Parents Favored My Twin Sister So Much That They Blew My Wedding Fund on Her, So I Cut Them Off...

Parents Favored My Twin Sister So Much That They Blew My Wedding Fund on Her, So I Cut Them Off After Rejecting Mom's Selfish Demand.
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[@JaeWhatJae]

Your "parents" lost their role as family to you the moment they put all their love into the golden child. So well done for not going along and pay for their medical bills

[@blainetate743]

You know you’re not talking to the original poster, right?

[@BaldCoryxKenshinfan]

@@blainetate743I’m sure they know.

[@adjustableWench]

How is it "natural " for a parent to only give love to one child? Y'all need to stop with these AI stories lol

[@rogueshark23]

Don't you mean her donors?

[@alexdale2387]

They're tramps who deserve nothing from OP

[@RoadWarrior_John]

we all know the parents had no intention of paying that money back, also Op needs to make sure that if she's ever in an accident her parents can't just pull the plug on her, they seem the type to do that to claim her stuff/life insurance, etc.

[@jasminedavis3030]

Likely sounds like she's already got a POA in place that's probably a trusted relative, and has long since learned not to expect anything of her parents.

[@axepagode4321]

Parents Didn't Believe in Medical Insurance? Just live healthily is all you need. What morons.

[@whatbear3804]

*Meanwhile with hospital bills*

[@Olimar92]

Well, they obviously didn't expect all that iron to be introduced to their diet in the form of a truck.

[@BaeBunni]

Also means they probably don't even get checkups. How the hell do you know if you are doing fine medically? Guy is gonna have a stroke and realize all the sodium intact was bad for him.

[@WasephWastar]

I'm glad to live in Canada, at least I don't need to go in debt if I get cancer or get into an accident. my taxes are actually lower than most americans pay for insurance and I don't have the surprise of getting rejected for bogus reasons

[@axepagode4321]

But if you disagree with or protest the policies of your Prime Minister or his party, you will get de-banked and investigated.

[@DarkEinherjar]

As bad as the sister is, at least she's doing OP a favor by providing karmic justice, abandoning the parents when they needed her the most. Now they have lost both daughters.

[@PieNumber4]

Also, is really nice that Allison claims her stepkids as her own and is kind of crumby for OP to say "they're not her kids" If a man refused to claim his stepkids, he would have hell to pay.

[@elithluxe7568]

@@PieNumber4that’s what I hated about her cause she is assuming so much about their relationship like it’s really none of your business and how do you know like she’s allison. As soon as I heard the last update, I couldn’t stand op anymore

[@osvaldorodriguez1334]

And the Fun fact that Alisson eventually she will be thrown away by her husband when she gets tired and she will come back crying to her parents

[@EBaker-bz8gx]

How refreshing to hear an OP has a spine of steel. No whining, no straddling the fence, just straight up !@#$ that noise. Go OP.

[@corey1563]

She sounds extremely bitter. I was agreeing with her until the end rant about how pathetic her sisters life was and how dumb she was. Seemed like a bit much. made me think that maybe she was the asshole and isn't telling the whole truth.

[@BaldCoryxKenshinfan]

@@corey1563her sister is manipulative and ungrateful, so of course OP isn’t gonna like her. It isn’t bitter to hate on a sister who you’ve known your entire life to be manipulative and braggy..

[@Sofia-ng2uk]

@@corey1563 fr, like the part about her children and husband not loving her is a bit far for somebody who heard about it

[@Deedoof]

When you raise a narcissist, don't be surprised when they act the same to you.

[@aleksandarvil5718]

_"Parents"_ Played Stupid Games; and *WON STUPID PRIZES !!!*

[@Permenantlyexhaustedghost115]

The parents are in no position to demand anything from op. Treat somebody like they don’t matter or as an after thought: expect the same treatment.

[@sorayaya3080]

They spoiled one child to the point where she takes absolutely everything they do and did for granted who doesn't value them and neglected the other one to the point she doesn't view them as her parents anymore Imagine being that unbelievably incompetent as a parent

[@cometasteroids7761]

Maybe its due to me not being a parent but i always thought that not being an asshole was common sense.

[@zombinosh]

I'm surprised that they even had a wedding fund for OP. Uncle must be lying.

[@shinatina2466]

Or they told uncle it was a fund but really it was just for them

[@sambmortimer]

@@shinatina2466 It definitely sounds like the kind of bs some narcissist would make up after the fact to try to make you feel bad. 'oh I had this whole wedding fund for you that I've never mentioned until now, but now you've not given in to my unreasonable request I had no choice but to take it away'

[@smorphous8928]

As I always say if your family members are favouring one child instead of all of them equally they’re terrible people.

[@Connorstallionsisahero]

If I was op I would've given them a 50$ voucher and be " There's your payment now never contact the unwanted every again " and walkout as they scream....

[@morganablackwater2017]

Thats even better than what I thought of 🤣🤣🤣

[@daisymay6505]

Personally I wouldn’t have even given them a single cent

[@nishisun5008]

​@@daisymay6505well they gave you a 50$ voucher the least you should do is return it with their humiliation

[@princessmarlena1359]

The only thing I’d give them is two middle fingers.

[@Bluecrimson217]

@@daisymay6505 $50 is worth it to get that sting in.

[@Sunny_Axolootl]

You should’ve said “ if I’m being yelled at for not paying, then also yell at Allison as she’s not paying either”

[@LadyZubat]

The only thing I don't like in this story other than op's god off with family Is the fact that OP seems to believe that a step-parent can't be an actual parent to children.

[@razmann4k]

And that her husband couldn't possibly love her after only 1 year

[@RandomPerson-cf3gt]

It's probably the trauma from neglect talking.

[@blender4464]

​@@RandomPerson-cf3gt because the protag can't possibly also be an ahole in her own right. It would make the immersion unsatisfying when the antagonists are so hateable

[@TheEvilSmiler37]

Well it's her opinion though.Could be right, could be wrong.

[@shadeblackwolf1508]

I will say, OP's sister sounds like a decent stepmom. the kids are her kids, no matter biology, when talking with family

[@blender4464]

That part's pissing me off. Why do they keep talking about how they're not even her kids? She married their dad, they're part hers now.

[@angrybidoof847]

Yeah, Op was obviously done dirty, but also it sounds like the apple didn't fall far from the tree.

[@lucifermorningstar2505]

Don’t help them and the dad was dumb for not having insurance

[@gregoryk.9815]

Send them a $50 gift card.

[@jessicabittle5775]

What an amazing detail to remember!!! That would have been awesome. I doubt the parents would have gotten the reference though!

[@kayumberlyw]

I give people I don't like gift cards but I use like half of it and give it to them. What are they gonna do?

[@clamiyep7008]

I think Alison cared more about the competition than op thinks, especially since she made such an effort to find her only to brag about her life, which could've been done over the phone, she wanted her sister to see personnally how "successful" she was

[@alilith3476]

Or try to get close to a sister who seemed so intent on being better than you, if Allison really just wanna brag she could have done it on the phone

[@clamiyep7008]

@alilith3476 no, to me, she doesn't want to get closer to op, she really wanna rub it in her face, why else would she show up all dressed up with all her new mannerism and only talk about her "incredible life" ? If she wanted to make a sisterly bond, she would've at least tried to know how op was doing, apologized for the past, have a conversation, not a f-ing monologue... Tbh, she probably also thought op would've a harder time rejecting her face to face

[@Innocent64_.]

op isnt as innocent as she claims in the video, she is being tooo salty@@clamiyep7008 "i feel bad for OP but the way she writes this just sounds like shes leaving out a LOT. She even admitted that SHE was the one that tried to constantly one up her sister Allison and that Allison didnt even care about the "competition", but of course everyone reaches a breaking point. Conveniently though, OP just "knows" Allison was faking the hurt feelings for sympathy, because why would Allison actually feel hurt about her sister trying to diminish her every accomplishment and prove that shes actually better than Allison at everything? And then the way she degrades her for being a SAHM to kids that "arent even hers"?! This reeks of jealousy and I'm sure the parents are largely to blame for not fostering a healthy relationship between sisters, but OP does not come of as some kind of innocent saint, it sounds more like shes leaving out of LOT of details and embellishing others to make her sister sound worse and herself sound better. Everyone sucks here, parents most of all. OP says she cut off her crappy parents and sister, but then blasts her sister for essentially doing the same thing, just first."

[@clamiyep7008]

@@Innocent64_. I agree, the part with "they aren't her kids" kinda weirded me out, I mean, biologically they aren't, but she has the right to love them as her own, as long as she is fully aware that they do have a biological mom who loves them too (and doesn't try to take her place) I'm cool with that. But even if op leaves stuff out (as long as it's not physical assault and bullying in general) her saltiness is KINDA understandable to some extent, it doesn't justify trying to curse her sister with a miserable life ofc. I just hope she'll be able to let go of that and do her own thing for herself instead of trying to spite her family, especially her parents, they don't deserve that much attention

[@pastelbee8125]

@@alilith3476that rubbed me the wrong way, like ik it’s for your parents attention but she should have thought how outsiders would perceive WHAT she’s doing, and that probably runners alison the wrong way as well and wanted to humble her, that’s just a thing I thought of I’m more inclined to belive her story but there’s always 2 sides to a story

[@Maninawig]

Throughout this, I thought that OP might be covering her own bad behaviors, but with Alison's visit, it kinda cemented that her family might actually be that bad.

[@gabriellebroeders4202]

🫵

[@corey1563]

Idk she sounds bitter. I was agreeing with her until the end rant about how pathetic her sisters life was and how dumb she was. Seemed like a bit much. made me think that maybe she was the asshole and isn't telling the whole truth.

[@gabriellebroeders4202]

@corey1563 actually I agree with you, I definitely think towards the end OP was saying things that were maybe a bit uncalled for. ( I put this emoji 🫵 because I see this guy in every single comment section)

[@Innocent64_.]

yes exactly, she literally talked about the kids like 5 times lmao, she seems salty @@corey1563

[@DeliriousSprite]

while OP is 100% valid with everything else in this post the constant "idk how she can refer to them as HER kids when they arent her biological kids" leaves a bad taste in my mouth

[@GrimoireGod]

I feel bad for OP but the way she writes this just sounds like shes leaving out a LOT. She even admitted that SHE was the one that tried to constantly one up her sister Allison and that Allison didnt even care about the "competition", but of course everyone reaches a breaking point. Conveniently though, OP just "knows" Allison was faking the hurt feelings for sympathy, because why would Allison actually feel hurt about her sister trying to diminish her every accomplishment and prove that shes actually better than Allison at everything? And then the way she degrades her for being a SAHM to kids that "arent even hers"?! This reeks of jealousy and I'm sure the parents are largely to blame for not fostering a healthy relationship between sisters, but OP does not come of as some kind of innocent saint, it sounds more like shes leaving out of LOT of details and embellishing others to make her sister sound worse and herself sound better. Everyone sucks here, parents most of all. OP says she cut off her crappy parents and sister, but then blasts her sister for essentially doing the same thing, just first.

[@Skygirl-rp4ob]

FR THO OMG

[@Kiarathegoat]

And the way she kept going at how allison's children aren't her children like wtf?? She's raising them. OP is so rude aswell. She definitely isn't a 100% innocent

[@orangeglassez]

@@Kiarathegoat omg yeah i felt the same like does she want her sister to hate the kids????

[@ritaryuu4793]

Yeah I really get the sense that OP's sister isn't as awful or even and privileged as OP thinks. It sounds like the parents pitted them against each other and OP now is going to interpret everything the sister does as manipulative and evil. And emphasizing that the adopted kids aren't her "real" kids and somehow should matter less than the biological family that OP herself knows is awful is just really messed up.

[@audrycamille5286]

Could also be a cultural thing. Many of these aren't from the USA.

[@drwboy07]

The person that wrote this story needs therapy and gots some serious issues.

[@chessieray1465]

The uncle is a damn instigator.

[@TheCodeHunter]

and then the parents wonder why their children hate them so much

[@theanominous]

I think OP should have written up a contract that she would lend the money, but her parents would have to pay her back plus interest. Then she would see her parents’ reactions.

[@mnomadvfx]

Having twins and only loving one of them is not even remotely natural behavior. Worst case scenario one of them would be given up for adoption.

[@alzhencs]

"Parents" Played Stupid Games; and won stupid prizes parents, dont eff around, or else this will happen to you

[@lordjohnwharfin5397]

Give the parents a $50 gift card and a get well note.

[@droid2645]

Good for you, OP. Hold on to your peace of mind. Its hard to get back once you lose it. Good luck and many blessing for your future.. 😊

[@cdsky3]

This person needs some heavy therapy. The bitterness that is spewed is sad. Stop giving them headspace. Get some therapy, and move on with your life.

[@alzhencs]

that was so stupid of them for not getting insurance

[@SealandPK]

This persons view of her sisters new family is kinda gross. Like it’s pretty sweet that she calls her step kids her kids. You can absolutely fall in love within a year. Sounds like this person specifically dislikes her sister and is making up ways her life must be miserable in her own head.

[@sid7770]

nah, when you marry someone 10 yrs older than you and that too a father of 2 kids who is also a wealthy businessman that sounds to me as a gold digger or a stupid women who likes to be used a a maid

[@IceJJFishArchive]

Damn, its *not* because OP’s sister is a narc golden child who was manipulative to OP for many years?? OP is just making up reasons her sister insufferable?? lol be fr, Allison is a narc who only amounted to being a golden child and a tool for her new husband to get partial custody of his kids. She’s a boring and superficial person, never showed accountability to OP, and has the audacity to insist OP take care of parents who never loved OP

[@shortangel333]

Just seems like the situations screams glorified nanny tho. I mean another example is he didn't have time for the kids before the marriage so why would he suddenly have time for them after the marriage? Also he got main custody of the kids because of the marriage.

[@pastelbee8125]

@@shortangel333but it also has me thinking could she be putting this in a bad perspective, she’s already shown she over exaggerates about the step kid stuff and has a twisted look on why her sister is mad her little sister is trying to one up you on everything, just has me thinking a lil but I’m more inclined to believe she is telling more of the truth 👍

[@yamigoya8291]

Like other people have commented already, op doesn't sound like the good apple she thinks she is. I get that she's probably ranting, but she comes across as very arrogant, bitter and jealous. She really needs to work through her issues

[@Skygirl-rp4ob]

Fr! She's so nasty to her sister when because she commited the "crime" of not wanting to help her family, despite OP not wanting to either!

[@yamigoya8291]

@@Skygirl-rp4ob Ig that's bc she's the one that should feel like she owes it to their parents? Either way I was talking about how nasty she talked about the decisions the sister made. Like not lending money that isn't hers to give to their parents, prioritizing her new family/prioritizing taking care of her new toddlers, but also at the very least visiting their parents for a few days, all those decisions sound very logical and like the sister has her priorities right. Like as a person she sounds just as unlikable but I don't feel like she did anything particularly wrong in this story...

[@sanjana9695]

@@Skygirl-rp4ob her sister is nasty. She mocks her own parents who loved her and didn't even come see them after the accident. Her sister is a garbage human

[@SpectralNapper]

WHY DO PARENTS FAVOR ONE CHILD OVER THE OTHER GOD DAMN...

[@rpg4134]

God damn everyone sounds insufferable here even the OP. Definitely hear the family resemblance

[@user-lj8fx8ic6n]

I think most isufferable one IS OP.

[@Chuckakhan]

Live in a country where you don’t end up risking bankruptcy in a medical emergency. Additionally I think if the truck driver was at fault then the trucking company would be required to pay their medical expenses

[@Abz-us6qw]

Exactly. Which means the story is fake. Why the hell would the insurance of the trucking company only pay for the vehicle and not their medical/emotional damages?

[@princessmarlena1359]

You reap what you sow. The parents had some nerve demanding OP cover their medical bills when the abused OP for years while spoiling the other kid, and for not having health nor auto insurance. OP was right not to help them, she’d never see that money again.

[@nikkihorn3852]

When my kids ask me if I have a favorite I just tell them they drive me equally nuts 🙂

[@thehousespouse]

So wild that the medical bills are not covered by the truck driver’s insurance. In Australia, we have third party insurance and if it’s the truck driver’s fault in Australia, then your medical bills are covered.

[@DarkEinherjar]

Unless OP forced the parents to sign a contract, she'd never see that money again if she helped her sperm and egg donors.

[@dragoncaos7098]

>Truck driver is responsible for the accident >They have to pay for their own medical bills that resulted from the accident Yeah, no.

[@shawnycoffman]

They f**ked around and found out. My mother is a card carrying narcissist. Out of her kids, she raised two more just like her. The two narcs have a history of verbal, physical, emotional, and mental abuse to the family and don't have anything to do with the rest of us as they have decided we are "low class". They're also great at projecting. 😊 VLC and better mental health FTW!

[@jenmac1716]

A commercial trucking company will have huge insurance, they can sue the insurance for the medical bills it’s so simple.

[@kristashafer93098]

OP needs to keep her birth givers and sibling completely out of her life and she definitely could benefit greatly from counseling to heal her traumas. Poor woman. I can’t imagine what that kind of incessant abuse would do to a person.

[@matthewbrowatzke6024]

Play dumb games win stupid prizes

[@WardNightstone]

id offer them a loan with 5% interest with their house as collateral

[@swarno2000]

If I were in your place , I would send a note with 50 dollars, written " get well soon , I am going to the beach with my mil and fil "

[@kotorisama3080]

This is usually how it is with the golden child. My mom did everything for my brother and he treats her like 💩

[@codenameqb]

She understands her husband, seemingly sees her as the maid he has fun with?

[@kitsumekat]

They have one child. That child should support her parents.

[@openjoistt]

no

[@kitsumekat]

@@openjoistt yes. They need to leave OP alone.

[@Freda61557]

You should've blocked them or changed numbers as soon as you left home!

[@mellojello9212]

Yeah OP might call her the stepkids not her actual kids, but when their parents put so much more time and love into her sister, her sister has a duty to take care or at least visit her parents after their accident not take care of some other man’s children.

[@kamadixu282]

This story is sooooo SUS... i honestly don't believe OP, after the 1000 time telling us about the dumb twinsister who is boring and not loved because the kids are not her blood and her husband has an ex..me think she is the bitter one who is not as nice as she tries so hard to make us believe.

[@Fr0stbackupacc]

12:25 I died when she said I hadn’t asked

[@naptime1900]

Golden child is now an unpaid nanny. Don’t pay for parents they won’t pay you back. If you do get a contract for loan with lien on the house.

[@proatnothing4263]

Alison was just a stay-at-home nanny not a stay-at-home mom

[@creflot]

Why does the OP sound like such a brat? There's so much bitterness and resentment in her words.

[@Zed6534__]

Maybe if you were ignored because of blatant favoritism and only wanted because of money reasons, you'd feel the same. You all are so stupid and slow and insensitive about peoples struggles.

[@agustinjr.enriquez6238]

whole family needs therapy

[@Ryluth]

This make me sad, I'm a triplet and I could never live a day without my other two.

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

Sounds like the division was created by the parents favoring one over the other. Or her twin is evil, it happens

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

@TheJadedLibraGuy-qy9cy Yeah basically. I notice a lot of times parents favoritism creates adults most people don’t want to know.

[@user-lj8fx8ic6n]

​@@Catherine.Dorian. I got feeling that evil one is OP.

[@LoveYouMorePooh]

Where are the links to these stories? I like reading the comment section and other posts

[@StephenHolmes-mv7yf]

Embarrass the hell out of them

[@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja]

Go find some Voodoo masters😂😂😂

[@reshawshid]

With parents like that, were I informed that they got in an *cc*dent, I'd say, "Well, that's unfortunate. The s*rv*v*ng part, anyways." And then hung up. Also the US health system works with financial agencies to allow people to pay over time. The parents had no intention of paying OP back because if they wanted that kind of arrangement, they would've just gone through the hospital's partnered financial agency and saved themselves the embarrassment of asking their children.

[@princessmarlena1359]

Niiiiice, with that first part especially. I get why you had to use the asterisks, GestapoTube hates free speech.

[@reshawshid]

@@princessmarlena1359 Yeah, I actually didn't think that would trigger it, but it did, and I had to redo my comment. Their censorship is getting so ridiculous, I can't even make sense of it from their perspective anymore.

[@quacasualwomen]

just don't pay for them . they turned their back on you so you can do the same

[@Kit_kat_48]

I would have taken the note they left on your birthday and reported them to whoever I could. Especially as a child. I definitely would have been telling everyone and proving that they were horrible parents. Find a new family who would accept you or just get away from the toxicity.

[@Lumber_Works]

pay the bill, if they don’t give the money, sue them

[@susanfalconedaquino3623]

Don't do it. They will NEVER pay you back.

[@PieNumber4]

I think it's really weird that OP keeps saying "oh but they're not really her kids" when if a man refused to claim his step kids he'd have hell to pay

[@rachelw8639]

Said no and was immediately cut out. They would have kicked her sooner if she had made any mistake

[@jemase7931]

No car insurance? How did they keep their car plates without insurance? Is it just Florida that will yank your license plate if you don't have insurance?

[@kitsumekat]

Get insurance and cancel it later on.

[@kikilocket]

Something doesn't add up. She said they celebrated their 21st birthday and then followed with the parents going to the beach with Allison to celebrate her 21st birthday without OP. So which is it, did you or did you not celebrate your bday with her? This is classic reddit.

[@_juju_jojo_]

6:30 Nope no no By default, you're better. Allison didn't try to see them or consider helping pay them. Like you said, they're strangers to you. You're not at all obligated to help them. Why is a stranger more obligated to help other strangers but their own daughter isn't?

[@Skygirl-rp4ob]

Why is someone's daughter obligated to pay for her parents medical bills anyways? We can't confirm whether or not Allison at least considered it, but like... even if they're family, they CHOSE not to have insurance when they could afford it, and Allison is under no obligation to help them other than "because family." It might not be morally correct, but asking your daughter and her rich husband to pay for YOUR medical bills because you CHOSE to not have insurance and they're rich isn't morally correct either.

[@_juju_jojo_]

@@Skygirl-rp4ob didn't say that. Children aren't obligated to help their parents no matter the scenario. I'm just saying how does it make sense to expect someone that you have no relationship with to help you in your time of need rather than someone who you’re involved with almost all the time? Why does it make sense for a stranger to be obligated to help you and not your own flesh and blood? Just calling out the stupidity of the parents

[@CandygramMongo]

If it’s the other trucks fault why do they need you to pay the medical bills?

[@silvermoon9186]

I get not being the golden child, as a daughter in a house full of mostly men I was never given a second thought. my aunt actually had to tear into my dad verbally to get me a bra and pads when I hit puberty. I couldn't do anything right while my brother and cousin could do no wrong, even when one of them ended up in jail or was caught with drugs. I always got the bare minimum but the boys got everything. if I starved my brother ate like a king. there was even a time my dad's ex got burgers for everyone except me, even the dog got a burger. needless to say I don't really have much to do with them, but when my dad needed me most I was still there. he's started to come around now that he's remarried and he even offers to help me out during hard times. I have been burned a few times trying to help family and had to learn to stand my ground. It's never easy but I'm proud of OP for not giving in to her wish to be loved by her "Parents".

[@cantgiv3any4ucks11]

Why was OP so upset that her sister seen her husband's children as her own??

[@samabug]

yes!! that seemed so weird to me! like that's a good thing that she does.

[@LLawliet-yf2fy]

@@samabug she already accepted that she always thought of her sister competitively because of their parents treatment towards both of them she grew up like that with that kind of people you can't always think that every person should be very good she was atleast better than her family and her sister and by the way OP told us about her sister doesn't looks like she actually cared for the children but just withstood them for the sake of the bank balance

[@cantgiv3any4ucks11]

But the reason she didn't help her parents was to not look like a gold digger so I don't get what you are saying the last part. Also the end of statement is just speculation which is obv bias since she already thinks little of her sister.@@LLawliet-yf2fy

[@yamigoya8291]

Maybe it was jealousy too? Like, op definitely seemed like she was putting a lot of emphasis on blood relations bc of how much she wished her family loved her, at least for the sake of being related to her. Op sounds really bitter and like she hasn't worked through her issues yet

[@jefferygreen4856]

Op grew up in a broken home with a psychotic family dynamic and you’re wondering why they don’t simply understand proper family dynamics or show empathy towards this particular matter when nun had ever been show to them by their own parents let alone a step parent

[@arhael3594]

OP should have sent a long email on how they mistreated her growing up and that she wants nothing to do with them for the rest of the life. She let them off way too easy. They will take their conviction of being in the right to the grave.

[@LODintheshadows]

The long game story Look NG forward to update after youngest kid turns 18 😂

[@paulaten7414]

I would have taken care of the parents, but only after a written agreement has been signed for them to pay you back.

[@shadout]

Mother calls op ungrateful. Gratitude implies that they had done something to earn it.

[@ec6443]

Let your parents figure it out. Don't dare help them.

[@MeyaRoseGirl]

Something about OP's tone makes me think she's not as innocent and wonderful as she thinks she is. She said that she spent her whole childhood trying to one-up Allison, but Allison wouldn't engage. Sounds to me like OP was the one with the toxic behavior. She says Allison was manipulative, but she's not really saying how, which leads me to think that's just OP's interpretation of Allison's personality. I do think she's telling the truth that Allison was the favorite, but it sounds like that was on the toxic parents, not Allison. And why does she have a problem with how happy Allison is with her life with her husband and stepchildren? She's just making assumptions at this point that he's using her, but she's never even met him, so how would she know? They might have a beautiful, loving relationship. Allison clearly prefers her life in California over blood family. It sounds to me like everyone sucks here, but Allison was smart enough to get a life she wanted far away from this toxic situation. And now the parents have lost both kids - the one they like and the one they don't.

[@sniperwizardtherdidiot]

Damn sorry you had to go through that

[@Ch0c014t3]

Truck-kun wanted to pay her parents a visit

[@The_legendary_hunter_Zero]

Literally sounds like what Panda mothers do when they get two babies lol

[@taetannim3581]

OP sounds so desperately jealous of her sister that it's funny, lol. Yeah, people fall in love faster than a year sometimes, yeah, people also agree to "use" each other too! Stop comparing already, go be the strong, independent person you so deeply want reddit to think you are!

[@IceJJFishArchive]

Why would OP be jealous of a heavily dependent sister who clearly only married a man for his money while he married her to have partial custody of his kids that don’t even like her? OP sister sounds insufferable, yappin about how her life is meanwhile OP literally is sitting there listening to crap she doesnt care about.

[@shortangel333]

Yeah cause the busy business man who didn't have time for his kids now will suddenly have all the time for his new stay at home wife who can take care of the kids. Delusional.

[@conormccue2871]

@@shortangel333 Legions of women have worked with husbands who were gone from day-to-day life longer and gave less. Being a busy, much travelled worker in a world of international trade is a standard above a certain pay grade in the west. Delusional is the man who thinks he knows the details of a life he hasn't lived. Like you.

[@sanjana9695]

the sister literally abandoned her own parents. She is a narcissist and the worst person!

[@Clouded-Logic]

Wouldn't the at fault driver be responsible for the medical bills as well?

[@0SC2]

This story won’t use ten words when a hundred will do.

[@cynthiagutierrez779]

If it was a car crash and the other drivers fault, the car insurance company should pay for 100% of my bills.

[@sinnombre1439]

I don't understand if you are in a car accident the driver of the one that hit them should pay for their hospital expenses.

[@francinetitherington4060]

1) If the other driver was responsible for the accident, they were as responsible for the medical bills as they were for the car repairs. Their, the other driver, insurance company would have stepped up. IF the other driver was ubinsured, they could sue and would win hands down.

[@YuniS772]

OP sounds like s.o. I know the parents try their best to make both kids feel very special and always find time to spend with one of them alone but that one only sees when they spend time with its sibling never they see what the parents do for them 😅like a blind spot on their luck 😢

[@user-cy7fs9fw2x]

If you decide to go NC with your family, always change your phone number, email, and any other social media.

[@LODintheshadows]

You just say, I was forced to learn how to look after myself, kow it's your turn. Surely ungrateful one is one they took on vacation and gave money too their whole life. Op had to do it on their own 🤷‍♂️

[@Jonathan2342]

Not crazy about anyone in this story, including op. You can tell family no without being passive aggressive about it

[@Sam-ow9zp]

op is right not to give the money but is extremely shallow and insecure. the stuff about the husband not loving her sister and the vendetta against step kids was strange.

[@monarchminnie5827]

What is with her opinion on step-kids? She seems judgmental and bitter against the fact that the sister has a step family

[@Kevin7557]

OP shen writing their fiction forgot if someone hits you their insurance covers your hospital bills in many states and the lawsuit will cover it quickly.

[@terickastidbits2342]

Thank you! These AI stories are doing too much

[@kitsumekat]

Not if the insurance company tries to fight it. Otherwise, my mom wouldn't had to lawyer up to get half of the insurance money.

[@hamptonbrown6118]

He didn’t have car insurance? That’s illegal

[@Babbleplay]

Tell you what; I would help, but, functionally not really; I'll just deduct it from what you owe me from the stolen wedding fund.

[@kekp3791]

Your story has many connecting points with my life story, just you were lucky to cut them off when you were young enough. I understood the reality almost near my 40s when they squeezed me financially and emotionally. Now they don't contact me at all but send indirect messages with other people that they are not doing well. So still waiting for my support. You did the right thing. You have to show the way to the narcissistic people no matter who they are. Live a happy life with the ones you choose to keep near and share valuable time with. ❤