Fashion Mistakes That Make You Look Older │ Over 50

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Please share some of your fashion mistakes below, ladies. I'd love to hear about them and how I can help. XXX

[@rosemarycooper1572]

I’ve just discovered your channel and you are great. What a lovely speaking voice, and you get to the point, no waffle. I watch a lot of fashion videos and you are refreshing. Much of the advice is the same but just presented differently. I’m just going to stick to two now and you are one of them. Can you please do a hair and makeup video, as many women over fifty continue with their long hair and colour, and harsh eye makeup, when I think it’s time to soften things as our skin changes and hair goes through transition. Thank you

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi Rosemary and welcome to my channel. Thank you so much for your lovely comments. It's wonderful to be so appreciated. I'm just a very honest person and I think this definitely comes over in my videos! Thank you also for your suggestion on doing a video on hair and makeup. I will add it to my plan and work on this. XX

[@annelafontaine1858]

Yes i do agree

[@ParisianThinker]

I was thinking about Eileen Fisher clothes and then you reminded me about shape and nothing baggy. 😁

[@maryokeefe5351]

True, although some of her clothes drape in a flattering way. Not all, that's for sure.

[@joanannewallace]

Excellent advice just love the white and yellow blazers.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thanks so much! XX

[@tennilledebysingh5819]

I think my biggest fashion mistake in the past was simply not knowing my base style & how to style myself. Only in the last 18 months or so have I done a lot of work in this area & figured it out.

[@jeannies792]

Happy to watch ads to help your channel. You deserve it! 💕🇨🇦🇨🇦

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

That’s so sweet of you, Jeannie. Take care and love to you and all in 🇨🇦 xx

[@joanannewallace]

I think all my summer dresses have flowers on. I love wearing them in the hot WA summers. I'll have to look how big the flowers are.

[@lorilegrow9590]

Another new subscriber. Love how you speak fluently and get to the point.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi Lori. Welcome aboard. Thanks so much for subscribing and for your lovely compliment. Xx

[@noralaifa5120]

Fabulous Deirdre! i like your advice.i'm a little bit fat and i like wearing clothes with flowers especially in summer and i do not feel really at ease ,i have always thought that there's something wrong with me,it becomes clearer just now watching your video,that big flowers make me look fat and doesn't fit me at all.Iwould like you to present some outfits with their make up,which ones matches better with outfits,i mean colour of eyeshadows and lip sticks etc...i'm suresome women find difficulty in choosing the right colours of make up with their outfits.Good luck darling!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi Nora. Welcome to my channel and wonderful to have you here. Thanks so much for commenting too. I'm so pleased that my little pieces of advice have helped you. If you are a little larger, the big flower prints will definitely make you look bigger than you are, so try getting some smaller prints and smaller flowers if you like this type of clothing. I think bright colours are fine and look good, so don't worry about that! I will definitely be looking at make up very soon, so watch out for this! Lots of love. X

[@Melaniexb1]

Thank you! So happy I found! You! Excellent idea’s for us women over 50!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thanks so much. I’m here to help! Xx

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I love classic items, but I make sure to keep them updated with trends that suit me. For example, when I needed new tees last year, I got a couple of fresher square-neck, ribbed cotton ones instead of the same exact style I had before.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Excellent idea! XX

[@Donna.Walmsley101]

You’ve raised some excellent points to work your wardrobe and in the end the thing that works the magic of attractiveness is a big smile, some confidence and wearing what you love, no matter your age, size or stage of life. Thank you for sharing with fab pics and a delightful attitude- I’m here for that! Donna 🧚🏻‍♀️❤️🐝

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thank you Donna. X

[@moenmac]

Just love your videos. You do a wonderful job informing your audience. Thank You.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

So nice of you, thank you xx

[@kimberlyberlin4999]

So many great ideas in this video. You have a wonderful way of getting your point across and adding a little humor at the same time. This video is 8 months old and I must say that the smaller eyelashes you wear currently are much more flattering. It's not my intention to hurt your feelings, I'm only mentioning it because you look much nicer when your eyelashes are a more natural length. Love your channel Deirdre.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

I appreciate your comments, Kimberly and you haven't hurt my feelings at all. I agree with you!! XX

[@Trish-ql9kz]

I’m watching this two years later,all the trends still apply, as for the classic trench coat it’ll always be fashionable

[@wendylasota2707]

I agree, women seem to be wearing old fashion looking over done makeup. It makes you look older. I think a light makeup really highlights and older women's beautiful face. Stop trying to look younger. It doesn't work and being older looks great!

[@mujeresbellassiempre1895]

Genial tus videos ❤️🇦🇷

[@arlenewitt248]

I agree with you about about large prints. Mistakes I had to learn not to make are as follows: 1. Not having my stripes line up where the sleeves need the body of the item or where it buttons, 2. Large prints, although I find this relative the size of the women-big women can wear a larger print, 3. Too many loud colors in one outfit. I find the louder the color the fewer shades need to be incorporated. I find my biggest lesson I had to learn that many women fail to learn that is even more aging than fashion choices deals with make up. As one ages, less is more. Black hair and eye make up needs to be changed to brown as black is too harsh and makes one look hard. Lip liner needs to match the shade of lipstick which needs to be a more neutral color and no more highlighting under the eyebrow in white as that makes the eyes look droopy. I find on me a more natural look is much more youthful than one that screams made up. This doesn’t necessarily mean less make up, but means going with more natural shades than blend in with my coloring more.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thanks so much for watching and your great comments. I agree with everything you’ve said! As you say, makeup is another factor to consider as we get a little older. Less is more and softness becomes increasingly important. I don’t think makeup sits as well on older skin so we have to adapt to stay glowing and youthful. Thanks so much again for sharing your thoughts. Xxx

[@que2h.690]

1st time watching your channel & I'm hysterical ! ( not to mention very much informed !!) " where the print ends & where your body starts."....."print looks like bird poo."...."not to cover yourself up so no one has any idea what you look like. " & your photo inserts of trends- ♀️ with hat ! Thank you. Definitely subscribing.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi there. Thank you so much for your great comments and for subscribing. I'm so happy to be appreciated! X

[@que2h.690]

@@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre I'd forgotten to comment on my fashion "aging" ideas. Clothes that are much too tight- making you look like a sausage. Overly frilly clothes -making you look straight out of a Victorian sepia photo. Moo moos. Paperbag pants. Garishly deco tees or tees that say LOVE with unicorns. IMHO- cold shoulder tops done poorly. I have more but that's all for now...........& ........ I did very much appreciated your video!🐴

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

@@que2h.690 Ah, some of my favourite fashion faux pas in that collection! X

[@diannavoss8552]

You are doing a wonderful job....keep it up.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

That's really sweet of you, thank you. I really want to help us women over 50 as I feel we are not considered enough in fashion, style and beauty. Thanks so much for watching and commenting. XX

[@Lynny1651]

Love your advice 50& fabulous My friend Deidre, but I’m well over 50, I don’t feel my accurate age, I love what you wear , just trying to loose some weight so I can take advantage of your videos, Thank you so much

[@christineribone9351]

I have a white blazer like yours, but the sleeves are too long. I'm petite and have short arms. What do you think of that old style of pushing the sleeves of a jacket up?

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

I love it! I do it all the time! XX

[@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11]

Hair and make up play a big part also. I spent 30 years doing hair, and if more clients would listen to the hairdresser instead of trying to hold onto their youth they would look a lot better. Also make up less is more when you’re older.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi there. Great comments and thank you for sharing them. Welcome aboard. X

[@MiaHessMusic]

Great video, Deirdre! Thanks!

[@taniamacdonald8548]

Kia ora from NZ. Absolutely love your channel and your sense of style. We Polynesians love colour & flowers in our hair so can you give us some of your fabulous tips please.

[@YACKYSNACKY]

Awesome teaching. I love it!

[@nancyulloa7119]

Is may sound crazy... But you actually look like a teenager today... And if I let my hair grow out it would have gray showing ...you have dark... And I actually love it ... I think it makes you look younger than when you have it all the same color... Although I understand... I'm just speaking the truth ...you look younger with your roots showing... How does it feel to be 18 again?....I'm from Michigan...USA... I absolutely love your channel!!...I turn a young 61 this year... You absolutely are my favorite with all your tips and tricks!!!😊❤

[@annelafontaine1858]

Thank you for teaching me ,i really learn allot with you.You reaaly explain it well.Anne.❤💖

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

You are so welcome, Anne. XX

[@nancybellantoni6099]

Hi Deidre, love your channel. I have been watching the runway shows for spring/summer. Loved the Tom ford show witch showed shiny brights and metallics. Would love to see your take on how to style the trend without looking ridiculous.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi Nancy. Thanks for your lovely comments. I love Tom Ford too and, coincidentally, shiny brights and metallics!! I think they can certainly be incorporated (sparingly!) and in a toned-down way into outfits we wear. Thank you for your suggestion as I may include this in my series on “50 WAYS TO LOOK AND FEEL FABULOUS AFTER 50”. I hope you are enjoying this series. Thanks again. Xx

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I agree, especially about the oversized clothes, that’s a trend I hate. It’s so mannish and shapeless. I’m not tall and have a small, narrow frame and I just disappear in oversized clothes. I never wear tight clothes, either, just ones fitted to my body, I think that’s the most flattering.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

I agree with you, Kimberly. I get swamped by oversized clothes as well.XX

[@mohamedmadi7338]

I love this vidéo speech Deirdre. Thanks endlessly for sharing these pieces of advice. You are candidly a great noble sweet lady I confess

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Aww, thank you so much Mohamed. I'm so pleased you enjoyed this video. Have you shown it to your wife and daughter too?

[@njohnston1224]

Love this practical straight advice,,thankyou straight to the point of how to,,!!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

I’m so glad you like it!! Take care. Xx

[@harounharoun3897]

Woow .. that's really what fits you also besides your fabulous teaching vids

[@PalmTreeTeachingTV]

Thank you so much!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thank you!

[@nataliamiles7109]

Dear Deirdre, You look stunning, youthful, and fresh in white and yellow. The bigger shoulder pads are flattering on you, too. I love all your tips. My wardrobe is about 95% classic clothing now--quite a contrast to my wardrobe before. One film that influenced the way I dress is called China Moon, starring Madeline Stowe; it came out in the early 1990s. She wears elegant clothes, such as sheaths and delicate jewelry. Thank you for showing us how to dress more youthful as we get older. By the way, where's your kitty? I love seeing her doing a cameo role! Natalia Arizona

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi Natalia. Thank you for your lovely comments. I'm going to have to look out for the film you recommend. Madeleine Stowe is a very elegant actress. One film you might like to watch for the style of the protagonist is Mr and Mrs Smith. Angelina Jolie looks amazing in pencil skirts and fitted clothes. If you like her, you'll love this film!! Take care. XX

[@nataliamiles7109]

@@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre Dear Deirdre, Thank you for the suggestion of the Angelina Jolie film; yes, I've seen it, and she looks stunning in her tailored outfits. The costume designer outdid herself with that film. I live in knee-length pencil skirts from White House Black Market. They have classic clothing and trendy items, too; it's a nice mix--just like the ones that you create. Your style is so similar to mine. I love all your outfits. Have you considered making a video with another person, such as Marie-Anne Lecouer; she has a channel on French chic. She lives in France. She paired with an Italian lady on a video for Italian chic versus French chic. Perhaps you could show British chic versus French chic? Just an idea. Hope you have a great day! Natalia Arizona

[@PalmTreeTeachingTV]

@@nataliamiles7109 Thank you for your lovely comments and your great suggestion. I really appreciate it. XX

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Great video, thanks Deidre. I love your channel.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thank you so much Kimberly. I love reading your comments too. XX

[@scc3157]

wonderful ideas! Thanks!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thanks so much and thanks for watching my channel xx

[@bana.muhammad8318]

A very BIG like 🤩

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

You're so sweet, thank you so much. I hope all is well with you. Lots of love. XX

[@kimkostek7233]

Just found you channel and love your advice.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

You're very welcome and I'm so glad you're enjoying it.x

[@barbsnyder3579]

Such an informative video.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thank you so much, Barb xx

[@joannanangle4876]

The lady s hair is v nice the curl that is in the hair alsostripey jumper v nice

[@annesmith5192]

I think the sparkle around your neckline is very flattering and youthful. I'm not sure if it's a necklace or part of your sweater.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thank you so much! It's a little, delicate necklace. X

[@elizabethannwest646]

Hi I am 72 and very tall 5ft 10 inches I have a 11 and a half shoe size. Very hard to find.maybe you can recommend some shops that cater to tall women. I really get a lot of tips from you. One of the few channels with lots of options thank you so much

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Awww, thank you so much Elizabeth. Where are you based? … so I know which snipe to recommend. Xx

[@elizabethannwest646]

@@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre I am in Canada northwestern Ontario

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

@@elizabethannwest646 hi there. I know that ASOS do a big range of shoes up to size 11.5 for ladies which are available in Canada. There’s a shop which also ships online called Maurices which have a huge range of shoes at affordable prices up to size 12, if that helps. Xx

[@elizabethannwest646]

@@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre yes great thanks so much I will look and keep watching

[@maryokeefe5351]

@@elizabethannwest646 I believe you can also order online from Long Tall Sally.

[@wd1598]

I disagree on prints…..now maybe because I am 6ft tall - I can pull it off. The print and how you pair it with jackets

[@sundaemorning9343]

Too much makeup can age you as well

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

So true! Thanks for watching and commenting. X

[@mujeresbellassiempre1895]

Saludos ❤️🇦🇷

[@josalmon4742]

Thank you!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

You’re welcome x

[@tresaduckworth1200]

My pet peeve is the big straight hem, square t-shirt! ladies stop this! A simple knot tied in front or back creates a rounded hem and sinches in waistline. #stopthebaggytee

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi Tresa. You are so right. A big, straight hem just cuts a person in two! Love your hashtags #stopthebaggytee!

[@maryokeefe5351]

Agree, also a contoured hem on a top is so much more flattering. I wonder why more designers do not feature them?

[@paulcrerand3145]

Have to say i disagree i love loud floral prints and feel they make me look younger

[@scottmcdonald3019]

love the stripes

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thank you so much

[@rickgrimeswife6638]

Hallo 😊...Greetings from Poland....🌺🌺🌺...my name is Katarzyna...😊😊😊...Thank You..

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

You’re so welcome xx

[@florancetanivill7385]

Would love to see a podcast on hair styles for ladies in 50s to look chic.

[@monicawadia]

Kindly suggest the materials to choose for designing clothes. Especially since I live in India, a tropical country

[@gladysunegbu8881]

I love those stripped top💕💕

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thanks so much. The link is under the video if you are interested in it. X

[@mateba5647]

Hi pretty legs lady!!!😊

[@wd1598]

The best advice…..look in the mirror AND……what do you think