Father's Day Addendum: "Wrong... WRONG!"

"Wrong... WRONG!" #weoutchea #gullah #geechee #fatherday #strawman #cloutchasing #chucktown sunnmcheaux.com weoutcheamerch.com

[@jojoone1099]

Imagine having the gall to admit that you neglect your kids.

[@rainbeauxunicorn5237]

And just to spite your child’s mother for not wanting him or moving on. Just sad.

[@theTrend7]

Some people wear it as a badge of honor. A lot of them have grown up in messed up,loveless homes,and are repeating the cycle, I think.

[@shaughnegonzalez6814]

Well damn! Shameful ain't it!

[@pearlyj.7493]

Sounds like someone wants his baby mama to file for child support. 😊

[@UhOhJacquinette]

And then he don’t pay talk bout “he buying everything” lol how ?

[@RamenNoodle1985]

Unfortunately child support doesn't usually provide enough. Since it's based on what a person (mom or dad) is making, a lot of times it's $100/month or less. And the amount of men who will quit a job to get out of paying child support is ridiculous - my sister had a friend who's ex husband quit his regular job, and started working under the table so he wouldn't have to pay child support, but still had money for drugs.

[@DarthFurie]

​@@RamenNoodle1985I've seen the same thing, men quitting jobs and being paid under the table to dodge child support. Made me so glad I didn't procreate, seems like it's almost always women left holding the bag when these types of shenanigans occur 🫠

[@rainbeauxunicorn5237]

Even on CS, it’s still his responsibility. Court ordered support is the minimum of what a man should be doing without getting in trouble.

[@UhOhJacquinette]

@@RamenNoodle1985 100% the fathers to my children, including my ex-husband have contributed less than $1000 to each of their kids lives. PERIOD. And for no other reason, then they just don’t like me. Not that I’ve done anything wrong to these people just maybe be annoying or clingy when we were in the relationships we were in. But that’s enough to decide “eh, oh well” But then we look at mamas crazy when they go standing in the food stamp line

[@pietrycranberry6621]

"Aluminum can clanking in my comment section." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅

[@Yvonne_ennovY]

That's the part that got me 🤣🥰😂 Excellent metaphor Sunn! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@LakeishaLifestyle]

Epic 😂😂😂😂

[@LowKoLissa]

If you ain't wanna be a daddy just say that. Don't make excuses for somebody else to be a shitty one. We got enough of those.

[@Flow_Easy]

How many times does Unc Sunn have to keep saying it?! "Either be quiet or be NEXT".

[@purpleness64]

That part

[@DarkX64]

Ain't nobody ever gonna learn. Some people see other's in there own peace and happiness, and take that as a challenge. Not content to try and figure their own shit. That's nobody has beat Sunn. I don't think anyone will. And frankly? I'm good with that, Sunn has earned my respect and the only time I'd think to question his validity is if he ever cut down someone out of cruelty Funny thing is, notice how he never does that? It's like... he knows better than to be that kind of a clown.

[@cwalker6911]

Exactly 😂😂😂 they don’t learn

[@ohdamnman]

Should you make sure there's food in this woman's refrigerator, the answer to this question is simply are those your children, if they are your children then your obligation is to make sure your babies are fed so that means you need to make sure there's food in that woman's refrigerator or she has the means to put food in that refrigerator. Your having a romantic relationship with this woman does not have any regards to whether or not you have the responsibility of making sure your children are straight.

[@zombiedoggie2732]

Exactly. It takes two to tango!

[@Karma100xs]

Um u can find out of they ur for free right after they born

[@ThaKandyLady]

OMG YOU GUYS, ITS A UNICORN! 😂❤

[@zombiedoggie2732]

@@Karma100xs people been trying to find the gender of their baby before they were born forrever.

[@patriciaroberts9600]

That's the problem they do not know what their responsibilities are to their children....

[@threemothers]

Writing from personal experience. My ex refused to support our child in anyway because he verbally stated” He would come looking for me when he is older. Besides, if he gave money for his child I would taste the food too. I ain’t joking. True fact. I turned around, told him thanks and raised my son through Oxford University and Yale. Guess who keeps calling “ his son” Through all these hard times my close family and male friends were the village to help me raise him.

[@theTrend7]

Some men are so petty and immature. They think kids should suffer when they can't have their way

[@rainbeauxunicorn5237]

Why do they think a kid will give them time of day when they grow up after never being interested in them or developing a relationship?

[@moonshinershonor202]

Male friends? I'm a stranger but I got a lil suggestion that's gotten me through homelessness, heartbreak, incarceration, gangstalking, and then sum. Imagine me being afraid of some wise guy who exploits women and sells children for money because they don't want to sweat for rice. 🤠🐴 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqiVgX2CrNKno6cfeature=shared

[@msshellm8154]

​@@rainbeauxunicorn5237 you forget, they are "the father," and they are "entitled" ... when _they_ want something 🙄 They may have 'fathered' children, but they aren't Dads.

[@rainbeauxunicorn5237]

@@msshellm8154… kids show them better than they can tell them.

[@MzUpliftingTea]

We have a LOT OF BROKEN MEN spreading piss poor sentiments to their fellow men. TY Prof for always being the voice of REASONED INTELLECT!! OH AND.. SHOUT OUT TO CHUCKTOWN!!!

[@user-do1qf8rm7b]

My dad left 4 daughters for another woman. I wish he would have done things like cut the grass when he came around or fixed the broken things in the house. But he never thought of it as his children’s home. He always thought of it as his ex wife’s house and us girls had to do everything. So I learned to put up dry wall and paint and put in light fixtures and garden because who else was going to do it.

[@woodswal]

This the heart of the matter. When men leave their wives for another; they usually leave their kids too....either by way o finance, love, parental guidance, etc. Maybe not in every way but in 1 or more ways.

[@stephanos6128]

on the bright side you learned some skills

[@DarthFurie]

​​@@woodswalan ex boyfriend put me on to game in my 20s when he told me, "men usually treat the children based on how they feel about the mother." When they're not getting what they want from mom anymore, even biological kids are all but forgotten. But if they meet and get enamored with a new woman, they will be play daddy to her kids based off their feelings for the woman. I'm so glad he told me that so I could see and understand how childish that is for myself

[@br3669]

​​​​​@@DarthFurieIt's so baffling how many men admit this openly. As a thought experiment, I wonder - what could my husband(*) possibly do to make me stop WANTING to look after my kids, make sure they're fed, clean, warm, educated and LOVED? Nothing. Of course he could make it harder or easier for me to succeed, but he sure as heck couldn't keep me from trying my hardest. I'd never be able to live with myself if it weren't so. Why does it come so natural and easy to so many men (#NotAllMen) to say out loud that they can stop caring for their children as soon as there's nothing in it for them? How do they not disintegrate from the shame like a vampire in broad sunlight? (*he's a good husband and a good dad, this is purely hypothetical)

[@canadagirl7157]

​@br3669 these will be the same men wondering why their grown kids don't want a relationship with them when they're old and want to be taken care of

[@underthedice1231]

I don't get those parents. If my ex-wife and her current partner died, i would offer to adopt their kid because that's my child's sibling. End of story. Its not about your coparent's fridge, its about your child's. Doesn't mean you should provide everything in any situation but that you verbalize it as a coparent issue rather than a coparenting issue says so much.

[@lb6823]

My daddy didn't live with us and he always made sure the refrigerator was full. Even when cousins lived with us. He even made sure the refrigerator was full after he gave my mother cash. He even filled my refrigerator when he came to visit me and my son when I was grown and living in my own. Rip Daddy

[@saoirsevicteoiria2759]

A good man. I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope Sunday wasn't too hard for you.

[@laurajarrell6187]

Sounds like you got a real dad! And, good on you that you appreciated it!!👏👏💙💙💙🥰✌🏽

[@bookaholicblue2169]

When my mom's refrigerator died my dad brought a large igloo container and ice to keep the food we had from spoiling then went to buy a frig. That was in the 80's. Rip mom❤. Dad is a little slower but still a heck of a man.

[@user-ke7iv3gv3t]

Good men like this don’t exist anymore unfortunately

[@faithmason9562]

Rest well Daddy.❤

[@kaylynnanson6231]

He was looking to be absolved from guilt for letting his kids be hungry while they were with their mom.

[@RamenNoodle1985]

Angry Biracial just posted a video about this, and so many people in the comments were all "dude shouldn't have to pay for another man's kids" like they're not all a family and the mom is out of food cause SNAP don't give near enough to feed 1 person never mind 4 kids so he buys a burger and fries for his kid knowing 3 other kids (and the mother) have no food. Some men just really hate kids smdh JUST FEED THE DAMN KIDS AND STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT IT! Y'all out there wondering why women choose the bear all day every day.

[@bre9328]

Umm, yeah, before anyone subs to angry biracial, I feel like his content is not genuine. He's called BW out their name in the past, and has tried to rebrand himself as helping bw and calling out bm. A youtuber broke down his whole life story, the inconsistencies, and proved he was lying on live. While they were live, angry biracial was live, AB called out that youtuber to pull up, and when the youtuber did, AB blocked him, then claimed the youtuber wouldn't respond because they were a punk. Mind you, all this was live, so we saw that AB was lying....yeah, he didn't sit right with me after that, not to mention his fake life story. AB pandering and trying to get that YT check lol

[@TdT2211]

How can a person consciously do that? Goodness. I don't even want to think about how the fed/unfed child feels or thinks. 💔

[@gamingwhilebroken2355]

If it’s the video I am thinking of the bigger issue was the division and animosity getting one child highly desirable food (particularly to eat in front of the others) and not the others. Even if all you care about is your child, and I don’t think that is inherently wrong, you should still get the others food. Not doing so will cause resentment to foster between the children which that child will have to deal with for the rest of their life. It directly harms and impacts his child. If he can’t afford to do all of them then doing it less frequently and then get them all food. That way you are not singling out your child in the family dynamics.

[@songs4thesoul]

The fact that his children eating wasn’t his priority was shocking to me, but if he wanted to debate with the baby mama then go ahead, but don’t bring the drama to the Internet.

[@BeyonKasual]

This! He only brought it to the internet to get validation from strangers that he's a "good" man and father. Too bad he missed the mark. A good man and father wouldn't be asking this question because he would have already solved the problem. These men are softer than Charmin

[@1MarkKeller]

He lost that debate with his baby momma which is why he took it to the internet. Petty is as petty does.

[@lynns4426]

💯 Dad's like that are transactional. Food for our babies shouldn't be vilified, ever.

[@mizzpoetrics]

"Their mother's refrigerator", as if their child doesn't live there & it's not theirs, as well! 🤦🏾‍♀️ Since "they're not together", he can't see his child's disappointment after open the door to an empty fridge!

[@katiejude14]

Crazy how so many ppl would be willing to watch their child go hungry just to make sure a woman who no longer wants them doesnt get a singular crumb. Kids notice things like that and they remember. And thats exactly why they have no relationship with these bums as adults.

[@chantristrammell6088]

Not Sun out here son-ing them. They want the smoke but not all the heat that come with it.

[@Tam75Tam]

When hit dogs hollar

[@Tam75Tam]

@PremyeDaernaer-cq1mx I appreciate where you're coming from, but it's not entirely true. Men abandoning the children they created has always been a thing. That's why "shotgun" marriages used to happen. It's why some men made it a law for other men to be legally forced to at least financially care for those children via "child support". Fuck boys who make babies with disregard ain't new.

[@daddy7731]

Another one bites the dust 😂😂😂 Why do they even try.

[@theTrend7]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@PoetDarkling]

My dad had 11 kids, us 5 plus 6 with his ex. He worked hard every day of his life to fill BOTH fridges AND pay his child support, even though the ex was married to the man she left him for. #happyfathersday #missyoudaddy!

[@TdT2211]

His obligation is to his children. So when filling the fridge, his obligation should be to find out why it's empty in the first place. If the reason is negligence, your obligation is recover your full-time care of said children so you can keep your fridge flowing and you can wait on her financial support. The best part, no more worrying about what she's doing. Now do you want to take care of the actual responsibility or 😉 talk about who daddy really is?

[@tacorakersey8236]

They ain't even ready for that conversation!

[@shantellakaladypersephone8671]

💯

[@Nikki0417]

"Empty aluminum can clanking in my comment section". Damn, I need to save this line somewhere.

[@ayates6333]

Let him know professor. Gave him a whole vocabulary lesson.

[@kateluvya]

Thanks for reminding me the other day that it was fathers day. I've got a bad brain and it doesn't hold onto facts well anymore. I love your stuff- wish dad would watch it, he's a retired teacher and rigid about language. It frustrates me because I was always corrected growing up. I think if you can understand what the person mesns even if they got it wrong, haven't they communicated? Thanks for being who you are, good sir.

[@katrina8077]

Great point! If I understand the intent that should be all that matters

[@singularityjackson]

PERIOD.

[@lovelight1114]

Making sure the kids eat is both parents responsibility - now if dad feels his child support covers that so be it. But why be mad at another man who adds to your child’s life? The child’s needs should come before either parents ego.

[@OkIamReadyNow]

Yes!! Thank you

[@emgene3]

My dad was dodging child support while he was literally dating a girl a year older than me, (three years younger than my sister btw). When she became legal he put her through college all the while he still owes my mom thousands. He lost a wife and decided to leave two daughters and found someone who fit both categories 🤢 Edit: WOW I overshared, sorry ya'll

[@threemothers]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Damn right Sunn! You don’t bring a knife to a gun fight. Those who are prepared to learn would be taught. Others,one cannot help.

[@GillamtheGreatest]

i guess what saddens me about this exchange is it still assumes a man needs to be around to provide/pay. I'd rather just see a world were kids have food. full stop. for context im coming at this from the perspective of someone who will never be able to "afford" to be a parent, even though i feel like if i had been born in a kinder less patriarchal world i might have rather liked being a stay at home dad for not just my own kids but for whatever little neighborhood i ended up living in (i was lucky to have a neighborhood mom i really looked up to). creepy selfish manosphere dudes really poison the well on that conversation though. maybe someday we can have a bit more room and safety for more vulnerability around discussions of fatherhood.

[@TdT2211]

I remember telling a very kind lunch monitor in school l didn't want kids because they are expensive. She said you don't need a lot of money to raise kids, you just need a lot of love. I still never had any but raised many. (There are many in need of love and care.) I am now helping to raise their children. And now that I am more mature too, it is more enjoyable. Weird right? Lol. Anyway, I hope you find a way to share your love and wisdom with someone who needs it. But you have to have a really good sense of humor, too. Because the other day I farted in public and almost died of embarrassment but the 4y.o. didn't notice. They were too busy trying not to fall down laughing. So. Yeah.

[@rebeccamartin2399]

The world really needs more men that think like you.😊

[@jessicaaudate]

Why do y'all keep coming for this man?! 😂😂😂

[@PanEtRosa]

right lmao you'd think people'd learn after the what.... ten thousandth time? but if they knew how to learn, they wouldn't say this shit in the first place, so

[@MishasMama]

Dunning - Kruger

[@kaylynnanson6231]

Because he and his ilk don't get it. And they don't effing listen.

[@lesliemelton1100]

Because they want to be NEXT!!

[@JukuduB]

The worst thing about this is the fact that the kids will grow up and see how he was debating about putting food in the fridge FOR THEM! The intenet holds things forever. He wont be able to talk his way out of this.

[@JUSLOFI]

Go play with Derrick Jax'n. Don't play with Sunn m'Cheaux

[@flfb]

I don't understand this whole "is it my responsibility" thing because - yeah. It is. If your kids come back from Mum's hungry and saying there's no food; that IS your responsibility as a parent. It feels like a situation that's more about the Dad not wanting to be responsible for his ex and her choices - which I guess is fair? But this isn't about her: it's about their kids. Send them to Mum's with food. Problem fuckin solved. Don't even have to touch a fridge. Don't have to go sook on tiktok; just find a solution. Christ.

[@mommyofkittens4809]

Isn’t there something about hit dogs hollering? 🤔

[@Volundur9567]

Bruv, you ain't filling the Mama's fridge, you filling YOUR child's fridge.

[@Vince-I-Am]

When I heard "Empty aluminium cans clanking" reminded of an African Proverb that translates, "Empty debes (Metallic Buckets) make the most noise" 😂😂😂

[@jennifercook6497]

In situations like this, when you're playing in somebody's face just to get back at your ex, the only suffering comes from your kids. Anyone willing to make their own kids suffer just to prove a point to their ex is a gross human being undeserving of life and love! Sorry, not sorry! You don't mistreat kids. They don't pick their parents, and they didn't ask to be here!

[@theroyalcrane]

Damn! "...the latter again" 👨‍⚖️

[@NunayahBuisness]

My cousins dad basically abandoned his whole family for the new wife. He has refused to care for the kids at all, and hasn't helped after their mother had a severe stroke. It baffles the mind. I5 seems like he never cared for them as individuals, but only when they were a representation of hisbsyatus and ability as a provider. Now its out of sight, out of mind.

[@smol-one]

Seriously, all these people think they're different, that they're going to be the one get something over on Sunn. You won't.

[@roramoya]

The answer to "are they your kids?" and "are you obligated to make sure there's food in the refrigerator?" are the same.

[@AleciaRenece]

Just... Thank you. 💛

[@1MarkKeller]

This new generation of "men" are really petty. Take care of YOUR kids. YOU made them. Period.

[@3rdeye7thdimension]

Some days I miss Beaufort. Other days I'm glad I got out of it. Still gotta bring some sensibility to the rest of the world and focus on changing it for the better, rather than looking for internet points, the "notches on the belt," as you say. Glad you're around.

[@kayarmstrong6745]

Look at it this way: Should the responsibility be thrust upon the non-custodial parent, or should he willingly accept responsibility to know his child(ren) are well fed? Just let Child Services get involved - he’ll wish he had fed those kids directly off his plate.

[@cwalker6911]

I’m sorry that man surely was out of pocket because you addressed it perfectly. Together or not your child is your child. Dude was looking to argue or get bro points for agreeing with the first loser. Parents need to parent period and we should all want children who are clothed, sheltered and well fed.

[@theforkedman3030]

Idk what's up with people. You don't just go on a first date and start paying for someone else's house needs but if you're in a relationship it's time to go grocery shopping. People need to live life more and gain some common sense.

[@ann-michellet.5094]

It's the "But, I from Chuck town!" for me. ❤

[@LakeishaLifestyle]

You definitely checked that clout chasing aluminum can. 😂 I love the video, I can definitely relate to it. ❤ I have noticed that people love to debate or try to prove someone is wrong on these social media platforms, that's very weird to me. Who seeks out confrontation just for the sake of having a confrontation and not for the sake of educating. People please do better.

[@BeautifulKittenOfLove]

No, you don't have to fill her fridge. You have to pay her the court ordered child support.

[@saoirsevicteoiria2759]

Wow. Always fire, not surprising it's hot.

[@jennifercook6497]

Sunn they tried it! They always try it and fail!😂

[@charlotte7554]

He realizes his kids share that fridge too, right? He's filling his kids fridge. Hell, my ma once had a perfect stranger (mom of a kid from my school) fill our fridge when I had cancer and we were struggling. One of the few times I saw her cry that year, even with her kid having the big c. A full fridge is life.

[@562rodlbc]

✊🏿👊🏿✌🏾🫶🏿

[@rockinslugz]

No crumbs

[@JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts]

No you did not say, Chucktown. THAT is hilarious to me. 😂You're AT a school in another state, but Chucktown is always with you. 😉

[@barbarabyas4203]

Damn you’re GOOD!!! ❤️✌🏾🤣…🌵

[@NOLAqueen504A]

Hit dogs gone always holler!!!

[@armeengreen1176]

I felt the Chucktown in my soul when you said it. Made me proud! Da Chuck stand up🥰

[@Kim-427]

I don’t mean this as a drag a black man moment but this has been my observation after several decades on earth. Do we notice how for the black women to assume the responsibility of taking care of child/children it seems to come naturally for most of us and there isn’t a lot of discussion and back and forth about her role and responsibilities. But,With our black men there is always a need to give them credit for taking care of the child/children they create,then there usually is a discussion as to rather or not he has to pay financially for the children he has helped make and then they have to decide if they’re going to spend time with child. The only thing that they don’t seem to need help with is leaving the women that they make these children with and sometimes the children. All the posturing that some do about their responsibilities it would be nice to see them fight hard to keep their families and the woman that they have children with a make a family.)

[@anamcara5843]

Why would a true father need to ask?

[@terrencemgentry]

Professor's South Kack jumped out!!

[@rowenajohnson]

Umoutchea 😊

[@TonyUrryMakes]

Aluminum can 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Vedsetta]

Straight men should talk more like Sunn

[@tiltedtexan1980]

He left out the petty option. Fill your bm fridge top to bottom, with food for your child. fruits, vegetables, dairy etc. If her or the dude she with want something other than fruit, cheese strings and goldfish crackers they go have to work it out😂

[@yehooyahoo6861]

“I want to be petty with what my kids eat because I couldn’t keep my pants on”

[@LanternSlade]

I just tried to say aluminum can clanking for clout and nearly swallowed my tongue. Well done, sir.

[@gailgfaust208]

I kno das right!! Chucktown rise up!!!😂😂😂❤❤❤

[@beverlyobasiolu]

He ain’t afraid of the smoke. Bring it!!

[@SheisB515]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@BruceOnder]

Where's the "Daaaaaaamn" clip when you need it?😆

[@PNWGlinda]

Bring diapers and some shampoo while you're at it. Take care of your family.

[@SamanthaManning-xy8fu]

It makes me wonder why a woman should feel loyal if her SO is unwilling to fend for her or her kids. Love is the capacity to take care of others and be self sacrificing. If you are incapable of those things then you are incapable of love.

[@lelegross4855]

Da latta be my favutt paad

[@ahmeenahisreal4461]

I agree with everything you say and I keep telling you.I have a daughter.She's given her PhD this half.Final year, so she's intelligent, she's pretty.She used to be in the car.That'stroyer but so was ISO, but we have great.It's personal skills.She's a little fairly but she's never mean

[@GINYH]

Facts...✌🏾❤️

[@ThaKandyLady]

MY N🚫......... I love you Sunn 😂❤

[@teresaabrown8077]

Keep it Straight No Chaser. So Amazing. Haters Will Hate. Yo U Go Head 👍❤ 😎

[@lizziie8]

I appreciate ya!

[@nathanbedfordforest]

What some men are reacting to is the global assumption that men don't have any custody and thus don't buy food for their kids unless they fill mom's fridge. It's not 1980.

[@yehooyahoo6861]

I wonder why hetero men don’t have custody?

[@thetimekeeper955]

​@@yehooyahoo6861 Because hetero men in general decided the best way to control women's lives was to confine them to the home as much as possible, thus they convinced society that childrearing was more women's work than men's, and now many legal rulings reflect that ingrained falsehood.

[@shantellakaladypersephone8671]

​@@yehooyahoo6861Because they don't want the responsibility

[@nathanbedfordforest]

@@yehooyahoo6861 do you really wonder? The stories of men fighting for some custody beyond every other weekend could fill libraries. It's an unpopular narrative among some. I understand that too.

[@selflovebadass]

👏🏿👏🏾👏🏽👏🏼👏🏻👏

[@TonyUrryMakes]

Man. I listened to this again. You are a master of the bitch slap. Omg

[@jmslade7]

💜💛❤️🖤💚💜

[@danielleglorie8164]

this Sum Bul cheaux!

[@ljunhinged1952]

I wholeheartedly agree with the men who have apposed you about this post. I had a similar argument with my sons mother. She wanted me to pay for a basketball camp for our son in Indianapolis. She lives in Ft Wayne IN & I live in Ohio. Indianapolis is a 4 hour commute for me thats 8 hrs to & from. The camp was all summer & the games were every sat. She said it was my responsibility yet I also pay child support. I was supposed to get him every summer & that reduced my visits with my son(excluding the 8 hrs travel time) to 16 hrs a week. On top of that she felt I should furnish her home with groceries & help her pay her bills. All the while living with another man. And not withstanding me having my own house to furnish with groceries & other amenities. I also lived with another female & my ex had other children as so did I. But she would have had 3 ppl helping her household grow while mine suffered. So no! Although his children do live there it is not his duty as a father to support her home. People dont think about these things when considering the issues. I agree with him. They are not together. And he also has to make sure when his child is with him that the child is taken care of. In most cases, well in my case, she wouldnt send any food or clothes with my son so, according to your logic, I would have had to pay her a seperate child support award, then furnish her home with amenities & also find a way to furnish my own home with amenities. Where is the co-parenting in that? I feel that if I should help her she should also help me. Back to my previous story, if I had paid for him to go to basketball camp I would have had to sacrifice spending time with him. Did I pay for his camp? Yes I did. But it was one close to my home where I could spend time with him, help coach him & also monitor him. What is the difference? She wanted me to pay for her to be able to monitor him while making it more of a struggle to be with him because she didnt want to travel to Ohio to come to his ganes unless I paid for her a hotel, her food & her mileage. But its ok if I made the trip with no assisstance. So consider this next time you hear a man, or woman for that matter, speak on his experience. I think he made sense & as the title ironically suggests, your WRONG! In my humble opinion. I still watch you & support you because U make a lot of good points bjt your human. You do tend to miss the mark sometimes as we all are capable of.😊 I apologize for bouncing around in my points but Im sure you can make sense of it somehow.

[@spirit2705]

Okay but if all he wanted was your attention, why did you give it to him?

[@laurajarrell6187]

LMAO, I was watching a young gal from Africa, loving her accent, making a hair care product with Shea Butter! (And oil, bergamot and spices for smell!) It so made me think of Sunn!😊 And fyi, she said to make sure you get the 'organic shea butter from Africa! Everything else is fake, you can't even eat it!' She also said you can tell, the real stuff be 'chonk', apparently that means strong smell!👍🏼💙💙💙🥰✌🏽

[@underthedice1231]

Side note, a strawman doesn't need to be of an impregnable point. Still not one. If anything, one could argue it's a non sequitur. It is to the text of what came out of his mouth (in the extract; haven't seen the OG). But that requires ignoring subtext that is more visible than an ok-signing n-saluting blond bleu eyes chaplin-mustache bearing brown shirt wearing highschooler.

[@jmill7928]

I just want to know why you don't have the same energy on mothers day considering black fathers are the most involved fathers according to the cdc in this case you are feeding the yt man narrative

[@dmoffitt1914]

I agree that the relationship status point does not constitute a strawman fallacy. However, your response video contains two other logical fallacies: an appeal to emotion and a red herring. Both fallacies appear to be central to your conclusion or more importantly you black women advocacy.

[@mommyofkittens4809]

How so?

[@MishasMama]

Where was he advocating for Black women? He was advocating for children (and decent men).

[@MishasMama]

Also, no one knows the race of the mother unless they know the guy in the original video personally.

[@dmoffitt1914]

@@mommyofkittens4809 in the original response video SunnMcheaux at 11 sec uses the an appeal to emotion (Jealousy/Hypocrisy) with the other man helping which has no bearing on the father obligation to the child. at the 29 sec mark the stigmatizing of women is a red herring and has no relevance to the mans obligation. Hope that answers your question.

[@dmoffitt1914]

@@MishasMama At the 0:29 second mark, Sunnmcheaux introduces a red herring, placing emphasis on the point of advocating for women. While it is true that Sunnmcheaux did not explicitly mention Black women, I inferred from his previous videos and his identity as a Black man that this advocacy extends to Black women as well. If you would like, I can provide links to some of his videos where he explicitly states his priority support for Black women. Thank you, and have a blessed day.