FATHER FIGURE

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MillenniaThinker

MillenniaThinker

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@MillenniaThinker
@MillenniaThinker 3 жыл бұрын
Anon, did you know that 1 in 5 babies are taken from their mothers by court order in divorce? I believe mothers should win these cases every time. We live in the 21st century for God's sake. There is no place for sexism towards women. Here is another tomboy video that you love so much ... kzbin.info/www/bejne/omfFgHmkqbSVjbc
@metaception4867
@metaception4867 3 жыл бұрын
true.
@matthewhetes9965
@matthewhetes9965 3 жыл бұрын
This is probably a huge r/wooosh moment but I think it's supposed to say men instead of women
@Паліндром-й7ы
@Паліндром-й7ы 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@Skrift4675
@Skrift4675 3 жыл бұрын
@@matthewhetes9965 hopefully
@jawbone3910
@jawbone3910 3 жыл бұрын
@@matthewhetes9965 Just FYI for those who didn't get it, this is just another way of saying 4/5 men lose custody of their children in divorce court, but it's painting it in a way that makes it seem like the women are the victims.
@hectordelarocha10
@hectordelarocha10 3 жыл бұрын
In the end one of two things happen: 1. She ends up hating her mom. 2. She buys into mom's bs and hates dad.
@Laura-bq4uu
@Laura-bq4uu 3 жыл бұрын
From experience I can straight up tell you, once the kids are on their own they will want to know, it's only about how indoctrinated they are and how long it will take to see the truth
@ballsackschrader218
@ballsackschrader218 3 жыл бұрын
Starts an Onlyfans
@mevavideos5922
@mevavideos5922 3 жыл бұрын
@@Laura-bq4uu Exactly. People aren’t getting this.
@irahdykeabueva4615
@irahdykeabueva4615 3 жыл бұрын
From personal experience, once kids have grown up into their own person, they'll reach out to their divorced parent to know "what happened?", they'll make their own judgement if they were wrong about their divorced parent or not.
@irahdykeabueva4615
@irahdykeabueva4615 3 жыл бұрын
@@ballsackschrader218 haha no.
@joechill9747
@joechill9747 3 жыл бұрын
"Fathers are not second class parent" - Judge Judy
@matt309
@matt309 3 жыл бұрын
I love that quote
@streety1355
@streety1355 3 жыл бұрын
@@matt309 same
@neuzdost1939
@neuzdost1939 3 жыл бұрын
@@nuiadngnsdnge2673 Thats not based. Thats true
@yeee7284
@yeee7284 3 жыл бұрын
@@nuiadngnsdnge2673 not really, it's used when someone says something controversial and isn't reluctant about it. This isn't controversial, it's basic facts.
@K3hlz
@K3hlz 3 жыл бұрын
@@nuiadngnsdnge2673 god thats true and i hate it
@metahospes7947
@metahospes7947 3 жыл бұрын
> "The daughter needs her father" > Takes the child and leaves the father Haha, classic...
@uneverknow8154
@uneverknow8154 3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry, she will quickly find replacement for him a better father. One will be a wallet for her schools and mothers meals, another will be a vibrator on the legs for mom, 3rd will be a stepdad for her. She is on that path. People in that society are well replaceable, that what this daughter learn from her family.
@prokrastynacya
@prokrastynacya 3 жыл бұрын
@@uneverknow8154 that is so fckin sad man, i still have future ahead and a lot of chanches but i dont think im gonna be able a partner that i can really trust since this is what mindset is our society promotes
@BoredLoserAlpha
@BoredLoserAlpha 3 жыл бұрын
Double binds or ,,lose-lose situation" is a common manipulation tactic used by usually narcissitic individuals to put targets in places where the target cannot win. The goal is to put the target (depending what the individual wants) either: into a fetchquest, state of learned helplessness, emotinal immobilization, gaslighting
@ferdinandbardamu.
@ferdinandbardamu. 3 жыл бұрын
@@uneverknow8154 reading this shit always gives me a sinking feeling in my stomach
@fixed5043
@fixed5043 3 жыл бұрын
@UCy2tFASi1RHY0CD-Sc5HvUw Chances*, but I have to agree with you, knowing this and still going through life is kinda stressful, you have to worry about who the hell is gonna be an idiot or not.
@Suzuki-SwiftSport
@Suzuki-SwiftSport 2 жыл бұрын
“We have decided it would be better for the child to stay with the mother” Is a sentence I hope no loving father has to hear in their life
@zalexianimate5304
@zalexianimate5304 2 жыл бұрын
My dad did and I gotta say they really protect too much the mother. The cause is not even for the kid it’s literally and only the mother that they listen. And also, I am happy no longer living with my mom she was a b*tch I hate her.
@vacc8069
@vacc8069 2 жыл бұрын
sadly a sentence my dad has had to bear twice with me and my sister
@mereen750
@mereen750 2 жыл бұрын
@@vacc8069 Well but if the child wants to stay with the father no one is stopping her or does the slave owner (government) interfere in that?
@youtubebannedmymainchannel
@youtubebannedmymainchannel 2 жыл бұрын
@@mereen750 Nope, until they're 18 they have no choice.
@mereen750
@mereen750 2 жыл бұрын
@@youtubebannedmymainchannel Damn, so if they go to Dad, the nazi police will come and kidnap him back to mom?
@oscarmayer8533
@oscarmayer8533 3 жыл бұрын
he’s treated like a criminal simply because his wife had too many wants and not enough priority sad the world is
@mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962
@mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 3 жыл бұрын
Let her goooooooooo. She is materialistic. When she is in her 50s she will learn or die.
@oscarmayer8533
@oscarmayer8533 3 жыл бұрын
@@mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 yeah its still hard when you have a child because he would be in the same position only more regret
@khangnguyen1759
@khangnguyen1759 3 жыл бұрын
@@mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 She is the type of woman to be viewed as cool and awesome for young girls, so those girls are likely to follow suit, not all, but a good amount.
@imnotdabi__2515
@imnotdabi__2515 3 жыл бұрын
He's treated like a criminal simply because he is a man
@RLF1949
@RLF1949 3 жыл бұрын
Thx god I am a Asian. If a father spend less time on work will be treated as not responsible.
@anon_3339
@anon_3339 3 жыл бұрын
"you were arguing?" "no, we were just talking." PARENTS SAY THIS SHIT EVERY SINGLE TIME.
@michaelchristy5652
@michaelchristy5652 3 жыл бұрын
AND I F ING HATE IT, parents please just be f ing honest with your kids
@pancakes4795
@pancakes4795 3 жыл бұрын
AND THEY GET AWAY WITH IT TOO
@kikikalathiasart9510
@kikikalathiasart9510 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who grew up around that, I felt that. For some reason they aren’t divorced yet :/
@LittleBenadrylPrincess
@LittleBenadrylPrincess 3 жыл бұрын
As a daughter of divorced parents, I can relate
@sbraypaynt
@sbraypaynt 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that you’re coming to this obvious conclusion only now and also can’t understand why parents lie about these things You’re too immature to be watching these kinds of videos
@yanfei7782
@yanfei7782 3 жыл бұрын
"The father is not able to raise his daughter properly..." Okay Karen. Looking like you on your third glass of wine and your fifth husband.
@obiwan9662
@obiwan9662 3 жыл бұрын
Hello chancellor
@balltoball1
@balltoball1 3 жыл бұрын
Wtf just happened…
@berkanthefounder2773
@berkanthefounder2773 3 жыл бұрын
„Karen“ so cringe
@OwarAjang
@OwarAjang 3 жыл бұрын
@@obiwan9662 wait Cody failed?
@iaminpain8407
@iaminpain8407 3 жыл бұрын
@EyeOfOdin *I WANT TO BE A DICTATOR*
@HairyTheCandyMan
@HairyTheCandyMan 2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be honest, this one almost got me to cry. That was brutal.
@aniruth_47
@aniruth_47 Жыл бұрын
I nearly cried when he was handcuffed when he just wanted to talk to his daughter
@luwado
@luwado Жыл бұрын
same. f-cking hell.
@allseeingotto2912
@allseeingotto2912 Жыл бұрын
This is the life I have to live just like a lot of men , I don’t see my kids at all .
@HairyTheCandyMan
@HairyTheCandyMan Жыл бұрын
@All seeing Otto Man, that's rough. I'm sorry you have to go through that
@allseeingotto2912
@allseeingotto2912 Жыл бұрын
@@HairyTheCandyMan Thanks bro , it’s absolutely heartbreaking, it’s been nearly two years since I have seen or heard from my daughter but I think of her all day everyday .
@maxalaintwo3578
@maxalaintwo3578 3 жыл бұрын
"She needs to spend more time with her father" *divorces*
@VersVlees
@VersVlees 3 жыл бұрын
demands he works more to pay for all her things whines about not being home enough.
@1dingerr
@1dingerr 3 жыл бұрын
There are some women like that, the ones that gaslight their husband's into thinking they aren't doing enough when he's actually working his ass off for his family. It's so she can feel justified in cheating or leaving him
@justaguy4385
@justaguy4385 3 жыл бұрын
" logic "
@hawhafunnyraffs5568
@hawhafunnyraffs5568 3 жыл бұрын
@@1dingerr All. Not some.
@marcellebestbrathwaite8588
@marcellebestbrathwaite8588 3 жыл бұрын
@@hawhafunnyraffs5568 not all women are like that.
@theoscariux8067
@theoscariux8067 3 жыл бұрын
my father always says "maybe you wouldn´t get a perfect girlfriend, but if you want to have kids, dont seek a woman for you, search a mother for your child"
@temtem9255
@temtem9255 3 жыл бұрын
Thats some good ass advice
@splat1gamer25
@splat1gamer25 3 жыл бұрын
Explain? More
@adrithmanvik1853
@adrithmanvik1853 3 жыл бұрын
Wow best quote I've heard in a while
@TheLevsha97
@TheLevsha97 3 жыл бұрын
@@splat1gamer25 he means that first and foremost you should to pay attention to her mother’s qualities, not the face, fitness etc. immediately leave her if she’s a drama queen cuz when you will have children they will pay for your fault
@theoscariux8067
@theoscariux8067 3 жыл бұрын
@@splat1gamer25 you may be canot get a women for yourself, cuz may be you dont understand each other something like that, but if you wanna have kids, search a MOTHER for those child, a good women its not always a good mother and viceversa. Edit: typo
@lt.lizard4205
@lt.lizard4205 3 жыл бұрын
This isn’t even a meme at this point. Literally nobody here is joking in the comments.
@gregoryshortale
@gregoryshortale 3 жыл бұрын
This channel is more like a social commentary with wojak and dommer animations more then a joke.
@suntzu1409
@suntzu1409 3 жыл бұрын
Shit got serious fucking quick
@zcgamerandreacts2762
@zcgamerandreacts2762 3 жыл бұрын
To be honest. Yeah they all are heavy stuff that hit way close to home alot.
@luisapaza317
@luisapaza317 3 жыл бұрын
This is like a satire
@lt.lizard4205
@lt.lizard4205 3 жыл бұрын
Damn, it’s only been 2 days.
@Dantido
@Dantido 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously, when divorce is portrayed so well, I always end up lost for words. I'll just say, every kid deserves a mother AND a father. Don't remove either from their life unless it's absolutely necessary.
@bluexboxgamer2613
@bluexboxgamer2613 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. God bless the nuclear family.
@shittypoopkiller
@shittypoopkiller Жыл бұрын
they aren't going to listen, this is the exact reason i don't start up girl/ boy wars, always saying who suffered from what or this and that, because that affects that part of it A LOT. everyone thinks women do that delicate soul that kisses all the children boo boo's and give their children all the care of the world. That is why certain women get away with things like this (i know there are some good single moms out there but seriously it's 1-6 women that have children that are going to be angels). We gotta stop this quickly.
@AtticusExodus
@AtticusExodus 5 ай бұрын
And that should be up to them, not a damn court system that could care less about the child.
@aloptuleamagnificanton4983
@aloptuleamagnificanton4983 2 ай бұрын
Children raised by single mothers always turn out horribly, with single fathers this is not the case.
@slurpingmario8006
@slurpingmario8006 3 жыл бұрын
“Dad do you love mom” “Sure” “Does mom love you?” “Uhh yeah” Shit hurt me far too much
@jeremy.90210
@jeremy.90210 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah the way his face changed made me sad
@yeah8598
@yeah8598 3 жыл бұрын
That's normal
@sukumuieywang8058
@sukumuieywang8058 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah this shit hit a liiiiiiittle bit too close to home
@theye29
@theye29 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahhahahahaahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahaahhqhqhahqhqhqhahabahahahahahahahahaha I got hit extra Hard by a flashback
@SK1N_WALK3R
@SK1N_WALK3R 3 жыл бұрын
This sparked really bad memories
@unsuzherif2337
@unsuzherif2337 3 жыл бұрын
"She needs a father figure" *Proceeds to divorce her daughter's father.*
@ChipChurp
@ChipChurp 3 жыл бұрын
*Classic*
@MK_ULTRA420
@MK_ULTRA420 3 жыл бұрын
Subtext: "I want Chad and I'm using our daughter to get your money and his attention."
@mal_3157
@mal_3157 3 жыл бұрын
LOGIC
@Lawrance_of_Albania
@Lawrance_of_Albania 3 жыл бұрын
i honestly dont know whats worse, ignorant woman or you guys bitching about everything
@MK_ULTRA420
@MK_ULTRA420 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lawrance_of_Albania lol get over it
@mrazbyte3150
@mrazbyte3150 3 жыл бұрын
"You aren't spending enough time with her." "You have a bad infulance on her." Classic.
@kendrabraun309
@kendrabraun309 3 жыл бұрын
the next line was literally about how she's staying up really late waiting for him and her school work is suffering from it and that's the bad influence
@mrazbyte3150
@mrazbyte3150 3 жыл бұрын
@@kendrabraun309 That went way over your head, huh?
@kendrabraun309
@kendrabraun309 3 жыл бұрын
@Stolas well she's actually in her life sooo
@mrazbyte3150
@mrazbyte3150 3 жыл бұрын
@@kendrabraun309 Just stop.
@kiotthekiller2588
@kiotthekiller2588 3 жыл бұрын
Hum
@Ummactually98
@Ummactually98 2 жыл бұрын
Basically me, my mother and father have broken up and tried to work it out, but my mom thinks he’s doing everything wrong, when she’s the one who always causes it..
@emperorkane317
@emperorkane317 3 жыл бұрын
She's the type of mom that does this kind of shit, then is completely baffled as to why her daughter hates her when she grows up.
@kountasgladones9663
@kountasgladones9663 3 жыл бұрын
call that karma
@InAnotherLife90
@InAnotherLife90 3 жыл бұрын
lol that's the ideal scenario. What makes you think she wont hate her father
@emperorkane317
@emperorkane317 3 жыл бұрын
@@InAnotherLife90 Because she will most likely come to learn that he didn't have much say in the matter. That the courts were bias against him. I guess his only mistake would be not fighting hard enough. But even then, in this scenario he didn't do anything to warrant hate unless her mother manipulates her
@bellatrix9447
@bellatrix9447 3 жыл бұрын
this is so accurate. my mother is like this, i don't even know how to explain my emotions/feelings to my friends everytime they ask me why am i like this. everytime i tell them that the reason why i hate my mom is because she did nothing when i need her help, she didn't even take care of me because she already found a new husband which also became my worst trauma ever. my step father used to bully me along with his son's (which is my step brothers), i also remember the time they duck taped my mouth and hang me on a tree because i acidentally pooped on my pants. and what's more annoying is that my friends kept telling me that 'she's still your mother'. i don't care if she's my mother, violence is violence and that's IT, why can't just people understand that and that's fucked up because me and those who have parents like these never receives any justice for our "abusive parents" actions.
@emperorkane317
@emperorkane317 3 жыл бұрын
@@bellatrix9447 Because for some reason society gives abusive mothers a pass
@skylordthe1st
@skylordthe1st 3 жыл бұрын
This is sad because I went through the same thing parents arguing at night. And the funny thing is that my step father cares more about me then my mom but the court always sides with the mom its fucking bullshit.
@mayorbeetlejuice4841
@mayorbeetlejuice4841 3 жыл бұрын
The court is always bias against men
@skylordthe1st
@skylordthe1st 3 жыл бұрын
@@mayorbeetlejuice4841 and I think its bs but you know what's funny feminist dont talk about this do they?
@ayushsrivastava1672
@ayushsrivastava1672 3 жыл бұрын
@@skylordthe1st Feminists say it's their revenge for the patriachay, and they're happy bout it
@skylordthe1st
@skylordthe1st 3 жыл бұрын
@@ayushsrivastava1672 lol if the patriarchy exists then how come we dont win the court cases lol
@sebastianmoscoso9404
@sebastianmoscoso9404 3 жыл бұрын
Its a tough life i went through it to but trust my things will get better you can make it through it
@Alijamaru
@Alijamaru 3 жыл бұрын
Damn his lawyer was a CHAD and they still lost in court.
@deeznuts-kw6yv
@deeznuts-kw6yv 3 жыл бұрын
Well, the wife used an eldritch entity to win the case, not even chad could win against that.
@petarzhelev1373
@petarzhelev1373 3 жыл бұрын
Meme King what’s eldritch entity?
@adamnotes5830
@adamnotes5830 3 жыл бұрын
@@petarzhelev1373 a being older than time Who’s origin is only know by itself and their devout followers holding special power and authority over the fabric of our reality. In this context a lawyer who’s old and experienced and can bring the judge to their side every time though costly they always win
@petarzhelev1373
@petarzhelev1373 3 жыл бұрын
Adam Notes Thank you for clarifying
@CoKane621
@CoKane621 3 жыл бұрын
@@deeznuts-kw6yv they could had called sal
@glitzandgratitude1170
@glitzandgratitude1170 2 жыл бұрын
My Dad left and never looked back. I have kids and I would fight to death to keep them with me. It rips my heart out to know others are suffering this.
@PKDChewZ
@PKDChewZ 9 ай бұрын
you may be entitled to hate him, but you don't know the mental fortitude, spiritual strength, financial and health burden it takes to fight in family court. Most men will never recover financially, socially in terms of physical and mental health. The only logical choice is not to play. And missing your kids hurt to the bone. This man chose this path, not a glorious one (he's not the hero of the story). But is he the villain? I bet he's not. Just a normal man who chose self preservation.
@jordan12345423
@jordan12345423 3 жыл бұрын
By all means marry, if you get a good wife, you'll be happy, if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. -Socrates
@lars9168
@lars9168 3 жыл бұрын
Poor socrates id say
@arcturus4762
@arcturus4762 3 жыл бұрын
At least he didn’t get NTRed and rejected in the most brutal way possible like Nietzsche. A lot of edgy kids think Nietzsche is about rebelling against a non-existent system, when, in reality, it’s about cope.
@Varg390
@Varg390 3 жыл бұрын
Damn
@theonpointheavy4401
@theonpointheavy4401 3 жыл бұрын
@@lars9168 Yeah... he was defintely a phiosopher.
@jordan12345423
@jordan12345423 3 жыл бұрын
@@arcturus4762 I need to learn about his philosophy, i haven't look into the Nietzhsce philosophy, so i don't understand what you mean with that comment, btw thanks for the reference. please explain the context if you have the time buddy, i am open to know what is the matter of Nietzhcse tragedy.
@daffertube
@daffertube 3 жыл бұрын
This is the absolute saddest thing I've seen in weeks. 10/10
@asurasoul3088
@asurasoul3088 3 жыл бұрын
Man i love your videos!! ❤️❤️
@daffertube
@daffertube 3 жыл бұрын
@@asurasoul3088 Cheers!
@Aliv3ToDi3
@Aliv3ToDi3 3 жыл бұрын
You think this is sad? Lookup Mickey never came back by ethereal snake.
@StrykThaScene
@StrykThaScene 3 жыл бұрын
Your vids are so good!
@goo4281
@goo4281 3 жыл бұрын
@@Aliv3ToDi3 This video is about a prevalent issue in society so yeah, it may be a little sadder than the issue of Vietnam war drama.
@alix6xgorg839
@alix6xgorg839 3 жыл бұрын
Mother: "she needs a father." Also mother 5s later: "I will taker her away to my parents house and divorce you."
@pertys_socks
@pertys_socks 3 жыл бұрын
W*men logic
@tvbuu
@tvbuu 3 жыл бұрын
@@pertys_socks yup
@Spider-Too-Too
@Spider-Too-Too 3 жыл бұрын
Oof, this is too dark
@LaughingMan44
@LaughingMan44 3 жыл бұрын
@@christianguidettikb96 censor*
@ilikeuselessfightsinthecom165
@ilikeuselessfightsinthecom165 3 жыл бұрын
usually dad leaves his wife bc he's too lazy to take care of the father
@Sandvich_Eater
@Sandvich_Eater 2 жыл бұрын
4:21 and that, poeple, is why there are so many children who grew up without their fathers and why so many dads comitted suicide.
@windowsxp9120
@windowsxp9120 3 жыл бұрын
My mother pulled this on my dad. They never married so it was more easy for her. For a long time he was only allowed to see me once a month. Then it became a weekend every 2 weeks. Finally at age 11 I demanded to leave my mom and move to live with my dad. Im 24 and my mother still tries to guilt trip me about it, or guilt me about liking my dad more. Stay strong Kings. Fight for your kids.
@danolix
@danolix 3 жыл бұрын
Damn that's so courageous of you to do at such an age, respect enclave soldier!
@AufWiedersehen550
@AufWiedersehen550 3 жыл бұрын
Don't ever listen to your mom
@TheAnimationEz
@TheAnimationEz 3 жыл бұрын
For the emperor
@necrothescistt8164
@necrothescistt8164 3 жыл бұрын
I feel blessed that my parents split up on good terms and me and my sister got to see both our parents because some people I knew either lived this or got thrown into bad foster homes.
@AufWiedersehen550
@AufWiedersehen550 3 жыл бұрын
@@necrothescistt8164 same. My parents divorced when I was 2 years old. I see my mom every week, and my dad the week after
@andygramajo8133
@andygramajo8133 3 жыл бұрын
I've only read about these child custody cases where the child is taken by the mother but this made me realize the emotional toll that it must have on genuine fathers that try to give the world to their children, only to be taken away by a faceless authority.
@noahsibahi-jackson8757
@noahsibahi-jackson8757 3 жыл бұрын
It is absolutely horrible how disgusting our societies government has become
@ottosump3356
@ottosump3356 3 жыл бұрын
Going through this exact thing right now bro , haven't seen my kids since April and the state is making it impossible to see them ,because you know , women don't lie .
@baghead3130
@baghead3130 3 жыл бұрын
@@jimjohnson394 you just had to put it a stalins quote parody lmao
@kakagakakerger4165
@kakagakakerger4165 3 жыл бұрын
thats the thing most of the times minorities are always seen as the right ppl if some guy divorce and his ex wife get the custody of the child who will have to pay? I might be talking sh1t but all of this just make me tired
@kakagakakerger4165
@kakagakakerger4165 3 жыл бұрын
ppl blame on majorities the thing our ancestors did I'm just so tired of this thing
@fluffyth3f0x8
@fluffyth3f0x8 3 жыл бұрын
The mom is absolutely in the wrong, if she doesnt have a job or anything else to do in life, she needs to take responsibility
@asm4912
@asm4912 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@meatgrinder9506
@meatgrinder9506 3 жыл бұрын
ok mr obvious
@MK_ULTRA420
@MK_ULTRA420 3 жыл бұрын
In her mind she is doing her job, AKA "doing what's best for the daughter" -the parasite finds a new host if it has opportunities to find one-
@Sei1989
@Sei1989 3 жыл бұрын
It's called princess syndrome. The man was stupid enough to marry a gold digger and now is a wage slave to the materials that owns him because he let his wife call the shots. I've known of woman like this and it will NEVER be enough for them until what they imagined in their adolescence comes true. They can't differentiate fantasy vs. reality. I've known some people like this before and some have went even as far as to cheat. They are the complete epitome of a human garbage.
@thatracinggtbmx6453
@thatracinggtbmx6453 3 жыл бұрын
Fr
@sloumane
@sloumane Жыл бұрын
мой отец никогда не участвовал в моей жизни и окончательно ушел из семьи, когда мне было 11. он не был занят работой, я думаю, ему просто не было дела до меня. стать таким же отцом один из главных страхов в моей жизни, я хочу стать хорошим отцом для своих детей. в 23 я все еще не простил его и вот после просмотра видео, я поставил себя на место этого отца. это правда одна из самых тяжелых вещей, которая может произойти, когда ты искренне любишь своего ребенка и пытаешься сделать все правильно, но у тебя его забирают. у меня от этого ком в горле. все отцы в подобной ситуации, держитесь, да поможет вам Бог
@user-obpk2g78h
@user-obpk2g78h Жыл бұрын
Ты на русском написал? Забавная ситуация у меня, попалось это в рекомендациях. Я уехал из России в лет 13 с мамой и сестрой, мой отец был козлом нереальным, продал квартиру, выгнал нас на улицу, хотел сдать в детдом. Мне 25 лет сейчас, звонил по интернету сегодня, впервые за много времени, он стал алкошом-банкротом, говорит приезжай перепишу квартиру на тебя, посыл такой ввтащи меня из говна я остался один, типо только ты у меня остался, хз что делать, манипуляция очевидная, этот гений ещё хочет чтобы я там жил с ним потенциально, пиздец.
@onrr1726
@onrr1726 7 ай бұрын
​@@user-obpk2g78hscrew him he wanted nothing to do with you then he still wants nothing to do with you now other than being a leaching asshole. My 1st wife left Russia under similar circumstances with her parents I dumped her ass in the gutter once she turned into what her parents are after 6 months. Married a Ukrainian with a good family background and still married after 18 years.
@comoyun
@comoyun 6 ай бұрын
@@user-obpk2g78h damn
@rustifowler9384
@rustifowler9384 3 жыл бұрын
The lady writing the notes and skewing it to look like he was a manipulative jerk was pretty spot on.
@eatplastic9133
@eatplastic9133 2 жыл бұрын
What about when the girl said she needed to pee but she had to wait, because he was arguing. Was it so hard to show her the toilet before continuing
@Traigame2cervezas
@Traigame2cervezas 2 жыл бұрын
Your average feminist turned into social worker.
@inciacci549
@inciacci549 2 жыл бұрын
@@Traigame2cervezas the very few cases where gender studies somehow lands them a job... sort of
@k9ninjaworld557
@k9ninjaworld557 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, these evil feminist commies hold our very lives in their hands.
@ankihansen2489
@ankihansen2489 2 жыл бұрын
She even has a Karen haircut
@danielcharles4431
@danielcharles4431 3 жыл бұрын
Ah yes, the classic complaints, the "You need to make more money so we buy the stuff we need." and then the "You were never home, you were never here for your family."
@valorzinski7423
@valorzinski7423 3 жыл бұрын
The most stable relationship is one where the husband and wife works together in a family restaurant or small shop
@fncm3421
@fncm3421 3 жыл бұрын
@@valorzinski7423 I swear
@spoon6273
@spoon6273 3 жыл бұрын
@@valorzinski7423 my mom and my dad work in a company of plastic and my dad specifically works as the president of a bikes racing company and they two break theirs asses, i can’t be more grateful
@MNAHN-T.GOF-NN
@MNAHN-T.GOF-NN 3 жыл бұрын
Generations of girls (not women) have been told to believe four things: 1) that they should want a 'perfect man'. 2) that they deserve this 'perfect man'. 3) that this 'perfect man' is one who makes enough dough to give her a luxurious consumerist lifestyle while simultaneously having all the time in the world for her, while being very fit & witty & talented and supporting her in everything. 4) that if a man is not 'perfect', then he is faulty and unworthy because he isn't trying hard enough. "Do better." These are asinine ideas that only a narcissist would agree with. Men are told something similar, although often reversed. The important question is though - who is telling us these things?
@wilhelmkuss8626
@wilhelmkuss8626 3 жыл бұрын
they mean a man who earns a lot and have lots of time, not your average joe
@rozmanek5472
@rozmanek5472 3 жыл бұрын
Its scary how you can have your kids taken away at any moment you can just get accused of rape and you can say bye to your kids
@lewisaino
@lewisaino 3 жыл бұрын
Not even if you didn't do it .
@gilgrazina4342
@gilgrazina4342 3 жыл бұрын
Omg, yes the problem with over victimized women is so ridiculous
@kaboomboi7445
@kaboomboi7445 3 жыл бұрын
the worst of all often times when the mother is not taking good care of the children the law doesn't care
@russoga
@russoga 3 жыл бұрын
@@gilgrazina4342 something worst than this is men crying on internet about things that never will happen to them just for cope of being single.
@__________o____________
@__________o____________ 3 жыл бұрын
@@russoga fake Chad. It happens to men who shared their stories with us thankfully
@yeeyeemcgee9495
@yeeyeemcgee9495 2 жыл бұрын
as a child of parents who separated, this happened to me, my mom had always said that my dad never cared about me and my siblings included herself, but she lied to only believe he was bad too and so I didn't want to visit him, turns out he is a good dad, he always takes us to places, encourages us instead of yelling at us to do something, he helps us with chores instead of sitting around like my mom does, that's why I love him so much and look up to him a lot.
@Itslanny2dab
@Itslanny2dab 5 ай бұрын
Same, my parents divorced
@Itslanny2dab
@Itslanny2dab 5 ай бұрын
Same, my parents divorced we used to live in this little country like part of Arizona, the place was called camp verde the place was horrible because the the whole town was under law of the yavapai native reservation and diffrent laws under the county, anyway. My mom is a bugger, she blames and blames my dad for stuff he didn’t do and he will never do, calls him a bad dad, he is a lot like yours, he helps in a way every father should. Breaks my heart man, breaks my heart.
@chilbiyito
@chilbiyito 3 жыл бұрын
The bias toward women in the justice system is stupid
@luckisluck
@luckisluck 3 жыл бұрын
Cause they can "persuade" the judges because of the crocodile tears.
@gilgrazina4342
@gilgrazina4342 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@JV-km9xk
@JV-km9xk 3 жыл бұрын
This is one piece that will collapse the family system in america. How sad. Hey maybe american men will opt to sinply marry foreign women instead since a number of american women don't seem to be fit spouses or mothers. *Cough* Traditional asian wives from a certain christian country in asia *cough*
@bonzoluv
@bonzoluv 3 жыл бұрын
@@JV-km9xk the Philippines right?
@Nyxian_Rosa
@Nyxian_Rosa 3 жыл бұрын
@@luckisluck it’s a lot deeper than that, it stems from the same concept as “Women and children first” in emergencies. It’s an intrinsic thing.
@mado-wh4jv
@mado-wh4jv 3 жыл бұрын
"Our daughter needs more time with you" "You are not allowed to see my daughter anymore"
@apaticore
@apaticore 3 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@DragonSpikeXIII
@DragonSpikeXIII 3 жыл бұрын
The comment that broke the internet.
@nicos1097
@nicos1097 3 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how this wojak meme format has literally turned into a documentary.
@AjthaGOAT-ek6wz
@AjthaGOAT-ek6wz 3 жыл бұрын
Nice hellcat
@kwekumensah5642
@kwekumensah5642 3 жыл бұрын
It's not a boat, it's a war ship
@su-57_
@su-57_ 3 жыл бұрын
Aye, car group
@kwekumensah5642
@kwekumensah5642 3 жыл бұрын
@@su-57_ ayeee
@mclarenf1gtr471
@mclarenf1gtr471 3 жыл бұрын
@@kwekumensah5642 I dare to call it a star destroyer
@HIM0034
@HIM0034 2 жыл бұрын
他遇到了一位壞女人 但是他的女兒是一位傑出的人 因為她有一位好爸爸
@edoardoferretti5493
@edoardoferretti5493 3 жыл бұрын
"She decided that it would be better for the child to stay with her mother" "as always" This bias has to be stopped
@nitsu2947
@nitsu2947 3 жыл бұрын
"In my opinion, the father is not able tp raise the child properly" was one such glimpse i got to the notes the probation officer is writting There was also the "one hour every month is too much" bit, and "using the child as spy" (?)
@Someone-nt8wz
@Someone-nt8wz 3 жыл бұрын
"I believe mothers should win this cases everytime"
@sherueatyourbestfriend6791
@sherueatyourbestfriend6791 3 жыл бұрын
@@Someone-nt8wz not in every cases honey
@ColorfulAlchemy
@ColorfulAlchemy 3 жыл бұрын
@@sherueatyourbestfriend6791 really is sad.
@milicende
@milicende 3 жыл бұрын
I dunno how it works in another's countries, but in Brazil, where I live, mothers and fathers are responsible to work, but is common just the mom do all the hause works and raise de children... So, it's obvious how much this father love his daughter, but the video show to as that he wasn't present for her and probably would still not be even if the parents had stayed together
@therealfakecaptain7978
@therealfakecaptain7978 3 жыл бұрын
"She needs a father figure, that's why I'm taking her away from you, her father." Ah yes, the smell of bullshit.
@mayttay1739
@mayttay1739 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao 🤣
@mal_3157
@mal_3157 3 жыл бұрын
Logic
@galixion2242
@galixion2242 3 жыл бұрын
ACHOO! *sniffle* "sorry im allergic to bullshit" -will smith
@rozie5642
@rozie5642 3 жыл бұрын
The smell of bullshit is stronger than a green stink bug
@formodius
@formodius 3 жыл бұрын
I went from sad to laughter
@qcompressed1409
@qcompressed1409 3 жыл бұрын
The whole “no father figure” joke/meme thing going around is kinda funny, but a lot of people don’t understand how precious having good parental figures in your life truly is
@davipenha
@davipenha 2 жыл бұрын
And how big deal having none is
@dinosharttt
@dinosharttt 2 жыл бұрын
I have no father and it’s not funny but it’s not bad either
@BorderTurrets
@BorderTurrets 2 жыл бұрын
Thank the liberation movement. The 200 IQ woman has devalued the father and worships consumerism for the state.
@jackson.6282
@jackson.6282 2 жыл бұрын
@@davipenha unfortunately that’s not really true, you are just fortunate to not have realized the problems it’s caused you. They’ve been there your whole life so you aren’t aware, hopefully the problems arent as bad as mine, but thinking there’s nothing wrong with your situation will just keep you stagnant. And I apologize if I’m projecting, but no one can grow up without one of their parents, and be considered completely “normal” you will have struggles regarding connection in some sort of way, some more severe than others obviously
@dinosharttt
@dinosharttt 2 жыл бұрын
@Beatriz. Cé my dad left when I as 3
@ChristianMartinez-gb2wj
@ChristianMartinez-gb2wj 2 жыл бұрын
I’m just glad my parents have been together for me and my brothers through our whole lives. It’s tough to hear or read stories of people who didn’t have that
@arm773
@arm773 3 жыл бұрын
As a father I feel so lucky to have full custody of my kids. Took two years of court and I didn't have a lawyer. In the end truth prevailed. Thank God everyday.
@AbdulKarim-ks2uf
@AbdulKarim-ks2uf 3 жыл бұрын
It's weird your country rank 5th highest in divorce rate. While my country rank 5th lowest divorce rank.
@karatepie67-93
@karatepie67-93 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong king
@Trishlikefish99
@Trishlikefish99 3 жыл бұрын
@@AbdulKarim-ks2uf where you from ???
@AbdulKarim-ks2uf
@AbdulKarim-ks2uf 3 жыл бұрын
@@Trishlikefish99 my worthless country. The Bangladesh. But I don't live in that country anymore.
@justapillow2443
@justapillow2443 3 жыл бұрын
Didn't have a lawyer! Lmao you should play the lottery
@Bingchilling_enjoyer
@Bingchilling_enjoyer 3 жыл бұрын
My stepdad is paying child support every month, he sends presents and cards on Christmas and her birthday, despite all that he hasn’t seen or even talked to his daughter in 6 years, she’s graduating next year and he knows practically nothing about her. I just feel bad for him at times.
@pavelbelov9957
@pavelbelov9957 3 жыл бұрын
He probably doesn't want to know, but feel guilty and pays child support, that makes him free
@thomaskunz3089
@thomaskunz3089 3 жыл бұрын
@@pavelbelov9957 what makes you think that?
@whyareyouexisting7285
@whyareyouexisting7285 3 жыл бұрын
Waiting for this channel to make a video about how women are expected to do every household chore, or more than men are, and take care of children or talked behind their backs about how they aren't taking care of their children, when they have jobs as well. If this channel doesnt do it, doesnt it mean it's mysoginistic?
@whyareyouexisting7285
@whyareyouexisting7285 3 жыл бұрын
@@thomaskunz3089 idk when i say men feel sad, want someone in life or can be compassionate and submissive lack leadership qualities ppl like you tell me NO NEBER BE ALE ONRY LEADEEERS
@thomaskunz3089
@thomaskunz3089 3 жыл бұрын
@@whyareyouexisting7285 lol, having to do house chores, what a HUMONGOUS sacrifice, when women have jobs they tend to take less good care of their kids, that is a fact because of another fact, the fact that they have less time to spend with their kids.
@SinistralRifleman
@SinistralRifleman 3 жыл бұрын
Why aren’t people getting married and having kids? It’s a mystery….
@redactedcanceledcensored6890
@redactedcanceledcensored6890 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, let's make an advertisement package trying to persuade people to have sex (Danish reference)! It's not like they have instincts to do that lol how dumb it would be, haha!
@cbicommentbureauofinternet5290
@cbicommentbureauofinternet5290 3 жыл бұрын
@@redactedcanceledcensored6890 India & China : 3 B people . Well ,we don't need any advertising for that
@redactedcanceledcensored6890
@redactedcanceledcensored6890 3 жыл бұрын
@@cbicommentbureauofinternet5290 yep, they probably have different divorce laws and cultural perspectives towards family and marriage
@Ozymandias1
@Ozymandias1 3 жыл бұрын
@@cbicommentbureauofinternet5290 They will own the future. As well as Africa. The US and Europe will die.
@cbicommentbureauofinternet5290
@cbicommentbureauofinternet5290 3 жыл бұрын
@@redactedcanceledcensored6890 sadly, here in Asia , people are becoming more Western and ruining their own culture. Slowly they are becoming like America / Europe
@ItWasRevealedToMeInMyDreams
@ItWasRevealedToMeInMyDreams 2 жыл бұрын
growing up with the perspective of the kid and watching this grown up, learning to reconnect with my father, nothing has ever felt like such a stomp on the heart- it's quite amazing how just 8 minutes worth of simple animations can bring someone to tears and Im honestly grateful i stumbled upon this channel, please keep up the stellar work.
@hunterfarrar4204
@hunterfarrar4204 3 жыл бұрын
So you’re telling me, the mom wanted the dad to spend more time with his daughter. So her solution is to cut him out of her life until she graduated. Flawless plan
@Ahmedinhesabı
@Ahmedinhesabı 3 жыл бұрын
Women moment (some of them)
@Gojira-ii4ru
@Gojira-ii4ru 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds stupid, but there's mothers who think like that
@gilligangilly6629
@gilligangilly6629 3 жыл бұрын
Many such cases...
@chocolatesquirrel2002
@chocolatesquirrel2002 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ahmedinhesabı (most of them)*
@what2150
@what2150 3 жыл бұрын
@@chocolatesquirrel2002 youras
@DarkDaxt
@DarkDaxt 3 жыл бұрын
Unrealistic, there's no way he would have lost with the Chad lawyer
@jonasmcguire3589
@jonasmcguire3589 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately it’s that rigged 😢 not even Chad can save you.
@boimeme.
@boimeme. 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortuantly, it wasnt giga chad 😔
@juliett925
@juliett925 3 жыл бұрын
It can happen
@plfaproductions
@plfaproductions 3 жыл бұрын
@Barbz nation but what is "like this"? how I know if she will do this? Nobody says "that girl loves spending money and I don't trust her at all, perfect" they become this after the child is born and then comes the situation on the video, you want males to quit reproducing entirely? Because in fear of situation like this is what I'm doing and many other males with brains will do while this is a possibility
@diegos.loayza3706
@diegos.loayza3706 3 жыл бұрын
@Barbz nation right. We choose that girl we have to face the consequences
@BrianKeeganMusic
@BrianKeeganMusic 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing has made me think more than these videos.
@Nathanatos22
@Nathanatos22 3 жыл бұрын
You might need to read more in that case
@NachoXOfficial
@NachoXOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
@@Nathanatos22 True, I'm pretty sure some of the things in these videos may be exaggerated anyway. Not saying they aren't completely untrue. We just shouldn't take them as complete facts, but possible scenarios that may occur in real life and could even happen to you.
@matad1917
@matad1917 3 жыл бұрын
@@NachoXOfficial dude, tell me how that is not completely obvious. He just told a divorce story in an 8 minute animation with a lot of detail. Of course exaggerating is one of the tools to get the point across.
@Polyglot_English
@Polyglot_English 3 жыл бұрын
Taiwan is a country 🇹🇼 🇹🇼
@cjthemvp123
@cjthemvp123 3 жыл бұрын
You're not that much of a thinker then
@lordterra1377
@lordterra1377 2 жыл бұрын
Man this got a little too real. I feel like this exact story has happened to many men wrongfully... I am shocked and amazed how deep these are, truly award worthy content right here!
@windowsxp9120
@windowsxp9120 3 жыл бұрын
The worst part was he had to accept becoming a cyclist.
@Varg390
@Varg390 3 жыл бұрын
Truly this says a lot about society
@josesalas1849
@josesalas1849 3 жыл бұрын
@@Varg390 industrial society and its future
@oomphlagwumpla650
@oomphlagwumpla650 3 жыл бұрын
Fuck i hate cyclists in my country they’re just bunch of mid aged rich guys that just want to brag about their new bikes and also want to be a cyclist so they can see some girl’s ass squeezing out on the bike seat like bruuuhh they don’t want to get healthy they want to get horni
@flowerofash4439
@flowerofash4439 3 жыл бұрын
We live in a society
@danolix
@danolix 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@hnd1305
@hnd1305 3 жыл бұрын
00:02 "You have no idea what I have sacrificed for you." "Nobody asked you to."
@AngelSnowGlitch
@AngelSnowGlitch 3 жыл бұрын
I said the same and my ex replied the same on the day she cheated on me. It been over 5years now, and Good Lord have mercy for my soul, everytime i remembered that moment. My heart hurts asfuck
@TheMelopeus
@TheMelopeus 3 жыл бұрын
It's kind of true. I have a friend whose father worked abroad for all her life. He was never there for her and her sister. They had his money but that was worthless. I think it's better to live a more modest life rather than grow up spoiled by wealth and with a big hole in your soul where dad's love should be.
@yamahalcontreras5838
@yamahalcontreras5838 3 жыл бұрын
one of the most selfish arguments out there
@ayushsrivastava1672
@ayushsrivastava1672 3 жыл бұрын
@@AngelSnowGlitch it's ok king. you got the trash out of your house
@adamemedia3139
@adamemedia3139 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheMelopeus I had both lol
@imbear402
@imbear402 3 жыл бұрын
Husband: *Did everything to make her wife happy* Wife: "Its not enough"
@kevinmarrs3372
@kevinmarrs3372 3 жыл бұрын
That’s why you don’t overprovide. Make the woman work for her stuff. I’m no ones ATM. You wanna disrespect? You’re on the streets clown 🤡 gtfo
@avgstreetshitter
@avgstreetshitter 3 жыл бұрын
That why OJ Simpson is the OG Chad .He killed his divorded wife and got away with it
@rivershen8954
@rivershen8954 3 жыл бұрын
Women amiritie
@lilcomment
@lilcomment 3 жыл бұрын
@@avgstreetshitter Murder is not cute 😐
@sebswede9005
@sebswede9005 3 жыл бұрын
@@lilcomment It is if you're Ted Bundy, Jeffrey Dahmer, or any other Serial killers that those crazy fangirls like.
@mumatsi
@mumatsi 2 жыл бұрын
This hits really close to home my mom had always trashtalked my dad to me ever since i was a 4th grade student. I never realized how much dad gave to make me happy because my view of him had been ruined by my mother, even now I can't look at my father without feeling disgust I am mad at my mother for ruining my dad's image for me
@tomasmonjes1139
@tomasmonjes1139 Жыл бұрын
Gringo nose si el traductor lo tradujo bien pero hermano de lo que deberias sentir asco es de ti mismo no de tu padre deberia desviar ese asco hacia tu madre
@Mymle
@Mymle Жыл бұрын
My mom did the same, and still does even when I’m an adult. Personal question, how did your dad contribute, do you mean financially, emotionally or both ? :)
@tonyv7554
@tonyv7554 Жыл бұрын
Maybe now as a mature adult, you can realize that you were brainwashed and salvage a relationship while your dad is still alive
@CatsEyethePsycho
@CatsEyethePsycho 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who’s parents are in the process of divorcing, this hits hard.
@matt309
@matt309 3 жыл бұрын
I send my condolences too
@warioapexm5905
@warioapexm5905 3 жыл бұрын
Damn...
@yes-bk6of
@yes-bk6of 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you get better man, i send condolences.
@Шабски
@Шабски 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong fren. It’s been 3 years since that happened to me & it still affects me
@kaksidaksi3455
@kaksidaksi3455 3 жыл бұрын
my parents divorced
@JaviVice2
@JaviVice2 3 жыл бұрын
Probably one of the biggest fears of every man who tries building a family, maybe it happens to me...
@FlamePhoenix329
@FlamePhoenix329 3 жыл бұрын
This is why a lot of men, even myself opt out of marriages. You want a family, but you know in a blink of an eye, you can lose it all.
@MNAHN-T.GOF-NN
@MNAHN-T.GOF-NN 3 жыл бұрын
@@FlamePhoenix329 You won't just lose them - they would be taken by a faceless entity that only sees numbers and cares nothing for them. This is something that all men deeply fear on a primal level; having what he loves taken from him by a monster while being unable to do anything. Modern society is an abomination.
@charlixcxworld8194
@charlixcxworld8194 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t waste your time bro
@1ztype343
@1ztype343 3 жыл бұрын
I was already really iffy on the idea but now I'm always gonna be safe. Fuck that.
@someweirdoguy6633
@someweirdoguy6633 3 жыл бұрын
My biggest fear is that evil influences my child to make a mistake and end their life. This is one of those evils. I am beginning to think it is unsafe to have children in this day and age because your child could so easily have their life ruined.
@Griggs133
@Griggs133 3 жыл бұрын
The frightening thing about this is there are people who fully believe men cannot be discriminated against like in these situations, and they're often in positions of authority.
@TJCombo2
@TJCombo2 3 жыл бұрын
That saddens and angers me at the same time. This video is a great reflection of how many familys are torn apart.
@redactedcanceledcensored6890
@redactedcanceledcensored6890 3 жыл бұрын
it's basically doublethink at this point.
@rahulk2633
@rahulk2633 3 жыл бұрын
@@TJCombo2 why isn't family court banned yet
@vizprave6721
@vizprave6721 3 жыл бұрын
@@rahulk2633 the feminazi groups will lobby against such legislation.
@bill8383
@bill8383 3 жыл бұрын
"men and women are equal and gender is merely a social construct with no meaning" also them -- "only women can be discriminated against"
@eazybaby5094
@eazybaby5094 Жыл бұрын
Damn dude, that ending made me cry. My dad got violent w my mom when I was 12 and that was a wrap. Went through the whole supervised visitation. Left my mom, then she got him arrested, then it was back-and-forth. I was the oldest trying to keep it together for my younger sisters. Both parents had huge flaws. But I love them both. And I respect that my dad is still in our lives and has become a better man. But my relationship with them all is fragmented. At the end of the day, my father DID mess up by putting his hands on her. It really hurts, there’s things I can’t tell either because the relationship at least feels like it isn’t there from the turmoil. And while I know they love me, I wish I had that unwavering feeling of being able to go to them for anything at any time. Thanks for coming to my ted talk
@ferdithetank7535
@ferdithetank7535 3 жыл бұрын
Heck, even Chadvocate didn't help him, that sucks.
@ByeBaybe
@ByeBaybe 3 жыл бұрын
he probably pump & dumped the judges daughter
@Joplas99
@Joplas99 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes, chad lawyers are too assertive and that can mess with the judges self esteem
@Chippaization
@Chippaization 3 жыл бұрын
only guy i know that kept his kids over the mom was from work and ONLY because she was caught stealing from people'ss homes she house sit. She was pawning off all of their jewelry AND went to jail for it. literally only cause she was sent to jail he kept them and not the long list of BS and abuse she was doing.
@whyareyouexisting7285
@whyareyouexisting7285 3 жыл бұрын
Waiting for this channel to make a video about how women are expected to do every household chore, or more than men are, and take care of children or talked behind their backs about how they aren't taking care of their children, when they have jobs as well. If this channel doesnt do it, doesnt it mean it's mysoginistic?
@determ4675
@determ4675 3 жыл бұрын
@@whyareyouexisting7285 How is that even comperable to losing your child?
@jauzaafaishalahmadpadmadis3846
@jauzaafaishalahmadpadmadis3846 3 жыл бұрын
gotta love the logic of this woman, i argue with my husband because he works until midnight and doesn’t spend enough time with our daughter, so im gonna take her away and make our daughter dont spend time with the father at all, this really reminds me of family guy’s cutoff joke where there’s a caveman arguing with his wife
@bigboypal
@bigboypal 3 жыл бұрын
It's never actually about the children, it's about the wives being spoiled children themselves that feel like their "daddy" was taken from them due to the attention their children demand. I say this from experience. There's an epidemic of immaturity in society. People talk too much and rarely do their actions line up with their grandiose speeches, so learn to observe twice as much as you listen.
@someboy4583
@someboy4583 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah 1 hour a month. That is ridicilous.
@tonyweaver2353
@tonyweaver2353 3 жыл бұрын
@@bigboypal Is it because the wife has daddy issues and is so vindictive that she wants to inflict that on her own child? Like she wants her to go through what she experienced so she is not alone in the world? Idk but I think there is some real deep dark logic behind the wives action. Not saying its right but what sort of mental state do you have to be in to do something like that?
@juanramon2900
@juanramon2900 3 жыл бұрын
The only advice I can give you is: dont follow ”western" ways.....
@bigboypal
@bigboypal 3 жыл бұрын
@@tonyweaver2353 Yes, it's just being extremely bitter and making you children suffer from your neediness. You just have to be immature and lacking in compassion which isn't all that uncommon unfortunately. You'd be surprised how many people are good at hiding their true colors.
@eury4959
@eury4959 3 жыл бұрын
"Fathers are not second class citizens. Some judges I know may have trouble accepting that fact but fathers are not second class citizens. He is the father as much as you are the mother." -Judge Judy
@iammrbadguy9706
@iammrbadguy9706 2 жыл бұрын
That´s why I respect Judge Judy...I see beyond politics, but I look at how people treat other persons. And she did so well.
@lots478
@lots478 2 жыл бұрын
Judge Judy sounds based
@OverStrive2008
@OverStrive2008 2 жыл бұрын
@@lots478 sadly Judge Judy is a staged show 😩
@lots478
@lots478 2 жыл бұрын
@@OverStrive2008 still a based message
@OverStrive2008
@OverStrive2008 2 жыл бұрын
@@lots478 yes
@bvftcxd
@bvftcxd 2 жыл бұрын
"its just a video, why are you crying?" The video
@Filip_Agrippa
@Filip_Agrippa 3 жыл бұрын
The worst part in my opinion is, that this system screws kids over too, probably even more than the father.
@amartyapandit
@amartyapandit 3 жыл бұрын
It's only the mother who benefits doesn't it
@happycockatiels
@happycockatiels 3 жыл бұрын
@@amartyapandit ultimately no, because theres no way a mother can be happy after doing something like that, they can resort to hedonism to obtain so called "happiness" but it will never fill the bottomless void that is in their heart, i don't believe a woman can actually be happy after doing that, as she gets older she will get more and more miserable.
@dangazobiton9774
@dangazobiton9774 3 жыл бұрын
@@happycockatiels a fitting punishment for being stupid, greedy and selfish. Dying alone and forgotten.
@playbackproductions1
@playbackproductions1 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯
@BenDover-ch7rf
@BenDover-ch7rf 3 жыл бұрын
@@dangazobiton9774 damn don't we all die alone and forgotten
@notleviathan855
@notleviathan855 3 жыл бұрын
This happened to a buddy of mine, dude watched his kid in the parking lot when he got divorced. I always saw his car, and gave him a subtle thumbs up when we passed, just to let him know his son was doing well. We'd often talk over the phone, mostly about his son, how his grades are, and if he has any new friends. I always recorded the sports events for him, put them on flashdrives, and left them in secret spots, just so he could watch his son play the games. I was honest with my friend, about me recording the games for his father, and every game, when it ended, he asked me to record a message to his father. It was usually the same speal 'I miss you, i'm doing well, I know this wasn't your choice, and I don't blame you, thank you for watching the game, and when I'm 18 I'll come find you.' I probably broke the law somewhere, maybe the father did too, but knowing my buddy could still talk to his dad, at least through me meant a lot when they met up when he finally hit 18. It's like a day didn't go by, they knew each other, what they were doing, and how it was going.
@imgonnasaytheeword6973
@imgonnasaytheeword6973 3 жыл бұрын
When they booth felt okay and good wiyh it then it was a really good solution.You are a great friend
@Beverly_bears
@Beverly_bears 3 жыл бұрын
Damn your a good friend
@MustDIEOracle
@MustDIEOracle 3 жыл бұрын
It's a great story
@petrimal
@petrimal 3 жыл бұрын
You are the best kind of person in this sad world, this is something society shouldn't go against and its so sad that we don't allow a child and his parent talk to each other, even though both want to talk
@bjorntheviking6039
@bjorntheviking6039 3 жыл бұрын
Gigachad right here, everyone wishes they could have a friend like you.
@boss_pepsilight5409
@boss_pepsilight5409 3 жыл бұрын
It happened to me when I was 6 years old. The juvenile judge preferred to hand me over to my mother who had money, alcohol and drug problems just because she was the mother. For 4 years I had to go and plead with lawyers who did not consider me old enough to make decisions. During this time my mother continued to beat me. Later when my father regained parental custody I learned that in 90% of cases this judge gave the child to the mother only because she was feminist without even studying the files.
@aspiringscientist1616
@aspiringscientist1616 3 жыл бұрын
Disgusting 😲
@plastovyplast7965
@plastovyplast7965 3 жыл бұрын
It's not feminism, it's about patriarchy that gives a care role only for mothers. In my country, feminists are mad about this practice in this system.
@imnotdabi__2515
@imnotdabi__2515 3 жыл бұрын
@@plastovyplast7965 literally no.
@gabenordgren1635
@gabenordgren1635 3 жыл бұрын
@@imnotdabi__2515 what kind of response is that?
@youroldman8129
@youroldman8129 3 жыл бұрын
@@gabenordgren1635 An accurate one
@WhoWilliBe
@WhoWilliBe 7 ай бұрын
This is just depressing. I'm gonna try to be a divorce lawyer just because of this and way more cases of crap like this where theres a clear bias with the mother.
@patriarchysound
@patriarchysound 3 жыл бұрын
Chad lawyer wasn't enough. Maybe he should've gotten OJ's lawyer instead.
@ivanfl962
@ivanfl962 3 жыл бұрын
You mean the one the wife had?
@fallen4501
@fallen4501 3 жыл бұрын
My lord he's gonna use chawbacca defense
@Ozymandias1
@Ozymandias1 3 жыл бұрын
Johnny Cochrane's dead.
@AbhinavSrivastava11
@AbhinavSrivastava11 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@theshamedarcher551
@theshamedarcher551 3 жыл бұрын
"If the glove doesn't fit, you must acquit"
@CHECHEN
@CHECHEN 3 жыл бұрын
A mother protects her child from the world. A father prepares his child for the world.
@itsdokko2990
@itsdokko2990 3 жыл бұрын
couldn't be said better
@mikecampos1193
@mikecampos1193 3 жыл бұрын
Those are the most truest words I've heard in the world.
@Tatusiek_1
@Tatusiek_1 3 жыл бұрын
Very well said
@caro7048
@caro7048 3 жыл бұрын
That in theory. Sometimes both parents overprotect their children.
@Harmonica821
@Harmonica821 3 жыл бұрын
*looks up *scratches chin *smirks "That's a good saying."
@manamritsingh969
@manamritsingh969 3 жыл бұрын
"Can you promise me something?" "Please never argue with mom again." Damn ... That hit hard I'd be lying if i didn't shed a tear
@cherrybomber3328
@cherrybomber3328 3 жыл бұрын
Hit hard for me because I said the same thing to my dad before
@bunnieskitties293
@bunnieskitties293 3 жыл бұрын
@@cherrybomber3328 Well look at Mr Functional Family over here who has parents he can ask not to fight. Just a regular white picket fence dwelling nuclear family boy over here.
@cherrybomber3328
@cherrybomber3328 3 жыл бұрын
@@bunnieskitties293 it’s not like they actually stopped lmao, he shoved my mom into a closet in front of me. Maybe think before you speak my guy.
@angeliqall
@angeliqall 3 жыл бұрын
@@bunnieskitties293 why would you type that out and send
@goodlookinouthomie1757
@goodlookinouthomie1757 2 жыл бұрын
There are some women with whom it's simply impossible not to argue. And some guy ends up with them.
@chickeneater77
@chickeneater77 2 жыл бұрын
As my parents were really close to divorcing (there good now thankfully) this hits hard.
@rykerwilson3348
@rykerwilson3348 3 жыл бұрын
The guy is blaming himself for the mom being spoiled I feel bad for the daughter
@TurtleChad1
@TurtleChad1 3 жыл бұрын
Turtle turtle,$
@ryugasamurai7217
@ryugasamurai7217 3 жыл бұрын
@Ирмүүн А ikr
@franchise8377
@franchise8377 3 жыл бұрын
That guy is beating his mental stability to maintain their finances insurance and she just goes screaming at him for not going on a vacation. She also used "you don't spend time with your daughter" as an excuse to continue her argument, cuz she would lose for sure. The Father is trying his best and he for sure loves his daughter more than him and his work
@MedievalFantasyTV
@MedievalFantasyTV 3 жыл бұрын
As a father of a girl, this hit hard. This is more or less the story of my life. It's true, the system hates a father.
@thegrubhubguy2013
@thegrubhubguy2013 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you are okay
@seafoam8845
@seafoam8845 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong, you got this bro
@someperson3390
@someperson3390 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong m8
@Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona
@Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona 3 жыл бұрын
Then leave the System. Look up legal name fraud. See: Strawman - The Nature of the Cage (Public, private, commerce)
@sick4127
@sick4127 3 жыл бұрын
its targeted to make the men weaker and woman "stronger" weaker men create harder times
@crml8539
@crml8539 3 жыл бұрын
This fucked me up man I’m crying, too close to home
@demihuntero2404
@demihuntero2404 3 жыл бұрын
Im there with ya brother
@WinterBoi-
@WinterBoi- 3 жыл бұрын
oh uhm... *pats back* there there
@mohamedouhibi5389
@mohamedouhibi5389 3 жыл бұрын
life was never fair my brother. may god be with you
@Jay_Hendrix
@Jay_Hendrix 3 жыл бұрын
I know that feel... strength my friend.
@MostafaSrag
@MostafaSrag 3 жыл бұрын
I almost cried, I can totally relate because its similar to my story
@tangoman6567
@tangoman6567 Жыл бұрын
Thank god my father got me instead of my mother. My mother didn’t work, didn’t drive, didn’t do anything and didn’t take us anywhere. I stopped visiting her aswell because she would always end up yelling at me for the tiniest reasons.
@MillenniaThinker
@MillenniaThinker 3 жыл бұрын
What is the greatest thing a father can do for his child?
@acxiored5865
@acxiored5865 3 жыл бұрын
be there
@karlomoonblade
@karlomoonblade 3 жыл бұрын
Mold her into a woman that a REAL MAN would want.
@Sa_790
@Sa_790 3 жыл бұрын
Never go to get the milk
@zombie4skin28
@zombie4skin28 3 жыл бұрын
I forgor 💀
@awildkelkinnie
@awildkelkinnie 3 жыл бұрын
Support them
@wilcisco1159
@wilcisco1159 3 жыл бұрын
4:49 "you will become what you hated in the past". Man that's so terrifying..
@saucelessbones5872
@saucelessbones5872 3 жыл бұрын
I don't want to be gay
@lewisaino
@lewisaino 3 жыл бұрын
That shows he truly loved his daughter
@ocel6037
@ocel6037 3 жыл бұрын
@@saucelessbones5872 no joke, its true, some of them hide this on hate.
@NovasNewGroove
@NovasNewGroove 3 жыл бұрын
i don't wanna be a femboy furry NOOOOOOO
@doomtrooper3184
@doomtrooper3184 3 жыл бұрын
@@NovasNewGroove wat
@Xloudy684
@Xloudy684 3 жыл бұрын
I remember driving a friend of mine to see his daughter for the first time as a favor. He's usually a very optimistic and funny guy, but as soon as he returned after maybe only 30 minutes of playtime, he broke down at about a mile away after leaving her house. It was disturbing to see a man like himself break down the way he did, I remember it like yesterday.
@sassas1487
@sassas1487 3 жыл бұрын
Hug him
@Alicapy
@Alicapy 3 жыл бұрын
Actually depressing, your friend deserves to have full custody of her
@tunasandwich8049
@tunasandwich8049 3 жыл бұрын
@@Alicapy sadly family court is the most sexist group to have ever exist
@daffa9488
@daffa9488 2 жыл бұрын
I've lost my dad several years ago when I was just a 13 y'o boy and I don't know for what I'm still alive. With all the other suffocations I'm suffering due to his loss (like how my family went from rich to poor, moved to another country), sometimes I think being dead is better than living a terrible life
@busterx5
@busterx5 2 жыл бұрын
Are you okay brotha?
@athanasiospapazoglou7310
@athanasiospapazoglou7310 3 жыл бұрын
The "private notes" : "The father regularly compares his unattainable successes at school with the child’s stumbles. He encourages the child to quit school duties in order to spend more time with him. The father’s constant attempts to manage his child’s time by adding more private lesson can have a negative impact on his healthy development. The father is apparently trying to re - enter the mother’s family life by persuading the child to spy for the father. Jealousy can turn into constant persecution on the part of the father. In my opinion, the father is not able to raise his daughter properly. In my opinion, an hour a month is too much . It is suggested to further limit the father's contact with the child."
@theoaky8924
@theoaky8924 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this
@bravomike4734
@bravomike4734 3 жыл бұрын
"Unattainable"? What a manipulative piece of a woman that councilor was. The Dad said he got "A" on Maths. "Quit School" and "Private lessons" to help school. I'm seeing a pattern here. Female judge, female prosecutor and female councilors.
@MeloAvis
@MeloAvis 3 жыл бұрын
@@bravomike4734 of course everyone would be on the mother's side especially if they're female. It disgusts me.
@dumbvillage9253
@dumbvillage9253 3 жыл бұрын
WoBruh hate Men confirmed.
@Joplas99
@Joplas99 3 жыл бұрын
And the bureaucratic barrier against his rights to see what's beeing told about him, within his right to appeal
@shroodlecandy
@shroodlecandy 3 жыл бұрын
I hate mother figures like this and any woman in general who would pull a stunt like this. The system needs to be fixed desperately since the mother pretty much always gets the child. especially if the mother is selfish like she most typically will be. Honestly, if the child wants to be with the father, they should be allowed to, but yet the system says no. Men can pull this manipulative behavior too, but the court system still shouldn’t be swayed to only women. It should be fair. As a female, I solemnly swear, if I ever get married and have a kid, and I slip up and do something for myself, just shoot me right there dawg. I never wanna end up like any modern “mother figure” Rant over.
@edosma9115
@edosma9115 3 жыл бұрын
My parents got divorced and I'm happy I didn't end up with my mom because holy shit she didn't give me any support or whatso ever she even cheated :// plus her new guy is a molester..
@nevik1859
@nevik1859 3 жыл бұрын
@@claychester3228 I don’t if you have this in your country or schedule but isn’t there these after school clubs or something
@x3dwany371
@x3dwany371 3 жыл бұрын
You know what genuinely pisses me off There are people that are ignorant about these kinds of things and the mother takes advantage of that on social media This is what feminism has become It’s utter bias
@CyberPunkBadGuy
@CyberPunkBadGuy 3 жыл бұрын
@@x3dwany371 feminism always has been cap , people just didn't know it because they never did any research or considered the ordeals and suffering of men ,NO women got all the compassion and men got all the lack there of despite shedding blood and sweat every day their female counterparts are so oppressed
@peao010109
@peao010109 3 жыл бұрын
America is an unregulated dunghole where everything is a business, even when it really, really shouldn't. Nothing is going to change until America realizes that divorce, jails and healthcare SHOULD NOT be a business and must earn their keep by tax dollars exclusively. Go protest or riot if you are real pissed. It's the only way to make those stubborn greedy narcissists at the top listen.
@Misile91
@Misile91 3 жыл бұрын
This isn’t “We live in a society” this is reality and we’re just used to it
@charlixcxworld8194
@charlixcxworld8194 3 жыл бұрын
Been this way for years
@debo5410
@debo5410 3 жыл бұрын
can anything be done?
@____3243
@____3243 3 жыл бұрын
@@debo5410 no so long as the loud mouth fake feminist and Karen’s keep pushing their idea of a perfect world where men suffer and women gain, the court system for marriage will never change and the double standards will go even higher
@jamba7723
@jamba7723 3 жыл бұрын
@@debo5410 A hiking trip off familiar trails and have her walk 10 paces ahead.
@hawhafunnyraffs5568
@hawhafunnyraffs5568 3 жыл бұрын
@@____3243 Imagine having any contact with women. Cringe bro. So bad, I don't even want it for my compilation!
@Anticano
@Anticano Жыл бұрын
I started to cry, i dont can imagine a world whitout my father
@sp0okii222
@sp0okii222 3 жыл бұрын
My dad fought tooth and nail for my custody over my mom, she kept me out of school for a year and missed out on a whole grade, she forced me to keep quiet about it and to lie to my dad. From when I was 5, to when I was about 11. 6 Years it took him to fight for my custody. Fuck the court for siding with my mom under the premise that, "A father can't take care of a child." I'm now 22 years old, and I couldn't have been where I am without my dad, I love him.
@19platten20
@19platten20 3 жыл бұрын
We fathers would never, never ever put something before our children as we truly love them.
@burningdaylights
@burningdaylights 3 жыл бұрын
People like you should mount campaigns against those judges. Hit up the press and raise a stink. People tend to listen when it comes to children's welfare.
@19platten20
@19platten20 3 жыл бұрын
@@TM0TP then they're not fathers but adults living in the same house.
@filthyfrankblack4067
@filthyfrankblack4067 3 жыл бұрын
Good story man. I know in the future you will be voting for a smaller gov. after seeing the horrors it causes. 300000 Laws on the books and the government's state and federal are about to step up their enforcement to cash in those chips to get more labor and mindless drone that can only think about their own survival.
@nnggghhaa3709
@nnggghhaa3709 3 жыл бұрын
depends dude i know some dads that don't do anything and the mother is working and raising the family. it depends which parent had a good childhood but were not spoiled.
@SxnflowerBeats
@SxnflowerBeats 3 жыл бұрын
"Sooner or later you'll become what you hated most" - Doomer This hit me like a truck Update: So maybe this isn't all that bad. I used to to hate life and the thought of a romantic partner and thrived on the thought of I and others being alone. But I can gladly say I've spent the last 8 months with the love of my life. Thus loving the concept of love. So this can apply positively as well.
@naturalLog26
@naturalLog26 3 жыл бұрын
I can't become black, it's physically impossible Why are people still replying to this comment...
@sephinatorr
@sephinatorr 3 жыл бұрын
@@naturalLog26 💀
@legendaryweegee5331
@legendaryweegee5331 3 жыл бұрын
@@naturalLog26 AYO 🤣
@osutk6560
@osutk6560 3 жыл бұрын
Everything I said I didn't want ironically are the only things that fell right into my lap. even more weird is that is still appreciate what I have
@shlokshah5379
@shlokshah5379 3 жыл бұрын
@@naturalLog26 may be coal will help.😂
@jamien1656
@jamien1656 3 жыл бұрын
"Dad's are terrible" Meanwhile the good Dad's that exist: why am I here.. just to suffer
@jamien1656
@jamien1656 3 жыл бұрын
@Blackravager gaming um..
@jamien1656
@jamien1656 3 жыл бұрын
@Blackravager gaming Spoken like a person of culture ✨
@tupolev.designs
@tupolev.designs 3 жыл бұрын
@Blackravager gaming as a birthed child I can tell you you're right, I'm a dissapointment to my parents
@figtree_video_archive
@figtree_video_archive 3 жыл бұрын
@Blackravager gaming Why don't you just send it to the adoption center?
@figtree_video_archive
@figtree_video_archive 3 жыл бұрын
@Blackravager gaming Look, you gotta do it the proper way, what if the homeless child is lying?
@VioletCritic
@VioletCritic 2 жыл бұрын
My mother had always told me that my father is the most hideous, terrifying person. In fact I was mentally abused by her for the 20 years of my life and then I left her and met my dad at the age of 23. I haven’t seen him for 20 years and he is one of the wonderful man I even met. This video… makes me hysterical. Literally my life.
@JonnyP09
@JonnyP09 6 ай бұрын
99% of modern women are like this and I have seen it everywhere all women who are divorced are trying to blame there ex for everyting
@021mr5
@021mr5 3 жыл бұрын
1 in 3 marriages end up in divorce. If I were to go skydiving and be told that the odds of my parachute successfully deploying is only 33% , I would ask for a refund.
@markusrichard410
@markusrichard410 3 жыл бұрын
Nice reference
@imperiumaeternum3496
@imperiumaeternum3496 3 жыл бұрын
Actually it's 50%
@nihilisthedon2056
@nihilisthedon2056 3 жыл бұрын
The math is that 50% of divorces occur, and within those 50% of divorces, 80% of them are initiated by the female spouse.
@Sang_Akrobatis
@Sang_Akrobatis 3 жыл бұрын
1 in 3 marriages fails. It should be 67% success.
@ZacklFair
@ZacklFair 3 жыл бұрын
@@Sang_Akrobatis probably what she says right before handing in divorce papers.
@keqet12
@keqet12 3 жыл бұрын
"She needs a father, spend more time with her". Almost completly removes him from her life.
@alexeysamokhin9629
@alexeysamokhin9629 3 жыл бұрын
They’re gaslighting 24/7.
@ShadeyFella
@ShadeyFella 3 жыл бұрын
Mum: "We need money for the kitchen and garden" Also Mum: "Stop working so much to provide for us"
@Xhenn.
@Xhenn. 3 жыл бұрын
she said spend time wit your daughter lol whats so bad abt that
@deborahjolly2653
@deborahjolly2653 3 жыл бұрын
@@Xhenn. Do you know how expensive things are!? Bills and taxes are expensive! And because most jobs don't pay much, you can't afford much! So, you need to work more to get more money! And because of that, you can't stay at your house for long!
@Xhenn.
@Xhenn. 3 жыл бұрын
@@deborahjolly2653 thats why only men having a job never works
@danielnu389
@danielnu389 3 жыл бұрын
@@deborahjolly2653 It seems he had enough time to spare, but mom still feel like he had to do everything and be there every day. Also is implied in her words that she doesn't even want to take care of her, but she wants to leave everything to dad, however dad also has work and can't obviously do that.
@filthyfrankblack4067
@filthyfrankblack4067 3 жыл бұрын
@@deborahjolly2653 Women are expected to work that's why they where pushed into college so fast. Two income households should be the norm it's not just what women wanted but also what the government wanted that way they can tax to incomes while separating the children from the parents.
@GhostSnakeGS
@GhostSnakeGS 2 жыл бұрын
despite being an animation this video brings a heavy message, and to think that this actually happens is sad...
@fireinthenight9028
@fireinthenight9028 2 жыл бұрын
this not only happens but is so common now . The sad thing is everyone knows it and no one want to change it. I see a lot of damaged children in the next few generations. The only winners are courts , lawyers and social organisations that gain billions every year. It's the legal way for the kids trafficking between different people in some cases complete strangers.
@venezuelanomarico
@venezuelanomarico 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes, there's good mothers, but many women aren't prepared to care Children. And those women by courts wins Child Custody. A Sad story.
@debo5410
@debo5410 3 жыл бұрын
what can we do about everyone knows it’s bullshit bias but what can be done?
@greenthunder1000
@greenthunder1000 3 жыл бұрын
@@debo5410 good question. Right now the only option is giving up
@vickytsak2285
@vickytsak2285 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh 2 of my friends have terrible mothers but they won custody so they didnt see their dads as much. The bias shouldnt exist. Other factors are WAY more important
@rensilvarein9791
@rensilvarein9791 3 жыл бұрын
@Ryan Munyon Because that's exactly what they want. They believe women is the more important parent after all.
@nudny_kanal
@nudny_kanal 3 жыл бұрын
but in this sad story there's a chance that child when will grow up will become famous or something or will try to not the cicle repeat itself.
@LargoAnimations
@LargoAnimations 3 жыл бұрын
My mom divorced my dad when I was 12, she took me and my little brother from Germany to America and left my dad and my older brother behind. My dad was supposed to see us once a year, I haven't seen him in over 4. I voice chatted him on my birthday and he was holding back tears seeing how much I had grown without him. I am 17 now, I miss him a lot, but I also feel scared of seeing my dad in a vulnerable state like that. Seeing him cry makes me sad, and I hope i'll get to see him again soon.
@deeplookman
@deeplookman 3 жыл бұрын
I wish you the best...
@Max-hn5tc
@Max-hn5tc 3 жыл бұрын
Shit, that's depressing...
@jerinjohnson1529
@jerinjohnson1529 3 жыл бұрын
Visit him when you're 18. You're legally an adult by then and your mother won't be able to get in the way
@davidlopez6703
@davidlopez6703 3 жыл бұрын
Once you are 18 make sure to visit him and spend time together. Wish you the best, God bless you.
@stoplossmr
@stoplossmr 3 жыл бұрын
bro for real, just talk to him every once in a while via discord/skype or some shit.
@anonymousalias4427
@anonymousalias4427 3 жыл бұрын
My mom punished me for showing any emotion other than happiness. Any hint that I hated my life was met with hours of screaming lectures, how much she had sacrificed taking me away from my father so we could live in a shitty house she refused to even try to fix up, and then whining about how much she hated her job and coworkers. I got quiet, and it took me years to learn how to communicate. Today I only speak to my father.
@broorb4104
@broorb4104 3 жыл бұрын
my mind is being blow by how many similar stories I’ve been reading about… this sounds like hell. I’m truly sorry.
@redactedcanceledcensored6890
@redactedcanceledcensored6890 3 жыл бұрын
oof same shit with me, except I was punished even for happiness, and for nothing too, congrats for going no-contact
@sonicfan82
@sonicfan82 3 жыл бұрын
I may not know what it's like to go through that personally,but I hope that the rest of your life will be the best that you have ever lived.
@Nellak2011
@Nellak2011 3 жыл бұрын
My exact story
@skootergirl22
@skootergirl22 3 жыл бұрын
She's allowed to show emotions but you can't? Why are men treated like robots
@pouletfondu9038
@pouletfondu9038 Жыл бұрын
This hurt. I wish so bad that I had such a supportive father figure.
@MrDaros89
@MrDaros89 3 жыл бұрын
My father was an alcoholic, and my mother most likely suffer from cluster b personality disorder. The court decided the custody of my brother and me should go to her with visitation every second weekend (often once a month, because she could withhold us without any repercussions). I never saw my father drink, and I remember how sick he was whenever we visited him due to withdrawals (we didn't really know back then, of course), but he soldiered on trying to make sure we had as much fun at his place as possible. In the meanwhile my brother and I would suffer through several of my mothers failed relationships, her extremely destructive personality, and daily had to listen to how she shit talked our father. Several times she tried to make us talk about him drinking when we visited him, so she could use it against him to get full custody. One day I told my father I wanted to live with him (at age 13 I'd be able to choose freely), but he convinced me to wait a few more years, so my brother wouldn't be alone with my mom/boyfriend of the month. Unfortunately years of drinking had done its damage to his body, and he passed away when I was 9. It wasn't until years later I learned from my aunt that a few weeks prior he had entered a rehab program so he could be ready to take care of us when the time came. Despite his faults and alcoholism he was a way better parent than my mother ever could be. So to all the fathers out there who has practically lost their kids due to a morally corrupt court system: Don't give up and don't drop out of your children's lives. Even if they don't quite understand the situation you mean more to them than you can possibly imagine.
@emzz7358
@emzz7358 3 жыл бұрын
Damn, that's beautiful message from such a sad story man. My condolences 🙏. This makes me even more greatful for my loving mother and father. Thank you for sharing your story
@MrDaros89
@MrDaros89 3 жыл бұрын
@@emzz7358 Thank you. Cherish them! It wasn't all sadness, though. Four years after my fathers death my brother and I was adopted by our aunt and uncle. They gave us the stability our lives needed, and today we are both doing very well. I haven't spoken with my mother since I was 16, as her destructive behavior continued. I know it can sound weird to break with someone who is practically mentally ill instead of helping them, especially when that person is your mother, but CBP/BPD is extremely destructive to the sufferer and everyone in their lives. I feel pity for my mother, and I kind of wish I could be in her life, but I simply can't forgive the things she put brother and me through.
@itzcrystalzz
@itzcrystalzz 3 жыл бұрын
You doing alright now?
@MostafaSrag
@MostafaSrag 3 жыл бұрын
I almost cried reading this, in the past 2 years I havent seen my girl except 3 times because her mom wont let me see her, but now after she will get a shitload of money from me every month she agreed to let me see her on regular basis I am from Egypt and we have a more corrupt family court than in your country, I miss my daughter everyday and I hope she loves me like you loved your father
@MrDaros89
@MrDaros89 3 жыл бұрын
@@itzcrystalzz Yes I managed to make a decent living for myself despite the hard odds so early in life. I have my aunt and uncle to thank for that.
@Solo-gx2xc
@Solo-gx2xc 3 жыл бұрын
RIP the Western Culture of Fatherless Households. The generation of the LOST is here.
@OriginalBongoliath
@OriginalBongoliath 3 жыл бұрын
Russia and China's population is shrinking as well. Maybe India really will be the world superpower in 2030 by default because the world is collapsing.
@njanirudh
@njanirudh 3 жыл бұрын
@Bongoliath It's unfortunate but even in India people are blindly following stuff that are source of problems in the western countries.
@gluttonousmanu2725
@gluttonousmanu2725 3 жыл бұрын
@@OriginalBongoliath Never again use India and Superpower together. The dumbfk populace rewards mediocrity rejected two great prime ministers for their reforms. They force others to not to pursue them. The deep ingrained Socialist mindset will led to eventual downfall of India which is impending as the World moves on your thoughts will still be stuck in the Marxist freebie Utopia
@verden2323
@verden2323 3 жыл бұрын
World is getting destroyed
@axlkay3628
@axlkay3628 3 жыл бұрын
single-motherhood households*
@MrJustonemorevoice
@MrJustonemorevoice 3 жыл бұрын
"Money will never replace her father" "I want more money for stuff" This right here is probably the attitude that destroyed most families in the 20th century.
@deisk2707
@deisk2707 3 жыл бұрын
this shit is around for a century?
@Spider-Too-Too
@Spider-Too-Too 3 жыл бұрын
@@deisk2707 since the globalization of American manufacturing jobs. No more well off factory workers men/dock worker/farm worker and etc
@tybarker5038
@tybarker5038 3 жыл бұрын
Women want a lottery winner who leaves them alone
@MrJustonemorevoice
@MrJustonemorevoice 3 жыл бұрын
@@Spider-Too-Too I would actually say that it has less to do with good jobs and more to do with how parents raised their kids. The boomers alienated their kids but showered them with material wealth. That screwed them up and they passed that onto their kids, and so on and so fourth. Don't you find it strange that you were bombarded with the idea that you were a loser if you still worked for the family business into your 30s? Well, look at all the mega wealthy. What are they doing?
@Spider-Too-Too
@Spider-Too-Too 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrJustonemorevoice we surely are dealt a shut hand
@carlosgaldamesf
@carlosgaldamesf 2 жыл бұрын
wow this made me cry. When I was 10 years old my parents divorced, he went to another city, I could only see him once a month for 5 hours. My mother got a boyfriend who treats me and my younger brother badly. When I was 13 years old, my mother started a lawsuit against my father so she could take us back to her country of origin, denouncing him for every little thing he did. It was very difficult for me. I am currently 14 years old and my mother won the lawsuit, my father does not have money to travel to my mother's country. P.S. my mother tongue is not english, sorry for the mistakes.
@Ash_Queen16
@Ash_Queen16 2 жыл бұрын
That’s okay, your English is good. I’m sorry you went through that. What country are you and your mother from?
@MillenniaThinker
@MillenniaThinker 3 жыл бұрын
I lied... here is your wholesome 100 360 no scope turned on video.
@metaception4867
@metaception4867 3 жыл бұрын
about what ?
@MossadDid911
@MossadDid911 3 жыл бұрын
My name is the truth.
@BonkBro
@BonkBro 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@bababoeythehorsemen8462
@bababoeythehorsemen8462 3 жыл бұрын
where is the dissasociation video are you delete it ?
@Mental_Abortion
@Mental_Abortion 3 жыл бұрын
@charli d'amelio 🅥 bot
@vvvios
@vvvios 3 жыл бұрын
I think about this so much. As you know, single motherhood has absolutely skyrocketed, I believe from 5 - 10% to now 45% in a few decades. Imagine if we had a father to help us lift weights regularly starting at age 16, 17, etc. Imagine if we had a father who said "here, come work at my corporation, paid training, benefits, everything" at 18. You're now fit, certified, lifelong employment stability, socially well-adjusted, everything. When society condemns a 30-year-old NEET, ask if he ever had a father that helped him. For boomers, it was a given. You had a father to help your health, wealth, and relationships. To teach you, mentor you, and support you. For us, did we ever have any father figure at all? It's a guaranteed "no".
@latenrunor3591
@latenrunor3591 3 жыл бұрын
@@sabbatus You're lucky. My father didn't bother to get his own license so he could teach me to drive; he didn't teach me anything about money or discipline, or responsibilities, and he couldn't give me any work. He did love the bottle, though, and still does. Then again, what much can you expect from an underpaid (yet skilled, whenever he lays off the booze) factory worker? I'm a wagie at a failing print store, and nobody's hiring partially due to the bug that shall not be named because YT, and partially because I barely have any marketable skills. Probably gonna throw in the towel once my old folks pass away - nobody will miss me, and nobody will care. In fact, nobody will even notice.
@Tom_Foolry
@Tom_Foolry 3 жыл бұрын
Become that father.
@somedude1068
@somedude1068 3 жыл бұрын
Thats how all those anti vaxers vegans flat earthers liberal art students and other twisted groups are formed
@freedomdude5420
@freedomdude5420 3 жыл бұрын
Just to let you know kids can start lifting weights at Age 2 I'm not saying they're going to be lifting a hundred pounds or 50-pound weights but they could start then. Give them those little one pounders women weights.
@freedomdude5420
@freedomdude5420 3 жыл бұрын
It also doesn't help that you have school teach indoctrination, not teach how money really works(not nickels and dimes), and worst of all Yes Man philosophy.🤮
@kitcat2449
@kitcat2449 3 жыл бұрын
I hate how this is a real problem and loving GOOD dads are suffering from this, then there is my alcholic narcissistic dad who only blames the system and overlooks his own behaviour. I hate when people don't take responsibility for their actions. Dad, you're not one of those mistreated dads, you're just a horrible parent.
@notstressmess1883
@notstressmess1883 3 жыл бұрын
Mine wasnt even there for me
@ED-ns8fj
@ED-ns8fj 3 жыл бұрын
Parents selfishly put other humans in the world and won't take responsability for how they treat them. IT WAS NEVER MY CHOICE TO EXIST IN THE FIRST PLACE, WHY DID YOU MAKE ME, JUST TO MAKE ME SUFFER?!?
@whathappenswhenyouclosethe6084
@whathappenswhenyouclosethe6084 3 жыл бұрын
@Zeynep Aca Bir Türk olarak çoğumuzunki böyle dostum...
@sebastianc5155
@sebastianc5155 3 жыл бұрын
@@ED-ns8fj thats the gift of life, you dont ask for it.
@spaceghost8886
@spaceghost8886 3 жыл бұрын
@@ED-ns8fj peak entitlement
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