When your son is 40 and has autism - and you're getting on in age

Duane Goh has autism and is 40 years old. And while raising Duane has had its challenges, his parents, now 74, have bigger concerns about what will happen to him after they die.
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[@helenahooley2076]

his mother looks amazing for 74! she looks around 60

[@zsazsadhysha2098]

yeah I was looking for this comment. they look like in their 60

[@bellakatherman1477]

Helena Hooley it’s those Asian genes!! I think their diet is a factor also.

[@ibrahims754]

Naah looks 55!!

[@elita7938]

true...

[@gwenstacyk9881]

Helena Hooley woot shes 74?? Look like 54 to me like fr!

[@jasont832]

His parents are in their 70's? They look WAY younger than that!

[@workhardplayhard13]

asians

[@FazzyKVlogs]

@@workhardplayhard13 lol

[@noneofyourbuizness]

true that asian have beautiful skin they eat lots of veggies

[@npcimknot958]

Their purity kept them young.

[@hoomanbeing9075]

Oriental people don't age so much...so a 75 year old can look say 62 ....

[@notfelix1477]

The father looked devastated while talking about the bads. But then his eyes lit up when he started to talk about the good. Very sweet

[@Fredrikbb]

But people in America think Autism and ADHD is a superpower though ^^

[@marozim]

222

[@notfelix1477]

@@user-uz6bu7tq3h Right. I'm a doctor and I'm happy for you.

[@deepbrit]

Everyone who had a kis with birth defect went through this devastating experience

[@christopher9727]

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[@itr0863]

"thats the beauty about my boy" . hit me in the feels. i'm 41 with a 6 yr old boy. makes me tear up watching this video. these parents are golden.

[@cedarwho7]

Mine is 18 now, it will get so so hard during puberty but then it gets better, day by day, slowly, it will be the best it's been. ❤

[@ryebread105]

I’m also 41 with a 6 year old boy with autism. He’s non-verbal as well. I love him so much but I worry about his future. I pray to God for a miracle everyday.

[@InsidePlay2023]

my gorgeous, naughty and loving boy just turned 5 months old. he's the reason why I love to live long

[@spaghettiking7312]

My mom was in the same situation when she had me. She's in her 60s now. I worry about my future, but I hope I can be useful.

[@Myuunium]

@@ryebread105 Alongside praying, take the time to learn about autism and how to deal with it. Learn this from the side of the parent as well as the side of the one with autism so that you can give help and tips that are specific for those circumstances. I was 6 when I was diagnosed with autism and I never received the help I needed, but you can still give your kid a good life if you prep right.

[@leehyunsong7001]

You cannot miss the parents love in this video

[@davidsbookcase]

Indeed, their love is so very strong.

[@j.i.s.l178]

🍿

[@kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934]

Arthur C so touching how much they care

[@Brandonhayhew]

If he was born in a third world country he would have been treated badly like an animal

[@leehyunsong7001]

books from Windblown dudu singapore was a third world country 40 years ago

[@dietbleach9362]

"There is nothing wrong with him. He is only special" Words of a beloved mother.

[@jacobstaton99]

Mansour Killuminati 101 Can you cite your sources? If not, please retract your idiotic statement

[@nathanbrennan1403]

Mansour Killuminati 101 please tell me your joking man

[@alegria1813]

@@K1llum1nati Oh Lord

[@toxic_manny2566]

Mansour Killuminati 101 ok Karen

[@sethkx1259]

We're all different some more then others but treat everyone with respect my mom was disappointed in me when I was harsh on an ass whole kid she told me she knows it hard but just be nice and good stuff will come

[@sidneyboo9704]

These parents are beyond their time. I love how they said they cannot expect the siblings to take care of him because they dont want to stress the other kids out. Appreciate that so much.

[@moosepatil5946]

Why do you appreciate that? That his siblings won't help is not a good thing. You really think workers will treat him as good😂 His quality of life will free fall and if God is good, he will follow his parents shortly afterward. If not, then he will be neglected and given rudimentary care until he dies....that God his siblings don't have to help.🙄😒

[@jiaminsee283]

@@moosepatil5946 You clearly don't have any empathy for the siblings then. They didn't choose to be born into a family with an autistic sibling. The expectation on them would mean they lose their right to live their own lives to the fullest. How do you know if they don't check in on him at all?

[@moosepatil5946]

@jiaminsee283 So what. They are a part of the family. No one gets to choose their family, but if he was more able bodied, they would find a way to help. But because he requires a higher level of care, his siblings get to opt out? Shut up, your empathy is exclusively for the siblings and not this man who will not have a quality life once his parents die. His parents did it for 40 years, and his siblings can figure out how to help him, for his end of life care.

[@jiaminsee283]

​@@moosepatil5946 I empathise with everyone. And if he were more able bodied, they further wouldn't have the obligation to put him before themselves. I voice out for the siblings because they are almost always expected to take full responsibility and care for their disabled sibling to the point, they prioritise the sibling before themselves. Which isn't wrong, but so sacrificial. I hope siblings who see this video and stumble upon this comment, realise that their willingness to help care for their disabled sibling is a very admirable and selfless act, not obligatory.

[@user-kb7sl6cz6s]

@@moosepatil5946They didn’t say the siblings aren’t willing to help. They just see it as their job as parents for as long as possible.

[@BigDaddyInfinite]

As a high functioning autistic, this really hits close to home. I'm so glad that he has parents that understand his struggles and care so much for him. I know he loves that deeply even if he can't put it in the right words.

[@cassiusnoyb6499]

As someone with high functioning autism as well i would say his struggle is much greater than ours. I would say that its nowhere close to home. Don't be a drama queen.

[@BigDaddyInfinite]

@@cassiusnoyb6499 Wow, way to discredit another person's situation without getting to know them.

[@nafisaanees7192]

Well I'm really glad u both high functioning autism PPL r arguing ..n keeping ur view points...my 3 yr old son is autistic

[@ahn0x]

@@cassiusnoyb6499 You speak with good intentions for Duane, but not for other autistic ppl? All our suffering is personal and deep, policing it is pointless. If you have nothing positive to say, perhaps it would be better to say nothing at all.

[@foggy922]

@@ahn0x Both positive and negative opinions are required for healthy communication. Do not tell people to refrain from expressing negative thoughts. They have every right to say and continue speaking in their own way, just as you have the right to speak in yours.

[@h.fontanez5453]

''He never complains, that's the beauty about my boy''. I'll say he never complains because he sees the beauty in his parents and he's always thankful of having them.

[@AttitudeIndicator]

Probably not

[@saarahali2468]

Definitely

[@ae.r3704]

That is better than having a normal perfect child but dump their parents, ignorant-pig and never appreciate.

[@jadon7878]

@@AttitudeIndicator there's always that type of guy in the comments

[@HiyoruMikiyazoya]

I'm a 6'4" 230 lbs man estranged from my family and children... The love this man has for his boy just made me cry. I miss my family.

[@benjet9728]

Duane parents are the real life heroes,not the celebrities in the movies.

[@polmak1507]

Agreed so much

[@ArtSmosh1274]

Movies is not real

[@sanakiyamam1987]

ben jet most of the celebrities just care about the money and make much much more money. most of them don't care about the people.

[@sanakiyamam1987]

Art Smosh most of the movies are so fake. The love stories in those movies are soooo unreal.

[@chemicalcabbage]

@@sanakiyamam1987 most people care about money.

[@TY00000]

Him helping his Mom walk and protecting her was so sweet.

[@FishStickz93]

@@Rexorcist the hell is wrong with you? 🤦‍♂

[@1andOnlyKB]

​@@Rexorcist we will find your exact location through the ping off your phone or the VPN from your computer, my agents report back to their offices Monday morning, good luck

[@Rexorcist]

@1andOnlyKB hahahah shut up and touch grass, bro said "my agents" looooool, typical no lifer

[@Thaumazo]

@@Rexorcist Damn,you're so cool bro. I wonder if your mom should've done the same.

[@claudiatapia8310]

Yes, it brings tears to my eyes, a beautiful human being

[@NouraZahle]

“That’s the beauty about my boy,” from the father. “It’s good for us,” from the son. “In my old age, it’s a joy to have a son like him,” the father. The mother respecting that the siblings have their own path and recognizing an autistic adult is very difficult to care for, and making sure she has contingencies so her son can have the best options. So absolutely touching and beautiful.

[@ReactionTherapyWithBiggClay]

“We spent thousands of dollars on medical bills, and a $8 movie told us what he had” - WOW!

[@alishathehistorynerd9726]

Reaction Therapy that’s how I felt after watching “A Beautiful Mind.” When you realize your 8 year old child isn’t autistic, rather schizophrenic.

[@alishathehistorynerd9726]

HZB OcYpcWr'Ctwu Odzs when you child is 8, non verbal, diagnosed with autism by a doctor.... and schizophrenia has very similar behaviorisms in children, it’s nearly impossible to diagnose. It’s considered an adult illness as it’s extremely rare in children. Since only 1:40,000 kids have it... yeah, I’m a vegetable. But you are an ignorant a$$hole.

[@asmaa9195]

@@alishathehistorynerd9726 Ignore the rude comments I wish your child lives happily and prosperous 🌷

[@alishathehistorynerd9726]

Asma a, I will try & thank you for your good vibes. I take it personally when people are negative & make assumptions, I need to rise above.

[@ayuabdullah5257]

That explain that Spore doctors are rubbish... haha... they cant diagnose autism... I got auti immune disease... and been in and out hospital and doctors said nothing wrong with me... they even assume I am crazy and started to assume I have anxiety... then one day go to a gp... and then he finally identified my illness and give me proper medication...

[@aymoon1539]

"he never complains. Thats the beauty of my boy" that hit me hard

[@thisistheaccountname]

He may not complain vocally, but who knows if he is complaining internally.

[@Ryuken2721]

Oh boy!

[@EaZiE01]

@@supplantermusic9413 Believe in Jesus, but don't be mislead. He isn't coming back. If you think he is coming back you missed his prophecy of the new age. You are waiting for something he has already done. I appreciate your zeal. Peace

[@user-tr7kj1cs9k]

Svpplanter Music huh can jesus stop covid ?

[@user-tr7kj1cs9k]

EaZiE01 siao de la!! This kind of ppl..make me laugh

[@Mike-or2cv]

This is how every parent should be. They should love their child unconditionally. Fantastic people. Bless that family.

[@brianmeen2158]

One question: should a parent still love their child if he goes on a killing spree and murders 10 people? It’s an extreme example but I had to ask . I wonder if Ted Bundys mother still Loved him after all was said and done?

[@Mike-or2cv]

@@brianmeen2158 Yeah, that's questionable I think...

[@Peacock__]

​@@pristinejoel8802 stop looking for an easy fix. Youre just stuffing random worthless crap into your kid and projecting all of the improvements onto whatever woo woo bunk science random people are telling you.

[@wafflemation6887]

@@Mike-or2cvunconditional love is unconditional.

[@followhim.8543]

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[@personareference3825]

My twin brother is autistic and I’m so scared of what happens once my parents pass away. Watching videos like this makes me feel a lot less alone and hopeful for the future. What a beautiful family.

[@RDd188]

You r their right, look after your brother. Life is short make it beautiful. Lots of love to your brother.

[@JayaTaj-zh5cp]

I'm with you I worry about my Brother if my parents pass away it's 😢

[@JayaTaj-zh5cp]

My brother is exactly the same as this 40 year old man

[@kyongu375]

I love persona haha. Make the most of it with your brother and im sure your parents dont want to burden you to care for him, but i do hope the best for yall

[@uwayezumariegrace7729]

​​@@JayaTaj-zh5cpyou, be there for your broyher, nownand after. Is scarry but do what you can

[@rebeccaoprea9917]

When the dad said it’s a privilege to have a son like him in his old age 😢

[@kjthekunoichi]

Yup.... for us to reflect too: are we ourselves good to our loved ones/the ppl ard us? Are we complaining abt the things that we alr have?😐😐

[@rebeccaoprea9917]

kj yes we all take things for granted . God help us .

[@kjthekunoichi]

@@rebeccaoprea9917 😔😔

[@tblk1860]

Dad is awesome, mom, something to be desired!

[@Razrai-bn8vf]

Even the so called healthy are not staying with their parents in their old age, some are even abandoning the old who really need help. All they wanted is to be around their loved ones when they are old and vulnerable.

[@ElMencho.]

“The best part is he doesn’t complain. He never complains- thats the beauty about my boy” Great father 😢🙏🏽

[@gingerbread1032]

G Ramos Why complain when everything is done for you.

[@renatadecarvalho7844]

ginger bread because he can’t do on his own, you won’t understand, you are not on his shoes.

[@heatherclark6268]

They said he does a lot himself

[@kitshelton8168]

Proud father

[@petarcosic2781]

CCP developed good business on selling organs to whole world(only 2-3 weeks waiting,watch China Uncensored and Serpenza channels).CCP western ideology for enslaving people and is above government,has no elections,NO SEXUAL HARASSMENT LAWS etc.1.) Geopoliticalfutures article:"The World Bank began tracking poverty in China in 1981. In that year, 88.3 percent of China’s population lived on less than $1.90 a day (roughly 870 million people). Push the threshold up a little bit and poverty in China was even more striking: 99.1 percent of China’s population lived on less than $3.10 a day (over 980 million people). The last year for which the World Bank has official data is 2010, and the transformation, as you can see in the line graph above, is extraordinary. In 2010, only 11.2 percent (almost 150 million people) lived on less than $1.90 a day. Not shown above is that 27.2 percent (almost 360 million people) lived on less than $3.10 a day. However, the problem with these data sets should already be clear. If you factor in population growth, you can make the claim that China has lifted 800 million people out of poverty if you define poverty as living on less than $1.90 or $3.10 a day. This doesn’t say anything about how well those lifted out of poverty are doing. A rural household living on $1.91 a day by this standard wouldn’t be counted as suffering from extreme poverty, even though by any objective measure a household earning that much on an annual basis would be cripplingly poor."... 2.)Telegraph.UK:" 1978, nine out of 10 people in China’s population of a billion were struggling to survive on an income below the “extreme poverty line”, set by the World Bank at just under $2 a day. Today, the pyramid has been flipped on its head. As a result, almost all the more than 1.3 billion individuals who previously would have spent most of their life hungry have doubled their calorie intake"...(notice the change from numbers to calories,while not mentioning that chinese are slaves now for 6 billion people,but get only double the calories).5 DEMANDS! St.Francis Xavier pray for us!

[@crazzynez]

"In my old age it is a joy to have a son like him" I got tears when the father said that. There is something so beautiful and pure about his son. He has many things he struggles with, but love and loyalty transcend everything. he is a good son and a great family.

[@justapervert300]

The moment she said "how can i burden his siblings to take care of him" shows how much of a good mother is She equally cared for everyone That's a beauty of a mom

[@marieboutin9054]

I don't agree. Duane's siblings should help. Otherwise it means they are very selfish people. That's the case in my family. Since my parents died, I have been left alone, coping alone with my depression by my mean, nasty sisters. I don't understand Duane's mother. I prefer his father who seems tender with him.Duane is not such an autistic case. He copes, I mean, he goes out on his own, attends a centre, does work there, gardening and does the laundry at his parents home. What else does the mother expect ? It is already pretty good.

[@justapervert300]

@@marieboutin9054 wat i meant is her mother thinks equally of everyone Not commenting on she should ask them to care about him or not But yea i do believe his siblings should help him

[@rachelciel3330]

@@marieboutin9054 I mean, I don't know the whole thing. But the meanest thing you siblings could do to a depressed you is not leaving you alone. If you're an adult and everybody is an adult, you're responsible of yourself. Your sisters have their own lives, they might not be able to check on your depressed self. You need to stand up by yourself and stop blaming other people. They who blame others will never get there. They who blame themselves is halfway there. They who blame no one is already there. So pick yourself up without relying on anybody and especially blaming them for your problem. And who are you to judge his mother? Are you him? Do you know how much she had done for him for the past 40 years? Sorry, you're not that much different of the description of being "mean." You know nothing and already compare people. Truly disgraceful.

[@brandiphillips5775]

@@apebass2215 Wow! Insulting a person who is struggling with mental illness. That's disgusting.

[@brandiphillips5775]

@@rachelciel3330 Obviously the guys is struggling and feels abandoned. So just criticize him, that'll help. You're gross.

[@ryanhinga424]

Damn. Her 40 year old son throws a tantrum in public and first thought is to yell out "There's nothing wrong with him!". She really is the best mother ever

[@lazlobeats8236]

Yes that really impressed me as well! Very strong willed woman. I wish I had the courage to act like that.

[@houzeng4656]

I’m pretty sure he was younger that time, since they saw autism wasn’t part of the vocabulary. But still, these parents are heroes.

[@KennyGuite]

@@houzeng4656 bruh, we watched this I guess at the same time... your comment was just a minute ago

[@almeriaalien]

@@KennyGuite no he meant that, yhe mother was tellig us the story about him when he was a kid

[@lagann8276]

@@KennyGuite :/

[@lnicko]

He's extremely self sufficient, the parents have done a fantastic job!!

[@r300zxsupras200]

It is a joy to have a son like him..... that is love in its purest form

[@luvurself6356]

v

[@0pyourk0]

When a old man call his 40 years old son "my boy", you know that is LOVE

[@bananajoe9951]

Yes, what a treasure his father is. This is the meaning of being a good father. It makes me want to be the best dad I can be. There's just something about seeing my 2 year old son light up like fireworks when I get home from work.

[@neutronsmash1132]

Thanks for pointing out the obvious. I bet you think it’s the taking part that counts and not the winning, right!?

[@soxnation1000]

@skOsH I'm sorry about what you're going through. It's amazing how different ppl can be. Some fathers help their children cope with difficult health problems. Other fathers have totally healthy children and mistreat them. But even so, you have the power to choose to not let your father's actions determine your future, because then you are allowing him to continue hurting you.

[@medicgaming101]

You know that is a zelda reference too

[@liebe1099]

That's probably most fathers

[@mikeyseo]

"Lord. You gave him to me. Please help me." If only all parents would love like they love.

[@lendzemojoachimkimeng1318]

Facts

[@rebecca5521]

Pritam Das you know what he meant...

[@muhammadmuadzrosli2631]

@@PritamDas_26 stupid atheist

[@d.c7138]

Mr. Nobody Don’t call someone stupid because of their religious beliefs. It’s people like you that put a bad light on your religion.

[@walnut5203]

El Flamel that’s true

[@jwhitevlogs3596]

I have high functioning autism and this connected with me very well. I have high functioning so I don’t have noticeable autism unless people ask me, but socializing has been very difficult. In high school, A lot of people thought I was weird because of my obsession over certain topics and me blurting out random thoughts as a result of my autism. I love seeing videos like this, as it makes me realize that autism awareness is becoming more widespread.

[@BansheeN0rn]

I dunno if i have high function autism like you but i feel like im a little bit more towards the middle of the spectrum. I got thru high school had no friends because its hard to socialize and couldnt go to college cause i couldnt keep up no matter how much i tried. No friends caused me depression which led to diabetes. Then i tried to work but its really awkward when you have to socialize to sell to them and i just couldnt do it so i been unemployed the last 13 yrs. Cant ask for help thru the government because so many people faking it that its screening process takes forever. I know that there are autistic ppl on the lower spectrum worse than me and then theres ppl on the higher end who can maintain their lives and can hold a job. Then theres me in the middle.. ive thought about suicide so many times i just dont know how to live..

[@Slothups]

Don't end your life, I have aspeger's or high functioning autism because asperger's is no longer used as a diagnosis, and I've thought about it many many times. It's never worth it, reach out to me by replying if you want to talk, take care! @@BansheeN0rn

[@streamspoart2671]

"there is nothing wrong with him!" Very powerful word from a mother to protect her son

[@Legendary-zh9hd]

lol everything is wrong with him.

[@tonberryking7836]

​@@Legendary-zh9hd I think there's something wrong with you to drop a comment like that, I would wager $500 that says you don't have a SO to wake up to in the morning. Sad really.

[@chacha-realrealsmooth]

@@Legendary-zh9hd everything is wrong with you

[@stanleytran7044]

​@@Legendary-zh9hdAGREE PEOPLE SAY HIS NON VERBAL HIS NOTHING BUT VERBAL HAHA

[@sunny-tn1ix]

“It’s a joy to have a son like him.” Only people like these parents should become parents.

[@torbenhinkel2122]

Very true!

[@rdjb9650]

Well said.

[@nguyenthanhat1147]

Agree

[@jo_verabradleyfan4743]

That was a beautiful moment. Yes, if only all parents were like these lovely parents. 😔

[@hightiergamer5558]

think about what you just said

[@anpham605]

My mother is a swimming instructer and has taught quite a few kids with autism. She always talk, interact and tell the whole class to interact with these autistic kids in the most normal way. It was incredible to see the kids' improvement result from love, friendship and fun sport activities.

[@ChassityNOubre_88]

OMG, He's so blessed to have parents like this. I wish everyone with a disability had parents like them. I pray they can find the perfect long term care for him for his future. Thank you for sharing Duane's story 🙏🏼❤ P.S. Mum & Pops look great for over 70s.

[@marwaamoradi4979]

“In my old age, it is a joy to have a son like him” wow parents are certainly a treasure may god give them long life and help there son

[@tam1729]

Marwaa Moradi Amen

[@BenbenPiano]

Amin

[@lighthousesniper124]

Amen bro, amen

[@hugge4261]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@infoforanything6496]

Their *

[@ss11111ss]

seen a lot of homeless people like this who are just left to fend for themselves.

[@jamiewilliams4752]

s lol there just junkies that smoke crack

[@anthonyf.3009]

There was a study that searched what homeless people did with the money. It found the more rich you are, the more drugs and smoking you do. There are outliers though. The lazy drunk homeless person is a stereotype

[@turtleextra4128]

@ZenPhilosopher123 autism, not retardation that word is offensive to autistic people

[@danbenson5147]

@ZenPhilosopher123 I have autism and I used to use heroin. My life is a living hell everyday I struggle but the drugs made it worse. Glad I'm sober now but unfortunately I cant stop being autistic. It hurts so much to know that im different then everyone else and to be reminded by everyone I meet. I wish I could make friends and be someone but that is just not what people like me are destined for :(

[@heidiullman1571]

@@danbenson5147 I really hope you know that you are loved and appreciated as you are. As someone who has been around people on the spectrum from a very early age, I understand it's hard for you, but some of my best friends are autistic. Be proud of what you've overcome and always remember your life, as any other, is unique and worthwhile.

[@survivingitall5263]

My son and 80% of the kids at his school (for autism) ALL have the same exact WALK as Duane. I love it. It's purposeful and deliberate and I smile every day I drop my son at high school.

[@thefatherinthecave943]

They got places to be, that’s what the walk says to me atleast

[@michaelschuett]

I’m 45 and my son is 13 with autism, on the high end of the spectrum. He’s nonverbal and is still in pull-ups. Sometimes I worry about the future, but god helps those who help themselves. I love him more than life itself and all you can do is keep pushing forward.

[@mathewjudka3000]

They're 70? They both don't look a day over 50.

[@ramsy4205]

Fish and meat 💪

[@Senpenjamin]

Asian people for u

[@doginabox9621]

@@ramsy4205 and vegetables

[@darren2509]

Asian no raisin

[@tamfat5891]

Asian genes 🧬

[@carmelguinev]

when his mom said "There is nothing wrong with him, he's only special" in public and cried. This is so sad😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@Reggieincontrol]

I know. She is a amazing mom 😭

[@carmelguinev]

@@Reggieincontrol yup, she is😭👍🏼

[@keeskoekert6358]

But there is much wrong with him, thats a harsh fact and needed too get him the help he needs.

[@thekinghmimidou7001]

Kees Koekert cause spending hour with psychiatrist and taking medication is help

[@mariahpocahontas4751]

...'yes, those " curious" eyes😌😌😌😌

[@sublimeqt420]

Hearing the father saying my boy, you can just hear the love and compassion in his voice. Such lovely people.

[@adyanto4043]

"In my old age it is a joy to have a son like him." We can't be perfect but I think he is better than many of us, this statement certainly proves that.

[@Jauphrey]

Videos like this help me so much as an outsider. My neighbor has a son with ASD similar in nature to Duane. When I first moved in they invited me over to his birthday and it was clear they were attempting to connect as he frequently goes outside to vocalize--yell, sing, etc.--and I'm sure it's not the easiest conversation to have with a neighbor. He's a good kid. I'm not saying that because it's he has ASD and he automatically gets a pass or something. He happens to be loud and disruptive, sure, but that doesn't take away from the fact that he's good. Living next to him has made me really evaluate how I look at others. I don't have to like when he's outside being loud, and frankly it's not my responsibility as a stranger to tolerate it. But I'm honored and humbled that I get to, because it's shaped me in ways that has tangibly improved my quality of life. I'm a decent guy, but I'm no saint. Accepting my neighbor's kid doesn't make me a good person. Rather, how the parents look at him is, in a very minor way, how my neighbor is changing me. He's loud because it's comforting to him in a way I can't possibly empathize with, and I'm so happy to have him change my perspective on how to interact with others. Both those with ASD and without. Someone cuts me off in traffic? It's so hard to simply rage at that individual now. That's reckless and could harm themselves or others. Are they rushing to the hospital? Did they have a terrible day and aren't thinking straight? It's so hard now to assume everyone I meet is just some burden on my schedule. I don't have to excuse them, but I can try to understand. What does it cost me to do that much? I need videos like this because I have to give back to my neighbors. They know full well that I accept them and do not mind the noise--they have enough to worry about without having to constantly worry if I'm about to go rage on their son for interrupting me or something. But I can do more to help him feel like just another person in the world. Build a routine with a neighbor like anyone else. Wave when I'm gardening, smile when I see him...just be a neighbor to another neighbor. He's different in ways that are difficult for his family and others to tolerate, of course. But he's also forced me to build an empathy within myself--a whole aspect that I can be proud of--and that should be recognized too. I don't blame anyone that would be unable to tolerate this situation at all. But speaking solely for myself, it's been nice to accept that someone can be difficult and also good and beautiful. I mean, hell...I'm certain I'm a straight pain in the ass too, even if it's not as apparent.

[@KOOLIOO123456]

THE PARENTS ARE IN THEIR 70s?!? They look sooo youthful for their age!

[@oobibab9572]

Chinese people are like that. They look young despite of their age.

[@watermelonthesquidward6021]

The Boogeyman i mean most Asian people look younger than their age haha btw they’re korean

[@siiweeyy1321]

cus they asian

[@watermelonthesquidward6021]

Sehraad Ahmed ok i was talking about their ethnicity since i saw their names, clearly they speak with that accent since they are from Singapore. Being Singaporean is their nationality.

[@tonylee5222]

starrie chan serious question how are they korean? goh is a chinese last name no?

[@Ryanair671]

Damn...that hit deep 😭. "In my old age, it is a joy to have a son like him".

[@raniarazak7996]

I CRIED WHEN HE SAID THAT

[@jennifer9084]

😥😥😥😥

[@lovealwaysshalisha]

@@raniarazak7996 tears are falling from my eyes this very moment after hearing the Father say that 😢💖. Awesome Mom, Dad and Son !

[@azizahnur9194]

yea. since the son is always respect them, listening to them. thats what all parents need in their old age.

[@je3917]

That closing line was incredibly impactful. I felt same the as the OP.

[@syedkareem9248]

Seeing him do things on his own and making his parents happy made me emotional, you got this Duane ❤️

[@TrollsRUs]

Damn, this really hit me deep. I'm 40 and raising my 13 yr nephew with autism. He isn't as bad as their son, but there are times when Im racked with fear and anxiety about his future.

[@Beaneabean]

What happened to the parents

[@TrollsRUs]

@@Beaneabean dad is a dead beat and my sister started a new family.

[@Beaneabean]

@@TrollsRUs You sister’s a dead beat too then.

[@lindabidwell6722]

Me too. I am almost 70. My grandson has been with me all of his life. He will be 13 very soon. He is autistic.

[@KPR888]

As bad Bit rude lol

[@godallowsuturns679]

They are worried because they know how cruel society can be to special people.

[@Ghostkar]

like baby girls.

[@McSnezzly]

Please don’t say “special” it’s an incorrect term and autistic people don’t like it. Disabled is a perfectly fine word to use

[@GothicKittyMadness]

@@McSnezzly we don’t like being called disabled either.

[@damnfreakingsien]

@@McSnezzly the politically correct term is “people with special needs”. Calling someone disabled is extremely insulting and even worse than calling someone “special” imo.

[@khunagnes1364]

@@McSnezzly bruh chill it's as a courtesy to them, yes you can't call it special because it is a curse there is no denying in it but best keep it to yourself to be polite. For example we don't directly to a ugly person that they're ugly in public right? It's basic manners.

[@k.m.b969]

I hope that wherever he ends up he's treated with kindness, love and respect.

[@Gio-hj1qy]

Yes

[@tiffanioglen9659]

Sad part some will some wont....I work in a mental health department and some people treat the residents horribly

[@k.m.b969]

@@tiffanioglen9659 I hate to hear that but I don't doubt it for a second.

[@tiffanioglen9659]

@@k.m.b969 😥

[@KelvinOoooi]

Bro reading this comment almost makes me cry. Stay strong and live a happy life Duane!

[@jimdavidson3345]

Every child should have parents like these. I am not easily brought to tears but I was overwhelmed by these lovely people.

[@derekjones2835]

To all the parents whose children is autistic, i have the upmost respect to you all. It cannot be easy and i sincerely wish all of you the strength to handle every day and i also wish that you and your children have many happy memories. God bless 🙏🙏🙏

[@Ntsej_Muag]

I have two daughters who are autistic. I love them to the moon and back. Nothing will ever replace them.

[@derekjones2835]

@@Ntsej_Muag inspirational. I am sure every day is a challenge. Keep up the excellent work. Your girls are bkessed to have you and i am sure you feel the same 🙏🙏

[@The315fan]

That’s true, however, not all autistic people are low functioning like the man in this video. I just feel that too many (especially in the USA) still think that all autistic people are like that man.

[@derekjones2835]

@@The315fan fair point. Similar to how some think autistic children are 'less intelligent than their peers' when the opposite is in fact true.

[@foggy922]

Depends on the family. It's been relatively easy in my family, because most of us are autistic. That includes me, my sibling, my father, my grandmother, and probably individuals further back. It was actually the neurotypical ones in the family that were a struggle to deal with, and they oftentimes ended up getting rejected from the family for causing issues. Other families have an opposite story, but it varies. Same goes for families with ADHD, where it's usually the case that most immediate relatives don't have ADHD but almost half or a little less do, and so there's oftentimes a lot of conflict between the neurotypical parents of ADHD children and vice versa. Point is that it doesn't just go for families where autism is present, it becomes difficult for parents when their child has even the most common of neurological/neurodevelopmental/mental conditions. Whether it's autism, ADHD (or anything else), point still stands. Autism is not unique here.

[@michellep1555]

My only worry with having kids like this, is who will take care of him when parents are gone. Too many times i see people like him get mistreated at the clinic at old age. Very sad

[@flowerofash4439]

heart breaking to know what they will face in their life till their death without their parents

[@kalyangowda.s63]

I am worried too!

[@rayblack2004]

@@flowerofash4439 Everyone dies alone - that is the truth. It is sad but it is also a relief, as it means we all make the same journey.

[@redevous]

Riverdale tales lol

[@riverdaletales8457]

@@redevous it's true

[@sititango5397]

His father was so proud of him, its so heartwarming to see.

[@Tee_Wilson]

Yeah :)

[@adeelornodeal3696]

would you be aswell

[@SeanLaMontagne]

There's no telling how much struggle he has watched his son go through just to make it to today. I would be insanely proud of my son for making it that far in life with the world stacked against him.

[@Vanilove653]

Very true.:)

[@cryptoinsider9305]

How is Duane today? Is he Vaccinated? Is he wearing a mask? Is he doing well? what is the future plan for him in a HOME? New world Order dont allow that. death panel by Bill coming up 2030. THE GREAT RESET. What will happen? Continue our 100th Vaccination?

[@ValerianNnaemezie]

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

[@Nicoleniccypal]

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need

[@AnneRodrigo-fz6ks]

Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

[@Vuitton-uj1hz]

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

[@Nicoleniccypal]

Is he on instagram?

[@AnneRodrigo-fz6ks]

Yes, he is dr.porass

[@profatlas5079]

“That’s the beauty about my boy” ❤️🥺

[@pokadontus6040]

tttalisa Gs man that got me too

[@mr.kieren270]

"my old age, it's a joy to have a son like him"

[@angiegarner58]

That’s a fathers love❤️😊

[@Mothafuckenzay]

Yes he never complains 😭

[@yadah44]

I cried on that...

[@marukochan9163]

"I'm very worried about Duane's future when we are not here" 😢

[@ZRO95]

Yeah. Thats the sad and scary part 💔

[@Mrs.Fineapple]

It broke my heart to hear them say it would be a burden to ask the other siblings to care for him. I grew understanding that family is everything. If anyone of my siblings or parents suffered with a medical or mental health condition, it would be my honor to care for them as best as I can. I wish we all felt that way. Duane deserves to be around family and what’s familiar to him.

[@mauiwaui773]

@Fineapple Felicity it’s easier said then done. Trust me our hearts are in the right place but it’s the work that needs to be put in that’s the hard part. Sorry to seem negative but it’s the truth. I pray for this family and I hope that Gods mercy is upon this brother when the time comes for his parents to depart this earth.

[@ColaKhanable]

Fineapple Felicity my brother has severe form of autism. Chrome-some 2 deletion. He will never live by himself and he gets startled and agitated very quickly. Hes 14 now my mother is 45 she will be taking care of him until she dies. I asked her me being the oldest if shed want me to do it. She said she didnt want ti burden us with him that shed give him to her brother my uncle. Because to her thats her child she wants her children to live thier lives. Now of course id gladly take him but still you have to understand where the mother is coming from

[@mooki6580]

Thats my parents fear too. I have a 10 year old brother with autism, I know one day my parents wont be around anymore and he will be all that i will have left so I need to do good in life not just for my future but also his

[@mareezy]

What a wonderful mom. She makes me want to cry, as a mom myself, I know the deep deep love she has for her son. Omg when his dad said "my boy" ❤❤❤. One of the siblings should be lucky enough to care for him. I'd do it if I could. What a wonderful family. Proud mom and dad ❤❤❤❤. Did someone cut onions in here? 😭

[@chaolee9090]

Dad, “In my old age, it is a joy to have a son like him.” ❤❤❤

[@jeslyny9692]

Such lovely parents.They accepted him for who he is.

[@Addy-745]

I me me me me autistkk me me Mee haBe nO frinds na nathin. Me sleepy all day in room.

[@kimmyymmik]

Definitely those parents need an award. If I’m being honest I couldn’t have done it. Like at all.

[@spacepirate3391]

It's not like he chose to be that way.

[@boredweegie553]

Youre obviously not a parent or you'd know it's unconditional that's what a parent is.

[@kimmyymmik]

TheOtherWhiteBread0 there’s some parents who aren’t capable of doing that though, which is why adoption exists. So no just because you’re a parent doesn’t mean you can do that.

[@stevenlrussell]

Anyone who raises someone with autism is incredibly strong, especially when they do it alone.

[@divat10]

Tish is true^ My brother has autism there is also something with his nerves (he feels pain hot and cold things a lot less). He wants to eat way too mutch because he can't feel that he is full. So we restrict him on eating witch he doesn't like at all. But he also helps a lot around the house but that doesn't fill his day so he is bored all the time. Because of that he can be more difficult to handle. My mom and dad are doing their best they have 5 kids and are both working (part time and full time) If you ever see someone that looks or sounds weird or differend please consider they can't so anything about it and treat them with respect

[@plederfagella9774]

*My mom has entered the chat* my brother not me

[@NannaBharatha28]

Im mother of an autustic child. Believe me, im not strong. But the child makes me strong. No other go....😔😔😔😔😒😒😒😒

[@judithziants4204]

🖐 thank you! ❤

[@crazysusanaita619]

Yes

[@renae3857]

His parents are such good people and he seems like such a great guy himself

[@sharonelang6595]

Apologies if my comment doesn't seem relevant but I'm crying right now.....I'm 55 and I'm raising my beautiful daughter who will be turning 17 this year. She has a moderate intellectual disability and extreme generalized anxiety disorder as well as sensory processing disorder. She wasn't able to cope with school so she's been homeschooled. Every day is a challenge especially when she suffers from hormone disregulation.....we're having a challenging week currently because of her cycle and her discomfort and intense anxiety is hard to bear. Her younger sister is a literal Godsend and I'm blessed that they're very close. I worry about how her life when I'm gone....I wont be able to pass away peacefully knowing that she still needs me. I see people staring when we're out because she'll often hold my hand.....cant imagine what they're thinking. She's so precious and truly the most gentle person I've ever know. Yes she's special!!!! I applaud the strength and bravery of this man's loving Mum and Dad🙏

[@ME-cd3bs]

Look into a functional medicine doctor or naturopath. A lot of times these issues can stem from an unhealthy gut, poor diet (nutritional deficiencies), and an overactive mind. A behavioral therapist and meditation could be useful. I was diagnosed with adhd, GAD, and depression and nutritional therapy and working on gut health has been a game changer. I almost dropped out of high school I was so bad. I'm now in my mid 20s, own a house, am married with a dog, have 2 jobs, and am going to school. These issues are complicated but working with a professional (not a traditional MD) can help.

[@mis_majambe]

"My old age is a joy to have a son like him" that hit me hard. Edit: guys thanks for the many likes. Never had such

[@chirpnun]

someone decided to cut the onions at PRECISELY this point... strange.

[@sunshinemarie2703]

Same 💖

[@rebeccaoprea9917]

Majambe Blessing me too . That was my comment as well .

[@jackiemehoff8239]

Same. I never had a father. My whole life I always looked up to people who were dads and took care of their family. It’s a strange thought, I know but I just always looked up to people who were good dads

[@AC-iz7eh]

@@jackiemehoff8239 if that's so then you have to be a good parent to your children as well 👍🏻

[@Cabono31]

It's already very hard for a wealthy family. Imagine all the autistic people born in to low income families.

[@GabrielleTollerson]

that or families who wouldn't give a rats ass about their family member either way..it's sad

[@lilsnoopy90]

You mentioned a strong point

[@XvAstarisk]

Dark truth...

[@Arla934]

My brother in my family

[@TylerGatlin9297]

It’s the sad truth. Then when you go online to seek help that may not be in your area, nobody cares. They just pretend to.

[@whitetiger406]

People in the same situation understand this. I am no different. I can't stand to think about what will happen after we are gone. But my child is growing little by little, day by day. All I can do is to be there for him as much as possible, encourage his independence, and continue to love him so that he will never stop smiling. I hope that one day he will call me "Papa” !

[@patrickols]

This hit hard, my son is 7 and has autism. He is learning and is able to function up to a certain point but it’s clear that he will always be looked on by most people as different. I am here for him now but once I am gone I do worry that his life will be difficult, who will take care of him? He is such a sweet boy, not one mean bone in him, I always worry that people will try to take advantage of him. Both myself and my wife are doing our best to make sure he can learn as much as possible to have a wonderful life and a happy one

[@lgravelle4182]

Imagine if we all had parents like these?!!! The world would be a much better place.

[@Derbymama360]

Omg the amazing things I would have done if I had that much love lifting me up instead of beating me and hating me. I love this family❤️❤️❤️

[@misicy1282]

I agree ☝️

[@angelsmith4287]

I agree! 👆👆

[@MrKhalidyahya]

Imagine if we become parents like these? The world would be a much better place

[@shenyuevideos8974]

we already had it, but in different ways.

[@mannyamato3421]

All that stress and being 70 she looks 10 years younger. She aged very well.

[@heather9525]

I was just thinking that! They both look great for their 70's.

[@cryptoinsider9305]

How is Duane today? Is he Vaccinated? Is he wearing a mask? Is he doing well? what is the future plan for him in a HOME? New world Order dont allow that. death panel by Bill coming up 2030. THE GREAT RESET. What will happen? Continue our 100th Vaccination?

[@spaceT999]

Asians dont raisin

[@markmckeown87]

Duane doesn't look 40 either!

[@vennsim71]

@@cryptoinsider9305 the future for Dunne in the home will be taking his PHD and designing the next stealth fighter. Seriously are u nuts? What New World Order, what Death by Bill? I mean Dunne can be slowly ease into society, bit by bit. For you, I think it’s the end of the road.

[@mariannalanae7017]

This family is so incredibly beautiful. They are so strong.

[@aussieblackhawk123]

The way they smile as they are talking about him as if they are so proud of the life they had lived with him is so wholesome... i can tell by the way they smile that altho he may have been difficult they were happy to have him in their lives. 😢

[@abdelhakym8283]

Parents are literally the most valuable thing one could ever have,period

[@Stoneybv]

Sucks for the ones who's parents abuse n torture them mentally.

[@xenomorphoverlord]

Must be nice to act as if child abuse doesn't exist, eh?

[@inakibolinaga8078]

Its not to be rude or anything but sadly not all parents are as kind and incredible as them

[@jamesmelton7413]

Yeah i guess without parents there's no you.

[@maeking5268]

Unless those parents are neglectful or abusive

[@eddiensw]

The love of Duane's parents..deeper than ocean. We can only pray that they are granted good health and live longer.

[@Nero-lx2gs]

吳怡農太太 yes

[@ripeguava6843]

Prayer is the key?May the lord heal him🙏📖

[@sladeramos3652]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Poemi10304]

Ripe Guava Autism isn’t something that can be healed or cured, guy. 😰🤦🏻‍♀️

[@sakkysha5496]

Poemi10304, I totally understand your perspective but personally I believe God can heal any condition including autism.

[@AllYouCanEat540]

The love his parents have for him is palpable in this video. So heartwarming

[@spookaychoco2860]

I'm so happy that Duane has such loving parents. I'm glad he wasn't disregarded/abused just because of his condition

[@OutcastDimensionTCG]

“Because that’s the beauty of MY boy.” Most beautiful thing

[@tessgregory987]

Yes - that struck me, too. What lovely parents.

[@roycewolf1268]

A mother's love is unconditional.

[@jameshighway2308]

I wish people would be so kind like Duane and his parents.

[@balfourwheatley6644]

Struck me to the core..

[@lamhmmmhuynh637]

Cazz Gamez God can heal this person if the family turn to Jesus the Only True Way of Life.

[@boi6730]

@@lamhmmmhuynh637 Whit all respect, thats bullshit.

[@bagusdananjaya9544]

@@lamhmmmhuynh637 thats nonsense.

[@1Orderchaos]

@@lamhmmmhuynh637 please stop spreading this, people should find their own way before looking at religion

[@davidlambert6171]

Someday my son will be 40 and I’m going to be that father. How I wish I can stay longer on earth to support my autistic son forever.

[@thetempter9023]

I'd throw everything away to look after him my brother is the exact same and I'll look after him ever day.

[@rquelix1548]

“In my old age, It is a joy to have a son like him.” 💯 Real One

[@lukang72]

Really true. Many children fade from their parent lives but autistic children really love their parents with a pure innocent love that they never grow out of.

[@rosabellaelison5176]

@@lukang72 I prefer my children to fade from my life than to have my child carry the burden having a illness as autism.

[@jedrashidul6952]

I'm 36 & mildly autistic. My mom said that having me around at her age (67) is wonderful as I still act the same way around her as when I was small. Never go to bed without a goodnight kiss

[@lukang72]

@@rosabellaelison5176 autism is not a choice. No parent prefers their child to not be independent.

[@rosabellaelison5176]

@@lukang72 I know that, but many people have children even knowing there child could have that illness.

[@KayJay79]

"He never complains - that's the beauty about my boy." That statement especially touched my heart.

[@Call-me-Al]

All of it is pretty amazing

[@xueqir]

i was thinking the exact same, simple words that expresses how deeply the father loves his son

[@meliiodas4456]

I got jealous hearing those words

[@lisahughes9447]

It is quite a journey guiding and mentoring my now 20 yr old son with autism. He has breakdowns, loses his temper, gets very frustrated. I try to push him towards socializing with others his age. He is taking a full schedule at college, but does not socialize with others. However, when he masks, he speaks so intelligently to anyone and they are impressed. He becomes exhausted after his encounters with other people. All I want is for him to be able to make a living and take care of himself. This clip is very enlightening.

[@boihteijwalker6416]

This is so heartbreaking yet so beautiful. I have an autistic nephew, I rarely get to see him but I often pray for him. This video teaches me so much about autism making me learn so much about my nephew too. May all the parents with autistic children be blessed abundantly. Nothing but love 💙💙

[@love_agapi_m3976]

I could never be a parent. I knew that since I was a child. I wouldn’t have the patience to deal with a child let alone someone with developmental issues. I salute all parents who are able to do this very hard job.

[@JDOGFTW]

@@Flannelpan9999 If you have love nothing is hard.

[@star_light_kid]

JDOGFTW you can love your self more.

[@JasonChowTV]

never try never know. when u give up even before trying, you'll never suceed in life.

[@JasonChowTV]

@Tamara K how is having a child destroying life? ur parents must felt their life destroyed because of u

[@love_agapi_m3976]

Da J thanks for respecting my choices. So many are judgemental. But when you know that you don’t have “I want to have child” gene then it’s important to listen. I hope that you can get some respite to recharge and that you have support. Wishing you the best and stay safe. 🤞🏻🤙🏻

[@mommeelynph]

“In my old age, it is a joy to have a son like him.” - that’s a father’s unconditional love.

[@mareegray2597]

Brought tearto my eyes

[@kaiwalyaghotkar832]

Yeah but speacial people have purest soul , whenever I see them they brings smile on face , it's like seeing baby.

[@nageshsonawane3307]

@@kaiwalyaghotkar832 are gadhav tuzhya sarkhe loka fakt bolu shaktat jast jhadu nako pravachan

[@cryptoinsider9305]

How is Duane today? Is he Vaccinated? Is he wearing a mask? Is he doing well? what is the future plan for him in a HOME? New world Order dont allow that. death panel by Bill coming up 2030. THE GREAT RESET. What will happen? Continue our 100th Vaccination?

[@rhondamadgirl]

@@cryptoinsider9305 GROW UP.

[@Dude-etiquette]

This brought tears to me eyes. The love of the parents was so evident in their words

[@fmds2115]

I am touched by how caring the mother is.

[@Userjdanon]

Her English is also very good. She seems very well educated besides of being a good mother

[@evank370]

People in Singapore have to learn many languages and English is just one of them

[@EssentialMeditation]

Evan K well i learn some languages too and after 5 years i only know like 30 words

[@lx4302]

Lmao you will be surprised by how many people in singapore can speak fluent english

[@grill6411]

Singapore used to be a British colony

Yes

[@revelinknation]

He's so loved by his parents. Everyone deserves parents like his.

[@DunderHead.5000]

I wish everyone had parents like that

[@Light-qi8ol]

then we'd all be autists no? xd

[@fxj___]

@@Light-qi8ol he's saying everyone deserves a parents who love them just the way they are

[@Light-qi8ol]

@@fxj___ everyone deserves love. gotcha

[@teatarou]

@@Light-qi8ol you really gon call people with autism “autists” huh

[@rinsomatic9295]

I love the last comment of his dad. And his mum opinion about being fair really touching.

[@frankyfernandes6283]

Thank you for sharing the video of your son. We never heard autism in our childhood. Came to know about it last 6-7 years. This video is good to spread awareness of autism and to treat those people with love, patience and care.

[@dacracking5768]

I'm just worried about the guy after his parents passed. Hopefully he still is supported as much as he needs.

[@ninja1676]

He probably have families with him.

[@nerdify3780]

@Greatest ever Sad truth. These parents are special in Asia. Most Asians disregard people with special needs.

[@k.i.n.g6668]

Wait, his parents actually passed away?

[@edwinjoseph2163]

@@k.i.n.g6668 no but they’re getting older...

[@k.i.n.g6668]

@@edwinjoseph2163 ah okay, I guess all we can do is pray and hope it will get better.

[@Sarah.Riedel]

"God, you gave him to me, you have to help"

[@veratraxfordragon1252]

There's no god 😉

[@oliveribanez6935]

There is

[@wickywuth6976]

@@veratraxfordragon1252 idc whether there is or not,but at least i have "A" reason to stay strong and alive

[@sarahu.5446]

@@veratraxfordragon1252 thats so unnecessary

[@MitsukiTheSage]

@@sarahu.5446 but he was saying the truth

[@alex71504]

Majority of people in the world does not even comprehend the amount of sacrifice and effort the parents had to endure having a child with autism. My son is now 11 years old. He was diagnose with autism when he was 6 years old. The parents really need to be very dedicated and faithful. You really need God's help when there is nothing else you can do. Especially when he has bad days or meltdown. It's very hard for a parent to see their child going through it. I'm glad I ran by to this video. Kudos to the parents.

[@VOMITQUEEN]

If only we had more parents out there THIS dedicated….

[@djohnbelho9406]

“It’s a joy to have a son like him” my heart melts

[@giulianacr2638]

@Jake Dean Are u a parent? I am... and think my son is absolutely perfect and love him unconditionally. Every competent and loving parent feels the same way about his/her child.

[@aestheticvirgocoochie20yea45]

Jake Dean you obviously don’t have a heart

[@itispam]

What absolutely fabulous parents. Duane is a special guy and their love for each other is mutual and so heartwarming. I wish them peace of mind and hoping that there is a good home for their son in the future. xxx ❤

[@MH-eu9iw]

Dawn the words of the father brought me to tears. That’s the beauty of my boy… I never had a father but

[@lecocopop4272]

“That’s the beauty about MY BOY” 😭 that got me

[@jonnysanford7634]

I have a 7 year old son with autism and I always refer to him as my boy. I immediately got choked up when he said that.

[@zazilicious]

I almost cried too and then he said in my old age it's a joy to have a son like him 😭😭😭

[@TaraGotYams]

Me too. I almost cried.

[@RageRumi]

You could hear the pride in his voice

[@tyleshiasmith4547]

Same

[@noonewashere9100]

*He is so loved, not only by his parents but by everyone that has watched the video. God bless this family*

[@lightman2258]

We live in a time, where we have to perform. Performance is everything. But not your value. Every human has a value. This doesn't depend on your performance. I'm thankful for the differences between us.

[@fatmanxd7914]

Why would i love him

[@marinattysegura5844]

Amen.

[@dulceasmr1]

unrelated but your profile picture is perfection

[@famlife4383]

Yes my son has autism and I LOVE that people show LOVE ❤

[@rawburtmartinez]

You can tell he is sweet. I hope they are doing good. This makes me tear up

[@XavierCoolDude]

This video hits home for me. My son is on the spectrum. We have our rough moments. He is funny, handsome, intelligent, and creative. Thinking about him on this Earth without me and his mom is very scary for me.

[@codykingi2185]

As a father of a little girl with special needs when he said "that's the beauty of my boy" with such pride? I felt that deep. Great examples of humans here.

[@sleep5982]

That father is genuinely happy to have him at this age.

[@joolee6243]

I just realized i'm the 144th liker of this comment. I've ruined the 143 likes. Sorry. I just had to.

[@ImRunningazoo]

Because God give your daughter to parents that have a lot of love to give

[@klby30]

He's lucky that he's born in a rich family. If he was born in an ordinary family, the struggle can be many times harder than it is.

[@connornoyes2566]

Parents like this are a blessing