Family living with Autism: Scruff’s Bunch

Kim Preston (Scruff) lives with her three adult sons with Autism. Jacob and Jackson aren’t verbal, and if the gate is unlocked they’ll escape.
Kim sleeps in the lounge room of their three-bedroom home to give each of her boys their own space. The slightest change in routine can spiral into a full-on melt down. Kim expects her boys will live at home with her till she ‘cark’s-it’ but what if there’s another way?
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[@snowpawzvideos]

"jacob's more verbal because he doesn't like the sign language" honestly big mood

[@Lui12330]

And thats how I learned how to talk xD

[@HLB313]

Hahaha yes I totally thought “that’d be me.”

[@tauresattauresa7137]

Why is Gruff so cold, she does not hug or kiss them.

[@maisiechambers4875]

@@tauresattauresa7137 She's not being cold, she just knows her kids. People with autism often don't like physical contact. I'm high functioning but I don't enjoy hugs so I can't imagine how uncomfortable they'd be. She's being more compassionate than if she were to force them to hug her

[@kristopherpickstone1758]

I have autism and I'm awkward about hugs I'll just quickly rest my head on my mother's shoulder then pop my head up as a hug but with my girlfriend's ive had in my life I'll cuddle them for an hour i guess it makes it that bit special and no because I have these disabilities does not make me a child mentally nor was my girlfriend's they and I are as normal as anyone else without disabilities

[@Bubbly_24]

I don't know why but I loved it when she said "good man"

[@srinna]

Me too because she don't forget that they ARE men :) not boys anymore

[@loco4locos142]

Paradox IKR

[@benharrison8604]

It's a common affectionate saying here in New Zealand :)

[@angiemayer3582]

Paradox i loved that she says good man also, what a great family

[@paulaglad2855]

Its because even if they might not be grown ups in the head they are in the body and it will not help them if she trearts them as small kids when they are big and can do things them selfs even if its just simple stuff :) she is a wonderfull mother to them ♡

[@y019_9]

I'm autistic, i was diagnosed when I was 8, and my father started to abuse me and call me *sick*, he stopped buying me toys, clothes and everything else, because he says "sick people don't need toys,clothes,...", seeing this mother make me wish i was raised in warm house full of love and support

[@Butfirstchaii]

I am so so sorry! I hope you’re ok now please take of your wounded inner child 💗💗💗

I have 6 years old autıstıc son . He ıs my frıend my son my boy. I dont know how many thousnds km I am far from you . but I pray My GOD (ALLAH ) for you . I love you boy be strong ! When you marry and you have chıldren . you should be good father . Sorry for my bad englısh

[@meghabhattarai8412]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@BubbleArcadia]

Same happened to me and my siblings. We're all autistic.

[@thandilocks]

As a mother of six. Three of whom are autistic -one adoptee amongst them-I know it’s possible to be that loving mom and to provide what you wish you had! How dare he do this? It’s heartbreaking. I hope you had other supportive people to try soften your world.

[@takeajillpillfoo]

I really appreciate her saying, “Good Man,” instead of “Good Boy,” to them. She really shows them a level of respect they deserve. Well done on her part.

[@towel1636]

Yep usually parents tend to infantilize their autistic children and that's really harmful to their self esteem

[@Kaprisyosa]

She's a great mom and raised lovely boys. I'm glad the father helped giving his son a job. I loved watching your show.

[@asshairthesecond4764]

.

[@MrMexikin]

I hate to be judgmental and make such assumptions but I think these kids might be a little messed up cuz of prenatal drugs idk

[@InternalMind]

She also did a great job smoking all that weed most her life, nice one I’m sure her sons are greatful for how they turned out 😝

[@Amanda-ob9jx]

Toby Kiser first of All,stop being judge mental and who are to say the PARENT'S did drugs?? Oh and FYI THERE IS TONS OF BABIES BORN ADDICTID TO DIFFERENT DRUGS,SAD BUT TRUE,AND LOTS OF KIDS TURN OUT JUST FINE,MAYBE NOT RIGHT After BIRTH BUT,SOON AFTER THAT. DON'T GET ME WRONG THERE ARE ALSO MILLIONS OF MOM'S WHO GIVE BIRTH TO BABIES WITH DISABILITY'S OR ARE JUST BORN EXTRA "SPECIAL" DUE TO THE SELFISH BULLSHIT The MOTHER DID WHILE PREGNANT. I AM NOT CONDONING DRUG-USE WHILE PREGNANT WHAT'S SO EVER SO PLEASE DON'T MISINTERPRET IT LIKE that!! I'm just trying to make a point that some kids make it out unharmed for the rest of their life,and other's,not so MUCH. IT'S ALL IN GOD'S HANDS RIGHT!!!

[@Amanda-ob9jx]

Toby Kiser I ALSO KNOW 2 DIFFERENT WOMEN,ONE WHO DID HEROIN DURING HER WHOLE PREGNANCY. I WOULD BEG HER ON HOURS ON END TO FUCKIN STOP SHE'S GONNA HURT THE BABY! AND I KNOW THIS Other CHICK, PROBABLY ONE OF THE MOST LOVING PEOPLE I HAVE EVER MET. SO SHE'S PREGNANT, TAKES HER VITAMINS EVERYDAY SAME TIME, EATS VERY HEALTHY, DOES A LITTLE EXERCISE, JUST ENOUGH FOR HER PREGNANT BODY TO HANDLE, SHE DID EVERYTHING BY THE BOOKS AND SHE LITERALLY COULDN'T OF DONE NOTHING BETTER. WELL HERE COMES HER DUE DATE, SHE STARTS BLEEDING REALLY BAD AND BY THE GRACE OF GOD 🙏 THEY WERE ABLE TO SAVE THE BABY GIRL. WELL THE BABY CAME OUT HAVING DOWN-SYNDROME, SHE GOT DIAGNOSED WITH BEING AUTISTIC,AND A COUPLE OTHER THINGS. WHAT DO U THINK HAPPENED TO THE DRUG ADDICTS BABY?? WELL I CAN'T SAY NOTHING BECAUSE THE BABY SUFFERED HARDCORE. HIS WITHDRAWALS WERE SOOOOOOOOO BAD IT MADE ME SICK. HIS EYES WOULD ROLL IN THE BACK OF HIS HEAD, AND START HAVING A SEIZURE. HE WAS PUKING EVERY COUPLE MINUTES, HE LITERALLY HAD WATER DIARRHEA FOR 2 MONTHS STRAIGHT. AND TON'S OF OTHER BULLSHIT!!! Poor babies!!! And now the ADDICTID baby is fine, he's SOOOOOO damn smart and so cute. The other little girl will be taken care of for the rest of her life by her mother. She will NEVER get to be a "NORMAL PERSON" DUE TO HER SEVERITY OF HER DISABILITIES!!!!

[@TheTaluu]

What an incredible woman! She is so full of love. I hope she gets everything she wants in life, she is so deserving. Beautiful, strong woman.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for your comment Lula! We agree, Kim is amazing!

[@SnapTrack111]

Shes blazing it 24/7 sure shes full of love ✌

[@merrilldellas550]

I absolutely agree!!!

[@filzzy922]

@@tsbirthdeath Why be a dickhead?

[@blacklight310]

Thomas Schneider do u not know how to cook ? Are you fucking stupid ? Also that “joke” is so old it will die in 100 years completely and be forgotten just like all of you close minded fucks. People are making a difference now and there’s nothing you can do to stop it :)

[@schmittyftw6089]

This lady deserves a standing ovation from anybody that’s ever complained about how hard parenting is.

[@ericawatkins2217]

OMG I swear to god!

[@dezyy7764]

right parents complain about parenting but theres parents that have to do stuff this hard

[@yakushiji5393]

I'm verbal autistic. I'm smarter than average but I struggle with remembering to do basic tasks. I know how hard it is to have the world constantly bombard you with stimuli to the point where it's hard to do things. The mom here is really doing a great job, and her lifelong dedication is beyond admirable.

[@irving7848]

No words to express, but you are doing really great mate

[@melissathemelon9888]

I’m the EXACT same way!

[@GhostSamaritan]

I'm similar but I also have ADHD and I worry so much about my future because I suck at networking and struggle with showing up on time so IDK how I'm supposed to hold a job.

[@johnn2638]

I actually have a mild form of Autism. I am aware of the fact that professors as well as Einstein had Autism.

[@Dimensionalalteration]

I'm verbal autistic too ,and I wish that every autistic person had a mum that great .I do sometimes go non verbal during a shutdown, but still . My IQ has also measured to be a bit above average too, yet I've been called the r-word a lot and always struggled at school .The things people, (almost exclusively adults),have told me especially when I was a child were really nasty and they would always deliver the message with a lot of aggression of various kinds.I see people commenting on how hard it is to be around autistic people but it's nothing compared to what we go through around NTs .

[@Nicki2785]

I just adore this woman. I can't imagine the weight on her shoulders doing that job day in and day out with no break... but her attitude is so amazing and positive and she has the patience of a saint. Her love for her sons just radiates from her. What a wonderful person all around!

[@AttitudeLive]

Hope you enjoyed the episode Nicki2785! Thanks for watching!😀

[@Nicki2785]

Attitude I loved it! I recently found your channel and have been binge watching all your documentaries lol Thanks for providing such great content!

[@AttitudeLive]

Awesome! 😀

[@smithytwothousandneight8092]

Nicki2785 She’s a Mother it’s her job. It should not matter if her children are disabled or not. She choose to keep having them. So it’s her job to take care and love them all just like any other mother with children without any disability’s do. I think she is a great mum, but she made the decision to birth all her kids so she should take care of them all. I’m Sorry it just pisses me of the mums of this day and age who think they all deserve a medal for being a good mum to there kids. I’m NOT on about the mother on the documentary I’m on about the person who Commented who thinks Mums who CHOOSE 2 have kids Deserve sum kind of a Medal for taking care of there own off spring.

[@aojuri01]

@@smithytwothousandneight8092 just piss off. She doesn't have to take care of them if she doesn't want to. They're other options ok be REAL (Realistic). And have some empathy for her at the very least!

[@highclasstrash2043]

I think we can all guess how she stays so calm

[@amymarie5055]

High class Trash I was thinking the same thing!!😂😂

[@KidsWithGuns1992]

Haha yeah dude I know, was totally thinking that the whole way. She's only chill cause she's blazed 24/7

[@ILOVEMEW10]

High class Trash I have a son with Autism and I'm calm. I'm not on anything. You learn to be patient. That was really nasty of all of you to say that when you don't even have a kid with special needs. Shame on you all😬

[@ILOVEMEW10]

High class Trash I have a son with Autism and I'm calm. I'm not on anything. You learn to be patient. That was really nasty of all of you to say that when you don't even have a kid with special needs. Shame on you all😬.

[@butitssummerma6436]

rebecca seppanen have a sense of humor, we all turn to own things don't we? for some it might be weed. for others it might be yoga, reading, some people smoke cigarettes....some people turn to food. nature? we all have our own way. both my parents smoked when I was growing up. it really aided in who they were. they were very open, artistic. easy to talk to. I'm thankful for that although that would've been them without the weed.v

[@twinmothz]

“I don’t wanna see them off to be cared for by other people when it’s my job.” That’s real mum talk right there 👏🏻✊🏻

[@twinmothz]

@Marcandme Seldon it’s easy to pass judgment onto others. Truth is I don’t know this woman, but from what I saw in the video she deserves that extra income because of the work she is doing, wouldn’t you agree?

[@BubbleArcadia]

​@twinmothz she absolutely does deserve more for all that she does for her kids. Instant respect 🙏 my mom grew too old to take care of me so now a close friend of mine (really a second mom to me) is now my live in support aid. I'm also nonverbal too I had to learn sigh language and I use aac apps to communicate

[@erinthepigeon904]

I can tell that shes a good mother and really tries supporting and respecting her children. The world needs more people like her.

[@KidsWithGuns1992]

That woman's a bloody legend, seems like a really nice person but also unconditionally dedicated to her kids. I felt bad for her when she said stuff like, "I see the guys out there in the park playing cricket and I want to as well" but every time with comments like that she'd quickly say after, "But oh well, the boys are more important, I've had my time". Real stiff upper lip without being arrogant and silly about it, mad respect for this person she really has a sense of thankless duty. Hope she's able to make time for herself eventually, good selfless people aren't all that easy to come by, they deserve any happiness they get.

[@blazestar667]

KidsWithGuns1992, I think all parents should be like her.

[@AttitudeLive]

Kim is a super strong and amazing mother to her boys. Hope you enjoyed the episode and thanks for watching!

[@AttitudeLive]

We agree!

[@TTCandlevibe]

Attitude love this channel very inspirational

[@JayKiiid]

Can we have an update on them please?​@AttitudeLive

[@shygirlnow2011]

the mother is a saint.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching!Hope you enjoyed our channel!

[@halloweenallyearround4889]

And autistic

[@twigaroho912]

When she gave Jackson & Jacob their lunch and they both said thank you ☺️😌💙

[@victormanzella933]

that was such a sweet moment

[@deeddles1]

I love how this isn't a jab at how having an autistic child is "torturous". No shows of meltdowns, no yelling, shouting, crying. I'm so over the fact that just the act of not abandoning your child makes you a saint. As someone who is autistic, it's a real strain on your mental health to constantly be bombarded with being shown as a burden. We're not a plague, we're not a disease, we're humans wired in a different way.

[@stevenglansberg4448]

I feel like caring for a disabled adult for the rest of your life would be considered a burden.

[@LavaLampLady]

But there can be meltdowns, yelling, shouting, and crying. You can’t pretend it doesn’t happen, and you can’t expect people to want to have to deal with this for not only 18 years but all their life. Having to care for someone well into old age. It’s obviously not a plague because it’s not contagious, and it is, by definition, a disease. There obviously is a spectrum, looks like you’re on the “highly functioning” side, but some autistic people can’t talk, throw fits and can’t take care of themselves. Babies in huge bodies. Sad but true.

[@mortechrome]

It’s called a spectrum because we can be vastly different from one another. That’s an important message to people who have stereotypical views of autism-that we are not only Rainman or Sheldon Cooper. Many-especially women(like me) weren’t diagnosed until adulthood.

[@kkbutterfly27lover59]

@@stevenglansberg4448 shut up

[@adxre0]

Indeed, u are human :)

[@redeyeboy1000]

Just watched an angel in disguise,

[@itsfern2103]

So amazing hey 💓

[@renn200]

❤️❤️❤️

[@elonerrigby9389]

She bought a tear to my eyes. This is love.

[@hafdissigurdardottir3176]

This mother is my HERO. Hope she and her boys are doing fine.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Hafdis, hope you enjoyed! She is a pretty awesome mum!

[@jamesthomas5109]

@@AttitudeLive Thanks for uploading this, it means a lot to me.

[@kathysavage9342]

How can someone you’ve never even met be your hero?

[@potatografics773]

@@kathysavage9342 Zero people shouldn't have a hero

[@Dreabee83]

@@kathysavage9342 arent you a nice person. 😂

[@lizaaay5]

I recently found out my 3 year old is autistic and I'm finding it hard figuring it out with just 1 child , I cant imagine having 3. That's a huge responsibility, she's such a strong women! Beautiful boys regardless

[@neshasantana6456]

Same. My baby just turned four last month and he was diagnosed at 2. It was very hard, now I have more help and learned about resources, kept praying and i do what works for us. I commend you mama, many DO NOT understand what we go through on a daily basis.

[@lizaaay5]

@@neshasantana6456 Aw good to know theres others on the same boat cause it is a tricky process trying to actually understand the diagnosis and finding ways to work around that esp in toddlers. What symptoms prompted you to look further into your child ? If you dont mind me asking, I haven't really had the opportunity to go to peer groups just yet due to covid unfortunately.

[@Haymanotsavedbygrace]

I have a daughter and a son in the spectrum ( I just found out today about my son) I feel like my world is sinking....

[@oppy1989]

What a great mother I have a learning disability and my family has been so supportive of me I love them for that I still live at home

[@Saiyan_Steph]

I have autism and a learning disability as well and I love my family cause they’re very nice and cool.

[@russia1305]

Wish mine had worked with me instead of trying to make me normal

[@divineimagedance]

It's cool she is like a white Rasta mom. Pretty cool.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Brooke, we hope you enjoyed!

[@benharrison8604]

She's Māori :)

[@marzseaga714]

She's bloody amazing alright....sooooo my kinda GIRL all Rastafari out!

[@benharrison8604]

@SDD525 Oh really? How do you know?

[@s.a.8548]

@SDD525 oH wE cOuNd'T tElL

[@AnnaBooBoo96]

I've lived with and raised my autistic brother. When she says you never know what tomorrow will bring is no joke. My brother was non vocal and made no eye contact when he was first diagnosed but now at 19 he has come so far. He talks and makes eye contact, he graduated high school this past may. I used to be terrified of having kids because I believe autism is genetically passed on but that fear has changed. I also hope that I can be as strong as Kim if I do have a child or children with Autism, she is a great and amazing example of how lovely but truely special autism families are. Way to go Kim!

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for sharing Anna, it certainly sound like your brother has come a long way! glad he had such a supporting sister!! Glad you enjoyed the episode, stay tuned for more!

[@ARTbomben]

Since there's no science proving what autism comes from in the first place, but only knows the symptoms of the disease to give the diagnose, its gonna be hard to prove such point to back up ones believes. And even harder since theres like 56 strings of autism and we have no idea of anyone of them.

[@angelaanaconda55]

Sounds just like my brother! He's graduating high school this year and has come really far.

[@yellowish1966]

U are a wonderful sister, u must be so proud of your brother. ❤I'm sure u will have amazing kids and u will do wonderful as a mother as u do as a sister. Don't be afraid u are strong enough to face whatever the future is. Bless u darling, and bless your brother and family. I wish u all the best!🤗❤

[@Sarah-ft8jr]

Jonas Pedersen actually you can have your children’s genetics tested for faults which cause autism. A lot of families with multiple Autistic children find that they all have the same faulty genes.

[@kayteahagain1726]

I never believed my eldest daughter would like or be able to live on her own. She has been in her own flat now for 18 months and likes it most days. She has made me very proud.

[@BubbleArcadia]

I used to be able to barely live on my own but it proved to me too hard so I have a live in aid now. Since I have now struggles as a nonverbal autistic with high support needs. I'm doing much better now with a Caregiver with me at all times. But with her I can live independently for the most part. I have my own place and my own stuff and some responsibilities I also take care of 2 cats. So I'm very grateful I can take care of 2 cats

[@jennydawson6952]

This woman is heroic. I hope she gets some help, she deserves so much more.

[@cutepumpkin4744]

She's cool, I love her style

[@AttitudeLive]

Kim is a pretty cool mum! Thanks for watching!

[@chopsticksforlegs]

She as a mother puts me to shame. I have a normal teenager and there are days that I lose the plot. She really is an inspiration. Can we start a fund for her so she can have time off to relax?

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for your support Lorelai! Kim is an amazing mum 😊

[@stacicakessmith]

Lorelai I’d support her too if she had a fund! She deserves a break most definitely

[@kw5839]

@@AttitudeLive What happened to the plans she made at the end? Can you do a follow up?

[@kiragreen2419]

Are we gonna do it?

[@shantiajones8042]

I admire her So much God bless her and her family.😊🙏

[@Snow_Ghost_]

Honestly, she is one of the BEST FREAKING MOM A AUTISTIC CHILD COULD ASK HER. I as a autistic child is tearing up because of this woman. She loves all her children infinity no matter what. The fact that she puts her children first and then herself is absolutely stunning. Not only deserves this woman a relaxing day she wishes, but also my deepest respect. I wish more mothers like her are in this world. That would make it for an autistic bearable instead of being pushed away and screamed at when you don’t understand something. I wish her the greatest things in live as well for her sons. ❤️❤️

[@cje3247]

I hope you aren’t getting screamed at.

[@zam1214]

"The kids come first, second and third" 🥰🥰 this mum deserves the world. So glad she has such a good friend.

[@thandilocks]

I loved the friend! She’s awesome too. I wish I had such a friend in my space!

[@olivedog1880]

she's an incredible mom, much respect

[@AttitudeLive]

Kim has a lot of strength!

[@thesparklingunicorn8543]

Olive Dog agree with you

[@elizabethnapoleon7787]

And that counting down she does with them as they’re going to sleep seriously warms my heart

[@babysofiefriends5320]

I don’t care if people say this woman is on drugs , everyone for there own she is doing a dam good job!

[@bridgetdraper5146]

I have been caring for my autistic son for 24 for years. My other children are out with lives careers and families of their own. How bad can i be? Thank you for this because it gave me great hope!

[@Stellersyd]

She's an amazing mother

[@AttitudeLive]

She sure is! Thanks againg for the support Sydney

[@inaamulhassanjaffer8238]

"It’s not inviting, but you’re more than welcome" 🙌🏻❤️😂

[@fillefilter9308]

Their mom is adorable. I’m only 19 but honestly, I wouldn’t mind dating her

[@MCrelationz]

Cool

[@Bummer1980]

She’s an amazing mother!! I have special needs kids myself and it’s a lot of work, and mine aren’t nearly as severe as her sweet boys. I hope she finds her special someone to enjoy life with!

[@harland327]

As a young single mother myself with 2 autistic boys I would like to say thank you for sharing this video. Kim is such an inspirational woman to myself and the rest of the asd community.

[@theamarkovich8064]

I am also a single mum with one autistic boy (6yo). How are you doing, sister?

[@abeck7929]

Hello I know I am two years late. But how are your boys? Are they really sweet but have temper tantrums with things they don't understand? Also, do you have a problem with your boys not sitting still? I have an autistic son 5 years old.

[@abeck7929]

@@theamarkovich8064 my son is 5, everyday I'm learning.

[@lizaaay5]

@@abeck7929 as you do hey , roll with the punches. I have a recently diagnosed 4 year old girl and im still finding it tricky maneuvering and reminding myself that she may not understand certain things

[@abeck7929]

@@lizaaay5 I'm definitely rolling with the punches. I can't get frustrated because sometimes my son legit don't understand what I'm saying. Buts he smart, if I show him something one time, he pretty much got it. Signing is going well for him. And also showing him pictures of what he needs to do before he does it helps tremendously! I'm glad us mom's have a safe space here to vent and share advice.

[@MissJinx89]

i love this. she seems like a cool chick, and would love to chill out with her and have some drinks. amazing mother to 3 beautiful young men!

[@AttitudeLive]

Thank you Lauren! Kim is an amazing mother!

[@kingonduty2825]

@@AttitudeLive She is blazed 24/7

[@idontcare-sf1vb]

@@kingonduty2825 some of the best people I know are potheads. Stop being a prick

[@tm-pm1rp]

@@idontcare-sf1vb where was he being a prick you snowflake, shes a stoner course she will be

[@DankyDankerson69]

She needs to find an understanding rasta man

[@pittersmama]

What an amazing mom! I have two girls who are both autistic. I strive to be half as patient and loving as this mom. She is so inspiring. I fall short but keep trying.

[@brittanyhetland3646]

I like how she says "good man" n nit boy

[@rosegold973]

This mother is amazing.. she's so patient and accommodating to her boys. It definitely makes me want to be more calm and patient with my overactive boys!

[@AttitudeLive]

Agreed, she is an amazing mother. Thanks for watching!

[@nenektua3344]

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[@artisticafflair408]

I'm have very minor autistism and I am dyspraxic. I'd have loved a mum like her. I was never given equal opportunities like my sister's. They would differ but of course they would because they had the opportunities. I'm not autistic to the extent where I can't communicate or look people in the eye and I do understand emotion. I was always made to feel like an outcast and was treated like one and that Has put real strain on our relationship. I know they won't change. I just know not to dwell. I have made a great life for my self with out their help. I got myself to uni and now live in a lovely area with my partner. 🙂 . I'll also prove them wrong when I start driving too. I might not have their support but i have determination. 🙂

[@catk6987]

Good on ya, you should be so proud of yourself never lose that determination!

[@emmypickles19]

shes so lovely. i love how she says "good man" and "snugly bugly"

[@cookiepiethief759]

That woman is so amazing, I cannot even thank her enough for her strength and the perfect model of a mom that she sets. Her children are also amazing boys, we can all see that. I hope they all manage to keep growing and becoming better than yesterday and to Kim - AMAZING job! Truly an insparation!

[@AttitudeLive]

Kim sure is a strong and inspirational mom! hope you enjoyed the episode!

[@dannym4892]

i love her house its so homely

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching!

[@marzseaga714]

I totally AGREE....I love her home toooooo

[@elegantlywasted5447]

If by homey you mean a mess then yes I agree

[@peterfilipovic]

Yeah homes can be like that.

[@SuperPhunThyme9]

Homely is a bad thing....I think you mean homey. ie The house is Home *y.* The mangy dog in the sewer is Home *ly.*

[@carysbulmer1551]

Wow this woman has such a positive outlook on life. Of course, you love the children you're given, and you must do what you can to care for them. The most amicable part of her story is just how well she tailors the lives of these boys to keep them safe and happy. I want so badly for her to be able to find some "me time", I hope something comes into her life to lift HER up - not just for her boys.

[@bluecat1233]

I work with this population of kids and I can honestly say that this mom has done an amazing job raising her sons & meeting their needs. I’m impressed

[@aprilrutan3608]

Wow! Kim should add to her "path" to write a book. Not just what it is like raising 3 special needs young men, but add her philosophy to everyday blessings, how she has them doing things like the hand in the car until she tells them to open the door, her gratitude when they say "hi mum" or "thank you" etc. I wished I lived near them, I would definitely come hang out with her and the boys. Than once they were all comfortable with me, I would hang out and send her out with the "aunt" at least once a week for a few hours for her recovering, relaxation and enjoyment time. You are amazing and have a lot of wisdom that others just coming to terms with perhaps the same issues could learn from her! Her verbal son could also add his view pint to the book. The other 2 seem quite smart even though they seem to be mostly non-verbal. Just curious, has she ever had them try typing words? I just felt something by watching them that they are quite smart and maybe they could communicate by keyboard?

[@marzseaga714]

Oh my GOSH YeeeeeS....she's quite an intelligent lady!!!!!

[@Mousy677]

she's absolutely right about changing how you look at things. i'm an autistic adult (i live on my own, though!) and i've found that the best way to tackle problems is to just change how i look at it. (and, obviously, if i change the way i look at things too many times and still have no success, i will eventually give up. eventually.)

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for sharing Ollie, glad to see you're so optimistic! Thanks again for watching!

[@staciebarnes7815]

This woman is the strongest person in the world! She sacrificed everything for her boys and is planning to help them be productive men in society by eventually letting go and helping them transition into a new life for themselves. She has "good men" and I wish them all the best.

[@nicoladouglas3270]

This lady is a TRUE MOTHER !!!! I wish you all the best for you and your boys🙏

[@amy.thomson1989]

Would love an update on the family!!!

[@louisejennings8865]

I love all her encouragement towards her boys. Alot of people tell Artistic children what to do rather than encouraging them to complete things its beautiful. The love she shows for thoses boys is wonderfull to watch.

[@AttitudeLive]

They truly have an amazing family! Thanks for watching Louise, hope you enjoyed the episode!

[@nancyderyl1]

Autistic, not artistic. Although they could be both. Wonderful people!! So much respect for the whole family, especially the mom and her perseverance into giving 100% of her attention and devotion to her boys! ❤💙💚💛💜💖💟💗💓

[@kyraashley4354]

That’s exactly how I am with my son. I never tell him what to do , I always explain to him how to do something or what he should be doing and he’s only 2

[@mscommentremoved]

I really would love scruff to find a partner someone who's a massive Marley fan too 😊

[@AttitudeLive]

Haha we would love that too! Thanks for watching Hannalee!😀

[@breezebreeze699]

bless this women. she is a REAL Supermum. totally dedicated...totally selfless ..totally committed.

[@Samprids]

Let's be real *This is the best most awesome family I've ever seen*

[@justme-ew3ri]

Good on her, she is learning for her children and so calm and glad she still is with them.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Just me, hope you enjoyed!

[@growingtogether3052]

To help with the noise "upsets", some children will go out with head phones on with their own music playing. Your boys love you soo much.

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

You can get noise canceling headphones too.

[@lisakaye2110]

The saddest part s that this mom won't be able to care for these big boys forever. They will eventually need an assisted living facility.

[@mangoloverprincess33]

THE COUNTDOWN THING IS SO CUTE OH MY GOODNESS

[@ebonyqueen5705]

this mom is awesome but she also needs to have me time I know because I too have two autistic sons and two other children, four total. when I get sick there is no one to help me it's me pushing myself even when sick so I know one day I won't be here who will take care of them? so you do need a support system and a plan.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thank you for watching Ebony Love. Kim really is a strong and courageous mother, I agree she needs a support network and a plan. Hope you stay tuned for updates!

[@emilie9387]

Kim is straight up awesome. Thank you guys for sharing her story and her family's story.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching emilie!

[@Sassy_Alaskan]

What an amazing Mom!! I am so impressed with her ability to manage those beautiful boys. And notice how she always calls them “good men” I LOVE IT!!

[@lyndasmith593]

I love to another young woman came in and did her artwork on the banner to plan their lives. It was so visual and so simple in the nuances of how everything fit together was so well done. Kim is a fabulous mom. I can't even think of where I would begin if I were in her shoes.

[@maciejones4883]

The mom is an incredible lady

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Macie !

[@ashleythen3957]

A beautiful capturing of this strong woman with her three boys! Autism is not easy and requires thick skin everyday to get by. Attitude does a wonderful job documenting real life

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for the support! Glad to have you as part of the community, make sure to stay tuned!

[@Vb-fy4sv]

Attitude

[@johnn2638]

Right.

[@sgingee3827]

Bless this lady going up and down the stairs to see them into the car 💕

[@thebrummierailenthusiasts5329]

I’m proud of her and I do feel sorry for her son’s autism diagnosis with two of the boys non verbal and one who is verbal

[@KCsFunHouse]

Best mother ever!

[@AttitudeLive]

A truly amazing family, thanks for watching Kate!

[@benharrison8604]

What a mom!!!

[@thisisdudley989]

Massive appreciation to this strong woman !

[@petyrbaelish1718]

She has to wipe her 22 year old son's bum!? Someone give this woman a medal...

[@babyshay2228]

What an absolutely incredible woman!! She's one of the strongest people I've ever seen & it makes me so happy to know that these 3 beautiful young men have someone like her in their lives :)

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for your kind words baby shay! We really appreciate your support and I will pass on this comment on to the team. Thanks again for watching and stay tuned!

[@ILOVEMEW10]

I have a 16 yr old son with Autism. He's so much like your gorgeous young men you're doing such a great job.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Rebecca and your lovely comment 😊

[@ILOVEMEW10]

Attitude There were once again ignorant stupid people commenting. Assuming that you're on something because you are calm. I replied to them telling them that's a horrible thing to say. You learn how to try and work with each child to make both of your lives easier. I keep calm with my son as well. The amount of times I've held my breath and counted to 10!

[@gracedraper657]

Okay my heart exploded with emotion when they did the countdown in sign language before turning lights out for bed. That's an amazing mother right there. God bless her!

[@another8125]

The father of them kids, needs to step up and at least take on 50% of the responsibility.

[@lovelyxskinny]

she's such a lovely woman

[@AttitudeLive]

she sure is, thanks for watching!

[@lymarie1974]

I want the best and blessings for this woman.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching ! Hope you enjoyed!

[@KcLee677]

I have A.D.D, autism.. This make me feel good.

[@sixtydiamonds]

I LOVE HER SO MUCH. SOOOO MUCH. SHE IS A BLESSING.

[@aprilrutan3608]

I hope that there will be updates about her. I wish there was a way to talk to her, like Facebook. She could probably use a friend who she could vent to without feeling like she is imposing on somebody and I would be more than happy to be there to "listen"' maybe send some funny things to brighten her day when she is having a tough time. Plus, she clearly is a strong lady, but we all need a hand from time to time and I could be that without her really feeling like she is asking for any help. If you talk to her and she wants a pen pa, type person, have somebody message me on Facebook under this name. She is awesome and is raising three awesome young men! Best wishes, April

[@AttitudeLive]

Hi April, thanks for your interest in this story and your comment. We will hopefully do a follow up with Kim in the near future. Hope you stay tuned! Thanks again!

[@marzseaga714]

YeeeeeS I'd love to see the follow-up on the Path plan!!

[@smithytwothousandneight8092]

April Rutan you taking the time 2 offer her some genuine Love & Support was a Lovely gesture. I’m sure she wud be so grateful for your offer, but I genuinely think she would be to BUSY with her own personal Life to Sit down and have the time to write to a PenPal. But I had to Reply 2 your Comment as I think your offer was a Really Nice Offer. Why don’t you make a Group on Facebook for Lonely People 2 Make New Friends & Meet New People. Especially at Xmas ppl do get Lonely as I know Myself Personally wud take the Time 2 Sit & write & Listen to ppl who are Lonely in Life or wud like to Vent there Problems to Any1 who is Willing to Listen to them. There is even ppl who have a Family who choose to keep there own Problems to there selfs as they don’t want to Put there Own Problems on there families as they don’t want to Make them Worry about them and there daily Problems or don’t want to look like they are Failing Ect. PPL in this day and age are to quick to Judge & Look down there Nose at others & Not quick enuff to be Kind and Understanding to Others. There just Rude & Think they are Above Others. 😁👍

[@clareu9539]

@@AttitudeLive May I ask, did this ever happen? Thanks :)

[@mrs.garcia6978]

The difference between the boys and Katie was stark. I hope PATH gives Kim the boost for the next life step.

[@iprakaji]

She's an amazing mother. Her patience and compassion is beyond amazing ♥️

[@calmingwaters1981]

and I have people telling me I'm a good mom, this lady is wonderful

[@laurareis5905]

What a great mother! 👌👌

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Laura, we hope you enjoyed the episode!

[@babsfocker7751]

as an aspie myself, I think this woman is a dream come true for her kids. I'm an aspie but I'm no way deficient.

[@Em-mp4hf]

I give this lady so much respect!

[@NicoleJosephMusic]

This mom's love and patience is endless, so much respect for this woman! The boys seem wonderful.

[@AngloAm]

The lady from Imagine Better - what a gem!!!!

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching AngloAm, stay tuned!

[@marzseaga714]

I know right!!!

[@heathers9354]

I absolutely adore her

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Heather s

[@daniellavoie1060]

This lady has a heart of gold and an even better family

[@vermin8724]

such a strong woman with wonderfully raised sons. many kudos to you

[@ariessweety8883]

You get a shot of the father FINALLY at the end... However, clearly this woman has done a great job raising her children. It's hard enough to raise children as a single parent and even harder still when your children are special needs. I don't know how much involvement if any the father has had in raising his kids so I'm not commenting on that. I just want to say KUDOZ to this woman, your a super strong person who loves your children and society thanks you for doing your duty as a parent. Not that society NEEDS to approve, not what I'm saying at ALL. She's done her children well....

[@Fruitshootful]

It is truely amazing what this lovely woman is doing all on her own! Really wish the best for her and her family!

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for your kind words! Glad you enjoyed the episode Naomi!

[@you8899100]

A lot to learn from her . She is one of the heroes of our times …

[@notkerrystolcenberg]

I love that they put so much reggae music in this

[@AbigailBGnath]

Scruff is my hero!

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Erin! Scruff is a champion!

[@rachelhughes8797]

My younger brother is Autistic, so i understand the struggle, But i still love him and help him whenever and wherever i can. It's the job off being a big sister.

[@flaffy6181]

Can I just say I'm so proud and happy for all of them? These men seem so genuine and are gentlemen. Would love to be friends with the entire family.

[@geminidemoncat]

wow. a very patient mom. it warms my heart to see such a devoted, loving mom. she is so positive too.