Family feud over final disposition of Councilman Eric Mays’ remains

[@wnemtv5]

Story: www.wnem.com/2024/03/05/family-feud-over-final-disposition-councilman-eric-mays-remains/

[@ChargersCity]

🙏🙏Blessings forever GOD loves y'all too forever tell everyone you know and don't know. Jesus loves y'all too forever. Teach everyone how to see and enjoy their blessings too forever

[@michaelesutton7058]

They are out of ORDER!

[@toombs6287]

Point Of Order They are OUT OUT ORDER.

[@wizardofahhhhhhz]

THAT’S the point of order!!!!

[@ladywithclasscarpenter1143]

Most definitely! Siblings or Parents had no right when there are Adult Children.

[@reececfrancis170]

..even in your passing there is a bit of drama.....rip Mr mays

[@ChargersCity]

🙏🙏Blessings forever GOD loves y'all too forever tell everyone you know and don't know. Jesus loves y'all too forever. Teach everyone how to see and enjoy their blessings too forever

[@athorpe630]

The son was the only one that should be able to do anything that's common sense. Always about money unfortunately.

[@brendamiller6563]

AMEN my friend ❤!

[@camilliaking6384]

Facts!! They need to stay in their lane

[@camilliaking6384]

Wheeeeew chiiiiile… I know first hand. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Rest well Mr. Mays 🕊️

[@kimmassey5882]

Right, but people don't have common sense!

[@janicelumpkin601]

​@@camilliaking6384ME too😢🙏

[@patriciataylor2738]

Son is the closest and should have the POWER PERIOD

[@larrylove7165]

Im a licensed funeral director and embalmer and I can tell you that if there is no surviving spouse the child or children of the deceased are the legal next of kin not siblings. The directors at that funeral home should know this. The son has a valid complaint with the Michigan State Board of funeral directors.

[@shehound1778]

He should sue

[@argerinejordan4703]

This is so sad 😮 What a mess!

[@howardevans6761]

It's all money that's involved. Damn shame how some people don't care. Only that it's money.

[@marcuscoyle2833]

You’re exactly right! But I’m sure moon funeral home would release the body to a funeral home of the son’s choice. I don’t agree with him during moon because I’m almost certain the issues with moon is they want their money. And I can’t much blame them sounds

[@marcuscoyle2833]

When all this first started the sister claimed they sit down with the son to make arrangements and they all agreed! I’m sure moon just through just like any other normal funeral. Moon couldn’t just release the body for all that they have did to prep the body. And by law moon can still charge for prep and storage of the body. Until a court order is determined

[@WandaRobinson-ij3mt]

The Son has all the Rights!.

[@lg8479]

I'm willing to bet that May's family has always used this funeral home, and that's why they are going on like that. My aunts and uncles had the audacity to have one of my uncles call my mother, complaining about the fact that my dad was going to be cremated. They wanted him buried in Detroit - a place that he hated and barely visited once he left. That's because that was his birthplace, and most of his siblings were still living there. My dad wanted to be cremated. My mother told them that if they wanted him buried, they'd have to pay for whatever expenses that my dad's life insurance policy didn't cover. She knew how to get rid of them. That stopped the calls.

[@WandaRobinson-ij3mt]

Thank you! His Son has all the Rights...My daughter already knows...and she also knows that she doesn't have to answer to anyone in my family..."I said how I want things to go down!"

[@02WIFE]

Detroit never missed him

[@lg8479]

​@WandaRobinson-ij3mt I'm glad that you have prepared your daughter.

[@LilliLamour]

Black people, make a will and testiment

[@alphamale2330]

He standing around in the background looking like someone stole his lunch

[@autumnishotterthansummer]

The disrespect is on a completely different level.

[@TheloniousJackson]

The disrespect is from the family

[@LadyAtheOnly]

Next of kin is next of kin, period. This is an unnecessary power trip. So disrespectful to Uncle Mays!😔💔

[@goldloveme]

So right next to kin and that is his blood bloodline. His son but I bet you his brothers and sisters didn't want anything to do with him when he was living not unless they was calling him for money let's keep it real and shame that I'm double I speak number facts facts they out of order. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 Rest in peace 👑👑👑👑👑👑👑

[@gospmusluver]

Whoever called that funeral home is out of order and the funeral is definitely out of order. The next of kin is the son, period

[@Livwilde87]

Lord have mercy... Give that man his daddy and let him grieve in peace... Y'all pray for Mr. Mays son... Dealing with the death of his father and battling family and funeral home drama can NOT be easy... Stay strong brother🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

[@sharondixon2117]

The son is the only one to be allowed to make decisions on how remains are handled.. it’s law! Family should be there to support Councilman’s son. Please do the right thing 🙏🏾💔

[@demetriussharpless2126]

I Can Hear Mr.Mays Saying Point Of Order Quit Acting Ignant❤

[@LeeAnn20008]

Lol.

[@tonyabradford240]

Yesssssss!!!!!

[@RealMadea]

This comment took me out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@vee.5254]

😂😂😂😂😂me toooooo

[@tmarie3510]

😂😂😊❤this comment is so true 😢❤

[@ryanmill7187]

A lawsuit he will win hands down

[@honeypinkbetta184]

ALWAYS GET A WILL

[@goldloveme]

After I watch this I went straight to the comments but before I went to the comment the first thing that I said always always always always always have a living will when I leave here my family gets nothing believe me when I say it not even two brown pennies to rub together when I'm living it's about and when I die it'll be about I watched the way that they treated their own parents and I'm talking about sister brothers and I watch all of my first cousins the way they treated but when they died they want their money, karma is something else 👹👹👹👹👹👹👹👹👹👹👹☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@dawnlee866]

This is sad on all levels😢🙏🏾

[@leanncastex1741]

How this get so out of hand the son got all the rights 😮

[@pearlsams7064]

I hate Councilman didn't have a will drawn up. I guess he wasn't thinking because family will start fights when someone has pass. Hope his son is given the right that is his.

[@goldloveme]

His son rights rights if he didn't have a living will

[@EvelynDobbins]

The biggest fight will be at the cemetery 😞

[@panamablack9671]

You really see who's family and freinds when your parents die.

[@reginalda.bellsr.249]

Lord, PLEASE bring unification to this family, and give his son direction as he does his best to honor his father’s wishes. We only want Councilman Mays to rest in peace, and the only words we want attached to his name as his body is laid to rest, are those that bring him honor, but give YOU the glory. In Jesus’ mighty and powerful name I pray, Amen….🙏🏾👑

[@MSPURDEE-jd8gj]

WHAT MAJE U THINK HIS SON HAS NO DIRECTION U PPL NEED TO THINK BEFORE U SPEAK!!!

[@FeliciaJohns-lr8zt]

AMEN

[@randolphtolbert3825]

He didn’t live in peace and due to his family members, he’s not resting in peace.

[@MSPURDEE-jd8gj]

@@randolphtolbert3825 HE MAY NOT COME WHEN U CALL HIM BUT HE’LL BE THERE RIGHT ON TIME IS A ON TIME GOD YES HE IS!!!

[@MZUNUSUAL]

It’s really sad but when money is involved you’ll see the ugly side of people

[@lolajackson4697]

Our people always have drama when a family member dies and what a shame.

[@mzrnda]

I agree with you and part of the reason is that a lot of our people die without a will, as Mr Mays did. Even having a will does not eliminate family drama because somebody ain't gonna be happy.

[@TheloniousJackson]

@@mzrndadie not due

[@mzrnda]

@@TheloniousJackson thanks for the correction.

[@CathyLTate]

Every Race Does & You Know Full Well If It’s Negative Everyone Blames The Black Community. Everything Good Is Everyone But The Black Community. You Should Be Ashamed!!

[@lillyc9476]

Our people do too money makes people get greedy it happened in my husbands family

[@t.thompson8985]

Wow that's a shame that his son even has to go through this during this time of grief. I hope this is resolved for him soon.

[@sharonmetcalf5617]

Some people just don’t understand that his son is the next of kin (if council doesn’t have a wife). It’s always the family (outside the spouse/children) that wants to put their hands in something!!

[@PHlophe]

Sharon, people out here counting others monies and checking pockets. I done seen folk steal from the deceased during repass . Lots of people have ZERO shame.

[@sharonmetcalf5617]

@@PHlophe it’s sad but true.

[@seeno1]

Let the man rest in peace. Let the son make the decisions. The family should be there to support the son in assisting with the funeral.

[@kathyrodriguez820]

His son is his next of kin so why is this even happening? Seems cut and dry to me.

[@lhu6971]

Maybe father and son didn't get along?...... But sounds like he want's what's best for dad. A great send off.

[@marcwilson6716]

cause siblings will Always try to step in!!😮

[@lhu6971]

@@marcwilson6716 My brother was very handsome but looked terrible after the autopsy. Many relative's felt casket should've been closed but his wife had it open.😢

[@sunflowerpwr.8821]

Mr Mays spoke fondly of his son​@@lhu6971

[@FaithandNova]

@@lhu6971even if they did or didn’t without a will he son legally is the next of kin.

[@woolridge2498]

Hot mess!! That's why people need to have these conversations before people pass on and why wouldn't the son be the one who has say so over his father's remains... Horrible 😢

[@dawnlee866]

Exactly

[@EvelynDobbins]

Don't mess around and have him to come back and make his own plans now😮😮

[@CarsonDouglas]

I will fall tf out of he does that 😆 black people often don't make wills. That makes things more complicated in final life plans.

[@mpresnonward2075]

And if he did, you know full well he would have plenty to say. :-) RIP Sir.

[@vivianperdue4329]

Right ✅️ cause he will Rip MR MAYS 🙏 😢 💔

[@glorondajohnson4103]

This is why life insurance policies, wills and trusts are very important! I don't know when people are gonna understand this! RIP Uncle Mays. 🙏🏾🕊

[@SweetPPeaches]

Get the Sheriff's office or Constable to serve papers and by force to retrieve to body.

[@lolajackson4697]

I think they all hate him.

[@randolphtolbert3825]

Not without a court order genius😂

[@GeorgiaPound77]

That's why wills are so important

[@ryanmill7187]

You don’t need a will for finial disposition…..it’s a common sense thing

[@GeorgiaPound77]

@@ryanmill7187 if you didn't Eric Mays son wouldn't be going through what he is going through

[@damikey85]

This is why it’s important to have a will so when you pass, it won’t be any mess like we see here.

[@conqueringlion420]

Eric Mays Flints rightful ruler, Flints rightful Mayor and Flints rightful pastor by blood right

[@conqueringlion420]

Eric Mays jr should run for First Ward City Council he will get elected he’s mays only son and flints new rightful ruler by bloodright!!!!

[@gorgeouswales9635]

So sad how families act

[@celestecruthird7842]

The Aunts, And Uncles Are Not right! This Is The Son's Right!😮

[@Native5]

Whoever over his policy have all the rights. Whoever is paying for the Funeral has all rights. It doesn't matter what person are close kin.

[@celestecruthird7842]

@@Native5 Not True! Does Not Matter Who Paid What! His Next Of Kin , His Son Has All The Rights Unless IT was Legally Written Otherwise!

[@PHlophe]

Celestine, we all have entitled folk and bullies in the family. blood family ain't worth Chit ! fr fr

[@bellydancer3146]

I worked at a cemetery. We had a saying "Death brings out the crazy". It's true, family members lose they damn minds. Lol

[@randolphtolbert3825]

Weddings and funerals bring out the crazies

[@inmyownwords9798]

Point of Order

[@TherealMrsScottmovingon]

Why would anyone want to do anything if you are not his son!!! Evil horrible people THEY KNOW THEY ARE WRONG HIS SON IS GRIEVING ENOUGH.. LOW.. REAL LOW LIFE'S GOD WILL DEAL WITH Y'ALL Mr. Mayes will haunt them until they do right by his son💯

[@crystalmichellem]

I enjoyed Eric Mays❤. I listened to council meetings like I was a Flint resident. It’s truly upsetting to treat a rightful heir this way. Siblings cannot step on the toes of a child. Also in doing so are holding up burial. That’s just sick.

[@TherealMrsScottmovingon]

So sad they took him out 😓l can't wait til it finally OVER💯

[@JJ-yt3ze]

This is always an issue with our race... just complete a "Will", file with county and share final wishes with whomever you selected. This eliminates all of the internal family disagreements. I pray the family will unite and allow Mr. Mays remains to be at rest.

[@characters7568]

Even whwn there's a will family sometimes will contest, but most judges will rule in favor of the will.

[@YoYo16_19]

Please stop it!! EVERY ethnicity deals with this!!

[@dancingeyes8601]

You're correct but this is also why there are next of kin laws, and the siblings literally have no rights when the deceased has children. Furthermore it is clear that the siblings do not care too much for their brother because if they did they would not have been trying to put together a service with Ms. Fields, his public enemy as the speaker. Its disrespectful, they could not stand each other and millions of people know that.

[@NS-ju7vz]

😂😂😂😂😂 what a goon. There are other races who have this issues and it’s not majority. The short bus indeed.

[@Bih1stOfAll]

That has nothing to do with being Black...u think others don't have issues surrounding death. Stop with the self deprecating....damn

[@makalasmith2375]

It is soooo sad how death bring out such ugliness in families. You can't properly grieve b/c everyone and their momma have something to say. Is the son a DISTANT son meaning he just popped back up on the scene after years of no one hearing or seeing him? If not, allow the son to properly lay his father to rest.

[@sunflowerpwr.8821]

No there are videos out here with Mr Mays saying that he and his son were estranged when his son's mother was living but when his son's mother passed away they amended their relationship and he said he wanted everything to go to his son if he passed away.

[@robin4942]

Prayers and condolences

[@Flavflav-u3v]

Apparently some money is involve that's why they attacking his son smh

[@elvante5275]

The funeral home is out of order.

[@PHlophe]

dey out of pocket. Billing daily stay so they can cash in on the drama as long as they can. Sem Vergonha !

[@kasmirsdaughter6211]

Sometimes people never fully detach from their family when they start their own families. Your original family will always be your family but once you get married and start having children, there should be a clear understanding, by your behavior, where everyone stands. This family never learned that and that has contributed to their unfortunate behavior. May the soul of the departed rest in peace and may his loved ones be comforted. Amen.

[@cchaney2475]

The “FIRE” has been extinguished, however the MEMORY of “HIS FIRE”🔥 Will be remembered!🙏🏿🧠👂🏾⏰💪🏿

[@remylebeau5212]

Wait...What!?😮😢What do you mean they refuse to release his Dad....Some wicked work going on 4real

[@ms.p6594]

You can see the pain and anguish on his son. Praying for all and his community.

[@celestecruthird7842]

The Son Can Sue The Funeral Home!😮

[@nikkijusticeontherun341]

This is heartbreaking 💔 and weird. Why are is siblings doing this. Lack of a will has nothing to do with this.

[@maesams6212]

Thats horrible!!!! The funeral home needs to do the right thing!!!

[@TjaMadison-oh5il]

I was wondering if the funeral had already taken place but the family are cutting up.

[@shonellsimpkins2748]

I went through the same thing with my dad's brother.

[@queennjinga3748]

Wow what a way to honor this man smdh

[@pamelahawkins395]

I hear him saying right now you're out of order I pray they can get it together

[@pamelabrown502]

Disgusting. Certainly they should be held accountable. His son is the only one who can make decisions, with no will.

[@Jj-mn2nz]

👂 The son has the final say-so according to Michigan Law ✅

[@MSPURDEE-jd8gj]

REPRESENTATIVE TO THE HOOD I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER MR MAYS!!

[@elytestatus]

It happens all the time in our black families. People whom wouldn't even come and visit, call, check on you when you were alive yet want all entitlement when you pass away. His son should in fact be the sole overseer of his final arrangements. This is why it's so important for you to have an Advance Directives, living will, a proxy, healthcare surrogate anything that would prevent issues like this from happening.

[@ithinknot2694]

Why did the public. Need to know this 😳

[@Anna17503]

The son had no idea what to do. After 72hrs he never claimed the body. No parent wants irresponsible adult children over their affairs. Furthermore the law firm knows he had not ever attempted to claim the remains and false accusations. HaKeem is being used and manipulated by the law firm. With no beneficiary listed on the council policy must go to probate. The policy is 75k. The son has a go fund me for personal expenses. This is sad.

[@bigkeith41]

Soo sad let the son handle and do with his Father unbelievable

[@luxurycarkey7207]

Just ridiculous now the state board of funeral directors will be on that funeral home...just release it...money makes people crazy

[@kptyler5]

Money is the evil that rules this world, money will make FAMILIES act like fools...

[@wonders_work]

Where Judge Mathis maybe he can help

[@andreoates8405]

Wow, that’s horrible in life. He was ahead of confusion on the city council meetings, and death still confusion😮, so sad🥹

[@glendapate1960]

How is the world does families act foolish when someone dies. All about money. The son should have the rights to his father.

[@Jay-u4k5l]

His siblings are not the next of kin, his only son is so he has the rights of disposition and everything else. The funeral home is out of order and should release the body immediately. Id sue them too and believe me, small funeral homes have no money and can’t afford a lawsuit so they should have given him his dad’s body. How the funeral home got the body is beyond me because they should have asked immediately who the next of kin is, does the deceased have a spouse, children, then would have known the siblings were not the next of kin. im sorry this happened to his son.

[@carlawilson8806]

Rest in Peace Mr Mays🙏🏾🌹

[@wishyouknew487]

Why don't people leave children alone

[@ShaShaLuva414]

Rest Peacefully Councilman Mays🙏🏽 to add a little humor to this because, this to shall pass. Councilman Mays is going out just as he lived his political lifestyle with controversy and a bang. 😊 I’m so sorry for the loss of Mr. Mays and I pray that his dream continues on. He has left a wonderful blueprint of life for many to live by and follow. The determination, leadership and dedication to his City will always remain in my memory and I am so grateful to have been able to share his journey.🙌🏾 You will be missed Blessings to his family and friends 🙏🏽 One ☝🏽 Love ❤️

[@VioletWings1353]

He is the closest living adult relative so yes he has all legal rights to say and do anything with his father's remains and property. Shame on the family and funeral home.

[@mymillionaireclub7591]

This is soooooooooo saddddddddd prayers for family!!!

[@TiaTime425]

This is so sad and unfortunate

[@debra6683]

That man's soul is disturbed. That's too much confusion.

[@MSPURDEE-jd8gj]

IM GOING TO MISS HIM HE DID BRING HIS GRANDSON MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹GOD BLESS 🙏 TO THE FAMILY HE DID LEAVE A MARK VOLUME ALWAYS DOWN ONLY COME ON TO INFORM YOU MR MAYS BRING SMILES TO MT HEART

[@avishopkins8295]

❤Mr Eric 💞 Mays ❤God Bless His Son ❤

[@SweetLadySuga]

It's that funeral home that's doing this because they don't want to lose the money. They know damn well that son is in charge.

[@WanderingWithTheWares]

So sad but been there. That’s why it is so important for people to out their final wishes in writing.

[@MrSwish702]

Rip Mr Mays 🙏

[@yolanda007]

The son looks nothing like his late dad. But I hope they can reconcile this matter.

[@setybtv]

Heartbreaking. Praying for Mr. Mays' son and family.

[@DarlieneDaniels-rz5qi]

It shouldn't be a dispute, His children is his family not his siblings, what is wrong with his crazy siblings

[@Moore_cookies51]

SHAME ON ALL Thats OUT OF ORDER!

[@elishasmith4640]

How??? He has a WHOLE son! He's supposed to carry out his father's business if there's no spouse. This is sad and family is sometimes the WORST.

[@House_of_GEB]

They want to punish him for who he was living his truth. He gave the system hell and now it want to give him the hell of all dishonnoring his body and legacy. They should not prevail☀👑❤🗝

[@Native5]

Who paid his insurance or who did May's have on his policy?

[@RyanBrown-m3k]

65 is not old. Mr. Mays the good die young.. we font live in your city but we miss you. Family please unite let this black warrior rest. His work was eell done. Salute to our Ancestor Councilman💪🏿🙏🏿

[@delightful75]

Son is direct blood relative, brothers and sisters don’t come first

[@GeorgiaWhisper]

📢📢📢📢📢POINT OF ORDER!!!!!

[@tmc8696]

If Mr. Eric maze was not married at the time of his death, all his remains of everything should go to his children not those old ass brothers and sisters y’all had y’all time with Eric when he was a child as his sister and brother, so leave everything to that man’s son, he is the closest thing to Erik

[@Londyn-s9f]

Mays- not maze. ... & he had 1 CHILD (singular,) not CHILDREN (plural.) Eric Mays was a BROTHER/ FATHER ONLY- to his siblings... & not a Sister, because he was a MALE!! ✅️ The vocabulary/spelling & incorrect word placement is disturbing!

[@characters7568]

​@@Londyn-s9f Stop being a bully... just stop, your corrections were unnecessary... many people use auto correction and they don't always stop to make changes if auto gets it wrong... we are all grieving a great loss in the black community and all you can do is play grammar police? You're worst than the family and funeral home fighting over Mr Mays' remains... leave this person alone... you need to find another outlet... go count some buttons...

[@Londyn-s9f]

@@characters7568 Not by any means a bully or grammar police. My comment was NOT directed towards you & I can reply as I choose too. You, need to go separate & count glitter! "Point Of Order!"

[@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548]

This is why I continue to say, please have your paperwork in order. You have to have a will, POA ( financial, medical, etc.) to determine your wishes after you are gone. If not, we see time and time and time again how ugly family can get during this time. Just a damn shame!!!

[@jeffreystringer3104]

Point of information! The son has the rights! Shame on the siblings for dragging this through the mud.

[@none360business6]

That’s his son awwwwww man family can be your worse enemy 😢😢😢😢

[@218klove]

The siblings need to stay in their place and let the son handle his father's business

[@Gregory-yk4wx]

The Son is the next of KIN and should the say SO my deepest condolences to the family ❤❤🎉🎉

[@RD-lx1gy]

This is so sad

[@angeldalexander8717]

I wish my aunties would try to tell me and my brother what they going to do in the event my mom transitions. As the next of kin his son should be the only other person other than a spouse to have a say over how he is laid to rest. Unless it’s in a legal document something else.

[@LeeAnn20008]

I'm wondering what is the issue with this funeral home though. Do one party want cremation versus the other party or what? Did Mr. Mays not get along with the son and that's other relatives are ignoring his wishes? I need answers. Point of order.