Family Disowned Me 8 Yrs Cos My Golden Twin Slept w/ My GF, Now Wants To Reconnect But I'm Disgusted

[@Lollocide]

"Helping me navigate these turbulent waters" ... That there's the ChatGPT flag

[@momolol3724]

Also the "Extend the olive branch" in some of these stories. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@commoguru]

"here's the kicker"

[@hiftu]

Also his wife just lost a baby, but her struggles were never mentioned. Instead she was his rock. At the end he has to focus on his wife and kids. A second (born) child was never mentioned.

[@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121]

@@momolol3724… I say that all the time.

[@roabarton7962]

Lotta "My has been my rock."

[@artemis_justiceaizawa5978]

Since when was archery wimpy? Ah yes, archery a sport where someone could be killed, lose an eye, or gain some other horrid injury just because= wimpy compared to a sport where someone's only ever going to be injured if they're playing too roughly, playing insolently, or just don't know how to play properly.

[@thevibingjake9123]

That's what I'm saying like who in the right minds think it's wimpy

[@mindexpressionism]

Rambo is laughing from it being called wimpy

[@TubeYouViewer12099]

When I originally heard this story, I commented...no will hear the arrow coming....

[@whatdRaysay]

Playing with weapons > playing with balls

[@romonecrosby]

I bet $20 that op father does not want to take an arrow to the knee That's why he calls archery wimpy😂😂😂

[@whatdRaysay]

This family obviously values playing with balls more than weapons 🥴

[@ladytionne1]

😂😂

[@sanddagger36]

imagine being so against cheating that your kids are afraid to admit when they cheat and will frame their siblings just so you don't find out they cheated. They all knew exactly how he would react, which is why they lied to him, and yet they have the audacity to think OP tricked an old man

[@NightCourt1984]

I have to say after OP found out his girlfriend was cheating on him with his brother I'm surprised OP didn't use him for target practice. I'm not surprised most of the family is getting karma. They kicked out OP when he found out what his brother and ex did and spread lies about him. Now that the truth is out and they might not be well off shows just how low that family is probably the ex too and that karma will keep getting bad for them.

[@sparrowflyaway]

It's your child's first Christmas and your wife is pregnant, this is absolutely NOT the time to be going to spent the holidays with the people who abandoned you because your girlfriend cheated with your brother.

[@Ee3ee33eee]

Damn they really getting busy if not even a year after the first child they're having another

[@goatkiller666]

When I was married, we liked neither of our surnames. Here’s from when her mother remarried, and the guy adopted her. But she hates him, and wanted nothing to do with him. And my surname was… a perfectly normal word in Gaelic. In English, it earned me decades of ridicule. Plus, I hate my dad, so even if I did magically like kids, his family name dies with me and/or my sister. He died a few weeks ago. I felt nothing. And true to his word, I was disowned. Worth every penny. 10/10, would recommend. I fucking hate when so-called gifts come with strings attached. I got a full ride scholarship, and promptly told my family that once I left, I wouldn’t even tell them my new address. They took the money they’d budgeted for my college and bought me a new car. Until it was paid off, they had a right to know where it was. So I sold that, and used the money to get an old beater. As part of their divorce, my parents gave each kid a plot of undeveloped land. Which owe property taxes, and the mailing address of the property owner becomes publically available. I sold it at a huge loss, just to close that loophole. The best revenge is living happily without them.

[@Y0ur_ev1l_tw1n]

It's starting to get suspicious how many people were "the black sheep of the family" specifically that term

[@KKOPPONG]

Family isn’t a necessity. If you have people in your life and have enough support you don’t need the drama.

[@RagnarokAvatar]

"Greed will imprison us all"

[@anklebiterwoodworks2818]

$$$ can bring out the worst in people. Good on OP for standing strong, clinging to his immediate family, and rocking his good fortune as he deserves. Grandpa knew about all the lies and deceit and made sure that OP was taken care of. The fact that the courts sided with OP and Grandpa proves that Grandpa knew what the rest were like. OP, live your life. Thrive with your family. Enjoy life. Grandpa knew what he was doing. What an amazing man.

[@RoseWine-666]

When did archery become wimpy? Oh right, archery-a sport where someone could be killed, lose an eye, or suffer another terrible injury-is considered wimpy compared to a sport where injuries only happen if someone plays too roughly, acts recklessly, or doesn't know the rules.

[@Yas-gu1pj]

"Can i copy your homework" ahh comment

[@NENOShorts]

Its all about the money nowdays

[@MineQley]

Yep

[@jimmytto]

When has it ever not been about the idea of money.

[@vodamiinurl1337]

Archery? Wimpy? The hell ya parents smoking? Do you know just how much upper body strength you need just to PARTICIPATE? The average archer could probably pull your arm off casually!

[@timothyhansen6581]

The fact that without the words of some randos on Reddit this guy might have lost his wife while he was off talking to his family is chilling.

[@barbaracerny4123]

As a mum I would not tolerate the cheating child, I have my standards and morals and my kids know this.

[@toha702]

The grandfather is no better then the rest of that family. He CHOSE to believe them without hearing his grandson's side of story. That was a conscious choice.

[@ankushchakravarty2053]

Grandpa is partially wrong for not reaching out and hear op side's story ,when he got the truth he supported the op that the right thing he did

[@RagnarokAvatar]

But he finally redeemed himself in the end.

[@vidpop5397]

But he redeem himself once he knew the truth. And suported him

[@SC-zq6cu]

He is better than the rest - unlike the others he actually recognized his mistake and properly reconciled the matter with OP.

[@WispyBlueBricksGPX]

If this was a Netflix drama show, I'd watch the hell out of it

[@strengthcoach929]

Learn from my mistakes: Never, Never, Ever... choose biological family over your wife and child!!!!! I can't even tell you the heartache and misery this will cause ..long term simmering, resentment and only additional extrusions by biological family for absolutely selfish reasons ..run far, run fadt

[@pettylevelexpert984]

I feel bad for that poor old man. That stress could have killed him!

[@ToPlease]

The toxicity of money & greed.

[@unclesmrgol]

My guess was "organ donor for twin brother".

[@screwyoutube-ed9jx]

" i was never neglected by them" then explains exactly how they were neglectful

[@Nevera-o3o]

This story are so amazing that my siblings also watch with me❤

[@nsellak3225]

How archery a wimpy sport?? Do you know the amount of upper body strength you need to just be good at it?

[@princessmarlena1359]

Right?

[@789blackops]

I’m pretty sure the family wanted to meet OP on Christmas because they probably believed OP would see it as an honor to be invited for Christmas and have a higher chance of agreeing to meet 😂 they’re definitely self centered enough to see it this way

[@jack1235ify]

Those story is so extra is has to be fake. So much ridiculous over the top drama 😂

[@naptime1900]

Ask grandpa if he wants to read the messages you are getting from family. Tell grandpa you are not changing your life for family and how you treat him.

[@davidmcrowder]

Dont bother...... they only want FROM you and never FOR you. Its not worth it

[@matthewstarke3765]

The grandpa did the chaos thing because he wanted one more laugh before he kicks the bucket, that would honestly be what I would do when I got old have the money to do it and then I was about to kick the bucket I'd be like I'm going to make one more chaotic scene just for the shits and giggles

[@selfaware3940]

I get that this is a special situation...but any kids I father get my last name. End of story. God I miss real stories that are not Ai generated.

[@Zurround]

I heard this story before on a different KZbin channel. I wonder how the family would have acted if it was reversed and it had been the OP who slept with his brother's partner. Probably would have disowned him for that too.

[@goatkiller666]

Convicted of… Mail Fraud? That’s like convicting Al Capone of tax evasion.

[@chiggy123jsm]

"Chaos is a ladder." Peter Baelish - Game of Thrones.

[@darknessking2859]

I know plenty of people including my father who would tear them a new one if they hear someone call archery of wimpy sport it's a sport where you're trying to use weapons on a competitive level the same type of weapon that you use for hunting yes go ahead and call hunters who use bow and arrows wimpy to their face I can guarantee it's not going to end well for them. I highly doubt they were actually going to press charges against you I think they were just bluffing you to try to get you out of their hair. In my opinion there is no way they would risk trying to get you arrested for assault considering the situation. If you go to court what is happened and what it said goes public and is in front of people like judges and the police officer who guards the courtroom. If you revealed the fact that you're adult brother slept with your minor girlfriend there's no doubt in my mind he would get arrested and charged with statutory r***. The major difference is you go to jail you will get 6 months Max and that's not taking in the account that you would be a first-time offender. While on the other hand if the information of your brother and your ex sleeping together get out not only would he register as an offender but he would also any employer would also see that he was somebody who is willing to stab his own brother in the back how would they be able to trust him being a representative of their company by working for them or trust them with any secrets because somebody willing to stab their own brother in the back like that cannot be trusted with secrets of places like work

[@NustoIid]

(Who is who in the family zoo)💀 bro that is gpt for sure

[@smylez18]

Tried as an adult for fighting his brother....his family sucks

[@kathleenmcfarlane2555]

Story 1: OP should not go. They just want access to the grandchild.

[@nachtwaya8721]

I wonder if OP is honestly being honest about alledged honest honesty.

[@mwash52]

Why did he take her last name, because he is freezing out his family?

[@betshodinonyane9467]

It's true that money is the root of evil

[@nachtwaya8721]

I'd be the bemused Crazy Uncle or Cousin who'd sit back and watch the chaos, popcorn and Iced Tea at hand.

[@eskimolost2012]

Only reached out cause of threatening inheritance not being in it

[@duergh]

its funny when at the beggining op crealy dosnt like/care at all about grandpa but later on "my true family, my wife and grandpa" roflmao...

[@togucvinw7]

Archery wimpy ? Do they not know soldiers used to snipe people with bows and arrows before guns were invented ? Archery is badass af Also I guess the saying « the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb » (yes that’s the correct quote) is true

[@Nebukanezzer]

Unloading on the grandpa was unnecessary. How the hell was he supposed to know how you feel? Why would you insult him like that?

[@ankushchakravarty2053]

If none of the family member have taken side of carl(op twin) then the situation is something else😂😂

[@joebarbara3310]

They Really got all been out of shape out of a single hit me and my brothers used to beat their s*** out of each other on a weekly basis and then we were done big deal never got in trouble. From what I know it's part of having a sibling. We would fight like hell, but no one was allowed to mess with my little brother besides me.

[@kwazinjapha5726]

24:58 RIP to ur grandpa 😢

[@deni140492deni]

This is a mess. Lots of plot holes

[@andriusthecloud]

How tf is archery a wimpy sport people used it in war if anything it’s the least wimpy out of all of those

[@MrDEMONFOX1]

Seems even a black sheep can turn gold and rise up gg OP

[@minhphan7509]

Isn't this is an old story that end with OP calling grandpa "old senile a-hole" and the story end, and this update sound a little fake

[@devilsfan23]

Yes, same story

[@TestaTheRonin]

I don't care how long ago a situation happened i will bring it up and make sure i'm not being lied on

[@wargreysama]

How is archery wimpy but playing with balls isn't? You literally use a weapon that brought countless deaths in the history of humanity. WTF

[@sanddagger36]

pretty sure everything including and after the family suing OP was just AI generated BS. You can tell when the style of writing changed. "This whole experience has been eye opening and family isn't always defined by blood" Really? Maybe you learned that when you were kicked out 8 years ago? it's like whoever wrote the second half forgot what was in the first.

[@Ohm_mega]

No second chanceswhen it comes to betrayal.

[@adamxiong1817]

This sounds like an asian family. lol

[@YourGodStalin]

I don't understand...the story basically changes entirely at the "big update" part at 13:30...

[@4611mathman]

They are not family they threw you away family should be unconditional my parents who have both died supported my brothers and myself unconditionally if they can throw you away for a small event like that then they never loved you to begin with and go no contact stick with the people who truly love and care about you

[@JamssSmeile]

All of these stories sound the same.

[@GSP-76]

Story is so fake... but regardless, the grandfather was no better than the test of the pos family... after all they learned from him. He didn't even bother to listen to ehat his grandson had to say.

[@supershadows4]

Wait all he said was he was sad they didn't have the family last name an you gotta cuss him out grandpa like that

[@robinjameson4261]

The individuals of his family are morons to the absolute highest degree they called archery wimpy. of all the sports listed, archery can actually get you food in real life by hunting. archery is the only sport among those listed that was actually used in actual war there are Legends of archers like Robin Hood and Odysseus only real folk legend about baseball is Casey at the bat and he was a puttz.

[@tamarrasmith8336]

He keeps saying kids, buy his wife miscarried right

[@Itsangrym3]

if you are a real person you will like this comment

[@abednego_1254]

archery is a "wimpy sport"? archers went to wars in ancient times. what did basketball, volleyball, soccer do? they're just mere games.

[@bulruq]

BALONEY!

[@northstorm9411]

Idk if I believe any of Theas that iv herd but thinking about it is fun

[@jaskaransidhu6702]

Not need

[@chaoticdemise4494]

Bruh... archery is wimpy.....now I'm not one for playing archery.....but God damn, I think people forgot that's considered a weapon and u need some controlled breathe techniques, upper strength for the bow, and a good eye just to even hit ur mark

[@kennyb3635]

What happened to the Aunt that raised you

[@jeaninebowdry2045]

He’s just as greedy as the rest of them. What happened to “if I get anything, I don’t want it. I’ll give it to charity.”

[@knowwhoiamyet]

Probably the same thing that happened to being told that if they didn't apologize, they would be removed from the will in the original post, and then "discovering it" in part of the update because now the story has changed to "they wanted my money" instead. That is to say... It's either a fake story, or OP is an untrustworthy narrator.

[@Axe064]

Meh, letting go of a million for a grudge with a different family member, especially when the grandpa is already trying to make amends is just plain stupid imo

[@davidhamilton6883]

That kinda money could set him his wife and his kids up for life, honestly itd be kinda dumb to give it to charity especially outta spite

[@cricket5692]

He probably just remembered he has a family, and throwing that much support for your wife and children away is plain stupid.

[@juliowilliams602]

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

[@goatkiller666]

I would choose an even more laughable sport. Chess, for example. Do not fall for the trap that is ping pong. It looks like it should be a kids sport, but the Chinese have Ping Pong locked down. Like if Jamacia had a bobsled team, or America got a bunch of multimillionaires who have played professional basketball for years, and insist they’re all amateurs. And don’t get me twisted: China has absolutely earned their spot at the top of those rankings. The sport doesn’t take the strength of Discus, gains no benefit from height advantage, and other than Carpel Tunnel Syndrome is not a great risk to the athletes. Early on, the PRC is said to have had some logistical / corruption issues that resulted in many of their citizens growing with less-than-optimal nutrition. I’m sure a lot of that is Americans confusing the USSR with the PRC, because they were both communists, and the USSR had a lot of starvation. But after Chairman Mao’s ascension, average height and a bunch of other physical traits very rapidly caught up with the 1st World. Case in point: Yao Ming. And ask yourself this, will softball save your sister in the case of a zombie apocalypse? No, it will not. But archery will.

[@Vvee.699]

What r u yapping abt lol

[@NourAmsterdam]

OP is no better. First saying how he will give all the money to charity , but doesn’t back up his words. All lip service. Also with the last names.

[@leighnisbett9691]

Op has given a certain amount of the inheritance to charity , started Educational funds for his kids securing their futures and ensuring that he's set up for his retirement and his children after he passes away . It's up to Op how he deals with the moochers that are toxic family members and letting a lawyer deal with these issues frees up Op from ever hearing from his Toxic family members again .

[@RedHood410]

Man, shut the hell up