Family Youtuber Myka Stauffer REHOMES Adopted Son Huxley (For Finding Him Hard to Deal With)

Myka Stauffer and her husband James
Adopted a son and now have gone deranged
Rehomed their son Huxley, they thought he was strange
And now they up in crying, like they're both in pain
I dont believe it cos bro i dont care
Biological or not, it dosent seem fair
to give away what you vow to cherish and love
youve angerged the youtube gods from above
and so we rain down on these two people
real families to me are not regeal
you two tried to sound like the epitome of good
but ended up looking the essense of evil
Thank you
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[@sixteenleo]

Rozalina Sanchez III was not harmed in the making of this video....however she would be offended if you didnt SUBSCRIBE 😂

[@dumbass3533]

i think Rozalina Sanchez III might disagree on that first point...

[@hiiihaveagoodday6151]

Imma be honest you are underrated you, honestly deserve so much more views and likes, you have quality content

[@ActuallyAndrewYT]

I disliked this vid because there was no game. I am sad 😞

[@poppymay4255]

i couldn’t stop thinking of that one princess from mario kart called rosalina when you were talking about her 😂

[@MyselftheElf]

Also, her saying wanting a boy 'obviously.' Why is it obvious?

[@deannas2778]

Man, she's talking about making a family like she's playing Sims.

[@DarkKreig]

Thats exactly what she did. she listed off things as if children are objects for their own satisfaction and gratification. It's child abuse what they did to the poor kid.

[@tassoszohrabyan6890]

Faaaax. no typewriter

[@truejackzilla9804]

Wait, it doesn't work like that?

[@mabeast502]

Get her a VR headset 😂

[@bu3asalli]

That’s why I kept thinking it was a familiar way of thinking 😟 I did that before with Sims. I want them to have a kid that is school age, so they can have and job go out and not waste money on a baby sitter 😬

[@marianat.408]

"He isn't talking or smiling" its like he has a neurological condition that makes expressing himself difficult..........

[@thereptilianartist1376]

PREACH

[@aliheartzuphrakonkham3005]

Or they were shitty to him. Like idk exploiting him so much that some part of him resented them. He smiles with the siblings but not the parents in the videos.

[@donniedial3014]

@@aliheartzuphrakonkham3005 may also be that he is more comfortable around his siblings because he's younger, and their older and more controlling.

[@emeraldglowodraws]

HmmmmMMMMMMM

[@mizzkittenttv]

Exactly

[@TBeaux-xm4yh]

"We wanted a kid with special needs, but not that many needs." 🤦‍♀️

[@katieegan5178]

Just enough to make us as parents also feel special; not enough to make our lives difficult! 😞 🤦‍♀️

[@clairehenry9222]

Treating adopted children like animal crossing villagers

[@dannieon]

OH MY--

[@SatansRatPrincess]

I- I love this so much

[@Cheddar_Shred]

Here, you dropped this 🏅

[@shirin9452]

I do not play animal crossing and I am intrigued. How are the animal crossing villagers treated

[@Sadie-rai]

@@shirin9452 This is a bit late but many people buy and sell villagers (often for crazy amounts of bells or even real cash). They commonly also trade one villager for another. Some people even have in-game auctions to sell off rare or heavily wanted villagers

[@erinmiaituralde3763]

Every kid deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a kid. Myka Stauffer is a clear example.

[@jaquelinbutkovic2171]

Erin I. Exactly

[@lovegidget]

👏👏👏

[@theeggatyourfrontdoor2092]

Mince Crafter Why?

[@jaquelinbutkovic2171]

Mince Crafter how..

[@darkdemonqueen]

Amen

[@Myrilia]

The dad was lowkey judgemental about people who give their kids to adoption, and look where he is now...

[@LeonardoAddingtonLeo]

Honestly considering that he had to be convinced by her to adopt, highkey sure that he didn't even think of him as his kid.

[@SL-lz9jr]

@@LeonardoAddingtonLeo Sad but true. One of my requirements in a future mate is that he absolutely must not care where his children come from. Biological, adopted, foster. I don't care. No one can be my future mate if they aren't totally on board because I am not subjecting any children of mine to a "father" who can't relate to them on any level. No thanks.

[@user-fq4hj8yv2z]

@@SL-lz9jr Cool

[@giacattiva]

You’re exactly right, he referred to birth parents as the “original parents” - like the “original” owner of a car. This weak sap of a man is getting off too lightly here.

[@wilmagregg3131]

@@SL-lz9jr the only exception is the douche hole women who sleep around have a kid only for the father to find out its not his i can understand why theyd want nothing to do with it but then again theyd leave the realtionship as well so its solves itself

[@frigidgf]

I want Huxley to know that there are tons of random people on the internet who care about his well-being and will give him unconditional love when he's older

[@sharonajodhia5586]

❤

[@Zizzy616]

❤❤

[@themadmask]

why is it that it's always the families that are not well equipped or prepared enough that always want a ridiculous amount of kids

[@minacerra]

' I felt rejected by him at first'. Lady, it's not about you! How about, the poor thing was scared. He's never seen white skin blondes before, only the people at his orphanage'. How narcissistic is this woman!

[@joemama-ej7kw]

The kid probably sensed how fake and awful she is

[@theescapist9450]

Also he's autistic so what if for him it's hard to express how he feels so he wasn't laughing and super excited and she just "wow he hates me" She adopted a kid with autism, is an RN yet is one of the most ignorant-

[@roisinculler775]

@chicken nugget “those black people who think they don’t have privilege” this you? A racist mad because someone mentioned your race?😂😂😂😂

[@roisinculler775]

@chicken nugget well that is false.

[@D-me-dream-smp]

That was so disgusting how she was more concerned about her feelings getting hurt than stopping for a moment to consider this poor child has been ripped away from EVERYTHING that is familiar and placed in a completely foreign environment where he can’t communicate his needs but yeah her feelings were hurt that he didn’t instantly worship her. Gross. Typical narcissist.

[@kirikakirikakirika]

I'm actually really glad they gave Huxley away, because I can't imagine the life he would've had if they'd kept him. It was clearly never about Huxley from the start. He wasn't a child to them, he was a product. At least now, hopefully, he's with a family that will actually cherish him. That said, let me give anyone who's thinking of having kids a little advice: Your child might turn out gay, they might turn out trans, they might turn out gifted, they might be mentally challenged, they might be born with a physical deformity/disability, they may develop depression, autism, cancer, etc., and they may turn out being far more expensive than you expected. If you aren't willing to accept them for who they are and be prepared for anything ... don't have kids, whether biologically or through adoption. All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children.

[@FBI-dr4bk]

It's weird that people still don't understand that when having a child, a parent will be basically dedicating the rest of their life to that child. If they don't realise that, then their ego is way too huge.

[@SL-lz9jr]

Hear hear! And this is why I'm so glad my friends don't want to have kids. I'd rather they make that decision now than attempt to have children just for the sake of having children and then messing up that kid's life because they can't be bothered to be a good parent.

[@rell7471]

Having a child is like a gamble, there are so many unexpected scenarios that can occur.

[@ChloAlexandra19]

THANK YOU. Preach this. I don’t know if I’ll ever have kids, being autistic myself and having chronic mental health issues. I don’t want to bring a child into this world if I can’t support them and be the parent they deserve. A child isn’t a product to consume, or a few ups and downs. Human life is so unbelievably complex from day one, and to bring a child into this world is to promise you’ll do your absolute best to support and love them.

[@fen4613]

I don’t think anyone is arguing that they should have kept him. It’s more that they shouldn’t have gotten him in the first place. The kid got ripped from his homecountry, given a shitty white people name, had to adapt to a new culture and language, didn’t get the help he needed, started forming a real bond with his mom and dad and then got abandoned again. The damage is already done, a new family is a lesser evil at best.

[@bunnyyyy1907]

I'm glad Huxley got away from that toxic environment. They had literally taped his hands so he could not communicate, they were degrading him, bullying and making fun of him. Really disgusting stuff. What Leo talked about was only surface level unfortunately

[@EngineMashups]

They did fucking what

[@bunnyyyy1907]

@@EngineMashups yeah shits fuvked

[@Toywins]

@@EngineMashups Tom Harlock talks about it WAY more savagely than Leo. You should check it out, seriously!

[@nataliegivins3578]

She’s acting like they at build a bear. Absolutely sad. Every kid deserves love.

[@marthakilcoyne8001]

In their sick world its called build a child so damn cruel and sad

[@Aphaelios]

Leo is the embodiment of chaotic good, we don't deserve him

[@user-fq4hj8yv2z]

I thought idubbz was the embodiment of chaotic good ,while Leo is the funny normal good guy.

[@sixteenleo]

this a great way to put it. Im chaotic lol

[@hairbeauty8083]

@@user-fq4hj8yv2z was is key until he became his gf bitch and total hypocrite

[@jellybeantree713]

Supreme Person You cannot pick and choose what you want in kids. Children are not Animal Crossing villagers.

[@evanislost]

@Supreme Person I'm concerned about your understanding of sexuality if you think there's straight and gay babies. Do you think there's women giving birth to sequined covered boys whose first words are "yaaas queen!"?

[@IKKclauKR]

They then: We want a baby with special needs, and we let a doctor look his medical history, and he told us not to adopt him because we're not ready for all that he'll need...but we don't care, we want to adopt him... They now: NO ONE TOLD US!!!

[@TuesdaysArt]

"No one told us" = "I learned about autism through Sheldon Cooper and Autism $peaks"

[@user-fq4hj8yv2z]

That's worser than I thought it could become

[@liviwaslost]

@@NeonRainbowsOnFire the amount of ignorance in this woman is astounding.

[@rinrinri101]

This lady made me so angry back when this stuff came out. I have autism and the way she talked about him like he should have an easy disorder so she can be his savior was so gross. Her saying that he didn't smile much like that was a major issue.... According to my parents, I didn't smile at all for an entire year when I was 11. They didn't disown me because they didn't understand me. They did their best to help me and find doctors to help me. I am able to pass as someone who does not have a disorder because I was given so many therapy sessions and after school lessons to teach me how to emote and understand facial expressions. These people adopt a baby knowing it will be hard, they have the money to help him, and they were still so disgusting. They called him their family, what bullshit. Family takes care of family and does their best to get them the help they need. As an autistic adult, they disgust me and my heart goes out to Huxley.

[@hopudesu9655]

imagine if it was their biological kid that was challenged...so you're telling me that they would have given their kid up for adoption cuz they couldn't handle it????!!!??! i'm so pissed off by this

[@TuesdaysArt]

"Why isn't the story about Huxley?" THANK YOU. I'm sick of parents of autistic children using them to make themselves look like saviors or beg for sympathy, while the autistic children are forced into abusive families and stuck with parents who refuse to understand them.

[@artificialcolourzeee4647]

YES YES YES. I am autistic and I'm lucky to be both quite high functioning and have a mother who works with people with similar disabilities. Those words disgust me. They LITERALLY said they wanted it to be a new chapter of THEIR lives and they never mentioned ANYTHING about Huxley.

[@cattabyss]

I used to watch fathering autism and this is how I feel about them now

[@shaskins15]

I feel like it would be disloyal to my son if I were to air his personal struggles with strangers.

[@cattabyss]

@@shaskins15 especially if that child cannot consent. Nonverbal children cannot consent to show themselves having a meltdown to hundreds of thousands of people.

[@shaskins15]

@@cattabyss I never really thought about it that way. But you're absolutely right. To me, it felt like I owe it to him to protect and nurture him rather than apologize or spread my energy towards people who dont matter

[@kc-br2qj]

as someone who has actually been through the foster to adopt process with my little brother (who has his own disabilities but he is the most awesome little dude and it makes me sick to think about 'returning' him), I can tell you there are a number of red flags for me straight off the bat. 1) when you start the foster to adopt process one of the very first things they clarify is what age range you're able/willing to foster so her excuse that she wouldn't be able to "land a youngster" is bullshit. she would just have to be clear that she only wanted a child under a certain age. 2) you don't have to take a placement if you don't want to. so even if she got called and asked to take a child outside of that age range she would be fully within her right to say no. 3) MOST IMPORTANTLY: if she did do foster to adopt, she would not be able to put that child on camera AT ALL until the adoption was complete. they're very, very strict about protecting the privacy of foster children especially very young kids. so clearly it was important to her that she would be able to violate a child's privacy for views. she wanted to have her fun white savior moment and when it stopped being fun she dropped the kid like a sack of potatoes. her behavior honestly disgusts me. i hope she's never allowed to adopt again.

[@hairbeauty8083]

Yes my cousin adopted a Chinese girl. She went and visited 5 or more times to create a bond. I just can't imagine this woman

[@isabellagathers6839]

as a foster youth, thank u for putting it into words 💖

[@user-nd4rf8zz6q]

I had a good idea on how many physical and emotional rules she was breaking, but after reading your comment, I realize how many she's actually broken.

[@Kayla-eu7dp]

Sad thing is there are other people like Myka that do this too but it doesn’t take away from she did

[@ari_40ari_40]

@Katylyn Williams ready for the tickets man!

[@k.r.8157]

It irked me when she kept saying "I'm a great mom" and with her tone. It really shows how she only views the positive and completely disregards her negative traits. Plus highlights her possible narcissism

[@aldowilliams4765]

I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if I did what they did. As wouldn’t any decent person

[@silenta6507]

The whole point of family "you hate them so much. But you would do anything for them because you love them so much." Felt that.

[@Clevermoreunicorn]

“His new mummy has medical, professional training” says a registered nurse.

[@Lvmykidos2]

@Clevermore Mastodon A “registered nurse” who does not have a valid license and who “practiced” for a whopping 18 months at short-lived jobs in 2 different nursing homes. She never worked in pediatrics. In one of those jobs, she assaulted a pregnant coworker by pushing a med cart into her because the coworker would not witness a narcotic waste that she didn’t *SEE* Myka waste. Turns out, Myka gave that med to 👏🏻 the👏🏻 wrong👏🏻 patient! She doesn’t deserve to use the title RN. Legally, she can’t. She is a disgrace to my profession.

[@barbibutton9619]

Sad thing is, she used her own judgment in choosing that new mommy. FRIGHTENING. 🤔

[@ThatGirlJD]

@@barbibutton9619 At one point, she says the agency chose them at some point in her whine. I don't think she met the new family. She just wanted it to sound like she had more to do work out than she did.

[@emr1961]

@@Lvmykidos2 how do you this? Crazy!

[@Lvmykidos2]

Em R Without a Crystal Ball has done her homework. Some of the info she got from public record & other info she got from former coworkers & neighbors that reached out to her.

[@jperron]

This whole story is so devastating, this poor child already struggles with attachment i cant even imagine what he will have to deal with throughout his life. In addition, he didn't have any choice in having his whole story put out to the whole world. During his 2 year check in video it seemed like he made so much progress and for him to feel like it was still not enough is just so upsetting. The least they could do was set up a trust for him with the money they made with him in their videos.

[@SL-lz9jr]

That's a good idea! Kids are expensive to begin with, even harder with special needs. If this were an acting job, Huxley would be receiving his fair share of the profit AND because he's a minor, by law that money would go into a trust for him. So... same rules should probably apply to KZbinrs right?

[@jperron]

@@SL-lz9jr absolutely! One of the many problems with family vlogging is that the unions and child labor laws aren't applied to the work the kids do. It should be treated like other acting jobs. It'll be interesting to see if/how legislation changes to protect kids that are on KZbin as, unfortunately, more and more cases of wrong doing come up

[@chickentail7108]

Pooping on bob

[@eylulay1840]

They reabandon him

[@liviwaslost]

@@jperron that is an awesome idea! Plus, no children can be exploited.

[@lichbunny3733]

Bruh. The mom is the literal embodiment of the type of parent that the game Paradigm portrays when they talk about Prodigy Children. Meaning she'd probably dump a kid for pursuing an art degree, let alone any disabilities. Not too often we see such an outrageously satirical caricature come to life, yet here she breathes.

[@maxhydekyle2425]

I'd dump my kid for pursuing an art degree, but not for them having special needs.

[@amberskyesobers7288]

I'm so glad they rehomed Huxley. Hopefully he is getting the life he deserves now. Yes getting rehomed would be traumatizing, but imagine the trauma if he stayed with them.

[@basia5183]

How dare they take him from his country, give him that disgusting name and give him away..

[@hi-pb8bq]

bro the name 💀

[@chloexoxo4546]

I THOUGHT THE SAME THING LIKE HUXLEY WTF IS THAT

[@myshanamakisi6063]

Disgusting name...well, damn 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@michaeljennings4570]

Their new son is named ONYX. I'm not kidding

[@hi-pb8bq]

Michael Jennings PAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHH NO WAY

[@annme_87]

Just think. Some day one of their biological children will ask if mom and dad are going to send them away. They will say "oh honey no. We would never do that." And the kid will say "but you did it to Huxley." And that is when karma will finally come back to them.

[@loshay5638]

They should feel the entire weight of what they did 🤷‍♀️

[@gaslightgatekeepgirlboss6321]

His name is Huxley? They gave him that name?

[@SL-lz9jr]

The beauty is the Internet never goes away so all these kids have to do is Google their own names or that of their parents and they will always have these videos to bring up to their parents awkwardly in conversation. Example: "Hey mom, remember when you gave Huxley away? I just found these old KZbin videos about the scandal. I wonder whatever happened to him. Will you give us away too?" SMDH

[@BlendedBarbieDoll]

Most likely they will convinced their kids that Huxley was a foster kid and they never adopted him. They will probably try to erase him from their memory, narcissistic parents do things like that.

[@loshay5638]

@@BlendedBarbieDoll I can't sleep at night if i make a snarky comment to someone, I feel guilty. How are the able to rest at night?

[@SqueenTangerine]

This shit gets wilder when you find out WHY she isn't an RN anymore... (she pushed a medical cart into a pregnant nurse because she refused to cover up her erroneously giving a patient too strong of a dose.)

[@briezeee]

What..? Omg

[@Toywins]

WTF???!!! Just when I thought I couldn't hate her more... 😒

[@peb7231]

Ofc hes gonna run back to the ppl he knows when he first meets u. Hes scared. He doesnt know you, he doesnt know his surrounding. Lmao thats like saying a kid u met for in the street hates u cuz he ran away from u to his mom😂

[@libbystwinfreelibby1839]

He probably sensed the evilness of her spirit

[@921cottoncandy]

@@libbystwinfreelibby1839 I thought the same thing!

[@yoissy]

"If you don't know me... I'm brown. Now that you know me, " Something something Lilly Singh joke.

[@user-fq4hj8yv2z]

Honestly that got a smirk out of me unlike Lily's content which usually leads to an allergic reaction from me

[@mohammedalabbasi2260]

God damn boys its getting hot from all this roasting

[@yoissy]

@@user-fq4hj8yv2z I aim to please lol

[@joemama-ej7kw]

Σκοτώνω Χαρά it made me smile because he literally never mentions his brownness so it was funny

[@user-fq4hj8yv2z]

@@joemama-ej7kw I know that . And may I ask who you are Joe? Edit : I was waiting for a Joe mama as an answer.

[@Jack-jk6pt]

jesus this guy is underrated

[@dumbass3533]

yeah, cant wait till hes massive! he definitely seems like one of those youtubers who deserves it

[@neobonney]

I know right. Hes going to get popular Im sure.

[@pluumii.]

Agreed

[@JM-oi3by]

Dude just a bit ago he had 10K subs that’s when I found him and he completely skyrocketed in subs and he deserves so many more

[@pixel-hy4jx]

Who’s hesus?

[@LeaLeaBird]

This story makes me think back to the Child of Rage documentary, about the couple that adopted a young girl and her baby brother and the girls birth parent(s?) had sexually abused her and really messed her up mentally. It was scary for the adoptive parents but they adapted and got her professional help and she’s now like in her 30s or 40s and is a fully functioning adult with a job and everything. Like... you can’t know what to expect with kids, whether it’s adoption or pregnancy. Adapt and be a real parent, it’s hard but it’s up to you.

[@coolbeans5911]

I remember that!!! I think she tried to hurt her brother or something, and threatened to kill them. I'm so happy they we're able to push through commit to the kids.

[@xkeyairuh]

no tears throughout all that "crying" as someone who's HSP, who also cries for any reason, I feel no empathy to them. Coming from me, that's saying something.

[@harleyjade7236]

Same. I’m a hsp and it just felt so forced and fake

[@Thisgurl23]

They should have done a giveaway. “ if any of you want to win Huxley make sure you are subscribed and turn your notifications on!!”

[@alassyx9961]

"And as a bonus I'll throw in some toys!"

[@jiyaprasoon942]

"We'll be announcing the winner at the end of the month!"

[@BookBird2963]

Oh my god...

[@juliemccann1549]

They might as well have! At least that would generate some revenue!

[@ThemanthelegendKenny]

Lol you have the same last name as my friend

[@BookBird2963]

As a Chinese adoptee, most orphaned children in China are female. The orphaned children who are male are almost always disabled in some way. My parents had to wait 4 years to get approved to adopt my younger sister (also from China) Also, in China, for the most part... you don't choose the baby. (Unless you're looking into adopting a disabled child, in which they will have you look into which disabilities you are able to tend to.)

[@OhLilacc]

It's honestly so sad and the 2 child policy really doesn't help because some families are willing to give up their daughters for another chance at having a boy

[@BookBird2963]

@@OhLilacc Yeah. That 2 child law was passed on my 12th birthday. (October 29, 2015)

[@wilmagregg3131]

@@BookBird2963 wasnt it recently repleaed? the two child law i mean

[@OhLilacc]

Wilma Perkins I think what you might be thinking of is when they changed the policy from 1 child to 2 children because the 2 child policy is currently still in place :(

[@BookBird2963]

There's a serious problem with a lack of females in China at the moment, so the 2 child law was passed hoping to increase the number of girls there would be in China. And, China managed to curb the population growth enough that India was supposed to surpass China in population in 2022 (before COVID-19 hit. I don't know, now.)

[@akidmyself4053]

You know, I recall when I first heard about this a little over a year ago. I was angry then. Now that I volunteer with kids that have different delopmental problems, including autism, I'm f-ing pissed. These kids are just as rewarding to work with as regular kids if not more so because they have more struggles in life but they live up to the expectations of regular kids if not surpass them because they don't give up just because things are harder for them. One of them just graduated high school and is going to college. Absolutely disgusting anyone would take on the challenge of a special needs kid only to use him as a prop. People are sick! Edit: and I gotta say, as a Christian who was taught to take care of the orphans, we can kick these guys out. I don't care how that sounds, they are leaches in ladybug clothing trying to suck all your money out on their channel. I hate it when people mention God just to appeal to my community.

[@brookelogan1161]

As a lesbian who has wanted kids for YEARS. who doesn’t easily have the option of biological kids, and would LOVE to adopt a child,, It just screams privilege to be able to just decide you don’t want a kid anymore because it was harder than you thought it was. Cause at least they still got their biological kids right?

[@smallandstressed2364]

The moment she said “I want;” was the first indication she didn’t want the best for the child, she wanted the best for her image.

[@baileyspeltbeefy1768]

I wouldn’t be surprised if he ends up with that condition where they legit can’t feel love or develop that type of bond/relationship with anyone due to not having a loving and stable family during the first years of life

[@chococat2119]

That's what really bugged me about how they talked about adopting always saying "I want" "we want" it all felt and sounded like they were picking and choosing what benefits them instead of going with their gut and heart and seeing how they can help a kid that really needs the love and good family and environment. Even with the whole "family line" that shouldnt matter sure it might be difficult but that's why you communicate and apply the same rules and not treat some better than others bc at the end of the day they all gonna be your kids and only the responsibilities they have is what changes (chores, privlages like having a phone bc older in age, etc) it's not like they will be playing favorites with them.

[@henryettoit897]

Huxley never deserved any of this. By age 4 he already has 3 mothers and he has issues with attachment. We dont even know if his new family will keep him forever. I cant even imagine how much this will affect him in the future.

[@troch4185]

💔

[@BadassBobY]

Yeah, and these people got money and subscribers out of Huxley and then left him, what if in 10 years he is somewhere on the streets, struggling with money, struggling with mental problems, struggling with autism and these people are just enjoying the money they made from him.

[@marchofthepigs36]

Yeah it’s so earth shattering for him. Poor guy

[@melancholymartialarts7095]

I can tell you. I was in foster care with multiple different families. It's led to a very tough life with lots of loneliness and image issues. Substances, lots of them. Treatment, lots of treatment. Almost two years clean

[@myustic8827]

@@melancholymartialarts7095 W rizz

[@squeegeedingle]

“It’s not about me but the last couple of months have been the hardest thing for me to deal with” #justiceforhuxley

[@wendeviant2475]

As an autistic child, I was watching how they were interacting with the child. Now I'm not a doctor nor a psychologist; I am justing using my experience with my autism. Firstly, airports can be very stressful as they are extremely loud; instead of maybe putting some headphones on him to noise cancel or mute chatter, you can see the distress and discomfort from how he's looking around as if he's trying to understand everything he hears-secondly, the touching of the face. Touching can cause distress and discomfort and activate flight or fight responses, especially near the face. Being nonverbal is relatively common; I didn't start talking till I was four years old, so Huxley was utterly ordinary in his differences. They should have done the research and learned how to help Huxley cope instead of acting as if they could cure it, even in 2015 (when I was diagnosed) a bunch, millions, fuck it, trillions of resources to assist in raising and caring for autistic children.

[@nunwithpipecleaner]

I can't believe you rehomed Rosalina after nearly 30 minutes of exploiting her privacy for content.

[@LeticiaSPandaMcfly6]

She was better off anyway. Did you see the way he dropped her?! 😂

[@user-pm1gb2eo1s]

Leticia S. That kid gon suffer from some serious brain damage

[@raevenbrooke3030]

Jammity Jam y are u eating a cat 🤣

[@kevkevfantasy5654]

@@raevenbrooke3030 big dog's gotta eat

[@denissey4226]

They were unable to adopt in America because she doesn’t have fertility issues and because she already had three children at that time , so American agencies wouldn’t allow them to adopt because of the high risk of a “failed adoption” (which happened anyway ) and there were only two countries that would allow them to adopt with these factors included. China being one of them

[@tacocat3_147]

Wow i learned something thanks (wish it wasnt out of a bad situation)

[@amandanegrete1306]

Denissey thank you! I kept asking and nobody answered.

[@samali4573]

I think she also mentioned that while explain how they found him. it's so not right nor smart of her to think " ah almost every country won't allow me to adopt me for these reasons ( which are good reasons tbh but she ignored them completely ) I'm just gonna do it anyways and make content out of it." some can say well there's mum out there who can't take care of disabled children they have to right to give their child away but she chose to do these things anyways trying to look all positive but didn't even give much thought- like even the doctors warned her but she was literally like " >:(( well it felt like they were discouraging me but dw I didn't listen bc I'm just so positive and smart like that ! " she seems to have the money to take care of him but after their 4th biological child it seemed like she didn't even care about the adopted kid like dude you called him son and everything- did never feel attached in anyway ? maybe you shouldn't have in the first placing when even the doctors warned her and everything and she already had a big family. sorry about the rant and poor grammar but this really upsets me... hope the kiddo is alright 💞

[@denissey4226]

Peachy Deku to be quite honest I would do the same thing I have a dream of adopting a baby and if I already I have three I wouldn’t mind a fourth, I don’t necessarily think it’s fair to villainize them on that aspect, however it’s all the things she does after that make her a terrible mom , or person .

[@tirea277]

I think another reason why she adopted from China is because she had a white savior complex. Because she also says in the video she originally wanted to adopt from Africa, specifically Ethiopia and Uganda, which most Americans tend to think of when they say “starving kids in Africa.”

[@CHloE748]

Dude, me too! I’ve had exactly 25 surgeries since I was 12 (I need at least 2 more in my large intestines but I live in America, AKA I can barely even afford my meds) and Idk even how many nights I’ve spent in a hospital, over 100 at least. My longest stay was 4 weeks, where I had one planned surgery (whipple, it’s a major surgery) and I was only supposed to be there 5 days, but ended up having 2 more emergency surgeries do to a lung collapse. ANYWAYS, my point is, I never stayed ONE night alone, my mom was there every single night, she literally lived at the hospital with me and couldn’t visit home because it was almost 3 hours away. I remember on the pediatric ward there were so many babies and children that the nurses held constantly because they didn’t have any family there. I’m 23 and still can’t live on my own thanks to my crippling pain and nausea, and poor health. I would have gave up on me a long time ago (I kinda have), so idk how she or my grandmother does it. And our parents didn’t even choose to have a sick kid! Myka and her cuck husband went out of their way to get a disabled child so they would look better!! Htf does someone deliberately take in a sick child for life and just get rid of it after 3 years??

[@Youbarkimeow]

She literally wanted a bloody designer baby without flaws,I really hope that nothing is wrong with their baby when it grows up because what would they do throw it away too.

[@sunbeames1847]

The best advice "there is no right way, but there are plenty of wrong ways"

[@sourfrog4263]

Yes

[@DMMUrl]

Her husband just sits there and zones out during the entirety of these videos.

[@reilly4678]

How did people support them adopting a child when the husband claimed he "didn't want to get too attached" and Myka said she wanted it to be part of "their story" ?? Did they ever mention looking into the cultures of these children and how to prepare for them feeling misplaced in a white family so they know how to make them feel accepted and embrace their culture? I assume they didn't, seeing as I've heard they didn't want to make Huxley any food that would be familiar/comforting to him. Why did they land on china in the end? They never explained their thought process on the cultures or what they were educating themselves on to handle the adoption, just vague blanket statements. My parents adopted a baby and unfortunately had the birth mother take them away so I know this is a heartbreaking thing that can happen and would be hard to handle, but it rubbed me the wrong way to hear him say that. I'll give him the benefit of the doubt that he just meant he didn't want the possibility of having the child taken away from them, but then this rehoming situation makes no sense to me then.

[@carafeeley]

Are you kidding me? In their ‘apology’ all they did was blame other people and talk about *themselves* . Some apology, they didn’t do their research. They saw a cute Chinese kid, and dove right in not realising the poor child had feelings, he wasn’t just a toy that smiled all day. I know it must have been damaging for him to be rehomed, but I hope he isn’t used for views in his new family. I hope the best for him.

[@shrimp5499]

22:49 Ok this pissed me off. No he’s not trying to “get attention” when doing that, he’s overstimulated and distressed and they should’ve done whatever they could to help him through it instead of just writing it off like that.

[@makardeku]

i have autism as well and it’s very true. when i get too overwhelmed and the situation gets to much for me i’ll feel like i’ll snap and get very irritated may also be combined with my bipolar and anxiety but i feel so bad for huxley. they went into this wanting a special needs kid, but took no time to research, and nothing to accommodate his needs. they just wanted a trophy to make them feel better about themselves, they got in over their head and as the selfish people they are put huxley back up for adoption. they really are sick

[@amadi5x5]

@@makardeku Exactly. They just totally didn't even try. At all. It's very sad.

[@amadi5x5]

@@makardeku Actually, that reminds me during baseball season, the train was so over packed, so loud, so much going on...and I became so irritated and stressed I started pushing people away from me as I got off the car. It was confusing because I didn't know. I imagine that's what Huxley feels because he has no idea and he was being made to be in these overwhelming sensory situations he's not ready for without support. It makes me sad.

[@IrisSnow]

I have ADHD and I don't have an autism diagnosis though both of my brothers do and we suspect that I may fall somewhere on the spectrum but at this point a diagnosis doesn't really matter. But even I have had times where I'm just over stimulated and I start shaking or tapping or humming/singing etc. because it helped me to process things

[@tonichan89]

They should have taught him 🏅✨pOsiTiVe tHiNkiNg✨🏅 and to take charge of his own destiny!🧗‍♂️ So that he could eMpOwEr himself to not need that stimming cRuTcH any longer!! Just read him some 💃Rachel Hollis🤸‍♀️ books for nightnight time 😩😩😩🤡

[@Felps2701]

the way they were setting up their preferences of adoption it sounded more like a product than an actual human being... this is so sad bro

[@BentleyS6336]

Like I can understand wanting one of the many things that a kid can be. That would be gender, age, or location. You can't want all of them. That makes them look like products. I can only understand wanting a girl, or a 5-8 year old, or whatever. But not all.

[@johnnyfrankenstein0123]

@@BentleyS6336 yeah, if you're gonna get a child you should want one to take care of them and love them regardless of their life choices as long as it doesnt harm them or others

[@aliceiscalling]

I think that it's understandable to have an "ideal" child in mind while adopting. The thing is, good parents are willing to look at children outside of that range. Being mindful of a child's health needs is also really important. Not every family could afford the doctor and/or behavioral health visits a child with higher needs might need. It's sad that not every special needs child can have a proper home, but it's better is the adopting family recognizes that.

[@confusedaf1112]

@@BentleyS6336 Don't forget how she said she didn't want a child that had been s3xually abused, as if they'd be damaged goods.

[@BentleyS6336]

@@confusedaf1112 yeah that lady's fuckin nuts. Can't wait for her retirement home

[@Cmoreau27]

The fake innocent little girl voice Myka puts on in her videos makes my entire soul cringe into another universe

[@angelagrimes5661]

This whole situation breaks my heart. That precious little boy acted like my nephew who has autism. He's 5 and just now becoming verbal, but to think she took that child away from all he knew, made a separation in the family between the kids that even he could notice, and then throw him in a totally different environment.... just pisses me off!! Honestly I think he just wanted a son and when she gave birth to a boy, they didn't want to "deal" with Huxley anymore

[@dmitrifrancisco3912]

The vibes are way to good man. Glad I could join your journey this early on. YOU BIG BABY.

[@thethmooteresa]

YARSHH!! :D we proud of you bro Leo

[@timothy2204]

Been here since 6k

[@g.devil_a.f3748]

Been here since 16k really happy to be early

[@ash-gw9bv]

G.dEviL _a.F since the lilly videos !

[@llemonjuicce]

Th moment I heard her say that it went in one ear and out the other about A CHILDS MEDICAL STATE I was ready to throw hands, and I have noodle arms

[@ewwpoorpeople5684]

I’d get myself addicted to steroids just to have that fight

[@murderedx8018]

Pull out the 9

[@Toywins]

@@murderedx8018 😂😂😂💯

[@user-by4cd1hd2y]

This made me tear up a little bc Huxley is such a sweet little precious thing, and he's already had to go through so much. What if her own children would grow up to have some disability or something like that? God, I pray that never happens, but is she gonna "rehome" her biological kids too? She and her husband shouldn't be allowed to have kids, they don't deserve kids.

[@Lexilove2016]

I love how in the apology they try to make themselves look "uglier" by her wearing her glasses and having her husband/yes man not wear a hat so you can see his baldness

[@keeganbehrens1667]

This is so whack to me. I really want to adopt kids when I settle down to have a family and my thought was always to adopt older kids cause they tend to have a harder time being adopted. This really shouldn't be about the parents it should be about the kids. These people are disgusting.

[@dany56698]

Exactly, this. The point of adopting a kid is to give them the oportunity and chance to grow up in a loving environment where they can be themselves, learn, love, mature, have fun, fuck it's about giving someone a better life. These people adopted for all the wrong reasons.

[@BookBird2963]

It's sad that the older a kid gets, the harder it is for them to get adopted.

[@sourfrog4263]

@@BookBird2963 yea

[@EmpressEllie]

I agree! The slogan adopt don’t shop is pretty relevant here. Sighhhh. I wish for the world more successful adoptions rather than this garbage!!

[@elodeduvenhage7695]

I am my parent's biological child, yet they never thought of giving me up for adoption. They did everything and more to help me get through all my "problems" that would send those people running too high hills. I am so grateful I have the parents I do and didn't end up with those types of parents.

[@Ps3luvr260]

I love how she keeps saying “land” like this kid is a jackpot on a slot machine

[@leonora4369]

"we would aim for a boy" girls are often the ones neglected or looked down upon in a lot of countries. I'll never understand predeciding what gender you want your kid to be. If you're gonna adopt, take care of the kids in need, don't stare yourself blind focusing on the gender.

[@msjkramey]

Idk how common it is these days, but China is famous for its gender selective infanticide against baby girls. You could legitimately be saving a baby girl's life, but no, you want a boy, like that even matters. And like leo said, what if they turn out to be trans or something anyways? You can't pick out your kids traits like it's some RPG character creator

[@mushela15085]

I guess it’s a personal thing really where you think accordingly to what you could potentially have to face bringing up a girl or a boy I would never ever decide to have a girl so if ever it’s gonna be a boy 100% because I know I don’t have what it takes to raise a girl.

[@LunarEleven]

*Especially* China! This is a really good point... god forbid she should know about the child's origin country. She's like "oh yeah China I like their egg rolls!"

[@morningstarentertainment6846]

@@mushela15085 don't get somebody pregnant

[@bigsistahtips]

@@mushela15085 if you have to choose a gender to love someone unconditionally, just don't, please.

[@Script.Doodles]

She sounds like she’s trying to collect all the Pokémon or some shit or that fake sitcom friend circle from the 90’s where every kid is different races and has a unique quirk about them

[@aw2584]

Apparently one of her kids is called Onyx which I'm pretty sure is a Pokemon so I guess this makes sense

[@williamcorvinus8240]

@@aw2584 onyx is a type of stone..

[@ahshitherewegoagain7461]

@@williamcorvinus8240 Im also pretty sure its the name of a pokemon

[@abbytrapp8258]

Why is she calling him a “youngster” ? Why are they talking like they are 60???

[@emilyc.524]

Can you imagine the psychological damage they did to that poor kid. 😞😞

[@Toonksbell43]

When Rosalie ended up on the wall I spit out my water 😂

[@bbgrill3967]

Literally same I was duing

[@user-fq4hj8yv2z]

She's just doing normal baby arm workouts

[@velvetta-johnson3123]

Same!

[@smallandstressed2364]

“We were not told that kids with *special needs* had special needs. We didn’t bother to research his condition, we just figured that a special needs kid would be just like other kids.” Did they take him to occupational therapy?

[@smallandstressed2364]

Holy fuck, I just heard the “fighting for attention” bit and I’m gonna scream. I have sensory processing disorder and those behaviors are fight or flight responses. That kid was in a overwhelming situation and the parents didn’t *bother* to recognize his needs.

[@sinnamonroll2780]

HONESTLY AS AN OTA STUDENT. I ASKED THE SAME SHIT. I heard that they went straight to an ABA Therapist and nothing else, which explains a whole lot🙃

[@adelascotland]

I really hope that sweet little boy has found a family that loves him and not those evil, selfish, human beings who never deserved him

[@throwawaybabie8943]

i'm gonna have a hot take here, but i think james genuinely cared about huxley. he seems genuinely sad and broken that the decision was made. his eyes are red from holding back tears and you can hear the genuine emotion, especially when you compare that to myka. i think james grew attached, just like he said he would, and it was too much to handle by himself. i mean look at the way he breaks up on saying he loved him and how myka immediately tried to jump in and "explain" what he meant. like damn, let him grieve. goodness.

[@aldowilliams4765]

If he really cared he would’ve acted like a man and raised Huxley like he said he would

[@KirstenMarie_MS3]

My parents simply got divorced when I was Huxley's age, and even that left me with abandonment issues. I can't even fathom what being given up by your adoptive family would do to a kid.

[@murderedx8018]

I hope you're feeling better now tho

[@kittygechlik2797]

It’s also so sad because the whole reason why Huxley’s mother put him up for adoption wasn’t because she didn’t want him, it was because she couldn’t take care of him as well and wanted him to have a better life and more opportunities in his life. She loved and still loves him so much and thought his life was going to be way better than the life she could’ve gave him and thought he was going to a better place. it’s really heartbreaking what Huxley is and will go through because 3 years?? and he gets attached very easily it’s all so sad for him. :( the couple just angers me ugh.

[@mihirikamiss6229]

That makes me so sad. If I was the mother I'd be so full of rage, I don't know how I'd handle that if I were her.

[@xdiabolicalkitanax2916]

He's the cutest baby I've ever seen!! I can't believe someone would rehome him. I have three cousins who have autism and they are the most amazing people in the world they really missed out

[@FullMetalcoreJojo]

This is the first video of yours I’ve seen and by golly am I here to stay. Perfect mix of serious conversation, comedy, lightheartedness, and CHARACTER. Much respect, see you in the next one!

[@lifesucks4413]

Can we talk about how they weren’t even really crying. Maybe it’s just me, but I saw no tears.

[@veronicakashaka3299]

They didn't adopt a kitten. They adopted a child, you don't just give him back because you can't handle him, you knew he had problems, you took on the responsibility, and you failed that child, and your own child as well, because she lost her brother. You did it all for publicity. Give the child back all the money you got from him being on the show. Oh and I would never give back a kitten if I adopted one.

[@NoxLoch]

Ikr. They just did the sad voice and screwed their faces up. Not the slightest hint of a tear. They need to fuck off to a sewer because they’re disgusting trash people.

[@lola10619]

I’m crying I feel so sad for the poor baby involved in this 🥺😫I hope he is adopted by a good family

[@sarikatimmi]

her saying “his new mommy” is off putting. as if that’s a thing. how many moms is he going to have.

[@caseymckenna7111]

“I could hold my baby higher” really got me.

[@mariahlasserud4076]

I love your videos because they make me laugh out loud multiple times per video! I just love your silliness. I’m so glad I found your channel!

[@frostbyte4846]

She SPECIFICALLY wanted a special needs child as well and said she felt like she could handle anything

[@theblackdahlia88]

They also had a doctor medically assess him and the extent of his disability prior to the adoption. The doctor warned them against it.

[@tonichan89]

She wrote in some facebook group she wanted the kind of special needs that would look difficult to most people but aren’t actually that challenging. She just wants her Perfect Saint Mother image.

[@laxulu]

*“Rozalina how old are you?”* _”Sieexteeen”_

[@M1LKBO1-]

🤣🤣🤣🤣💀

[@5taceydaisy]

Hey man, I’m binging all your older videos since I’ve watched all your latest, and what you said at the end about your medical struggles hit home with me. I too have shared that experience and put my parents through the wringer at hospitals my entire childhood. Hell, into adulthood! I was in an accident at 24 that broke my neck and forced me to move back home. My mother had to help me shower for years until I was able to get the surgeries I needed and built back up my abilities and relearned how to take care of myself with my new restrictions. I’ve passed 30 now and still need their help thanks to some major fuck ups with insurance leaving me more disabled through lack of care. If it weren’t for my parents being good parents I would have been homeless years ago and likely would no longer be alive. I know someone who went through that because her parents had the “you’re over 18, we don’t have to help you anymore” mindset. She k*lld herself after two years of couchsurfing and living on the streets while trying to navigate her new life in a wheelchair. Signing up to be a parent means signing up to be there for someone no matter what. Especially when you’re making that choice so very blatantly like in an adoption. This wasn’t some “I didn’t know I was pregnant” shit where she gave birth on the toilet and they had zero ability to prepare. This was a year(s) long process where they affirmed and reaffirmed wanting this poor kid every step of the way. I have memories from being in the hospital at his age. Of my mom fighting for my medical care. It breaks my heart to think of the memories he’ll have when he’s older and the trauma he’s going to have to work through. I guess the only bright sides are that he is in a family now that will actually take care of him the way he deserves (hopefully), and that when he’s older and questioning back on all this he can watch the videos and see that it wasn’t his fault, and that the entire internet stepped up to say as much. You and I, we’re the lucky ones. Life may have thrown us a shitton of curveballs, and believe me when I say I fully understand how difficult health problems can be; how much they can affect every damn facet of your life. But I would rather have all these issues and a mother (& father) who love and genuinely care for me through thick and thin, than be perfectly healthy and without loving parents, knowing that I’m ultimately on my own. ❤

[@DangerouslyStupidGamer]

I'm so freaking mad dude. I literally have the notification bell on to receive notifications for all of your vids, and KZbin STILL didn't notify me about this one. Just when I thought they were trying to fix their shiz

[@Cryptictrashcat]

The true sad part in all of this is that the Stauffer's didn't go threw the agency that been involved with him getting adopted. The Stauffer's got to pick where or who he was re-homed to. Just like a dog. The agency found out when the story broke. This poor child didn't deserve any of this, while they get to keep the profit from the Huxley videos.

[@bee6035]

Let Rosalina take over the channel, she deserves it

[@BentleyS6336]

She reminds me of the spiderman figure that would 'teleport' around the music room in elementary school every day

[@MaidenofLostMemories]

Listening and watching you in this video really had me thinking how compassionate, intelligent and super cute you are. 🤗 Thank you for the content handsome man.

[@brooklynsmomma88]

Thanks for making light of this situation poor baby but you made it much easier to watch I feel like this people are full of it.

[@brooklynsmomma88]

I see no real crying here that's a issue.

[@Shenmoki]

"They dropped kicked their son-" my brain: *F I G H T O R F L I G H T*

[@user-fq4hj8yv2z]

Fight!

[@SweeterGull]

Fight

[@elmothecrackaddict646]

Fight

[@shioriroy8385]

FIGHT

[@liahamilton8931]

Fight

[@karmell8063]

gorillaz songs in the intro hit different

[@samschiang]

as soon as i heard the feel good inc beat i knew i was subbed to the right man

[@karmell8063]

@@samschiang this. im investing in this comment.

[@pixel-hy4jx]

This just makes me sad I miss blur so much

[@dianamverni2145]

This is so disgusting and sad. They adopted, not fostered... you can’t just give back someone you’ve adopted. I’m sure they would never think about “giving up” their biological children.... you covered this issue really well 👏🏻

[@mary1412]

The baby doll moving all behind you was cracking me up 😂

[@borntobelucky02]

"We were respecting his privacy for ONCE and didn't want to mess anything up!" Translation: We were going to ignore it hoping you guys would forget but since you guys won't shut up we'll make a "pity me" video. They knew about his disabilities but thought he would make them look good as parents but tossed him when he showed their true colors. Also, she said she took on a kid with disabilities BECAUSE she was a RN which it turns out she sucked at. Funny enough, she had her own son around the same time she "re-homed" Huxley and her son will smile at the cameras on command.

[@TheoCynical]

I never got that she would get ANOTHER KID after juggling 3 others with Huxley. Its irreseponsible!

[@alecsandoval8652]

Jimmy looks like a human stale chip you find under a couch

[@BentleyS6336]

The lady looks like a penny under a cushion that's sticky for some reason and has hair and dust stuck to it, and is also really wet

[@BentleyS6336]

@LiliEriNySka because that's how gross she is

[@faithfrazier6344]

They didn't even use an adoption agency to find that little boy a new home because the police report stated that fact that they couldn't find that little boy it took them a while to find him

[@johnjacomb2645]

Imagine if when he's older he sues them for making money off him through views etc

[@user-ww8vl7fw4q]

That would be....EPIC!!!

[@sethdroddy5636]

i have an adopted younger brother from uganda, and i think its so wrong for people to adopt for the sake of looking better, the reason to adopt is to help someone in need that otherwise would have a terrible life. keep the great vids up!

[@hi-pb8bq]

“i measure things in hairs, why you think my husbands bald” 💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@raynariley58]

started tearing up at 14:54 tbh...so thankful despite ur sarcastic personality u actually cover serious topics and expose weird ass people on youtube and CARE, i love children too much so this really broke my heart. but it's not like it was fair to put him with a mom who only used him for views and money. as much as it was evil to rehome him it was a blessing in disguise let's pray he's with a loving family now, thank u for making me laugh & cry ur the best leo

[@israaalkatip9881]

Man! I spent a significant part of my time to sleep last night dying laughing at your videos, today's work was difficult. But its all worth it!! You're really funny ... Subscribed!

[@natashaherman9729]

I wish Leo got Huxley .. I think he would actually be very understanding and caring. A great father figure. Huxley looked like such a sweetheart too 🥺

[@joykhabbaz8081]

Sixteenleo back in da house with a new video. Thank you for keeping me entertained my dude ✊🏽😌♥️

[@thanahune9241]

I enjoyed this video so much. Thank you for speaking out while being very funny bc otherwise I'd have balled my eyes out. I am new and I'm obsessed with your videos already ☺️

[@julialee8659]

Your content is the best thing since sliced bread, keep it up so keen for more.