Living with Williams Syndrome, Anxiety, and OCD

[@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids]

Anybody who wants to be Sofia's friend can connect with her at instagram.com/theteamsofia/ ! Sofia also requested that I ask everybody what you think her top three Taylor Swift songs are? She's really interested in hearing if you can guess correctly!

[@saeclem]

1. Shake It Off 2. You Need To Calm Down 3. ME! My top 3 are: 1. Delicate 2. The Last Great American Dynasty 3. Style

[@aprylrittenhouse4562]

Look what you made me do. Shake it off andstate of grace

[@suttonclark4423]

1 Ronan 2 Never grow up 3 22

[@PlaceboFXMakeup]

I’m gonna guess: 1. Mean 2. Shake It Off 3. Love Story

[@Milkgiih]

1. Blank Space 2. Red 3. 22 ? ☺️☺️

[@TheGalacticCannibal]

Her emotional intelligence is so developed, and her ability to express herself is really special. I hope she finds the right people who can appreciate what she has to offer.

[@lindalopez3916]

Many people with William’s have high emotional intelligence. My daughter Andrea has William’s and she can connect with others so well. Andrea can tell when someone is sad or anxious and tries to reach out to help. She is so kind and people love her immediately. Many William’s kids are. I’m thankful each and every day that God has entrusted me to care for her. She is a blessing to everyone that knows and loves her! Sophia is extremely articulate and expresses herself so well. I wish her all the best…

[@whitedaisies9355]

@@lindalopez3916 andrea sounds like a gem❤️❤️❤️ Not every girl is that mature and giving!

[@TeesReddRose]

🙏🙏🙏

[@TeesReddRose]

@@lindalopez3916 Is your child an Empath?

[@orome9793]

@@lindalopez3916 That's really interesting. I never knew that.

[@abigaillabar8877]

Sofia, if you are reading this, I just want you to know: I wish I had a friend like you.

[@sarasweightlossjourney1432]

Same thing I was thinking

[@GoBirdz13]

Yep, you'd be hard pressed to find a more loyal or caring friend than this sweet soul. Sofia is the type to watch you instead of watching the movie to make sure you're having a good time. One in a zillion.

[@inactiveuser555]

There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. in love, CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel.

[@anonymousinc6330]

Took the words right out of my mouth.

[@b3n3d1ct10n]

What a wonderful person Sofia is…..so much wisdom at a tender age!,

[@ThisIsJessPaul]

She seems like the easiest person to be friends with: better at communicating than most people I know.

[@ms3gt111]

Sadly, that likely intimidates most people she comes into contact with. We are emotional creatures, but it's hard to be vulnerable without risking yourself being abused.

[@-iceraptor-]

Yea fs

[@timlandrum824]

Yup

[@ynre-stay]

Ok so you can def tell she's different but shes rlly pretty sweet and cute i would like to be her friend

[@BLUNTS]

Unfortunately the vast majority of people treat us like we are annoying and a problem (i live with this condition)

[@kickingfatality]

If a 56 year old crusty broken 30 year artillery veteran can have a hero...I just found mine in Sofia. She's incredibly Intelligent, compassionate, articulate , Empathetic and just a pure beautiful soul. Dont ever ever change Sofia. Don't you ever let this world dim your light.

[@haydenhilton]

I’m sorry but I laughed out loud when I read that you described yourself as “crusty”😂 I totally agree though, Sofia is awesome. Thank you for your service!

[@nomadicbydesign0]

Wow. You've become such a stunningly beautiful, emotionally intelligent, and articulate young woman. I struggled with social anxiety, ADHD, OCD and depression most of my life, that was until I started daily yoga and meditation in my 50s. I rarely have an episode now. I hope you learn what works for you to tame it, too. I know you will. It helps to learn to love yourself, and then it no longer matters what others think of you. You must be your own warrior and #1 fan. This channel shows just how many others you have, too. Wishing you love and light always, beautiful soul.

[@lindamaewetzel]

You are a sweet soul❤❤❤❤❤

[@andrewstallings5942]

So beautiful ❤

[@paulcrawley5687]

She’s amazing m8

[@TheNunududu]

I feel like Sofia is a future person. Her level of emotional intelligence, compassion and vulnerability is what humanity is struggling so hard to reach.

[@rachelleanna3]

Yes, well said.

[@fefemyluv]

Bingo.

[@ohellsbellso07]

Oh my goodness 100% this!

[@robforrest9083]

I also have adhd and had little to no friends. I discovered that family is so much more important. Remember friends come and go but family is forever and you had a great one. You seem like very fun and happy girl. Anyone would be lucky to be your friend.

[@lulumoon6942]

👍👍👍👍👍

[@salty_texan]

One of the most pure and genuinely beautiful personalities I've ever seen.

[@jeffdevc6422]

Don’t be sarcastic, she’s already disabled

[@mandyadler2152]

@@jeffdevc6422 what the heck r u talking about, they are leaving a nice comment

[@OttrPopAnimations]

same

[@eddyrashid7853]

Yeah same actually, it's remarkable. Seems to me more people could try to be this honest. She's pure life.

[@earthwormandruw]

@@jeffdevc6422I understand the classification of williams syndrome as a disability but it doesn't feel like one to me.

[@assassino1480]

I love how no-nonsense and direct she is about telling people she loves them.

[@sagemybrain6740]

We are in dire need of more people like that

[@asa9528]

We should all be this.

[@luisblue2004]

I can't believe it's hard for her to make friends? What kind of people would not wanna have a person like Sofia as their friend!!! She's the sweetest person I've ever seen! She's the definition of a "good friend"

[@sarahpanda3252]

I deeply appreciate this girls' existence in this world.

[@lulumoon6942]

Agreed, I worry about a future without differences. ❤️

[@lupearacelycastrohidalgo6330]

Yeeess she's made of light, I learned a lot from her and I'm just at the min 3 of the video

[@QueenNoTeetha151]

Same. I would have loved to hear about her favorite things like tv shows, hobbies etc. She's so interesting.

[@lulumoon6942]

@@QueenNoTeetha151 I don't do Instagram, but I thought I heard reference to her seeking friends there? Likely a link here on the details area of the video.

[@davidpressley3451]

People like her just feels the world with the positivity it so desperately needs

[@lilyy709]

She has the talent of becoming a poet. Her words are like poetries, genuine, touching, and very precise.

[@BigLeagueTrout]

agreed, much love

[@macswan7322]

considerably articulate

[@FeroxX_Gosu]

absolutely

[@rainstreet78]

Sofia: your name means "wisdom" and this is fitting because you are VERY wise. Thank you for sharing your story!

[@johnidis]

I concur, as a native greek myself Sofia (Σοφία) literally means wisdom. Also yes, she is wise beyond her years, intelligent (emotionally too) and beautiful!

[@catwalkernyc]

I agree📝🤍 she’s so truly truly wise and loving it’s got me crying happy tears. I’ve been really sad- but the fact that she exists in the world- that gives me hope for our future.

[@a.december8078]

Very well said…

[@megandrynan6080]

She seems super wise and expresses herself better than many people her age who do not have disabilities.

[@adhc8560]

She expresses herself better than lots of people 2 or 3 times her age who cannot formulate a simple sentence! Such a smart and sweet girl. 🧡❤

[@jessebradham7838]

Wow when she said “I just need a true friendship, and I need to be loved.” That’s the most pure definition as to why we’re on this earth in the first place.

[@metalmike1976]

a thumbs up simply does not show my appreciation enough.

[@ahskincare3150]

God gives me perfect love.❤️✝️❤️🥙

[@extrashotofespresso_]

@@ahskincare3150chile please

[@geraldinenotman3073]

As a parent of a 36 yr old son with Williams Syndrome I can understand a lot of this interview and Sophia's fears and difficulties. Thankyou for explaining so clearly how you feel and things that help. You have also enlightened me on ways I can help my son and others. Friendship and love are the basis for surviving in life next to our health. So often our health is impacted by our emotions. Thank Sophia from Australia.❤

[@clareplayskeys]

Sofia should have a podcast. She’s sooo wise and has such a great voice to listen to!

[@y04a]

I hope she does one day! I'd listen too :)

[@alexschuster1618]

Definitely.

[@stephaniehaubert8022]

yes she sould

[@chenana429]

Absolutely

[@HelenaW999]

Maybe her and her sister together :) Very touching to see such a caring bond!

[@mikewarren5322]

I’m 51 year old man and I wish i was half the person she is. Courage , strength. Beyond words. Incredible.

[@francismcguire6884]

I’m 73 years old and I’ve learned more from this spectacular person in 25 minutes than from many people I’ve known for over 25 years. Thank you, Sophie

[@tipp8076]

She’s awesome! Unfortunately she may be too emotionally advanced compared to her peers. I hope her friendships thrive in her adulthood. She’s very mature 🙂

[@mattlawson714]

I agree, being emotionally overdeveloped, can be as difficult as being emotionally underdeveloped. People with special needs often experience the world in a very different way that I find incredibly beautiful. I know 35 year old women who were not born with any type of syndrome that don’t come close to this young woman’s level of emotional intelligence.

[@laurenbendik2006]

I agree. I was born with a physical disability and its always made me emotionally develop faster than peers. I always preferred talking to adults as a kid. At the same time, ive always been behind my peers in social development like being ready for dating and other things. Not sure why aside from just being more sheltered than my peers made me more fearful of joining them in their next steps.

[@gaslight.mp3]

shes literally the most genuine person I've ever seen, I hope one day she'll find a friendship equally as genuine.

[@lieslringhofer162]

I want to be her friend 🥺 I have anxiety and depression and would love to not feel that loneliness when she does too 💞

[@jumpinjohnnyruss]

I think many people are threatened by purely genuine people because they think it could shine a light on their own disingenuousness. Vulnerability is kind of baked into the notion of genuine interaction.

[@bepowerification]

Its hard for her to make friends? What the heck. She is one of the most loveable people in this world.

[@inactiveuser555]

There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. in love, CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel.

[@pillpopper2664]

@@inactiveuser555 we are saved through the grace of God not through work based salvation.

[@disdonc6.klasse549]

It's the dumbness of our society and our way of life nowadays that makes it difficult for her to find friends. She is too good and too "normal" for our world nowadays unfortunately.

[@pavelbaidakov]

17:05

[@pinkleprechaun52]

yeah but kids her age don't care about that. when I was her age I only care about hanging out with who is popular not who is good to me

[@jamesfowler1955]

She has what most people fear, (Honesty), that gives her power that she can't understand.

[@leilanikieti3883]

This is very deep. And the ultimate truth underlying this video.

[@rafimohammad39]

We honestly need an update video with Sofia ❤❤😊😊

[@rafimohammad39]

Or a day in a life of Sofia

[@ViksterWoop]

Sofia's way of communicating is inspiring. She's so good at expressing herself

[@sun1996]

Agree!

[@caitthecat]

That's fairly common with Williams syndrome. They tend to be linguistically and musically gifted.

[@kendramaculagh9295]

This kid is so cool. Being a teenager sucks and I think her tendency toward genuine connection will be more appreciated as she gets older.

[@АльфияМуллахметова-ш9т]

О чем Вы говорите?!Все подростками были!Это отстойно!???

[@kowismo]

I bet she would make a wonderful psychotherapist

[@lienbijs1205]

Why being a teenager sucks? My teenage daughters feel like they have the time of their life but maybe it depends where you live?

[@salmeleons]

@@lienbijs1205 well for a lot of people since theyre going through puberty n stuff and all those hormones its hwen theyre most self conscious and it can be really hard for a lot of people

[@lienbijs1205]

@@salmeleons Honestly I don't recognize that. I remember my teenage time like a great time full of freedom and the only responsibility was school. I see that also now in my teenage daughters. They start to get an own personality indeed, getting sometimes extreme in their opinions but that is not troublesome. I also don't know any teenagers around me having puberty problems so that makes me think that environment, culture and other external factors does matter.

[@Carmen-.-]

She possesses genuine beauty and intelligence beyond her years.

[@sharyaohshob]

“Sophia” is the primordial and gnostic word for “Wisdom”; and she definitely embodies her name. She is remarkably articulate and self-aware, thank you for this vulnerable interaction. Blessings of increase and prosperity for Sophia and her family ✨🤲🏿

[@aprilh2107]

If I were her sister and she spoke to me so honestly and loving, she'd have me crying every day.

[@extrashotofespresso_]

Same. She is so passionate and obviously really loves her family. It is super sweet.

[@timovesterinen3611]

"Williams syndrome is caused by the loss (deletion ) of genetic material from a specific region of chromosome 7" Looking at her I'm convinced that human wickedness lives in that material, which she lacks. Such a beautiful and good person! 🥰

[@theodoresande6051]

7q11.23 is the Thanatos region, the final endowment of man’s soul after his exile from paradise.

[@kwameadams1140]

@@theodoresande6051 Goosbumps

[@1982rebell]

diese Theorie gefällt mir sehr gut!😏❤ und ich habe das Gefühl dass du Recht haben könntest!😉

[@deniseheidelmeier4950]

Great insight, Timo

[@kate4biglittlevoices]

What a beautiful way to describe this

[@lundier]

Sofia, I have a 2 year old daughter with Williams. If she turns out to be half the person you are I will be so proud. You are so well spoken, and so in touch with your feelings. I loved hearing your story.

[@courtneyr214]

Thank you for sharing that. I’m my young twenties my best friends daughter had Williams Syndrome. She passed away at 6 years old (nothing related to WS) and I always feel a little spark of happiness when I hear about other children who have it. Which to some may sound a little strange but these children with WS are an absolute blessing in life. ❤️

[@andrebrown8969]

My son has it too, also with autism, he is non verbal. I have to pretty much have to do most things for him. There is a wide spectrum with Williams.

[@GTAManRCR]

"Half the person" more like double or so as those with Williams syndrome are really sweet and cute. I wish the best for her! May she live a long and healthy life (As healthy as a Williams syndrome life can be, and better) Greetings from Hungary

[@marioalleyne8559]

This young lady is incredible! She is by far wise well beyond her years it’s mind blowing.

[@blcawood]

I can’t imagine anyone NOT wanting to be your friend, Sofia. You are a very intuitive, eloquent, well-spoken, smart, funny, sweet, charismatic, and gorgeous young woman! You will do great things in your life!

[@YouCanMakeFireOutOfIce]

But her behavior is "awkward". Other people probably don't want to be seen with her. I honestly wouldn't have a problem with that. She's very kind and intelligent.

[@songsalon7868]

GREAT THINGS IN LIFE YAAAS SOPHIA

[@disdonc6012]

@@YouCanMakeFireOutOfIce What behavior do you mean exactly? I didn't see anything completely awkward in this video.

[@andyc6542]

Her wisdom and intelligence is possibly what makes it hard for her to be accepted by people her own age. She is beyond her years in the way she communicates and how she comes across - I think the average boy or girl her age are, by the fact they are teenagers growing into adolescence, obnoxious (not saying all are!) Hope that the older she becomes, the more accepted she becomes - the kids who ignore her now will hopefully mature and reach her level of emotional intelligence in a few years.

[@Thisworldisdoomed06]

@@YouCanMakeFireOutOfIce That's just insecure people. People who feel uncomfortable by other people's emotions or personalities, when they have done nothing wrong, are 9 times out of 10, insecure with themselves. The word you use "Awkward" is your opinion, and while you may have not meant harm by using it, how would you feel if you read on here that someone thought you were awkward and that's why they don't like you. She said she was going to read these comments, so I kinda think that was an unnecessary statement to make dude.

[@rose-e-m]

I’ve been in school with Sofia since 3rd grade, she’s an incredibly sweet individual and I’m so proud of her for speaking about this in such a mature way. Truly a very intelligent, funny and sweet person, and I learned a lot from this interview. Love you Sofia!!! You inspire me to overcome my own anxiety and move forward with confidence about myself. ❤️ -Rose

[@mercedes523]

Love ur comment! It sounds like you’re as sweet as she is.

[@scity3301]

Thats pretty cool

[@MickeyDJ1]

Very nice to read your comment Rose, but know that I'm super envious you get to know Sophia, and possibly be her friend. ☺️❤️

[@songsalon7868]

Good Friend Rose You've got a Great friend in Sophia. Good Friend

[@stephensmith6812]

I went to high school with her, was wondering why she looked so familiar, can attest to everything Ross said

[@Birdmanondaweb]

She's extremely intelligent, especially emotionally intelligent. She has a lot of wisdom of how to deal with what's going on in her mind. I still have trouble and I'm 30. She's doing better than me and she's a teenager. Go Sofia!

[@mariasalinas3248]

Nick Zengineer, indeed she is! Like you I still have trouble, at times, and I'm already 69! I'm so impressed and touched with the way she explains and expresses her feelings and thoughts.

[@MagnoliaPantherWoman]

Same, and I'm 48.

[@BeverleyMiller_]

@@4everflow seriously, are you that self absorbed?

[@Drone453]

I don't think I'd have ever guessed she had disabilities from hearing her talk had I not been told. Quite the opposite. She's incredibly articulate, sincere, and insightful. Much more so than the typical person.

[@tillytallyyy]

“I know what love is because you taught me how to love.” WOW. That hit me like a brick wall. That’s exactly it. We know love because of how others show us love.

[@lemurlover7975]

Maybe that is why I struggle to know what love is, not having a loving sister? But I had TV sisters and TV moms and dads and characters in books to teach me love. And Jesus and the angels. So you can still have a way to learn love even if your whole family abused you ever since you were born. And now they don't because I escaped and disowned them. But I wonder what it's like to experience love in a relationship you're in with a live group of people that is like a family rather than reading about it in a book or seeing it played out on a screen?

[@pattykochenower4222]

❤️

[@nahdeeyuh1548]

"i need to be loved " it broke my heart. she is so honest and open and vulnerable. so beautiful. you will find true friendship and you have your family who truly loves you! we love you!

[@VintageMamiMM]

Who wouldn’t want to be her friend? She’s so genuine & that’s extremely hard to find in a friend nowadays. She’s super mature! She’s not normal, she’s better than that because full grown adults don’t have the intellect & emotional capacity that she does. I would LOVE to have her as a friend ❤

[@Monika-kh5zi]

I agree!

[@weetzybat]

Me too

[@khakis69]

Teenage girls are brutal

[@keeperofthesacred9335]

I agree too!! ❤️

[@jessicagomez7714]

Teenagers suck. Not all but as an age group, teens suck

[@BriBri897]

I want the world to have more people like Sofia. Honest, vulnerable, self-reflective and kind. She's amazing.

[@NiquiGirl]

I wish I had a friend like Sophia. She is clearly soulfully rewarding. She's obviously got so much important perspective to share.

[@morten.hekkvang]

I feel exactly the same way ❤

[@onerian8178]

me too. its hard to find genuine kind people

[@tugumelaulance9214]

Sofia has a high level emotional intelligence, she's honest and really a genuine person. She's really special and the most important thing is that she's loved for that.

[@CapableCaptain-ahoy]

I can't imagine anyone not wanting to connect with her. Hearing her speak about her emotions, I can't help but understand exactly what it is she is speaking into. I've for many years taken issue with how the people I've known seem to have no interest in reaching out or connecting in a deeper more genuine way. Hang in there Sofia, it's not you, it's the rest of the world that has a problem.

[@Richardo004]

Her quoting celebrities the whole time is frkn hilarious, shes so dramatic lol. I think she should be in a "normal" class cause she really doesnt seem like she has an disability. Bullying always happens. In every class and school unfortunately.

[@scottpreston5074]

@@Richardo004 Her cognitive abilities seem OK. I'm curious about this syndrome.

[@jamiecurran3544]

I completely agree it is other people, Sophia's awesome!😊✌️

[@glizzy6666]

This girl has a LOT of wisdom and intelligence, especially being so young. She will do well in life and I wish her the best.

[@MeeblesSporella]

Sofia is beautiful, funny, sweet, compassionate and everything in between. Keep being you!

[@moniquechatman584]

Her sister is equally amazing! I love how she looks at her sister in the eye.She's so compassionate and gentle with her sister.

[@MeadowRose7]

I love Sofia's personality! She's real and down to earth. I would love having friends like Sofia. She's beautiful inside and out. And people could learn so much from her, especially on how to be a better person themselves.

[@imtiredofyall4843]

How could anyone not want to be her friend like her empathy is so so contagious

[@kdenice3338]

she’s genuinely such a beautiful person inside & out, making friends is hard too. figuring out how to introduce yourself, feeling comfortable with those ppl, it’s all very hard when you struggle with anxiety and lonliness. So proud of Sofia 🫶🏻💕

[@kathleenlarkin9517]

In love with her omg I’d do anything to be around her

[@EnjoySackLunch]

@@kathleenlarkin9517 relax. Jesus

[@kzelmer]

The way she communicates is outstanding, obviously way better than the average teenager. Amazing

[@biancalaura7741]

Because those with this syndrome have very well developed social and communication skills!

[@jonesba2004]

I can’t imagine anyone NOT being her friend!! She’s so positive and intelligent and warm. Sofia, if you read this, I think you are a gorgeous person who deserves all the goodness that the world can offer.

[@daniburke9452]

I knew a girl with Williams syndrome the sad thing is from my understanding they see no evil in this world and don't realize people can be extremely mean and can do bad things. They are always happy

[@tomjjackson21]

@@daniburke9452 yeah, I was under the impression Williams Syndrome was a 24/7 oxytocin rush, and that they were literally the epitome of love and happiness. I would of never suspected someone with Williams Syndrome was capable of anxiety and depression. I genuinely believed it was a medical impossibility given the nature of the condition.

[@GTAManRCR]

Williams syndrome being a 24/7 oxytocin rush myth is debunked. Just look up the video where a boy with Williams syndrome became frustrated at a videogame. That is uploaded here on KZbin

[@robertwhite3752]

Sophia you are proof that God is pure love. What a blessing to the world you are. I wish all the world loved like you do, and thank you so much for sharing some of your life with us. Your friend from Greentown Ohio, Robby.

[@xMattOxi]

She is a legend, “wise beyond her years” doesn’t even cut it. When people have to pick at others it’s usually because they don’t feel good about themselves, you keep being you!

[@cosmicmoonpie1857]

🙏🙏🙏🎉🎉🎉 i celebrate u

[@lupearacelycastrohidalgo6330]

Hey I liked your comment

[@TheTravelingClatt]

Sofia you are so cool and intelligent. I think your gonna be such a cool person as you find your way through life. Really enjoyed hearing your story!

[@masterofktulu]

I couldn't have said it better myself! Totally agree

[@silentnight3970]

Nothing wrong with Sofia's brain or personality, OMG, she is a joy to see and hear. Great fam too incl the cat.

[@crystalortega2156]

U say what I always tell people about my daughter. She’s PHYSICALLY disabled! Not MENTALLY disabled!!! People always think disabilities come with mental problems.

[@silentnight3970]

@@crystalortega2156 Oh I know. Some people make incorrect assumptions based on looks without really giving differently abled individuals a chance.

[@hanswurst579]

Very well spoken, articulate, honest...I´m proud of you, keep on going!

[@marinna.realtor]

She needs to be a motivational speaker. I can totally see her doing this one day. What a beautiful person inside and out.

[@skeetsmcgrew3282]

Yo thats a great idea. Im a little confused as to how exactly her issues affect her? Like she doesnt appear to have any cognitive issues? I tried to do some research but it appears William's sydrome has a ton of variation in how it affects people. But speaking appears to be her strong suit for sure, and from what I understand thats common.

[@sumbi8858]

Marinna Coburn, I TOTALLY agree with you! You couldn't have said it any better. I hope she has seen your comment, because you are right on spot!

[@Mia-es1rp]

Yes !! So articulate

[@annelien3432]

You can bet that she has a lot of difficulty with everything requiring mathematical, logical thinking, but I'm deeply impressed aswell by how articulate she is.

[@phyllisking977]

My birth mother had William’s Syndrome and everyone I ever spoke to regarding her told me she was a pure angel. She died before my 3rd birthday. This video has helped me to understand and appreciate what a precious sweet soul gave birth to me

[@Азиза0201]

I love your Story ❤

[@CassieJ4]

She is EXTREMELY well spoken. You can just tell that she's such a genuine person. And she honestly seems like she'd be such a fun person to be around, so I don't know why anyone wouldn't want to be friends with her. She seems like she'd have some REALLY good conversation. Probably laugh a lot and she's got great taste in music. Sophia, I'd be your friend. Honest to God. And my 17 year old daughter said she'd be your friend too. We'd invite you over to hang out or go to the mall or a Taylor Swift concert. I bet we'd have a blast! The people that don't want to be your friend aren't deserving enough to have a friend as cool as you!! And the people that are only kind to you because you're disabled, I bet they'd change their minds if they spent more time with you. I don't even like saying "disabled", I'd rather say "differently-abled". But, anyhooziewoozen (did that word make you laugh? 😂) You're such a kind, funny, spunky, genuine person and literally ANYONE would be lucky to call you a true friend!♡♡♡

[@jennamartin-payne1653]

I guess some people are differently abled but I am disabled and in my case I prefer to use that word because I don't have any special abilities! x

[@wendeemoore2013]

Spot On Cassie!

[@gabrielphilp3232]

Well said, I agree 100%

[@jeff6708]

shes genuine because she doesnt know how not to be, that makes her very vulnerable

[@desireeerkman2614]

She has a Beautiful Soul. The world is a better place with people like her in it. Such an amazing intellect and contagious kindness. May God bless her.

[@tamkumi.180]

I know Sofia in person! We used to go to a social group together, and she is such a sweet person! She's always given such good advice during the sessions, and she is amazing! Sofia, if you're reading this, this is Tahmina from the group! I miss you so much, and I hope you still see me as someone to be your friend! I'm so proud that you made it this far, girl! ^^

[@-chloe-8728]

the way she expresses herself is so beautiful and poised. and her emotional intelligence is more advanced than 95% of grown adults. she’s a star. those “friends” who didn’t want to hang out with her were missing out.

[@Uthorous]

It's worse than missing out they are fools for excluding her. They will live to regret it too I guarantee it.

[@katiebrownlee603]

“My sisters, my mom, my dad will always be true friends to me because they’re my family. I will leave them someday, but I’ll always come back to them because I know they want me back. They always want me back and it’s true love and that’s how it’s gonna stay.” Your words hit deep - I think I’ve found my definition for family and friendship.

[@kaylanicholson1712]

Disability or not that girl is truly smart. at least she’s open and honest about herself. People need to stop hating on people with disabilities. Everybody deserves to be treated equally in this world.

[@beccalynn4445]

She made me cry. She’s so expressive and deep with the way she explains herself. She’s so beautiful

[@Micahz94]

me too

[@nala6846]

totally! she's the epitome of a genuineness

[@7ennifer]

I think this girl might be more highly evolved than the rest of us. What a lovely, sincere, beautiful shining light of a person.

[@jennesty3900]

@7ennifer loveee the name 💚💚💚

[@cblse]

I hope that this is where evolution takes us: happy, trusting, open and able to relate to each other without fear.

[@waitahawhat]

"Don't let the people who don't accept you get into your personal life." Those are words to live by, girl! ❤️ Thank you. I really needed that.

[@morbidanimal333]

can you tag me on that part?

[@saraaskari5900]

8:06

[@shmelie]

her way of being able to vocalize herself and her thoughts is so amazing to me im autistic and i feel i never get to be so really able to make my words so direct and able

[@eris5200]

I love that when she said "I just want a true friendship" , her cat meowed and approached her 💜your kitty gotcha girl 💜😺 Sofia is such a beautiful human , her personality is inspirational 💜

[@andrewrosales9972]

Dogs/Cats are wayyyyy better than humans, I used to think that was ridiculous, but nope it's totally true. 🐈🐕

[@inactiveuser555]

There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. in love, CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel.

[@olivep3485]

Hearing her talk about yearning for friendship makes my chest just.. Tighten. I want so badly to hug her.

[@johanvedel6482]

Mee too, mee too! ☺

[@TYT695]

Me too

[@brookebixler1040]

Me too!

[@sarar941]

SAME!

[@polarevolta]

Same 💕

[@dominicdeangelis4530]

I knew Sofia a little bit when I was younger. I only got to see her a handful of times. As a young kid who wasn't exposed to many people, I knew she was different but it was more of a different positive connotation. She was very happy and expressive as a kid. And she was someone to throw the baseball with. Her dad is also really nice and supportive, she has a really solid support system built around her and it is beautiful to see. :)

[@EMILY4DAYS]

Were you homeschooled?

[@amyshea9871]

Sofia says "love is contagious" Its so true. Her loving spirit just shines thru.

[@doclee8755]

I hope Sofia hears this: the WORLD needs a friend like you. If just one in ten people had a friend like you, Sofia, the world would be a much better place. Your interview really touched me emotionally because of your love of life. You embody the very reason humanity MUST be kind and considerate to one another. This world is a better place simply because you are in it. I wish I had more friends like you. You bring out a smile in every soul that is blessed to come across your amazing existence.

[@southernoregoncatmom6519]

Yes, being in Special Ed is isolating. I was blessed to be "mainstreamed" into "regular" classes gradually. Sofia is a lovely, articulate young lady.

[@teddieblue6723]

I was also in special ed. But I never thought of it as for people who have disabilities or anything. Until I grew up and realised how different I really was

[@lovingmayberry307]

@@teddieblue6723 You're perfect! 💙

[@sportsfan9040]

I was also in Special Ed. some of my classes were considered 15:1 and some were regular classes with my peers. I still felt somewhat isolated in the regular classes cuz most of my peers wouldn't talk to me or want to be my friend. only time they had to talk to me was if we were doing group work. my senior year, my English class (15:1) was combined with a regular class. I enjoyed it and felt the other students were finally accepting of me. I wish I could go back to that age again to be Sofia's friend. growing up I had issues with social cues. I was also not seen as an equal in the classroom by a lot of my peers. idk why. but I definitely wanted a friend like Sofia. someone who is nice, friendly, respectful, and non-judgmental.

[@maddieebobaddiee]

I was in special ed classes too and I felt isolated because my mainstream friends would talk about their teachers and I was just like “oh, okay” and not really be in the conversation 😔 I was in it for math up to 8th grade and english until I graduated from high school. My mom asked them numerous times about moving me to all mainstream but they said no 🤥 idk why but whatever lol it doesn’t matter now at all I recently graduated from nursing school in May 2021 and now I’m working as a RN :) it does not matter that you were special ed, you just have to work hard and know what you want in life ♥️

[@esquemaux]

She’s just beyond her time. If she’s struggling now, I feel like she’ll thrive when she’s an adult. She’s authentic and beautiful.

[@MarkTheMagnificent]

This is a level of emotional intelligence and awareness that I can only dream of. What a wonderful girl. I hope she's doing great.

[@eggbun1856]

DAMN Sofia's emotional intelligence is off the freaking charts!!! wow I feel like she would be a fantastic therapist or social worker or teacher

[@Uthorous]

That's thinking too small, she is destined for greater things I believe.

[@trishf7529]

She is truly remarkable! Smart, well-spoken, empathetic. Her vocabulary is so high-level. What a tremendously beautiful young lady. Sofia, keep smiling and know how special you are.

[@maxbrister9777]

I dont think ive ever been more enamoured and fascinated from hearing someone speak. Shes is so emotionally articulate in a way i could never be. God bless her and her family

[@miriammi3325]

Sofia, I dont speak english well. I am from Brazil. But i would like to say that you are very inteligent and kind! You are an inspiration

[@lildafodil1577]

Sofia is such a bright, warm and lovely person!

[@maybeimbiased]

What she said about her friends saying they were busy but in fact were hanging out has definitely happened to me during my teenage years. And I imagine it has happened to many other people, too! Being a teenager can be hard, man.

[@dunkagamingTV1226]

I've been there before too, it was never a great moment for me

[@chocobro3198]

This still happens in adulthood too. And I mean, I've been on the receiving end of that too and yeah, it kinda hurts, but technically, hanging out with certain friends does also entail being busy. A person is entitled to spend their own free time how they desire. They should not ever be obliged to always include every one of their friends in all they do. I used to have one friend who always stuck to me like superglue and I sometimes just wanted to spend time with another friend/some other friends without this person, too. Because, well, it's a way different vibe and focus then that I/we also liked to experience from time to time. It doesn't mean I didn't like this other friend though. Also, we don't know the reason behind why they done it in her case. Yes, she seems wonderful, but we don't know if she isn't rather emotionally taxing to deal with and/or clingy or anything. I've been friends with special needs people and sometimes you really do need to take a breather and spend time with other people without that person around to recharge, you know? I once suffered an empathy burnout because I didn't, and you don't wanna go through that trust me. Additionally, it's hard to like, communicate to them that you do need some space from them from time to time, especially when they are extra sensitive, because you don't wanna hurt their feelings. But you also gotta look out for yourself. Can't take good care of others if you don't take care of yourself. Gotta give love and attention from your bounty, not your reserves. Learned that the hard way.

[@nikicarrie4071]

❤

[@TheNaturalMo]

She’s EXTRAORDINARY! Her family raised a wonderful human being and I wish there were more of her in this world.

[@sare2007]

She is so gorgeous with a heart of gold. Love hearing her talk and would be friends with her in a heart beat 🙏✨️

[@AutisticBarbie]

I'm autistic and a lot of people have told me I have William's Syndrome over the years. Watching this makes me understand that this is such a compliment. What a beautiful and powerful young lady. Keep winning!!!

[@MichaelLieser-ig1bp]

Your beautiful i have a learning disability can’t help the way I was born

[@jbullthekingofentertainment]

Hi I have autism too and I’m really talented I can dance can’t sing lol I can do stop motion make animations I’m a really good artist I’m smart funny nice and i don’t know much about willam syndrome but i can tell they are really special people like this girl especially Sophia in the video 😉😁🙏🏿❤️

[@AutisticBarbie]

for sure! It would be cool if you had a youtube or tik tok with your animations :)@@jbullthekingofentertainment

[@AutisticBarbie]

@@jennifervp4208 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@devra7782]

Sofia, you quoted Beyoncé in your interview, love Taylor Swift, and are brilliant. I myself have OCD and anxiety and my three year old daughter has Williams Syndrome! So we’re peas in a pod! What a magnificent person you are 🥰 thanks for sharing your wonderful set with the world.

[@cosmicmoonpie1857]

i celebrate u !💞🤗🙏😆

[@courtneyr214]

Williams Syndrome really is a blessing! My god daughter who unfortunately passed very young (6 years old) had WS and she was such a little angel! Always happy and always so curious and open hearted. I miss her very much and I love hearing about other children who have it. It makes me feel a little closer to her and who she could’ve been.

[@luffywrld999]

Wow. I am speechless on how emotional mature this young woman is! She understands Life better than most people on earth & hearing how she learned to control her anxiety helps me so much with my own! Sofia, i really think youre a wonderful person & your pretty sharp in the ways u think about certain topics! If u see this, sending u big Love from Germany! Hope u do fine! ❤❤

[@libbyt2581]

This girl is so emotionally intelligent and articulate. I had never considered how lonely and isolating it might be to be in a special education class but she explained it well. This video made my day and I think she has a lot of friends here on this channel 💜

[@trmp9923]

She has amazing social skills.. as someone with aspergers I can't relate. Lol. But good for her.

[@libbyt2581]

@@trmp9923 i had a friend with Aspergers a few years ago when I was at university and they were actually wonderful to socialise with, especially compared to some of our peers; socialising with the others in our circle felt convoluted but quite boring, whereas I found my friend was always to the point yet had real genuine interests. Just my experience but it was refreshing and they were great to be around :)

[@trmp9923]

@@libbyt2581 yea it's a hit or miss.. I've noticed that people either love me or hate my guts... Not a lot of "in-betweeners"... It's still always traumatic when someone starts bullying me and I don't know what I did wrong etc...or where it's coming from

[@libbyt2581]

@@trmp9923 I'm sorry that you have to deal with that. It's pretty senseless, I know it's easier to say it than to believe it in the moment but I highly doubt you're doing anything wrong. People are shitty and close minded 😑

[@lovingmayberry307]

@@trmp9923 You probably didn't do anything wrong! There are just a lot of hateful ppl out there! Their problem, not yours!

[@lildafodil1577]

Sofia. I also have ADHD, and social anxiety. What you said about your friends really touched me because I was just like you when I was in high-school. My "friends" at the time treated me the same way and would often hang out without me. It had a huge affect on me. Now I'm almost 30 years old and it has stuck with me. Even tho I'm now with genuine friends it's still a worry of mine. Please don't give up hope Sofia, I promise you that when you get a little older you will find these genuine connections you are seeking, because you are genuine and kind person and you will attract those same qualities back to you. Please take it easy and remember you are not alone in this world and in your experiences. Take care Sofia we are all so proud of you.

[@Fragrantbeard]

Well said!

[@mrsmack5808]

She is so beautiful and sweet. It's a shame that so many people are mean and don't want to be her friend but it's totally their loss.

[@lizc9326]

Sophia - you are everything that is right with planet earth. You are incredibly emotionally intelligent and articulate, and as you grow older, I know others will start to really see you for the unique and truly incredibly eloquent and caring and beautiful girl that you are. Some kids your age not have the emotional intelligence themselves yet to really see other people - many adults I know haven't even attained the level of self awareness you seem to possess! You are an incredible and unique addition to this world, and I know that the older you get, the more people you will meet who will see what we all see in this interview. Any human on the planet would be incredibly lucky to have a friend like you. You are so genuine and caring and remarkably bright. Thank you for sharing your story! Keep shining sweet girl ❤

[@claramarie7923]

Sofia: As someone who also struggles with OCD and anxiety, I’m amazed by the confidence and poise you show. I know it can be really, really hard sometimes, but know there are so many people out there who would love to have you as a friend, and you’ll find them.

[@BinniesDwaekki143]

Wow. I almost have no words. I feel like she just explained everything twice as well as I wish I could. She is so intelligent, so eloquent, and so well-spoken. I think EVERYONE needs to watch this interview because they could learn a lot from her. The world needs more people exactly like her.

[@1337flight]

twice... not half

[@BinniesDwaekki143]

@@1337flight edited. Thank you.

[@saml4004]

I don’t think I have ever met an 18 year old with such a high emotional intelligence or who can articulate their thoughts and feelings so well. What an honor it would be to be your friend and to know you. I hope you never stop expressing yourself and being the genuine person you so clearly are. Thank you for your interview and helping make the world a better place!

[@mugsydee149]

The number of times my eyes welled up watching this video.... Sofia you are wonderful! You are an incredible light in the world. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@LovedByDax]

I have an almost 60-year-old aunt with Williams Syndrome, and the similarities are incredible. I wasn't around when she was young, of course, but I imagine she was a lot like Sofia, and her personality hasn't changed a bit! She's sort of "stuck" in the 70s because she will always love the music and TV from her high school years. She is the kindest person I know and also has the best memory of anyone I've met. Her high-level vocabulary can often disguise her cognitive difficulties, even with those who know her well.

[@courtneyr214]

Wow I love that you shared that! My god daughters had Williams Syndrome (she passed away very young) and I absolutely love hearing about people with WS of all ages. I like to imagine her as a teenager or an adult and what she would be like. So I appreciate you sharing this.

[@LovedByDax]

@@courtneyr214 So sorry to hear about your God daughter. My boyfriend also has a cousin with Williams Syndrome in his 30s. I knew right away upon meeting him due to their distinctive traits. He and my aunt couldn't look more different, and yet they are so similar in other ways. They are truly special people, more loving and joyous than anyone.

[@N4t_____]

I truly believe that she is incredible smart. It's sad that some people don't see her value, the world needs more humans like her.

[@barneyronnie]

Amen.

[@nataliemarie8005]

I could only DREAM of having a friend like her, wow. Such a precious individual.

[@andrewrosales9972]

Agreed, she's one of a kind.

[@MickeyDJ1]

Totally agree also! 😊

[@jamesian-allen8725]

One would be very lucky to have a friend like her b/c she is truly an earth angel.

[@johnnysanchez4456]

Love this Guy and his videos! Sofia is super intelligent and well spoken! Bullies are missing out on all the beautiful light Dfua carries!

[@rainingonyourcharade]

My goodness! I’m not even five minutes in, and I’m already jealous of those who know or are friends with Sofia. What a genuinely kind person she is and a true gem to this world. I love you, Sofia! 💜 💜

[@SilasHemmingway]

Anyone who doesn't see the value of a friendship with her is blind. She's the kindest and most well-spoken person I've seen in some time. Bullies will get theirs not long after high school ends, and she'll be thriving. Watch as it happens. She's on her way. 🤘🙃🤘

[@symbioticparasite6268]

She is better in opening up and talking about emotions than most "normal" people do..... I Love it ❤️

[@chrisstvrn]

she’s absolutely stunning and the way she speaks is amazing. If we were friends, I would hang out with her everyday.

[@wendylaura4977]

I wish that there was someone like Sophia when I was a teenager- because I would have been her friend. I felt very alone due to my anxiety, depression and bipolar and I think that Sophia would understand perfectly. I hope she realizes that she is an beautiful and phenomenal human being.