally ❤

[@laurahowe5214]

It’s hard Dee. Thank you for saying that. 🌦️and thank you for the walk. 🥾

[@Cheshirelass]

It is, butI hope that the acceptance of emotional/mental problems is improving. I have to say that I have burst into tears when people (that I don't know) have been kind/helped me and they were kind and didn't make me feel any more stupid than I already felt!

[@lsalinas2573]

❤​@@Cheshirelass

[@GodHelpMe369]

Traumas and griefs that crush us completely are used to find a strength/evolution/healing/faith, beyond ourselves - Also, we can’t see/know/understand our value through someone else’s behavior (or actions...) *That’s the challenge!* 3 men in my life: the first - was just a very GORGEOUS young girl, with zero self esteem, and a much older, uglier, disgusting and VERY abusive man the second - was a symptom of complete and total: self loathing the third - was a result of despair and desperation I PRAY I CHANGE THIS PATTERN I PRAY I HEAL I pray the next man, will be the last one. the true one. the real one. I vibrate * I radiate * I create * AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER: I am one with the Divine. I experience, peace, BLISS, love, and joy: CONSTANTLY AND CONSISTENTLY. I experience everything as grace AND AS LOVE. I am at peace. I honor the Divine within me.

[@candycewindels1337]

I feel like the last 15 years have been faking it. It gets tiring. Good for you for keeping going.

[@Cheshirelass]

Take care D

[@beautifuloldsoul7388]

You’re the grandmother I never had. Thank you for sharing your genuine and inspiring thoughts. Much love to you ❤🙏🏽

[@Cheshirelass]

thank you D

[@shelleyemond1293]

I undetstand. I'm forcing myself to do everything and each day. Nothing seems to help. Yes I agree. It's a fog of depression for me. All consuming. Thank you for this encouragement. 💕

[@Cheshirelass]

Make sure that you do something that makes you feel content -feeling happy is a bonus! You may only manage a few minutes - but give yourself a pat on the back for that. have several things handy - as what suits you one day could very well not the next! Take care - have you considered therapy - if this has been with you for some time? Take care. D

[@Soylentology]

Hi Dee. I've just found your channel after Let Them. I am 36 years old, from Melbourne. I have had anxiety since I experienced something traumatic when I was a child. I feel like my entire life has been fake it until you make it. I am not often a positive person and I am surrounded by negative people too. This video is quite lovely. Your wisdom goes beyond that that comes with age. It is wisdom that comes from your soul. You are a beautiful human being. I appreciate you. Thank you for making these videos.

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you for sharing your words, and your kindness. May I ask if you have had any support with overcoming your anxiety, especially as you can relate it back to a specific event? Sorry, that is the therapist in me! Do checkout my playlists especially the mental health (etc) and relaxation/strategies one. D

[@user-xp7lk7uv5r]

You are young and beautiful, keep sharing you inspire me

[@thestumpavarieteeshow]

I rarely comment but as I watch you are speaking on exactly what I'm thinking, to get out or stay in. Esp after working and dealing with complex energies. So... I'm getting me trousers on and GOING OUT! TY 4 all do from the states and I will continue writing my affirmations for the world 😊🎉❤

[@Cheshirelass]

Well done - so glad that you put your trousers on! D

[@farmerjon.]

Thank you for sharing, Dee. 34 and anxiety has been daily recently. Depression too. Even though I thought I was happy. I guess it is what it is and I’ll just embrace and welcome it as a visitor. Comforting knowing you feel it too.

[@Cheshirelass]

Aim for contentment first - feeling ok - whilst accepting that at present it's also ok not to be ok. Take care D

[@elifcamlkaya9926]

Thank you so much! You wouldn't believe how much impact you have on my mental wellbeing. I don't know how but youtube algorithms send you to me when I most need your advices. Thank you so much again🥰

[@mishyanne]

Such raw honesty! What a wonderful woman you are...

[@marianneniblock8099]

Beautiful, inspirational lady, thank you for sharing 💞

[@Masque1262]

I hope you smile as much as you've made all of us smile 🩷

[@abaconeemlimited1435]

I think it’s brilliant that you are making these recordings at your age. You are an inspiration. Thank you.

[@kellieborriello9028]

I’ve never seen your channel before…and it’s no coincidence that I saw this at the moment I gave voice to the anxiety. and feelings that I’ve been carrying in my heart. Yes, it’s difficult to smile when you’re hurting inside. Thank you for making this video. God bless your lovely heart.

[@michellehabza2290]

"Get your walking trousers on..." I think that can be said for so many different times we need that push in our lives. I am so glad to have found this video, to see your face, hear your voice. I am so glad you 'put your walking trousers on today'!! You should put that on a tshirt, merch 😂🙂

[@Cheshirelass]

Love that! D

[@MultiCinderella23]

I love your short hair! It looks super cute! I am helping my mom as her caregiver. I keep telling my mom that she is a super trooper hanging in there as my dad passed almost two years ago.

[@acfiTraining]

quietly, patiently, reading ancient zen poetry helps my anxiety. Its because of the insight and wisdom found between the words. Take a book to a beautiful park with a packed lunch. 🌺🐝just to BE

[@Cheshirelass]

Simply just being is a wonderful thing to do - especially out in nature - though I find that after the first couple of pages of a book - it is gently closed and set aside so that I can look, listen, touch, smell all of the things around me. Aaaahhh... D

[@khollingsworth35]

You are such a beautiful soul in our Lord...Brilliant. Love Jesus and You ❤️

[@gran-fromg-townhola9429]

This is the 2nd videos of U that I’ve come across 🙏🙏🙏 thanks so much for sharing & the let them short was a tear awakening I’m Mexican 57 yrs old grandma & I’m homebound I’m working on it thanks again also I’m from Galveston Texas it’s an island 🥰

[@lsalinas2573]

Have i told you before, that yours is the first video i view each day? I look forward to listening to your memories, they always bring a smile to my day. I hope you are feeling better real soon. Spring will be here soon and things will be brighter for us all in the meantime look into vit B12 injection. Take care Dee. From Texas, USA ❤❤

[@Cheshirelass]

I can't tell you how much that means to me. I have a huge - very genuine and grateful - smile on my face.

[@maytruthprevail4668]

Thank you. You are such a lovely person. I hope things are better, and your lovely smile is out often to grace the people you meet. Stay blessed. Namaste.

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you so much! D Namaste

[@wendi4418]

You are so special!I can't wait to get done work & watch your postings.I am a pet groomer in Delaware.I love my job!I faked it 40 yrs ago,I knew enough to get by,but I kept faking it ,now i am a sought-after professional!It really works if you want it to. Listening to you is like listening to what my mom should had said to me,but didn't or couldn't.thank you

[@Cheshirelass]

Good for you. My grooming of my cat leaves a lot to be desired! Check out - kzbin.info/www/bejne/p5jVnmyCmteIbKs D

[@TheYummyMummyChannel]

Your face is eerily like my Mum’s (she passed away nearly eight weeks ago) and when you started to look emotional, I desperately wanted to reach into my‘phone and hug you. We are all here for you, you are NEVER alone. Thank you for your very valued words, you keep me going (I’m a fellow anxiety and depression sufferer) more power to your elbow, take care , you warm and lovely lady xx

[@Cheshirelass]

I am sorry for your loss and grateful for your kind words. Take care D

[@MrsBossC]

I’m so proud of you and know the feeling you’re referring to! It’s hard but once you’re out it’s better. I pray your anxiety goes away! 🙏🏾

[@Cheshirelass]

Thanks - back under control D

[@lamyaaguerrab828]

i've found your channel recently and i've been watching almost all of them. you bring me such aconfort and peace ive been missing in this little life lately ! thank you sm, sending you a lot of love . take care

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you so much for joining me. D

[@franlombard3774]

What a blessing to have discovered you Dee. It is so reassuring to know that we are not alone in the thick fog that encircles us sometimes. I have turned 80 recently and although I lived my 20 year dream by going to Ireland, I've crossed a threshold of despair (at times) asking myself: what now? So thank you for giving me the fuel of 'fake it till you make it' so that I can continue with this one wild and wonderful life of ours, even when the fog persists at times! 🥰

[@Cheshirelass]

Do take care Fran - and I hope that you feel you can join us on our video walks with me chatting away. There are lots in my playlists.They are relaxing and it would be good to have you along. D

[@I-ris2023]

Just stumbled across your videos quite unexpectedly and so very glad of that. It's such a blessing to hear you speak on things with your perspective with such positivity. Thank you for making these videos , so refreshing and gives hope to things most of us experience in life and wonder.

[@minerva4545]

'take the very best care of yourself that you can'....love it, thank you!

[@ruthc4620]

God bless you. Thank you for sharing yourself so openly with us. I hope the sun has come out for you again.

[@jessiewink]

I also obligate myself to do what I know makes me feel good, I am dealing with depression and even though sometimes crisis are strong, I let them pass and fake it til I make it, I feel like I see you in me, send you love. And thanks for all your wishes ❤️❤️

[@Cheshirelass]

Keep on keeping on at a pace and way that is right for you. Take care. D

[@digitoes]

You made me chuckle about faking the beautiful lady! I feel that way too, but your words really rang true to me! Thanks for that,!!

[@adellahall4526]

Thank you so much, Dee. This helped me a lot today. Your words and your vibration soothe my soul every time. Thank you thank you thank you

[@moralebooster8437]

For me i prefer to sink into my fearful or sad feelings, and understand them as best i can. Things tend to persist much longer if i run from them. And then once i understand and console my feelings, i feel more empowered to make a change either mentally or physically, that helps me feel better. Sometimes that change is as small as choosing a positive focus, but only if that feels helpful at that time 💗 be well everyone. Life can be very challenging, you deserve some gentle loving kindness

[@Cheshirelass]

Life can be a challenge and we all find ways through that suit ourselves. Take care. D

[@janetmooremendias233]

I am amazed that you went for a walk especially that long. You fought the dark force in the moment, you won. Take great care too. 06/12/24

[@officeadministrator9316]

Just found your channel! I am always telling my daughter, "Fake it until you make it." Glad to know someone else does the same thing. God Bless!

[@donnadornbusch6738]

Dee, I’m 78 and anxiety is always my ongoing fight( faking it that all is well…) you are so amazing, hangin there .

[@Cheshirelass]

You can sort this - have you tried using affirmations? Or diversion tactics. If I have anywhere to go about which I am anxious - I make up rhymes - doesn't make sense often, but so long as it rhymes - two lines of rhyme, then a line that follows on by context - then rhyme. It really diverts those grey cells! D

[@rememberabc]

You know there are so many people in the world hurting. I truly believe you are one of their champions. You need to remind yourself constantly to give self care and take care of yourself because you are always thinking of others and want to help them. I say all that just to say how can you do that without going through the fire yourself? Your life might be the perfect scenario to create someone like you who can help so many others. ❤ Take care of yourself, too ❤

[@Cheshirelass]

I do - we have to. D

[@l.renault3044]

Yes I do that! I am so glad that your site popped up on my you tube! I've watched and enjoyed you for the last three days.

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you for that - D

[@spice8831]

Your delightful. Real and raw.. thank you for opening your heart and sharing of yr self.

[@Love_earth_heaven]

You are such a beutiful soul❤❤❤ thank you so much to show you that vulnerable🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@Adrijabhattacharya778]

Needed this so much... I myself have been struggling with anxiety ever since I can remember... Your videos and words of wisdom makes me feel in peace. Thank you for making my days better, ma'am.

[@Cheshirelass]

Take care. D

[@sydismine]

Keep on in your beautiful heart! You're giving the collective permission to "fake it."Lots of humor in "mistakes." Even that is AUTHENTICALLY you and human. We have the ability to make ourselves seek joy in the most simple things. Nature looks beautiful on you! Thank you for your grace! 🥰🥰🥰

[@h-s7218]

I just discovered this Chanel and I'm loving it, she is so kind and wise! Keep doing what you do ! your advices are so precious !

[@Cheshirelass]

Thank you so much!! D

[@lynnwaters]

As a recently new follower, I am catching up on some previous posts and am glad to see you happier and brighter in recent posts. As one who has had lifelong struggles with anxiety, it isn't easy to get through at times. Thank you for your kind and helpful videos.

[@Cheshirelass]

It is my pleasure Lynn. Thank you for being with us. I hope that you are enjoying your catching up. You are so right about the struggle. D

[@lindaetue87]

I'm so glad l found your videos today. I've listened to 2 and really enjoyed them. You have a new friend.....many many miles away. Thank you for that🙏💕

[@jolynngood2746]

I watch your videos and take solace in knowing there are others who struggle with life. I don’t feel so alone. Thank you.

[@Cheshirelass]

sadly there are far too many who struggle. Please do set aside your struggling and join me in some guided relaxation using hypnosis - I am a clinical hypnotherapist so no worry there. D kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZ-YZox4m9eCh68

[@hmmemz1654]

Thank you for this. You are impacting lives with this 🙏❤️

[@khill6510]

Numerology has taught me so much. One of the biggest is that people who have a 6 (or multiple 6s) struggle with anxiety more than those who don't. Since all numbers have positive and negative aspects, it's up to us to recognize when we need to flip the energy to positive. How do we do that? Well, the positive side of 6 is creativity and nurturing to name just two. Find a way to be creative or find someone to nurture. I've heard you mention crafting and family so it wouldn't surprise me if you have a 6. Consider it your superpower if you can redirect your energy. I've only just found your channel but I thoroughly enjoy your content. ❤

[@Cheshirelass]

Interesting - thanks for sharing. D

[@EKuehn85]

Amen! Yes keep going and faking it I like that!

[@vikingmike8139]

Very insightful. Wonderful message, Cheers!

[@marcelaalvarez7385]

All I have to say is that you are an amazing lady and an inspiration for everybody else. Much love to you ever ❤

[@Shathabadarneh]

Found this video in july of 2024, thank you for finding me i really need a nice lady’s advice 🙏🏻

[@angelahernandez2830]

Thank you Dee hope you get better God bless you Love ya ❤

[@senoritaaurora5123]

You are just the tonic I need in my life. You're wonderful.❤

[@Cheshirelass]

Wow, thank you D

[@Richmond_Hill]

Dee is the tonic I need in my life, too. You said exactly what is in my heart, thank you.❤️

[@madalenabentodemello3174]

Dear, Dee, thank you for being who you are and share so much love, wisdom, power and beauty! You are so beautiful !!!!!

[@RobynMarieGonzalez]

So amazingly strong!!! You inspire me!