Early Menopause Changed Us Forever - Gary and Emma Neville

[@mrw.2361]

Gary is literally everywhere

[@ikennaduru170]

LITERALLY 😅

[@adilabbas8628]

I know gets annoying after a bit

[@Hu3yN9]

You Heard him, You Seen him, You Felt him. In short, he's successful.

[@ohen]

If you look up "over-exposure" in the dictionary, Nev's picture will be right there

[@deathbystereo-]

jack of all trades master of none

[@BelfastManUtdTherapy]

Gary is a hero football-wise to all of us, and I love how methodical he is about achieving his goals and aims and his relentlessness. An amazing example to the youth of today. Hes England and Man Utd's best-ever Right-Back of all time. And he's so humble. Emma seems so down to earth and normal too, peace and love from Ireland

[@mariadodds2042]

What a lovely woman Emma is. She has a lot of humility and purpose. She will have helped a lot of women by speaking so openly.

[@SDDT24]

Shame she’s stuck with leach Gary

[@QTmodzProjects]

Isn't that what's normal for women to speak. They never done speaking tbh.

[@MartinOReilly-j4d]

Fearne Cotton wow! What a brilliantly conducted interview covering so many interesting topics. Just loved the pertinent questions and how you let both Neville’s answer in their own contrasting ways. Interruptions when required were perfectly timed. As a 60 year old bloke you had me hooked from start to finish. Take a bow.❤

[@iv9449]

Seeing Gary and Ryan Giggs trajectories in life it shows why life decisions are important

[@shell-o1g]

What a fantastic couple and to talk about this publicly is awesome … inspirational ❤

[@neilpearce]

Gary has a lot to say, but also knows when to be quiet and listen to others. So many people don't listen because they are already thinking of what to say next.

[@neelauppurple9707]

Always loved Gary Neville and his honesty 💜

[@aleksandrazivkovic5695]

Emma is a lovely lady-I wish her to find that peace she wants in her life.Fearne is amazing🌟

[@JenniferSW3]

There is the flip side for late menopause. You linger endlessly trapped in the peri - which ramps up as it hangs onto the bitter end. Heading into my mid 50's here, still in the peri phase and begging my body to hurry up and let me get onto the next phase. Our elders generally don't warn us about what is coming. We need more people to speak out about this phase of our lives.

[@lozb1631]

This is me too!

[@Savingforlife]

I can relate

[@MrGrantspants]

My partner has been going through this for years now. It’s a daily struggle for her. I support her where I can but getting the right professional support is hard, especially as we live in the back water that is south Cumbria. She knows more than her GP about the topic, I feel that more dedicated knowledgable specialists are required in this field. They might be out there but certainly aren’t where we are. She is also mid 50s and still in the peri phase.

[@mattkinsella9856]

You made a great point about elders not talking about or warning us about any of the stages of life as we get older. Whether physical or psychological.

[@markfalshaw-gv9im]

Iam a Liverpool fan and even though we didnt like Gary when he played i love the overlap and i have nothing but respect for him,but his wife Emma seems a lovly girl and i have to say it but he has definitely punched above his weight she is beautiful, its no wonder he's been so successful behind every great Man is a great Women and she is so brave to do this but Kudos to Gary for being honest

[@dondamon4669]

What you talking about? Gary is a multi millionaire,she has struck gold

[@stetomlinson3146]

@@dondamon4669 But she didn't know that when they met! That's a horrible thing to say. Jeez, I'm a Liverpool fan too and I can't believe I'm sticking up for Gary Neville! I agree with Mark too. He is punching well above his weight!

[@trevoredensor7114]

Top marks to Fern....she made it about them with occasional self references....a perfectly balanced interview...well done Fern 😊😊

[@paulmalpus3133]

I’m a Manchester United fan so love Gary but this guy talks sense a they are both here to help people and give great advice

[@sherwood9917]

Thank you, Emma. Menopause should not be a taboo subject. I cannot stand Gary as a pundit. However, I absolutely love his quirky personality, and he is fantastic on The Overlap, one of my favorite YT shows.

[@lozb1631]

Thank you for talking about this fearne as its better to be educated around hormones but also knowing that its something we are all going to go through and that we will come out of it! If you're not at this stage in life then try to tune out and not watch or listen to videos if it is anxiety producing, which i understand but when you're in it hearing other peoples experiences does help. You have to do what's best for you.

[@stung3848]

I'm 37, been having perimenopause symptoms for the last year at least, my mum keeps reeling me "you're too young, I was 50 blah blah", but I know my body so I've paid for private blood tests which show I've got low testosterone among other things. My mums response "well you're determined to be perimonpausal" No, mum, my test results say it's my body that's determined, I'm not deciding anything. I'm so grateful to Emma, we need more support as even our own mums are stuck in an old fashioned mindset that's completely unhelpful!

[@tomdarbyshire1703]

Such a great couple, both spoke so well 😊

[@simonegreene1097]

Great interview really enjoyed listening to you all

[@Savingforlife]

Everyones experience will be different and i think each of us should just support one another no matter how it pans out. Menopause is a wildly neglected subject yet this has at least opened up a conversation. It's great that it's a husband and wife talking together aboutbit because this is the realities we will face in one form or another.

[@fransarahallen7887]

So brave of them to talk about this ❤

[@luthandodingalibala1875]

I like the host's ability to ask pertinent questions

[@michaelcarter983]

Emma is a Saint! Seems like a lovely woman & she's basically in a long distance relationship with neville

[@baztweed]

Emma Neville such a beautuful human

[@FPL_Tiggy]

Menopause is not talked about enough, it impacts mental health, it impacts your job, your family. Pre and Post and no matter what age make no difference, this is the real world this is menopause and yet at school we don't educate, in the workplace its not considered.

[@darnitthelma4247]

I ❤ Gary! He makes me belly laugh and that’s exactly what my husband does 😊

[@jasonyoung1786]

I genuinly believe in 10 x years time, he will do an interview regretting that he took everything on, in these days, he even admitted he is missing out on his kids and is it worth it. Slow down Gary, slow down !!

[@carmelshepherd6739]

Great podcast with a lovely down to earth couple I like Gary and watch overlap even though i hate football , wonderful to speak about Menopause its so important, Dr Louise Newson was best help ever for me .

[@victoriamorrissey884]

Loved this ❤❤❤

[@aggie3344]

What a wonderful couple

[@warrensanchez3526]

Always thought Gary Neville was a top lad

[@mariadodds2042]

@warrensanchez3526 He is. Most typical men just want to find a solution. The emotional effect the menopause has is indescribable. So difficult for those around us and devastating at times.

[@chrismasters592]

People laugh saying they don’t want to grow up and be a Gary Neville if people listen to this they would be wrong.

[@mariadodds2042]

@@chrismasters592 Gary's all about discipline and excellence. Great qualities to have.

[@BD-ek8eg]

Wonderful couple!

[@AnitaBrown-g6x]

We need legislation that makes it compulsory for workplaces to educate and bring awareness to women in adulthood when it comes to this stage of their life. We also need the NHS to come on board also. There is NOT enough information made available to women advising them 1. That Perimenopause is an actual thing and to expect it anywhere from mid 30s onwards. 2. That women need to prepare their minds and bodies for the onset of Menopause because it has long term health implications for the REST of our lives and 3. Menopause does NOT go away - we will have to live with this until we breathe our last breath. I honestly feel let down by our Health Service as a woman in my 40s going through Perimenopause. I should NOT have to rely on Google to educate myself on something so profound, that I'm going to have to navigate for the rest of my life. Things need to change NOW.

[@eric5959]

Employers should not be lecturing staff about private matters. They should of course be understanding of issues as they arise, but what you are proposing is disturbing.

[@AnitaBrown-g6x]

@@eric5959 Eric, who said anything about LECTURING??!! The workplace is and will continue to be greatly affected by women who are feeling challenged by Menopause. People like you, who are closeminded to new avenues of support, guidance, education and awareness of Menopause and how we can all navigate it, will continue to keep it an isolating and overwhelming aspect of a woman's life.

[@paulachin9130]

The government has actually now recognised this debilitating feelings that women are going through. Work places have now started to tell them that if they are having a bad day they can take time out and if they want to work from home they can. I never experienced any side effect but my daughter has badly at this moment. They have put that in force now and have implemented it along with others, hurrah at last.

[@StellaAdler_]

Absolutely love Gary!

[@TheTakbok]

Im sorry to hear Gary is suffering from menapause

[@SirAvadah]

Hope you get better Gary

[@bluesEvanskro]

At this moment in time

[@gregjohnstone9795]

This is Menopause United football club

[@mikelitorous5570]

Gary should have been a centre mid during his playing days since he manages to get everywhere

[@PeppyOoze]

I'm a big Emma fan... very big: when Gary goes on those long trips.

[@dannyfergurson1548]

Gary talks I listen

[@Thomasccanada]

these two are such a great fit - I'm wondering how Gary fitted this into his schedule 😆

[@babybabypink26]

Just so you know you can go through perimenopause and menopause with no issues.

[@Little_Sidhe]

Thanks ❤ did you?

[@mariadodds2042]

I am postmenopausal, and while in the thick of it read that 80% of women have moderate to severe symptoms (I was one of them) but that 20% of women sail through with mild/no symptoms. Nearly every woman I know will relate to Emma's symptoms. Massive respect to her and Gary. 👌👍

[@babybabypink26]

@@Little_Sidhe not there yet but my mum had the odd hot flush , only when she was in her thick dressing gown, and she started menopause very late ! I just know when I had thyroid cancer all I read was negative stuff and it causes my health anxiety to rocket so I think it’s very very important to hear both sides of things so as not to scare and worry people before they’ve got there.

[@paulachin9130]

I was lucky thank heaven's, but my daughter has it really bad.

[@debbie8304]

We need to hear more of this, all we hear is horror stories

[@zack9982]

Lovely people

[@emmawambi2211]

Am shocked to see Gary Neville here 😊

[@juliefaux1857]

I’m with Emma peace is key

[@findingmystyle_x]

Really enjoyed this 😊

[@Labong34]

The Glazer family have to take responsibility for this ,Glazers out

[@LauraABradburn]

I feel a bit for Gary here. He shows concern for his wife and a desire to, in the only way he knows how, help her through a time both of them found difficult to understand. Some of the audience responses were less than kind. They seem like a lovely couple who are communicative and accepting of who each of them are and supportive of each others goals.

[@toivozo]

Surprised Gary didn't share his personal experiences about his menopause as well, otherwise babbling the whole time. I would like to heare more of Emmas thoughts as well.

[@I124q.....28]

Tbag has done very well 😂😂

[@Infinity-gy5ie]

I wish Gary would say 13-19 months for a change. Everything seems to happen in the last 12-18 months even in his private life

[@bossdeman]

fantastic couple..

[@harryhatchell394]

Gary been yassified in the thumbnail 😂

[@Mnbz1]

Is there anything Neville will not go on?

[@michaelhumpage8272]

He might not talk about his feeling but he never shuts up about everything else the wise old owl Neville is

[@whereseagullsfly8250]

I do understand the impact of early menopause. I had an hysterectomy at 39 due to cancer. Now you can let early menopause impact your life or you can embrace it and welcome the future. I am not unsympathetic with young women experiencing it and everyone is different - I know that. I am just not willing to listen to yet another victim. This young woman has a life very few experience, embrace it. Sorry Fearne, but life is too short.

[@emmacc74]

I'm so sorry you went through that ❤ and agree we are all different. My friend didnt even realised it had happened to her.. where I havent slept properly in 6yrs and find it difficult to socialise as I'm not me anymore x

[@darnitthelma4247]

@@emmacc74I’m so sorry you feel like that. I hope you find a balance & are happy and you again x

[@mariadodds2042]

@@emmacc74 So many women will relate to you.

[@GamerUK]

“Is it not better to get it out of the way early” it’s not a footy match Gary 😂😂😂😂😂

[@fearnecotton]

Was anyone at the Happy Place Festival to watch this live?

[@michaeljohnson5365]

WOW Fearne i could listen to you all day

[@lyndkent-cl2oe]

No not this episode. Would get triggered with all that ego on display.

[@christopherwood3283]

But what about that 10 days in 1999 Gary?!

[@stephenllewekyn706]

Is there anything gary won't do for a pound note

[@pablodavies414]

Gary always played like he had menopausal

[@tysonthelunatic1572]

What's going on with Gary's face in the thumbnail 😅

[@LUFC123]

Poor Emma, the menopause and having to live with Gary Neville

[@stuartthomas5025]

seems to me he dont want to be home

[@zafirmussa7174]

Fearnes right knee looks super weird 🤔

[@katiekiedis7738]

She’s underweight…….

[@ankitdixit6073]

Am i seeing things or what

[@alanpowell24]

Were there a few flies around, or do Gary and Emma have some kind of twitch? 😅

[@DavidC1]

Now we know why he is so grumpy 😅😅😅

[@bhavyamankad479]

The game is gone!

[@John_Wood_]

Is there anything red nev isn't an expert on?

[@mariadodds2042]

@John_Wood_ Great to see Gary support his wife this way. Red Nev is a great name - never heard him called that before. 👌

[@jacob1oojudgesbb124]

He is not trying to claim to be an expert, far from it!

[@eglenuishewe9726]

I better watch mute Gary than listen to Simon jordan talks. ❤ Gary.

[@seven92023]

It's never a mistake to apply logic. The mistake is usually to be emotional. Man up, say it with your chest and don't fear women's reaction on this or anything.

[@toomylight2311]

Jesus he’s wound up like a Duracell bunny!!

[@charlottebruce979]

Can you stop with the menopause scare mongering please, I'm 47 and wasn't terrified and now am. My mum aunties and friends got through it and didn't have the scary problems you have stop it!

[@NiinaSKlove]

- How is sharing different experiences with perimenopause 'scaremongering'? I am pleased that more and more women are talking openly about how perimenopause has affected them and how their journey has been. Sure, many women don't have any significant issues with it. Still, on the other hand, there are a lot of women who do have some considerable challenges related to perimenopause. I wish someone had told me about it because I am going through it right now, and it sure isn't fun. I really appreciate it when women are more open about things like this. Too many women's health issues are not spoken about openly. In my opinion, we need this kind of conversation.

[@whoami1654]

That's your fear. I find it helpful to hear other people's experiences. We need to be speaking and sharing with one another about these life changing and challenging event's.

[@emmacc74]

Thats sadly a you problem 😢.. I personally can relate to this so much and am so glad its spoken about x

[@GABRIELLAFISHER-ts9iy]

How does that help women that do suffer. Keep on top of your own health & let others do the same - *their way. Regardless of how you go through the menopause, there is more help available these days. Mostly due to women like this speaking up. It’s not a sordid dark experience- it’s something everyone should feel comfortable talking about 🤍

[@SpiritandLife-y1w]

Chill out she is not saying it happens to everyone

[@mha10]

Did I hear that right... His sister has abandoned her daughter at 1years of age after saying she'd be back in 6 months? We laughing about deadbeat parenting lol?

[@snakeeyes5432]

Exactly same for us on a building site freezing mam dead kids a pain wife moaning and on 500 a week

[@noelcahill6707]

What are you doing garry haha

[@dondamon4669]

What's wrong with her legs? The interview person and why os gary doing this! No wonder keane terrorises him!

[@bigbernie7260]

Gary ( basically) Neville has got that awful squeaky voice and tarts laugh.

[@angelaboland1973]

Q

[@Mrricko.]

Gary seems too young to go through the menopause. 😂

[@eamonncarmel99]

First world problems

[@andrewsalexander49]

Thought it was about menapause. Turned out to be about Gary and his woes. Typical Gary all about him.

[@Jason-rx4lq]

I hope Gary gets through his menopause, poor guy

[@CKGoldiing]

25:44 😆😂🤣🤣 Ironic