Fat Joy E96 Feeling Belonging, Accepted, and Loveable with Charis Stiles

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Charis Stiles (she/her) wants us all to feel like we belong, are accepted, and are worthy of love. Often, the barriers to feeling this way stem from wounding that was out of our control, however there’s a lot we can do to repair, heal, and rebuild a sense of self. Charis describes how we can examine self-limiting beliefs, separate out what are real external barriers and what are internalized barriers, and let go of shame and perfectionism.
Charis is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) living in the San Francisco Bay Area. She’s a therapist, educator, and activist. In addition to proving therapy, she trains organizations on proving fat positive care. She’s taught social work at San Jose State and been a clinical supervisor for new therapists. She identifies as fat, queer, white cisgender (elder) millennial, managing daily life with an autoimmune disorder. When she’s not working, she’s reading romance novels, watching lots of cat TikTok, and trying her hand at ceramics.
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This episode’s poem is called “Starfish” by Eleanor Lerman. poets.org/poem...
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[@mohamedbellairs6369]

Lol xoxo I agree re Pinterest; it showed me modest dressing. I love how real each guest is. Their authenticity encourages me.

[@fatjoy]

Thank you!!! ❤

[@mohamedbellairs6369]

Oh my word "there must be something wrong with them..." if they love /accept me This is powerful.

[@fatjoy]

Agree!!! ❤❤

[@mohamedbellairs6369]

For mom issues refer to Bethany Webster ❤ Yes, our caregivers don't remember. It may have been big moments for us but not to them. It's been a big deal realising your caregivers are ordinary people dealing with their own trauma and trying to survive the world themselves.

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Thank you for that recommendation, I’ll check Bethany out. ❤

[@mohamedbellairs6369]

@@fatjoy I think her book is called Healing the Mother Wound