Family Issues | Sad Multifandom

[@shaquishalopez2265]

It hurts even more when you have a father figure but he doesn’t act like a father

[@katsqoa949]

Shaquisha Lopez ikr...😔💔

[@anasilva1242]

It really does...and it's even worse when you try to talk to him and he laughs at you because "you're just a teenager and you don't know what you're saying"

[@liaaa-xz8tv]

same right here

[@HoeBitch-qn5sl]

Ana Maria Silva lol my father is going to die any minute because of the corona virus and not even once has he been my dad 🤗 I’m scared Because love him 😭😭😭 I want a chance to build a relationship with him and tell him I love him

[@anasilva1242]

@@HoeBitch-qn5sl I'm so sorry...I'm sure everything is gonna be okay, you'll see. And I hope you can build a beautiful relationship with your dad! It's just a hard time :)

[@bLaKeFN55]

those teenagers who sit in their rooms at night and cry themselves to sleep were once children with light in their eyes and hope in there heart

[@kaylapayton4969]

Most definitely:((

[@kaylapayton4969]

We all once had that big bright smile

[@riyaunad1895]

Onceee

[@ally02world]

@@kaylapayton4969 we had 💔

[@kaylapayton4969]

@@ally02world :(((

[@itslynn4597]

That first scene from fresh prince always gets me crying

[@lil_dak_1587]

The second scene gets me because of how real it became. He did marry a "beautiful honey" and while I don't think two kids counts as a "whole bunch of kids," I think, in a way, we are all Will Smith's children. So in a way, he did have a"whole bunch of kids.". And he raised them better than his father raisied him. 😢😢😭😭

[@chaengsoo]

Same girl same 😢

[@Moonstone_er]

I don't know my father

[@nextttcallerrr91]

ItsLynn 45 sameeeeeeee

[@Wolfsta]

I come from a good family and my parents are still together. I am writing this comment for everyone who never had that. You have a chance to create that family for your children. You DO get a second chance to have a family. I know you got this.

[@elizabethhinklehinkle5393]

Thanks❤

[@Wolfsta]

@@elizabethhinklehinkle5393 🙏🙏

[@barshana6231]

Had one but he is gone. He passed away this year

[@morganJade101]

Thank you

[@Wolfsta]

@@barshana6231 😔

[@katherineu1175]

Is crazy how some people actually get to have a nice family...

[@marielaolivia9993]

nobody does

[@savannahgonzalez1908]

No ones family is perfect

[@treehousesociety6129]

They said nice, not perfect. Having family issues and is different than the occasional argument

[@jennarose8097]

Bitch don’t your right some people have it so easy while others don't and they don't know what the others are going through

[@destinyg3729]

Ik huh

[@londonsmith-strawmier7661]

The voice crack when will says "How come he don't he want me man" is heartbreaking. The saddest thing is when you here the voice crack when someone is one the verge of crying

[@humbertourbina6119]

London Smith-Strawmier Wow you saw that picture to

[@londonsmith-strawmier7661]

@@humbertourbina6119 yep i did

[@lix8764]

He said “how come he don’t want me”

[@blahhzay5042]

did you know that part was unscripted? Will Smith just did that himself. makes me think about how it mustve hit close to home :(

[@londonsmith-strawmier7661]

@@blahhzay5042 I know i happy to know that a celeb can still be happy with a bad past

[@letsnottalkaboutit1727]

“Cause there ain’t a damn thing he could teach me about how to love my kids”

[@naomipinell9309]

RavenclawAmbition so heartbreaking still crying 😭

[@djjad1159]

Painful..

[@maxine5796]

Ik how he feels....

[@jeonjungkook6681]

I felt that that's my life

[@kameronpritchard4539]

I related to that so much

[@daya.999]

"Trust me..family problems will kill your all happiness..." Once i read it...now i felt it...i know how painful it is..🙂

[@TheCreativeHandmades]

Well it did

[@ayasalah107]

I agree

[@ismailpetersen4353]

Facts

[@Elayne333]

Yes true now iam going through it it is really horrible

[@D3vil63]

Same

[@christachilds5578]

“How come he don’t want me man” That hit me hard

[@aacxrxcord8977]

facts

[@flaoladokun3386]

Man I started crying when that happened

[@kelina_lycra]

Same that made me cry the hardest💔

[@darkbeauty974]

That’s basically my dad😭🥺

[@darkbeauty974]

I wish I could see my dad

[@wilpse]

Promised myself I'd NEVER let my kids feel the way my parents made me feel

[@cands8351]

Same

[@itz_mn9226]

Me too...I don't want my kids to go through what i had to go through

[@natalietorres7808]

Same 😔👊

[@omarsamad8908]

Basically my only goal in Life And something I tell people who do fostering or adopting kids please don't ever tell them that they aren't family or don't ever make them feel different because they aren't your real kid cause that hurt so much when you're not accepted

[@stayarmy2473]

Same!!

[@sjy4554]

when u are a girl you're gonna rlly have trust issue, when ur father is the first one who breaks ur heart and betray u

[@vorttevorvor4775]

😢❤

[@YN-fy4cd]

*Can relate*

[@darianasosa8336]

I get you I understand you

[@a1oexo]

I just wanted him to love me Why did he leave Why didn't he let me love him Why couldn't he stay

[@selenah25]

He left me when I was 6 he never looks for me

[@bhavana3751]

Telling your problems to your parents is like adding another problem in your life

[@Idk_xx-i7n]

right

[@bingbong2643]

Imagine having a dad that actually genuinely loves you.

[@shannonhawk8890]

I can't imagine

[@imagine4416]

No

[@meadowlea1185]

Bing Bong lol what’s that

[@aberleepropst7719]

Bing Bong I had one...he’s umm gone now and so is my mom I miss my dad my mom was never there for me

[@bristolwest4608]

That would be amazing to even have a dad

[@jcsdaa4230]

*It hurts to realize that human who gave you life makes you want to end it*

[@marvelisfun1340]

And you can’t tell them when they ask what’s wrong because they’re what’s wrong

[@maja9066]

My mom

[@boognificent]

Dude, you just made me cry so hard!😭😭😭

[@alissaa.142]

My parents.... I DONT WANT TO BE HERE

[@mayc.4176]

@@marvelisfun1340 exactly.

[@kzvrev]

what hurts is having parents but it feels like they’re never there :)

[@evaleyveith957]

what hurts is when people are ungrateful. you might have parents but what if others dont?

[@rehabward3582]

@@evaleyveith957 thats how the world is. People die. And that natural. There is nothing they or u can do bout it. But when they r there but it doesn't feel like they r thats much worse. Trust me. Cuz that's their choice. The dont wanna be there for u or they left u its a CHOICE. Which hurts more. Them being there physically but actually not.

[@bvflxx]

@@evaleyveith957 Emotional neglect is not something to be taken lightly. No, this person isn't trying to invalidate people who don't have parents. They're sharing that sometimes it's tough even when you do have parents. That's why people like us come together to push through it. Some parents are present, but aren't there for their kids emotionally or even physically. I hope you understand.

[@bvflxx]

@Raeesa Jasat I'm sorry about that. I hope you're doing well. I really recommend finding someone you really trust to talk about your loss. It's hard to mourn on your own. Good luck 😊

[@samanthaa557]

ily :(

[@aylineraslan3836]

Stop telling people "at least you have this or that" or "you should be grateful". It is not about how serious what one goes through is, it is about how one feels while going through sh*t.

[@artscraftsgaming7169]

Like I love to say, “pain is pain no matter how small.” It shouldn’t be ignored because someone has it worse. It still hurts, so it still needs to be addressed and healed.

[@deliacozo8542]

I agree. I see a lot of people say in this comment section they have parents who dont love then or show them. My parents always do, like a couple hours my dad told me I was cute or beautiful ( forgot wich) and tells me every day

[@deliacozo8542]

​@@artscraftsgaming7169Yes

[@findingreefs]

Daddy issues are hard, but mommy issues hurt too.

[@deletingmyself5526]

Imagine not believing in love cuz the first person who was supposed to give u love is abusive.. Nd then people tell me why u don't belive in love.. Love is shit

[@samriddhisaxena9556]

Ask me.... Cause I have both....

[@deletingmyself5526]

@@samriddhisaxena9556 💜💜

[@pysxdxlic7502]

Oh whole family issues are hard to

[@vicky-lr1ty]

I have both which sucks but tbh I learn it the hard way

[@katemullinss]

the thing about abusive parents is that you have one good day with them, and you start to feel like all the abuse was just overdramatized in your brain and you still love them.

[@AnureetD]

right, I always tell myself when I'm 18 I'm cutting them off, but then everything is okay and my dad doesn't do anything for a day, I'm like nvm, maybe I'm just overreacting

[@aaryapathak9259]

I can feel it. 💔

[@nnn.nnn2]

I can totally relate :)

[@ksbsksoshdhd]

I've never related to something morem

[@btslovetaekookies4886]

Omg I wanna cry now , its so true

[@steph3172]

i hate how people think it isn’t painful to have a father who’s physically there but never emotionally. it’s basically the same thing.

[@rockbison1420]

So true:(

[@parisadr5142]

Its worst..peaple say atleast you HAVE a father :*)

[@v_2053]

@@parisadr5142 And my comeback is "I rather not have one tbh.."

[@iconicali8928]

@@v_2053 be grateful ur father didn’t abandon u at least

[@ניין-י9ש]

@@iconicali8928 don't assume please. I'd rather want my father to not exist because of his bad behaviours towards our family. It's like we're his slave and well you get it and we would be free if he died

[@vidhayaksigma251]

Being in the same situation,I literally cried, "Why don't they understand? "

[@manarbouafia9062]

They won't

[@anc301]

At least the next generation will have parents that actually understands them.

[@foreverminee]

That’s what I love knowing that I would understand my future kids I’m never treating them the way my parents treat me

[@Spooky_man]

This is to all that reading this... Most parents try to be better then their parents... all parents fail in one way or another... either through forgetting to teach their kids a valuable lesson that was too obvious for them OR by never being thought that lesson in the first place... Then it up for the next generation to heal themselves from their trauma in order to make sure their kids do not inherit it... then teach them the lessons they learned from their life... this dynamic has existed for millions of years, but now when humans has gone from a state of surviving to a state of living it is more important then ever! Stay strong everyone! Peace!

[@lia507]

My future kids won’t have to go through hell and back or suffer at all. I will give them my fucking all I’ll never ever make them feel like I’m someone horrible or that their home doesn’t feel like a *home*

[@marcuswimberly9325]

😞yep

[@jitendrakumarsingh135]

Next generation children will probably live with single mothers or in blended family.

[@mochafrappe4120]

The part when the women was drowning, really hit me. Don’t you ever just want to cry when you see a happy family?

[@zoehill6586]

Mocha Frappe yea

[@ervxyz.bandana]

yes

[@eatmyasthma999]

What's the weather fucked up like why why would you want to cry in a happy family, Let them be happy arsehole

[@trxshyvxbes1013]

Yes

[@sadestokes3774]

She wasn’t drowning, it’s from scream the TV series her boyfriend had died and she went into the pool and screamed.

[@zendraz2921]

“How come he don’t want me, man?” tHaT LiNe HiTs My HeArT I’m CrYiNg

[@fluffypony4684]

That scene wasn't actually scripted, his father actually left him at an early age. That's what, to me makes that scene even sadder, is the fact that actually came from the heart.

[@hafsaomar8204]

Hi what movie or series is that

[@nia101lol]

@@hafsaomar8204 fresh prince of bel air it's a series

[@NatsuDragneel-ew3jp]

Hafsa Omar the fresh prince of bel air, it was a series which aired back in the 90’s or the 2000’s

[@ashrice4642]

Kinda how I feel. I know my dad and I live with him I have my whole life but dude never takes care of me, never got a present from him. First time he told me he loved me is when I was 12

[@ricerispies110]

I find it amazing that some people actually had a loving dad. I find it astonishing that people don’t have trauma. I can’t imagine what that’s like but it must be amazing

[@deliacozo8542]

I find awful to see people writte this comments. I have a dad who loves me and cant imagine a father or a mother dont. Is awful, I am crying( hope my sister and cousin dont come, I am a mess)

[@emmalovelife8915]

will smiths one broke me because my dad also wasn't there for me as a child so I could relate.

[@stephanienash9346]

My dad was not in my life ether

[@aijeonie]

yeah.. I relate too..

[@shakilaazimi7900]

The reason why Will was so emotional was because that happened to him in real life aswell

[@MotiveDBD]

Same but it was my mom

[@kirrasnyder6152]

My mom took me away from my dad when I was little,I didnt see him for many many years,but now he has kids and a wife and hes happy.

[@hi2763]

The one thing I refuse to do in my life is raise my kids like my parents. I refuse to raise them to resent me for the rest of their lives. I will raise them right. No matter what.

[@rachaeliyunade8947]

I feel u

[@softeeyoon2163]

I agree

[@falaqashraf1148]

:)

[@blaiseywaiseyriot]

I couldn’t agree more. If there is one thing I could do right in my life, that’s raising my kids.

[@jashandeepkaurgill5416]

yea

[@samhitapothuri511]

“ You found a job?” “ I did,” “ You’re job was to stay,” I’m not crying something is in my eye.

[@lemons6561]

your*

[@goaway4625]

@@lemons6561 You proud, smartass? Just ruined the moment.

[@fam4ever182]

Idk if u rilly mean that but just know that 99.9 precent of the ppl including u are depressed so he/she might be going through a rough day or year so maybe u should shut ur mouth... Because we all human being

[@minhthupotthoff7383]

I don’t even know who my father is , he knows that I am his daughter but he doesn’t care

[@fam4ever182]

Omg im so srry

[@lynlyn6766]

To those that grew up with only one or neither of your parents, remember that you did nothing wrong. Never blame yourself or believe that you’re the reason they left. Stay strong 💪

[@deliacozo8542]

What If they did grow up with a parent for a while? My cousin 's dad due to a heart attack when she was 13 and now she is 15. My dad's dad left them when he was young and died of cancer

[@yoisheeshee8376]

"We are just suicidal kids telling other suicidal kids it's going to be okay" -unknown

[@alishbatariq3523]

I am so hurt :(

[@PriyaDas1111]

So fucking true.

[@trinityhernandez6132]

Why is it so fucking true

[@fbhqueens8319]

So damn true

[@bistarsoblam1557]

Can we be friends I need really a true friend...

[@thatssadtho9084]

I'm scared to die. But I'm also scared to live.

[@Magendanoir]

It’s a never ending fight with myself.

[@firefartmaster]

I don't think I've ever related to something more omg

[@siddx388]

That is why sometimes I feel like I should’ve not been even born or exist

[@midnightkiller5242]

I almost caused my death but u lived and still don't want to

[@Joseph-gb1vr]

I don’t want to live but I’m to scared to die... 💔

[@SS-zo4yg]

I just need someone to hug me and tell me: "It's not your fault. You did great job. I'm proud of you."

[@SalmaKhan-gw1sh]

I just want someone who I cna cry on they're shoulder and they will understand and fight with me then telling "it will get better when ur older" then leave out of my life

[@classicteen2313]

Hey there :))) I just wanted to say that you're doing a great job and I'm proud of you,, I know I can't actually give you a tight hug but here's a virtual one ⊂(・▽・⊂) hope you have a great day/night :)))))

[@naazaliaroberts4324]

It's okay

[@taylorhand1842]

God does

[@carina7898]

this made me cry so bad

[@agnella1640]

The thing with abusive parents is that they're so good at manipulating us and making us believe that we're wrong and all they're doing is out of love and when we have just one good day with them they make us feel like we were just overdramatizing things in our little minds and when we're finally depressed they still manage to make us blame ourselves💔💔

[@agnella1640]

Like I refuse to allow my kids to ever go through what I'm going through and what I went through and that's a promise I'm willing to keep They won't ever have to cry themselves to sleep or awake They'll never have to slit their wrists to numb their emotional pain They'll never have to wear winter wear in summer to conceal their bruises They won't have to do so many things I've done as a kid growing up

[@missmisery1694]

I swear it sucks more than anything

[@missmisery1694]

@@agnella1640 u okay?

[@bambidollie]

"I had 14 great birthdays without him..." 💔

[@snucsnuc]

Right on fucking point I'm 14 and I haven't even met my dad (15 birthdays and counting)

[@lulcs3231]

@@snucsnuc be strong 🌸

[@jadestar5772]

I have had 13 birthdays without .....h. .him I miss him I MISS U DAD😓

[@SelenaLaVonne]

I had 15 great birthday w/o him n still dont need him💔

[@softdydream_6719]

@@SelenaLaVonne if you don't need him now then you dont need him ever! He lost his chance at having a beautiful child like you

[@depressedgoth8426]

It sucks when this really is my life and my family is like this, I’m sorry to anyone who’s going through the same thing because I sure am

[@mariannamartinez7489]

I understand you so well. I have similar problems. so if you want dm in Instagram. @rosely.savage I will be glad to talk. By the way, write all who have any problems. I am well versed in psychology

[@alexsiamorales4456]

Marianna Martinez you me and depressed goth should start a group chat on instagram

[@mariannamartinez7489]

@@alexsiamorales4456 yea, if u know someone like us than dm in instagram pls

[@cheynicely6561]

Depressed Goth ya ik how you feel I spent my life without knowing my father abd then I finally met him 2 years ago when I was 17 just to be told by my half sister he would claim me without a dna test

[@isawatches]

Depressed Goth same

[@iinferuslunitaa3169]

Someone asked me : what is worse, not having a mother, father or both? I replied : Having parents that aren't like parents

[@kimbadantimurmu3382]

That feeling when you feel like living with some people known as your parents coz that's what we're supposed to do like supposed to live with PARENTS since the moment we were born but your home doesn't feel like home I I I can understand that 🙂

[@jaidynpaulson278]

or having to be the parent and missing out on that part of your childhood.

[@kjosen5962]

@@jaidynpaulson278 yes

[@muhsanatakter6386]

What if the boy brother gets more attention??

[@randolphderoypichardo1141]

I feel you I know how it feels its a horrible feeling

[@User-5x-y6v]

I promise . If I ever become a mom in the future I'll never let my babies go through all those sufferings that I went through . I'll protect them .

[@logic3442]

Will Smith one had everyone in tears yo That was deep

[@tanayavelasquez]

i know.

[@alishaa9986]

Ik

[@sweatingfrommyeyes767]

For real...

[@ajh1aa]

Sweating from my Eyes your name is perfect for this

[@zaria_treasuress]

Had me crying

[@zee166]

please promise we will be better than our parents :) 💜

[@YN-fy4cd]

I promise😄💜

[@zeyneps6701]

I promise

[@Yagnagosh]

Promise .

[@hanahmimi2328]

Promise ..

[@teertha6259]

promise.

[@Kuronuma_11]

We're all depressed kids telling each other to stay strong an not commit suicide :)

[@samanthaa557]

ily

[@arrow-verse-choni739]

Not depressed just kinda sad, I'm happier the longer my dads gone I guess, or maybe that's just what I tell myself 💜 if you are depressed I hope you get better 💜 *Virtual hug*

[@sukriti8351]

💜

[@_addy_2832]

Yep, no matter how much I want to die, I stay alive so I can tell other people to keep going. Remember, I love you and Jesus loves you!

[@arrow-verse-choni739]

@@_addy_2832 💜

[@sophiebennett7339]

3:23 it hurts more when you’ve cried like this and you know exactly why but no matter how hard you cry you know they won’t come back.

[@angieympsx]

My dad always tells me “don’t let no man break your heart” whoopsies, maybe next time stay and do your job :’)

[@UrFavReader]

Ikr

[@desiraehughes4660]

Yeh

[@_addy_2832]

❤️

[@Gabi-lj3wd]

My father always said to me find a man who loved you and take care of you and your kids. Well you should take your advice too.

[@_addy_2832]

@@Gabi-lj3wd yup

[@jajatieverready]

Has anyone else ever felt the feeling of having your parents alive in the same house, yet u don't feel the feeling of having parents?

[@rose-mz3kg]

@Jajati Keshari Sahu yeah, kinda like they were there, but they weren’t doing their jobs i guess.

[@apalnamedalex1149]

yep.. just two people who can´t wait for the day Imma finally leave

[@lanakhan4206]

rn tbh :) when i need my parents the most

[@zannatrida3351]

I do....

[@sharronkaur6890]

Yes true plus I'm the middle child so yea I know how that feels

[@shoiyoow]

I spent half of my life studying in my room so I could get good grades and make my parents proud. Since I was born till this day I never once heard my parents said they are proud. All I'm asking for is a hug from them, Is that too much to ask for?

[@annm2831]

i am so so proud of you!!!!!!!

[@midnightsnowfox9449]

Everyone will be proud of you! Don't worry there are better people to be proud of you instead of them.

[@ngoclinhh9495]

why is your story sound just like mine

[@annchege6277]

a big hug from me

[@anii221]

Yes apparently showing love to your kids is too much to ask from a parent, My parents were the same no matter what I did to make them proud I never saw love in their eyes for me or saying they were proud of me... I have children now and everyday of every second i tell my children I love them and hug them because I don't ever want my children to feel unloved the way I felt with my parents.

[@chaytongommers478]

I wonder how it feels like to have a mother who actually cares about you.

[@deliacozo8542]

I am sorry to hear that. My mom always showed love more than my dad( he still does, like giving complements) is amazing. I saw this videos couple years ago and now rewatch because I wanted to cry and looking at the comment section it made me cry. Is amazing

[@nandhu2162]

I wish I had a loving mother who actually care about me 😌

[@abbykrebs1382]

Imagine having a dad that wasn't an complete jerk imagine not faking a smile for the sake of your family and friends

[@cands8351]

I can relate

[@samanthaa557]

i’m sorry :((

[@Katherine-db7mq]

I used to but not anymore😢i lost him to cancer last year He's the most precious thing to me and he did a lot for our family even tho he's sick and tired😭 I miss him a lot😔

[@Katherine-db7mq]

I used to but not anymore😢i lost him to cancer last year He's the most precious thing to me and he did a lot for our family even tho he's sick and tired😭 I miss him a lot😔

[@samanthaa557]

@@Katherine-db7mq i’m so sorry

[@bryn_zi]

I always envious of my friends good relationship with their parents. My parents just teached me how to love my future children

[@s.editor6402]

How are you so relatable

[@kaiahs1829]

Will was actually going off script and talking about his real dad in that scene. :(

[@mati2618]

Kaiah S lol no, he had a nice family and his father always support him, that was just a rumor.

[@myryamghobrial2416]

mati no his dad was like that research it bud its not a rumor he was even interviewed about that scene it hit him hard

[@shookbitch123]

mati shut up and do your research

[@jazmineest4life792]

SHOOK BITCH why are u being rude he was just saying that it was just a rumor he wasn’t being rude about it so maybe u should shut up u may can be rude but I can be twice as rude

[@seasonof_melodies586]

I'm gonna cry even more everytime I see that scene now

[@phoebe2811]

watching these makes me so grateful for my family, my heart goes out to everybody that can't say they relate.

[@excuseme7668]

when i grow up i’m going to make sure they don’t recognise me. i’m going to stop following after them the moment i turn 18. i’ll make my own choices, create my own personality because at the moment, i’m too close to them.

[@imkidinc.9568]

Excuse me

[@yesididdietodaythankyoufor6252]

That's my plan too.

[@deletingmyself5526]

18?i live in Pakistan nd I don't know how I am supposed to live how will I make money how can I leave my abusive dad nd take my mom away

[@yesididdietodaythankyoufor6252]

@@deletingmyself5526 In America we can get jobs at 14 (not good ones but they pay). We can save up until we are 18. That's when we're aloud to move out without our parents permission.

[@deletingmyself5526]

@@yesididdietodaythankyoufor6252 Pakistan is fcked up here when people divorce womens will not have financial support

[@rin-je1ti]

The fresh prince of bel air gets me every time

[@onlineextrovert5842]

Summer McNamara same x

[@jazzinikki01]

Same here 😭

[@amycopley2788]

Summer McNamara same

[@barneyisbay6139]

Summer McNamara it’s so relatable shit gets to me

[@charliecynthiia3148]

me too

[@myyurplelis1898]

'You were my mom too' 'how come he don't want me man?' 'im so sorry'

[@Charlie-d3z]

I will never understand how you can be in a room full of people who love you but can still be alone as if no one is there.

[@hellokittypoopyprincess]

"your job was to stay.." that hurt me..but my dad never cam back..

[@nicolelol3558]

Same 🥺

[@xxxemptyspacexxx7991]

I never knew my dad.... What he looks like, his name, nothing.....

[@samanthaa557]

i’m sorry :((

[@kristelannematalog1355]

I can relate😢😢

[@arrow-verse-choni739]

@@xxxemptyspacexxx7991 *Virtual Hug* I hope it helped even if it was just a little bit 💜

[@Velinaaa.]

Does anyone else feel guilty talking about your own feelings And immediately stop cause you think you being annoying and selfish cause i do 💔🤙🏼

[@itssupposedtobefelicity4658]

Yeah everytime, whenever I try to open up and express my feelings, thoughts, grieves, pain and traumas to someone. It ALWAYS ended up ME listening to them, ME who's patting their backs, ME who's trying to understand them when It's me who needs someone at the moment. It's not that I complained. It's just that I also want to be heard, I also want a hug, an advise, an ear that I could borrow even just once.

[@autumnc518]

@@itssupposedtobefelicity4658 Couldn’t relate more. I’ll listen if you need me.

[@sylvia2099]

I’d rather have others feel important then I. It’s feels better. Plus no one wants to listen anyway. They always just say “oh, I can relate.” So I’d rather just right down stuff in a journal or talk to myself

[@mrbeastfan1014]

I do everytime i try to talk to one of my friends or family member all of my pain and my regret and saddness comes pouring out but right when jt does i start overthinking and feel like they probally have bigger problems or something else then i just bottle it back up in tears...

[@autumnc518]

@@mrbeastfan1014 EXACTLY what I do.

[@hioayq]

POV: Most of us relate ✨

[@itsjihaaco7634]

Yea... *Hugs u*

[@LikeAGhost-M1SHA]

I mean yeah i guess.

[@oopsiateyourgrandmabyaccid8407]

True....

[@Ar1aplayzz]

Ain’t no POV about it we just do

[@cands8351]

Yes

[@lindseyr1796]

The one thing I am so grateful for and could never live without is my dad. Even tho he's going through a tough time with my mom and sister, he is always there to listen to my problems, and help me when I need it, he understands things better than anyone in my life ever has. He's the best dad in the world and I'm so grateful for him. Idk how I'm ever gonna live without him

[@liyahliyahh]

“It’s not your fault” that hit my soul😭😭😭🤦🏽‍♀️

[@chloearmstrong9535]

Where is it from

[@katyadubravin9074]

Good will hunting

[@robynhenry2607]

Good Will Hunting is a Great film !!! 😀😀

[@x.ohailey141]

Chloe Armstrong good will hunting

[@shirad1387]

Liyah Liyah same i literally started crying:(

[@malu8710]

I wish I knew what love was. Between family, friends,lovers. I just dont know what it is.

[@KimTaehyung-ln9ee]

이설 비 Same here! I bet there are so many people who love you so much, it's just sometimes people don't know how to show it!! but believe me, We really do love you!! Okk?💜💙 Now smile, and have a good day/night! I Purple you!💜💜💜

[@kerrybecker4486]

이설 비 ok mood

[@c7bts370]

Well I had love of parents but friends it's sad that you are always fucken there for them ik it might do like idk bad but they might be having problems and stuff but it's just fuck up not even asking or calling or texting me and asking how I am and shit it is fuck up and the fact that they tell you they love you like wtf is that what you gonna call love 😓. *sorry I need to get that off my chest*

[@violetwoodcock8421]

Me too

[@disregard2635]

you do you fucking edgelord

[@catperez4564]

I fell like the first clip was more than acting 😭its sad

[@wadhaalharbi7227]

Cat Perez yes it was off script he was talking about his own father

[@uphaul1850]

No he had a great relationship with his dad

[@uphaul1850]

He is just really good at acting

[@yanii6665]

Acrophobia no he didn’t. He spoke on it many times. Wth are u talking about. Do some research bro

[@narainosman2717]

Imagine having someone, one person who cares about you. That would feel amazing. I don’t think I’ll ever feel that feeling.

[@uhohthepoorguysheadisspinn7978]

Why do so many people have to relate to this? Its heartbreaking to know. Everyone should deserve to be happy in life and not have to worry about what they look like, how many followers they have, wether they look good enough, if they are skinny enough, and overall if someone loves them. Everyone should love themselves no matter what skin color, hair color, height, weight, gender, or sexuality. I mean, when you really think about it, all of that sh*t is ridiculous. If they have the smallest flaw, they get called out for being different, and cant end up living a happy life

[@unknownuser4248]

this is so cute i'm crying thank u so much :(

[@xproblemx5831]

That_Weird_Ravenclaw_ HarryPotter_Fangirl it’s true I left school cause of it and I see my brother come home everyday and point out stuff about kids who are different in his year

[@emmapointon8935]

Yeah but its hard enough to love yourself in this world without depression anxiety or having flaws

[@Noor-ce3ny]

I don’t think this is about loving yourself, but it’s about family members leaving you or not loving you anymore. That hurts even more than not loving yourself.

[@shannonwix5173]

💛💛💛

[@blacktulip2006]

"I had 14 great birthdays without him" "I had 14 bad birthdays with him"

[@charlibunce6234]

I had 9

[@charlibunce6234]

At too top it all off 1 month before my 10th birthday, I'm now 14 :)

[@Angel_Shyyy]

I'm so sorry this happened to you

[@idkdude3542]

I had 10 without my own mother

[@farahelhebeishy8656]

I had 6 great birthdays without him... I'm 15✨

[@sarahrose5610]

Numer Four saddest Quotes in this Video 1. how come he don't want me, man 2 you were my mother too! 3. your job was to stay 4 it's Not Your Fault Edit: Thanks for the likes!

[@beexsun7121]

Sad part is most of us can relate to every single one

[@emmapointon8935]

The saddest part is when u can relate to all of them and its all your fault

[@strangerthingsfanthatsalso601]

@@emmapointon8935 it's never your fault

[@its_ur_boo_emilyminchala3698]

All

[@simmi3971]

And what was so wrong with me that u would leave

[@griffintheunseen1463]

0:51 that phrase has always triggered me coming from an absent parent because now as adults we don't need you but as kids we did. 😡

[@ur.mom69420]

"How come he don't want me?" The 6 words I relate so much, and too much with...

[@savanah5354]

How come she don't want me

[@jennieinfiresme9]

Be strong💜

[@dannasilang7982]

Having a whole family and still having problems is just *chef's kiss*

[@girlontheedge2636]

why did i relate to it so much ?

[@janiahsantos5673]

Ikr

[@rapidjerkytumblingmovement4340]

IKR

[@icringealotnowadays973]

Ikrrr

[@girlontheedge2636]

@@icringealotnowadays973 i cringe a lot nowadays

[@anasofiacl5059]

the problem is when you can’t remember what they did to you because it’s so many things and then they ask and guilt trip you into thinking you’re the one in the wrong

[@micheas8491]

Also when they did something that is so tramautizing and bad but act like nothing happened. It hurts so much bruh. I hate it here.

[@girlfromhell485]

Yes

[@muana6651]

The way I relate to u 😭

[@elenaspector5008]

UNDERRATED

[@samanthaa557]

ily

[@Jellyfish7273]

If I ever have kids, I will never let them feel how my parents made me feel

[@christinajackson4152]

i just found at that my dad isn’t my real dad that my real dad walked out as soon as he found out my mom was pregnant

[@ilovesanya]

Wow and you thought the best place to tell people that was in KZbins comment section Wow hats off to you bud

[@storytimebook8225]

Me too. But then my new father who I really love left and my real one came back into my life. I wished the other one were my real dad. I love him so much but he doesn’t talk to me anymore.

[@Disco_Girls.A3S1R1]

Sorry this is bothering me. Your real dad never walked out on you. Your biological dad did

[@ashara9006]

Ik how this feel my real dad die before o was born, and my current dad side of the family always treated me like an outside but not my brother. During times in my childhood my dad would also say things that made me feel like he didnt want me

[@nalaniedevyne9650]

Christina Jackson I found out in 3rd grade, we had a project to see how we looked like our parents. I asked my mom and she told me the same thing but he doesn’t even know I exist so who knows.....

[@chloereid4495]

I’m sitting here in the car while my parents scream at each other

[@rose-mz3kg]

@Chloe Reid i’m so sorry. i’m here for support if you need or want it :)

[@sshartbooty411]

same🥲 they fight every day constantly i cry every night over it

[@seketulnasrieyahh8302]

can relate 😔

[@panshi4187]

@@sshartbooty411 same they still fighting and I am listening sad song....

[@pari3434]

I can feel it

[@Angel-y4q5f]

The fact that my dad said “never let any boy treat you like a nobody” good job dad you were the first to do that to me 😁

[@suadiga8844]

🙂🙂🙂

[@cara934]

💗💗💗

[@loading...1668]

🤠🤠

[@crazycatalina4409]

Felt that

[@BTSArmy-sk8dx]

All the broken fam ..thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings..I feel less lonely

[@froggie6838]

"asking my mom: whens daddy coming home" i started crying

[@balckwolf666calixto3]

Me too but I know that hes never gonna see me either way he never did

[@mehralkhan6389]

Me too

[@bakugoxkirishima3387]

It’s the other way around for me. My mom is still around, but she spends so much time working I barely have any time to do anything with her. It would’ve been easier if it weren’t for the fact that my dad refuses to keep a job and can’t control his temper so he keeps getting fired.

[@iameva5978]

staystrong

[@hrtz4quack.]

Oh no no no that made me so sad

[@samscenefordummies8706]

"You found a job?" *"Your job was to stay."*

[@eatmyasthma999]

Yeah well now we can't have a job because Skabo cancel all the jobs in Victoria and stuff up with you

[@ss-yg1kq]

People who have happy families are the ones who don’t want it. People with families that are painful are the ones who want it. The ones who don’t get abused act like they do. The one who get abused hide it. Everything is in reverse.... Before wanting to be beautiful or wanting attention. It was needing to be beautiful and needing attention. The ones who smile the prettiest cry the saddest. Help everyone because even the most perfect person has problems. The most perfect have the most non perfect lives.

[@imkidinc.9568]

Trippy name

[@haerinuu]

I have a happy family and i want it i don't get abused i don't act like i do

[@keilad.1223]

I dont get abused physically. But I do mentally. I have a dad, so I guess im lucky...but he only uses my mom for sexual things...in front of me he always talks about finding a new girl. I DONT WANT a new mom...I just want a family thats not torn. A family that instead of yelling and pounding on furniture...they help calm each other down. A family that I can come home too and gladly talk about my day with..instead of being lied to...and scared to open up to anyone. I'm dealing with more than just family issues but...family issues hurt the most.. Im sick of it all...i know this may sound ungrateful compared to people who have it worse and im sorry...but I hate my family...i hate being around them. Everyday I hear yelling and pounding on furniture...I hear arguing from my parents.....I hear my grandpas oxygen going on....reminding me he can die at any moment...the only family member who I counted as a father figure...I oversleep to pass the days by....I force myself to be in sports...to avoid home...or a simple house I wish was a home. I dont eat much....I never am in the mood....I dont drink much.....and once I find the thing that makes me able to keep pushing on....parents take advantage of that...they threaten to take it away....go ahead...take ot away....next day you probably wont be seeing me...and if you do...I will be quiet...sleeping....not eating...and just alone with my thoughts...trying to build up the convidence to end it all..I dont need a therapist...or a counciler...or a talk....what I need is a home...all this is making it worse...and worse...my sister left me completely....ignores me....I considered her a best friend...she dont give a damn for me.....i've always have for her..

[@midushimaheshwari7250]

👏👏👏👏

[@JenniferAndrusak]

I had problems with my dad growing up, and then he wasn't a part of my life, and slowly got a little bit of a relationship with him within the past few years, but he's my dad and I grieve for what we could of had. I just want him back. I want to talk and get to know him. I never thought my dad would die when I was only turning 25. He had issues in his family and I just wish everything had been different and I miss what could have been, and I miss him even though he couldn't be what I wanted him to be, he still loved me. Especially seeing he had all the cards I made him and had our picture up in the apartment. He loved us. :(

[@emaanahsansarfraz1940]

Hello, how are you? I hope you are safe and well. I am very sorry for anything that seems bad that may have happened in your life. I am truly sorry for your loss. Everything will get better. Know that you are amazing and have rights as a human. I want you to know that you are incredible and are capable of wonders. What matters is your inside, not your exterior. Love yourself and cherish yourself. Words cannot explain how astonishing you are. You deserve care, love, and happiness, don't let anything make you feel otherwise. You may or you may not think that you are a failure but you are not, we are humans and we are bound to make mistakes so failures will come but that will give you the prize of what you have learned. Even if it may be a very small prize, it is very significant and important because you are amazing and deserving to learn and grow just as everyone else is. Please have appropriate action for anything that you know is wrong. Try and find professional or trusted help. Anything that seems bad or wrong in your life right now will get better. Please don't do what is wrong, fighting back and harming others will not solve the problem. Please understand that and do the good thing. It will one day come back to you. The people in the world are so much more than what we know about them, not everyone opens up about the beautiful things and acts they have witnessed, not all those amazing doings are acknowledged. There is more to people than it seems. Please understand that and know that. If you feel like no one cares about you, know that I care about you. Keep your head up high and never give up. Together, we can be a better community. Stay safe, healthy, happy, kind, understanding, positive and strong. Have a great day.

[@akitaxx]

this comment wasn't intended to express some of your pain... however, please do. vent all you need, this comment is now a safe place. vent all you need

[@vorttevorvor4775]

Im not family but hey, I care about you...🥺

[@akitaxx]

Vortte Vorvor Oh- That’s so nice... Omg, Ty so much. I care about you too!

[@vorttevorvor4775]

@@akitaxx Aww thank you😊😊😊 Don't worry you're not alone🙃

[@magsinochen8077]

lol my mom hated dramas so i had too keep everything sad from her because when i cry she just gets mad HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH i envy all of my friends that are close to their mom

[@uraomote6244]

My dad loved me, but then he died when I was nine. Here's my third year without him

[@TheGamingGatito]

I wish I had someone to tell me “it’s okay I’m here for you let it out “ I’m proud of you”. Because I’m always there for everyone but when it comes to my own emotions I have no one there for me but when I finally tell someone they say okay and and than they act like I just didn’t tell them how I felt

[@rose-mz3kg]

i’m so sorry, but y’know what? i’m proud of you. you’ve gone through all of that, and you’re still standing. i’m so proud of you, you’ve been through so much, and i wish you were shown more appreciation for that. i love you so much, i don’t know you, but i really do. you’re so amazing, hon, really. i hope you know that, and know that this random stranger really cares about you, and feels pride in your accomplishments. i didn’t do anything to help raise you, but i love you, and care about your well being. if you wanna talk, i’m here. love you so much, i’m here if you need it :))

[@the-bill-cipher]

if it’s worth anything, i’m proud of you. everything will be ok, i’m here for you.

[@randelmalobe7994]

i feel ur pain 😔

[@bighits_janitor7308]

You're doing so well and all the people here are doing well. Just so everyone knows, that I, as an individual is here for you and would like to remind every one of you that you did well. So well and you deserve everything :)❤️ Celine loves you for who you are

[@ssspongebob6803]

Same

[@sagehanson4110]

"My whole family is going on a trip together, how about I invite yours to?" ".. It- it's okay.."

[@faithsuluapefaalili9707]

Most of us get bullied in our own families and mostly by parents, we always make these promises to ourselves even at a young age. If I achieve this in my life it would the best thing I'd do.

[@user-ms3dw1kw4g]

i still wonder why you left. were we not enough? being together, being a family, it never would be enough, would it?

[@randomfan5596]

ig: m8knaes i wish I was able to say he/she wasn’t ready. But it was his/her choice. He/she knew what they were doing when you were made. But remember, you and your family are enough.

[@Worldjazedits]

Well you will always be apart of our family Army💜 you are loved very much here

[@shyshyshy5419]

Army, I have nothing to say but take all of my hearts.💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@everleigh_1847]

I know exactly how it feels

[@cheeseismyhusband4291]

i relate to this bc my dad(not my biological one but i still call him dad) is a addict ti drugs, and he was in and out of my sisters and I's lives. One time, my mom left us homeless wit our dad, and he barely had enough money for a hotel. We stayed there for a week then she came back and took us home. I used to ask my mom "when's daddy coming?" or Where's Daddy?" and she'd either reply with " I don't know" and start crying, or she'd say "at the store" One time i had a bad feeling, and i didn't want my dad to leave or me to come with him, we were visiting my grandma and i said "Dad can I please go?" he replied with, "No honey, i'll be right back, I promise" He never came back.... He left me in so many tears.... I was balling my eyes out thinking i wasn't enough for Daddy to stay... I was in 3rd or 4th grade....and my biological dad didn't want me....

[@ariananewby586]

The one with Will Smith really put me in tears bro ong its crazy

[@ligia5383]

e

[@paige3186]

Girl: "You found a job?" Dad: "I did" Girl Starts breaking: "You're job way to stay.." Was that only me or did that hit hard..

[@paige3186]

Was*

[@yesididdietodaythankyoufor6252]

R.I.P. GMW... taught so many good lessons...

[@CeilingSquid]

Mya Hart really knows it 😓

[@paige3186]

@@CeilingSquid Ikr 😓

[@christinapirrone8742]

@@CeilingSquid right i felt like the reason alot of people like the show was because they could relate to what she was going threw and seeing that even though bad things happened to her she was always able to smile wich showed other kids its ok if somethings go wrong but sometimes you have to make the best out of it

[@midnightbreeze202]

I grew up with abandonment issues due to my father leaving when I was two. Met him for the first time since then two years ago.... I wish I hadn't.

[@aurora7950]

it’s so unfair that people in this world can’t live without being judged. like if there’s something wrong with your clothing or hairstyle you get made fun of.

[@zottegranger1753]

I wish I could hug someone rn and cry out loud. I wish my family never hurt me

[@lunahernandez5357]

I hope you're feeling better now ≥﹏≤❤

[@shannonhawk8890]

Same

[@hrisi4ka]

🥺

[@zoehill6586]

Same

[@natalieshaun7149]

Zotte Granger I wish that too . My family looks happy on the outside. I can’t sometimes more like all the time

[@chaotictae1642]

To anybody who’s going through the same thing: You are good enough. Don’t worry about what other people think because you are more than that. It wasn’t your fault. It never was. You did nothing wrong. I saw this but still think the opposite. Please don’t be like me. Be better and know you are worth every damn thing this world has in store for you.

[@angelleruhana7893]

chaotic tae it’s hard to think that when all your life u thought/ think it

[@Worldjazedits]

Your loved here Army💜 your part of our family and you are loved very much

[@deepstars9288]

❤

[@sweatingfrommyeyes767]

Please take your own advice too..

[@spellew178]

if I ever have kids, I'm going to make sure that they know that they're LOVED, I won't stand to be like my father ever

[@Huskypup_]

In Case You Wondered... (Help fill in the ?) Fresh Prince Of Bel-Air (0:00 - 0:27) Arrow (0:28 - 0:43) Shameless (0:44 - 1:00) Scream (1:01 - 1:05) FPOBA (1:06 - 1:40) Boyhood (1:41 - 2:09) A Dogs Purpose (2:10 - 2:38) Girl Meets World (2:39 - 2:52) Good Will Hunting (2:53 -3:50) IN ORDER!!!

[@thewheelsonthebus8560]

thx :3

[@meli-qg4mg]

After Scream there is a short picture from lady bird

[@cassadeecreeks5297]

Huskypup2120 thanks

[@lovemermaid7973]

N

[@Focafoxxi]

Thank chuu

[@kawsarib]

3:20 the way he is crying🥺 like it's not just acting, I can hear so much pain in it

[@banamendes8083]

Yeah I’m agreeing with u and it’s like I can feel the pain in it

[@aeron3360]

What's the show or movie

[@kawsarib]

@@aeron3360 I don't know, sorry

[@marik8699]

@@aeron3360 i think it's from Good Will Hunting

[@certifiedsimp7114]

"I didn't need him then and I don't need him now"

[@pistachio_icecream]

ur username and pfp is a cherry on top of your comment

[@unicorngirl7856]

Yap

[@amberbrimble]

imagine have a mum that really genuinely loves you like how you loved her after everything that happened…

[@ginaadelaide8419]

Promised myself I'd NEVER let my kids feel the same way my dad made me feel

[@deliacozo8542]

I am so sorry

[@redbird5750]

I feel like I'm invisible to my whole family. And I can't take it!

[@rose-mz3kg]

@Perla Jimenez i’m so sorry, honey. don’t worry, i see you. i bet you have an amazing personality, and i bet so many people are jealous of you, and would love to be your friend, i know i would. i hope you’re doing ok now ❤️

[@sndrprk3234]

Me too..

[@ssspongebob6803]

I feel like that to people😞😢

[@ssspongebob6803]

And I can't talk to anyone about it because they would just tell me to smile or pretend nothing happened because of my disability I believe that everything I feel is wrong and what they tell me is right I can't decide if I should end it or stay no one would notice either way everyone I try to talk about how I feel they always make me think that I am in the wrong so I just keep quite because I somehow believe there right and it's hard for me to explain things

[@ssspongebob6803]

This might not make sense but it felt a little good to get it out

[@sophia7621]

1:40 ... i’m sorry if you have to go through this, thats honestly so scary. i couldnt imagine how that feels. god bless you & i hope everything gets better.

[@M01hx]

It’s scary my dad always does this

[@nat7040]

Pricklepickles Tv i am so sorry darling, it will be okay.

[@theboogeyman2590]

My dad does it too

[@pamelaanele7235]

@@theboogeyman2590 I'm so sorry. hope it gets better. need t talk , I'm here : ). praying for you. take care

[@theboogeyman2590]

@@pamelaanele7235 thanks

[@thedenominator2640]

I really dont want any "I'm proud of yous" or "I love yous" any more, all I want from them is a "I'm sorry" because they both refuse to acknowledge what they did and for me that's the worst part of it all

[@ashlinbaumcom3845]

Imagine having a dad that actually wants you. Imagine having a dad that can have a conversation with your stepmom instead of screaming and making you scared. Imagine having a dad that will stop drugs so you can see him. I will never know how that feels...

[@Sunbeam790]

Yeahhhhh

[@UrFavReader]

Imagine having a dad won’t talk BS All the time ! Imagine having a dad that will put you before their cigarettes Imagine having a likeable dad Not over here, nope Never

[@isadorad8836]

I’m so sorry :(I’m here if you need to talk to someone! You are here, you are loved. Don’t give up. :)

[@Rangersarethebestintheuk2023]

💔💔😭😭😥😥😓😓

[@S_Bear11]

Its always the dads, but my mother hurt me more than anyone else ever did

[@preciousnnaemeka5208]

It really hurts to see family broken When all you've always Dreamed of its making mom and dad happy 😖😖

[@melaniepuentes3598]

this hit home :(

[@challengerScat]

That hit me

[@misaki2051]

Yes, it also hurts when you think of making them happy but they always fight and tell you that they hope for each other to die😢

[@khairulalam8714]

Precious Nnaemeka I fucked up my whole life just to make my mom happy and stop comparing me to others but I still suffer and I'm doing worse now I just wanna end it! She's still comparing me to all my friends and now I can't go nowhere unless my friend goes there cuz she thinks I'm gonna hook up with guys..... spoiler alert I go to a religious school where genders are completely separated and don't even know each other's names

[@ritisiachetty6730]

I thought the divorce was going to go better but it's been worst💔🙂🙂 i sufffered since i starded primary and until now starting college with that freaking divorce I'm feeling worst amd worst 💔🙂🙂I'm tired of crying since i was small 💔😭😭I'm tired 😞😞💔💔🙏😭

[@chiochie2519]

*"You're my mother too"* I'm crying so bad

[@dnamohd9163]

What’s the name

[@angelziqi]

@@dnamohd9163 the movie is called shameless