Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email.

Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email Out Of Nowhere Explaining Me Everything W/ Proof. So I Ruined Her Life With It...
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[@Gabbz737NEW]

The fact that they wanted to "forgive both" of their children when op did nothing wrong is hilarious.

[@hendrikworung1967]

Typical "golden child" situation...

[@conflicted_sides2855]

@panshul5633honestly, it’s not golden child - bad child, it’s only child - servant

[@FlipTheBard]

The parents don't want to admit they screwed up big time, that would hurt their pride, so they chose the "let's all shake hands" option.

[@wisteria3032]

and even if OP had done something wrong they never forgave him. they were ready to accept him back when he proved his innocence which is not forgiving. Actually they probably meant they would forgive him for ruining their relationship with his sister which is even creepier

[@thatjeff7550]

He committed the ultimate sin of making them look bad. /s

[@tko930]

As the old saying goes "Don't try to ruin my life with lies when your life can be ruined by the truth"

[@Voxdenable]

Seems like missy sissy is a karma houdini... so much for the truth. v_v Well, at least OP is free, and the real truth is knowing his enemies would have been his family, if he stayed.

[@tzarg]

never heard it before but it sounds true and poetic

[@tiefblau2780]

But I have a Poojaina Now FORGIVE ME

[@tiefblau2780]

Stay strong against those who Wrong you

[@ShawnFX]

That goes hard!

[@DaShikuXI]

Honestly OP is lucky. Sure there were hard times, but it showed exactly who his parents are and in the end that's for the better. Better to be betrayed early than late.

[@unkownbeing5420]

Not if you not financially stable or have the highschool degree or GE

[@astoria4ever]

@@unkownbeing5420 better that he knew exactly what kind of monsters they were so they couldnt manipulate and corrupt him

[@eavyeavy2864]

People who afraid to trust:

[@taminostam9912]

OP really was the outcome of fucking around and finding out for their sister. OP for real was like "fuck you, stupid"

[@tiefblau2780]

But I have a Poojaina Now FORGIVE ME

[@RedLeif1]

I liked the wording of the son punishing the parents for "a mistake they made seven years ago." It IS a mistake, but it wasn't just made seven years ago, it was one made every moment for seven years, a seven-year-long mistake. Big difference.

[@qq84]

It wasn't a mistake, they're evil and just searched for an excuse to throw him out, because he was the scapegoat.

[@amandhaka8847]

mistake they ruined his godamn life

[@HippieInHeart]

Yeah, I agree, except I wouldn't call it a mistake. A mistake is something someone does without being aware of how they're acting. If I am helping my wife with cooking and I somehow end up accidentally cutting her in the finger while we're both cutting up some vegetables or something, then that is a mistake. What his parents did wasn't a mistake, it was a conscious choice to kick him out of their lives for good. Now they have to live with the consequences of their actions, no matter if they call it a "mistake" or "accident" or whatever else.

[@naderabdalla6544]

@@HippieInHeart That's an oddly specific example...

[@tiefblau2780]

But I have a Poojaina Now FORGIVE ME

[@peterherk5216]

Most toxic family ever. If I had a family like this, I'd have put a restraining order on all of them for this talk. Edit: woah, didn't expect this many likes

[@lmusima3275]

Terrible family. Guilty before proven innocent. The future consequences will be harsh

[@kgunitkeese17]

I've read worse. There was one in which a son was accused by his cousin (15 at the time) of SAing her when she was a child, and he was excommunicated by the rest of his family immediately. They contacted him 9 years later telling him that they learned a month prior that it turned out the the cousin had made up the story. It's bad enough that his life was hell and had to go through therapy, but I think it's worse that his parents did not believe him.

[@ygamer3713]

07

[@Missingno_Miner]

Yeah, this seems like the exact sort of situation restraining orders exist for.

[@peterherk5216]

@@kgunitkeese17 yeah, I heard about that story too. I sometimes wonder what the hell is wrong with people acting like that.

[@MyrmidonRadd]

Honestly, I am astounded that OP came out as good as he did, given the unrelentingly toxic family he spawned from. Here's hoping his new life is going well.

[@edwhatshisname3562]

OP kind of hinted at how that may have been the case. He wasn't spoiled the way his sister was, and it sounds like they may have been a bit harsher to him as well, which gave him a reality check early on in life. You don't want to make life too easy for your kids, or they will grow up to be narcissists like this guy's sister and parents, and/or they will lack in maturity and not have the strength to stand on their own when they are adults. Ideally, life should be difficult but not too difficult while growing up.

[@MaryDunford]

When all you've lived is toxic BS, you get really sick of it. If you don't become what you hate, it's because you're consciously determined not to. That takes a lot of self-awareness, though.

[@cetadel6597]

They're vengeful, angry, and hold grudges. It is impressive that that's all, but honestly that's kinda expected.

[@athraxis]

It sounds completely made up

[@smilloww2095]

Thats what I was thinking of too

[@user-yg2uy8bc8q]

This doesn’t need any context so far, but just this fact that they decided to kick him out for just being friends with the person that the brother in law cheated with. 1:45 Nothing else matters, just that fact gives out how messed up the parents are.

[@PsychoMachado]

The sister told them OP helped Pete cover his tracks with the cheating, while Pete told OP Hanna said to him OP helped her cover her tracks. So she made both sides think OP knew what the cheater was doing, helped and encouraged them to do it.

[@voidroad]

lets be real , they were just looking for an excuse

[@ethanhanover3263]

And her allegations weren't true at all. Yet Her lies were enough proof for them to cut off a family member without thinking twice

[@tsm688]

@@voidroad I think that's a good take... The parents sound more weak than vengeful and the sister took advantage of that to push her agenda, plus the thoughts they were already having that he should get out of the house.

[@DigimontamerB]

Agreed

[@saraashley464]

My parents kicked me out and put a restraining order against me and I still have no idea why they did either of those. I was lucky enough to have one of my older siblings take me in and honestly she’s done more for me in 2 years than my parents did in 20 years. It’s not exactly what op went through but I understand how he felt at the time and feels now

[@LostGlitching]

I mean. My parents kicked me out too since they don't want me to be depending on them even after adulthood. I guess it helped me stand up on my own. That could be the reason. Idk about the restraining order though

[@sintagrate6853]

@@LostGlitchingI mean judges don’t just give restraining orders, I’m pretty sure there has to be a reason

[@LostGlitching]

@@sintagrate6853 I know. But that's just my experience. So it could be something entirely different

[@saraashley464]

@@LostGlitching nah if that was the case they wouldn’t have took me to the police station and not take me off their phone bill. I can’t blame you for thinking that. You unfortunately don’t know how terrible they are. Out of 6 siblings they kicked out 5 of us. Beside they wanted to kick me out when I turned 13 so they finally got their wish lol

[@saraashley464]

@@sintagrate6853 as far as I know there isn’t. My parents are absolute garbage so they either dug up stuff from the past or made something up

[@FlipTheBard]

If I was OP I would've trashed that family's reputation by telling everyone what they did. Clearly their own image and pride is more important than being good parents.

[@normaleverydaygoldfish748]

I mean...he sort of did tell everyone what they did...that's why we're here!

[@reyvaldosoetiman2389]

Tell the to other neighbor that will ruin the reputation that has been built

[@DROK278]

​@@normaleverydaygoldfish748Guy didn't listen to the story obviously lol

[@chocolatesquirrel2002]

​@@normaleverydaygoldfish748no but we dont know who they actually are so this might aswell be a fake story, is like pressing charges on someone without giving out their names/identities

[@xoxo2226]

Parents who insist on keeping up the appearance of a happy family to other people whilst refusing to actually build up meaningful relationships with their kids are scum.

[@samiippotsuboku2580]

i love how the villain of the story isn't even the worse here , the parents are even more scum

[@jambalie]

The parents made her who she is, after all

[@asmodiusjones9563]

Don’t worry, it never happened. It’s just a story.

[@GeezSus]

It's a story that TOOK PLACE IRL wdym

[@GraveUypo]

@@GeezSus you can't know that. a lot of these are made up

[@wickesentertainment2377]

OP should have called out his parents as failures for taking his sister’s word and not getting the facts straight with them

[@stantona07]

OP should have played nice for awhile and have them come to the wedding. Then, OP stands up to give a speech thanking everyone who helped them get to that moment. Then turn to the parents and the sister and air out all the dirty laundry to everyone and have security take them out.

[@noobslayer6915]

​@@stantona07 Nah...why ruin the wedding?

[@BraveryWing26]

@@stantona07 They didnt come to the wedding because they hated OP at that point and would not have come anyway. EDIT: WHOOPS! I was wrong. Your plan sounds awesome and OP should do it!

[@frogbrain944]

​@joseosorio17 no, he should not. Best revenge is simply being happy, worst revenge is bringing drama to a happy day. Why spoil the day of love by seeing their faces? Plus they probably would yell at him and need to be escorted and cause drama (that he would always remember while thinking of his wedding day that should be about him and his wife) + they would totally bring the sister with them and who knows what she can do and what she can destroy. Spending any time of this wonderful day on them is a waste of time anyway, they don't worth the attention But my main point is... from this story it seems like op doesn't have any other relatives? At least he only mentioned his friends that helped him and that his only family is his wife so there no real point in making a scene cause it could be that they'll be embarrassed in front of people they don't know and don't care about and who knows that op went no contact with his family? So it's not like they'll be disowned or judged by the relatives and it'll just make them angry and sister already annoyed him with the calls and going to his house, they know where he lives This family doesn't deserve any energy of his and this "revenge" can have consequences

[@BraveryWing26]

@@frogbrain944 You are right. That would be best.

[@JimiGosu]

Family is important, but this guy is TOO GOOD FOR THEM. His family abandoned him over a lie and when he exposed the truth, they think he did something wrong and actually has done something that requires forgiveness from ANYONE. This guy's family has no right to even talk to him anymore. They are OUT forever. It's the least they deserve.

[@lucykitsune4619]

If the family you were provided with at birth is not satisfactory, it is completely okay to search for and build your own family with people you love and care about

[@sebastianrochefort6763]

Honestly Abandoned over a lie Sucks, but depending on the lie and how convincing it is, understandable and forgivable once the truth comes out. (Like if OP had been accused of being a p*d*phile r*pist, with forged testimony, and the OP having weak defences/ no alibi). but the Misdeed OP was accused of (covering for cheating), in no way merits the severity of the punishment (immediate expulsion from the home and no contact for 5+ years). Like I'm imagining this scenario playing out between my brothers where I am told the tale that B covered up for A's wife's cheating. I would be really dissappointed in him, and might go low contact. but I wouldn't go to NO contact over this.

[@CD-vb9fi]

Yep, this "behavior" is common for humans. You can see it everywhere It is summed up in a phrase that reads "it is easier to fool people than it is to convince them that they have been fooled." Truth makes a lot of people upset for that reason because the moment they "accept" that truth, they have to also accept they did something wrong. And since that is hard for narcissists to do...

[@robineuvonen224]

It's fiction

[@RainingRedPandas]

Man, this doesnt feel like justice has been served. These parents are horrible for throwing their kids out like this. They're the real problem here, imo

[@HippieInHeart]

I mean, justice certainly will be served though. OP does not want to have anything to do with them ever again, and judging by how self-absorbed and egoistic his sister seems to be, she will probably not want to stay in contact with them either, once they get too old to be useful to her. They'll die alone and forgotten, and rightfully so. "Parents" like them don't deserve any better.

[@MikaylaROL]

I feel the same

[@Iwanttoblowmybrainsoutrn]

​@@HippieInHeartexactly. these are parents that don't deserve kids

[@Xbalanque84]

No wonder their favorite turned into a Cluster-B sociopath.

[@hx5525]

@@IwanttoblowmybrainsoutrnOh, the parents deserve Hannah all right, just not Op

[@SpectralNapper]

She's definitely a monster, but that family's parents....hell talk about hard-core toxic

[@ComaLies225]

Families who are quick to abandon their children without proof are unhinged.

[@ceddavis7441]

That's being very polite.

[@DarkEinherjar]

Unhinged implies instability or lack of self-control, none of which these parents have. They're just toxic narcissists who play favorites and have no remorse about it. Even in the end, they refuse to take accountability for their actions, expect OP to forgive them unconditionally and let their golden daughter get away with her BS again.

[@Bersilus]

You haven't come across golden child syndrome ppl

[@circeciernova1712]

One point: your fiancée is NOT enough. Make sure that you also have a solid network of friends around you. One person turning on you should ideally never leave you with nobody to turn to.

[@J1ggS4W]

He meant she’s his only family. Not his only social life.

[@fatassval]

I agree with this. Anything could happen. He should build more strong links just in case

[@diaperfang5293]

Either way, who needs people, and it showed for old buddy in the story.​@@J1ggS4W

[@sarahzahira7432]

@@J1ggS4W true that

[@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami]

Yep imagine if he didn't have that one friend who let him stay

[@vdd]

The parents here are disgusting Even if the op had introduced Emily to the husband and they’d had an affair, how would that be their fault?! It’s not like they introduced them with plans in mind for them to cheat Why would you kick someone out for that?!

[@vellathewench]

He did find out that she told her parents that he had helped the husband hide the affair. Ofc it was all lies.

[@drifter139]

long story short: the golden child made demands and parents threw OP out to make her feel better

[@InfernosReaper]

And the dumbass reject didn't consider that as a legal adult, some renter law might apply(especially if they pay for anything at that household) and they could get more time to leave or potentially work stuff out.

[@Danny15877]

​@@InfernosReaperthe story is fake too.

[@InfernosReaper]

@@Danny15877 Figures. Most of them are. Most either never happened or the person lies about key information that completely changes the story

[@Sanderford]

Hannah ruined his life with lies. He ruined Hannah's life with the truth. They are not the same.

[@SithMaster184]

And yet the parents still took her back in after only a week or two. Meanwhile he only got invited back after 7 years. Favoritism at its peak

[@Sanderford]

@@SithMaster184 Sounds about right, but honestly he seems like he was expecting it. He's better off where he is now.

[@T_Cup]

She ruined her own life, and it's barely even ruined - having to live on your own and support yourself in your 30s-40s when you have a stable job is hardly the same as being kicked out in your early 20s without one

[@susanc4622]

Hardly ruined- the parents took her back very quickly.

[@lelouchvibritannia4028]

I absolutely hate parents like these.

[@Wassyl71]

this minecraft gameplay gives me anxiety holy shit

[@Al3ksandrOrlov]

First time eh?

[@dravenocklost4253]

Weak

[@Lizzifer7]

You guys are watching this bullshit

[@TimeMaster57]

​@@Lizzifer7yes, the background is there for a reason

[@Zerif69]

Story's like these makes me so glad I have the parents I got. I might have grown up poor but I would never trade the parents I have for being rich. Our bonds was tighter because we where poor.

[@qq84]

There are also good parents with money.

[@ZXChris93]

I feel you man. My folks are legit the best, and I only wish I could do more for them.

[@Zerif69]

@@ZXChris93 same

[@AstronautLoveTriangle]

That's pretty classist.

[@DuskPShermanWallaby123]

I come from a poor life too, and my family is just as toxic

[@blclegger]

God I hate the "but we're family" argument. OP should have asked them where family was 7 years ago. And would they have even known/cared if he was found dead in a ditch somewhere because it's pretty clear they didn't even try to check in on him for that entire time

[@lmusima3275]

Crazy parents. No sense of justice. They were so quick to throw you out without hearing your side of the story

[@tsm688]

--or wanted him gone for other reasons they were too weak to say. That happens sometimes.

[@lmusima3275]

@@tsm688 poor judgement

[@qq84]

They threw him out because he was the scapegoat and she is the golden child.

[@HinataElyonToph]

They were just looking for a reason to get rid of him and they jumped at the chance

[@LygarZeroX]

they were never really your parents. they never actually raised you. if they had, you would have been infected with their evils. you are better off without them. it wasn't even your fault in the first place. you were never related to the incident. they just took it as an opportunity to get rid of you. they never wanted you and took the first opportunity to get rid of you. the only non-evil person in the family, they probably never saw you as family since you were not as evil as them.

[@nehpets216]

The only reason they want to be back in his life is the possibility of grandkids that they might care about.

[@butecodesentina1766]

@@nehpets216 exactly what a thought, after this much time they probably figured out their daughter is a loser and won't be getting aniware

[@ADtheUber]

"In an insane world it is the normal who are called crazy"

[@akam9919]

This man doesn't need forgiveness; he needs a fucking apology.

[@Aguy18101]

Tldr: sister cheats on boyfriend blames brother, brother kicked out 7 years later boyfriend sends brother truth, brother tells parents and sister there, sister kicked out being delusional and sad, sister becomes crazy and gets arrested while trying to attack brother, parents bail sister and parents try to make both apoligise for ruining both eachothers life even though it was the sisters fault only.

[@cameo-taku4965]

If she didn't want to face a vengeful monster, don't make a reason for revenge

[@vlad-igor]

Classic narcissistic parents created narcissistic sister. OP was too kind, honestly I would've blocked everyone involved & change my social media accounts so nobody can get to me, I used to do this a lot to family/friends that are mean. If you can't be nice then go away😅

[@qq84]

I wouldn't block them. Let them send you messages you can archive and use against them.

[@Cainesugars]

If the parents didn’t plan for a second child then they should give the second child up for adoption to a loving and accepting family or they should had the father use a condom or had the mother use anti pregnancy pills Shows the sheer carelessness and stupidity of these parents

[@shadowmaster335]

no such thing as a "unplanned pregnancy", it is a series of decisions leading up to it, first starting with the dad not using a condom, then the mom for not using a "terrmination pill", then not getting an abortion, then not giving up op for adoption, they persistantly chose to keep op

[@Daeneiracorn]

birth control can fail and condoms can break but understand what you mean. absolute morons they are.

[@insankamil2909]

raising a children is like double-edge sword

[@Cainesugars]

@@insankamil2909 Where it can go right or wrong It’s easy I can and I can tell it’s hard but I’ll admit I don’t know what that’s like because I never had any kids so I can’t say or comment as a parent but rather as a observer

[@sumyrda2772]

Contraception isn't foolproof, unfortunately, as evidenced by statistics and shows like "I didn't know I was pregnant". Being unexpectedly pregnant and still having the baby is very common, too. Maybe they thought they'd have the emotional, mental, and financial resources to take care of a second child but realized later on that they lacked one or more of those. And it's not always easy to find help when you're struggling as parents - assuming they even realized they were struggling more than usual. So far, so common. I can't really blame them up until that point, and it sounds like OP didn't either. Please don't be so quick to judge parents of unplanned children. Most of them are really doing what they can. But the rest of this particular story, yeah, that's f*d Up, I totally agree.

[@dravenocklost4253]

Wow they spoiled his older sister. Lazy, entitled and no responsibility

[@WilliamBrowning]

Narcissism runs in the family. OP escaped that curse and his family.

[@spoof2062]

OP needs to find out who is telling these people her addresses/number because clearly they are not on her side....

[@SCP01986]

I saw on another reddit video how an OP managed to figure out the 'rat' who kept giving her JustNoParents information and it was her cousin. Between three other suspects, she fed a different lie to see which one got back to the parents and from which lie was told, OP managed to figure out it was her stinking cousin who kept betraying her.

[@CareerKnight]

Its entirely possible it was just from stalking/google searching.

[@edwhatshisname3562]

His sister sounds like a classic narcissist, and it's no wonder with how he briefly describes her upbringing, his parents also sound like they could be narcissistic.

[@zachary6425]

They are

[@narsilthefreak6171]

Being the unfavorite child might've actually been a blessing in disguise- OP wasn't raised to be a spoiled, bratty narcissist like his sister.

[@JEAGERlST]

He didn't take revenge. He cleared that ex-husband's name and made his parents realise how cruel they are.

[@Rebellions]

They didn't realize shit, they want to forgive "both" of their kids. Like, what on the mother fuck did their SON do!?!?

[@princessstarpeach9161]

​@@Rebellions He did not nothing wrong, his sister Is a cheater and I wouldn't forgive them the parents or that brat sister either there dead to me

[@ladyalicent705]

The most infuriating thing about stories like this is that there are literally laws in place to protect toxic people like this. “Evidence gathered by illegal means is not amicable in court” is perhaps the most unjust, corruption friendly law ever to be passed in history

[@SwaggerChiick1]

PREACH!!! If the evidence is real and factual, who the hell cares how it was obtained?

[@ladyalicent705]

@@SwaggerChiick1Couldn’t have said it better myself

[@wegner7036]

If police trespass on your property, any and all evidence they find should be treated as no more than fabrication. That law is specifically built to prevent corruption, and is the basis of any functional legal system. If illegally obtained can be submitted to court, that would incentivize illegal searches and seizures by both citizens and officers of the law. It is also entirely irrelevant here, because no evidence was obtained illegally. It is very easy to obtain all evidence needed for a case through legal means. If you need to trespass to obtain evidence, you don't have the grounds to even accuse someone.

[@SwaggerChiick1]

@@wegner7036 I see what you mean. Humans are scum so it IS important to keep them in check with rules. Thanks for that comment. I was so focused on cases I've seen in the past where obviously guilty people have gotten off because of that rule, but you're right.

[@heinrich.hitzinger]

​@@wegner7036Isn't a corpse a legal piece of evidence, no matter how it was discovered? 🤔

[@T_Cup]

The parents are the villains here, the sister is just a by-product of that. I would honestly threaten to post the truth about them on Facebook, including all their messages they sent, if they don't back off, coz one thing crappy people are afraid of is being publicly shamed, even if they aren't actually sorry for their behaviour

[@doctordetroit1217]

How moronic are those parents? Surely when she didn't come out on top in the divorce, they must have suspected that she was economical with the truth. And to then forgive her in a heartbeat and still not apologise to OP you can see where she gets her behaviour from. OP is better off without them in his life, and that is his revenge by living his best life!

[@kgoblin5084]

Most of these kinds of stories are BS, congratulations you've found one of several holes.

[@lexiburrows8127]

@@kgoblin5084 Not really a hole. People like that are just convinced that the Court has been wrong and unfair to their precious darling and the ACTUAL wronged party is a manipulative liar who pulled the wool over the Judge's eyes.

[@sarlon51]

You gotta respect OP for being able to move on like that despite everything. Also, good god is that family ever deluded to think that they can simply get back together with the son they kicked out so many years ago and just move on with their life as if nothing happened whatsoever. I would not be surprised if they get arrested for harassment before long.

[@saxyrep1]

OK OK, KZbin! I'll listen to that totally real and believable story. Can you stop putting it in my suggested videos now?

[@kenesawthornley6462]

I cannot fathom this man's pain. I've always been one who day dreams the best and worst of situations, something to do with how despite it being all in my head and still feeling the full emotions. Not the best habit. But I've never thought of a situation like this, and upon further reflecrion, I don't feel anything. It's like my brain really doesn't know how to feel about what it would be like to go through this. I hope OP manages to find the healing he needs.

[@hellraiser217]

You know what? It's probably best that you don't have to. It seems better not to have to deal with the kinds of people who make this kind of thing seem like a possibility and thus have no reason to expect this behaviour. Good on you for avoiding this kind of toxic person being a part of your life! And I know that sounds sarcastic but I'm actually being genuine. This is a good thing in my mind and something I'm happy you've managed to avoid.

[@juanpabloo_]

Props to Liza for supporting her mans through all this drama

[@itsjustmaddisen]

Not gonna lie. My first thought was that Hannah cheated and then said Pete did it because projection. The audacity cheaters have is limitless. Also cutting OP off means that no one will question what happened. It was all calculated.

[@AndresGomez-ct7qb]

Obviously fake, but decent to listen to

[@ayceinquisitor190]

OP was not scathing enough. Youre the monster? The immature one? Vindictive? 2nd chance? Hannah LIED. Got OP kicked out over her own selfish actions (not mistakes, not honest). No one apologized for that. Had no reason to reach out until the TRUTH was revealed. "No Hannah, YOU'RE the monster." Express some rage, hate!! Even if thats not how you actually feel, act like it is. Tear her down to her core, burn into her mind that she will never get anything from you. Instead you let her ring you 14 whole times before threatening police??? Laughed at your parents message but all you said was "no, not interested" rather than "you are just as guilty for how severely i got screwed over with no apology. You are just as to blame for Hannah's misbehavior as she is bc you spoiled her rotten. You are all scum." HURT THEIR DAMN FEELINGS. PISS THEM OFF. BRUISE THEIR EGOS. CALL THEM OUT AND AIR THAT DIRTY LAUNDRY OR THEY AINT EVER GONNA LEAVE YOU ALONE. Not until theyre bored but theyll come back when they need money or elder care. Dont just leave a bridge like this behind. TORCH IT. Acting shocked that "blood" can do that when thats not surprising at all. Everyone is scared of confrontation, self expression, or both. Sometimes rudeness is compassionate, why tolerate their delusions when theyre dead to you anyway? Why spare their entitled feelings if youre going NC? Especially when they dont care about your feelings whatsoever. It's not like speaking a rude truth is "lowering down to their level." This riled me up.

[@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer]

OP should've retorted to his sister "and you created that monster" after she called him one

[@theslavemotivator3571]

🤓

[@MajaxPlop]

What Hannah did should be illegal and punished by jail at the very least in my opinion

[@sirbacon761]

Sounds like having some security at the wedding wouldn't be a bad idea.

[@TheSmakodak]

Just to be clear, these stories are fiction and not real. The son would find it easy to contact the sister's husband, who is a dietician, by making an appointment and talking to him during the consultation. These stories always have an obstacle that in real life would be easy to solve.

[@dawnsalois]

I think this is a high school senior fiction story.

[@blackstripes0812]

Story good, parkour not so much

[@colinhubble6667]

The reactions are so absurd i find it hard to believe its authenticity

[@zachary6425]

How hard it is to believe. There are some garbage parents like them out there. I met a few myself and have a "parent" who's like that

[@MitsuriKanroji797]

Sounds like she has a princess complex and was spoiled beyond rotten when she was a child to act like a child with a hand in the cookie jar and still tried to pin op as a villain.

[@BenersantheBread]

How do people make this shit up just for internet kudos?

[@robineuvonen224]

Gotta get dem likes. Power fantasies do be like that. This shit's so fucking fake and everyone here taking it for face value and being like "Omg I cannot believe his parents would do that!!" makes me lose faith in people.

[@XeonProductions]

I'm having trouble grasping how bad these parents are.

[@CareerKnight]

Definitely layers to how bad they are.

[@xTsunamiix]

So glad he’s got through this. This is one of the best revenge stories!!! I wish him and his wife well forever and on and I wish his family the worst forever and on 💕💕

[@apml1992]

These reddit stories are more and more like "fictitious essays by bored people". Sure, that totally happened, exactly like he's saying it did

[@ZhangJiaJia-we9wq]

I got cut off from my parents because I didn't cover for my sister's lies lol. Her fiance called me if I was with her that night, and I said no. My sister got caught cheating by her fiance and she told our parents that I am the one who ruined her life.I feel funny that i am not the only one who gets awful family lol

[@fltfathin]

Idk how these idiots have the audacity of cheating when simple briefing and small bribes should save their ass.

[@giulizpaviz6381]

The sister literally ruined OP's life and the parents just forgived her just a few time later while OP was accused of introducing his friend to her fiancee causing the cheating and the parents didn't wanted to talk to him anymore until he proved his innocence. These parents are sick to the core

[@davidashurov5255]

It'd be nice if the actual reddit posts were linked so someone can read updates.

[@minastofu]

I feel so bad for OPs friend, he got cheated on and was still willing to help OP by giving evidence and explanations of what happened.

[@TheThomteo]

I don't know what's more horrifying the fact that being a teacher doesn't pay a living wage or that such a person is allowed near children.

[@SudsyMedusa53]

This is about as real as a daytime telenovela.

[@pastelteaaniiii]

People actually have shitty things happen to them

[@ClaudiusDK]

Screw that sister AND those parents. The sister is the worst, but the parents just willing to dump their child without listening to them at all and even threatening to call the cops on them, and then later harassing them back with trying to connect once they actually learned the turth and how easy they were willing to take the sister back after she fucked up the brothers life so much??? Heck no, wouldn't want the parents back in my life after getting revenge either.

[@Schrodingers_kid]

I wish people actually tried for content and didn't just take someone's stories online, run it through TTS while having some gameplay in the background that is, most likely, not theirs.

[@HellsArchangel]

This REEKS of my own sister. It’s bittersweet to know other people have to deal with this kind of crap.

[@edgarjimenez6209]

This story is a perfect example why you shouldn't immediately take sides after accusations are made until the full story comes out. It's a lot similar to when a woman accuses an innocent man of sexual assualt or impregnating her because immediately everyone will take her side because it's her word over a man's. False accusations have motives like in the story where the sister didn't want to get kicked out because of her affair so she falsely accused her brother for causing the divorce and with the SA/impregnating accusations are to either to get something out of the man or purposely ruin his life. False accusations can ruin an innocent person's life.

[@tenjenk]

Why are you using an example which happens

[@edgarjimenez6209]

@@tenjenk you just may never know who's telling the truth when the accusations are made. You shouldn't believe anything until there's evidence that proves who's inthe right. A lot of innocent men fall victim to these sorts of accusations because the courts normally would favor the woman over the man until proven otherwise. Because of stuff like this it makes real accusations look bad. People just want take advantage of others

[@tenjenk]

​@@edgarjimenez6209 Yes this is important, but again, the justice system see's most actual rape cases never see justice. A few sensationalist news articles come out but the vast majority of rapes ever see any action by cops, let along reach the point where they do their jobs long enough for the proof to languish in evidence lockers, and whatever makes it past that gets shot down. This counts for all rape victims of any age, gender or demograph. But yeah, your main point is correct, the greater matter is not to hold bias in either way, be diligent, have appropriate fair responses (disowning him for introducing the friend, as far as they knew? wat?!) and discovering the actual details. Otherwise it always tips the scales in the wrong direction and makes getting it right just pure happenstance.

[@johnlove2954]

​@@tenjenkI think you got the numbers reversed

[@tenjenk]

​@@johnlove2954 no, its consistently at 1% or even less everywhere across a proper and relevant sample size without inlaid biases and silly narrowing of geography. Only scum deny THAT much harrowing pain and suffering.

[@swedenjao]

I'm confident that 80-90% of reddit revenge stories are fake as hell

[@silverstarmoon5802]

Op's ex family isn't over yet. His family will come back for him and if he have kids. Op need security for his wedding and as well his home. Because how his sister find his home and phone numbers. Op need to alert his job because sometimes they will make an scene at his job too.

[@rlacksgh9673]

Man, this guy is one of the strongest and resilient guy I've ever read about. Glad to know that he eventually got his justice.

[@JedEye374]

Cool story bro

[@guillermoolivaiii9550]

To the OP, you became extremely strong and determine to make it. Huge respect!

[@jaredbrown3726]

OP's family: "pwease forgive us* OP:💀

[@lorir5697]

It's so sad and heartbreaking when parents abandon their kids and in turn expect their child to be respectful and kind towards them.

[@ShooberTimber]

Shame there wasn't another update near the end, of the parents & sister showing up, unannounced & uninvited, to OP's wedding & then being hauled away by law enforcement

[@hippodondozer4393]

I hope op stays with his wife forever and doesn't have to go through any divorce so that they may look back at this experience 20 yrs from now and laugh

[@muhammedahmed3291]

Hopefully the wife sees OP's handling of his family as a cautionary tale of what would happen if she did something stupid. Wish them a life full of happiness and hope OP creates his own family.

[@osiny7985]

I am at peace at the end of this video. I applaud him for everything and would raise a glass to him and be proud to call him a friend if I ever met him, I wouldn't have done a singular thing differently.

[@miguellogistics984]

So, I wonder where Sister learned to live a 'non-fact based' life? They relish living a lie.

[@MariaArt.]

That kind of parents don't deserve kids. they are just evil. and so are the the sister. They all had it coming, and don't think the OP was in the wrong. Good job for shutting them out. Hope they never bother you again

[@Maxah333]

I grew up alone but still, stories like these make my blood boil

[@blacky_Ninja]

Those are friggin cruel Parents. And a cruel sister. I‘m glad OP got out of it, both emotionally and physically.

[@dreamykooks]

the real villain is the parents tbh how can you just throw your child away just like that?

[@RealKirb]

So, when the truth came out, the parents said “Everyone get out”. Why tf did they kick out OP? Like, they realized OP was innocent, right?

[@anders8204]

OP never was innocent in their eyes. No sarcasm or irony, when someone throws someone out for no reason and then jams their fingers in their ears going "lalala I can't hear you" it means they're specifically looking to be rid of that somebody. The fact that they wanted to save face by pretending to be angry at their favourite child for a few days is disgusting as well, but that doesn't mean they'd want anything to do with the person they wanted thrown out previously, they just wanted to save face.

[@marichu899]

@@anders8204 great Analysis, they defintly wanted a reason to kick him out and that's why there are so persistent on getting them to 'work' it out. all they want is their son to forgive and forget while they dont actually do anything to ask for forgivness

[@neogexus2516]

​@@marichu899you're wrong on one thing. They don't want him to forgive and forget. Because in their eyes they never did anything wrong to begin with. If anything they expect him to accept their "forgiveness".

[@zachary6425]

​​@@neogexus2516It's all about favoritism and their hypocritical attitude that they are narcissists and raised one to be just like them. And because he didn't grow up to be like that and proving her flaws. Also mean in their eyes he's proving their flaws and see it as an attack on their crap parenting and character and trying to cover it up to protect their own collective butts.

[@ShyGal3]

In all honesty, good for him. For not including his family in his life, for not buying their apologies. For standing up for himself. And for getting a new, better life.

[@WinterzPlayz]

If this is a true so story you sir have my standing ovation. Bravo. 7 years in the making. Im so glad you got justice.

[@siralfredofhorsiii]

Man, that's awful. What horrible parents. Not even hiding their favouritism, just straight up blatant about it, and still saying op did something wrong. Either they can't admit they were wrong, or they are just that deep in their favouritism. Wild

[@fbalter]

Ehhh, this one has a bit of "that happened" feel to be honest. Parents a bit *too* crazy.

[@angiloves]

Narcissists are always the victim and your family is lousy with them. Glad you're out and congratulations on your upcoming wedding

[@CrystalBbyUSA]

9:47 I'm picturing Pete clicking thru a PowerPoint as OP walks back and forth in front of the projector explaining the presentation and occasionally pointing at the screen

[@CrystalBbyUSA]

And the current slide is a stock image pic of a diamond ring

[@d007ization]

This is one of those stories that you can only hope are fake. Not only do they kick out their son, which some would argue they have the right and even obligation to since he's an adult, they cut off any contact with him for literal years, reacting to any attempts at contact by him with "we're calling the cops" and then have the absolute gall to act like he's the one being petty and somehow holding on to an old grudge. Like them threatening him with police when he walked in with evidence was completely acceptable behavior.

[@alexhodson6342]

Wow. What a horrible family. I hope things go well in your life, after all that crap you've been through, you deserve happiness.

[@QYXP]

When you're in a lying competition and your opponent is a redditor:

[@willdavis3802]

The difference between Conservatives and Liberals in one family post.

[@harnoorjuneja285]

whats so weird is how quick they were to throw both of them out the minute they had (supposedly) done something wrong. thats so not how families work and some people shouldnt be parents

[@tdexth]

Who here think Hannah is the cheater, before it's even revealed?

[@tsm688]

the girl is always the cheater in these fake stories.

[@tessajones9393]

Toxic parents. They can't admit that they did wrong with raising their little narcissistic child that they do garbage like that. It does not surprise me.

[@user-pv7gs6ph6l]

He finally got justice. While he was kicked out unjustly, there's a silver lining: throughout 7 years, he met better people, and all the horrible ones (his parents and sister) are not influencing his life. Guy is very forgiving here, not lashing out on Pete because he knows he needs Pete to get back at Hannah.

[@zamasuawaken1908]

These fake stories have even stopped trying to be realistic. A simple thought for the mind if the parents didn't care enough to instantly kick the son out of the house then i doubt they would have kept him there after 18 in the first place instead of waiting for a random ass excuse that wouldn't even be needed legally

[@LordTyph]

After all of that, THEY FORGAVE THE ONE WHO ACTUALLY LIED TO THE MAND MANIPULATED THEM? If this is true, OP's in the right, these people should have been DOING SOMETHING to show they were sorry.